Am I shallow for my worries due to his hair colour?
Q. i have a problem, a man reaaly likes me and would do anything for me but because he is ginger im scared what people will say! what do i do?...
A. 10 November 2010: Wow, thank you on behalf the ginger boys of the world for that vote of confidence!
I don't know whether I've just led an exceptionally sheltered existence but I've got to my forties without, as far as I'm aware, ever having received a negative... (read in full...)
At 5'6'' weighing 100 pounds, is my friend anorexic?
Q. Hii Aunties and Uncles, basically, I have a pen pal who lives several hundred miles north from me and she recently had surgery and lost a lot of weight. In her last letter to me she said she weighs 100lbs (7stone 2lbs) and she's 5foot 6.5 inches...
A. 9 November 2010: It's light for the UK but over here in Asia it would be a very normal weight. I have a friend who weighs 90 lbs but she is fit and heathly and has great muscle tone.
What matters is, does she look healthy, does the skin look healthy, are the musc... (read in full...)
I cannot have a woman - how I can get rid of my feelings for women?
Q. I'm a 36 old guy who never had a girlfriend,has never been friend of a woman and of course never had sex. I understood long time ago that it's impossible for me to have a woman(unless I don't look for the ugliest) and that no woman will never li...
A. 7 November 2010: Why impossible? More information please.
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Why am I not supposed to know?
Q. My husband won't tell me what he did in bed with his ex wife of 20 years. What is he hiding? Is this an open relationship? I'm pissed!...
A. 3 November 2010: He's right it's an unhealthy discussion.
For the last 10 of those 20 years reading a book for was probably what he was doing in bed with her.... (read in full...)
Penis enlargement medications?
Q. I know there are many adverts on the internet for penis enlargement schemes and medications but I would be grateful to know if any of the readers has tried any of these and found it effective and true to its advertisement? thanks. ...
A. 3 November 2010: Nope.
But you could try these instead - http://www.penisreductionpills.com/ They come in a well marked box. Stands to reason you wouldn't buy them if you didn't need em.
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Can dry humping cause you to lose your virginity?
Q. Hi everyone... I was just wondering... My boyfriend and I were dry humping often (we're both not ready for sex) then yesterday, after dry humping, I notice two tiny spots of blood (I'm not that sure if that was blood but it really looks like blood) ...
A. 3 November 2010: ??????????? ???? ... (read in full...)
I'm single, 20 and want a baby
Q. i want a baby but am single i am 20 yrs old al my friends have babies and i have always wanted to be a parent young from a very young age what should i do this is gettin me realy down ? ...
A. 3 November 2010: Why?
Do you have any idea how much those things cost??
You're too young but it's your choice so long as you have the financial resources to do it but don't expect other people to get every morning go out to work and pay taxes so that the govt... (read in full...)
Can a girl have sex during her period?
Q. Can a boy and a girl have sex when the girl is in her periods time ...
A. 2 November 2010: Yes you can, although here in China the superstition is that if you get blood on your penis then your business will lose money in the next month :-)... (read in full...)
I am average to say the least and cannot ever compete with these guys!
Q. I am so gutted, my sweet and innocent 20year old girlfirend turns out to be not so sweet and innocent. She has slept with many many many men including black guys with what she says had enormous dicks and white guys with 9inc dicks. I am s...
A. 1 November 2010: OK, this is very important did you whine and push until she told you about the other guys or did she just throw it in your face? If she threw it in your face then you shouldn't stick around but if you push her to tell you then you have some ... (read in full...)
He's watching porn... is he a player? Am I too ugly for him?
Q. Hi everybody. I need you to judge me. My boyfriend said I'm too jealous. We been together for 3years on and off. I always check on his stuff. Like his cell phone, computer. I always see what he been watching on the internet. I found out last pas...
A. 1 November 2010: No, he's not a Player. If he was a Player he would be out playing not sitting at home playing with himself!... (read in full...)
Mistress is threating to tell my wife about us
Q. I feel like I'm about to lose the best thing that ever happened for me behind ignorance. I know everyone's probably going to say I deserve it and I probably due but no one's perfect. I told my mistress that we needed to sto and she's threatening to ...
