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So tell me....why don't girls like guys with Ginger hair?

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Question - (24 April 2007) 133 Answers - (Newest, 13 April 2010)
A male Canada age 22-25, anonymous writes:

Why don't girls like guys with Ginger hair?

I've got Red hair and it seems to turn alot of girls off, especially if I'm with a girl and one of my friends makes a crack about me being a fire crotch.

Wehnever that topic comes up most girls seem to lose interest immediatley, as if my pubs are downright repulsive.

Just wondering why so many girls get turned off by guys with red hair.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (13 April 2010):

hey, All these so called ladies who loose interest aren't worth your time! You should take pride in your individuality.... Its what makes you.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (11 April 2010):

i like boys with ginger hair. i think they look cute! i've been out with 4ginger guys before & they didn't turn me off because of their friends jokes. to be honest, i love gingers and think they're hot. ^_^

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (6 April 2010):

I do really like guys with red hair!!

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (5 April 2010):

Well, I've never met a girl who'd outright say they'd never date someone with ginger/red hair. Maybe it's because a lot of the girls I hang out with are more bothered about personality over looks. I don't know.

Personally speaking, even though I prefer a guy with personality over their looks, I have a massive weakness for male redheads. I think ginger hair looks stunning, even if I do get a lot of people questioning me for it. Even so, three of my best mates are ginger haired and, whether they want to admit it or not, they all look gorgeous. It's all down to taste I suppose.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (5 April 2010):

my boyfriend's a ginger. it was his hair that got me drawn to him. like for realz. i think gingers are cute. i swear they are. depends on the girl, really. so yea. :)

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (3 April 2010):

frankley i think its all a bunch of rubbish i mean im the most ginger guy you will ever see but i still pull plenty of good looking girls. To be fair you just have to stop giving a rats ass about all the shit coments and laugh it off show confindence and if someone makes a sleezy comment about your pubes just though another diss back at him but a funny one not an insult :)

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (2 April 2010):

No, girls arent turned off by red heads, theres a guy in my school and hes a red head, girls are all over him. It depends on the girl, if you arent confident with ur hair, the girls will sence that and think that u arent proud :) red heads are cute, so chill, and ignore the jokes.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (25 March 2010):

I know someone that would sex the face off gingers. If you look up max branning then that is her type. Keep your fire beard up.

Also why would woman not love a ginger with many pubs. You must be loaded. And why can't ya just hire a prossy. I mean your all up here bragging about your pubs. And the fact that you have a fire crotch and can therfore shoot flaming piss outa ya willy.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (17 March 2010):

I have an answer for you people are stupid, they suck and people who are repulsed by you or don't like you because of your skin color, hair color or whatever are not worth a shit. Don't listen to any of the b.s. you might here about what women want, work out and get ripped, study hard and get rich, you will have no problem getting the fickle women of todyay. Live it up and do what you want to do, life is short don't let a bunch of assholes ruin it for you, when in doubt remember fuck 'em anyway.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (13 March 2010):

Personally I think boys with ginger hair are amazing. I'm a girl with strawberry blonde hair and freckles dotted about my cheek and nose area, why is it that boys get turned off by that sort of thing?

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (10 March 2010):

I personally , think that girls whit ginger hair and frekels are realy sizzling :) , actualy i dont like blondes.

but it all comes down to personality self-esteem , and if the person ikes you or not , if your ginger or not...

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (9 March 2010):

I don't really have an answer being a dude, but I'm balding in my early twenties anyways, now that's a really crap situation even though my hair's brown. We all have some things about ourself we're not happy with. I must saye I find red hair beautifull on women though. Red hair and freckles is cute, sexy and in your face, no pun intended. Give me a woman with fire on her head any day.

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A female reader, kitty8199 United States +, writes (2 March 2010):

Honestly I like red haired guys. I have red hair myself. It's not very common so its attractive to me. When they talk about "fire crotch", reply back about yeah, and everyone knows I'm good in bed with just one look. Red on the head, good in bed. Look up some adages.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (24 February 2010):

I actually looooove red-haired guys :)

ginger love!

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (22 February 2010):

Oh im a girl and i have quite redy brownish hair, i hate it but i look back at all these questions and answers and think i should change just because everyone eles doesnt like it, honestly you dont get a lot of red head boys but their themselfs, different and i love them :) they look attractive. Some girls go for looks automatically without discovering the person inside because they have red hair. its pathetic, soo dont ever change for anyone. I love Ginger hair personally :D

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (22 February 2010):

I'm a 19 year old ginger. I know we aren't the best looking people, for the most part. When it comes to what matters, nothing can stop us. Some of the greatest leaders, scientists, explorers have been redheads. No one would have the balls to get in our way when we're pissed. We have charming personalities, but no one should ever get in our way!! We are on fire, in bed we heat things up!!

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (17 February 2010):

I think it is all in your head, I doubt a girl would be turned off by the color of your pubes all of a sudden if she was already into you? Either that or you get self-conscious when the remarks are made and the girls pick up on the vibes. Next time something of that nature is said just reply back to your friend that his balls probably look like a hairball that his cat just coughed up, whereas yours are like two tasty kiwis.

A girl once mentioned to me that she had never seen redhead crotch before, I said they were like kiwis when I was aroused, and 20 minutes later my balls were in her mouth. I wasn't even being charming and I consider myself to be of average looks. You just gotta find the right girls.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (16 February 2010):

I am Alexis, I am 17. I have absolutely no idea what you're talking about, dear. It's a turn off for myself and a few others I know when a guy DOESN'T have ginger hair. don't sweat it, there are plenty of ginger loving girls out there(:

xxx, good luck.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (12 February 2010):

i just turned 13 and im ginger AND i have stickey out ears but my ginger hair covers them! i take teh piss out of myself when people take the piss out of my hair, and lots of girls keep on 'asking me out'

GINGER AND PROUD!

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (9 February 2010):

I have fooled around with 7 women in the last year. I have red hair and a confident personality. I say that either women love it or they don't. Just find those freaks that love it, and you're set. Trust me; there are some in this world that go weak at the knees for a red head.

