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18 March 2015: Dear Teenage Me As it stands, I am just about to turn 20 which means soon I will be waving goodbye to my teenage years. But, what journey it has been. This probably won’t seem a lot to some people but to me is moving on to the scarier years, t...
What does a kiss tell about a person...
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18 May 2008: Now this may sound rubbish but this is how you can tell how the person likes you, by the kiss they give you! Kiss on the cheek mean you are friends Kiss on the hands means i really like you Kiss on the lips means i love you Kiss on t...
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Is there a cure for shy?
Q. Hello, my question is how can I cure my shyness? I am very shy and, my main problem is I just don't know what to talk about. I know it seems weird, but when I see someone I just say hello and I'm really stressed about what I should say next. I kee...
A. 28 October 2008: Believing in yourself i think its a good cure, as i used to be really shy and have no convidence.
But i started to believe in myself and have a positive attitude and has my i became happier with myself my convidence grew and my shyness slowly star... (read in full...)
My boyfriend has been trying to do things with me sexually while I am asleep.
Q. My boyfriend has been trying to do things with me sexually while I am asleep. When I wake up he laughs and says he's just joking around and I tell him to stop, but this is the second time it's happend. What should I do?...
A. 27 October 2008: i agree with icelordess depending on how far he is going that can count as rape.
If you are not comfortable with you have to tell him to stop because if i totaly honest him doing to stuff to you in your sleep isnt right, and i think you should tell... (read in full...)
I can't handle all their problems when I have problems of my own!
Q. There's a group of us at school, we're all bast mates and hang out but recently everything's gone wrong for all of us. Two of them have got boyfriends [Jo, and Fran] who they adore but they're having prblems. Three of my other frinds all fancy the ...
A. 27 October 2008: ok what you need to is have a day just to get away from your friends whethers its a weekend or just week day, you need some time to breath and chill out, a chance to calm down.
Then you need to talk to them all face to face and say 'i cant hand... (read in full...)
Do I hold out hoping for the boy I want or go out with the boy I know likes me?
Q. i like this guy, he is my best friend and my friends think he likes me, i dont think he does but my friends are pretty sure. He has another best friend and my best friend told me that his best friends likes, i dont have feelings for this guy but im ...
A. 26 October 2008: What is the point in going out with someone you dont hav feelings for ?
Follow your heart and i know you may be low on self esteem but you can't go on hurting like you are.
Get him alone so you can talk 2 him face to face and tell him how you feel... (read in full...)
Should I meet up with my ex for a last goodbye or not?
Q. hi i was wondering if anyone would be able to help me ive decided 2 meet up with my ex one last time to say are goodbyes we both like eatchother stil and he said he allways will but its the age diffrence hes 15yrs older than me i dont know whethe...
A. 26 October 2008: im not going to say anything about the 15yrs age gap as you can't help who you fall in love with.
However i dont think you should meet up with him, you send mix signal and you comfuse your self more.
You start wondering if you should have broke up... (read in full...)
How do you know that you're bi-sexual?
Q. How do you know that you are bisexual?...
A. 26 October 2008: You just know in your heart i guess, if you are attracted to both male and female.
Know one can tell if you are not, deep down inside you will know.
... (read in full...)
We got on great at camp... how can I continue this?
Q. I have never had a girlfriend I am not the fighting type or anything like that but recently me and this really popular girl randomly met at this camp. We started off being in the same group and that then it got to sitting in the same chair and then ...
A. 26 October 2008: Tell how you feel just because she popular shoudnt matter, have confidence and try talking to her again, your just back at school she hasnt changed.
Try askin her to halloween disco or the christmas dico. But first try talking to her again and see ... (read in full...)
Should I STAY with my boyfriend even though it's not fair on him?
Q. Hi. I had a really rough weekend, there was this party and it turned up really wrong. Friend invited some boys, there was alcohol and I ended up sleeping with one of them, twice. 30 mins after crying about my boyfriend. He doesn't live in UK, so we ...
A. 20 October 2008: You have to tell him the total honest truth, if he does find out from someone else and not you then that will be so much worse.
The truth will always get out you cant hind something forever, as it would always be on conscience.
I understa... (read in full...)
I annoyed her, she said, by sending her too many messages. Could you help me out?
Q. Girls i really need your help... Okay im kiv... Theres this girl that im totaly crazy about but i havent even met her jus glanced at her once... I found out who she is and added her as a friend on facebook, well she accepted... We started chatn for ...
