How long until I can truly move on?
Q. Why am I still feeling this way? It’s been 1 year since the break up. One full year –time has flew by. Is it even possible to still feel LOVE? How long does it take to get over it. I know there is no possibility of me getting back especially ...
A. 7 November 2008: for every year experts say add an extra year, or something close to that.... (read in full...)
If we marry, I will have to move to his country...not sure if I can do this! Any advice?
Q. Dear Cupid, My boyfriend and I are considering getting married. Actually, from the beginning of our relationship, our intention is to see if we were a match. Over the year, we have communicated almost every day and are completely in love. The prob...
A. 27 October 2008: i dont know about u, dear, but if im feeling 100% and the guys on the same page, id get up and go. as a matter of fact, i was engaged to a thailandi guy i met in israel i was living there for 2 and a half yrs and he was a foreign worker there, he ... (read in full...)
Should I cheat, get a girl on the side ?
Q. I am loyal to my wife and I do work very hard (80+ hours a week) to provide for my family. I am Nice to be with, a good lover and a strong sex drive. How ever I am soo frustrated because we have sex once a month. I expect my day to end with a nice ...
A. 25 October 2008: buddy, u have ALL the options in the world available to u, with the exception of cheating. communicate to ur wife,without sounding like ur whining, how u feel about this, get her feelings about the situation and perhaps with luck, her valid reasons ... (read in full...)
Is it really so horrible for me to want to know if my husband has quit smoking pot or not?
Q. My husband and I have been married two and a half years (Mar '06), and have been together nearly five. We have two children together, our eldest will be four in about a month, and our youngest is fifteen months. I first learned of my husband's ...
A. 21 October 2008: while i am not a condoner of drugs, i dare call marijuana a " bad drug" seeing as it is an herb that has certain qualities to it. ur concern should be his drinking habits, as alchol kills. marijuana does not inebriate u in the same fashion. i know ... (read in full...)
I'm afraid my boyfriend might leave me when he finds out I'm pregnant!
Q. I have a couple problems that I need help with, so can somebody please answer my call for help? 1. I might be pregnant. 2. The father is a boy who doesn't even like me. 3. I've only had sex with two guys and now everyone who knows that tr...
A. 13 October 2008: and thats why we agony aunts take the time and have the genuine concern to tell young folk like u that you are just too young for relationships. that sex can wait. ur bf is immature. and if have these doubts in him and he is not even aware of this ... (read in full...)
How can I convince her to keep our unborn child?
Q. Hello cupid readers.... I once came upon this site about 3 months ago, when I had just found out that I got a 15 year old pregnant. I decided to delete my old account becuse of the rude things I was told. Now I have come back for advice, but not for ...
A. 7 October 2008: if she decides to adopt the child out, then why dont u take charge and go ahead and adopt the child urself. and if she wants nothing to do with the child, well, so be it. u got what u wanted and she can move on with her life and not look back. this ... (read in full...)
Can a marriage survive when sex is so important to one person and so not important to the other?
Q. My husband and I have not had sex in 5 months. I am pregnant - 6 months pregnant. We have other children and have been married for six years. We have gone to counseling for our marriage because we do not have sex nearly as often as I would like. ...
A. 1 October 2008: well, i know this much is true. the shoe being on the other foot, if it was ur husband complaining about lack of sex, well, i know plenty of married men who are budddies of my bf and they cheat secretively behind the wifes back, they have kids, some ... (read in full...)
Should I have a baby with a married man who is my best friend?
Q. Dear Agony Aunts Hello everyone my situation is rather difficult but yet could be reduced down quite simply so I am going to try and keep this as short as possiable. I am currently in a relationship with a married man. I know what I am doing is...
A. 3 August 2008: i think the courts would have a hard time with custody placement once they knew the entirety of the story... no man can morally just impregnate any girl with the knowledge they are going to run off after and take their progeny with them. it does not ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is unsupportive about the pregnancy and I am not sure I should keep this baby...
Q. i am 20 yrs old and i just found out i am pregnant. we used a condom and it broke. i took the day after pill and that didnt work. the guy wants to get rid of it because he's not ready. i haven't told my parents yet but i will sometime this week. he ...
