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What qualifies me to help you? Vast dating experience, especially in the LDR department, even an international on with an Aussie, broke hearts, had mine broken, been engaged once before, I know what a real friend is, seen the ugly side of divorce coming from a recently broken home myself, even went as far as to tip the odds to my side and use men only to toss them aside like yesterday's garbage like they do women, I know what it's like to almost give up hope on finding the perfect man when he's really only a few boyfriends away, and I'm starting to learn the ropes of married life. I also know a vast deal about the female and male reproductive system, and all about the mental struggles with infertility. On a side note, I'm the one who gives you tough love, I'm not on here to sugarcoat it or to tell you what you want to hear. I'm going to give it to you straight up, wouldn't you rather the truth?
-TOP 5 QUESTIONS I CAN'T STAND-
#1. Does this mean my teacher likes me?
Just because they're nice to you, offer extra help, and put a little gold star on your A+ paper doesn't mean they are in love with you.
#2. Could I be pregnant?
Have you not heard of a pregnancy test? Get off this website, and go to your local drugstore.
#3. I'm 14 and I want a baby?
Really? Me too! Oh wait I'm 28 and married. You're how old again?
#4. My husband loves porn more than me!
Maybe if you didn't let yourself go into the frumpy woman you have turned into then he wouldn't have to look at porn now would he? I recommend you get your rear to the salon for highlights, manicure, pedicure, tanning, toss the baggy tees and sweat pants for a wardrobe that fits, and a little makeup goes a long way. It's called basic woman maintenance in order to keep your man's eyes on you.
#5. Will we get back together, how can I get him to love me again?
Unfortunately, my crystal ball is broke at the moment and I just gave away the last of my love potion No. 9. Sorry.
MY GENERAL RULES OF THUMB (this should be common sense)
-No means no.
-Girls can ask out ask guys, this is a new generation.
-Unless you know sign language or are telepathic, you're going to have to talk to him/her.
-My "Don't ask, Don't tell" policy as is follows: Do not by any means volunteer your own sexual history, or ask your date/partner/wife/girlfriend their magic number (how many people they've slept with). If you find yourself being prompted to answer this question, politely tell them that's none of their business.
-Your past doesn't define who you are today. We grow, mature, age, and change as time passes.
-If you have to even ask random strangers on this website if you should have sex, then you're not ready for it.
-FWBs, fuck buddies, no strings attached, whatever you want to call it..is not a relationship don't get the 2 confused. In this case, sex=sex, not love.
-No trust=no relationship.
-It is normal for your husband/boyfriend to have friends of the opposite sex, do you not have male friends?
-LDRs can work, however they're not for everyone. You've got to have trust, communication, be faithful, and a lot of hobbies to keep yourself occupied. If you have trust issues, a case of being needy, clingy, problems staying faithful and are in a LDR don't be surprised when it doesn't work. I told you so.
- An ex is an ex for a reason. If you guys couldn't hack it as a couple the first 2 times what makes you think the third time is a charm?
-Going on a "break" is a nice way of breaking up.
-If you have sex with a man and he hasn't called you, or responded to your texts in weeks sorry to say but he was just after a piece of ass.
- Now unless he's getting blown up in Afghanistan, an on call ER doctor, or lying dead in a coffin then he's got no excuse for his poor or lack there of communication.
-You have a 12% chance of your married boyfriend leaving his wife and children.
-A man who is going through a divorce is still legally married. He's about to have an ex wife and you're wanting to get into a relationship with him? That's called a rebound.
-If you're a minor who's just found out she's pregnant, do me and everyone else on this site a favor..Tell your parents.
-Just because some one stares at you, it doesn't mean they like you. They could be staring at that booger hanging out of your nose.
-If you have a lump/bump/cyst/rash that looks green, has oozing puss, and itches like hell, but kinda looks like a STD then you had better consult your doctor. They went through 6 years of schooling and have a license to practice medicine, I think they would know better than random virtual strangers.
