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What qualifies me to help you? Vast dating experience, especially in the LDR department, even an international on with an Aussie, broke hearts, had mine broken, been engaged once before, I know what a real friend is, seen the ugly side of divorce coming from a recently broken home myself, even went as far as to tip the odds to my side and use men only to toss them aside like yesterday's garbage like they do women, I know what it's like to almost give up hope on finding the perfect man when he's really only a few boyfriends away, and I'm starting to learn the ropes of married life. I also know a vast deal about the female and male reproductive system, and all about the mental struggles with infertility. On a side note, I'm the one who gives you tough love, I'm not on here to sugarcoat it or to tell you what you want to hear. I'm going to give it to you straight up, wouldn't you rather the truth?
-TOP 5 QUESTIONS I CAN'T STAND-
#1. Does this mean my teacher likes me?
Just because they're nice to you, offer extra help, and put a little gold star on your A+ paper doesn't mean they are in love with you.
#2. Could I be pregnant?
Have you not heard of a pregnancy test? Get off this website, and go to your local drugstore.
#3. I'm 14 and I want a baby?
Really? Me too! Oh wait I'm 28 and married. You're how old again?
#4. My husband loves porn more than me!
Maybe if you didn't let yourself go into the frumpy woman you have turned into then he wouldn't have to look at porn now would he? I recommend you get your rear to the salon for highlights, manicure, pedicure, tanning, toss the baggy tees and sweat pants for a wardrobe that fits, and a little makeup goes a long way. It's called basic woman maintenance in order to keep your man's eyes on you.
#5. Will we get back together, how can I get him to love me again?
Unfortunately, my crystal ball is broke at the moment and I just gave away the last of my love potion No. 9. Sorry.
MY GENERAL RULES OF THUMB (this should be common sense)
-No means no.
-Girls can ask out ask guys, this is a new generation.
-Unless you know sign language or are telepathic, you're going to have to talk to him/her.
-My "Don't ask, Don't tell" policy as is follows: Do not by any means volunteer your own sexual history, or ask your date/partner/wife/girlfriend their magic number (how many people they've slept with). If you find yourself being prompted to answer this question, politely tell them that's none of their business.
-Your past doesn't define who you are today. We grow, mature, age, and change as time passes.
-If you have to even ask random strangers on this website if you should have sex, then you're not ready for it.
-FWBs, fuck buddies, no strings attached, whatever you want to call it..is not a relationship don't get the 2 confused. In this case, sex=sex, not love.
-No trust=no relationship.
-It is normal for your husband/boyfriend to have friends of the opposite sex, do you not have male friends?
-LDRs can work, however they're not for everyone. You've got to have trust, communication, be faithful, and a lot of hobbies to keep yourself occupied. If you have trust issues, a case of being needy, clingy, problems staying faithful and are in a LDR don't be surprised when it doesn't work. I told you so.
- An ex is an ex for a reason. If you guys couldn't hack it as a couple the first 2 times what makes you think the third time is a charm?
-Going on a "break" is a nice way of breaking up.
-If you have sex with a man and he hasn't called you, or responded to your texts in weeks sorry to say but he was just after a piece of ass.
- Now unless he's getting blown up in Afghanistan, an on call ER doctor, or lying dead in a coffin then he's got no excuse for his poor or lack there of communication.
-You have a 12% chance of your married boyfriend leaving his wife and children.
-A man who is going through a divorce is still legally married. He's about to have an ex wife and you're wanting to get into a relationship with him? That's called a rebound.
-If you're a minor who's just found out she's pregnant, do me and everyone else on this site a favor..Tell your parents.
-Just because some one stares at you, it doesn't mean they like you. They could be staring at that booger hanging out of your nose.
-If you have a lump/bump/cyst/rash that looks green, has oozing puss, and itches like hell, but kinda looks like a STD then you had better consult your doctor. They went through 6 years of schooling and have a license to practice medicine, I think they would know better than random virtual strangers.
-Don't mix business with pleasure. Why? Because if you date your co-worker and in the event things turn sour then you're still stuck facing them 9-5, Mon-Fri. Awkward.
-No matter how hard you try, you can't change a person..they have to make that transformation themselves.
