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writes:Why don't girls like guys with Ginger hair?I've got Red hair and it seems to turn alot of girls off, especially if I'm with a girl and one of my friends makes a crack about me being a fire crotch.Wehnever that topic comes up most girls seem to lose interest immediatley, as if my pubs are downright repulsive.Just wondering why so many girls get turned off by guys with red hair.
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reader, bassplayer4  +, writes (22 July 2008):
well im 16 year old redheaded curley haired kid and i get a ton of compliments on my hair. and my hair goes with the way my face is built.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 June 2008): personally, i love ginger men - my boyfriend is ginger and i am constantly amazed by the brilliance of his hair, (in all places)!
when you're at school, almost everyone is made fun of about something.... yes, ginger people seem to get it more, as it is an easy quip for a bully without imagination..... in 5 years, you will look back an laugh at these losers!
be proud of uniqueness - most people spend a fortune changing the colour of their unremarkable hair... you don't have to.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 June 2008): You shouldn't be worried about people that take the mick. I found that some of my friends had called me ginger behind my back (even though its very dark ginger)... and it turned out that they weren't so perfect themselves. One of my good mates had told me that one of their parents adopted retarded children while the other one never even knew his dad. It turns out that the people who will bully you, will have bigger problems than you. Like ginger hair is such a bad thing.... it isn't exactly the most important part of a person and people will take the piss, just to fit in or just to show off. Its amazing to see who girls will go for, the average guy who cares more about his hair than anything else. Girls will go for ginger lads and i think most girls secretly like them. They just don't bother with ginger lads, in case their mates will think anything different of them.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 June 2008): Dont worry about it mate,ive got really dark auburn hair,with a slight red tint to it when the sun shines on, and i have banged some really fit girls,law of averages lads, if three girls find it unattractive, two will find it as just a hair colour and nothing else.My girlfriend is absolutly stunning, you should see her.Just ignore the jibes its not as if you aint heard them before, i aint been a big heaD BUT I AM REALLY GOOD LOOKING WITH A REALLY FIT BODY, and i just wax my pubes and what chest hair i have.Fuck the haters, they probably go to bed with an obese slob every night. red is not dead boys and girls. ps. there is some really FIT females out there with red hair, you just gotta look. ttfn!
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 May 2008): I'm a 15 year old guy with deep red, auburn hair. In the sun it can look a bit orange, and in the dark it looks a rich burgundy. Its very good on me, against my pale white porcelain skin. If i had a dollar for every time some ignorant guy called me a fire crotch, i'd be very wealthy. I LOVE my red hair, it defines who I am, it complements my face, yet so many are jealous. It is annoying to deal with insecure teens that think calling a red head a "fire crotch" is funny, but red pubes look much cleaner than black or brown, they are gross in my opinion. I'm only interested in red head woman, so I can have red head children. You should be proud to have red hair~
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 May 2008): Man, as a ginger myself i have to say most girls love my hair. And dont worry about how girls feel about your hair its your personality that matters.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 May 2008): Well, it all depends. I have like... Auburn hair, and girls constantly compliment me on it (Also my eyes which are green). That's the only "ginger" part about me. Not to sound cocky, but a lot of girls think I'm cute because my actual face is good looking and I'm thin but not a stick. If you have freckles everywhere, a cheesy smile, and bright eye burning orange hair, you might be screwed.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 May 2008): Because it does not fit in with the "norm". People tend to be attracted to what is socially acceptable.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 May 2008): ive got red hair and im hot. i think you're being LAME.[Moderator Comment: me too]
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 May 2008): Im a 13 its even worse, I have ginger AFRO hair AHHH I don't mind much, like sometimes with friends, mostly dick heads out in the street who you dont know fuck me off the most.
+ i dont bother with girls at the moment.
should I or will it just come? I wouldnt see myself as a complete nerd, I have 3 different big groups of friends, and including girls, everytime i ask them, they say"Your hair is fine" but they wouldn't exactly go out with me.
And BTW, dying it makes you more of a prick!!!
