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... Send *ennisstar88 a private message | | | *ennisstar88's profile:Who I am? A 28yr old Army wife. My DH serves, I serve and sacrifice as well. Went to college in my early 20s, economy caught up with me in 08 and dropped out for a bit. I however returned and am down the path to finishing a bachelor's degree. I have also beat my long, 3 year battle with infertility and am expecting a baby this December! Its been a long, pot hole filled road but I am finally where I want to be.
What qualifies me to help you? Vast dating experience, especially in the LDR department, even an international on with an Aussie, broke hearts, had mine broken, been engaged once before, I know what a real friend is, seen the ugly side of divorce coming from a recently broken home myself, even went as far as to tip the odds to my side and use men only to toss them aside like yesterday's garbage like they do women, I know what it's like to almost give up hope on finding the perfect man when he's really only a few boyfriends away, and I'm starting to learn the ropes of married life. I also know a vast deal about the female and male reproductive system, and all about the mental struggles with infertility. On a side note, I'm the one who gives you tough love, I'm not on here to sugarcoat it or to tell you what you want to hear. I'm going to give it to you straight up, wouldn't you rather the truth?
-TOP 5 QUESTIONS I CAN'T STAND-
#1. Does this mean my teacher likes me?
Just because they're nice to you, offer extra help, and put a little gold star on your A+ paper doesn't mean they are in love with you.
#2. Could I be pregnant?
Have you not heard of a pregnancy test? Get off this website, and go to your local drugstore.
#3. I'm 14 and I want a baby?
Really? Me too! Oh wait I'm 28 and married. You're how old again?
#4. My husband loves porn more than me!
Maybe if you didn't let yourself go into the frumpy woman you have turned into then he wouldn't have to look at porn now would he? I recommend you get your rear to the salon for highlights, manicure, pedicure, tanning, toss the baggy tees and sweat pants for a wardrobe that fits, and a little makeup goes a long way. It's called basic woman maintenance in order to keep your man's eyes on you.
#5. Will we get back together, how can I get him to love me again?
Unfortunately, my crystal ball is broke at the moment and I just gave away the last of my love potion No. 9. Sorry.
MY GENERAL RULES OF THUMB (this should be common sense)
-No means no.
-Girls can ask out ask guys, this is a new generation.
-Unless you know sign language or are telepathic, you're going to have to talk to him/her.
-My "Don't ask, Don't tell" policy as is follows: Do not by any means volunteer your own sexual history, or ask your date/partner/wife/girlfriend their magic number (how many people they've slept with). If you find yourself being prompted to answer this question, politely tell them that's none of their business.
-Your past doesn't define who you are today. We grow, mature, age, and change as time passes.
-If you have to even ask random strangers on this website if you should have sex, then you're not ready for it.
-FWBs, fuck buddies, no strings attached, whatever you want to call it..is not a relationship don't get the 2 confused. In this case, sex=sex, not love.
-No trust=no relationship.
-It is normal for your husband/boyfriend to have friends of the opposite sex, do you not have male friends?
-LDRs can work, however they're not for everyone. You've got to have trust, communication, be faithful, and a lot of hobbies to keep yourself occupied. If you have trust issues, a case of being needy, clingy, problems staying faithful and are in a LDR don't be surprised when it doesn't work. I told you so.
- An ex is an ex for a reason. If you guys couldn't hack it as a couple the first 2 times what makes you think the third time is a charm?
-Going on a "break" is a nice way of breaking up.
-If you have sex with a man and he hasn't called you, or responded to your texts in weeks sorry to say but he was just after a piece of ass.
- Now unless he's getting blown up in Afghanistan, an on call ER doctor, or lying dead in a coffin then he's got no excuse for his poor or lack there of communication.
-You have a 12% chance of your married boyfriend leaving his wife and children.
-A man who is going through a divorce is still legally married. He's about to have an ex wife and you're wanting to get into a relationship with him? That's called a rebound.
-If you're a minor who's just found out she's pregnant, do me and everyone else on this site a favor..Tell your parents.
-Just because some one stares at you, it doesn't mean they like you. They could be staring at that booger hanging out of your nose.