-Don't mix business with pleasure. Why? Because if you date your co-worker and in the event things turn sour then you're still stuck facing them 9-5, Mon-Fri. Awkward.
-No matter how hard you try, you can't change a person..they have to make that transformation themselves.
-When your boyfriend/girlfriend says they want space that doesn't mean you do the opposite and bombard them with calls/texts.
-As far as ultimatums go, don't try to make your boyfriend choose between you, his female friends, or weed. You won't like the results.
-If you're 13-17, I'm sorry but you haven't a clue what love really is. You have minimal dating experience confined to the high school dating pool which are nothing but horny boys. Their facial hair doesn't make them a man. It's only till you get out into the real world, a vast dating pool is when you learn the definition of love. So, go on thinking you and 13 year old Tommy will go on to get married, have 3 kids, and a two story house with a white picket fence. I don't expect you to listen, I'm 28 and married, what do I know? There's a reason why everyone says it won't last..because it doesn't.
-The average penis size erect is 6 inches, 4.85 inches. Women like average to even a little below average. We're not going to bust out a tape measure and measure it to make sure it's up to our standards. We just want to have sex, so enough complaining about your size let's get down and dirty.
- The legal age of consent in the U.S. is 16-18 varying oer state, in Britain it's 16. I think it's safe to say most parts of the world (unless you live in a tribe with their own form of government) the legal age to consent to sex is 16. So yes, all you minors below the age of consent are committing a crime when you engage in sexual activity. The age is set that high for a reason, you are not above the law. |
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My friend is making a big mistake! How can I make her see sense?
Q. My friend who's my age is having sex in a week w/ a guy who's not even her boyfriend (she doesn't have one). Basically, she's in love with this guy and he's a total player. He hooks up with anyone that has boobs and something to stick it in (yes, ...
A. 13 October 2010: Yikes, what an irresponsible girl...Not even at the legal age of consent. The deed is done, and looks like she's on cloud nine, but that will soon come to an end when she soon realizes she was nothing but a piece of rear. It's rather sad she hasn't ... (read in full...)
She constantly accuses me of cheating
Q. My girl and I have been together for over two years lived together two yrs this month. In that two years, she has cheated once, we were broken up for a bit. Has failed to find/keep a job, doesn't clean w/ being told, doesn't wake up with our 5mo old ...
A. 17 September 2010: She needs an anti-depressant and counseling...Sits at home all day, doesn't engage in activities she once enjoyed, lack of sleep or sleeping too much, changes in weight either eating nothing or too much, wanting to stay at home where it's safe, and ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend not working right now it's driving me crazy!
Q. i work and my boyfriend doesnt is it okay for me to expect him to do more around the house? he sits here all day with his friends and chills while im at work then when i come home the house is always untidy.(even if it was clean when i left) i get ...
A. 17 September 2010: http://www.webmd.com/depression/recognizing-depression-symptoms/antidepressants
Those are the different types of drugs he can take, but being as he has free healthcare he might be limited on his options. However, the next doctor visit I would ha... (read in full...)
How can I take a busy girl's friendship further into a potential relationship?
Q. How can I take a busy girl's friendship further into a potential relationship? ~~~~~~ In detail: She's the average, silent, "I am keeping to my work, and putting it first above all else" kind of girl. I know that she likes me, and her aunt h...
A. 17 September 2010: You only what us to write what you want to hear, I say be more open minded than that. Really there is no right or wrong advice on here, you're on here because you need advice, advice is people's opinions what we would do if we were in your ... (read in full...)
I'm too old to get pregnant at 39, right?
Q. I thought i already post last 2 days ago and i cant find my post so here i am again writing again. Hello to all, i just wanna ask something. I am 39 years old. 4 days after my days i took a pills. But then i realize i am already old so i stop my...