-When your boyfriend/girlfriend says they want space that doesn't mean you do the opposite and bombard them with calls/texts.
-As far as ultimatums go, don't try to make your boyfriend choose between you, his female friends, or weed. You won't like the results.
-If you're 13-17, I'm sorry but you haven't a clue what love really is. You have minimal dating experience confined to the high school dating pool which are nothing but horny boys. Their facial hair doesn't make them a man. It's only till you get out into the real world, a vast dating pool is when you learn the definition of love. So, go on thinking you and 13 year old Tommy will go on to get married, have 3 kids, and a two story house with a white picket fence. I don't expect you to listen, I'm 28 and married, what do I know? There's a reason why everyone says it won't last..because it doesn't.
-The average penis size erect is 6 inches, 4.85 inches. Women like average to even a little below average. We're not going to bust out a tape measure and measure it to make sure it's up to our standards. We just want to have sex, so enough complaining about your size let's get down and dirty.
- The legal age of consent in the U.S. is 16-18 varying oer state, in Britain it's 16. I think it's safe to say most parts of the world (unless you live in a tribe with their own form of government) the legal age to consent to sex is 16. So yes, all you minors below the age of consent are committing a crime when you engage in sexual activity. The age is set that high for a reason, you are not above the law. |
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Going on my first-ever date -- at 20! Tips appreciated.
Q. i need help! tomorrow i am going on my first date ever and i have no clue what to do! i am in some serious need of dating tips. for example, what are some topics i can bring up if things start to get awkward? What food should i eat? What should i ...
A. 18 October 2010: Ah excellent...Seems he was a nervous one then. Just brush it off and embrace a kiss the second date. Do NOT spend all night worrying about it, it will all come to you naturally at the end of the night. A closed mouth kiss is appropriate, however if ... (read in full...)
I want to get back with my ex, but he got a girl pregnant!
Q. okay, so today i found out that my ex boyfriend has a baby on the way. He is going out with the babys mother and i know that sounds soo easy to understand, but its far more complicated. Me and him have always kinda been bf and gf. i started ...
A. 13 October 2010: Female ANON, I'm guessing your the OP...That my dear is because you grow weak and let him. Be a strong woman and put your foot down...No, I will not take him back for the millionth time, no, he won't weasel his way back into my life, no, I will not ... (read in full...)
Event with ex girlfriend
Q. My ex girlfriend and I had a long distance relationship but we've recently broken up and decided to remain good friends. The problem is that we have an event scheduled two months from now and are planning to attend it. We've bought the tickets ...
A. 13 October 2010: Then it's best you didn't go to the event with her. Your feelings would have taken over, tampering with the friendship. Who paid for the tickets? If you did and she was taking him, I would be steamed, she's got no right to do that. However, if she ... (read in full...)
Going on my first-ever date -- at 20! Tips appreciated.
Q. i need help! tomorrow i am going on my first date ever and i have no clue what to do! i am in some serious need of dating tips. for example, what are some topics i can bring up if things start to get awkward? What food should i eat? What should i ...
A. 13 October 2010: Everyone pretty much summed it up, I'll add a few tips.
-Sit up straight, no slouching.
-share the conversation, don't drone on and on about you to where he doesn't get a word in, or if he does it to you then that is a sign that is your first an... (read in full...)
My friend is making a big mistake! How can I make her see sense?
Q. My friend who's my age is having sex in a week w/ a guy who's not even her boyfriend (she doesn't have one). Basically, she's in love with this guy and he's a total player. He hooks up with anyone that has boobs and something to stick it in (yes, ...
A. 13 October 2010: Yikes, what an irresponsible girl...Not even at the legal age of consent. The deed is done, and looks like she's on cloud nine, but that will soon come to an end when she soon realizes she was nothing but a piece of rear. It's rather sad she hasn't ... (read in full...)
Friend is being deployed to Afghanistan -- how to stay in touch?
Q. A friend is being deployed to Afghan for 6 months next year and to be honest i'm terrified. I have no experience with this kind of thing and am completely lost as to what to expect. I know you can write letters etc... but i don't know how long it ...
A. 13 October 2010: Ah yes, I've had a friend potential love interest that was deployed to Iraq quite a while back...you can email them but don't expect an email everyday, sometimes the internet connection is bad. Tell him about your day, any sporting events, who won ... (read in full...)