-If you have a lump/bump/cyst/rash that looks green, has oozing puss, and itches like hell, but kinda looks like a STD then you had better consult your doctor. They went through 6 years of schooling and have a license to practice medicine, I think they would know better than random virtual strangers.
-Don't mix business with pleasure. Why? Because if you date your co-worker and in the event things turn sour then you're still stuck facing them 9-5, Mon-Fri. Awkward.
-No matter how hard you try, you can't change a person..they have to make that transformation themselves.
-When your boyfriend/girlfriend says they want space that doesn't mean you do the opposite and bombard them with calls/texts.
-As far as ultimatums go, don't try to make your boyfriend choose between you, his female friends, or weed. You won't like the results.
-If you're 13-17, I'm sorry but you haven't a clue what love really is. You have minimal dating experience confined to the high school dating pool which are nothing but horny boys. Their facial hair doesn't make them a man. It's only till you get out into the real world, a vast dating pool is when you learn the definition of love. So, go on thinking you and 13 year old Tommy will go on to get married, have 3 kids, and a two story house with a white picket fence. I don't expect you to listen, I'm 28 and married, what do I know? There's a reason why everyone says it won't last..because it doesn't.
-The average penis size erect is 6 inches, 4.85 inches. Women like average to even a little below average. We're not going to bust out a tape measure and measure it to make sure it's up to our standards. We just want to have sex, so enough complaining about your size let's get down and dirty.
- The legal age of consent in the U.S. is 16-18 varying oer state, in Britain it's 16. I think it's safe to say most parts of the world (unless you live in a tribe with their own form of government) the legal age to consent to sex is 16. So yes, all you minors below the age of consent are committing a crime when you engage in sexual activity. The age is set that high for a reason, you are not above the law. |
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My boyfriends friends are presurring him to have sex!
Q. Hi everyone. I have a problem. I've been with my boyfriend for 17 months now (almost 18 months!!!) and he's now at college (he's 15, almost 16 and I'm 13, almost 14). I've just started my GCSE's, and he's just started his A Levels. He left just ove...
A. 9 October 2010: No one liked it much in my generation either..Girl friends pressuring him into sex? Interesting. Could be that times have changed. However good for you guys and your morals.... (read in full...)
Glitter on boyfriend's face!
Q. Hi everyone…I’m hoping someone can give me some advice. Last night I went to see my boyfriend after he got off work. When we were sitting together I noticed a small piece of glitter on the bottom of his nostril. Just one piece. I got upset and st...
A. 15 September 2010: Darling, have you not read any of the fantastic advice given below?? If not you need to take a moment to do so, please. I agree with CaringGuy and Dirtball apologize asap! ... (read in full...)
Is it possible to combine being gay with being a catholic?
Q. I've been raised in a catholic family and have always believed in god, but lately I have become more agnostic. I'm gay and feel like a bit of an outcast in the church. I'm not out, and don't think my family will accept it. As far I know, bein...
A. 15 September 2010: Oh dear, I know gay southern baptists who don't give their sexual relationship a second thought. They hit the gay bars on the weekend and are in church Sunday morning praying to God to forgive them for their sins. If you don't want to sound like a ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend has an oversized-women obsession!
Q. I found out that my boyfriend has cheated on me with oversized, unattractive, low class women. I thought this had been put to rest but recently discovered that he masturbates with the use of Voluptuous magazine as well as other big girl materials. ...
A. 15 September 2010: when you *say*... (read in full...)
My boyfriend has an oversized-women obsession!
Q. I found out that my boyfriend has cheated on me with oversized, unattractive, low class women. I thought this had been put to rest but recently discovered that he masturbates with the use of Voluptuous magazine as well as other big girl materials. ...
A. 15 September 2010: When you oversized, unattractive, low class women do you mean women with no jobs sitting on their rear with 2 kids from two different fathers, collecting her welfare check every first of the month? Just curious.
Now on your latest update, that soun... (read in full...)
I have problems with my violent teenager son, who doesn't want me to date!