A. 17 September 2010: 35+ it's not recommended that you should try for a baby, because the older you are the more likely the baby will have complications or it will be harder for you to because your body is producing less eggs. Now unless, you have had your tubes tied, ... (read in full...)
We've been trying to have a baby, then I find out he's fathered a child with another woman
Q. As you see from my name. I am just that...so scared. I have been married now for nine years and with my husband for thirteen years. I found out maybe two weeks ago that he has been having an affair. Also with a person I know but through someone else ...
A. 17 September 2010: Yeah you're not going to get any closure on this, and if she won't do DNA testing then that makes me think your husband wasn't the only man she was sleeping with. So go with the counseling and see how it goes, but i would not by any means make this ... (read in full...)
Can a straight man turn gay and then turn straight again? I think were in love!
Q. Hello. I do not know who to turn to about this and am hoping someone out there can give me some advice. My best friend is a gay man. We are very close. We spend a lot of time together and we both truly love each other and have said so numerous ...
A. 17 September 2010: There's no typical gay male, they come from all walks of life and don't by any means look a certain why. Some are masculine such as the one your describing, others are metro sexual with a little more femininity, such are drag queens, others cross ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend not working right now it's driving me crazy!
Q. i work and my boyfriend doesnt is it okay for me to expect him to do more around the house? he sits here all day with his friends and chills while im at work then when i come home the house is always untidy.(even if it was clean when i left) i get ...
A. 17 September 2010: Oh yeah they need to change his depression medicine they're clearly not effective. It really sounds like he doesn't care to get a job...Yes, you're right you have to be assertive and sometimes pestering to get people to review your application...the ... (read in full...)
My friend is making a big mistake! How can I make her see sense?
Q. My friend who's my age is having sex in a week w/ a guy who's not even her boyfriend (she doesn't have one). Basically, she's in love with this guy and he's a total player. He hooks up with anyone that has boobs and something to stick it in (yes, ...
A. 17 September 2010: What a piece of crap. Honestly there's nothing you can do or say to make her change her mind..She's going to do what she wants. I'm a little afraid if you made an anonymous tip to her parents she will find it you did it thus jeopardizing your ... (read in full...)
I wanna end it with him and shouldn't have to keep pretending.
Q. Iv'e only been going out with this guy for 2 weeks and i did think he was good looking and had a great personality so he asked me out and i said yes. we've kissed and everything but for some reason i dont feel like he is my boyfriend and i dont know ...
A. 17 September 2010: 2 weeks into dating and you've discovered you're really not that into him? End it there's no sense in staying with him if you're not happy. You're not only being unfair to your feelings but him as well because you're just stringing him along.... (read in full...)
I feel sick in my belly... advice appreciated!
Q. hi I am 29 years old and was with my boyfriend for a few months he is in the military, we had our disagreements before he got deployed, he was the perfect guy at the beginning, then all changed, he started getting upset every time i want to talk ...
A. 17 September 2010: Spolier alert! I haven't watched T3 yet!!
Like Honeypie said the internet isn't always up to pare overseas. Technically, you can't prove he cheated...all he did was long onto a website he apparently used before you. But i understand why long on ... (read in full...)
Problem dad!!!
Q. I really need help. I am a freshman in highschool, and my crush asked me out today. I said yes but, my dad is super overprotctive. So how do i tell my dad that i want to go out with this guy?...
A. 17 September 2010: Yeah, my parents mostly my dad wouldn't let me date boys until I was 16. You are under dad's roof so you must abide by dad's rules. The only thing you can do is ask, but when he says no he means no. ... (read in full...)
Should I confront her on calling me a loser?
Q. Today was not a good day. First of all, I horribly failed a test in my best subject. Now, my friend is telling me that a girl that I am mutual friends with calls me a loser. I have never called her a mean name in my life. She is a social drifter ...
A. 17 September 2010: Oh peacock20, you aren't having such a hot school year are you dear? Doesn't even sound like a friend to me, just what I like to call a chameleon who blends into groups when she really has no friends because no one can stand her. I suggest you ... (read in full...)
