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What qualifies me to help you? Vast dating experience, especially in the LDR department, even an international on with an Aussie, broke hearts, had mine broken, been engaged once before, I know what a real friend is, seen the ugly side of divorce coming from a recently broken home myself, even went as far as to tip the odds to my side and use men only to toss them aside like yesterday's garbage like they do women, I know what it's like to almost give up hope on finding the perfect man when he's really only a few boyfriends away, and I'm starting to learn the ropes of married life. I also know a vast deal about the female and male reproductive system, and all about the mental struggles with infertility. On a side note, I'm the one who gives you tough love, I'm not on here to sugarcoat it or to tell you what you want to hear. I'm going to give it to you straight up, wouldn't you rather the truth?
-TOP 5 QUESTIONS I CAN'T STAND-
#1. Does this mean my teacher likes me?
Just because they're nice to you, offer extra help, and put a little gold star on your A+ paper doesn't mean they are in love with you.
#2. Could I be pregnant?
Have you not heard of a pregnancy test? Get off this website, and go to your local drugstore.
#3. I'm 14 and I want a baby?
Really? Me too! Oh wait I'm 28 and married. You're how old again?
#4. My husband loves porn more than me!
Maybe if you didn't let yourself go into the frumpy woman you have turned into then he wouldn't have to look at porn now would he? I recommend you get your rear to the salon for highlights, manicure, pedicure, tanning, toss the baggy tees and sweat pants for a wardrobe that fits, and a little makeup goes a long way. It's called basic woman maintenance in order to keep your man's eyes on you.
#5. Will we get back together, how can I get him to love me again?
Unfortunately, my crystal ball is broke at the moment and I just gave away the last of my love potion No. 9. Sorry.
MY GENERAL RULES OF THUMB (this should be common sense)
-No means no.
-Girls can ask out ask guys, this is a new generation.
-Unless you know sign language or are telepathic, you're going to have to talk to him/her.
-My "Don't ask, Don't tell" policy as is follows: Do not by any means volunteer your own sexual history, or ask your date/partner/wife/girlfriend their magic number (how many people they've slept with). If you find yourself being prompted to answer this question, politely tell them that's none of their business.
-Your past doesn't define who you are today. We grow, mature, age, and change as time passes.
-If you have to even ask random strangers on this website if you should have sex, then you're not ready for it.
-FWBs, fuck buddies, no strings attached, whatever you want to call it..is not a relationship don't get the 2 confused. In this case, sex=sex, not love.
-No trust=no relationship.
-It is normal for your husband/boyfriend to have friends of the opposite sex, do you not have male friends?
-LDRs can work, however they're not for everyone. You've got to have trust, communication, be faithful, and a lot of hobbies to keep yourself occupied. If you have trust issues, a case of being needy, clingy, problems staying faithful and are in a LDR don't be surprised when it doesn't work. I told you so.
- An ex is an ex for a reason. If you guys couldn't hack it as a couple the first 2 times what makes you think the third time is a charm?
-Going on a "break" is a nice way of breaking up.
-If you have sex with a man and he hasn't called you, or responded to your texts in weeks sorry to say but he was just after a piece of ass.
- Now unless he's getting blown up in Afghanistan, an on call ER doctor, or lying dead in a coffin then he's got no excuse for his poor or lack there of communication.
-You have a 12% chance of your married boyfriend leaving his wife and children.
-A man who is going through a divorce is still legally married. He's about to have an ex wife and you're wanting to get into a relationship with him? That's called a rebound.
-If you're a minor who's just found out she's pregnant, do me and everyone else on this site a favor..Tell your parents.
-Just because some one stares at you, it doesn't mean they like you. They could be staring at that booger hanging out of your nose.
-If you have a lump/bump/cyst/rash that looks green, has oozing puss, and itches like hell, but kinda looks like a STD then you had better consult your doctor. They went through 6 years of schooling and have a license to practice medicine, I think they would know better than random virtual strangers.
-Don't mix business with pleasure. Why? Because if you date your co-worker and in the event things turn sour then you're still stuck facing them 9-5, Mon-Fri. Awkward.
-No matter how hard you try, you can't change a person..they have to make that transformation themselves.
