I have a problem with my boyfriend watching porn.
Q. I have a problem with my boyfriend watching porn. I just get really jealous. Is this normal or am I just being paranoid???? Should I just let him watch it??? ...
A. 31 March 2008: welcome to the club dear.. my man watches porn and when i see the stuff he watches....creepy. my skin crawls becauseI HATE and refuse to do anal sex and his porn is, fisting, dbl penetration. it disgusted me so istarted watching porn. I watch..Gay ... (read in full...)
A married woman has fallen for me, and I like her a lot, what should I do now?
Q. Ok, so i'm in and odd situation and i really don't know what to do. let me explain and maybe y'all can help me out. First of all, let me go on to say that yes i know this is wrong i dont need any tips telling me i am a horrible perosn. I met thi...
A. 24 March 2008: NEVER EVER MESS WITH MARRIED PEOPLE!!!!!!!
BAD karma for urself, and, u dont want to have to deal with an angry husband. rember this much. a person who has nothing left to lose is a angerous person to mess with..
i know i would not want o be on th... (read in full...)
Should I just try to forget about him as we're both married, or really open up before he goes to visit his wife?
Q. I have been happily married and with my husband for 12 years. I am in my late 40's, and my husband is in his late 50's. Lately, my sex drive is through the roof and my husband is not interested. In the past few months, I have become friends with ...
A. 22 March 2008: tread carefully because u dont want to be a homewrecker. he has a child so i would back off and move on with ur husband, if u know ur happy, regardless of ur higher libido and lack of sex, then why dstroy it? u will just be the one to lose out in ... (read in full...)
The Truth about Pubic Hair?
Q. Hi, I am a 15 year old girl and my boyfriend has been wanting to finger me but I am afraid to because I am afraid he will think pubes are gross. I tried shaving them but I had trouble doing a good job and after like a day it was just stubbly and ...
A. 22 March 2008: HI! first, try engaging in a conversation about sex, and stuff, and make a comment like, u know, i think its gross when girls dont shave their pubes, eh? see what he says, if he says yea, its gross, then u know whats his preference!nowadays its ... (read in full...)
He is still "in love" with me so why does he have a new girlfriend?
Q. My ex boyfriend and I of almost 2 years had a seemingly great relationship. A few problems that would occur would mainly be because of me. I always pushed him away whenever he got too close. I was at times selfish. He's the most amazing boyfriend ...
A. 19 March 2008: Be patient. He's trying to do some soul searching and figure out what HE wants. He wants to explore. A word of advice, don't ever push someone away who shows obvious affection and concern. It's very painful to them, and damaging. If they can't be ... (read in full...)
We moved together after graduation, our sex life deteriorated and we argue constantly - althout we love each other! I don't know what to do to improve our relation!!
Q. ok i am 19 and my boyfriend is 20, we met our senior year of high school and moved in together after we graduated and we just bought a house and everything.everything was great in the beginning and our sex life was wonderful but now we never have ...
A. 18 March 2008: I THINK u two moved too quickly in the realationship. although, my man and i have been together for 2 and half yrs, have a 1 yr old daughter and lived together almost immediatley, but our sex life has never decreased. i was lucky enough to not h... (read in full...)
I'm engaged but the love of my life is another man who doesn't even know I have a fiance.
Q. I'm in love with 2 men i feel terrible. I've been in a relationship for almost 3 years and im ruining it due to long distance problems; he is 24 and i am 20. I've meet this wonderful man i cant be away from him i think about him all the time but...
A. 16 March 2008: THERES NO EASY WAY TO SAY THIS! but, u could leave ur fiance and be with this new guy, not say anything and he might never know because the fiance is as u say, far away.
however, i condone honesty, and so many different scenarios can come frpom this... (read in full...)
I am very worried the violence will start up again if I have this baby...what can I do??
Q. I am in a relationship with a very controlling (sometimes abusive man)... we've been together since we were both 22... I got pregnant when I was 23, and I moved into his apartment so we could raise the baby together. When I was about 3 months p...
A. 16 March 2008: sweetie, u need to know what is the definition of love. he belittles u, and hes hit u in the past, hes threatened ur child before while pregnant, and U STILL LOVE HIM?
in many places childrens protection services will remove the children forc... (read in full...)