A. 20 October 2008: I think first you should leave if just for a couple of days to let her calm down about. Then try adding her again on facebook. The reason being she might regret deleting you hence why you have to let her calm down first.
If it doesnt work then if y... (read in full...)
How do I get out of this tricky situation???
Q. Hey guys! I have a bit of an issue concerning boys. I'll keep it short. Basically, I'm in my last year of college, and there's a guy, James*, who says he's in love with me. He told me this around two months ago, and we had a bit of a thing because I ...
A. 20 October 2008: i think you should just be straight with James, you are basicly messing with his feelings and 'stinging him along'.
If i was you i would say you like him as a friend but nothing more.
Its abit risky if your ex is friends with James however you can'... (read in full...)
Is it safe to be with a girl who cheated on me?
Q. is it safe to be with a girl who cheated me? i wish to be with her, but i hav lost the trust. i wish to regain it by time. she gal says that i will never gain the trust again, and its better to stop.... she is also not suer that she wont repeat the ...
A. 25 June 2008: To be honest it sound like to her the relationship was over along time ago if she isnt sure if she will cheat again. If i was you i would get out now, before she hurts you again because the pain wont be easier the second time she cheats on you.... (read in full...)
What does a kiss tell about a person...
Q. Now this may sound rubbish but this is how you can tell how the person likes you, by the kiss they give you! Kiss on the cheek mean you are friends Kiss on the hands means i really like you Kiss on the lips means i love you Kiss on t...
A. 21 May 2008: were is this article going now it doesnt make any sense anymore! lol!... (read in full...)
My girl told me she was raped. What do I do?
Q. What should you do if your girlfriend tells you she was raped by her x boyfriend but neva said or done anything about it and I'm the first person she told,to make it worse this guy is a good friend of mine but I don't like him anymore for what he ...
A. 21 May 2008: You have to talk to her more about this and if she was raped then you have to go the the police about this...
even if this guy is a good friend of yours do you really want a friend that could do somehting like this ?
There isnt much advice you can ... (read in full...)
Please take a minute to pray for me...
Q. My heart cant take much more! Well i've still been sticking it out with my boyfriend who is still talking and kissing his ex's behind, just so he can have a calm relationship with his kids. I need a prayer request please!!! I want to be strong eno...
A. 21 May 2008: if he is hurting you so much why cant you leave him. . .why put yourself through this tournment. . .but i will pray for you aswel. . .
Good Luck x... (read in full...)
What does a kiss tell about a person...
Q. Now this may sound rubbish but this is how you can tell how the person likes you, by the kiss they give you! Kiss on the cheek mean you are friends Kiss on the hands means i really like you Kiss on the lips means i love you Kiss on t...
A. 20 May 2008: hey im from Glasgow you know... (read in full...)
What does a kiss tell about a person...
Q. Now this may sound rubbish but this is how you can tell how the person likes you, by the kiss they give you! Kiss on the cheek mean you are friends Kiss on the hands means i really like you Kiss on the lips means i love you Kiss on t...
A. 20 May 2008: copy n paste it then lol... (read in full...)
What does a kiss tell about a person...
Q. Now this may sound rubbish but this is how you can tell how the person likes you, by the kiss they give you! Kiss on the cheek mean you are friends Kiss on the hands means i really like you Kiss on the lips means i love you Kiss on t...
A. 20 May 2008: well i didnt read every single bit i kinda skimmed through n got the important bits lol
how long would it take you to right all of that ?... (read in full...)
What does a kiss tell about a person...
Q. Now this may sound rubbish but this is how you can tell how the person likes you, by the kiss they give you! Kiss on the cheek mean you are friends Kiss on the hands means i really like you Kiss on the lips means i love you Kiss on t...
A. 20 May 2008: lol no it hasnt sent me to sleep!
thank you!... (read in full...)
"Am I really ready for sex?"
Q. Using contraceptives for the first time can be daunting and stressful. Before you rush out for those contraceptives ask yourself "Am I really ready for sex?" Running through these few questions with a simple YES or NO answer may help you to be reall...
A. 20 May 2008: Thats a great article, answered a few of my questions awel!... (read in full...)
How can I restore our friendship? Please help.
Q. I was friends with this guy since i was in Primary 1. He is a year older than me. When i started my first year of high i fell for him. Through out the year he kept giving me the impression that he liked me. In August i went on this trip which was ...
A. 20 May 2008: Well you could try and talk to him face to face telling him, you miss his friendship and thats all.
Or you could try the more traditional letter were you can be truely honest, its a hard question and maybe in time it will blow over.