-When your boyfriend/girlfriend says they want space that doesn't mean you do the opposite and bombard them with calls/texts.
-As far as ultimatums go, don't try to make your boyfriend choose between you, his female friends, or weed. You won't like the results.
-If you're 13-17, I'm sorry but you haven't a clue what love really is. You have minimal dating experience confined to the high school dating pool which are nothing but horny boys. Their facial hair doesn't make them a man. It's only till you get out into the real world, a vast dating pool is when you learn the definition of love. So, go on thinking you and 13 year old Tommy will go on to get married, have 3 kids, and a two story house with a white picket fence. I don't expect you to listen, I'm 28 and married, what do I know? There's a reason why everyone says it won't last..because it doesn't.
-The average penis size erect is 6 inches, 4.85 inches. Women like average to even a little below average. We're not going to bust out a tape measure and measure it to make sure it's up to our standards. We just want to have sex, so enough complaining about your size let's get down and dirty.
- The legal age of consent in the U.S. is 16-18 varying oer state, in Britain it's 16. I think it's safe to say most parts of the world (unless you live in a tribe with their own form of government) the legal age to consent to sex is 16. So yes, all you minors below the age of consent are committing a crime when you engage in sexual activity. The age is set that high for a reason, you are not above the law. |
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My boyfriend not working right now it's driving me crazy!
Q. i work and my boyfriend doesnt is it okay for me to expect him to do more around the house? he sits here all day with his friends and chills while im at work then when i come home the house is always untidy.(even if it was clean when i left) i get ...
A. 17 September 2010: http://www.webmd.com/depression/recognizing-depression-symptoms/antidepressants
Those are the different types of drugs he can take, but being as he has free healthcare he might be limited on his options. However, the next doctor visit I would ha... (read in full...)
We've been trying to have a baby, then I find out he's fathered a child with another woman
Q. As you see from my name. I am just that...so scared. I have been married now for nine years and with my husband for thirteen years. I found out maybe two weeks ago that he has been having an affair. Also with a person I know but through someone else ...
A. 17 September 2010: Yeah you're not going to get any closure on this, and if she won't do DNA testing then that makes me think your husband wasn't the only man she was sleeping with. So go with the counseling and see how it goes, but i would not by any means make this ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend not working right now it's driving me crazy!
Q. i work and my boyfriend doesnt is it okay for me to expect him to do more around the house? he sits here all day with his friends and chills while im at work then when i come home the house is always untidy.(even if it was clean when i left) i get ...
A. 17 September 2010: Oh yeah they need to change his depression medicine they're clearly not effective. It really sounds like he doesn't care to get a job...Yes, you're right you have to be assertive and sometimes pestering to get people to review your application...the ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend not working right now it's driving me crazy!
Q. i work and my boyfriend doesnt is it okay for me to expect him to do more around the house? he sits here all day with his friends and chills while im at work then when i come home the house is always untidy.(even if it was clean when i left) i get ...
A. 16 September 2010: Well he's not your maid, but I do agree he could pick up after himself. However, if he's always been messy and mother let him get away with it, then it's not going to happen. You'll be fighting a losing battle on that one. Don't know how the economy ... (read in full...)
Daughter is having an affair/baby with a married man...
Q. Hello. My 24 year old daughter is having an affair with a 30 year old married man. It has been going on, correspondence/physical since the end of 2008. Before he was deployed to Iraq, she got pregnant and soon will be giving birth to his son. She ...
A. 16 September 2010: She *put* herself..... (read in full...)
Daughter is having an affair/baby with a married man...
Q. Hello. My 24 year old daughter is having an affair with a 30 year old married man. It has been going on, correspondence/physical since the end of 2008. Before he was deployed to Iraq, she got pregnant and soon will be giving birth to his son. She ...
A. 16 September 2010: Your daughter is a grown woman. Even still at 24 she needs to make her choices and mistakes. Nothing you say will convince her otherwise, she will learn when he doesn't take care of his responsibility or leave his wife. Have you told her you ... (read in full...)
How do I prepare for my first period?
Q. Hi I know I ask a lot of questions but hear me out. I haven't had a period ever. I am 13 and at a bigger than average weight. Lots of girls at my school have started theirs. Even some of the ones younger than me. I started having frequent stomach ...
