Like what
she writes?
... Add *ennisstar88 to your favourite agony aunts
Want to get in touch?
... Send *ennisstar88 a private message | | | *ennisstar88's profile:Who I am? A 28yr old Army wife. My DH serves, I serve and sacrifice as well. Went to college in my early 20s, economy caught up with me in 08 and dropped out for a bit. I however returned and am down the path to finishing a bachelor's degree. I have also beat my long, 3 year battle with infertility and am expecting a baby this December! Its been a long, pot hole filled road but I am finally where I want to be.
What qualifies me to help you? Vast dating experience, especially in the LDR department, even an international on with an Aussie, broke hearts, had mine broken, been engaged once before, I know what a real friend is, seen the ugly side of divorce coming from a recently broken home myself, even went as far as to tip the odds to my side and use men only to toss them aside like yesterday's garbage like they do women, I know what it's like to almost give up hope on finding the perfect man when he's really only a few boyfriends away, and I'm starting to learn the ropes of married life. I also know a vast deal about the female and male reproductive system, and all about the mental struggles with infertility. On a side note, I'm the one who gives you tough love, I'm not on here to sugarcoat it or to tell you what you want to hear. I'm going to give it to you straight up, wouldn't you rather the truth?
-TOP 5 QUESTIONS I CAN'T STAND-
#1. Does this mean my teacher likes me?
Just because they're nice to you, offer extra help, and put a little gold star on your A+ paper doesn't mean they are in love with you.
#2. Could I be pregnant?
Have you not heard of a pregnancy test? Get off this website, and go to your local drugstore.
#3. I'm 14 and I want a baby?
Really? Me too! Oh wait I'm 28 and married. You're how old again?
#4. My husband loves porn more than me!
Maybe if you didn't let yourself go into the frumpy woman you have turned into then he wouldn't have to look at porn now would he? I recommend you get your rear to the salon for highlights, manicure, pedicure, tanning, toss the baggy tees and sweat pants for a wardrobe that fits, and a little makeup goes a long way. It's called basic woman maintenance in order to keep your man's eyes on you.
#5. Will we get back together, how can I get him to love me again?
Unfortunately, my crystal ball is broke at the moment and I just gave away the last of my love potion No. 9. Sorry.
MY GENERAL RULES OF THUMB (this should be common sense)
-No means no.
-Girls can ask out ask guys, this is a new generation.
-Unless you know sign language or are telepathic, you're going to have to talk to him/her.
-My "Don't ask, Don't tell" policy as is follows: Do not by any means volunteer your own sexual history, or ask your date/partner/wife/girlfriend their magic number (how many people they've slept with). If you find yourself being prompted to answer this question, politely tell them that's none of their business.
-Your past doesn't define who you are today. We grow, mature, age, and change as time passes.
-If you have to even ask random strangers on this website if you should have sex, then you're not ready for it.
-FWBs, fuck buddies, no strings attached, whatever you want to call it..is not a relationship don't get the 2 confused. In this case, sex=sex, not love.
-No trust=no relationship.
-It is normal for your husband/boyfriend to have friends of the opposite sex, do you not have male friends?
-LDRs can work, however they're not for everyone. You've got to have trust, communication, be faithful, and a lot of hobbies to keep yourself occupied. If you have trust issues, a case of being needy, clingy, problems staying faithful and are in a LDR don't be surprised when it doesn't work. I told you so.
- An ex is an ex for a reason. If you guys couldn't hack it as a couple the first 2 times what makes you think the third time is a charm?
-Going on a "break" is a nice way of breaking up.
-If you have sex with a man and he hasn't called you, or responded to your texts in weeks sorry to say but he was just after a piece of ass.
- Now unless he's getting blown up in Afghanistan, an on call ER doctor, or lying dead in a coffin then he's got no excuse for his poor or lack there of communication.
-You have a 12% chance of your married boyfriend leaving his wife and children.
-A man who is going through a divorce is still legally married. He's about to have an ex wife and you're wanting to get into a relationship with him? That's called a rebound.
-If you're a minor who's just found out she's pregnant, do me and everyone else on this site a favor..Tell your parents.
-Just because some one stares at you, it doesn't mean they like you. They could be staring at that booger hanging out of your nose.