Q. I am having problems with my teenager. He's 13 and doesn't want me to date or talk to anyone. I decided not to bring any man around until I felt that it was serious. I have found someone who I am very happy with. My son won't accept it. He is very ...
A. 14 September 2010: You already know you are the parent he is the child, you are the mother and the father of this household. He is under your roof and rules. Where is his father? All of the agony aunts offer great advice, the next time he gets into a heated argument ... (read in full...)
12 years together, am I just wasting my life?
Q. Hi,I last wrote moaning that my boyfriend ignored my birthday. Here I am again. We've been together 12 years and have a son.I am down 'cos Christmas is coming and I know it'll be another disappointment, not the fact that I wont get any presents, but ...
A. 14 September 2010: So you guys are more or less, longtime boyfriend/girlfriend? If this is the case, then I think it is a little to late in the game to be going "dutch". Tell him you don't have the money to spare, and ask him if you could pay him back. If the $ really ... (read in full...)
Son looking at pornography on the computer?
Q. I recently caught my son on the computer looking up pornography and masturbating, i sent him to his room and told him not to ever again, and that it was wrong. i think i did the right thing, but I'm not sure. he's only 11 and it seemed like he was ...
A. 14 September 2010: Viewing age for porn is 18, so at 11 yes that's way too young. As everyone specified masturbating at that age, or even younger is perfectly normal and expected. It's time for the masturbation/wet dreams talk, if his father is around I suggest he is ... (read in full...)
Glitter on boyfriend's face!
Q. Hi everyone…I’m hoping someone can give me some advice. Last night I went to see my boyfriend after he got off work. When we were sitting together I noticed a small piece of glitter on the bottom of his nostril. Just one piece. I got upset and st...
A. 14 September 2010: Where are you thinking it came from? A stripper's glittery stage makeup? Could have been a drag queen's glittery made up eyes. It could have came from a child who had some on their shoe from the school project they were working on, who happened to ... (read in full...)
Married man but now I KNOW I prefer men... help!
Q. I've been married to a woman who I love very much for 4 years now and have been with her for almost 7 years. Before we hooked up, I was in two consecutive homosexual relationships. She knew and even supported me at that time, and we were good ...
A. 14 September 2010: See there's a possibility you two could end up as friends. ... (read in full...)
Is he playing mind games or am I paranoid?
Q. Basically iv been seeing this guy "bob" for the last few months , its a very casual thing between us , he lives in diffrent town so i never bump into him which i kind of like, im happy this thing we share is not in my face. The thing is he is the f...
A. 14 September 2010: I don't know any italian man named "bob". :) Now you are in what I like to call friends with benefits or fuckbuddies with this man, a casual thing. He sees you at his leisure and most of the time it's for sex. Women just aren't cut out for friends ... (read in full...)
My sister in law doesn't mind being naked with me!
Q. My sister-in-law (single and attractive) graduated college and recently took a job near where my wife and I live. My wife told her to stay with us in the spare bedroom until she found a place of her own. Initially, she wore a robe over her ni...
A. 14 September 2010: OP can you clarify if your wife an sister in law grew up in a liberal nudist or naked home so to speak?... (read in full...)
Why can't my family give him a chance and really get to know him?
Q. I have always had a great relationship with my parents until now. I am 20 yrs old and they are still treating me like a child. I work part time and go to school part time. I started dating my new bf a few months ago and they dont like him only ...
A. 14 September 2010: Yes please shed some light on why he got into a fist fight with your father. I don't think your family will ever like him, maybe it's his age, or his temper, and whatever other details you're leaving out. But as long as your under your parents' roof ... (read in full...)
Did he have feelings for her then?
Q. Hey guys, thanks for reading. Straight to the point, i've been with my boyfriend for a year and a half and i love him to bits. But looking back at our relationship, he bascily got out of one relationship and into ours. And he had been with his last...
A. 14 September 2010: 3 years together, and then you guys got together straight away or did you take time to know one another? If he didn't have the time to grieve then I would say yes there is still some feelings there. The minute she calls or texts he jumps. He could ... (read in full...)
The love of my life...
Q. hi, the names brian, im 17, turning 18 in 3 months, and this is my story of the love I have for a teacher I havent known for to long. I warn you this story is very long but it is interesting once you get into it.It is more of a story than a question ...