A. 16 September 2010: I didn't start until I was 14, so you're just a late bloomer like me. Actually, I had no signs at all, I went to the bathroom at school and there was blood in my underwear. Luckily, I had a few pads in my purse. My mom told me to carry some at all ... (read in full...)
The love of my life is moving to a different state!
Q. so me and my boyfriend have been together for some time now. I love him to death and he loves me too. when we first got together I knew that him moving back to florida in january was an option. but he just told me a couple of days ago he's going ...
A. 16 September 2010: Correction, LDRs do work if both people are good candidates for a LDR. The require a lot of effort as far as communication goes, traveling to see one another when there's a break, and most of all trust. Remember it takes 2 to cheat. Has this guy ... (read in full...)
How can I stop him from being so possessive?
Q. Okay, my boyfriend and I have been dating for about 10 months. I am in the 10th and he is in the 11th, (but I'm graduating early)... Well he doesn't like when other guys talk to me. At all. I can't sit with guys or talk to them and he does the same ...
A. 16 September 2010: So basically you're to be cut off from the opposite sex and so is he? What a controlling, insecure, jealous boyfriend you have. You can't control who talks to you, even if a guy that is sitting in front of you in class turns around and asks you if ... (read in full...)
Is it too soon to have my online bf move in with me?
Q. I met my bf online January of this year. We talked for a while and he finally asked if i was willing to have a long distance relationship with him at the end of June. I want him to move in with me and he wants to move in with me as well. The thing ...
A. 16 September 2010: Have you met this guy in person I'm hoping? If not then, please do not move someone into your home you don't know. That's pretty nice of your parents to buy you a house, but technically it is your roof because you are making payments to them. It's ... (read in full...)
Girlfriend makes very little time for me. Why can't she make more time?
Q. A few months ago I got back with my ex, first time around we were only togheter for 2 months, almost a year later, we grew close again. And so decided to give it another try. The first month was great, the second month all she had time for was her ...
A. 16 September 2010: She has two jobs plus school, she's busy there's nothing you can do about that. Plus she failed last year? So she will be focusing on her studies a lot more than spending time with you. What about the weekends? You're just going to have to take what ... (read in full...)
He was the love of my life and I want us to have a second chance.
Q. I just need advice on a possible second chance with my ex-boyfriend. We lived together for almost 3 years and were engaged for a year of that. We had great chemistry and I got really close to not only him, but his kids as well. We told each other we ...
A. 16 September 2010: The comment "his life and he wants you out of it" pretty much says it all, not a chance. He holds grudges as you specified...Plus you did what you could apologize, but really the only thing you did wrong was email the girl he was dating. There's ... (read in full...)
He doesn't feel the same way he used to but isn't unhappy enough to leave our relationship...
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together for a couple of months now and lately things have went from great to horrible. When we first started dating, things were amazing! We would talk all day every day about everything, we would spend lots of time ...
A. 16 September 2010: It went from good to bad in just a couple of months? The honeymoon phase is over that quickly, ouch. He doesn't feel the same way but isn't unhappy enough to leave the relationship. The emotions are no longer there but all that's left is the ... (read in full...)
The new guy... or the ex???
Q. The ex I loved for 5 years and the other whom i've been friends and a co worker with for 2 years??? We had good/great/amazing/terrible ect. times together. He cheated 3 times once with one of my closest friends whilst i was beside him asleep. I ...
A. 16 September 2010: Your ex cheated on you with a close friend while you were asleep next time? Only the lowest of low do that. That's one unforgivable act, and a crappy close friend at that. You must be one sound sleeper if you couldn't feel the bed rocking. And who ... (read in full...)
I am in a fix! Help!
Q. Hello Guys! I am in this really tricky situation! please help me out! I have been in a long distance relationshiop for like 5 years now and i was deeply in love with my boyfriend till i met this other guy who also is in a relationship for quite some ...
A. 16 September 2010: This is why you never ever mix business and pleasure. Don't date, hook-up with your co-workers because if things go sour it makes for one awkward situation in the lunch room. How do you kinda make out with someone?
You made out with him knowing ... (read in full...)
Was it just a drunken kiss???