Excuse my language btw :D
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 May 2008): hi im 16 and im a ginger girl.now i have some confidence problems, like most girls, and sometimes i get worried that boys won't like me becasue im ginger. I get really embarrased when anyone talks about anything that is to do with people being ginger, even when its not about me but loads of my friends say that whenever they see a ginger person they think of me :) I think it makes us stand out and thats got to be a good thing. People are just jealous in my opinion and ginger people are meant to be firey ;) Most of the time i love being ginger and i think that us gingers just have to stink together. Go gingers, and i bet your just as fit as anyone:) [Moderator note] I think the poster meant; "us gingers should 'stick' together", not form a flatuence group.-Wiz
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 May 2008): I don't think you should use your hair as an excuse for girls being put off. Many girls not all, but a lot don't really pay too much attention to hair colour as long as the appearance of the person is attractive looking.
I for one am a ginger, a girl but a ginger all the same and I think everybody has a preference of what type of person they are attracated to, many girls go for long, dark, tall guys whilst other girls may prefer short, styled, blond guys, this is just an individual preference of each person.
You mentioned about girls being repulsed by the fact that you have gingers pubes, well may I just state nobody really suits the colour of their pubes, pubes aren't a pretty thing to look at but it doesn't really matter at the end of the day because most people don't walk about with their pubes hanging out. If you are with a girl and perhaps she notices you have ginger pubes and is turned off then maybe she isn't the girl for you as for a girl to be so shallow and be turned off by a guy with ginger pubes then maybe she should take a long hard think about why she is even with a male, we are all born and when we hit puberty, yes we all get the dreaded pube hair I for one don't care about what colour of pubes a guy has as long as it is clean and they don't dye it or have none at all, these would indicate to me a very self - obsessed and little bit sad person so as for the pube dilema just warn the girl before and if she doesn't believe you then maybe you should ask her if she has ever noticed the hair you have on your head or if she has at all ever been educated. One good thing about being a ginger guy is that you won't get a hairy back, I for one would most definately prefer a guy with ginger pubes to a hairy back although this is my preference a lot of girls like something to grab on to.
I only hope this has boasted your confidence although I would like to point of the fact that you haven't got very good spelling, I mean pubes without the e, so to appear more attractive to women make sure you use proper spelling as I think your english is much more important just a tip.
Thanx for reading hope I've helped and just don't dwell on the fact that your ginger Embrace it, if you have more confidence girls will overlook the ginger hair and see you for being someone confident.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 April 2008): i love guys with ginger hair
its the best!
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 April 2008): Who cares what natural colour hair someone has its not like the colour has a disease! I think teenagers who bag them out need to grow up seriously what about brown and blonde heads are they poo pubes? In that case id rather the fire pubes then the poo. I had an incredibly hot auburn/red head guy come to my work the other day and i couldnt stop looking at him, he had a good stocky/strong body good height and was very nice....some people will see a red head they think is ugly and will use it against all read heads..but that wouldnt happen with a brown or blonde its pathetic! You don't need to associate with such people their narrow minded and brainless
Red hair usually= hot eyes maybe their jealous of you
never change who you are be proud of your hair !!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 April 2008): Hey i have really deep red hair and it is (according to all my friends) one of my best physical features!Red hair is beautiful, and it makes boring people scared because they dont stand out in a crowd like us! my best friend has naturally blonde hair and is really pretty, but she died her hair red because she loved it so much! Now people tell her that she looks gorgeous because of her hair! Also, the general feeling seems to be that redheads have depth and passion, and are fabulous in bed!!
