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No longer a teenager but a rebel... perhaps.

Hey everyone,

I'm just you're average 20 year old but for some reason I've always been the advice guru to my friends and family. I don't mind it but it seems I can help others before I help myself.

I'm also a student nurse so advice is something I'm learning how to give professionally rather than just on a basic level.

I hope I can help any of you.

Is it okay to date someone who teaches at my college?

Q.   Okay I'm currently 17 and turning18 in about 2 months, about April last year I was seeing this guy who was 21 but cause we were both busy we sorta drifted apart, he recently started to speaking to me again and were getting on really well, only thing ...

A.   15 December 2013: It is against school policy majority of the time and although there is nothing wrong due to the age, the guy can still end up losing his job due to an "abuse of trust/postition" as although he is not your teacher, he is still responsible if anything ... (read in full...)

Girlfriend stood me up on valentines day and now says she's too busy to make up the date?

Q.   my girlfriend stood me up on valentines day saying she needed to study for exams. i had made some pretty big plans and felt really horrible. at first I didn't tell her about this but she realized something was bothering me so i finally told her...

A.   26 February 2013: You have every right to feel this way, best thing to do is say to her how you're feeling and maybe suggest that a Friday or Saturday night can be a "date night" and all school work has to be done before that, or if you or her want to see friends it ... (read in full...)

If you are friend with benefits, does it make the guy lose respect for you?

Q.   Does sleeping with friends work what i mean is when your friends with a guy and you start sleeping with him do you still have his respect. Or does he start to lose respect for you as if he would if you were a one night stand.? So if you have been...

A.   5 February 2013: A one night stand can either stay like that or it can develop into a relationship but don't do the friends with benefits thing because it doesn't work. One person gets attached and wants more whilst the other just see's it as sex and nothing more... (read in full...)

Will 20 year old b/f get in trouble for being with a 17 year old?

Q.   My boyfriend is almost 21 and I'm 17 , we kinda wanna get married. will he get in trouble for Benin with me?...

A.   5 February 2013: It depends on the age of consent for where you live but I wouldn't rush into anything if I were you. Don't rush into sex, don't rush into moving in with him, don't rush into marriage. Especially at 17, he may be the one for you, he may not. At 1... (read in full...)

I am still grieving for my boyfriend...

Q.   my boyfriend die two year ago but i can not stop think about him i really sad so what can i do to forget it?...

A.   29 April 2010: Sorry for your loss. Losing someone you love is difficult, you can never grieve 100% fully but don't try to forget him or his death but remember his life, remember the good times you have had. Time cures all wounds whether they are physical or ... (read in full...)

My best friend is obsessed with my crush

Q.   So there's this guy I like. He told me he likes me to and that he wants to be with me. And I kind of want to be with him too. But my best friend likes him, a lot. So much it's almost obsessive. I've given up a guy for one of my best friends bef...

A.   7 March 2010: Talk to your friend and tell her how you feel about him and how your friendship is important. If he likes you and not her, and she is obsessed with him then it's gonna hurt for all of you. I know what this feels like, i have been through something ... (read in full...)

Inappropriate touching from an uncle.

Q.   My uncle touches me inappropratly he always touches my bum and boobs and it makes me sick! I am 16 by the way. I'm a really shy person, i know i should tell someone but i don't know who to tell and it's so embarrising. The only person i would ...

A.   7 March 2010: He is trying to get to you.He knows you don't like it and he knows how to make you feel weak and insecure, You have to find the courage within yourself to speak to someone and try not to let him get to you. Tell someone... Tell your parents ... (read in full...)

How can I protect my baby sister from my step dad?

Q.   My mum has just had a little baby girl she's only 6 months, im really worried about her future and safety. My step father used to touch my other younger sister (17) when she was only 5.He told her he would kill her if she told my mum. But she did...

A.   7 July 2009: Don't leave her alone with him as she gets older and yeah you should talk to someone. Tell your boyfriend it might help and also you should talk to your mum about it and how your not comfortable.. he shouldn't be doing this... you are better s... (read in full...)

I've never had a boyfriend and I'm scared

Q.   please someone help me this guy asked me out and i said yes we never actually went out or hung out so i felt like it was pointless but i really do like him.then i told him that its useless and now its really awekward between us he keeps sayi...

A.   25 June 2009: You are NOT an idiot! i know how you feel as when i got my first boyfriend. i freaked out and had no idea what to do or say but i told him and he was fine with it Don't worry about it... what you need to say to him is that you do really li... (read in full...)