Outfit suggestions for a date?
Q. A younger man (9 years younger) and I are going out on our first “date”. We will most likely go to a park and dinner and maybe something else… Any advice for picking an outfit to wear on a date with a younger man? Any advice for picking an...
A. 13 October 2010: I recommend a pair of skinny jeans if you already don't own a pair..Know what you're thinking, yikes skinny jeans I can't wear those. Wrong! Everyone can wear them, they flatter all shapes and sizes..make your rear look good too. If you're curvy, ... (read in full...)
Why do you answer to these questions?
Q. I just want to know something, why do you guys answer to these people? what do you plan to get out of it? do you think "God" will reimburse you for your efforts and "love"? do you feel better by helping others you don't know? I really don't see any ...
A. 13 October 2010: Let's see I like helping people, it goes a little past holding the door open for people. People on here often need an opinion when they've already polled out of their friends last resort is to ask some strangers and compare results then go with the ... (read in full...)
I like my friend's ex but she says it will get awkward if we try to date
Q. Recently I started to like my friend's ex. The story is, before this I toltally blocked out any feelings for this girl because she was my friends ex. After giving in some thought and rethinking it, I actually saw a bright relationship with this ...
A. 11 October 2010: I see what your getting it, you don't want to press the issue. Good point...give it about another week, back off a bit, don't inquire so much info from her friends and brush it off when they volunteer it. Then when you have a chance let her know ... (read in full...)
I want to get back with my ex, but he got a girl pregnant!
Q. okay, so today i found out that my ex boyfriend has a baby on the way. He is going out with the babys mother and i know that sounds soo easy to understand, but its far more complicated. Me and him have always kinda been bf and gf. i started ...
A. 11 October 2010: What do you mean kinda bf and gf? You either are together in a relationship or you aren't. There's no such thing as an implied relationship. It's not a smart idea to pursue an ex who has a girlfriend that is pregnant with his child. In the rarity, ... (read in full...)
Is everyone in LDR has long term plan together? I don't have any plan with my bf, worth continue?
Q. I've been dating my boyfriend for 7 months before I moved back home 2 months ago.. and my home is thousands miles away from his.. We both still have one more year of study back home. We are each other first serious partner (I'm 22 and he's 24), th...
A. 11 October 2010: Sounds like neither of you are cut out for a LDR. You have met this guy in person, right?? 7 months is still a little early to talk about any future plans...you need to discuss what you to want in your life, i.e. you both want marriage and children ... (read in full...)
My fiance told me he is bi!
Q. hi there... i'm engaged and recently my fiance told me he is bi!!! before we met he got drunk one evening at a friends place and one thin lead to another and they had sex! he always had a desire for a man and has suppressed this for 35 y...
A. 11 October 2010: Bisexual, gay, or straight if he sleeps with someone regardless of their gender it's still cheating.
Hmmm it really sounds like he's not ready to be married to you if he's bringing this to the table now. I don't believe in bi, because they alw... (read in full...)
I don't know how to comfort my friend about her cheating boyfriend
Q. Guys, please help! My friend's boyfriend hasn't called her in a week+ and she's freaking. A girl answered his phone and said she was his girlfriend....my friend calls me, hysterical. Her boyfriend's jealous and a little possessive, she's thinking ...
A. 11 October 2010: Did he break up with her without her knowing? Has she tried driving past his house to see if there are any unrecognizable cars there? Personally, I would tell your friend it looks like he broke up with her, proceed to bad mouth this loser, and tell ... (read in full...)
I like my friend's ex but she says it will get awkward if we try to date
Q. Recently I started to like my friend's ex. The story is, before this I toltally blocked out any feelings for this girl because she was my friends ex. After giving in some thought and rethinking it, I actually saw a bright relationship with this ...
A. 11 October 2010: What in the world is rusk? Now don't play the he, she said game with your friends. Talk to the direct source, let her know you like her and ask her if she would be interested in getting together as boyfriend and girlfriend. By her saying it would be ... (read in full...)
I drunkenly cheated on my fiance and now she doesn't know if she'll ever trust me again!
