Married co-worker is like a drug to me
Q. 8 months ago I started a new job and everyone was talking about the Rob the cute married guy that has a bitch of a wife . She would show up at our office and yell at him in front of everyone, and he just seemed to allow her to do it. Within the ...
A. 15 June 2009: Tell him to "show you the papers", divorce papers that is. He may seem like the love of your life but right now he's the love of someone elses life. Namely his leagally wedded wife.
You don't really know why his wife was screaming at him. Ma... (read in full...)
What do you do when the people who hurt you are your family?
Q. I'm getting so FREAKING frustrated.. I've had many many hurtful people in my life. I've gotten to the point, that as soon as someone hurts me really badly, they're gone.. i don't even want them in my life becuase i know that they only lead to more ...
A. 14 June 2009: It is fine to quit talking to ANYONE who is not good for you. You have tried to keep in touch with your brother and you get nothing but a slap in the face. You are under no obligation to stay in contact with someone who not only is abusive but a ... (read in full...)
If I forgive my ex and take him back, my parents will hate me! Help!
Q. Hi everyone, ok I don't know what to do. I broke up with my bf of almost 3yrs. about a month ago. He liked to "joke" but I called it verbal abuse because I didn't like being called fatty or stupid. He has a temper but has never hit me, he punches ...
A. 12 June 2009: Find another man who will treat you with respect ALL of the time, not just when his butt is on the line. He's only going to act right for as long as it takes you to forgive and forget then he will be doing the same hurtful things again.
And w... (read in full...)
What should I do about my married man dilemma?
Q. Hi, Im desperately in need of some advice on my situation which I know may be a familiar one. I met a married man, who's 12 yrs older than me (I'm 35) just over 2 years ago, we clicked straight away and have fallen in love and our relationshi...
A. 12 June 2009: OH PLEASE!!
What is the problem? This is a married man who is going to stay married. He is NOT going to leave his wife and kids.
He has had and ended 3 affairs and you are nothing but the 4th notch on his belt. If you decide to leave ... (read in full...)
Baby gossip!
Q. I have endometriosis and my husband and I have been trying for a baby for 3 years with no luck. I was on clomiphene and have been told recently that I am not ovulating? I am booked in for IVF but have to lose 20kg before I can do it and was advised ...
A. 12 June 2009: We had a similar situation. We tried for 3 years also and was told that I wasn't ovulating. I was put on medication called clomid and metformin. I was on for about 5 months and I just gave up. I as so frustrated and depressed, I prayed and I said ... (read in full...)
He wants me to give my virginity to him to show my love
Q. Hey frnds plz............ help me to come out of the complicated situation. For the last 4 years i am in relationship with a married man. Though he never forced me for anything, i was equally involved. we both r Indians and in India this type of ...
A. 9 June 2009: Simple: Save it for your husband. This guy dosen't love you at all. He told you he just wanted physical relation. He can get that from anybody. What he wants is something that you can't get back again, ever. Save it for the man who will ... (read in full...)
How do I avoid impure sexual relationships?
Q. I have a strong faith in Jesus Christ..but it just is getting harder and harder to stay away from sexual-like relationships that are impure. what to do??...
A. 9 June 2009: I applaud your desire to uphold your faith. I know that it can be hard when sex seems to be all around you. Please try to network in your church, you will find a lot of support from your church faimly. and please know that pretty much all of t... (read in full...)
Should my husband and I swap with my sister and her husband?
Q. hi i am 34 years old married woman and my husband is 36 years old working in multinational. we both like sex too much and we do sex daily morning and night 2-3 times. now we are thinking to have sex with other married couple and both are agree. he ...
A. 9 June 2009: disaster waiting to happen. this is NOT a good idea.... (read in full...)
Will my boyfriend notice that I slept with someone else?
Q. I have a problem that needs some answers. I am in a relationship with my boyfriend and we don't have sex all the time because we don't live together. But when we are together we do. But I had sex with someone else and it was really good. I know when ...
A. 5 June 2009: Will he notice? Yes, if you give him an STD because you can't stay faithful.... (read in full...)
Tiring and stressing job, wife is upset as I don't spend enough time with her!
Q. My wife is really pissed off at me because I haven't had sex with her in 3 weeks. I have been tired and stressed out lately with my job. She says I reject her to much and she's getting fed up with it. Her birthday was last week and I missed cause I ...