But if you dont... (read in full...)
What is REALLY best for us?? Can I tell him and him still love me?
Q. I am having a hard time coping with the fact that I cheated on my boyfriend. Him and I have been together for 2 years now. I honestly do love him. I could never ask for anyone better than he is. Of course, he has his flaws just like everyone el...
A. 20 May 2008: This is really hard as you dont want to lose your boyfriend. . .
I think it may be better to tell him as one way or another he will find out, there will also be abit in your concience constantly reminding you what you have done.
Its sounds so harsh... (read in full...)
I'm interested in a new guy, but this knock to my self-confidence by the long-distance ex has me doubting things! I don't want to be hurt again!
Q. bit mad here, as Im usually answering the qusestions, btu here goes....Met a guy and we dated for 2 months it was a long distance relaionship, I met him through my friend who was his cousin. Well he started going on about wanted to move down with ...
A. 20 May 2008: Same here i am not a guy but what you are saying is so familar to so many people. . .
You have been hurt but why should this guy stop you from getting on with your life, the chance is he wont know what he has lost in you!
I would take things s... (read in full...)
What does a kiss tell about a person...
Q. Now this may sound rubbish but this is how you can tell how the person likes you, by the kiss they give you! Kiss on the cheek mean you are friends Kiss on the hands means i really like you Kiss on the lips means i love you Kiss on t...
A. 19 May 2008: you have got loads thank you! x... (read in full...)
Any tips on how to overcome shyness?
Q. im 15 i am very shy only had 1 girlfriend it went no where i have no self confidence and find impossible to start a conversation i always seem to say the wrong things.i cant stand being around people i find it really awkward is there any advice f...
A. 19 May 2008: You have to believe in yourself, if you dont believe then you will never over come it. Wake up in the moring and say to yourself 'i am a great person and i am confident', so that is in your mind and you can go to school still believing! Th... (read in full...)
What do I do about my bullying husband?
Q. my husband is a bully. ive been married just two years and things are horrible at home. everytime we have a few words he flies off the handle and then starts calling my family. he never takes me out but when weve had an arguement he goes out to our ...
A. 19 May 2008: Why are you even still with him, you hear about these stories all the time!
Get out before it gets worse, and you really end up getting hurt!
Leave him and get a fresh start with your life and never go back to him no matter how much he has said ... (read in full...)
How do I approach the popular boy?
Q. I really like a popular boy. But i don't think he notices me. How can i get him to see me or talk without him knowing im being pushy.also its hard because he hangs round with peoplee who are qutie popular too.. Help!...
A. 19 May 2008: Thats a hard question but something most people will face think.
If he was ever in the same class as you or same group maybe talk about something that you both have in common maybe a sport for example.
You could try simple flirting to get him t... (read in full...)
Would pregancy via a second cousin risk a deformed child?
Q. I need to know if I fall pregnant by my second cousin would the baby be ok or could the baby have health problems...
A. 19 May 2008: I dont think it would, it would depend your families health history.
I am pretty sure the health risk is only increased when its like your first family for example a brother or first cousin.
However i would still have it checked out to b... (read in full...)
What is a virgin?
Q. I am only 11 years old. I have a question about older people. That question is: what is a virgian? ...
A. 18 May 2008: Do you really not know what a virgin is ?
How to put this nicely, a virgin is a perosn that hasnt had sex before, i hope you know what sex is.
However you dont have to worry about that for another while yet k.
Hpe that helped you x... (read in full...)
I think my brother is gay, how can I know if he is?
Q. i think my brother is gay how can i know if he is not ...
A. 18 May 2008: why would it even matter if he is gay or not you are brothers and family should stick together.
If you really want to know ask him or wait for him to tell you.
To be honest it shouldnt really bother you.... (read in full...)
Nervous about sex. Scared to do it for the first time.
Q. i have never had sex before and i'm kind of scared to do it for the first time. my boyfriend really wants to have sex but i don't think im ready. i really love him but i don't want to go that far. i have been going out with my boyfriend for 3 years. ...
A. 17 May 2008: Follow your heart dont be pushed in to something that you know that you are not ready for yet. If your boyfriend really loves you he should understand this. Wait till you feel ready and that way you can enjoy it more. Hope That Helps x... (read in full...)
I'm in love with my teacher. Should I follow my heart?
Q. Hey!!Ok i've got abit of a problem i'm in love with my teacher but there's a 15 year age gap i'm 12 he's 27!!And has a girlfriend some people say follow your heart but other people say don't be so stupid!!I've a feeling that if i follow i could get ...