A. 31 October 2010: I live in a culture in which most wealthy men keep at least one mistress and so the "rules" are pretty well established. Rule No. 1 Never, ever, tell a mistress or lover that you are going to leave your wife. It's not on, it's a recipe for ... (read in full...)
He calls me horrible names
Q. hey guys im kind of new at this thing but i really need an outside perspective. me and my boyfriend have been together for almost a year and half now. when he gets mad at me he calls me some horrible names ex:lard ass,bitch,exc.. and it makes me ...
A. 30 October 2010: Why do you want to spend your life with him? From what you've told us he sounds like a bit of tosser. Tell us what's good about him that makes it all worthwhile.... (read in full...)
Is it possible for a married man to get his mistress pregnant on purpose?
Q. I want to know how married men perceive on this matter. Is it possible for a married man to make their mistress or other woman get pregnant intentionally? Like he wants her to get pregnant?...
A. 29 October 2010: In the vast majority of situations it would be a cruel and selfish thing to do because every child deserves to have the love of both parents. A woman might choose to be a mistress and for many its a good choice (especially in societies with very ... (read in full...)
Are guys OK with inverted nipples?
Q. I have somewhat invertd nipples. They look normal when i simply sqeeze my boobs but whn they are just being thmself, they tend to go in. Im a little self consious so ive been surfin the net for guys opinions on them. Most guys dont care, but a lot ...
A. 23 October 2010: I've conducted a fairly substantial survey of nipples in all their wonderful forms. I reckon inverted nipples run about 1 in 20 in my part of the world.
No, they are not a problem. They are cute and lovely just like every other nipple. One of t... (read in full...)
Using a fleshlight and a still a virgin.
Q. Hello, im still a virgin and im a 19 year old male and i masturbate with a fleshlight because i havent found the right girl yet and im bored using my hand. i dont masturbate a lot but i just have 2 questions. 1. Should i ever tell my next girlfrie...
A. 22 October 2010: I'd just keep it to yourself.... (read in full...)
Am I throwing away 13 years of marriage for no good reason/
Q. this is probably a strange thing to be dealing with but i dont know what to do it all started about 2 years ago me and my husband was in bed going to sleep when he recieved a text message from his friends girlfriend (whom he doesnt know and has ...
A. 22 October 2010: An over reaction to something that is a little childish but essentially harmless. He's only joking with his friend not actually doing anything.... (read in full...)
What is it your partner does to keep you with her?
Q. I'm just hoping to hear from a few long-time, happily married/committed men on what it is about their relationship with their wives/girlfriends that makes it work? Also, to any men who have/had stable relationships, what are some of the factors ...
A. 22 October 2010: Men crave respect more than anything else. So in addition to love and kindness and sex and good cooking and all of that, make us feel needed and respected. By "respected" I don't mean the modern wishy washy respect for everyone and everything. ... (read in full...)
When is abortion the best option?
Q. Maybe all of you can help me with this. Since the moment I learned of what abortion is, I have always thought it a good thing. A woman has choices, she can spare a life from suffering if she feels she is not ready. I thought it better than givi...
A. 19 October 2010: Abortion is never the "best" option. It is, sometimes, the least bad option.
About 12 years ago the girl who is now my wife had an abortion - the result of stupidity and some English - Chinese translation issues. It wasn't easy for her. We now ... (read in full...)
I enjoy bj's more from guys that girls, does that mean I am gay?
Q. Okay...so I am really confused. I enjoy getting blowjobs from guys more so than girls, particularly because they give them better. Does that mean I am gay...I mean I have thought about it and I could not see myself having an intimate relationship ...
A. 16 October 2010: Yup.
Sorry I disagree with ricemonster. If you like having another guy suck your dick then either either you are some kind of excessively dominant character or your queer. That's not a bad thing, the world is a richer better place for the wond... (read in full...)
Should I dump the girl I love to go for a hotter girl?