A. 14 September 2010: Honey even if you're a gorgeous teacher or a lovestruck teen, no one is above the law.
You know the law, depending upon what state you live in the legal age for consent is 16-18. I suggest looking into that. Now, the other issue at hand she is a te... (read in full...)
Whats this guy want from me??
Q. so this is my situtation..i met this guy last semester we made out a few times text once in a great while usually at night nothing really happened. this semester he text me out of the blue during the day. "just say you and you didnt say hi haha" i ...
A. 14 September 2010: Women are still working on deciphering text messages and what the real meaning is behind what they say. I'll say we look into it too much, and often the gist of a text can be misconstrued. Really dear, it sounds like a typical male conversation. ... (read in full...)
I don't want to get worked up for it and then get a no!
Q. I'm going to ask the most common question ever probably, and know full well that the answer will be you've just got to ask/find out but i can't seem to. Basically I've started to really like a girl I work with. For the past year really we've started ...
A. 14 September 2010: I'll tell you right now, if you go in for an unexpected kiss she will most likely reject you. Most women don't like to be caught off guard like that, it's not how it seems in the movies. Plus, it could make the situation awkward if she doesn't ... (read in full...)
Am I being taken for granted by the love of my Life after 13 years?
Q. This is my first time using this and this very complicated, so here goes. I will try and shorten my story up for readability. I really need some solid advice for this group because I feel like I am dying a little every day: Please don't disregard ...
A. 14 September 2010: Seeing as your 41-50 you're going to wait another 12 years so you can have her when you're a senior? That will be a total of 36 years you have waited for this woman, sorry but that is entirely too long and your life is halfway over. I see you're ... (read in full...)
How do I achieve being a one man woman?
Q. I am what you call a "real life Samantha Jones". I'm a 47 year old woman who lost her virginity when she was 12. Throughout my teen years after that, I had seven sex partners. One of which was my first love who I lost my virginity to (we were ...
A. 14 September 2010: On a side note, not all men use women. And once I stopped my Ms. Jones ways it only took 2 boyfriends and a small fling later to meet my husband.... (read in full...)
How do I achieve being a one man woman?
Q. I am what you call a "real life Samantha Jones". I'm a 47 year old woman who lost her virginity when she was 12. Throughout my teen years after that, I had seven sex partners. One of which was my first love who I lost my virginity to (we were ...
A. 14 September 2010: Wow, Samantha was my favorite, so powerful to tip the scales and use men just like they use women. I had a brief moment where I tuned into my young inner Samantha, (engaged to a man no sex for a year and a half will make a woman go crazy) from ... (read in full...)
Pregnant with my LD boyfriends baby!
Q. Recently I visited my long distance boyfriend who is residing in the US while I'm living in Canada finishing my degree. About a month after returning from my trip I found out I was pregnant. So far I haven't told anybody, I've also decided to keep ...
A. 14 September 2010: Well congrats on your pregnancy, it sounds exciting and scary for you. Are you still on your parents' insurance? Check into that first. Is so then no worries. However, if you aren't covered anymore then I'm unsure if his insurance will cover the ... (read in full...)
I guess what I'm saying is, has anyone else ever experienced this random intense need to hug people?
Q. Hi I'm a high school student and I have a question not regarding romantic relationships, but love of a different sort. I suppose this is rather odd, but I get really attached to my teachers. As an aspiring teacher myself I've done a lot of voluntee...
A. 14 September 2010: Nope can't say I've had that urge to hug my teacher. Now maybe I hugged my teacher in kindergarten when they helped me tie my shoe..But that was long before all these teachers having sexual relationships with their students. Really, your teachers ... (read in full...)
Why the need for so many lovers?
Q. My daughter is 19. She has had at least 10 sexual partners that I know of. Am I out of touch for feeling that this is excessive? We have good communication, what is going on?...
A. 14 September 2010: No, I feel that teens are way too sexually energized these days. Most people think my magic number is high being in the double digits and I'm 25. So to me 10 at 19 years old does sound high, however I have no room to judge. Have you had that ... (read in full...)