A. 17 May 2008: Im around the sme age as you as i am 13, however you may be sick of hearing that its not love. But listen its not when you turn twelve i believe its the age were you start to grow up puberty starts and things like that. But these feeling may feel... (read in full...)
Tired of being hurt. What do you think?
Q. I'm only young, but have gotten turned over a couple of times already, what with girls cheating on me etc. I've kind of come up with this kind of theory there 'are no rules to life', other than avoid being the loser. For instance if you do the ch...
A. 16 May 2008: By the way let me know how you get on k
Thank you x... (read in full...)
I think I'm properly in love with myself!
Q. I have a problem....it's serious. Don't laugh when I say this cos it might sound a little wierd. I think I'm properly in love with myself. I just can't stop thinking about me. Nobody seems to be anywhere near as good as me and even when I tell mys...
A. 16 May 2008: yeah u mite hav slightly taken the term love yourself to far!
Well would you ever call urself vain or mayb your are selve centered cause i think that it is impossible to love yourself i agree with the other comment u may need cousenling to stop lovi... (read in full...)
Tired of being hurt. What do you think?
Q. I'm only young, but have gotten turned over a couple of times already, what with girls cheating on me etc. I've kind of come up with this kind of theory there 'are no rules to life', other than avoid being the loser. For instance if you do the ch...
A. 16 May 2008: Dont let your bad experienced hold you back, i believe there is a perfect perosn out there for everyone so dont loose hope.
Learn from you bad experiences and try looking for a girl that is different from the ones that you have dated in the past... (read in full...)
I'm feeling ignored and unpopular at school, and my parents don't believe me when I say I'm unhappy.
Q. Hi, I no I write to you a lot about this kind of thing. You have given me great advice in the past so I hope you can do so again. I'm getting really down. At school, No-one wants to work with me on group work. I never get in a group with anyone I...
A. 16 May 2008: Hey I had that once aswel but not as bad as you have. It hard when you feel unwanted and that no one likes you but you can try what i did it worked wonders for me but it takes time. I changed my image i didnt want to be known as the nerd or th... (read in full...)
I'm scared to snog
Q. i am 11 years old and im going out with this boy called luke and i have never snogged and i want to, but im to scared to snog him. what happens if he does'nt let me snog him...
A. 16 May 2008: Well wood wait another year or so if i was you but if you are sure then wait for a moment.
When both your eyes meet and it feels right. . .(romantic). . .
but be sure that is what you want!
good luck babe x
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I want him to notice me. I need tips on flirting
Q. hi, i like a guy and i need some tips on flirting, is it wrong to flirt with one whose got a girlfriend? how do i get him to notice me even if he has someone? and how do i get to win his heart, we work together....
A. 16 May 2008: In my opinion even thinking about flirting with a guy that has a girlfriend is wrong, I also agree with the comment that was made beforedont flirt way someone at work it is a huge mistake, it wil get complicated in the future.
You may like thi... (read in full...)
What can you do if you like someone but they don't like you back?
Q. well am really confused what would you do if you liked someone (a boy) but they didnt like you back...
A. 15 May 2008: well maybe this is thw wrong kind of advice howevr flirt alittle show him what he is missing! if nothing happens then its his loss not yours he probably a weird any way and you will find better boys in the future x
c ya x... (read in full...)
Girls only, please! I'm having a heavier than normal period...
Q. Girls (only plz) i been havin periods for a while now and they havnt been bad i never had pain or anything like that. however this time its alot heavier and i dont know why ? Is this normal for it to change or does it does depend on the perso...
A. 15 May 2008: lol im not gettin bad period pains but thank you for your advice x... (read in full...)
Girls only, please! I'm having a heavier than normal period...
Q. Girls (only plz) i been havin periods for a while now and they havnt been bad i never had pain or anything like that. however this time its alot heavier and i dont know why ? Is this normal for it to change or does it does depend on the perso...
A. 15 May 2008: the pain isnt bad thanx though x
i just thought it was weird that is got heavier that was all but thank u every1 for ther adive x... (read in full...)
Girls only, please! I'm having a heavier than normal period...
Q. Girls (only plz) i been havin periods for a while now and they havnt been bad i never had pain or anything like that. however this time its alot heavier and i dont know why ? Is this normal for it to change or does it does depend on the perso...
A. 15 May 2008: Thanks for your advice x... (read in full...)
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