I can't decide between 2 guys
Q. I can't decide between 2 guys. The first guy i dated for about 3 months then he left me for another girl who was pregnant with someone else's baby. Then he broke up with her and came back to me where he continued to sleep with her behind my ba...
A. 17 September 2010: The cheater or the guy you really have nothing in common with? Hmmm tough choice, how about neither. I'm not going to even go there about the cheater, you'd be an idiot to go back to him. No, he won't refrain from cheating on you again.
This ... (read in full...)
Where is this relationship going to lead?
Q. Im dating this guy. We've been together for about seven months but I dont really trust him with other girls because i found out he may have grinded with other girls at a dance a while ago. I had 6 friends come to me and argue whether he did or not ...
A. 17 September 2010: 7 months and a break-up later he proposed? Have you even set a date, and no where in your post did you refer to him as your fiance. I really don't think either of you are in the marriage mind set. Can't help but think he proposed to you to say he ... (read in full...)
Is this girl worth pursuing or is it a dead cause?
Q. Hi there! There was/is this really kool girl who quite evidently was very into me, despite her being 3 years older than me (im 20). Anyway as we work on a project together once every week or so (yes its a working relationship) and althought we wou...
A. 17 September 2010: What was this strong signal that screamed make a move? I don't even send signals, one I don't have time for that crap, two often they guy doesn't get it or gets confused, and three I go in for the kill, no beating around the bush here. So you went ... (read in full...)
I'm always told that I look like a guy?
Q. hey. i could do with some advice on how to either boost my confidence or how to ignore everyones snide comments. i regularly get comments about how i look like a guy. i don't think i do, i'm a size 12, with definate breasts and i have a fairly sl...
A. 17 September 2010: Makeup isn't hard, you can go to the make-up counters in the department stores and those women will show you how to put it on. Given it does take some time to master it but now's the time to start. Really all you need is some blush, a little ... (read in full...)
How do I trust my wife again, after the many lies she has told me?
Q. I can't cope with Lies I've been married to my wife for 4 years, we have been together for 7 we have two children between us, my daughter is a toddler and my stepson is nearly a teenager, I want the best for both of them as the priority here, b...
A. 17 September 2010: The first step is admitting you have a problem. I can tell you love your wife, but you're going to have to tune into some tough love. I'm the frugal one is my marriage believe it or not I was like your wife(not the extreme) but still a shopaholic. ... (read in full...)
Our height differences seem to be creating an issue in our relationship! Any advice?
Q. Theres a guy at school who I really like and I know that he likes me too. He is a foot taller then me though. You can laugh. But I've been told its cute... Bearing in mind hes very tall for our age and Im pretty short for our age. This was never a ...
A. 16 September 2010: I'm 5'6 and I dated a guy who was 6'7 a couple of years ago. He had to bend over to give me a kiss, it was quite cute actually. I've always liked taller guys, makes me feel protected. However, we ended up breaking up for other reasons not due to the ... (read in full...)
How do I trust my wife again, after the many lies she has told me?
Q. I can't cope with Lies I've been married to my wife for 4 years, we have been together for 7 we have two children between us, my daughter is a toddler and my stepson is nearly a teenager, I want the best for both of them as the priority here, b...
A. 16 September 2010: Money is the number one argument in a marriage. Thank god, me and my husband don't argue about it. You're going to have to take over the finances and be the frugal one since she clearly feels the need to blow it. As a woman, I understand the need ... (read in full...)
He tolerates my bad attitude...so should I rethink about breaking up with him?
Q. I met this nice guy online last year. we have not met as of yet because of my blowing up. I guess I blow up because I am not understanding of what is going on. and when I blow up he does not know the reason why I did that. so we have had some bad ...
A. 16 September 2010: So why were you blowing up at him? He's in the military, you have got to understand he doesn't always have the time to talk to you, or is too drained and can't control where the military sends him next. If you date him you're dating the military ... (read in full...)