Q. My fiancée and I have been together for two years (living together for 1.5 years); we were supposed to get married March of 2011. I love her more than my own life and would stop at nothing to make damn sure that she's happy. But last month, I to...
A. 11 October 2010: The alcohol didn't make you do it, and it's surely not an excuse for your actions. You set yourself up for it by drinking excessively and apparently being flirtatious with the opposite sex..Don't drink, therefore you won't get yourself in that ... (read in full...)
We had sex and he orgasmed inside me..but didn't tell me!! What should I do?
Q. I was with my boyfriend in the car the other night and we were making out and it got to the point to where he wanted to have sex. i was resisting and he knew it and i even said no once but finally i gave in because he wasn't giving up. Then after i ...
A. 11 October 2010: If I were you I would follow the advice of the others who suggested Plan B, being as this was not planned I doubt there were condoms on hand or if you are even on birth control. Then if I were you I would dump your boyfriend because he doesn't ... (read in full...)
Is it wrong for a stepfather to fall in love with his stepdaughter??
Q. I am 48 and my stepdaughter is 44 is it wrong for us to fall in love with each other ...
A. 11 October 2010: I would say a little odd but not illegal. Also, I can see where you are falling in love with her because she's a part of your deceased wife. ... (read in full...)
My husband wants me to dress up sexy for a halloween party...
Q. My husband wants me to dress up very sexy for a Halloween party this year. He wants me to be a german beer girl. He has the costume all picked out, even down to the lace panties he wants me to wear. The costume is very provocative: it shows a lot ...
A. 11 October 2010: You know I caught my husband's eye, Jack Sparrow, and an ape last Halloween with my scantily clad angel's costume. I do have a suggestion if you are not entirely comfortable with the see through panties, I would buy black, red, whatever color lacey ... (read in full...)
Christmas gift for my country boy?
Q. im wandering what to get my boyfriend for christmas. i'm 18 and he's 21, and by christmas we will have been together for 5 months and he already means the world to me. but i have no idea what to get him. he's a bit of a country boy if that helps ...
A. 11 October 2010: Maybe some new overalls if his are looking a little ratty, go the outdoor gear route because they can never have enough. Or if he lives on a farm, how about a pig? One that you picked out and named for him, I think that would be cute.... (read in full...)
How do you broach the "What is this relationship" question?
Q. Hi, I'd love some advice from girls and guys about how to broach the "what is this relationship" question. I've been with my new guy for 2 months...he contacts me every day, we hang out whenever we can, go on dates, and have been sleeping together ...
A. 10 October 2010: There's no indirect or nonchalant way to ask "what are we?". You just have to come out right with it. It's best to know now, it's been 2 months and he seems to be into you..you don't want to not mention it and fall into that gray undefined area...no ... (read in full...)
My children want me to try again with my wife but I just want OUT!
Q. I was 1000% commited to leaving my marriage. I have filed for Divorce 6 months ago. I am not happy about it. I did not ask for what has happened. My wife, who I have many many past hurts against such as she is very abusive, including physically. ...
A. 10 October 2010: I can relate to your children. Truth is they will never really accept it, even after you moved out and in your new home. It's hard to swallow bouncing from house to house, the fear of mom or dad bringing home a new girlfriend/boyfriend and not ... (read in full...)
Alcoholic at fifteen!
Q. this is nothing to do with relationships ,, but i am nearly 15 now and i am a alcholic ,, and i need to focas on my school work ,, how do i cope with not being able to drink and no stress ,, because whenever i dont drink i am stressed ,, hense why i ...
A. 10 October 2010: With the legal drinking age at 18 how are you already an alcoholic? I'll tell you, drinking doesn't solve your problems. That bottle of Grey Goose doesn't make your problems or stress go away for good they come right back when you're sober. You are ... (read in full...)
I almost raped my girlfiend. HELP!!
Q. ok so me and my girl have talked about sex. i'm ready she's not. i'm happy with that. she's happy with that. right? so then, we're happily making out when i feel i'm starting to lose control. i'm starting to go further automatically. so we stop and ...
A. 9 October 2010: How do you almost rape someone? It seems to be that you let your actions and urges get out of control. You do need to seek therapy and tell your girlfriend you guys are taking a break so you don't end up doing something that could get you arrested. ... (read in full...)
