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writes:Okay, I have this boyfriend and we we've been going out for about 1 month now. We also went out last year for 3 months. I really love him and he promised not to break my heart like he did earlier so we're doing really well now and one of my friends is flirting with him like crazyyy and she's been known to be really two-faced! she'll talk about everyone behind their back and then she's hanging out with them hours later! it gets on my nerves ! I overhear her telling my boyfriend embarrassing things about me when I'm not close. She touches his arm, tries to make him laugh, showers him with compliments and laughs at everything he says! He won't laugh at the things she tells him about me, even if it is funny though. When I ask her about it she acts like she doesn't know what I'm talking about and when I say 'you're always trying to touch him and you're always laughing at everything with him' she'll reply like 'noo. we're just playing, we have fun together'. it annoys me so much!
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 March 2008): I'm dealing with this same issue right now. I think that the person who made the comment containing the 3 suggestions has very good advice.
I chose to tell the guy I was dating about my friend's (who is also my roommate) inappropriate behavior and how it bothered me when she would flirt with him. Unfortuantely, I must have pressed the issue so much because she does this so frequently and it's getting more and more annoying, that he took my concern as insecurity. We're now no longer dating because the issue literally consumed our relationship.
I still agree that you should definitely tell your boyfriend what your friend is up to. However, don't press the issue like I did. After being so fed up with eachother toward the end, he betrayed me by telling my friend everything that I had said about her in regards to her inappropriate behavior. Basically, two relationships were ruined. Could have been for the better you could say, but it sure doesn't feel too pleasant and I hope you should never have to go through that.
Best of luck, and try to ignore this bothersome friend...
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 March 2008): Afraid there is precious little you can do except tell Little Miss Temptress to back the heck off if she values her health.
There is nothing intrinsically wrong with flirting, infact its quite healthy, it only becomes a problem if it extends beyond that.
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reader, baybee-x-sparkii  +, writes (2 March 2008):
 talk to your boyfriend try and make him see how much its annoying you. and then ignore her shes not worth it sweetie
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