Ignore stupid comments mate, KEEP THE FIRE ALIVE.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 April 2008): I am a redhead and I have a teenaged redheaded son. Redheads, we just stand out, and that scares a lot of people, so maybe some girls just are scared of how they will be the center of attention along with you if they are your date. We redheads all get crap growing up, and we can all react differently to that. I embraced the attention and learned to love my "redheaded" reputation and did all sort of things to stand out on purpose--I think that sort of reaction is part of our reputation as being high spirited. Others get shy and self conscious about it, and then embarassed about it, and those sort of reactions can really be a turn off. I would recommend reading about famous redheaded men--there are so many famous leaders and warriors--so you can be proud of your red heritage.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 April 2008): I am a redhead and I have a teenaged redheaded son. Redheads, we just stand out, and that scares a lot of people, so maybe some girls just are scared of how they will be the center of attention along with you if they are your date. We redheads all get crap growing up, and we can all react differently to that. I embraced the attention and learned to love my "redheaded" reputation and did all sort of things to stand out on purpose--I think that sort of reaction is part of our reputation as being high spirited. Others get shy and self conscious about it, and then embarassed about it, and those sort of reactions can really be a turn off. I would recommend reading about famous redheaded men--there are so many famous leaders and warriors--so you can be proud of your red heritage.
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reader, baybee-x-sparkii  +, writes (27 March 2008):
 can i just say im a 15 year old girl, currently with a guy and he absolutely loves my natural ginger hair! and if these people find it a turn off there obviously not worth it are they???
there is someone for everyone...and there are many people out there who love our colour!!!
Be proud of it =) its worth it =)
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 March 2008): i personally am only attracted to guys with red hair, i think its stunning and the main attraction that i look for in a man. most my friends love it too, if a 16stone overweight man walked in......with red hair, i would be attracted to him. maybe its the individuality and how its so very original that attracts me to it, however when it comes to NOT being attracted to it, i havnt got a clue. Perhaps the typical steriotyping and the fact that it is so rare.
anyway, dont let it get you down. I love ginger hair, and im sure you will meet a woman soon who agrees with me.x
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 March 2008): I diffenately think it's a personal preference and girls going along with "the crowd".
I personally love ginger haired guys, I think they're so sexy :]
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 March 2008): Response to the 13 year old girl on 6 March 2008:
Don't be sad you never had a bf. You're only 13.
I'm a 32 old ginger guy. If I could go back to the age of 13, I would do it immediately.
There was this girl in high school I had a crush on. It kept going on for years. There weren't a lot of opportunities to speak to her in private but I mainly didn't have the guts to approach her.
There was at least once she smiled at me when I stared at her.
She was beautiful and sweet and guess what, years later I found out she liked me to at the time. It was already too late, she was already taken.
I have been unlucky in finding a gf. Never had one. Either rejection, mutual feelings but something which put me off (for instance this Jesus-fan) or missed opportunities.
I recently started searching on the internet what people think of redheads. I was surprised. My negative thoughts were really so unjustified.
There's only a small percentage of people who 'hate' redheads. There's a much larger group who really digg it.
The largest group doesn't care for hair color. It's the personality that is important.
This new knowledge has really woken me up. I'm now proud of my hair. I do have to say that my hair seems to have become a bit less bright. BTW, hilarious comment from the guy on March 6 about the plane he could bring in with his hair :-D
I saw this pretty redhaired girl lately walking down the street. I didn't hesitate to give her a smile. She smiled back. :-)
Redheads are special. Be proud of it! I wasted many years of my life. Please don't make the same mistake!
If there's a guy you like, smile at him. You've got nothing to lose. If he smiles back, hell go after him!
Don't put much weight on negative comments. Those are really not important.