If they don't go weak at the knees, screw 'em, man. There are 3 billion women in this world, and I don't have time to fret about superficial b******! Too many red-head lover, too little time ;)

Go get 'em , tiger.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (8 February 2010):

Im 19 and i have red hair that stands out, and yes iv been picked on as a kid and yes girls have said things like "if you didnt have red hair". There is still hope i Know Plenty of attractive girls that love redheads. Even with all that me and my group ran my school. Right now i have a very beautiful girl that im dating right now.

Also all you have to do be funny, dont be the jackass just funny because i know that all redheads have the funny gene.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (2 February 2010):

They should...statistically red heads have larger 'equipment' than most men. Don't care what they platitudes say size matters so I'm always on the look out for cute younger red heads ;))

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (1 February 2010):

heyi dont know but personally i think gingers are sexy :)

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (27 January 2010):

Im a ginger.. i have had A LOT of problems with bullying because of it, i think it's ridiculous that people treat us like outcasts because we have different hair to them..

but ginger pubes man... ever heard the phrase "red goes faster"? lol

hang in there bro.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (24 January 2010):

I LOVE red haired men.. they basically have

that " something".. hard to explain :) well.. I find them extremely atracctive..

Just wanted to let U know there are bunch of us: redhead admirors

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (20 January 2010):

Honestly, In my opinion it's either make or break with red heads. Either they're going to be very attractive or very ugly. And thats the honest truth. And for any of you who are complaining about being made fun of. Lighten up, get some confidence, don't let it get to you, and just joke around about it.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (18 January 2010):

Personally i love redheads! My boyfriend is a ginger and i couldnt be more turned on by it.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (18 January 2010):

I too most of my life have been bullied due to the colour of my hair, unfair seeing as it is nothing to do with me, its in my genes. Anyways I got myself blonde highlights among the red and am more socially accepted.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (11 January 2010):

OMG I LOVE RED HAIRED GUYS, they are so charming and cute and hooooot 3 just never been able to catch one meself xD

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (9 January 2010):

I am also a strawberry blonde not a "fire crotch" nor a ginger. However, the irish red/orange hair runs in the family at times, and I'm going to say; "I don't like the red hair either. I am going to be brutally honest here, thankfully I lucked out.

I wouldn't say its the red hair necessarily that is unappealing but perhaps the fair skin, red/brown freckles, it is just not a common trait that is deemed sexy. There are a few red heads I have been attracted to (so it wouldn't be fair to stereotype and I'm sure ppl have similar opinions).

I am most attracted to dark haired males, red isn't dark. olive to tan skin tones. What I believe it could come down to is survival of the fittest. Meaning, light skin tones are more prone to skin problems as well as the overly freckly, often cancerous. Perhaps we humans are more keen on picking up good versus bad traits based on physical characteristics. Perhaps red is a warning sign saying, "danger I carry bad genes."

On the other hand, maybe not. I find those with red/orange hair who have buzz cuts sexy. and if it is a weird orange color I prefer a darker orange or red, so dying it to pull out the better characteristics of your face or skin tone might be best. No one should have to change who they are. If you aren't comfortable with yourself being a "ginger" or "fire crotch" then no girl will ever be.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (7 January 2010):

i have know idea its so annoying i have strawberry blonde hair and people call me firecrotch and ginger when i dont even have red hair!! but since im a girl a guy with orange hair doesnt turn me of...? its a color of hair and people shouldnt be judging u :)

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A female reader, Not My Name Australia +, writes (7 January 2010):

Not My Name agony auntIf people are bothered by their hair color - no matter what color - then just dye it and be done wih it.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (7 January 2010):

i'm 14 years old and i'm from Ireland at my age loads of people have girlfriends and are gaining experience from relationships......i'm not full of myself or anything but i think that i could make a really good boyfriend but EVERY SINGLE GIRL EVER has said right in front of me ugh he's ginger and this makes me really sad because i'm a nice person and i'm sick of seeing people in relationships around me that i could be in if i wasn't ginger. it really breaks my heart when i'm at a disco and girls snigger wen they walk by and say things like "oh my god don't kiss him he's ginger" So PLEASE if anybody can help me, advice is gladly taken

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (6 January 2010):

there saying this to boost your confidence mate! just being honest.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (6 January 2010):

I personally love ginger. I've been walking around for like ever saying "Save the redheads/gingers!"

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (3 January 2010):

I know this is a long time without an answer, but I think redheaded men are far more attractive than men with any other colour hair. I have a redheaded fiance, and I would never want him to change, not one bit. Red headed men are so passionate in and out of the bedroom. I love it. Don't feel down. If any woman gets turned off by your hair, then she isn't for you. Redheads are wonderful, and make sure you remember that!

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (30 December 2009):

I think red hair is gorgeous, on guys and on girls. I have dark dark brown hair, it looks black, and everytime i see a redhead i get so jealous lol. redheads are cute.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (30 December 2009):

Funny thing is that my girlfriend is a ginger as well. I used to be more of a ginger but my red hair is all gone but i am still left with all of the freckles!

there are some who say that a href="http://gingerlove.ca"gingers are best in bed/a, So dont give up hope!

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (28 December 2009):

It's probably not just your ginger hair dude.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (22 December 2009):

I'm a 15 year old girl with curly ginger hair and freckles, and never once have I been bullied, taunted or overlooked because of my hair colour. It might not be to everyone's taste, but there are people who love it. Personally, I wouldn't swap my hair colour for any other. 3

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (21 December 2009):

I find gingers incredibly attractive

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (15 December 2009):

Hello honey!

I am am auburn\ginger haired female... I certainly got crap at primary school for my hair colour, but thankfully that stopped quite quickly. What i have found is that our hair colour really polarises people, there will be some who don't find it attractive, just like some others don't find blondes or brunettes attractive, BUT when you do find someone who is into redheads ( and you will), they tend to be REALLY into it. which kinda makes up for it cos we're rare and special lol! keep your chin up and smile proudly! xxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

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A male reader, tigerteeth United Kingdom +, writes (8 December 2009):

hiya im 26 and have red/auburn hair i got a lot of stick for it in school. pretty nasty stuff strange how society seems to tolerate it yet it clearly has very negative impacts on individuals.

The first girl i had a mjor crush on at school turned around to me in class infront of everyone and said " i'd go out with you if you werent ginger!"....harsh, anyway shes fat now Ha.

besides that,ive done quite well with women but i reckon thats got a lot to do with my sense of humour. ive met girls in clubs before and as it can be quite dark when they see me in the lgiht their like " are you ginger?" as if ive been hiding some terrible sercret from them!