-If you have a lump/bump/cyst/rash that looks green, has oozing puss, and itches like hell, but kinda looks like a STD then you had better consult your doctor. They went through 6 years of schooling and have a license to practice medicine, I think they would know better than random virtual strangers.
-Don't mix business with pleasure. Why? Because if you date your co-worker and in the event things turn sour then you're still stuck facing them 9-5, Mon-Fri. Awkward.
-No matter how hard you try, you can't change a person..they have to make that transformation themselves.
-When your boyfriend/girlfriend says they want space that doesn't mean you do the opposite and bombard them with calls/texts.
-As far as ultimatums go, don't try to make your boyfriend choose between you, his female friends, or weed. You won't like the results.
-If you're 13-17, I'm sorry but you haven't a clue what love really is. You have minimal dating experience confined to the high school dating pool which are nothing but horny boys. Their facial hair doesn't make them a man. It's only till you get out into the real world, a vast dating pool is when you learn the definition of love. So, go on thinking you and 13 year old Tommy will go on to get married, have 3 kids, and a two story house with a white picket fence. I don't expect you to listen, I'm 28 and married, what do I know? There's a reason why everyone says it won't last..because it doesn't.
-The average penis size erect is 6 inches, 4.85 inches. Women like average to even a little below average. We're not going to bust out a tape measure and measure it to make sure it's up to our standards. We just want to have sex, so enough complaining about your size let's get down and dirty.
- The legal age of consent in the U.S. is 16-18 varying oer state, in Britain it's 16. I think it's safe to say most parts of the world (unless you live in a tribe with their own form of government) the legal age to consent to sex is 16. So yes, all you minors below the age of consent are committing a crime when you engage in sexual activity. The age is set that high for a reason, you are not above the law. |
|
I'm dating my best friend's girlfriend!
Q. Hi... a BIG PROBLEM... i am dating my childhood frinds girlfriend for the past 3 months....they had relationship for long eight years in which they had breakup twice and that too for one yr and second one also the same...they patched up back ...
A. 10 November 2010: Ok does that mean she dumped you since she called you a spoiled brat? If she hasn't then she probably is going to dump you soon..I'd back off from her, let it go because she doesn't sound like a very good girlfriend in the first place.... (read in full...)
I think I still love my ex. What should I do?
Q. I have been broken up with my ex for over 2 yrs. We are both in other relationships but my problem is that I'm still in love with her. We were together for 8 years. We had an up and down relationship but were always deeply in love. We had a ...
A. 20 October 2010: Advice stil stays the same, and I'll add that if you go out with your ex knowing she has a boyfriend overseas then you're opening a can of worms. Who's to say she won't toss you aside when she goes back to be with her boyfriend?
Your ex is unat... (read in full...)
I like three guys but I don't know which one to pick!
Q. So I like these 3 guys and i think they all like me. But 1 part of me tells me that the guy I like the most wont be right like no chemistry.another guy I dont want to like but kinda do and that part of me tells me it is just making out thats all. ...
A. 18 October 2010: Hmmm not enough info for me to tell you which one is your best bet. But listen to your female intuition, it's saying guy 3 would be perfect for you. You don't know till you try. I like Indie's tactic of writing a pros and cons list, it often puts ... (read in full...)
Going on my first-ever date -- at 20! Tips appreciated.
Q. i need help! tomorrow i am going on my first date ever and i have no clue what to do! i am in some serious need of dating tips. for example, what are some topics i can bring up if things start to get awkward? What food should i eat? What should i ...
A. 18 October 2010: Ah excellent...Seems he was a nervous one then. Just brush it off and embrace a kiss the second date. Do NOT spend all night worrying about it, it will all come to you naturally at the end of the night. A closed mouth kiss is appropriate, however if ... (read in full...)
Torn in two--boy 1, boy 2
Q. Okay. So I have a big decision on my hands and I need some serious help. Preferably from someone older than I am. When I was in the 7th grade, I began dating a boy (Boy #1) who was in 8th grade. We stayed together until the very end of my freshm...
A. 18 October 2010: Looks like you're leaning towards Boy 1..but he cheated on you who's to say he won't do it again? I'm sure your mother hates him for a good reason, because he's no good for you. Boy 2, yeah he's immature and doesn't get the hint when to put his arm ... (read in full...)