She told the guy I love that I'm getting married but it's not true. What should I do?

Q.   my best friend told the person that i love am getting married this summer and its not true and he hasnt spoken to me since then until yesterday he sent me a message saying : congratulations for marriage and wished me happiness , i have no idea ...

A.   25 June 2009: Tell him that its a lie and you have no idea why your friend would say something like that when its not true, Talk to him about it then ask your meant to be best friend why she done that in the first place. hope this helps ... (read in full...)

I'm getting the point where I just feel used for sex.

Q.   So ive been dating this guy for 8 months on and on. But not going out. He says he wants to be single but we cant see other people. Of course it sketchy to me. But we've been hooking up all the time. And im getting the point where i just feel use...

A.   10 April 2009: if you dont want to do it then say no. If he keeps asking you although you dont want to. tell him you have had enough and if that doesn't work then end it with him cause you don't deserve to be used. You should be with a guy who cares and love... (read in full...)

Could I be pregnant, or is it just stress?

Q.   About three weeks ago me and my bf had sex and he wanted to see what it felt like without a condom. So we didn't go all the way but he did go in. Lately I've has extreme nausea, i'm always tired, my boobs are really sensitive, and i pee a lot more ...

A.   10 April 2009: Take a test cause there is a great chance you are. in future use protection... (read in full...)

After his experimenting 7 years ago, I'm terrified my boyfriend might have sex with his best male friend!

Q.   Firstly, my boyfriend has never given me a reason not to trust him - as far as I know, he's never cheated on me, or any of his partners. But, we where talking a few months ago, and I found out that when he was about 16, he had a gay relation...

A.   10 April 2009: There isnt anything wrong with you. Its okay to feel akward finding out that your boyfriend went out with another guy in the past. You will have to trust him. Their close friends but it doesn't mean that he is cheating on you. Anyway he was... (read in full...)

Teacher Love?

Q. i hear anybody? *tests mic* ok...good. Listen please, i really need help. My teacher said i'm sexy and i'm only 13, he's 29. i love him, and i know all the risks i'm taking if i do love him. (The whole teacher can loose his job thing) Yea...

A.   24 March 2009: First of all Love is a complex thing and you can sometimes mistaken a crush for love (had to get that out of the way) It is normal to fall for older guys even teachers but having a relationship with one especially if they are 16 years older th... (read in full...)

Should I tell a teacher?

Q.   This is a personal question, but it is not relationship based. My name isn't actually Bella Hudson. In my school, there is a list on our wall of students good at science. I am on this list. The thing about my name is that if you add a letter to the ...

A.   19 November 2008: Cross it off or tell a teacher what has been done then get rid of it... (read in full...)

Are all redheads bad tempered?

Q.   Are red heads really tempered?? Cause my bf has red hair and oh man he has the "temeper of a red head. Haha he is one like one time he was drinking and he didnnt get something that he wanted on the game so he sqeezzed my leg dropped the guitar. ...

A.   19 November 2008: I have red hair and im not usually bad tempered unless someone really really annoys me then i do get a temper. So the answer to your question is no... (read in full...)

What are the effects of cannabis use?

Q.   can someone explain the effects of the drug weed to me please? is it seriously harmful if smoked daily? my boyfriends smokes it and has been doin for three years now, just abit concerened for his health. x please help thanks x...

A.   2 October 2008: Taking any type/ class of drug is dangerous dispite how many times you take it. It doesn't matter how long or the dosage. The only kinds of drugs that should be taken are ones that are prescribed by a doctor/ nurse. At the right dosage, ... (read in full...)

Does it always have to be down to race?! Would we have still been together if we were of the same complexion?

Q.   Dear Cupid, There's this guy I know and have liked for three years now. We started off as acquaintances and gradually became friends. We would chill together and be completely be ok in each other's company. We have so much in common. He'd eve...

A.   19 August 2008: Race has nothing to do with love or friendship. You maybe should say hi to him and apologise. See what he says and then tell him how you feel. It doesn't matter what colour your skin is it is who you are inside is what counts. Remeber ... (read in full...)

None of my friends are in any of my classes this year, I don't know what to do!

Q.   well today i started school. In all of my classes none of my friends were there. I don't have any friends in my classes. Now i'm all left alone with no one to talk to. Everyone seems to have their own friends. The students in all of my classes don't ...