A. 5 June 2009: Do you ever miss a meeting. You keep track of these dates and appointments right?
You need to schedule time with your wife and keep that date. Put her birthday, your anniversary etc. on your calander and set it to alert you a day or so early. ... (read in full...)
Why do people tell you, that you resemble someone unattractive?
Q. I hate when this happens. I am African-American and often, white people or non-blacks tell me I resemble someone who is very unattractive. Today someone told me that I look like Condellezza Rice! That is the worst insult I've ever received. Blac...
A. 4 June 2009: I think that Condoleezza Rice is a very nice looking, educated, professional Black Woman who was at the top of her game. She had a hand in running this country! I would take that as a compliment. Now if someone compared you to Flavor Flav... :... (read in full...)
He called me a selfish bitch because I don't want to have sex
Q. So I told my boyfriend that I don't want to do anything sexual with him mainly because it makes me feel uncomfortable. Well he gets mad at me cause I told him earlier I was going to gave him my virginity but I realize I wasn't ready. He called me a ...
A. 3 June 2009: You are a classy young lady who has set her boundries and refuses to let any one cross them. He won't talk to you. Great now you wont have to spend your valuable time telling him to buzz off! lol, I bet he won't forget that slap anytime s... (read in full...)
Abusive b/f and his sponging family
Q. my boyfriend and i have been together for 7 yrs. i'm 40 and he's 38.Most of the relationship has been very abusive both physical and emotional. He's been arrested 3 times as a result. his family treats me well as long as there's barbecues,parties,or ...
A. 3 June 2009: "I'm wondering if there's any hope for our future without his family." There is no hope for the future with him... Really 7 years??? that's way too long. one second after the first abusive episode was too long. arrested 3X and still bea... (read in full...)
My husband's contact with his ex
Q. I have been together with my husband for the last 6 years. we have been married for the last 2. We have one son. During our whole relationship it feels like his ex has been in the background. Since they day they have broken up she has repeated...
A. 3 June 2009: It does not seem like its the other girl messing around in your relationship it is your Husband. He needs to tell this woman to stop calling or contacting him in anyway. period. no matter what threats she makes. He is the one that is allowing ... (read in full...)
I really liked him, thought he likes me - but he's married!!!
Q. hi hope someone can offer their advice. i work with a guy and have only known him since february. since he joined and especially over the last 2 monts i have found myself physically and mentally attracted to him. he chats to me all the time and we ...
A. 3 June 2009: Don't even start this relationship. It will be disastrous. He may seem like a nice guy now, but just think if he does go after you he will have shown himself to be a liar and a cheat. someone who will cheat on his wife when she is highly pregnant ... (read in full...)
How do I cope with the fact that I was raped by my husband?
Q. The thing that I am having the hardest time dealing with is the fact that I was raped... by my husband. Everyone that I know is always saying "how can you be raped by your spouse?" Well, I would like to know if it is ok for me to feel like I am ...
A. 3 June 2009: I agree with Old Guy 100%. If you said NO and he force himself on you that equals RAPE. Husband or not.... (read in full...)
Should I talk to this girl who is wearing 2 bras to school? Or laugh with everyone else?
Q. K so there's this girl in my class who for some weird reason wears 2 bras everyday to school, should i talk to her about it maybe she needs someone to talk to ? Do i laugh along with everyone else!? Do i just leave it alone?? I dont what to do cuz ...
A. 3 June 2009: If she's your friend please talk to her. I'm sure she can tell that people are laughing at her and thats no fun. There my be a good reason why she needs to wear two bras.
Please do not laugh along with everyone else. there is nothing worse th... (read in full...)
Would it be a waste to stop having sex till we are married?
Q. My girlfriend has recently been having issues with premarital sex. We have had sex, and we both enjoy it, but sometimes she feels guilty about it. It goes back and forth. She is getting closer to God, and Im all for that. She has a very promiscuous ...
A. 2 June 2009: If she is trying to get closer to GOD you should respect that. And maybe you should join her. Eventhough she has had sex before does not mean she can't have a new beginning.
If you do something before knowing that it is wrong, you can't be... (read in full...)
B/f uses really bad words when we argue, he even pushes me or grabs me!