Q. Hi I am currently in a relationship with someone I love. My friends say she is gross and ugly. A "hotter" girl likes me but I don't like her. Should I dump my current gf and go for the other one?...
A. 15 October 2010: Well obviously, yes. Hotness trumps everything.... (read in full...)
Am I destined to die alone?
Q. I am a 25 year old architect who has reached utter despair in the quest of finding that special lady to grow old together... This sentence sums up my life quite well however; the reason I am writing is due to the fact that I have not been with ...
A. 13 October 2010: Practically speaking, get yourself seconded to your firm's Beijing or Shanghai office. This is where most of the building is going on at the moment, we need architects and what is more there are millions upon millions of lovely, clever, beautiful ... (read in full...)
Should I disclose a past prostitute visit to my girlfriend?
Q. I am in a committed relationship now. However, a few years before, I lost my virginity to a prostitute. I did so because I was feeling depressed, things were looking bleak, and thought I wouldn't be in a relationship. I don't have any desire to ...
A. 12 October 2010: No.
No good will come of it.... (read in full...)
She's leaving me because I have too many health problems!
Q. I eventually told my gf about the previous operations I had as a child because she would have seen the scars anyway. The problem is that she cannot seem to properly accept the act that I had the operations (adeniods removed, 1/2 left kidney take...
A. 11 October 2010: How could you not believe that? This is China. You have the highest density of good looking available girls on the planet but at the same time it's a highly materialistic culture with very little social safety net so those beautiful girls look at ... (read in full...)
Do I look fat in this?
Q. I am about 132 and 5'7 3/4". My husband keeps saying that I am fat. Are there any circumstances under which, or cultures in which this would be considered fat? Are there any guys here that consider this proportion too fat for their taste?...
A. 9 October 2010: Yes there are cultures in which you'd be considered a big girl but the USA is not one of them. I think that you are likely below average for your age group in the US. Of course it also has to do with build and muscle tone.
As the other posters ... (read in full...)
He slept with a girl while we were broken up, is that cheating?
Q. I'm so confused with the situation I am in now with my boyfriend. I broke up with him in May because I felt that he was way too overprotective with me..that it always lead to arguments. He kept asking to come back and I always said to give it some ...
A. 9 October 2010: No it isn't cheating. You cant break up with a guy, not talk to him or respond to his messages and still expect to keep him on a short leash. To be honest sleeping with only one other person on a six week holiday in Asia and then making an ... (read in full...)
Going down on a girl and tasting urine!
Q. Going down on a girl and tasting urine! I'm 22 and every time i go down on my girlfriend i either taste or smell urine, i'm guessing this is pretty normal? But the taste is putting me off deeply, i am struggling to eat her out even though i des...
A. 8 October 2010: "Hey, I'm going to have a shower. Why don't you join me..."... (read in full...)
I need help making the right choices to be healthy
Q. I have been feeling so sad about how I look and feel about myself. I really want to change my lifestyle by eating right and exercising. I want to get better physically and emotionally. They say that when you eat right and exercise that it makes you ...
A. 8 October 2010: It is really hard to get started because it seems that whatever you do will make so little difference. The task of changing your life and the way you look is dauntingly large. So, don't make a big deal out of it. Do 2 things:
- go for a walk r... (read in full...)
Should I feel insecure if I'm dating a woman who can beat me up?
Q. I'm not much of a fighter, and I have a question. Should I feel insecure if I happen to meet a gorgeous woman who could beat me in a fight? Is this a strange question, or is it a legitimate concern? Let's say she's a karate expert or somethi...
A. 7 October 2010: Whilst there is a strong in built desire in men to be the protector, realistically that can't always be the case. Most importantly there is more than one kind of strength. True strength doesn't have to be expressed through the ability to beat ... (read in full...)
Advice on boyfriend's porn.....
Q. I’ve been with this guy for almost ten years in a serious relationship and he is wonderful on many levels. However, long story short, I discovered porn on my boyfriend’s internet history by accident earlier this year and I confronted him about it. ...
A. 5 October 2010: Pornography study that was doomed to fail after scientists couldn't find a single man who hadn't viewed X-rated material
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For the guys, do you prefer skinny or thick?