My sister in law doesn't mind being naked with me!
Q. My sister-in-law (single and attractive) graduated college and recently took a job near where my wife and I live. My wife told her to stay with us in the spare bedroom until she found a place of her own. Initially, she wore a robe over her ni...
A. 14 September 2010: She sounds like one of those liberal women who view the body as just an outer shell. They're comfortable in their own skin, and what she has is something you have already seen before. Actually I had a friend like that, she would shower and then dry ... (read in full...)
Do juniors like freshman?
Q. i just started high school,... and i met this guy on the first day. he's a junior, and im a freshman. i dont have any classes with him, but every time i see him, and he sees me, he gives me this crazy-adorable smile. how do i know if he's interested ...
A. 14 September 2010: Of course you're fresh meat. You're a new crop of women to roll into school. My husband is 5 years older than me, so yes I do like them a little older. But do beware because you are younger, these guys are a little advanced. They are interested in ... (read in full...)
My boyfriends friends are presurring him to have sex!
Q. Hi everyone. I have a problem. I've been with my boyfriend for 17 months now (almost 18 months!!!) and he's now at college (he's 15, almost 16 and I'm 13, almost 14). I've just started my GCSE's, and he's just started his A Levels. He left just ove...
A. 14 September 2010: Well, thank god you both have the right idea about sex and you want to wait till your legal. Do note dear, if you have sex right now and he turns 16, then your parents can charge him with statutory rape. There are laws about the legal age you have ... (read in full...)
My heart says not to end this buy my head says I should? interracial relationship
Q. I am a white male, live and have lived in a mainly white suburb all my life, and most of my associations have been with others of my race. We are a pretty liberal family and I have always been raised that everyone is equal, but that being said our ...
A. 14 September 2010: You know some of the prettiest women I know are black. Really? There's still problems with interracial relationships? Well darling it's 2010 and we're trying to legalize gay marriage in more states, you'd think people would accept color by now. I'm ... (read in full...)
Kids having sex!
Q. OK lately I see a lot of questions here where children from the age of 14-16,17 years think that they are old enough to have sex. They don't understand anything about it. They think that they are ready. There are even parents who agree with the idea ...
A. 13 September 2010: Honestly I didn't lose my virginity at 18, and that was back in the days where girls regretted unless, they married their first which wasn't too common. Nowadays, the don't regret they're just on to their next victim. It kills me to see this ... (read in full...)
My wife just wants oral!
Q. My wife does not want intercourse or me to touch her, she only wants to do oral to me? she used to never want to do that at all? It has went on for months. I dont know what to think?...
A. 13 September 2010: Well, that I have never heard of..like everyone said that's really odd for just one to receive and not the other or no intercourse involved. We usually get men on hear complaining about their wife not wanting to give their husband oral, they only ... (read in full...)
He friended me on facebook but no contact since. Do I make contact?
Q. This guy in my church friended me on facebook recently. We've never talked but it looks like he's friended a number of other people at church as well. I accepted, somewhat out of curiousity and the assurance that he was already friends with people I ...
A. 13 September 2010: You know I'm one of those annoying friends on Facebook that add people but forget to write on their wall. If your shy they write on his wall, first and see if he comments. Start with hey, or you can talk about church, school, or work. Maybe go grab ... (read in full...)
I'm 5'6" and she's 6'2", does it matter?
Q. Ok so i'm a guy and im alround 5'6 and im kinda self conscious about my height. me and this girl have been talking for a long time and were kind of a thing but not offically dating. i like her a lot and she likes me a lot and she wants to date. she ...
A. 13 September 2010: People will be making comments every time you will just have to block it out. Well, if she's gorgeous then you have scored yourself a potential model as far as I'm concerned and that is something to be proud of. Flaunt your gorgeous, tall, new woman ... (read in full...)
How to get his ex out of our lives?
Q. How can i get rid of my boyfriend ex? She wont leave us alone. Constant texts, facebook messages, emails. Done everything we can, blocked her contacts, she just uses others. Changed our number, she finds it our from friends, so we've had to stop ...