Q. My boyfriend and I had been together for more than a year. He is a really nice person except for his ego. He thinks he is all better and knows more than me because he is a year older. He also thinks that he has the rights for everything because he ...
A. 2 June 2009: This is the classic definition of an abusive relationship!!
Run don't walk, Send him on his way and you get on with your life. When he begs you to not leave him, tell him to talk to the hand, because the ears don't want to hear it!
Even... (read in full...)
His drinking , non-interest in sex or communicating is destroying our relationship, suggestions please?
Q. I would really appreciate some help with my dilema. I have been seeing a guy for the last 3 months. Things moved along quite quickly and he told me he loved me quite quickly. The feelings were soon recipricated on my half. We only see each other at...
A. 2 June 2009: "when he drinks he loses the urge to have sex"
If he knows this that means he is choosing to drink over having sex. It also means that hes choosing to drink over you. expecially after you told him that you "couldn't go on like this" that to ... (read in full...)
What could be the reason my girlfriend does not like oral sex?
Q. My GF won't let me go down on her. We are 23, been dating for almost 2 years, and live together. I'm just trying to figure this out. I really want to go down on her, it is such a turn on, but she won't let me. Sometimes, rarely, she'll let me...
A. 2 June 2009: It can get lonely when its just oral. Some women like to be held in big strong arms, when the time comes for the big O. ... (read in full...)
Argument over the weekend left me questioning her commitment!
Q. Hi, Me and my GF had an argument over the weekend over how much we see each other. we've been dating for about 4 months and we see each other exclusively on the weekends even though we live in the same town. I'm fine with that since we both work ...
A. 2 June 2009: When I went off to college my husband (then boyfriend) and I saw each other EVERY weekend a two hour trip one way. The first year I was in the dorms so I would come home to see him. The rest of the time I had my own appartment off campus so he ... (read in full...)
I have just broken up with my married boyfriend but I don't know if I've done the right thing...
Q. Last year i met this guy and i didnt know he was engaged,we were seeing each other almost every night in my place,we were getting on with each other so well and after 5-6 weeks his fiance called me and told me that they are engaged but i didnt tell ...
A. 30 May 2009: YES! you did the right thing. I know it hurt right now but it will get better. You have finally stood up and said "I'm not going to take this any more! I deserve to have someone love me ALL the time, not part of the time.
The fact that he ... (read in full...)
Controlling, disrespectful boyfriend -- or am I overreacting?
Q. I have been living with my boyfriend for 2 years. We actually knew each other 3 yrs prior just as friends talking. Well, I have many things that I consider a red flag. When we moved in together he became very jealous. He would accuse of doing things ...
A. 29 May 2009: It only gets worse after marriage! You should NOT marry this man!!! In fact you shouldn't even talk to this man, much less be in a relationship with him.
Like the other poster said. pack his crap and anything or anybody associated with him... (read in full...)
He doesn't reply to my texts
Q. hi My name is Vicky. I don't understand guys at all,there is aguy in my English class. He always ask me out, like hang out, having lunch, and shopping today. Some of his friend say he likes me, he tells me everything. But when the classes over, i ...
A. 29 May 2009: Maybe he's not much for texting. I myself don't really check for text messages unless some one says "hey, I sent you a text message". ... (read in full...)
Ladies, I have a lot of pubic hair which I want removed, how do I ask my mom to get me something that will take care of it, did you ever have this problem?
Q. This question is only for girls. I am thirteen and going thu puberty... obviously. any way I have a lot of pubic hair that show on the bekini line and I really want my mom to buy me nair wax strips for bikini lone or something like that but...
A. 29 May 2009: dear, you just say mom when I tried on my bathing suit I'm wearing to the pool party, I have all of this hair showing.
Your mom will know exactly what to do. please understand we all shave to keep ourselves presentable. whether its under yo... (read in full...)
Having an affair with a married man, he is attentive, calls and texts me all during the day, do you think there is a future here?
Q. I have been having an affair with a married man for 11 months we have known each other for 30 years, we get on great together have good sex he has never made promises he can,t keep, when we talk about the future he indicates he wants to be with me ...
A. 29 May 2009: I agree with rythymandblues. why would you ever think there is any future in this for you and he. and why would you want it. he has already shown you that he is a lier and a cheat. you know this first hand.
he calls and texts you. well tha... (read in full...)
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