I want to stop my daughter from making a big mistake!
Q. My 20 yr old daughter is making the biggest mistake of her life, I know that everyone says kids need to learn by their mistakes and I totally agree but not when it can ruin their future. 5 months ago she came home and told us that she was dating a...
A. 9 October 2010: If I had a dime for every time tried to prevent me from making a big mistake, I'd be rich. Also, if only I knew what I know now then my life would be different.
At times, young adults tend to take the rocky road in life. Parents always give gre... (read in full...)
Amazing guy who ticks all my boxes but he's engaged!
Q. I'm really unsure what to do. I have me an amazing guy who basically ticks eveyone of my boxes but he is engaged. I know I should just cut all ties but I can't help thinking that maybe I should see what happens, or am I just setting myself up for a ...
A. 9 October 2010: Hmmm I will say I'm a little in between about this. He's already taken but not officially. Depending upon how long they've been engaged, how long or how many times the wedding has been postponed, he may or may not get hitched. Obviously he does love ... (read in full...)
Event with ex girlfriend
Q. My ex girlfriend and I had a long distance relationship but we've recently broken up and decided to remain good friends. The problem is that we have an event scheduled two months from now and are planning to attend it. We've bought the tickets ...
A. 9 October 2010: It's only awkward if you make it awkward...set aside differences. Focus on having a good time, and keep it as friends. You can go to the event together but you don't have to interact with her all the time.... (read in full...)
How do I get my husband to enjoy showing off his sexy wife?
Q. Hey all some advice please, so thanks to good genes and hard work I have a good body and I love showing it off. I like the looks I get and it gives me a lot of confidence. Some people might say I dress like a slut but that's their opinion and I do...
A. 9 October 2010: You can still dress sexy but a bit more covered up. Daisy dukes and showing off underboob is just asking for a fight with your husband. Wear clothes that fit, not too tight..dresses are sexy, backless shirts, skirts, pencil skirts and I know men who ... (read in full...)
My boyfriends friends are presurring him to have sex!
Q. Hi everyone. I have a problem. I've been with my boyfriend for 17 months now (almost 18 months!!!) and he's now at college (he's 15, almost 16 and I'm 13, almost 14). I've just started my GCSE's, and he's just started his A Levels. He left just ove...
A. 9 October 2010: No one liked it much in my generation either..Girl friends pressuring him into sex? Interesting. Could be that times have changed. However good for you guys and your morals.... (read in full...)
Is she just saying what she thinks I want to hear?
Q. I have been dating this woman for about 6 months now. I liked her a lot from the beginning but that feeling of love wasnt there at first. Over the last couple of months I have fallen for her more and more. Last week we were lying in bed and I ...
A. 9 October 2010: See, told you so! Your in like flint!... (read in full...)
We got into a fight and now best friend doesn't want to be friends anymore
Q. Alright so I got into a fight with one of my best friends, and now he doesn't want to be friends anymore. The first time I tried saying sorry it was lame, I didn't really express my feelings. The didn't even look at me and when he finally said ...
A. 9 October 2010: Just going to have to give him what he wants and hope he'll let bygones be bygones. Let him be, because the more you push, the more mad he is going to get and the more he is going to push you away. If you guys had that tight knit of a friendship ... (read in full...)
Was I wrong for telling my cousin that the guy she likes is my FWB?
Q. Hey everybody!! Ok, so I was havin sex with this guy (let's call him Will) for 7 months (He was my second). It was just sex!! And yes I was starting to catch feelings for him but he was in college so when he leave they would fade away. I'm 18, i'll ...
A. 9 October 2010: Oh Tia darling, there are more men out there even better than Will! And steer clear of 5 minute men..there's also a lot of those out there too. But do remember to protect yourself using means of contraceptive and that you partner is wearing ... (read in full...)
I want to know how do I ask my husband's brother to satisfy me as his brother is impotent?
Q. Hi, I need your advice. I am a beautiful 23 year old married girl. Its been almost 2 years now that I am married. My husband is impotent. He cant satisfy me and I am still a virgin. I cant share this with anyone as my parent are dead and so is my...