Oh, and here's another testiment that redheads are passionate. I've had countless fantasies of making extended love to a girl. I would love to go down on a girl and blow her mind. :-D
I also find the idea of making love to a redhaired girl very erotic.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 March 2008): I am not sure why people seemed to be turned off by red hair. It is not just boys. I am 13 and I have never had a boyfriend. I have waist-length auburn hair. It turns a lot of guys off. I get made fun of all the time. Like my hair, I have a fiery temper too. Haha! I get enraged when people say gingers have "multi-coloured pubes" to quote. I know what it feel like. :(
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 March 2008): Ahhh, I know how you feel/felt. As a guy with ginger hair I went through the same thing as you. But like a previous poster says it comes down to confidence, the real problem is people will tell you it's undesirable so you believe it, so then you don't take the chances when it comes to girls. As a red head with super bright pubes(I could bring a plane in wiv 'em)I got over that a long time ago and have had girls say to me that they go all gaga for red hair. And, frankly speaking, I have never had a long term gf that didnt tell me I was the best she ever had in bed, and they volunteered that information, I never asked. Endurance and passion are your genetic gift my son, use them well. And if it really still does you're head in, then go to Asia, these girls love it here! It all geographical man. And as for your friends they are just being guys and trying to compete with you, the way around that is to already have a few back chat comments prepared to make them look silly, that'll change the girls mind. Compliments I have had: 'I wish I looked like you'(from a black guy), 'we are all wilting roses compared to you'(from a very sexy chick), 'That was amazing!!!'(need I explain?). You may be like me, you only need to grow into your hair....but when you do you wont look back!
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 March 2008): well i have ginger hair and have not been too unlucky with girls liking me. but if your friends are calling you 'fire crotch' etc then they are not really friends in a way? my friends generally dont tease me about having ginger hair (apart from light jokes) because they arnt that kind of person but if they did start calling me things like that i would not happily take it too happily.
i think there are quite a lot of girls that like guys with ginger hair as earlier posters on here have said but hair color dosnt really matter. anyway be proud of it! youve got a gift that not many people have!
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 February 2008): Well, my favourite are red hair guys but not all of them. Not all blonde or brunette guys are good looking neither ginger ones, but if you ask me to pick a guy from a group of good looking men, I would pick the ginger one for sure, I LOVE THE RED HAIR!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 February 2008): There are loads of famous men and women who are ginger and are really good looking. As a ginger myself I know how some people can be really mean and laugh at your hair. I try and forget about it but sometimes it can be difficult. People need to think before they speak as what they say can have serious consequences.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 February 2008): im a red head man and im amazinly sexy! period.be confident and take advantage of the hair and skin tone that you have.usually if you wear nice clothes and a clean hair cut plus some taste. it would he enough.buy good perfumes and thats it every man can be sexy.myspace:
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reader, I.miss.yooh  +, writes (14 February 2008):
Red hair is the sexiest thing eva!!! I have a major thing for Steve priest (young version) coz of his red hair!!! Damn hott
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 February 2008): Hello!I went out with a lad for two months and he had ginger hair but I really didn't care. what mattered to me was that he was nice and sweet towards me.I told his friends to lay off the ''ginger'' joks because well it isn't very nice to make fun of someone jst because of his hair.He broke up with me but we really are better off friends and because he broke up with me his friends started slagging him so he dyed his hair brown!But believe me there is some girls out there who don't care about hair colour or appearance in the end its the inside that counts!Cheers!
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 February 2008): I have red hair, and i will ask a boy out and he says "no sorry your ginger and i don't like people with ginger hair".So your not alone!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Is your hair curly? 'coz if it is theirs your answer, i think red hair looks great on guys unless it's curly, then it looks WRONG!!! but if it's not then maybe it's something to do with you.
hope this helps!!!!! =)
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 January 2008): As a ginger bloke, i think just like anyone else around, if you are confident and happy with yourself then everything else just follows on from that. I personally have never had a problem with finding girls. I also think that red haired women are usually very self assured and sexy. Cheers! power to the ginger minority.... never accept any ginger racism.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 January 2008): i also like ginger haired women and im ginger. i fing them lots more attractive.
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reader, ?Ginger? +, writes (25 January 2008):
Only some girls dont like guys with ginger hair. Frankly, its really attractive! A huge turn on if a guy has ginger hair and it natural. Use it as a strength. xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 January 2008): Hiya,
I LOVE men with red hair - I always have!
I also eventually managed to pin one down and make him my boyfriend - love him to bits.
I also dont mind having children with red hair when I marry him.
I have no idea why so many people hate it - but its good news for me, because that means its less girls to compete with!