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A female reader, McWeasleyTwins United States +, writes (9 November 2009):

I am very attracted to guys with red hair. I guess there are girls out there who don't find red heads attractive, but the notion is completely foreign to me. In fact, when I'm out in public, my eyes are drawn automatically to guys with red hair. I love guys with red hair and freckles; they are very sexy in my opinion.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (20 September 2009):

I'M a guy who has constantly been overlooked by Blondes. Blonde girls in my view are stuck up brats, and don't take the time to see what is beyond their noses. some of them want only the "JOCK GUYS" you know Big Buff Muscles where as we ginger guys can't hardly catch a break unless we push ourselves on them. my advice from experienece i've learned to shut down my feelings. a Quote From a Great Friend "THE BLONDE WORLD DOESN'T CARE ABOUT US WHY CARE ABOUT THEM" Great Advice!!!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (12 September 2009):

AHHHHHHHHHHH - I LOVE ginger hair! It's the sexiest thing on the planet! I've talked to all my girl-friends (just friends because I'm a girl :) and they allllll agree! Lots of my friends say that they lie about not liking ginger hair because of peer pressure - but it is sooo not true. I'm telling you, ginger hair is.....red hot!!!!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (5 August 2009):

Being a ginger can be extremly hard, I am constantly being made fun of. Growing up, I had convinced myself that I was ugly just because I was different. It may have taken a few years and MANNY tears but I've come to learn that I shouldn't be ashamed of what makes me unique. People are constantly being put off by my red hair, it's not something that I understand but i have come to terms with it. I personally don't see why people hate us or treat us like we belong in a zoo. I love ginger guys, you should be proud.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (23 July 2009):

It's odd I noticed this too, I found this searching google, the same question. I just noticed other girls or women get turned off by red heads, most dont like it. This baffles me. Red hair is sooo hot IMO. I love it because it is so rare and unlike any other hair color. But I think part of the reason is red heads tend to be paler and for whatever reason girls like the "tall, DARK, hansome type" Personally I wouldn't like to be with a darker guy (not in a racist way) but because I NEVER tan and I look albino next to anyone with a tan. I absolutey ADORE red heads, most think im a freak because i just stare at them and admire their hair.

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A female reader, Luce_333 United Kingdom +, writes (16 July 2009):

To be honest, if I wasn't a ginger lass myself, I'd find guys with ginger hair hot :) But I dunno...it would feel weird to me going out with someone else who was ginger. Strange I know.

I have no idea why people don't like their red hair! I LOVE mine !! I thought it was turning slightly brown the other day so bought some hair henna to make it red again :)

:)

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A reader, anonymous, writes (11 June 2009):

Omg my current boyfriend has ginger hair and i love it! I have dark brown hair but i dont see any problem with ginger hair because its just the same as any other colour and ginger pubes are so sexy and very good for the bedroom ;)

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (2 May 2009):

i get really annoyed when people make fun of gingers.

As a Natural ginger ( technically brown but tinted red ) i stick up for people who are ginger. My friend in school has firey red curly hair , and shes pretty and stands out from everyone else. she doesnt like it but i personally reakon its much better to stand out then blend in with everyone else.

People say im not ginger , but i prefer to be called ginger so i tell everyone to call me ginge , because i like to be different to everyone else.

I Must admit sometimes when people call me ginger trying to bully me it does make me feel down but i just give them a smile and it anoys them then because they know its not gunna effect me.

So thats the way to do it , Ignore them , give them a smile and they will soon stop once they know that you dont give a donkeys ass. Plus in a long relationship , my boyfriends friend gives my boyfriend compliments of how he scored a ginger girl and his mate is going out with my ginger friend from school . Confidence is the Key , But dont overdoo it. :)

Hope i helped :) x

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (23 April 2009):

hi, im 14 years old i've been bullyed alot, and i've been upset so many times cause of my hair colour, i've read everyones notes they make me feel happyier but when someone says ginger in reallife something makes me embarrased i go red and think there talking about me,

i've been named everything under the sun, and i still do now im just learning comebacks and to ignore them. i havn't really had trouble with finding girls i just feel that people like it its just the crowd they say they dont like it and go ahah hes ginger etc and people join it it makes me really sad at times.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (13 April 2009):

Um, hi, I'm a 20 year old girl and I really like redheads, red hair is gorgeous when well looked after. I've never dated one though, but that's both because I go for personality and also because chance has a lot to do with it.

I've dated guys I knew were not conventionally attractive, but loved them anyway and weirdly in time found them attractive for who they are. They say personality shines through and it really does. Your hair colour should not matter. You know what's really unattractive?

A guy who is blatantly on the look out for girls and skirt chasing... that's downright creepy. I dunno if this was you, but maybe you seemed to girls to just be after whatever you could get?

If you find the right girl, and concentrate on getting to know her, things should just fall into place. If it doesn't, either you need to keep trying or it wasn't meant to be. Good luck!

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (12 April 2009):

Im a red head with curly long hair (like a perm) and i am often bullied at school by guys. But i've realized that i've been pretty much oblivious to the girls that watch me. Over time i realized this, and im telling you man look around and listen you would be suprised of what you see and hear. Not to be a hot head but from what ive heared and learned girls dig redheads. Plus i promise that you will find a girl who cares and loves you for who you are. just be patient and don't rush into things... it hurts especially when you are left for someone else.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (8 April 2009):

so if they have ginger pubes, women dont care?

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (5 April 2009):

I'm a 27yo ginger guy livin in the UK and was ribbed right through school and even in early employment for being ginger.

People are so fickle - don't think it's jealousy so much - but I was only bullied as much as the fat girl in class, or the lad who had a snotty nose. All of these are only weaknesses if you let them be - I'm proud of who I am.

I'm gay, ginger, straight acting etc but don't define myself as any of these - I define myself as a confident male - everything else is just insignificant and your gingerness, gayness, straightness, blondeness, fatness shouldn't be what defines you - only YOU is what defines you - the whole picture.

If any of you are feeling pressured or victimised for being ginger try not to let it bother you - those who are picking on you are only hiding their own insecurities in doing so.