A. 13 September 2010: You've both blocked her from Facebook? If she keeps trying to contact you through email or Facebook, then I would go as far as to delete both those accounts and use a work or school email. What came to my mind was a restraining order, this woman is ... (read in full...)
Can I increase my semen?
Q. I'm 19 and I know I'm basically at the height of my sexual prowess right now. I was wondering if there was any ways I could increase the size of my loads, that is semen. It would make orgasms that much more enjoyable but more importantly I just love ...
A. 13 September 2010: One of my guy friends said that when he felt like he was going to cum, he would hold it and keep going, it would settle, then the next time he climaxed he would release a wad so to speak. ... (read in full...)
I want a steady boyfriend and excitement on the side!
Q. I'm 14 and I have one of those boyfriends that everyone says is a 'great guy'. And he is. He's generous, good-looking, absolutely adores me and has never betrayed my trust and I don't think ever wants to. I lost my virginity to him at 13 and we've ...
A. 13 September 2010: My oh my. At fourteen I didn't even know what a fuckbuddy was. How times have changed, I guess us agony aunts and uncles will have to accept that teens are more and more sexually charged these days, just hard to digest.
Yes, because at 14 you h... (read in full...)
Boyfriend doing drugs, I know I can do better..but I still don't walk away
Q. I've been with my current boyfriend for one year and 8 months.. and I'm at a point where I realize I'm too good for him.. but when I'm with him, I'm so happy, until we try to have a conversation.. like a serious conversation. He shuts down. He ...
A. 13 September 2010: Well what will make you 100% happy? Are you with him for the long term, I mean is he husband material, do you see a future with him? That's the question you need to ponder. He sounds like he's fried, and that's a point of no return. I know guys like ... (read in full...)
I want boyfriend's daughter to be an adult and live her life elsewhere!
Q. I have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for 2 years now. I recently moved in with him 3 months ago. His 21 year old daughter still lives at home. I am a very laid back person and thought I could deal with her still living at home. For a ...
A. 13 September 2010: Yikes, he let her quit high school? Well, I'm sure being a single parent without much help isn't easy thus a lack of discipline for his daughter over the years. I too was a daddy's girl, and she's got him wrapped around her finger. The only thing ... (read in full...)
This relationship lacks so much affection
Q. I have been in a relationship for seven years now. We live together, am engaged, and I have an eight year old son. However, this relationship lacks so much affection. He has never been the affectionate type, however I like affection. I don't need a ...
A. 13 September 2010: I agree it's sometimes the small things that make all the difference. Although, you got into this relationship knowing he's never been the affectionate type. It seems like he expressed a little bit of affection at first then it died over the years. ... (read in full...)
I like this boy and so does my enemy!
Q. i dont know what to do i have been out with this boy about 4 times and ive liked him ever since, he dumped me because we argued but it wasnt like argueing to be honest, it was about stupid things he dont really take things seriously and i have told ...
A. 13 September 2010: You can't make someone like you, dear. You've been out with him 4 times meaning you guys have been boyfriend/girlfriend 4 times and and broke up 4 times or you had 4 dates? At your age, no guy wants to stick around with a girl he argues with. It's ... (read in full...)
We've broke up so why does my ex want to see photos of us?
Q. Last night my ex boyfriend called me, we've been apart for almost a month and we've been in touch and we still have feelings for each other but he has some past issues, so we cant be together until he solve that issues, but I dont understand him, ...
A. 13 September 2010: You're broke up so of course you should delete those pictures. If you still had them up then you would still be hanging onto him. You don't know how long it will take for him to fix his issues or if you guys will get back together. It's not fair for ... (read in full...)
Should I wear necklace ex gave me when I see him?
Q. My bf and I have been broken up for about a month now. We were together for 2 years and we talked a couple days ago and we're meeting up for lunch next week. he gave me a expensive necklace about a year ago and ive worn it everyday since the day he ...
A. 13 September 2010: Why didn't you give back this lavish gift when he broke up with you? It's kind of similar to when an engagement is broke off the woman gives her ex fiance back the ring. However, I do know there is some cases where guys tell you to keep these ... (read in full...)