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 January 2008): Listen, red hair is the best. Men with red hair are sooo attractive, believe me. It's the blonde guys that hafta worry... yuck. Haha.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 January 2008): i think guys with red hair are realllly hot. it's just some girls that don't like it. i love a little red carpet. there really is nothing hotter ;)
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 December 2007): i think red pubes are the sexiest thing on guys so give me a call
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 December 2007): omg i love red hair so much it is such a turn on!! i love it, im blonde at the mo and im going to dye my hair red because i just love it so much.. Id do anything for red hairmy longest relationship was with a ginger haired guy and he was so sexy.. I love ginger hair its adorable and sexy!!! reminds me of a firey tiger (and he was in bed) I love red hair!!Dont listen to anyone who makes jokes about it, its who you are and most girls love it, they just dont wanna admit itxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 December 2007): my boyfriends got ginger hair and hes pretty sexy!
one of my friends had only ever had boyfriends that have been ginger.
so there. they are pretty hot!
can i also add that gingers are pretty good in the sack
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 December 2007): hey hun... if your mates say shit like that its like calling someone black a nigger.. dont take it ay.. anyway.. guys arent turned of by red hair.. if a girl is hot shes hot regardless of her hair color... ever seen your other mates get shut down because they arent good looking?? you just notice it becuase its you babe.. seriously dont worry about it! get yourself a banging body and smile!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 November 2007): It may be a case of opposites attract for me. I'm a raven with medium/dark olive complexion with nearly black eyes and I've always noticed ginger and blond men with pale complexion and blue, grey, green or hazel eyes more than other men and felt more attracted to them than men with darker complexion. Oh, and freckles are sexy! Hub gets them in the summer. I ended up marrying a blond because we're compatible in all the important areas of life but I would've been just as happy to have married a ginger man! I love ginger hair, especially on men! My sons hair range from dark brown/auburn in the winter to shades of auburn/strawberry blond tips in the summer. I would've loved to have had a ginger child and it wouldn't matter whether it was a boy or girl. I don't understand why some people only find ginger hair attractive on females. Ginger hair is sexy!
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 October 2007): I am a true ginger male. Not that freckled (except on my arms). Not sure why, but I have a big "thing" for pale skinned, ginger haired girls. Far more attractive to me than any other girl.
So if you are such a girl, let me know! To me you are beyond beautiful!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 September 2007): I married a Red Head. He is the most good looking sexy man I have ever met! He isn't covered in freckles and just has red hair, which he shaves off (not because its red), covered in tattoos. Just my type, skin head with tat's. Only idiots have issues with hair colour!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 September 2007): im a dude with red hair, and 20.
I dont wanna be overly bigheaded or nothin but girls do find me attractive. Had a normal amount of girls growing p, and now in a steady relationship. SO it cant be all bad, and trust me, i dont look like brad pitt, and my gf is pretty hot. So maybe you just have to be more confident.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 September 2007):
Hi there,
I love guys with red hair... I have always been attracted to guys with red hair and my husband is ginger and he is the most gorgeous man I have ever laid eyes on. He is so sexy; his never had any trouble with women and has had plenty of stunning women. I met him through my modelling colleagues, as one of them had dated him years back.
I want to a modelling job once with twenty girls and we were discussing sexy things on a man, I said I liked Ginger men... I thought they would look at me like I was mad but some of them agreed that it was a real turn on...
Truth is though that hair colour doesn’t matter... If your confident your get girls, no matter what
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 September 2007): i have ginger hair, ginger pubes and all and have absolutly no trouble getting girls at all. every1 that insults u 4 it are obviously jelous.... the only posible situation i can see ginger lads having trouble is the fact that because we are a minority we get knocked for it and confidence drops. girls love confident guys....confidence = sexy....be proud of it! now get out there and round up them ladies.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 May 2007): Well, many females here say that hair color does not matter, but unluckily my experiences showed me the opposite. A friend of mine even told me that she detests all men with ginger hair (by the way, I got dark red hair like a hydrant so that was not very sensitive :-( ). Maybe that's kinda social darwinism, but for redheaded men it seems more difficult to find a girlfriend.
Good luck though and greetings from Germany.
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