Q. Well, I really like this guy who I work with. I started the job over three months ago, and within those three months he's been flirty and whatnot. However, we went out in town at the weekend and ended up getting off with each other a fair few times. ...
A. 16 September 2010: Let's just say he likes what happens when you guys get drunk..He likes the forward drunken side of you. ... (read in full...)
How do I cope with being financially dependent on my partner?
Q. "OP Own Title" I am 7 months pregnant, my boyfriend and I live together and I also work for him. He owns a bar, pub, whatever you want to call it. I get a great salary and am used to being co-dependant on him. Our relationship is great, and just ...
A. 16 September 2010: Technically you will have a full time job as a mother. Just focus on your new role as a mother and raising your child. Don't know how it is in your country but if you don't have a friend or a relative to watch your child while you're at work in ... (read in full...)
My boyfriends looking at other guys!
Q. Hi, My boyfriend and I have been together for 3 months and we have a pretty good relationship and I love him very much. He does a lot of nice things for me and with me and I do the same for him too. We are in a same sex relationship. ...
A. 16 September 2010: I like Joe 158's answer. Gay or straight, men will look just to look. Women do the same thing but were just more nonchalant about it. Next time you catch him just playfully tell him to put his tongue back in his mouth. He'll get the point that he ... (read in full...)
Why do all the guys I like ask out the same girl?
Q. Everytime I like a guy, he asks out another girl. And not just any girl, for the past 3 years, the 3 guys I've had crushes on have all asked out the SAME GIRL (and it's not me, fyi). The run down on THE GIRL: we DO NOT get along and haven't since ...
A. 16 September 2010: This girl is bad luck! She must be the girl to date, center of attention, pretty, witty and puts out. The only thing I can think of that she's easy or gives great blow jobs. Or it's just a weird coincidence you're looking into too much. Honestly, I ... (read in full...)
My ex wants nothing to do with our baby and I
Q. Hey everybody! I really hope you can help me. I'm 9 months pregnant for my x boyfriend of 12 years who left me as soon as he found out I was pregnant. At 6 months pregnant I went to see him and we ended up sleeping together, after that he stopped ...
A. 16 September 2010: Your ex no longer matters..He has no respect for you and has never introduce you to his mother? Apparently he thought you weren't good enough to bring home to mom. Wrong! You have so much self worth than you are giving yourself. Going to his ... (read in full...)
Marriage scares me... is it the right way to go?
Q. Okay I have met a girl that I know my brother has slept with it was about three to four months before I met her. I decided that it was okay. I will just forgive and try to move on. After we dated for a little while I began to feel a love for her and ...
A. 16 September 2010: Why did you move your ex wife back in your house? Why not ask this girl to move in with me? I'm confused by your actions, if you want to be with this girl and are thinking long term here why back track and move your ex back in your living space? ... (read in full...)
Why is my girlfriend always so jealous of other girls?
Q. My girl is jealous of girls I talk to sometimes. The first day I get a web cam she's asking me if I'm gonna have live chats with other girls. She's jealous about anything stupid that involves another girl. I don't understand why. I've never been ...
A. 16 September 2010: Why is she jealous? Insecurities or a fear of you moving on and finding someone better. This girl is one of those girls who have to have a guy in their life at all times. Always in need of a guy's affection or attention, it gives her momentary self ... (read in full...)
12 year old boy caught "in the act"
Q. hi, im a single father and i have a question is it ok is my 12 year old son jacks off. I caught him in"the act" yesterday.i need help please help me....
A. 16 September 2010: It's about time you had the masturbation/wet dreams/birds and the bees talk. At what age were you when you first started to tug down there? The usual ages are 9-13. ... (read in full...)
Was she just trying to make me jealous coming in with another guy?
Q. Lady's Jealousy question? K. I work at this restaurant, and I have a regular that comes in very frequently. She has come accross as showing interest in me, but as a server I don't know what to do because it may be innocent flirting. I bought h...
A. 15 September 2010: It could be nothing as in she is a frequent customer and that is her favorite restaurant. Or she could have felt snubbed by you last time not asking for her number so she chose to bring in a male stand by to give the illusion she's moved on.
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If he's not going to cheat on his girlfriend, what's with the texts he's sending to me?