Q. This is a question for guys only:) does weight matter when your in a relashion? do you guys prefer a skiny gf or thick...
A. 2 October 2010: Yes. Not thick.... (read in full...)
Wife taking 24 condoms on holiday when she is going with 3 other women.
Q. hi my wife and i have funny kind of marrage (i think we have been married a lot of years) yes i know how many 30. each year she and 3 old (well same age girlfriends go away on holiday for a week. this year they are going on a crusie and i was...
A. 2 October 2010: I think your best case scenario is that she is looking to smuggle heroin when she comes back. ... (read in full...)
I think my very conservative mother found my vibrator!
Q. Hi everyone! I used to live with my extremely conservative mother, but last year I decided to move to my mother's empty loft. She agreed because the alternative was to live farther to where she lives and we like spending time together every other da...
A. 30 September 2010: Do your best to pretend that it never happened.
Obviously I don't know anything about your mother BUT be aware that a lot of older people who appear very conservative (especially to their children) are actually a lot more understanding about th... (read in full...)
How long does a women's prime last?
Q. I'm a 26 year old women and lately I've been wanting sex more and more lately. I'm recently divorced and I'm not sure if it's because of my single life or I'm hitting my prime. All my friends tell me that I'm hotter than I was in my teens and early ...
A. 28 September 2010: Everyone is different, obviously, but in my experience women are at their most attractive and sexually desirable around 30-35. That is of course so long as they've kept in shape. ... (read in full...)
Sex in a pool?
Q. If l have sex in a pool will water enter into my girlfriend and if it does can it affect her vagina....
A. 24 September 2010: Completely harmless but make sure that it's your own pool as it might not be nice for other people to have to swim with the results of your activity.... (read in full...)
Did I over-react to the nurses comments?
Q. My boyfriend had knee surgery today. We r both in our thirties and the nurse looked about our age. Well she called him sweetie which didn't bother me but then she said babe r u ready to go in,well that mad me mad and I walked out. As I was walking ...
A. 15 September 2010: Over reacting. ... (read in full...)
Who is this girl on my laptop? Should I be worried?
Q. Me and my boyfriend have been together just over a year, its going great. we have had the odd argument here and there but other then that we have been going fine. However, the other night I took my laptop with me to his house as I was staying over ...
A. 13 September 2010: I think that you should be worried that he isn't the sharpest pencil in the case.... (read in full...)
How can you be cheating and committed in a marriage?
Q. I'm in a relationship with a married man have been for 6yrs. I love him he tells me he has feelings for me and he is very fond of me he doesn't want this to end His family is all grown up and married ,but what he tells me i find hard to understa...
A. 8 September 2010: Hard to explain but it makes sense to me.
I love my wife. She is wonderful and I have no wish for any other woman ever to be my wife. I hope that she is holding my hand when I die. And yet I have sex with quite a few other women includin... (read in full...)
Did he like the bj?
Q. I've given my boyfriend a blowjob a couple of times before but a couple of days ago I noticed that while i was doing that he had his eyes closed and he seemed relax.could this mean that he liked it? how can i give him a good blowjob?...
A. 6 September 2010: He liked it.... (read in full...)
Low sex drive... help!
Q. I am 35 year old man my sex drive is low. I love my wife, but i don't want it every day whereas she does! she is 46. What do I do?...
A. 6 September 2010: Maca.
& more sleep and more exercise.... (read in full...)
Masturbation side effects?
Q. What are the side effects of masturbation?...
A. 6 September 2010: Sleep.... (read in full...)
I had sex with my, guardian is it wrong?
Q. hey guys, i think i hav a bit of a problem... about 6 years ago, when i was 14, i moved to china (my parents wanted me to learn chinese). my parents hired a guardian to look after me and afterwards, both of them went to the U.S. Well, at first, t...
A. 5 September 2010: OK this seems a lot less bad than I originally thought when I looked at the headline. Basically you screwed your ayi (maid / housekeeper for those of you not from China) and that happens all the time. My guess would be that 10-15% of boys from ... (read in full...)
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