My husband doesn't shower or brush his teeth as often as he should, what should I do?
Q. I love my husband very much but lately, there are some things I just can oversee. I mean is there a nice way to tell the man you love that he always has very bad breath... he could forget to brush his teeth for a couple of days, and showers ...
A. 16 September 2010: Ew. I think I just puked in my mouth. Going in for a kiss with someone who has kicking breath, that is the ultimate turn off. Couldn't imagine going to bed with someone reeking of body funk and unclean crevices. I agree with the majority vote, ... (read in full...)
I feel like I have to be around when he drinks so he wont do anything stupid.
Q. I don’t feel comfortable with him going out without me. In the start of our relationship he did some things to loose my trust. Now over a year and a half later, we have been doing really good (had our up's and downs) but have really came a long way, ...
A. 16 September 2010: It's simple don't drink and then he won't put himself in those potential situations. He is 100% responsible for himself and his actions regardless of alcohol. Who wants to be babysitting their boyfriend? What kind of relationship is that constantly ... (read in full...)
I'm always told that I look like a guy?
Q. hey. i could do with some advice on how to either boost my confidence or how to ignore everyones snide comments. i regularly get comments about how i look like a guy. i don't think i do, i'm a size 12, with definate breasts and i have a fairly sl...
A. 16 September 2010: Well by your post you sound like a female to me. Maybe you have a strong jawline and defined features is why they confuse you for a male. Try wearing your hair in a ponytail to bring out your face and weak a little makeup. There's no need to dress ... (read in full...)
This email made me suspicious
Q. where do i start, my partner of 3 years works away so only see him every 3 months which is hard we get on really really well we never argue. but suddenly i got an email of a girl saying oh i know ur boyfriend we got out for drinks together when im ...
A. 16 September 2010: International calling and texting is expensive, so Facebook is a free and popular way of keeping in touch. Wow, what did your boyfriend do for you to not trust him? You're looking way more into than you need to. Your jealousy and insecurities are ... (read in full...)
Wedding already paid for but I'm not attracted to her and don't think I love her!
Q. Hi im a 25 yrs old man. I find very difficult for me to say no to other people or to tell anything that will make anybody feel bad. I been almost all my life a strong christian, trying to save myself to my wife. in until i was 23 i had never been in ...
A. 16 September 2010: Please do not marry someone you don't love. If you don't marry for love what will you be marrying for? Guilt. And divorce is pretty pricey.
I can't help but feel you felt obligated to marry her. Is it because her visa will be running out? The... (read in full...)
Got drunk, flipped out and now my guy doesn't want to be with me!
Q. Help! I have been with my boyfriend for about 3 years. Wev'e had some problems in the past with me drinking hard liquor which made me crazy and flip out. Plus I've lost my job almost a year ago so I am stressed to the max. So we broke up got back ...
A. 16 September 2010: Your drinking and the way you acted made him finally leave. After 3 years of alcohol, and breaking up then making up enough is enough. A lot could happen in 2 months but don't count on him changing his mind. Apologize to him, let him know you're ... (read in full...)
She needs to get her life together before she can give me her whole heart
Q. Last night my girlfriend and I had a talk. She is still going through a divorce (has been since February, but it's just taking a long time for one reason or another), she says she feels a little suffocated, and she says she needs to get her life ...
A. 16 September 2010: She's not even divorced yet! 1 weeks isn't enough time and space to give her. You need to give her more, she is going to be adjusting to a new life versus the old one she had. Or she may be thinking of getting back with her husband, there could be a ... (read in full...)
Why does it feel different every time?
Q. My husband accuses me of cheating all the time. His reason is one day we will have sex and my vagina is tight and abd the next time he says its loose. He tells me a man can tell when another guy has been in his stuff. I'm not cheating on him. Can ...