Q. A guy friend, maybe "friend" isn't the right word. )We used to have a casual thing last year which has now ended because he's with somebody now and a few other reasons) has recently been sending me text messages that, in my opinion, friends ...
A. 15 September 2010: Unless, he doesn't consider just cuddling with you cheating. Technically cuddling with a woman who isn't your girlfriend is cheating, but of a lesser charge. Sounds to me like this "friend" is keeping you on the back burner at a low flame in case he ... (read in full...)
Does she want me or my music?
Q. This girl, who happens to be an ex, is keen to join my band. But she missed our first rehearsal, saying there was no time specified and she couldn't make it as she'd made other plans. I was annoyed at the time, but didn't bother too much as I decide...
A. 15 September 2010: Oh you musicians are trouble, I was in love with a bass player for 2 years until he finally broke my heart. Always breaking a girl's heart..
Anyways, I get no indication that she wants you back or is trying to keep tabs on you. It seems she want... (read in full...)
Things are going too far too quickly!!!
Q. I have been in a relationship for just over a month. I'm 17 and he's 21, we live three hours away from each other, and seen one another three times, but talk all the time. I really like him, I think? =/ The only problem is i feel that he is too ...
A. 15 September 2010: Woah nelly! Usually it's the women who are rushing. It's only been a month for pete's sake, you hardly know each other. You think you like him? Well sweetie if he's turning out to be not your cup of tea throwing out the commitment card and you're ... (read in full...)
I can never be alone with my girlfriend!
Q. So I've been dating this girl for about 2 months and not once have I ever gotten to be alone with her! her friend is always with her! for example she will come to my house to see me and her friend is ALWAYS with her. I didn't mind at first but I'm ...
A. 15 September 2010: Whoops, goes to show I haven't had my coffee this morning. Sincere apologies Op, and yes what I say still applies. Oh and if her friend is gay or straight do you perhaps have a single male or female friend to set her up with?... (read in full...)
Why won't my boyfriend put on facebook that he is in a relationship
Q. My bf friend, put on facebook that he has a relationship with a girl, sooo then why the hell doesnt my bf dooo that. He wont put where in a relationship. And we have been dating for awhile, and we have had sex. Whats wrong with him??...
A. 15 September 2010: Not all guys are avidly addicted to Facebook, sometimes like us women are. Some guys don't like to draw the attention to themselves, people will be commenting asking "who are you with?", "how long?" etc and he could have forgotten to change it. Or ... (read in full...)
Returning the favor
Q. Hi, Just a quick Q. If your partner performs oral on you does it mean that you have to return the favour to her ..and does it have to be during the same love making session? ..or can it wait till the morning?...lol...
A. 15 September 2010: "On order to receive, you must first give." This quote even applies to oral sex. Pay close attention to Dear Jilly, she always offers great advice.... (read in full...)
Why does my husband want me to "whore" myself out?
Q. My husband is always after me to reveal my private bits to other people. For example, if we are going out for the evening with another couple, he loves it if I wear a sheer bra and a blouse that gapes open. We went biking on the path and he got me ...
A. 15 September 2010: Nope can't say I've been pimped out by my boyfriend or husband. Usually men are trying to get their sexually open wives to tone down their wardrobe so men aren't gawking at their butt cheeks hanging out of those shorty shorts. Now, I see it ... (read in full...)
My good huband hired a prositute while away at Police training.
Q. MY husband went to Police trainging for a week in another state, the 1st night there he hung out with the other single cops from his job who spoke of prostitutes, he claimed he got him thinking and by night he had a prostitute come to his hotel room ...
A. 15 September 2010: Your good husband paid a prostitute for something he could have gotten for free from you? Sure it was a blow job and nothing more. It scares me that he said there was no thought about it, as in there was nothing wrong with what he did. He obviously ... (read in full...)
I can never be alone with my girlfriend!
Q. So I've been dating this girl for about 2 months and not once have I ever gotten to be alone with her! her friend is always with her! for example she will come to my house to see me and her friend is ALWAYS with her. I didn't mind at first but I'm ...
A. 15 September 2010: Oh the third wheel, no one wants to be it and no one like doing it. If you're girlfriend is the same age range as you, she's past the age of having her friend tag along. I did that when I was in middle and high school. Just have a chat with her, ... (read in full...)