A. 20 July 2008: it depends on ur weakness and strengths. some can handle single motherhood like a professional, others are just not made for it. it also depends at what stage u are in life. its sad yes, how a lot of guys whine about the responsibility of being a ... (read in full...)
How can I flirt online or a webcam?
Q. Can everyone gives me ways to flirt with a guy or MSN and webcam ??? and also flirty questions I could ask my guy ??? ...
A. 20 July 2008: well, if u ever plan to get a little more then simply sexy on cam, keep the cam from the waist down and never offer a facial view, as like the other girl has mentioned, it could come back and haunt u. there are ways to flirt. guys are not quite the ... (read in full...)
Should I just see what happens or step it up before the moment is gone?
Q. hi from the first couple of weeks i started to have feeling for my friend, he said he would think about it......a year on i have had a two month relationship, and he has just told me he regrets not taking the chance, AHHHHH, i am soo confused now ...
A. 20 July 2008: well, a same situation happened to myself. my best friend whom id known since grade 7,im now 31 yrs old. he was a very much sought after guy,in school, and high school. famous for his fiery flaming red gorgeous ringlets, girls envied his luscious ... (read in full...)
I really like this guy, but we're both leaving, can our relationship work?
Q. okay so Ive been dating this guy for awhile now. since begining of april. I have never been so into a guy befor. I know we love eachother. Only thing is this fall he is leaving for school, and I am leaving for a 9 month program were i cant come hom...
A. 17 July 2008: ANYTHING can work, if u want it to. its a matter of application and dedicationn to commiting oneself to something they believe in with all their heart. love is no exception. bear in mind it takes two to have the same committing feelings and being aw... (read in full...)
How can I understand just how much I've hurt her by cheating on her??
Q. My fiancee and i broke up about 5 months ago because she found out i cheated on her, i have changed the way i live my life and have become a great person, i will never chea t again, i have stopped drinking, and lying and living the terrible way i ...
A. 1 July 2008: she will never ever forget the incident, despite how much you grovel and beg and change. one may forgive, and its a noble and very hard act to do, as ones emotions are involved, and itys a matter of the heart. u see, no mattter what, she will ... (read in full...)
Do you think smokimg pot affects a future marriage or that is ok?
Q. My current bf smokes pot three times a day,but he seems like a nice guy, my ex wants me back (he does not smoke weed),do you think smokimg pot affects a future marriage or that is ok? Help...
A. 12 June 2008: pot is a natural herb used for yrs by people of all cultures. i know men who were born with attention deficit disorder and marijuana worked better then ritalin, a notorious drug many parents conflict over. while pots illegal, and can have ... (read in full...)
I had anal sex, is there any possible way I might be pregnant?
Q. I'm 16, My boyfriend and I have been messing around and have only had anal sex! I have missed my period and I'm very moody! It there any possible way that I could be pregnant? Please help I'm so scared!...Thank You...x...
A. 5 June 2008: heehee . yes ,its very possible for u to be pregnant.... with brown babies! nah, the chances are next to none, i agree with peter pan. but ouchy! anal? damn ur brave. ... (read in full...)
Should I cut my ex out of our kids lives?
Q. Hey, just wondering if anybody had any advice for me. I split with my ex last year and now she's starting playing silly games. She arranged to take the kids out on Sunday (I look after them) and I'd made 100% sure with her that it was fine for her ...
A. 5 June 2008: how old are ur kids? if there old enough to communicate their thoughts fairly maturely on the matter i would talk to them and ask how they feel about the issue. if they are too young, well, i would not cut her out of their lives. unless she was ... (read in full...)
I'm finding it extremely hard fullfilling his pissing fetishes!!
Q. I told my b/f I'd do every single one of his fantasies at least once, but it's hard. He has a urine fetish, and I'm finding it really hard to go through with! He wanted me to drink it, to pee myself, to let him pee inside me...basically lots of stuf...