A.   19 August 2008: Its difficult when your put into classes where you don't know anyone. That is something ive learned. Try talking to someone in your classes even if it is " hi how are you?" Try to stay optimistic. See if anyone in the class has simaler intrests... (read in full...)

I'm in love with my step brother but our parents are trying to break us up!

Q.   ok. well, first off, everyone know that step siblings are NOt blood related. ok. now, im in love with my step brother, and we are planning to go to college together. We only lived in the same house for like, 3 years, so its not like we were rai...

A.   25 July 2008: Your parents can't change the way you both feel and since your both not blood realated there actually is nothing wrong with it. They might just find it weird that their kids are going out but they can't stop you especially if you live in the same... (read in full...)

Me and my best friend both fancy the same guy!!

Q.   Hi, I really fancy this guy , I mean I really do ... but my best friend fancies him too, I want to ask him out but I don't wanna ruin mine and her relationship. Please help!!! Thanks, Love becka....

A.   28 May 2008: I was in this situation last year and my friend asked him out and i felt hurt by it even though he said no. You should probaly talk to your friend and have a long chat about it. Remember NO boy is worth you losing your friends. ... (read in full...)

What's keeping me from telling my best friends who I like?

Q.   Heyy Why can't I tell my BEST friends who i like ? If they are supposed to be my best friends (as i have 2) I should be able to tell them but something holds me back when it comes to it. Do i trust them ? x...

A.   28 May 2008: They are your best friends. You do trust them. Don't worry if you can't tell them maybe your just not ready to tell. It took a while for me to feel that i'm ready to tell my best friends who i like. Some people find it easy to tell their fr... (read in full...)

I'm not having sex, but I've missed a period and have cramping pains and white gunk. What should I do?

Q.   i am 14 and i first had my period in Feb. this year. This last month in May i missed my peroid. I have been having this white gunk coming out i have also been having pains that feel like cramps but their not. I have never had sex. my mom is very ...

A.   28 May 2008: Its okay to have irregular periods. For the first few years your periods may be irregular. Its just a discharge don't worry its normal. The cramps are normal aswell. Everyone has different symptoms ( eg. Sore head, cramps) Its all normal. Don't... (read in full...)

My girl told me she was raped. What do I do?

Q.   What should you do if your girlfriend tells you she was raped by her x boyfriend but neva said or done anything about it and I'm the first person she told,to make it worse this guy is a good friend of mine but I don't like him anymore for what he ...

A.   25 May 2008: You have to talk to her and ask her how long ago it happened unless you already know. Try to convince her to report him. If your a true friend. You will have to report it to someone if she doesn't. The police would be a good start but if your ner... (read in full...)

I am fourteen and haven't had a boyfriend yet

Q.   i am ashamed even though i dont have any need to be. but i am fourteen and havnt had a boyfriend yet. I just wanted to know how would you begin the relationship without going too slow or too fast or messin it all up. Adivce needed!...

A.   24 May 2008: You shouldn't be ashamed about not having a boyfriend. I know people who didn't get their first boyfriends until they were 16/17. Your still young so enjoy being single and those wild times with your friends. ... (read in full...)

How do I make my boobs bigger, and will that attract a boyfriend?

Q.   I have tiny boobs and i have no boyfriend, how do i make my boobs bigger, and will that attract a boyfriend?...

A.   24 May 2008: Your still young so don't worry you will develop at your own pace. and stop thinking that the bigger your boobs are the more boys are attracted to you cause its not true. Just enjoy time with your friends and enjoy what you have left of chi... (read in full...)

Help, I do not want to be part of a love triangle!

Q.   I need urgent help on this question....There is this lad and he has a girlfriend how is also a friend of mine, but lately he has been flirting with me loads and some of my friends have commented and said oh I think he fancies you and im like how can ...

A.   24 May 2008: You have a few options. You can ignore it, you can tell him to stop or you can talk to your friend. If it goes to far it won't just be your friend who will be hurt. Your friend might and probs will be hurt if you tell her but you can say that you... (read in full...)

I am not very close to my mum and don't know how to tell her about my period start.

Q.   I know everyone has the problem of telling their mum that they have started their period, but i just cant bring myself to do it, me and my mum arent really close like best mates. And i dont want to tell my friends coz im a late starter at 14!!!???...

A.   24 May 2008: You will have to tell her sometime even if you don't tell her she will find out sooner or later. Even if you just tell her that you have started your " Time of the month". She will understand ... (read in full...)