Risk of pregnancy in 4-5 days after her period?
Q. my condom broke and my girlfriends period ended five days ago what are the chances that she'll get pregnant?...
A. 16 March 2008: EVERY girl is differnet, but 14 days after the perid, when they ovulate.they can tell sometimes, because the vagina becomes very eggwhitey in mucus, stringy. these are signs of ovulation. so, yes, 14 days after is ovulation, take morn after pill ... (read in full...)
How can I relieve my frustration?
Q. is there some things i can do to relieve my sexual wants besides jacking off or having sex? my fiance is pregnant like 2 months in and i am so turned on but she isn't so i need some pointers as to what i can do to relieve this sexual want....
A. 15 March 2008: I think she feels insecure about her body and obvious weight gain... most women feel like fat whales. Lets face it, you can tell her all you want she's sexy, but truth be told, she feels fat. I'm 5 ft 2 96 pounds, had a kid with my man and while ... (read in full...)
Why do I hurt so bad when I'm not with him?
Q. I'm like so in love with this guy right now and I like being in love but I feel sad sometimes like I can't be without him and when we are together everything is great but as soon as we part It makes me feel terrible why does it hurt so bad? Is love ...
A. 15 March 2008: my dear, love can be tender, it can taste as sweet as the nectar in paradise, it can be as painful as an aching of the heart.... i am with a guy for almost 3 years, we have been inseperable from the day we met. i will tell u to give u an idea, of ... (read in full...)
What is "dirty sex" and what do you have to do?
Q. My boyfriend suggested on the phone this morning that we should have dirty sex as it's fun, I said why, trying to find answers about what it is, WHAT IS DIRTY SEX AND WHAT DO YOU HAVE TO DO?...
A. 15 March 2008: dirty sex can be any of the following: fisting, oral, anal, double penetration using a toy and ones penis, rimjobs on eachothers anus,69ing, hearpulling, chokefuck, cumming on ur facial regions or other regions, rough sex, roleplaying, domination ... (read in full...)
He looks at porn - does this mean he doesn't love me?
Q. hi my partner has a addiction to looking at porn magazines and acts on them masterbates over them i was just wondering how much of a percentage of partners do this is it that theyre not happy with there sex life and partner i dont know how to think ...
A. 14 March 2008: Sweetie, porn gives men a differnt view of sex visually etc, and whatever their fantasy or fetishes are, it fulfills. I'm a woman, I do watch porn, I love viewing gay porn, it's my fetish. It creeped my man out at first, but then, he loves watching ... (read in full...)
He says he loves me but would never marry me!
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together for 6 years, we have 4 kids together and he has been married before and engaged before. The other day I was talking to him and he said that he would never marry me. So I got very angry I am not talking to him ...
A. 14 March 2008: He sees his relationship with you as committment enough, most likely. He's been through it before, and perhaps he thinks he's not ready to commit in that boat but is content to be common law with you. A piece of paper sounds great, but I'd settle ... (read in full...)
I feel like a slave but he doesn't hit me too hard so maybe he will be better after we have children...
Q. My husband comes from a family where the men are always in charge. He was very nice to me when we were dating and after we got married he changed like he thinks he is my master. I feel like a slave sometimes and if I don't do what I am supposed to ...
A. 14 March 2008: uh, if you think things will quiet after you have a kid, you're in for one nasty surprise. guess who will be stuck looking after a colicky baby, changing diapers etc? all the responsiblities will fall upon you. and, your poor child will have him as ... (read in full...)
After 24 years of marriage, my husband says he still loves his ex and has filed for divorce!
Q. I have been married 24 years and my husband just told me a month ago that he is still in love with his old girlfriend before me. He told me that he has never stopped loving her and that he doesn't love me the same way, never has. We have 2 grown ...
A. 14 March 2008: i have to agree with askeve, nobody just says off the hop after 24 yrs of marriage and 2 kids he never loved you like his ex, etc, and it sounds like he pursued her and either was met with rejection or just lost some interest. whatever the case, ... (read in full...)
I thought it was a girls-night-out, drank too much, and woke up next to a naked man...what should I do about telling my husband?