A. 18 September 2010: Your married and your husband won't have sex with you? Why? If you sleep with your brother in law that is called having an affair, cheating, committing adultery it's a taboo.When you got married you took a vow to be with him and him only for the ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend called me a bitch last night and I can't get over it!
Q. My boyfriend called my a Bitch last night. I can't seem to get over it ever though he's apologized many times. He's never cursed at me before and this really hurt me. He was frustrated because he was trying to do something on his computer. He threw ...
A. 18 September 2010: If my boyfriend called me a bitch, then I would show him bitch and dump him.
Dear, you're not a bitch and in no way is it fair he called you that. Being called a bitch and being called a baby don't even compare. He called you that because he was a... (read in full...)
My girlfrend and her brother tried to attack me when walking away at a bar after an argument.
Q. My girlfriend attacked me when leaving a bar. I was at the bar celebrating my good friend, who happens to be my girlfriends(ex) brother, and we were having a great time. Well, after bar hoping we end up at a bar and my girlfriend and i get into a...
A. 18 September 2010: And the cops weren't called on this one? Surprising, well your relationship doesn't sound very healthy if you're saying nasty remarks like that to her and her getting extremely physical with you. Her brother didn't need to get involved, the fight is ... (read in full...)
I don't like being a mum... I want all my freedom back!!!
Q. Hey guys. Thanks for looking at my dilemma! And I will keep it short.,.. Basically, I'm 27 years old, single mum to a beautiful 5 month old boy. The father is my ex, we broke up when I was pregnant, he is still around for our son and is a great d...
A. 18 September 2010: Woah, you should have thought about that long before you got pregnant or used contraceptives. Or at the birth given him up for adoption if you didn't want the baby. Your life now revolves around him because he relies on you, you have to put his ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is depressed about cheating on his wife and leaving her for me
Q. I'm very confused about my boyfriends feelings for me. We didn't start in an ideal way, we were both married and left our spouses because we knew after a couple of months that we wanted to be together. He is currently living with me, everything ...
A. 18 September 2010: You need to start your divorce proceedings as soon as possible because after so long of going through one(in some states) they will declare you legally divorced.
Of course he's not going to exchange "I love you's" when you're sitting right th... (read in full...)
Was I used for money?
Q. I met a guy 12 mths ago on an internet site, we got really friendly and ended up meeting up for a chat. He told me he was in a long term relationship but said he only stayed there as he was going to leave before and it devasted his children. One ...
A. 18 September 2010: Cheating, sex, and lies..all go hand in hand. They always throw out the line they want to leave but can't because of the children. Correction, if they really wanted to leave they would but they just don't want to. It's actually better to leave when ... (read in full...)
Am I making him want me less by being available?
Q. My ex and I dated for about 3 months - like two people deeper in love than I've ever experienced in my life and I've been married and dated several guys. He was married but his wife left him and he went overseas. Then I got really sick and he chan...
A. 18 September 2010: Let me put it this way, he'll never want you more, for other than FWB. You may argue and say he loves you but just sex alone doesn't equal love. He's just saying that to give you false hope and to get you into bed...By him saying he doesn't want you ... (read in full...)
Wife cheating on me and planning on leaving me. How do I get over this?
Q. Recently I found out that my wife is cheating on me with some other guy. Though, I think they have not slept yet but she is madly in love with him. We have been married for almost 15 yrs now and have kids. Our marriage has not been the best in ...
A. 18 September 2010: Going to add my 2 cents. Here's a little story about my rents. Married for 25 years, had me and my brother they just got divorced 2 years ago because my mom had an affair. It was a blow to the back of my dad's head and a jaw dropper for me and my ... (read in full...)
Event with ex girlfriend
Q. My ex girlfriend and I had a long distance relationship but we've recently broken up and decided to remain good friends. The problem is that we have an event scheduled two months from now and are planning to attend it. We've bought the tickets ...
A. 18 September 2010: Tickets are non-refundable and depending on the event can be hard to get someone to take them off your hands. Plus, if you paid a pretty penny for the tickets then I would go....So I would go ahead and make the reservations you can sit next to each ... (read in full...)
She broke up with me after one day and now wants me back?
Q. I am so confused about ex girlfriend. She dump me about 10 months ago and our relation had only lasted for 1 day. After she had dumped me, I still kept trying to get her back because I really loved her due to some personal reasons but afte...