Dragged into a silly argument, should I ignore her or get even?

Q.   today at school there was a little argument between my freinds i just sat there and let them get on with it becasue i thought it was silly. then i got dragged into it and my freind called our other freind (who wasnt in the argument either) "you are...

A.   24 May 2008: Ignoring what she says might help. Have you tried talking to her? If that doesn't help ignore her and/or talk to someone about it and how you feel about the situation.... (read in full...)

Why was I born?

Q.   Why I was born? This life is too hard for me. Only problems and conflicts....

A.   22 May 2008: With all the problems and conflicts you may have surely you have some good times and memories. You may feel bad now but start to remember the good things in your life and it might help. You could also try talking to a friend, parent etc. Some... (read in full...)

Which of the two girls should I choose?

Q.   I'm 12 and turning 13 in june, i need 2 choose between 2 girls 1 turns me on the other i am good friends with, which 1 do i chose...

A.   21 May 2008: You havn't gave much details but the best and only advice i can give is Follow your heart. ... (read in full...)

Its my first time, I'm 13! help!

Q.   hey, my name is maria. im 13 years old, and my boyfriend is 15. weve been together for a year, and im ready to have sex for my first time. im not scared or anything, but i am nervous! its not his first time, so i dont know what he expects out of m...

A.   20 May 2008: Its your age what has attracted me to this question. I can't give you advice like everyone else here has but one thing i can say is that you really should think about it as this is something really serious. Your too young like most people will say... (read in full...)

My face turns red and my voice starts to shake when my crush is near me. What can I do?

Q.   lately I have been turning red every time that my crush gets near me...Every time he gets near me my heart feels like its going to explode and my voice gets shaky and my face turns there anything that I could do to make myself stop turning ...

A.   20 May 2008: I've had problems exactly the same as this before and now i still get nervous but don't go red. Its just nerves. Find a way to deal with your nerves like taking a deep breath or if your friends are near keep talking to your friends and try to f... (read in full...)

I think my brother is gay, how can I know if he is?

Q.   i think my brother is gay how can i know if he is not ...

A.   20 May 2008: If your unhappy about it. Have you tried confronting him about it? It might be a difficult answer but atleast you will know the truth from the right person. Or you could wait until he tells you.... (read in full...)

I've lied to everyone. What do I do?

Q.   I am dating a boy and none of my friends know. One of my friends think I am dating him so, she told everyone at lunch. I told everyone she was lying. I lied to so many people. What do I do?...

A.   19 May 2008: Apologise to everyone and tell them that you didn't want everyone to know. Apologising is the only way to solve this im afraid. ... (read in full...)

He liked me back....well I thought he did.

Q.   I really liked this boy on a school trip, he liked me back, well i thought he did. His msn broke down, and so i added him on bebo, and he blocked me from bebo. I don't know why but i can't stop thinking about him, and i know he can't stop thinking...

A.   19 May 2008: I'm having a simaler problem. ( see How can I restore our friendship? Please help.) I need help with that. The only advice i can give is that if he goes to your school try talking to him at school. If you left him too much messeges and/or ... (read in full...)

I'm in love with my teacher. Should I follow my heart?

Q.   Hey!!Ok i've got abit of a problem i'm in love with my teacher but there's a 15 year age gap i'm 12 he's 27!!And has a girlfriend some people say follow your heart but other people say don't be so stupid!!I've a feeling that if i follow i could get ...

A.   19 May 2008: Don't tell your teacher as things won't be so good. It is probaly just a crush. Don't worry 'cause its natrul to fall for older guys. Don't tell him how you feel. It may hurt you but hopefully soon you will get over him and fall for someone... (read in full...)

How do you get girls to like you?

Q.   My question is simple. How do I get a girl to like me?...

A.   19 May 2008: Heres an answer from a girl. You Can't make girls like you. If they like you they like you. You can't make them Be friendly and nice to the girl and MOST importantly Just be yourself and see what happens.... (read in full...)

I love my Science teacher!

Q.   Hey everyone!! I really need your help!! I'm 12 years old and my science teacher is 27(15 year age gap)and i LOVE him but the problem is he's got a girlfriend and i'm not sure if he's engaged.Anyway i've been in love with him for the last 9 ...

A.   13 May 2008: Okay. First it is probaly just a crush. It's natural to fall for older guys. DO NOT tell him you still have feelings for him. It will make things worse. For now you will have to keep hurting but hopefully soon you will fall for someone around... (read in full...)

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