Be Ginger, Be Gay, Be Straight, Be Fat, Have a snotty nose just be proud of who you are regardless!!!!!!

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (31 March 2009):

atm i am single but i absolutely love guys with red hair.

I am the only one outta my friends but i honestly believe red heads are the nicest people you'll ever meet ane they hav the best personality in the world.

They are the most decent guys i know and atm ive got my eye on a red head and im falling for him more and more.

I hav dark brown hair and tanned skin and he likes me 2. dont worry you'll get your dream girl u could already know her but maybe shes just too shy to tell you.

I was shy and i still am but i glad i told him coz were getting to know each other and hopefully we'll be together

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (30 March 2009):

Eh? I think red hair is the most beautiful thing existing!

Red hair looks so firey and wild, I really like it.

I think it depends from person to person.

I have black hair and very pale skin. Some guys said to me I am very pretty and still keep on stalking me and some say I look like a living corpse.

I think we all should be happy with what we have. And now marry me! XD

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (30 March 2009):

Hi, Im a 16 year old male and i have ginger hair.Some girls will say i am really attractive because they have a strong personality and will say what they think and i think sum of the girls who say it horrible are lieing and acting with the croud. I have occasionally had the remarks at me but they dont bother me any more and as i get older i think alot more girls are becoming them selves and starting to say im good looking and they like my hair! I think we need to stoop looking at gingers as outsiders and maybe we would be treted the same as any one witth a common hair colour. ginger 4 life !!! X x X

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (27 March 2009):

I dont think I can answer your question as far as what all girls think, but honestly i think it is SEXY AS HELL!! I wish there was a way to google all the guys with red hair... lol. ;p Be thankful you have red hair... not that any of it matters really. Because what matters is on the inside, right? But I still think its sexy!!

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A female reader, gabbey United States +, writes (21 March 2009):

I think most women are in a rut that is why they settle for the norm.

I would LOVE to meet a red haired man it is my dream to have

A relationship with one. I think the red haired man brings something

Exciting to the table. A bit of fire!

Something different.

So ladies settle if you want to I WILL NOT! I will

Keep waiting for a red head to come to me.

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A female reader, Littlemissginger69 United Kingdom +, writes (9 March 2009):

heylo evryone =]

I have red/ginger hair =] its not ttl orange or tht just kinda auburn. Anyway just so you know as u get older most people don't even care bout what colour your hair is :-) unless they are extra immature. I have like the hottest boyfriend ever we've been together for like nearly 2 years an come on how many guys fancy hayley williams from paramore..or flava from blazin squad :-) hair colour doesn't matter its ur personality just have fun an don't care what anyone thinks :D xxxxxxx

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A reader, anonymous, writes (20 January 2009):

Actually thats probably only if they are racist and think that looks are everything. If they do think that ginger hair is not absolutely GORGEOUS, they are not worth you time. Its not that true anyway. most of by boyfriends have been ginger and I want to steal their hair. You are lucky to have such lovely hair. Don't let it get you down.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (11 October 2008):

I'm a woman and I can tell you some women have a thing for redheads. My boyfriend is a redhead and I think he's very attractive. He's been called a "firecrotch" by his friends, but they're just kidding him...they're like that. However, other guys who aren't his friends have called him that, and I am certain is is because of jealousy. Red hair, especially on an attractive man, is unique and it attracts attention. The guys who deride you as a "firecrotch" are just jealous. Keep looking for that girl who appreciates a good red head!

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (6 October 2008):

I'm a blonde 15 year old female, and would love to be a red head.

Being blonde..I'm like the majority of people, and not naturally individual in anyway.

Personally, I think red headed guys are very sexy.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (3 October 2008):

It is really just a stupid social taboo that alot of people are afraid of getting ripped on. i am ginger too and i dont care at all what people think. i dont know its like when girls dye there hair blonde It's like so what now you are just like everybody else and are in no way memorable they would rather blend in then stand out they are just insecure dont worry about them

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (28 September 2008):

Yeah Gingers have never really bothered me? Not sure who you've been talking to but red hairs pretty much the shit.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (25 September 2008):

I am a brown haired female and I do find men with ginger hair amazingly attractive. I think it depends where you live as to what people think. I watched a program once which said that it is hereditory that people like people with blonde or brown hair because its somehow more natural or something, but there are still quite a lot of people who like people for who they are and not what coulour hair they have

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (18 September 2008):

i see your point, i'm ginger myself and because of that i have been bullyied since reception and im 15. i might not be as old as the others who have replied but girls can be very hypocritical. if someone says something about my hair they are usually the 1st to say 'ooh ginger is a cool hair colour' and stuff like that and yet the moment you try to ask them out its just 'eew your ginger no way' girls are too image obsessed. im proud of being ginger and personally despise anyone who would discriminate against gingers because of the colour of our hair, because all it proves is how shallow they truly are

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (14 September 2008):

Are you kidding me??!?! I LOVE GINGERS. I love ginger guys, so so much, that read hair is so attractive.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (6 September 2008):

Hi Dudee

Im a red head and think that people are only turned off by our individuality

To be totaly honest with you at 16 i still have low confidence because of my hair colour but i am dealing with it by saying that people are just scared of us gingers individualty. I have a group of great mates and i think they help alot with things and i have had a few pretty good relationships.

As for the pubes thing get over it dude people are so childish these days it aint right gingers do it best ;) remember that.

My current boyfriends ginger, people take the piss all the time at two gingers together but whats the big deal about that. It isnt the fact that girls dont like guys with ginger hair alot of girls do i have a close friend who would kill to meet a nice ginger boy acctually a few girls i know would. Girls are just afraid of what would be said about them if they are seen with a ginger and if girls are going to be childish enough to dump you because of your hair colour then they aint worth the hastle.

Just remember one thing PERSONALITY thats what really makes love work

Hope i've helped

as a ginger myself i know what your going through ... apart from i been through it with guys

charlotte

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (6 September 2008):

I am a 19 year old girl with dark auburn hair, i can get any guy i want and they love my hair and my confidence. I find that other girls are the ones that can be mean but only because they all look like clones and im the one pulling there boyfriends/ guys they fancy. I think boys worry there mates are gonna rip them for goin out with a ginger girl and thats what needs to change. were unique and always going to stand out, so confidence is key guys! love love xxxxx

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (30 August 2008):

Well I am ginger and I have never had any problem with guys. My son is also ginger and has never had a problem getting girlfriends. His current serious girlfriend is lovely and likes him for his personality, intelligence and looks ! It is all about confidence. I was very shy when I was younger but have grown in confidence since I got older !