A. 21 May 2008: well, if he is looking for some of his fetishes to be fulfilled, and they sound rather extreme. then id turn the tables on him and tell him how much u have always wanted to fuck a guy in the ass. with a strapon. lets see how he reacts to that. my ... (read in full...)
My fiance's ex has poisoned their daughters mind
Q. my fiance recently brought his daughter to live with him after not seeing her for 7yrs an no contact for 5yrs,during the last 2yrs her mother has poisoned her mind against me so ive been made to stay away along with our 3yr old son whom is her ...
A. 18 May 2008: i know this sounds a little weird, but a lot of woman, and men, are extremly protective meaning, that she does not want u to start taking over her role as the childs mother. she may even be nervous that her daughter may start calling u mom and that ... (read in full...)
We've been together for more than 10 years but I'm determined not to forgive his infidelity, what do you think?
Q. I found out my husband had an affair a year and a half ago. The only reason it's over now is because the other woman ended it. The whole thing lasted about a month. He was angry that she hurt him, not sure if he tried to win her back or anyt...
A. 18 May 2008: there are many things one can forgive, whether easily or not. but infidelity is a very very difficult thing to forgive. and while partners can lay the blame and have a million reasons why they cheated, in the end, thheres no excuse. its better to ... (read in full...)
Hay! This is a bit off-saddle for this site, but I need to stirrup some horse fans!
Q. Hey I know this is a bit off topic for this site, but I need help on something. Does anyone on here horse ride?! Yes, it sounds weird to ask that, I know. But I started back in february and have just began to canter. Finding it awful! I just ge...
A. 17 May 2008: i have been riding all my life, i recommend as well bareback but if ur riding in a stable for lessons then the instructor cant allow it most likely. i.e insurance etc. however, there is a very awesome trick here u can apply as a leg aid while ... (read in full...)
If I want to look at porn, I have a right, right?
Q. My girlfriend found porn on the computer yesterday that we share. I accidentally left the history up and she looked through it and saw what I had been looking at. I told her I was bored and those websites were in the magazine I was reading so I ...
A. 16 May 2008: no im not twisted and neither do i have anger towards men. but im not afraid to say exactly what needs to be said. and it does get annoying to hear men who whine over why they canty watch porn, and why their gfs are upset when the clear answers are ... (read in full...)
What do men feel when their penis enters a vagina?
Q. what do men feel when their penis enters a vagina? and what do they feel as a woman has orgasms? can they feel the spasms of the vagina? and a friend of mine had 5 kids, shes worried her vagina is not that tight any more as she cant feel all the ...
A. 15 May 2008: sorry to disappoint u fellas. its not me who had the 5 kids . not everyone who ask questions are lying and are really talking about themselves. its all factual and questions that we ask for our own reasons which are not necessarily anyones business ... (read in full...)
If I want to look at porn, I have a right, right?
Q. My girlfriend found porn on the computer yesterday that we share. I accidentally left the history up and she looked through it and saw what I had been looking at. I told her I was bored and those websites were in the magazine I was reading so I ...
A. 15 May 2008: porn should be for single individuals who are horny and going thru a dry spell between relationships. for gods ske, unless shes a frigid chic who does not want sex often, and then i can understand u do have needs... but if shes pleasing u, why the ... (read in full...)
Is it normal for a guy to have small white spots in his underwear?
Q. Is it possible for a guy to have small traces of semen on his underwear even if he did not have sex that day. My boyfriend occassionaly has two or three white spots on his underwear but yet we didn't have sex that day. I don't know how to approach ...
A. 14 May 2008: could be hes whacking a doodle doo i.e to porn. and AFTER HE PULLS HIS UNDERWEAR UP AND THE LEFTOVERS LEAK ONTO HIS DRAWERS. it could be remnants of cream from jerking off, etc so i would not really worry too too much on this issue. if men saw ... (read in full...)
I don't have kids yet, but I'm considering quitting my job to be a stay-at-home mom.
Q. I'm considering quitting my job to be a stay-at-home mom. I've been working all my life. I don't have kids yet, but planning to soon. I heard it gets lonely. Should i do it?...