Q. I'm not sure what to do. My husband went away for a business trip that extended into last Saturday (because he had a late Friday meeting, and he was several hours away). My in-laws took the kids for the weekend for a visit. My girlfriend invited me ...
A. 13 March 2008: depends hjow long u have been together, and if ur always a truthful person to him. if ur a constant liar in the relationship, even about small silly things, he might not believe u. but if u have always been an honestb person and ur character lies ... (read in full...)
The mother of my child wants to date a drug dealer - help!
Q. my ex says she has no feelings for me and there is a new guy texting and calling her who is a drug dealer. my ex is asking how i would react if she started seeing him. as we have a 3yr old son together. obviously im not happy to say the least. what ...
A. 13 March 2008: well, i wont lie. i have 4 children, im 30 yrs old, AND HONESTLY, PEOPLE think im lying when i say i had 4 children. at 96 pounds well, u do the math. but i work out all the time. motivation to loook better is very important.now, to ur question ... (read in full...)
She says she's been thinking about me all along. The fact she slept with somebody else during our break up, however, is tearing me apart!
Q. Hello. I dated a girl for about 4 months, in which we fell in love very quickly. We took each others virginity. Things began to wither away and she broke up with me. I recovered alright and was with several different girls, but did not have sex...
A. 12 March 2008: dont be hurt by the fact she was with another guy sexually. actuall think of it this way. every relationship u enter brings u knowledge and furthers ur experience in life. so if u two get back together, she will be not the innocent she was before. ... (read in full...)
I love him and want to get marry but he doesn't. What should I do?
Q. I've met this man 18 years my senior when I divorced my husband of 22 years. He helps me to go through the divorce and get my life back on track. We get on well and been together two years now. I love him and want to get marry but he doesn't. ...
A. 12 March 2008: is it possible theres more to this story here? why did u get divorced? it could be discouraging to him to marry u if he views u as a woman with a lot of baggage. he might love u, and sure hes been there for u. but marriage is a committment one cant ... (read in full...)
I have lost my sex drive after pregancy and now I feel like I am pushing my man away.
Q. Before I had my first child who is almost 2 now my sex life was fabulous. I was great in bed and pleased my man. I thought to myself I was going to make a man very happy when I settled down. During my pregnancy we barely ever had sex, I was sick a ...
A. 9 March 2008: NOTHINGS wrong per say, i have a yr old daughter and lately i have been uninterested. pregnant, we banged every second like cymbals in a band. however, its hard to get into the mood. did u guys plan this pregnancy or was it accidental. because if it ... (read in full...)
My live-in partner has cybersex and watches porn. I want to leave but he always convinces me to give him another chance!
Q. I've been dealing with this problem for almost a year now... First of all, I'm 23, and my boyfriend is 42. We met 4 1/2 years ago, when he was still married, and stupid me, I was his "mistress" for a little while until he was busted and got ...
A. 8 March 2008: one word for u sweetie. get the hell out. forget about the cybersex etc. but kids? where do u think u should draw the line honey? this is the line boundary and he crossed way over it. u should of known better, being his mistress. did u honestly ... (read in full...)
If a boy does not answer a text promptly, does it mean he is not very interested in the sender?
Q. This is a question for the guys to naswer. See when you like a girl and she sends you a text message, how long does it take you to answer? Do you answer straight away or do you leave it a day or so? If you leave it a while does that mean you're ...
A. 8 March 2008: u need to understand, people dont sit idle all day and live by their text messages. lighten up a little and realize she could be working, on a bus, driving, on the throne, sleeping, etc and did not answer u right away. anyhow its not what id call a ... (read in full...)
My gf watches too much porn, it has not affected our sex life but I do feel somewhat insecure!
Q. This is probably an unusual question but I need help with it so please bear with me I've been with my girlfriend for nearly 4 years, and this has been a problem for about the last 2 and a half, we cannot seem to resolve it. She watches way too ...
A. 8 March 2008: dear sir, women love men who are confident. key word here. i watch porn occasoionally, and i love gay porn its a turn on for many women, as lesbian porn is for men. although men are the more squeimish when it comes to knowing girls like watching ... (read in full...)