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (28 August 2008):

guys and girls listen up!!!

im joe, 21 from the uk in essex. I AM GINGER AND I FUCKING LOVE IT.

ginger has never stopped me from gettin what i want especially with girls lol. yeah sure alot of girls are turnt off by our radical unique hair colour, but lets be honest girls deep down ur all fantasising about bein with us.

im looking to put ginger on the map and start a world wide craze, if we all came together i think we could dominate the world lol.

IM GINGER AND HUGELY PROUD OF IT.

so get in touch my fellow rustys, [email address blocked]

remember, ginger is unique, be proud to fly the orange flag

peace-love-harmony, joey x

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A male reader, RangaNZ New Zealand +, writes (25 August 2008):

Hey Mate,

You honestly have no need to worry! Im and 18 yr old ginger male, and I would bet that I have the brightest ginger hair. But yes, I definately pull girls, its all about the personality and like so many other people before me have said, hair doesnt really matter. Its ur point of difference, just learn to love it and things will get that much easier i swear! I dont even have a name no more, people just call me ginge or ranga and i love it. It makes me, me! SO BE PROUD TO BE GINGER, AND GET SOME WOMAN MY FRIEND!

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (4 August 2008):

im golden like browny redy and my hairdresser loves it and everyone i see i as do u like my hair an thet all say yes i have lots of friends im 12 on the 19th of august ive had a bf before but i think they wanted to go out wiv me for a joke just caus i have gingery hair dosent mean i have to be put of girls with ginger hair a very attractive lie me (not braggin or nothin hehehe) but i think this hair is gorgeous so people with my colour hair dnt die it caus someone who i saw looks like they had ginger hair and thn died it brown and u could she there roots and it loks aufull so keep your hair caus i looks nice ly ppz with ginger hair REDHAIRS RULE ROCK ON !!!! LAURA DERBY

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (3 August 2008):

im not so confident eva im 15 now and i have got the guts to approach any girl but i no guys with ginger hair that are pulling different like every two days. plus ull be surprised at how many ppl wanna be ginger the amount of times i been told 'i wish i had ur hair'. gl anyway

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (28 July 2008):

I'm ginger .I used to dislike ginger guys because all the ones I knew were absolute idiots but I don't care what colour a guys hair is , I think their personality is more important now.I love being ginger and I wouldn't change it for the world.

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A male reader, bassplayer4 United States +, writes (22 July 2008):

well im 16 year old redheaded curley haired kid and i get a ton of compliments on my hair. and my hair goes with the way my face is built.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (17 June 2008):

personally, i love ginger men - my boyfriend is ginger and i am constantly amazed by the brilliance of his hair, (in all places)!

when you're at school, almost everyone is made fun of about something.... yes, ginger people seem to get it more, as it is an easy quip for a bully without imagination..... in 5 years, you will look back an laugh at these losers!

be proud of uniqueness - most people spend a fortune changing the colour of their unremarkable hair... you don't have to.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (13 June 2008):

You shouldn't be worried about people that take the mick. I found that some of my friends had called me ginger behind my back (even though its very dark ginger)... and it turned out that they weren't so perfect themselves. One of my good mates had told me that one of their parents adopted retarded children while the other one never even knew his dad. It turns out that the people who will bully you, will have bigger problems than you. Like ginger hair is such a bad thing.... it isn't exactly the most important part of a person and people will take the piss, just to fit in or just to show off. Its amazing to see who girls will go for, the average guy who cares more about his hair than anything else. Girls will go for ginger lads and i think most girls secretly like them. They just don't bother with ginger lads, in case their mates will think anything different of them.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (3 June 2008):

Dont worry about it mate,ive got really dark auburn hair,with a slight red tint to it when the sun shines on, and i have banged some really fit girls,law of averages lads, if three girls find it unattractive, two will find it as just a hair colour and nothing else.My girlfriend is absolutly stunning, you should see her.Just ignore the jibes its not as if you aint heard them before, i aint been a big heaD BUT I AM REALLY GOOD LOOKING WITH A REALLY FIT BODY, and i just wax my pubes and what chest hair i have.Fuck the haters, they probably go to bed with an obese slob every night. red is not dead boys and girls. ps. there is some really FIT females out there with red hair, you just gotta look. ttfn!

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (30 May 2008):

I'm a 15 year old guy with deep red, auburn hair. In the sun it can look a bit orange, and in the dark it looks a rich burgundy. Its very good on me, against my pale white porcelain skin. If i had a dollar for every time some ignorant guy called me a fire crotch, i'd be very wealthy. I LOVE my red hair, it defines who I am, it complements my face, yet so many are jealous. It is annoying to deal with insecure teens that think calling a red head a "fire crotch" is funny, but red pubes look much cleaner than black or brown, they are gross in my opinion. I'm only interested in red head woman, so I can have red head children. You should be proud to have red hair~

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (25 May 2008):

Man, as a ginger myself i have to say most girls love my hair. And dont worry about how girls feel about your hair its your personality that matters.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (20 May 2008):

Well, it all depends. I have like... Auburn hair, and girls constantly compliment me on it (Also my eyes which are green). That's the only "ginger" part about me. Not to sound cocky, but a lot of girls think I'm cute because my actual face is good looking and I'm thin but not a stick. If you have freckles everywhere, a cheesy smile, and bright eye burning orange hair, you might be screwed.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (19 May 2008):

Because it does not fit in with the "norm". People tend to be attracted to what is socially acceptable.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (14 May 2008):

ive got red hair and im hot. i think you're being LAME.

[Moderator Comment: me too]

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (12 May 2008):

Im a 13 its even worse, I have ginger AFRO hair AHHH I don't mind much, like sometimes with friends, mostly dick heads out in the street who you dont know fuck me off the most.

+ i dont bother with girls at the moment.

should I or will it just come? I wouldnt see myself as a complete nerd, I have 3 different big groups of friends, and including girls, everytime i ask them, they say"Your hair is fine" but they wouldn't exactly go out with me.