Help! No longer sexually attracted to my chubby wife...
Q. So we all know that men are visual creatures. My problem is that I am just not that attracted to my wife anymore. We have been married 15 years. She is a pretty woman, but has slowly gained weight. She is maybe 40-50 lbs overweight, and weighs ...
A. 13 September 2010: @Universe man, all I'm saying is we accept the male for what he has come to be with age, why can't males accept their now overweight spouses? Gained weight isn't permanent, it can be fixed. So maybe husbands should stop whining about their not so ... (read in full...)
Is it ok for a teen to take a multivitamin?
Q. Is it okay for a teen to take a multivitamin? I've heard with women it can cause all sorts of things such as breast cancer etc. But I feel weak and I might not be getting enough vitamins/minerals. So is it safe for me to take one? (I'm 16) I've ...
A. 13 September 2010: Vitamins can do you no harm my dear. I worked in a pharmacy for 2 years and never heard of those rumors. They say Diet Coke can cause cancer but the FDA hasn't removed it from the shelves and people continue to buy it. If you go to Wal-Mart or ... (read in full...)
After just 2 months I feel alone and trapped in this marriage
Q. hello my name is tinker and i have a question i am married im young and i dont think i am in love with my husband any more sorry i no it sounds bad and i feel bad but at the same time idk what to do about my feelings i cant stand the way he treats ...
A. 13 September 2010: Well tinker, any chance your last name is bell? Just kidding.
Honey, if he's doing all this why did you marry him? Or did he all of a sudden change? If you're not happy, he's not allowing you to have friends, everyone needs friends, there's ... (read in full...)
Help! No longer sexually attracted to my chubby wife...
Q. So we all know that men are visual creatures. My problem is that I am just not that attracted to my wife anymore. We have been married 15 years. She is a pretty woman, but has slowly gained weight. She is maybe 40-50 lbs overweight, and weighs ...
A. 10 September 2010: You're put off by her weight an nothing more?..If it was all about appearance then shouldn't women be divorcing their husbands who are balding, have beer bellies, and erectile dysfunction? My husband most likely won't look like he does now at 50, so ... (read in full...)
Help! No longer sexually attracted to my chubby wife...
Q. So we all know that men are visual creatures. My problem is that I am just not that attracted to my wife anymore. We have been married 15 years. She is a pretty woman, but has slowly gained weight. She is maybe 40-50 lbs overweight, and weighs ...
A. 10 September 2010: You sound a little shallow here wanting to possibly divorce her because she gained weight. I'm wondering what you look like.. Women gain that comfort weight in marriage, plus added baby weight if you got kids, and looks change over time..we're not ... (read in full...)
12 years together, am I just wasting my life?
Q. Hi,I last wrote moaning that my boyfriend ignored my birthday. Here I am again. We've been together 12 years and have a son.I am down 'cos Christmas is coming and I know it'll be another disappointment, not the fact that I wont get any presents, but ...
A. 7 September 2010: You know it sounds like there is other problems in your marriage other than you not receiving presents on your birthday or on holidays. 12 years is a lot to invest in marriage, plus you have a son...now to me marriage is sacred you took those vows ... (read in full...)
Married man but now I KNOW I prefer men... help!
Q. I've been married to a woman who I love very much for 4 years now and have been with her for almost 7 years. Before we hooked up, I was in two consecutive homosexual relationships. She knew and even supported me at that time, and we were good ...
A. 21 August 2010: Excellent, once u move out and get ur life started then u can work on the friendship, possibly even besties! For now, its best to coexist with one another as peacefully as possible and understand now u are just roommates..I hope all goes well!... (read in full...)
Married man but now I KNOW I prefer men... help!
Q. I've been married to a woman who I love very much for 4 years now and have been with her for almost 7 years. Before we hooked up, I was in two consecutive homosexual relationships. She knew and even supported me at that time, and we were good ...
A. 4 August 2010: How awkward for your wife..I dont believe in bisexuality you either lean towards one more than the other, there is no in between...Now u must realize how yoyr wife must feel, probably freaked out and blaming everything on herself..or maybe she's ... (read in full...)
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