Boyfriend afraid to leave his mom to work on our relationship
Q. Dear Cupid I am a overly concern about certain happenings in my relationship. My Boyfriend is afraid to leave his Mother house so that we can pool our salary to start a family. he doesnot directly come out and say it but saying he have to hel...
A. 18 October 2010: #4 explains it all. He's a mama's boy. His mother cooks, cleans his laundry, and does everything for him. Who would leave that? He's not going to leave his mother's nest. He's too dependent on his mother as she is on him. They're both relying on the ... (read in full...)
Was losing your virginity as you expected it to be?
Q. Was losing your Virginity as you expected it to be and would you change your mind if you could go back?...
A. 18 October 2010: Let's see I lost mine when I was 18 to my pot dealing boyfriend. It lasted 5 minutes and it hurt like hell. So if I could rewind that clock, I would definitely stuck it out for someone worth losing it to.... (read in full...)
I hate that I can't be the child my family deserves!
Q. My parents and I have not been in a good relationship recently. We use to get along just fine, but now all we ever do is fight. I've always had a trouble mind, I just hide it from them so they don't think I need help or anything. All my parents ever ...
A. 18 October 2010: I'm going to point out your at that age where it's difficult to get along with your parents. The teenage phase, it brings parties, underage drinking, learning how to drive, maybe your first job, more responsibility, boyfriends, and sex. Toughest ... (read in full...)
I need tips to survive a funeral
Q. Hi I appreciate you taking the time to read this. My grandmother died recently and the funeral is coming up. The thing is I'm so nervous.... I was very close to her and I'm scared I may cry uncontrollably or pass out and make a fool of myself...
A. 18 October 2010: Have a box of Kleenex with you, and a friend or your mother to go up with you when you view her for moral support. It's definitely ok to cry at a funeral, it's expected. Trust me you won't be the only one there shedding tears. Look at the picture ... (read in full...)
I cheated on my LDR
Q. hello there. i'm here because i cheated. it's killing because he's a great person with a great heart and amazing intentions. about a day ago, i cheated on him. i've one of those people who have always said "i'll never do that!" but i did, and now ...
A. 18 October 2010: Look even people who always say I'll never cheat end up doing so. Not all, but quite a bit. I did it, but I learned my lesson and never did it again. If your boyfriend said he saw it coming, then it means you're not cut out for a LDR. I suggest you ... (read in full...)
I'm having some red flags about this relationship now. What do you guys think?
Q. I am in a relationship with a man for 5 months now, we were friends for 2 months before that, so weve known each other more like 7 months... we get along good, and when i met him I thought i not be with another man again, because my ex-fiancee ab...
A. 18 October 2010: Actually I see a red flag with you...You keep on comparing him to your ex..Now your ex was worthless abusing you and thank god you got out of it. Not that many women have the strength to do that. I know this new guy is so much better than your ex ... (read in full...)
Is this just coincidence or some supernatural force?
Q. Every time I'm on facebook, his name pops up or his picture pops up. Like whatever I click on, even if it has nothing to do with him, his name is either on the side of "tagged pictures" or whatever or a picture. And everywhere I go, his name is ...
A. 18 October 2010: Oh come on ANON, everyone is Facebook obsessed these days! It freaks me out that my 56 year old aunt has one. If he's friends with a lot of your friends and has a load of photo albums then he will keep popping up. I've noticed that side bar that ... (read in full...)
Junior with a freshiee!
Q. My best friend ryan has his god brother over all the time, alex. We hang out EVERY weekend together, His god brother is a junior at my school and I am a freshman. He always says flirty comments to me and talks with me, and the class we have near ...
A. 18 October 2010: Oh that's nothing to worry over. I was a sophomore dating a senior. You're both in high school and your families are friends, even better. That gives you advantage, plus the flirty comments, constant attention, and a drunken kiss. I say go for it, ... (read in full...)
Is it over? Have I been played?
Q. Dear Cupid, I am so confused. I met a nice guy online, I live in UK and he lives in Norway. We started chatting for a few days, all seemed to be going well, so I suggested a phone call, which also went well. We spoke for about an hour, and seemed ...