And BTW, dying it makes you more of a prick!!!

Excuse my language btw :D

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (8 May 2008):

hi im 16 and im a ginger girl.

now i have some confidence problems, like most girls, and sometimes i get worried that boys won't like me becasue im ginger. I get really embarrased when anyone talks about anything that is to do with people being ginger, even when its not about me but loads of my friends say that whenever they see a ginger person they think of me :) I think it makes us stand out and thats got to be a good thing. People are just jealous in my opinion and ginger people are meant to be firey ;) Most of the time i love being ginger and i think that us gingers just have to stink together. Go gingers, and i bet your just as fit as anyone:)

[Moderator note] I think the poster meant; "us gingers should 'stick' together", not form a flatuence group.-Wiz

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (8 May 2008):

I don't think you should use your hair as an excuse for girls being put off. Many girls not all, but a lot don't really pay too much attention to hair colour as long as the appearance of the person is attractive looking.

I for one am a ginger, a girl but a ginger all the same and I think everybody has a preference of what type of person they are attracated to, many girls go for long, dark, tall guys whilst other girls may prefer short, styled, blond guys, this is just an individual preference of each person.

You mentioned about girls being repulsed by the fact that you have gingers pubes, well may I just state nobody really suits the colour of their pubes, pubes aren't a pretty thing to look at but it doesn't really matter at the end of the day because most people don't walk about with their pubes hanging out. If you are with a girl and perhaps she notices you have ginger pubes and is turned off then maybe she isn't the girl for you as for a girl to be so shallow and be turned off by a guy with ginger pubes then maybe she should take a long hard think about why she is even with a male, we are all born and when we hit puberty, yes we all get the dreaded pube hair I for one don't care about what colour of pubes a guy has as long as it is clean and they don't dye it or have none at all, these would indicate to me a very self - obsessed and little bit sad person so as for the pube dilema just warn the girl before and if she doesn't believe you then maybe you should ask her if she has ever noticed the hair you have on your head or if she has at all ever been educated. One good thing about being a ginger guy is that you won't get a hairy back, I for one would most definately prefer a guy with ginger pubes to a hairy back although this is my preference a lot of girls like something to grab on to.

I only hope this has boasted your confidence although I would like to point of the fact that you haven't got very good spelling, I mean pubes without the e, so to appear more attractive to women make sure you use proper spelling as I think your english is much more important just a tip.

Thanx for reading hope I've helped and just don't dwell on the fact that your ginger Embrace it, if you have more confidence girls will overlook the ginger hair and see you for being someone confident.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (20 April 2008):

i love guys with ginger hair

its the best!

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (12 April 2008):

Who cares what natural colour hair someone has its not like the colour has a disease! I think teenagers who bag them out need to grow up seriously what about brown and blonde heads are they poo pubes? In that case id rather the fire pubes then the poo. I had an incredibly hot auburn/red head guy come to my work the other day and i couldnt stop looking at him, he had a good stocky/strong body good height and was very nice....some people will see a red head they think is ugly and will use it against all read heads..but that wouldnt happen with a brown or blonde its pathetic! You don't need to associate with such people their narrow minded and brainless

Red hair usually= hot eyes maybe their jealous of you

never change who you are be proud of your hair !!!

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (10 April 2008):

Hey i have really deep red hair and it is (according to all my friends) one of my best physical features!Red hair is beautiful, and it makes boring people scared because they dont stand out in a crowd like us! my best friend has naturally blonde hair and is really pretty, but she died her hair red because she loved it so much! Now people tell her that she looks gorgeous because of her hair! Also, the general feeling seems to be that redheads have depth and passion, and are fabulous in bed!!

Ignore stupid comments mate, KEEP THE FIRE ALIVE.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (7 April 2008):

I am a redhead and I have a teenaged redheaded son. Redheads, we just stand out, and that scares a lot of people, so maybe some girls just are scared of how they will be the center of attention along with you if they are your date. We redheads all get crap growing up, and we can all react differently to that. I embraced the attention and learned to love my "redheaded" reputation and did all sort of things to stand out on purpose--I think that sort of reaction is part of our reputation as being high spirited. Others get shy and self conscious about it, and then embarassed about it, and those sort of reactions can really be a turn off. I would recommend reading about famous redheaded men--there are so many famous leaders and warriors--so you can be proud of your red heritage.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (7 April 2008):

I am a redhead and I have a teenaged redheaded son. Redheads, we just stand out, and that scares a lot of people, so maybe some girls just are scared of how they will be the center of attention along with you if they are your date. We redheads all get crap growing up, and we can all react differently to that. I embraced the attention and learned to love my "redheaded" reputation and did all sort of things to stand out on purpose--I think that sort of reaction is part of our reputation as being high spirited. Others get shy and self conscious about it, and then embarassed about it, and those sort of reactions can really be a turn off. I would recommend reading about famous redheaded men--there are so many famous leaders and warriors--so you can be proud of your red heritage.

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A female reader, baybee-x-sparkii United Kingdom +, writes (27 March 2008):

baybee-x-sparkii agony auntcan i just say im a 15 year old girl, currently with a guy and he absolutely loves my natural ginger hair! and if these people find it a turn off there obviously not worth it are they???

there is someone for everyone...and there are many people out there who love our colour!!!

Be proud of it =) its worth it =)

x

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (27 March 2008):

i personally am only attracted to guys with red hair, i think its stunning and the main attraction that i look for in a man. most my friends love it too, if a 16stone overweight man walked in......with red hair, i would be attracted to him. maybe its the individuality and how its so very original that attracts me to it, however when it comes to NOT being attracted to it, i havnt got a clue. Perhaps the typical steriotyping and the fact that it is so rare.

anyway, dont let it get you down. I love ginger hair, and im sure you will meet a woman soon who agrees with me.x

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (12 March 2008):

I diffenately think it's a personal preference and girls going along with "the crowd".

I personally love ginger haired guys, I think they're so sexy :]

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (9 March 2008):

Response to the 13 year old girl on 6 March 2008:

Don't be sad you never had a bf. You're only 13.

I'm a 32 old ginger guy. If I could go back to the age of 13, I would do it immediately.

There was this girl in high school I had a crush on. It kept going on for years. There weren't a lot of opportunities to speak to her in private but I mainly didn't have the guts to approach her.