A. 16 September 2010: It's like throwing a hot dog down a hallway."
Your vagina doesn't go from tight to loose in a matter of a day. Over time your vagina stretches, even more so when you have children. Your husband's reasoning for your apparent loose vagina is a pis... (read in full...)
Just the thought of it excites her that much?
Q. I have a rather large dick, 9 1/4 inches long and about as big around as the bottom of a beer bottle. Is it normal for my girlfriend to orgasm JUST by me dangling it over her crotch when naked? She says its just the thought of the size that ...
A. 16 September 2010: Hello Ron Jeremy. A big one turns her and gets the juices flowing let's just say that. But to cum without you even sticking it in or any clitoral stimulation? No, women don't cum that quick and easily. ... (read in full...)
Guys: Hot and cold?
Q. one minute hes soo sweet,considerate and perfect gives you all his attention and then hes a total idiot who doesn't care if you exist. why would he behave like that?? thnx..xx...
A. 16 September 2010: Is this a guy you like? What did Katy Perry say in that song? She says "I should know you're n good for me and I should know you're not going to change." Steer clear of borderline bipolar, indecisive men.... (read in full...)
Should I fight for my abusive relationship with the man I love, or move on?
Q. I met the love of my life when i was 15, and we got married as soon as i turned 18. We had separated because he had cheated on me. Soon after we got back together, our marriage became abusive, everything between name calling to every-other-day full ...
A. 16 September 2010: Really do you even have to ask that question? If he loved you he wouldn't hit you..bottom line. Let me point out 2 wrongs don't make a right, and when he cheated on you that doesn't give you a free pass to cheat as well. What have you gained from ... (read in full...)
She constantly accuses me of cheating
Q. My girl and I have been together for over two years lived together two yrs this month. In that two years, she has cheated once, we were broken up for a bit. Has failed to find/keep a job, doesn't clean w/ being told, doesn't wake up with our 5mo old ...
A. 16 September 2010: TimDD says it all. May I point out she's the one that cheated in this relationship and she fears that you have or will retaliate. She needs to open her eyes and see that you really don't have the time, or the energy because you're way too busy ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend was distant, so I broke up with her. Will she come back? Help!
Q. My girlfriend and I have been dating for 7 months, and had a great summer living together, but once we got back to our normal school routine, and she got a new place with new roomates, she started to seem really distant. We started having way less ...
A. 16 September 2010: Now's just not the time. There's something bothering or eating at her she needs to fix first before she can be in a relationship again. Give her the space you said you would give her and that you need. If you continue to talk to her regularly you'll ... (read in full...)
Girlfriend says "its him or me" in reference to my friend!
Q. So i told my girlfriend of a year and four months that my friend, one of my best friends, want to come visit me at my college for a day. she goes here to but she hates him. the only reason she hates him is because she thinks he got me to break up ...
A. 16 September 2010:
Really, let me clarify that most women do know we can't tell a guy what he can and can't do or pick his friends for him, especially when you're just boyfriend/girlfriend. Now when you're married you have a small say but even then you gotta pi... (read in full...)
This email made me suspicious
Q. where do i start, my partner of 3 years works away so only see him every 3 months which is hard we get on really really well we never argue. but suddenly i got an email of a girl saying oh i know ur boyfriend we got out for drinks together when im ...
A. 16 September 2010: It doesn't raise any suspicion from me. I see it as her way of introducing herself to you, she's a pen pal, international friend so to speak. Why would she email the best friend's girlfriend when she's having relations with him? What could she ... (read in full...)
Now that we see each other more what do I do now?
Q. Last year I broke up with my boyfriend right before summer vacation started,we were together for about 4 months.. but now that we're back in school, hes in a few of my classes... and we talk a lot... i broke up with him because i knew we wouldn't...
A. 16 September 2010: Ask him if it's possible for you two to get back together. But chances are if he failed to keep up the contact with you which is basic maintenance of a relationship..chances are he'll probably struggle the second time around. See if he'll give you a ... (read in full...)