A. 18 October 2010: By chance did you meet this guy on Skype? Now, I love Skype, it's just so neat that I can chat with people all over the world. BUT, beware often guys message you wanting cyber and phone sex, nothing more. A virtual fuck buddy so to speak. Sex is all ... (read in full...)
Why not with me? I want the things other men got!
Q. My wife has had a lot of sexual experience! Tons of boys as a teen, and I know what she did in bed with her ex husband. But... with me? It's plain ol' sex. Why? I want the things other men got. Is it because she is getting older? Am I boring? I have ...
A. 18 October 2010: I've found that any issues surrounding sex are best discussed as soon as possible...It's an awkward subject to approach but tell her you just want to know what's going on and point out what you want and see if you can both find middle ground. ... (read in full...)
Help! My friend and I BOTH like the same guy...
Q. I have liked this guy for quite a while now, but today I have found out that my friend likes him too, and is planning to ask him out. The thing is, she is the sort of person who goes out with a lot of guys and has sex a lot and I am a virgin who has ...
A. 18 October 2010: You're not for certain, she would be the obvious choice. Depends on this guy's personal preference. He may have a thing for petite girls.
Now, depends on how good of friends you are with her. Technically girl code says, that we CANNOT like the... (read in full...)
I'm dating my best friend's girlfriend!
Q. Hi... a BIG PROBLEM... i am dating my childhood frinds girlfriend for the past 3 months....they had relationship for long eight years in which they had breakup twice and that too for one yr and second one also the same...they patched up back ...
A. 15 October 2010: Let it go, do you want to lose your best friend too? 8 years is a long time to swallow, she's got some history with your best friend..you, hate to say it but you were her rebound. If you keep on in this love triangle, she will just keep yanking your ... (read in full...)
New boyfriend stopped calling. What should I do?
Q. I Recently met this guy, we went on a few dates n ended up sleeping 2gther, we did it mor than once nw, i dont know where i stand with him, bt i knw tht he has a girlfrnd, i sometimes only see him once a week, bt he used to call and now all of a ...
A. 15 October 2010: Just to add to the majority vote. You were a side item to his main course. Happens all the time..He strayed from his relationship, found you, charmed you into taking those panties off, his girlfriend got suspicious of his cheating so he had to leave ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend is jealous because I have to dance with another girl at a wedding!
Q. I'm having a big problem. My best friend is getting married and I'm the best man. I have to dance with the bridesmaid and my girlfriend is pretty mad with me for that. I told her that its just a dance nothing more than that .. but still she's so ...
A. 15 October 2010: She's the green eyed jealousy monster over a wedding tradition, what else has she gotten jealous of? This display of jealousy is NOT normal. You've already explained to her over and over that this is a tradition, there is nothing you can do about ... (read in full...)
Simple question on asking someone out.
Q. Hi, just a simple and quick question: If I make an excuse to enter this girls office at work (Any excuse will do) - is it too rash to, after I strike up a conversation, say "Blah, blah, blah.... by the way, I know this is quite out of the blue ...
A. 15 October 2010: If you say it like that, then you're making yourself look uncomfortable..Strike up a convo, talk about work..then ask "So who are you going to lunch?" or "Did you bring your lunch?" If not then follow up with, "Then do you want to check out that new ... (read in full...)
My dad's 35 year old friend (a teacher) is flirting with me
Q. Gah, I hate talking about crap like this but I'm going to anyway lol. Ok, so there's a guy that lives below us, and him and my dad are really good friends. He's about 35, not married, and I've always had a really big crush on him. Then last year, ...
A. 15 October 2010: Agreed with Maverick494...Let him know that his friendly gestures the school board will deem inappropriate and terminate him. Also, teachers and students will start to notice and talk if word already hasn't gotten around.
You're 16-17 so you'... (read in full...)
Should I walk away knowing he'll be deployed, or try to stay?
Q. I have been talking to this kid since July 2010, he's in the army and is stationed in new York (I'm in Ohio). He is originally from here and met him on one of his visits home. It is now october and I think I am starting to really fall for him but ...