Do I risk my childrens' sake by returning to my abusive ex whom I still love?
Q. Last october i got out of a 8yr relationship 18months of it i was married....my husband was violent towards me...he could be the most wounderful man and also be very nasty...i walked out in last year not looking back...i have managed to set up my ...
A. 2 March 2008: missus, i was in an arranged marriage of which i was 16 at the time. He not only abused me severely, he raped me every chance he got, as husbands have conjugal rights over their wives. However, i left him although not until 6 yrs later, when i w... (read in full...)
I saw a flirty txt on his phone and now he won't let me see his phone bill...are guys just like that??
Q. hi, my fiance changed careers at the start of the year and has to train for 5 months. He doesnt come home at night until after 9 every night apart from Fri and Sat. When I approached the subject of setting a date for the wedding for a year and a ha...
A. 26 February 2008: no, not all guys are like that just like not all women are squirrelly in the head. but, i will say there is definitely suspicious behvior going on here. u know his routines and behaviors and if somethings changed then u need to rethink what u want. ... (read in full...)
How do I get him interested again?
Q. my husband and i have been experiencing difficulties in our marriage he tells me a part of him has died and he's not happy anymore. he says that he feels i was never interested in him much and it is definately not true. I was just too busy taking ...
A. 26 February 2008: take the advice from the rest sweetie, but if u notice after some time hes still unresponsive, ask urself this. can u keep on trying to rescuscitate the dead? but try to do what u can. do spontaneous things, or plan a trip and do it when u know he ... (read in full...)
I cheated - what shall I do?
Q. I cheated on my boyfiend at the New Year he doesn't know but I was wondering what I should do, he doesn't suspect anything. Shall I just keep it to myself or tell him what happened? Please help this is so important....
A. 26 February 2008: u should tell him and let the cards deal the results. remeber, if it was the reverse.... u should not even be asking this question. it should be clear what must be done. however, u should not of ever of cheated on him. then u would not be in this ... (read in full...)
I am attracted to a woman at work. Does she feel the same?
Q. I am a woman and I have developed a very close relationship with a woman I work with. We have become best friends and I have intimate thoughts of her. We are both married. She kisses me on the lips quite a bit. When we are out drinking and danc...
A. 26 February 2008: i think in the very least, yes there is "attraction", perhaps she feels towards u what u feel towards her but she does not want to risk losing ur friendship as much as u feel the same.y best advice is u both get a little drunk one day and "play a ... (read in full...)
Why are some guys sooo obsessed with anal?
Q. Why are some guys sooo obsessed with anal? Some guys out there think it's great to fuck girls in the ass and some are really sick enough to have such things like magnam flashlights in girls asses on their porn files etc so what's the deal about...
A. 21 February 2008: just wanted to say thanks to you all...... (read in full...)
Should he pay for this pregnancy termination?
Q. I had a pregnancy termination last week as my partner and I agreed we are not ready to bring a child into the world. We have been together over a year. The contraceptive failure was my mistake (forgot to take the pill for a couple of days) and he ...
A. 20 February 2008: I think u both should foot the costs of the abortion dear. it takes two. he deposited his semen in u, u forgot to take ur pills. so u should of payed 100 $ and he should of footed the rest. i would not demand him to pay the entire thing. what righjt ... (read in full...)
Should I risk my marriage for the girl at work??
Q. I'm a married man but there I'm tempted to cheat on my wife with a gorgeous brunette in my office. Shes cute, funny and has a gorgeous bum. The only problem she has a serious boyfriend and I'm married. She flirts with me and I flirt back, we h...
A. 20 February 2008: i fell sorry for ur wife. the fact u went to the toilets to meet" miss gorgeous bum" is despicable. if u cant remain faithful then why dont u leave ur weife amicably and honorably. without cheating. u can just tell her ur not happy and u dont want ... (read in full...)
I feel as if he has a wandering eye...
Q. Hi I'm in a rather serious relationship with a guy, we have been together for 1 year 2 months. We also live together. Yesterday when I returned from work he told me that there were two "hot chicks" that came to our home to renew our contract. He ...