There was at least once she smiled at me when I stared at her.

She was beautiful and sweet and guess what, years later I found out she liked me to at the time. It was already too late, she was already taken.

I have been unlucky in finding a gf. Never had one. Either rejection, mutual feelings but something which put me off (for instance this Jesus-fan) or missed opportunities.

I recently started searching on the internet what people think of redheads. I was surprised. My negative thoughts were really so unjustified.

There's only a small percentage of people who 'hate' redheads. There's a much larger group who really digg it.

The largest group doesn't care for hair color. It's the personality that is important.

This new knowledge has really woken me up. I'm now proud of my hair. I do have to say that my hair seems to have become a bit less bright. BTW, hilarious comment from the guy on March 6 about the plane he could bring in with his hair :-D

I saw this pretty redhaired girl lately walking down the street. I didn't hesitate to give her a smile. She smiled back. :-)

Redheads are special. Be proud of it! I wasted many years of my life. Please don't make the same mistake!

If there's a guy you like, smile at him. You've got nothing to lose. If he smiles back, hell go after him!

Don't put much weight on negative comments. Those are really not important.

Oh, and here's another testiment that redheads are passionate. I've had countless fantasies of making extended love to a girl. I would love to go down on a girl and blow her mind. :-D

I also find the idea of making love to a redhaired girl very erotic.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (6 March 2008):

I am not sure why people seemed to be turned off by red hair. It is not just boys. I am 13 and I have never had a boyfriend. I have waist-length auburn hair. It turns a lot of guys off. I get made fun of all the time. Like my hair, I have a fiery temper too. Haha! I get enraged when people say gingers have "multi-coloured pubes" to quote. I know what it feel like. :(

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (5 March 2008):

Ahhh,

I know how you feel/felt. As a guy with ginger hair I went through the same thing as you. But like a previous poster says it comes down to confidence, the real problem is people will tell you it's undesirable so you believe it, so then you don't take the chances when it comes to girls. As a red head with super bright pubes(I could bring a plane in wiv 'em)I got over that a long time ago and have had girls say to me that they go all gaga for red hair. And, frankly speaking, I have never had a long term gf that didnt tell me I was the best she ever had in bed, and they volunteered that information, I never asked. Endurance and passion are your genetic gift my son, use them well.

And if it really still does you're head in, then go to Asia, these girls love it here! It all geographical man. And as for your friends they are just being guys and trying to compete with you, the way around that is to already have a few back chat comments prepared to make them look silly, that'll change the girls mind.

Compliments I have had: 'I wish I looked like you'(from a black guy), 'we are all wilting roses compared to you'(from a very sexy chick), 'That was amazing!!!'(need I explain?). You may be like me, you only need to grow into your hair....but when you do you wont look back!

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (4 March 2008):

well i have ginger hair and have not been too unlucky with girls liking me. but if your friends are calling you 'fire crotch' etc then they are not really friends in a way? my friends generally dont tease me about having ginger hair (apart from light jokes) because they arnt that kind of person but if they did start calling me things like that i would not happily take it too happily.

i think there are quite a lot of girls that like guys with ginger hair as earlier posters on here have said but hair color dosnt really matter. anyway be proud of it! youve got a gift that not many people have!

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (29 February 2008):

Well, my favourite are red hair guys but not all of them. Not all blonde or brunette guys are good looking neither ginger ones, but if you ask me to pick a guy from a group of good looking men, I would pick the ginger one for sure, I LOVE THE RED HAIR!!!

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (20 February 2008):

There are loads of famous men and women who are ginger and are really good looking. As a ginger myself I know how some people can be really mean and laugh at your hair. I try and forget about it but sometimes it can be difficult. People need to think before they speak as what they say can have serious consequences.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (15 February 2008):

im a red head man and im amazinly sexy! period.

be confident and take advantage of the hair and skin tone that you have.

usually if you wear nice clothes and a clean hair cut

plus some taste. it would he enough.

buy good perfumes and thats it every man can be sexy.

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A female reader, I.miss.yooh Australia +, writes (14 February 2008):

Red hair is the sexiest thing eva!!! I have a major thing for Steve priest (young version) coz of his red hair!!! Damn hott

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (13 February 2008):

Hello!

I went out with a lad for two months and he had ginger hair but I really didn't care. what mattered to me was that he was nice and sweet towards me.

I told his friends to lay off the ''ginger'' joks because well it isn't very nice to make fun of someone jst because of his hair.

He broke up with me but we really are better off friends and because he broke up with me his friends started slagging him so he dyed his hair brown!

But believe me there is some girls out there who don't care about hair colour or appearance in the end its the inside that counts!

Cheers!

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (4 February 2008):

I have red hair, and i will ask a boy out and he says "no sorry your ginger and i don't like people with ginger hair".So your not alone!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Is your hair curly? 'coz if it is theirs your answer, i think red hair looks great on guys unless it's curly, then it looks WRONG!!! but if it's not then maybe it's something to do with you.

hope this helps!!!!! =)

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (31 January 2008):

As a ginger bloke, i think just like anyone else around, if you are confident and happy with yourself then everything else just follows on from that. I personally have never had a problem with finding girls. I also think that red haired women are usually very self assured and sexy. Cheers! power to the ginger minority.... never accept any ginger racism.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (25 January 2008):

i also like ginger haired women and im ginger. i fing them lots more attractive.

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A female reader, ?Ginger? United Kingdom +, writes (25 January 2008):

Only some girls dont like guys with ginger hair. Frankly, its really attractive! A huge turn on if a guy has ginger hair and it natural. Use it as a strength. xx

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (14 January 2008):

Hiya,

I LOVE men with red hair - I always have!

I also eventually managed to pin one down and make him my boyfriend - love him to bits.

I also dont mind having children with red hair when I marry him.

I have no idea why so many people hate it - but its good news for me, because that means its less girls to compete with!

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (11 January 2008):

Listen, red hair is the best. Men with red hair are sooo attractive, believe me. It's the blonde guys that hafta worry... yuck. Haha.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (5 January 2008):

i think guys with red hair are realllly hot. it's just some girls that don't like it. i love a little red carpet. there really is nothing hotter ;)

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (9 December 2007):

i think red pubes are the sexiest thing on guys so give me a call

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (9 December 2007):

omg i love red hair so much it is such a turn on!! i love it, im blonde at the mo and im going to dye my hair red because i just love it so much.. Id do anything for red hair

my longest relationship was with a ginger haired guy and he was so sexy.. I love ginger hair its adorable and sexy!!! reminds me of a firey tiger (and he was in bed) I love red hair!!