A. 15 October 2010: He's only 2 years younger than you, what has age got to do with trust?
I see that your nervous, possibly because you don't know him very well and living with him for 3 months is a big step so soon. Things you got to think about here, say if you d... (read in full...)
Should I accept my boyfriend's mother's facebook friends request?
Q. I'm not sure what to do. My boyfriend's mum has sent me a friend request on facebook, and i dont know whether to add her or not. We get on pretty well, but i had a look at her profile without confirming the friend request, and she sometimes writes ...
A. 15 October 2010: Facebook, to accept or to ignore, that is the question.
My mother in law added me, and let's just say she saw some pictures of me scantily clad going to clubs or Halloween parties, that I had forgot to take down, also my cursing rants for a status... (read in full...)
Should I propose, even though I can't afford it?
Q. Me and my girlfriend have been dating for just over 2 years and we've spoken before about getting married.I know she would like to get engaged,because she told me,and i do to,she hinted about new years eve.Thing is,if we do get engaged,i wouldnt ...
A. 15 October 2010: It's really the thought that counts..I say propose when you are ready to make that commitment, meanwhile look for a ring that isn't expensive or that you can afford with a payment plan, you're not trying to be out of money every paycheck. Or perhaps ... (read in full...)
Why does everyone get along with one of my friends?
Q. There usto be a group of us then we all split up because of big arguments.She is a quiet girl but it's like when theres an argument between the gang and we all split up she still speaks to everyone. If i go gossiping to her she doesnt seem botherd, ...
A. 15 October 2010: She's Switzerland, she's neutral. Smart girl, doesn't want to dabble in the group's drama but will still be a friend and lend an ear if you need to talk or vent. But stop trying to get the he said, she said out of her because she's not going to tell ... (read in full...)
This new guy online has me questioning my relationship!
Q. I have been with my current boyfriend for 5 years and we had until recently a great relationship we have a 3 year old son and live together.we have always had a passionate relationship however he has hit me twice(drunk both times)and recently we ...
A. 14 October 2010: Easy, dump your loser boyfriend that hits you when he's drunk and calls you hurtful names. You argue and the sex is next to nonexistent...so why are you hanging onto this relationship? Maybe it's because of your son, but it's not healthy for him to ... (read in full...)
How can I stop supporting my sister's family?
Q. hey guys this wil be long but i need help.i hate my big sis and when she comes to visit its like i want to die.shes 33 and has 3 kids.2 are staying with me and mom.i buy food and suport the family while shes staying at my grams waiting for welfare.i ...
A. 14 October 2010: Talk about a lazy welfare sister...not only is the state supporting her but you and your family as well! Your sister is a grown woman, when she made a choice to have 3 kids, or maybe it was accident or maybe to collect a check if she hasn't worked a ... (read in full...)
I think I still love my ex. What should I do?
Q. I have been broken up with my ex for over 2 yrs. We are both in other relationships but my problem is that I'm still in love with her. We were together for 8 years. We had an up and down relationship but were always deeply in love. We had a ...
A. 14 October 2010: Break up with the girl who is overseas. One, because you can't handle a LDR and because you still have feelings for your ex it isn't fair to string this girl along due to the fact you're not into her 100%. Going to be a crappy way to break up with ... (read in full...)
Married and no sexual chemistry anymore
Q. My husband was very sexual with me in the beginning. He had to have sex at every meeting. After we moved in together his interest dissipated a bit. I'd say we had sex 4 to 5 times a week. After living together for 1 year we were having sex maybe 3 ...
A. 14 October 2010: I'm going through along the lines of the same problem..I get where you get tired of initiating sex , the guy is supposed to be the one who wants it 24-7, right? Wrong, they get tired, stressed out, and all that will kill their sex drive...What I did ... (read in full...)
What's a nice way of breaking it off?
Q. I've met this lady about a month ago actually about 2 months ago, because I took off up north for about two weeks and sort of kept in touch with each other by e-mailing each other for the time! The question is she is to short can't kiss and and has ...
A. 14 October 2010: There is no nice way of breaking up. However, you do have an advantage because it's only been 2 months so she shouldn't be that attached to you. Is this a LDR? If so even better for her to move on faster. Of course when she asks the dreaded sobbing ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is acting weird, after I told him I contacted my hospitalized ex!
