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writes:my husband and i have been experiencing difficulties in our marriage he tells me a part of him has died and he's not happy anymore. he says that he feels i was never interested in him much and it is definately not true. I was just too busy taking care of mom stuff, daughter-in-law stuff and all that so i just ignored his needs. i need to show him, which i have tried but he is totally blocked me out. sex is scarce lately and i need him more than ever. i need a sexy clever way to get him back. i will do backflips for him i nedd him. any suggestions Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 April 2008): Wear something sexy too be. Dance for him. Send the kids off the granmothers house and have a romantic night for th e two of you. Do some of the things he likes to do watch television with him. Even If you don't like the show just spend time with him may be he will notice you spending time with him that you didn't Start doing things on your own work out get a little firmed up and I bet he will notice you then.
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reader, asian tealeaf +, writes (26 February 2008):
 take the advice from the rest sweetie, but if u notice after some time hes still unresponsive, ask urself this. can u keep on trying to rescuscitate the dead? but try to do what u can. do spontaneous things, or plan a trip and do it when u know he has time off from work and no plans. consistency and all will speak for itself. he wants to be loved. who can blame him? and u better act fast before he strays from the hearth. or then it will be as u feared. too late. good luck swetiy.
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reader, Manya  +, writes (26 February 2008):
Hi! You and your husband have been married many years to now have a daughter in law. There are many ways you can re-invigorate your marriage, and mandy7 has fully covered the sexy backflip territory! One thing I learned, is to think back to the time you first met and were getting to know each other. How you looked at him, how he looked at you, what you each saw. "Adjust the tuning" as Carly Simon sings, and look at him that way again, with pride for the marriage, the son you raised, etc. You CAN reignite the flame! Perhaps you should take a course on something you're interested in, or take one together. Arrange a romantic trip in which you first travel separately andmeet in Paris! Use your imagination and most of all, simply show him love!!XX Manya
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reader, Lucy2118  +, writes (26 February 2008):
 It's fair enough that you've got other things to do, but youe husband needs some time with you to. I think maybe a weekend away together, tell him that you want to spend some quality time with him. I think this will make him feel wanted. If that doesn't work do something that you both enjoy, like going to the cinema or playing tennis. Spending time together doesn't take alot of effort but the rewards are endless, because your partner will feel wanted.Hope this helps youX
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 February 2008): Hi Hunny
Make sure you have the house to yourself, get the bedroom and any other room ready with candles and sexy scents pop some food that you can eat at anytime for after sex fun and go buy the most sexy amazing dress with the best sexy underwear you can come across sexy shoes the works, remember the perfume that he liked you to wear get that and when he comes home give him a beer or glass of wine whatever he prefers and sit him down to relax...Now if that doesnt get his motor started it will when you strip of as your hot and walk around in your underwear hunny pounce on him and give him the best time ever. and then talk about sorting through your problems at a later time when you have had the greatest sex feast ever, It should be easier after that hun. I hope that helps love it will make you feel good oh and the hair get the hair done for you be a sexy as you can be TAKE CARE WITH LOVE N HUGS MANDY XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX
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