A. 18 September 2010: Sorry dear but that was one short relationship. So I don't see how she can love you when she hardly knows you and you only had a 24 relationship. I think you should continue to ignore her like you have been doing. You've moved on there's no need to ... (read in full...)
How soon is too soon for a guy to give his number?
Q. How soon is too soon for a guy to give his number? If hes interested in you should he give it to you in the first few days after you met (were in the same class together)? Thanks for any answers!...
A. 18 September 2010: Did he ask you for it? If so then by all means give it to him. There's no rules or limitations on giving a guy your number. ... (read in full...)
Family and friends are on my case about these two men, what should I do??
Q. How to choose? I feel better now that I know there are so many girls with the same problem. I broke up with my x of 15 years and starting dating his friend. It is a secret. It's been 3 years now. 2 years ago I tried to work things out with x and ...
A. 18 September 2010: Money doesn't make a relationship...and you work for X, so he's your boss?
Look into your work's fraternization policy, chances are there's nothing they can do about your relationship with friend. X talks down to you, makes you feel unco... (read in full...)
My friend is making a big mistake! How can I make her see sense?
Q. My friend who's my age is having sex in a week w/ a guy who's not even her boyfriend (she doesn't have one). Basically, she's in love with this guy and he's a total player. He hooks up with anyone that has boobs and something to stick it in (yes, ...
A. 17 September 2010: What a piece of crap. Honestly there's nothing you can do or say to make her change her mind..She's going to do what she wants. I'm a little afraid if you made an anonymous tip to her parents she will find it you did it thus jeopardizing your ... (read in full...)
My boyfriends friends are presurring him to have sex!
Q. Hi everyone. I have a problem. I've been with my boyfriend for 17 months now (almost 18 months!!!) and he's now at college (he's 15, almost 16 and I'm 13, almost 14). I've just started my GCSE's, and he's just started his A Levels. He left just ove...
A. 14 September 2010: Well, thank god you both have the right idea about sex and you want to wait till your legal. Do note dear, if you have sex right now and he turns 16, then your parents can charge him with statutory rape. There are laws about the legal age you have ... (read in full...)
We got into a fight and now best friend doesn't want to be friends anymore
Q. Alright so I got into a fight with one of my best friends, and now he doesn't want to be friends anymore. The first time I tried saying sorry it was lame, I didn't really express my feelings. The didn't even look at me and when he finally said ...
A. 12 September 2010: My close best friend changed several times over the years, I moved different places, got into fights with some, and actually ended a 9 year friendship. Now my husband is my best friend, :) (and he's a stubborn one)
Anyway, I see that you guys got ... (read in full...)
How do I get my husband to enjoy showing off his sexy wife?
Q. Hey all some advice please, so thanks to good genes and hard work I have a good body and I love showing it off. I like the looks I get and it gives me a lot of confidence. Some people might say I dress like a slut but that's their opinion and I do...
A. 12 September 2010: "The one person I do care about what he thinks is my husband." Well, then why do you care about the male attention you receive? Why do you care about him showing you off when his is the only opinion that matters? That's great that you have a nice ... (read in full...)
Is she just saying what she thinks I want to hear?
Q. I have been dating this woman for about 6 months now. I liked her a lot from the beginning but that feeling of love wasnt there at first. Over the last couple of months I have fallen for her more and more. Last week we were lying in bed and I ...
A. 7 September 2010: There is no gray area of love. It's either black or white, you either do or you don't. Now if she's around your age range of 36-40 you guys have grown out of infatuation. What's she's saying is she feels it's too soon to say those 3 words, and she's ... (read in full...)
Was I wrong for telling my cousin that the guy she likes is my FWB?
Q. Hey everybody!! Ok, so I was havin sex with this guy (let's call him Will) for 7 months (He was my second). It was just sex!! And yes I was starting to catch feelings for him but he was in college so when he leave they would fade away. I'm 18, i'll ...
A. 25 August 2010: Will is right what does it have to do with you? Were you guys over when he went to college? If you guys are over then Will has every right for Lisa to be his new FWB since that's what they both want. More power to them. And by you telling her all ... (read in full...)
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