Q. my bf of 2 years is acting weird when i talked to my ex bf. my ex bf was not well couple of weeks n was in hospital. so i called him to hear how he was. told my bf abt this, he started acting weird. he said he is not jealous or possesstive, but ...
A. 14 October 2010: Everyone gets jealous, even when they say they don't. This ex was sick in the hospital and you were just being a considerate friend by giving him a ring. It's not like you bought balloons and a teddy bear then visited him in person. Your boyfriend ... (read in full...)
I feel like I'm engaged to a 15 year old, and have reconnected with an old friend. I don't know what to do!
Q. I have been with my fiancee for 10 yrs...and I'm only 23. We have 2 children ages 5 and 2. We moved to another state directly after highschool. I do not have any real friends here and have lost touch with many friends from my hometown. During the ...
A. 14 October 2010: 1. Break off your engagement. High school loves rarely last forever. If you are having all these doubts and don't feel any love anymore then why would you walk down the aisle with someone your heart isn't into 100%? Only to get it annulled months ... (read in full...)
I'm 15, she's only 12, should I leave her alone?
Q. ok so i just recently found out that the girl i like is 12 i am 15. i didnt really care at first but now its really big. we do band together although shes in middle school and im in high school. shes really funny, smart, cute. she just makes me ...
A. 14 October 2010: 3 years isn't bad, don't fret over that. My husband and I are 5 years apart...so when he was a senior I was in 8th grade sounds rather bad doesn't it? I will say once you get past 19 or so age doesn't matter..that way you're surely legal. Which I ... (read in full...)
Whenever I want to have a relationship, it never works out!
Q. Alright I'm pretty sure this is said quite a bit but here goes... I'm an attractive guy I'm told quite a bit all through high school and middle school. I am always called and sent messages on my phone and facebook about my lady friends wanting ...
A. 14 October 2010: I have to say anon has a point, you could be picking the wrong type of girl. I can't tell you what you're doing wrong because you haven't given enough info. Some examples?? Are these women that you go out with placing you in the friend zone??
... (read in full...)
Do I break up with him until he sorts out their living arrangement or should I stand by him as he's going through a tough time?
Q. My boyfriend has 2 young (2yrs old) twins with his ex gf. She still lives in his house, in a separate bedroom ofcourse, because she cant afford to live on her own and was unemployed for a while and he supported her in regards to buying her a car, ...
A. 14 October 2010: From your post, I understand where he wants his children to be safe, however if he could also get sole custody of the twins to ensure their safety. She could move in with her parents or relatives until she gets back on her feet. The only thing he ... (read in full...)
What was your best first date? I need ideas!
Q. what was the best first date you ever had? what made it so great and did you end up together? im just curious and looking for great date ideas!...
A. 14 October 2010: You know none of my first dates were that creative..However, I had a second date where the guy took me to six flags, but he lost points when he made me buy my own ticket! Loser. I was a little mad but eventually had a ton of fun.
Other ideas I like... (read in full...)
I hardly see my boyfriend with his new job!
Q. My bf has a new job and I barely see him now. I don't know what to do because I am struggling with this limited contact. Please advise me!...
A. 14 October 2010: Not much you can do..Just stick it out, and can the best of it on the days you do see him. Does he get vacation or personal time? If so he can bank that up and use it to spend those days off with you. Looks like you're going to have to get a hobby ... (read in full...)
Should I take Plan B or do you think my birth control is enough?
Q. Hey i have a question, i have been on birth control for 2 months now and i have been taking it every day however not the exact same time, probably an hour or 30 mins. difference, last night me and my boyfriend slept together and he didn't pull out ...
A. 13 October 2010: It takes 1-3 months for the birth control to set in your body..you don't have to take it at the same time everyday but pretty close..and don't do the whole taking a week's worth all at once, bad idea. If you aren't used to it yet, I used to set a ... (read in full...)
Help! Is my penis small?
Q. I'm barely 6" long and about 5 1/2" in girth. I feel small based on reactions I get from women. What is considered a small penis? Am I really small? Women seem pleased, and I make them orgasm most of the time, so I dont know why I get that "oh, ...