A. 14 May 2008: while its extre,mly rewarding to be a stay at home mom, and its not necessarily lonely if ur in moms groups or other community programs that connect u to other parents etc. however, who wants to be surrounded by like with like ALL THE TIME? but, it ... (read in full...)
I'm a virgin but I told him I wasn't. Will he be able to tell?
Q. theres this guy who i was nearly going out with. i'm a virgin, but for some stupid reason i came up with this story that i wasnt and he believed it. i was just wondering, if i had sex with him, would he be able to tell that i am a virgin or not? ...
A. 4 May 2008: most probably, he will notice some difference if hes sexually active and has had sex with both virgins and non - alike.
u wont be able to hide the fact ur in pain, not alll virgins do feel pain, but if ur one of the unlucky ones, good luck biti... (read in full...)
Is eating cheating? As in having a sexual encounter with a another female.
Q. Okay one quick question. If you are a married woman, and you have sexual relations with another woman is it cheating?...
A. 4 May 2008: yes dear, anything that involves oral, anal, vaginal, is cheating, anything that u feel guilty about cuz u know ur wrong is usually cherating, anything that involves sneaking behind ur partners back, even if theres no sex but its a date is and can ... (read in full...)
I now have to work with two people I have previously slept with, how do I keep it cool?
Q. I'll probably get judged as a complete slapper here (understandable)....but please give me some good advice before judgement. I know, i know....it's my own fault. I'm a student, and done temping work last summer for a great firm. I loved it, and ...
A. 30 April 2008: simple. if it was no more than sex, then u have to treat it as such. u need to treat it in the same perspective as a guy would. sex is sex and anyhting else more than that is just that.keep it professional. and dont let on ur uneasy. most guys will ... (read in full...)
I'm thinking of having anal sex with a man so I can experience what my GF feels with me...
Q. I'm thinking of having anal sex with a guy so i can experience what my gf does with me .will i get the same sensation?...
A. 16 April 2008: while dildos can simulate the real thing, nothing does the job like a real dick. experimenting just to see what ur wife feels is NOT having gay tendencies. people need to read and study what really being gay or homosexual really is and what is the ... (read in full...)
One of my questions is - will my brother mind me dating his friend?.....
Q. Hi, i'm a 14 year old female and got two problems. Problem number 1 I got a big secret and i told my mate, my brother 15 and sister 16 know i am hiding something from them. How can i make them stop pestering me? and how can i make them stop watchi...
A. 16 April 2008: in male ethics, according o the so called guy code,usually men dont like there friends dating their sisters... its not cool. however, this is not written in stone tablets, hehee or so we are told. however, do as u see fit. if the guy does no seem ... (read in full...)
10 yrs of marriage, two small children, now he says he's in love with a woman at work!!!
Q. My husband of 10 years says he now loves a woman he works with. He feels so ashamed but doesn't know whether he loves me or not. We have 2 children age 4 and 7 weeks. I'm torn apart...what to do?...
A. 14 April 2008: indeed. with 2 very young kis, this is serious. u better seek counselling and if he balks, then u should seek a lawyer quickly find out urv rights just in case. cover ur ground and always be 10 steps aHead of him. who knows if hes already cheated or ... (read in full...)
If I have an abortion, is it true that I won't be able to have children in the future?
Q. My B/F and I had unprotected sex, and I'm pregnant but I don't want to keep the baby because I'm only 17. I may sound selfish but I really don't want to, I want to have an abortion but I've heard that after having an abortion there is a big poss...
A. 14 April 2008: i had an abortion at 18 when i found out, i told my husband at the time i was not ready. today, at 30 i have a 14 month ld daUGHTER. done properly it shouldnot cause problems butcan case scarring sometimes. internally. if ur not ready dont fel ... (read in full...)
What position is best to make love for the first time?
Q. Hey guys, i would like to know what position is best to make love for the first time. My boyfriend and i are both virgins, i know to have loads of foreplay and to take things slowly because of the pain that may or may not be present. But what are ...