Dont listen to anyone who makes jokes about it, its who you are and most girls love it, they just dont wanna admit it

xx

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (4 December 2007):

my boyfriends got ginger hair and hes pretty sexy!

one of my friends had only ever had boyfriends that have been ginger.

so there. they are pretty hot!

can i also add that gingers are pretty good in the sack

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (1 December 2007):

hey hun... if your mates say shit like that its like calling someone black a nigger.. dont take it ay.. anyway.. guys arent turned of by red hair.. if a girl is hot shes hot regardless of her hair color... ever seen your other mates get shut down because they arent good looking?? you just notice it becuase its you babe.. seriously dont worry about it! get yourself a banging body and smile!!!

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (12 November 2007):

It may be a case of opposites attract for me. I'm a raven with medium/dark olive complexion with nearly black eyes and I've always noticed ginger and blond men with pale complexion and blue, grey, green or hazel eyes more than other men and felt more attracted to them than men with darker complexion. Oh, and freckles are sexy! Hub gets them in the summer. I ended up marrying a blond because we're compatible in all the important areas of life but I would've been just as happy to have married a ginger man! I love ginger hair, especially on men! My sons hair range from dark brown/auburn in the winter to shades of auburn/strawberry blond tips in the summer. I would've loved to have had a ginger child and it wouldn't matter whether it was a boy or girl. I don't understand why some people only find ginger hair attractive on females. Ginger hair is sexy!

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (5 October 2007):

I am a true ginger male. Not that freckled (except on my arms). Not sure why, but I have a big "thing" for pale skinned, ginger haired girls. Far more attractive to me than any other girl.

So if you are such a girl, let me know! To me you are beyond beautiful!!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (19 September 2007):

I married a Red Head. He is the most good looking sexy man I have ever met! He isn't covered in freckles and just has red hair, which he shaves off (not because its red), covered in tattoos. Just my type, skin head with tat's. Only idiots have issues with hair colour!!

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (17 September 2007):

im a dude with red hair, and 20.

I dont wanna be overly bigheaded or nothin but girls do find me attractive. Had a normal amount of girls growing p, and now in a steady relationship. SO it cant be all bad, and trust me, i dont look like brad pitt, and my gf is pretty hot. So maybe you just have to be more confident.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (14 September 2007):

Hi there,

I love guys with red hair... I have always been attracted to guys with red hair and my husband is ginger and he is the most gorgeous man I have ever laid eyes on. He is so sexy; his never had any trouble with women and has had plenty of stunning women. I met him through my modelling colleagues, as one of them had dated him years back.

I want to a modelling job once with twenty girls and we were discussing sexy things on a man, I said I liked Ginger men... I thought they would look at me like I was mad but some of them agreed that it was a real turn on...

Truth is though that hair colour doesn’t matter... If your confident your get girls, no matter what

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (13 September 2007):

i have ginger hair, ginger pubes and all and have absolutly no trouble getting girls at all. every1 that insults u 4 it are obviously jelous.... the only posible situation i can see ginger lads having trouble is the fact that because we are a minority we get knocked for it and confidence drops. girls love confident guys....confidence = sexy....be proud of it! now get out there and round up them ladies.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (7 May 2007):

Well, many females here say that hair color does not matter, but unluckily my experiences showed me the opposite. A friend of mine even told me that she detests all men with ginger hair (by the way, I got dark red hair like a hydrant so that was not very sensitive :-( ). Maybe that's kinda social darwinism, but for redheaded men it seems more difficult to find a girlfriend.

Good luck though and greetings from Germany.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (5 May 2007):

Not all girls are turned off by red hair...don't believe that. One day you will find a gorgeous gal who digs your hair. Trust me. Also if your friends are doing that to you in front of chicks..it's time to find new friends. They must be jealous of you or they wouldn't waste their time making fun of you.

Keep your head up and remember a lot of chicks like guys with red hair!

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (2 May 2007):

Girls hate me. The last girl I wnet out with was over 18 years ago. I'm a real loser. Every girl that looks at me gives me dirty looks, or says that I'm ugly. Women hate me thats all their is to it. I'm a loser for life.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (26 April 2007):

hair colour totally doesent matter I was totally horny for a guy with red hair for a year but he always turned me down (and im very pretty).

Any girl who is that shallow is not worth having.

Its you that counts not your hair

good luck gorgeous

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (25 April 2007):

I don't get why hair colour should matter. It really doesn't make any sense at all. When you like someone so much why should the colour of their hair matter?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (25 April 2007):

hey! Dont worry,t heres loads of girls who love red haired guys. As for me, i think red hair, especially red body hair is absolutely beautiful and a huge turn on. (my bf is ginger btw...) but I have always adored it and i know many other girls who do too! So dont worry!! Honestly.... theres loads of girls out there who really really like it, and other than that, i'd hope any girl wasnt shallow enough to put her off a great guy!!

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A female reader, JulietteElise United States +, writes (25 April 2007):

JulietteElise agony auntactually, i think red pube hair is the sexiest thing in the world. Its probably just your friends comments in regard to "sexual things" that make the girls feel awkward and thus seem less intrested. Many girls, esspicaly in your age group and younger, are very shy about such things and being so blunt with males on sexual topics. I suggest you try hanging out with a female you like (and who seems to like you) without these rude friends around. Trust me, when a girl really likes someone a little thing like the color of ones hair, esspically pube hair, will not stop them from wanting to date you (why the hell would pube hair color matter anyways??? lol). Just be as personable, kind, and careing as you can and girls will want to date you.

(alos... one thought... perhaps these girls thought your friend ment an STD of soem sort when refearing to "fire crotch"?)

so no worries mate, you will get a g/f eventually and hair color has nothing at all to do with it.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (25 April 2007):

The same reason most guys don't like ginger girls, they usually aren't very attractive. It has nothing to do with pube color.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (25 April 2007):

I don't know, me and all my friends LOVE red-headed guys.

They're sexy, be proud of yourself!

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