A. 13 October 2010: Typical size is 6in length, and 4.85in girth when erect. Depends on a woman's personal preference and what they have experienced on where those "oh, ok" looks come from. Most I know don't truly care for a Ron Jeremy size dick, however we don't care ... (read in full...)
This girl is so confusing! Should I ask her out again?
Q. I am 16 years old, and have always liked girls before, but after recently meeting someone at a new school, I attracted to her in a way that I have never been before. I'll refer to her as Sarah. I'll admit, I went in too soon and asked Sarah out,...
A. 13 October 2010: Agreed with dirtball on the Facebook matter, it's like a text the message your sending could be perceived in so many ways other than the right one. Now, when you ask her to go out with a large group of mates, are you meaning all your friends? If so ... (read in full...)
Is getting a makeover a good thing?
Q. I wanted to know if it's okay to get a makeover? I have been thinking about a makeover to improve my appearance and confidence. I don't wear makeup a lot and don't know how to apply it that good and also can't afford to go to a hair salon. I would ...
A. 13 October 2010: Makeovers can be fun but unless you have a friend who works at the MAC counter and is going to hair school they can be pricey. Some of the makeup counters will do your face for 25-35 bucks..or they ask you to buy a certain $ amount of products. I ... (read in full...)
I want to get back with my ex, but he got a girl pregnant!
Q. okay, so today i found out that my ex boyfriend has a baby on the way. He is going out with the babys mother and i know that sounds soo easy to understand, but its far more complicated. Me and him have always kinda been bf and gf. i started ...
A. 13 October 2010: Female ANON, I'm guessing your the OP...That my dear is because you grow weak and let him. Be a strong woman and put your foot down...No, I will not take him back for the millionth time, no, he won't weasel his way back into my life, no, I will not ... (read in full...)
Event with ex girlfriend
Q. My ex girlfriend and I had a long distance relationship but we've recently broken up and decided to remain good friends. The problem is that we have an event scheduled two months from now and are planning to attend it. We've bought the tickets ...
A. 13 October 2010: Then it's best you didn't go to the event with her. Your feelings would have taken over, tampering with the friendship. Who paid for the tickets? If you did and she was taking him, I would be steamed, she's got no right to do that. However, if she ... (read in full...)
Going on my first-ever date -- at 20! Tips appreciated.
Q. i need help! tomorrow i am going on my first date ever and i have no clue what to do! i am in some serious need of dating tips. for example, what are some topics i can bring up if things start to get awkward? What food should i eat? What should i ...
A. 13 October 2010: Everyone pretty much summed it up, I'll add a few tips.
-Sit up straight, no slouching.
-share the conversation, don't drone on and on about you to where he doesn't get a word in, or if he does it to you then that is a sign that is your first an... (read in full...)
I want to get back with my ex, but he got a girl pregnant!
Q. okay, so today i found out that my ex boyfriend has a baby on the way. He is going out with the babys mother and i know that sounds soo easy to understand, but its far more complicated. Me and him have always kinda been bf and gf. i started ...
A. 11 October 2010: What do you mean kinda bf and gf? You either are together in a relationship or you aren't. There's no such thing as an implied relationship. It's not a smart idea to pursue an ex who has a girlfriend that is pregnant with his child. In the rarity, ... (read in full...)
Event with ex girlfriend
Q. My ex girlfriend and I had a long distance relationship but we've recently broken up and decided to remain good friends. The problem is that we have an event scheduled two months from now and are planning to attend it. We've bought the tickets ...
A. 9 October 2010: It's only awkward if you make it awkward...set aside differences. Focus on having a good time, and keep it as friends. You can go to the event together but you don't have to interact with her all the time.... (read in full...)
Event with ex girlfriend
Q. My ex girlfriend and I had a long distance relationship but we've recently broken up and decided to remain good friends. The problem is that we have an event scheduled two months from now and are planning to attend it. We've bought the tickets ...
A. 18 September 2010: Tickets are non-refundable and depending on the event can be hard to get someone to take them off your hands. Plus, if you paid a pretty penny for the tickets then I would go....So I would go ahead and make the reservations you can sit next to each ... (read in full...)
| *ennisstar88's friends
These are mutual friends, so *ennisstar88 has
added them and they have added *ennisstar88!
|