A. 13 April 2008: Every girls hymen is different so best trying the missionary position firs. if it hurts then try another position. you must be well lubricated, or you will feel a pain not worth mentioning. you need to guide him along the way and tell him what hur... (read in full...)
Help please aunts,me and my boyfiend are going to break up!
Q. Hi everybody, I need some help from you guy. Me and my boyfiend is going to break up. This is a long story, me and him have been together for 2 years and our relationship have been very weird and iam sure is not normal. We have been arguing right ...
A. 13 April 2008: theres a deeper unjderlying issue at hand than just the arguments it seems. rguments never just start for no reaon, perhaps ur stressed out, or it coulds easily be a hormonal imbalance whichcan easily be rectified. maybe ur feeling some hiden ... (read in full...)
What's a husband supposed to do?!! My wife is dressing very sexy- can I get her to practice more discretion?
Q. My 38-year-old wife is beautiful woman, and is a devoted wife and mother. We've been very happily married for nine months, and our love life is great. This is our second marriages. My wife's first marriage was sexually unfulfilling and her ex was ...
A. 8 April 2008: If you try to bring this to her it will destroy whatever self-confidence she has. Looking at it from a different perspective, she feels confident because u made her feel so. u made her feel like shes a million bucks, so dont take that away from her ... (read in full...)
How do you get a guy to tell you that he loves you?
Q. How do you get a guy to tell you that he loves you? During intercourse I have had a strong urge to tell him, but should I wait to hear it from him first?...
A. 7 April 2008: one cant get a guy to say those words.. it will happen when its time. i agree with older sis. wait for him to say it. so u dont end up looking the fool if he looks at u and says he does not love u like that.... (read in full...)
He wants me to have sex with as many men as I can....in one night!!!
Q. Hi Im 17 and gay i met this guy and i really like him the only problem is he wants me to have sex with as many men as i can in 1 night and predictivly the rest of my life, as it turns him on. I really like him so i want to do this and i...
A. 7 April 2008: protected sex can only do so much. whether gay or bi or straight... if i were u i would not engage in this. think of it this way. if u get an std like aids, or herpes etc, will he, or anyone reallly want u after thyat? its a lonely life for many. i ... (read in full...)
Does child abuse make you question your sexuality in later life ?
Q. I think,reading between the lines and small things mentioned,that my boyfriend may have been abused in his past,possibly as a child.As a result of this he is unable to have sex and has called an end to the realtionship stating he is not in love with ...
A. 4 April 2008: USUALLY sex molestation and abusew will cause some sexual problems, it can cause one to question their sexuality etc. u were not explicit on what kind of abuse ur bf had undergone.... (read in full...)
What do you consider cheating?
Q. Say a girl is engaged, still in college, while her fiancee is 300 miles away. She dates another boy on pretty much a regular bases. She makes out with the other boy and even does it while spending the night in his bed wih him, no sex, but wearing ...
A. 1 April 2008: this is fullblown cheating, no matter how u cut it. here are the definitions of cheating for u. cybersex is cheating, because its still personal live interaction with another human being , kissing, fondling, even with clothes on, any type of sexual ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is sulking because I paid a bill to help him out, when should I start pushing him to get over this?
Q. I hurt my boyfriends pride yesterday by paying a bill for him to help him out with money. We have been dating for 7 years and do not live together. He will not talk to me now because I hurt his pride. How long do I let him be mad before I really ...
A. 1 April 2008: ur not a real man til u have lost ur first fight! and ur not a real man until uve learned to accept the help from a female partner. it takes two. and sounds hes kinda traditional. but, hes got to learn u two have to share eachothers burdens. 7 yrs ... (read in full...)
I have a problem with my boyfriend watching porn.
Q. I have a problem with my boyfriend watching porn. I just get really jealous. Is this normal or am I just being paranoid???? Should I just let him watch it??? ...
A. 31 March 2008: welcome to the club dear.. my man watches porn and when i see the stuff he watches....creepy. my skin crawls becauseI HATE and refuse to do anal sex and his porn is, fisting, dbl penetration. it disgusted me so istarted watching porn. I watch..Gay ... (read in full...)
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