A. 20 February 2008: first of all, u should be happy at least he said something, he could of eyed them up and kept quiet. women are so weird at times, its a catch 22 with us because we want men to be honest and tell us if we look fat in a dress but get all bent out of ... (read in full...)
What's the best position for a G-spot orgasm?
Q. What's the best position for a G-spot orgasm? I only ever really come from clitoral stimulation, and not from intercourse, any hot tips?...
A. 20 February 2008: on stomach ass raised in air, partner enters and move his hips slightly while thrusting at same time.. i find this phenomenole!putting a big pillow under hips helps, cowgirl also is great u sit on him and grind ur vagina back and forth hard and u ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend can be a real bitch sometimes!
Q. I really love my girlfriend of the past year and a half and we have even talked of marriage. The problem is that whenever she gets a little bit frustrated and stressed about something (her job, waiting in a long line, etc...) she takes it out on me ...
A. 20 February 2008: I might be a woman but no woman is entitled to be a bitch just because of hormones. Women use it as an excuse or copout. Sounds to me like you need to really take some more time on the sidelines and be the quiet observer. If she can't handle the ... (read in full...)
Trapped in a loveless marruage and I want to end it...but I can't leave my kids.
Q. Dear Readers, I have been in a loveless marriage with my wife for the past 11 years. Please don’t judge me, but there has never been any sort of love between us and therefore I have always cheated on her which she is fully aware of but doesn’t ...
A. 20 February 2008: dear sir, i have to say that when one enters a marriage, its not a joke. if u knew there was no love in the beginning what compelled u to marry her? both of u have scarred eachother for life and now u have children who will pay the price. and ur ... (read in full...)
Two weeks ago he came out and told me that he had sex with another girl in September and he swears that after that nothing happened.
Q. I have this boyfriend that I have been with for 7 months and we love each other so much, but about two weeks ago he came out and told me that he had sex with another girl in September and he swears that after that nothing happened, he had been ...
A. 19 February 2008: my dear, why is he telling u now, if it happened in september? if he felt so badly about it he would of told u a while back. my guess is theres some other outside pressure that forced him to spill,uh, the beans. and a cheater is a cheater. people ... (read in full...)
Why are some guys sooo obsessed with anal?
Q. Why are some guys sooo obsessed with anal? Some guys out there think it's great to fuck girls in the ass and some are really sick enough to have such things like magnam flashlights in girls asses on their porn files etc so what's the deal about...
A. 19 February 2008: in response to the confusion here i should of said that whats good for the goose is good for the gaander. i really dont want to fuck a guys ass , its the whole idea of the fact that men are ok with giving but not taking..if u know what i mean. and ... (read in full...)
How can I stop having sex with my brother? I know it's wrong and I know it has to stop, I just don't know how!
Q. My parents went away for the weekend and my brother and I threw a party. After a wild night of drinking and everyone had left we made an attempt at cleaning up. We started messing about throwing stuff and toy fighting until he held me down and ...
A. 18 February 2008: lol, paxil zoloft, hell take some oxy cotons and some ketamine too. u should be ashamed laura. drunk is no excuse.. u had better get out of that situation fast or find urself in a jail cell.any lawyers or officers of the law who view this page ... (read in full...)
Sometimes I am laid in his bed naked and he is still masturbating to porn...what should I do??
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for three years. We have sex almost everyday, sometimes more than once. I want to know why he is looking at porn everyday, sometimes more than once? I try my best to satisfy him. Am I the problem? I tried to talk to ...
A. 18 February 2008: i can relate to u very well... my bf watched a lot of porn and woulkd have the balls to do it while i lay asleep in bed 3 ft away. and im a very horny girl who loves sex and will give it him almost whatever way he want. im humping his legs every ... (read in full...)
Choice between abortion or keeping it
Q. If anyone here has ever had the choice to make between keeping a baby, making a person you love very much happy or aborting a baby and having a future, please help me! I'm 17 and a college student. I've been dating my boyfriend for almost 10 mo...
A. 18 February 2008: i will tell u right now, the best choice is to have an abortion.. think of it this way, if u have the baby and some thing happened to the father, where will u be then? welfare? looking for another father to be for ur child? no education? its not ... (read in full...)
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