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Where do I put my hands and how do I stand?

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Question - (4 December 2008) 6 Answers - (Newest, 7 December 2008)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

hi when your boyfriend puts his hands up your top, how should you stand, where do you put your hands on him?

i feel comfortable with this btw, but i just need some advice lol thanks

xxx

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (7 December 2008):

When you know each others' likes and preferrences, you would respond by doing something that he finds pleasurable. The other replies have some good ideas.

Until you know each other well, one way to let him know that you enjoy what he's doing - whatever it is - is to "mirror" it. If he puts his hands up under your blouse, put yours up under his shirt. This isn't a whole lot different from the old saying, "Couples who dance well together make good bed partners."

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (4 December 2008):

i like to hold onto his arms and feel his muscles :-)

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A female reader, BlondeBabe x United Kingdom +, writes (4 December 2008):

BlondeBabe x agony auntHow about putting your arms round his neck and gently kissing him, but it what ever you feel comfortable with

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A female reader, Ashleigh9345 United Kingdom +, writes (4 December 2008):

stand holding his hips or better yet the back of his neck and tickle it slowly and run hands through his hair.

anything that feels comfortable for you to do =].

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A female reader, royalpredica United Kingdom +, writes (4 December 2008):

You can stroke his hair, rest your hands on his shoulders or kiss him, whatever you want to do: there are no rules x

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A reader, anonymous, writes (4 December 2008):

Whatever feels right, his lower back perhaps. wherever you want

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