Not sure what to do with a coworker that I'm interested in.
Q. Ok so I've been liking my coworker for awhile now and at first I really didn't think she was the type of girl I would want. I judged her by how she acted at work where she would be loud and obnoxious playing the strong women role. A mistake in my ...
A. 16 September 2010: Well you got one chance, so you must take it. Let me clarify something for you. When she said she is "seeing" this other guy that means she's in the stage of getting to know him, testing out the waters, post relationship. Your communication is good ... (read in full...)
What about clubbing?
Q. Clubbing Question.. Where do you stand on clubbing? My significant other likes to go out and club every couple of months. I told her Im ok with anything she does that she would be comfortable doing if I was in the room. Well.. She got wasted one n...
A. 16 September 2010: Oh boy, it was the alcohol's fault not hers..right. Well, no one forced alcohol down her throat, and you told her ahead of time no dancing but come on what else are you going to do at a club? Stand there? That's fine if you permit her every so often ... (read in full...)
Did he just say he liked me to make me feel better?
Q. Hello I'm in the middle of a really annoying situation just now to do with a guy I really like (let's call him fred). I really like Fred and Fred really likes me but he won't go out with me because he used to like a girl (let's call her Sarah) but ...
A. 16 September 2010: And what did Fred say? Fred still cares about Sarah hence why he won't go out with you. Otherwise why would he care about hurting her feelings. He does't care about your feelings getting hurt because he said he liked you and now won't go out with ... (read in full...)
Should I put up a front???
Q. Why in the World do i like older guys?! I mean, not much older, but the age difference could be from 4 to 11 years, which is not that much to me considering my relatives but my friends all think its so weird. They always think I'm hiding something ...
A. 16 September 2010: You're just maturing faster than the rest of the girls in your grade. You have the need to have stimulating conversation about the recession and not discuss Victoria's Secrets push up bras. Older mature guys give you that satisfying conversation you ... (read in full...)
Am I just wasting my time? or do I wait and see what happens?
Q. theres this guy i've met few weeks ago in a club i havent talked to him so when i saw that on facebook he has gave me a friend request and we talk everyday since. his cute really nice and it seems like he really likes me. he is 5years older then me ...
A. 16 September 2010: Just curious as to why a guy who is nearly done or is done with college interested in a girl who hasn't graduated high school..I question his motivation here. Dear, he is what I like to call a man whore or the nicer term ladies man. He loves all the ... (read in full...)
Hookup for two years, but he hasn't asked me to be his g/f
Q. This guy and I have been hooking up for about 2 years now. Im falling in love with him and he tells me that he loves me but he hasnt asked me to be his girlfriend. This leads me to believe that hes just using me for hook ups and that hes keeping his ...
A. 16 September 2010: I'm thinking you've posted on here before, and let me tell you no one's answers will change the second time around. We're not going to tell you what you want to hear.
2 years and you're still waiting for him to ask you out? Too long to wait. Ye... (read in full...)
My boyfriend not working right now it's driving me crazy!
Q. i work and my boyfriend doesnt is it okay for me to expect him to do more around the house? he sits here all day with his friends and chills while im at work then when i come home the house is always untidy.(even if it was clean when i left) i get ...
A. 16 September 2010: Well he's not your maid, but I do agree he could pick up after himself. However, if he's always been messy and mother let him get away with it, then it's not going to happen. You'll be fighting a losing battle on that one. Don't know how the economy ... (read in full...)
We've been trying to have a baby, then I find out he's fathered a child with another woman
Q. As you see from my name. I am just that...so scared. I have been married now for nine years and with my husband for thirteen years. I found out maybe two weeks ago that he has been having an affair. Also with a person I know but through someone else ...
A. 15 September 2010: Did he admit the affair or you found out from another source? Wow, when he's supposed to be supporting you in this hard time of trying to conceive. It's frustrating as all hell when you track your ovulation, time your temp just right, and have sex ... (read in full...)
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