Girlfriend in heavy debt
Q. My 27 Girlfriend is in heavy debt. We've been together for about a year and things are starting to get serious, we are thinking of renting a place and buying a few things together. I wanted to know what place we could afford and obviously set so...
A. 15 September 2010: Yeah, it's not ideal for you two to move in together unless you want to solely be paying the rent, utilities, cable/internet, on top of all your other bills. It should be split down the middle, not the guy shells out for everything. So she's got ... (read in full...)
Gift ideas for my 15 year old boyfriend?
Q. hai! i am really confused about what i should gift for my boy friend who is turning 15 now. i don't know what he want's or like's. i am really helpless please help me pls.........
A. 15 September 2010: Sounds like you haven't been with him that long, you can always ask him what he wants for his birthday. Plus I wouldn't make it anything extravagant since you just started your relationship. If you don't have that much money to spend, you can go and ... (read in full...)
Advice on buying my girlfriend a vibrator
Q. So my girlfriend is a bit kinky, and wants to get a vibrator. I thought I'd get her one for fun, but I dont know what to get. I'd ask her, but that would spoil the surprise. They all seem to be pretty small with all kinds of "appendages", or very, ...
A. 15 September 2010: Silver bullet is you want to be basic or the rabbit for a little more options. I had one that had all the bells and whistles, the twisting beads, 5 different speeds and rotations, and the little animal flicking your clitoris..but I always seemed to ... (read in full...)
Girlfriend wants to move faster in our relationship than I do
Q. My girlfriend and I have been together for nearly a full year, however we're long distance making our relationship difficult. We've had our ups and lows, and even broke up for a while, but we've been back together for about five months now. The ...
A. 15 September 2010: What in the world is her rush? That's the wrong reason to get married because all her friends are doing it. If all her friends jumped off a bridge, I'm sure she will be in line as well. Your girlfriend is wrong for pressuring you into moving in and ... (read in full...)
How do I apologize to her for being selfish?
Q. I'll make a long story short. First off, im dealing with long distance. Now, me and my girl have been arguing for a while now, things were going pretty smooth before all these arguments. However, today we hit it off pretty bad. I've come to rea...
A. 15 September 2010: What are these arguments, the distance? You have to be able to work out arguments in a LDR, with the only source you have communication. You're not there to have a face-to-face discussion, to hug, or the hot make-up sex. It's over the phone, that's ... (read in full...)
Why can't I conceive yet?
Q. hi i and the coil in for 4 years and i got it took out last tuesday this month i had intercourse wit my husband and he came and i done the test on monday but it came back negative can you tell mewhat the problem could be that i can't conceive yet ...
A. 15 September 2010: You too? I am trying to conceive as well, and my oh my is it frustrating. I get jealous of those who are such fertile myrtles, instantly getting pregnant after the first try! Here's tips I'll share with you that learned and heard...
-Track your ovul... (read in full...)
He's moving 4 hours away, what should I do?
Q. So, my boyfriend and I have been together for 1 year! And we have been friends for like 6 years. We are insanely happy but a few things bother me. He smokes a TON of weed and I'm very against it. I hate it. And also, he is failing out of school and ...
A. 15 September 2010: He sounds like a winner. Here's my problem with this he smokes a ton of weed which is an illegal drug, and even though it's a herb, smoked long term will have adverse effects on his brain. Looks like it's already taken into effect since he's failing ... (read in full...)
Glitter on boyfriend's face!
Q. Hi everyone…I’m hoping someone can give me some advice. Last night I went to see my boyfriend after he got off work. When we were sitting together I noticed a small piece of glitter on the bottom of his nostril. Just one piece. I got upset and st...
A. 15 September 2010: Darling, have you not read any of the fantastic advice given below?? If not you need to take a moment to do so, please. I agree with CaringGuy and Dirtball apologize asap! ... (read in full...)
He has given me 2 weeks to drastically change things or we have to go....
Q. This might be long, so I thank you in advance for reading! Some background: when I was 15, I had a huge crush on a guy who was NOT interested in me at all. I was his exact opposite, loud and wild, and "scared" him. I never forgot him, but moved on ...
A. 15 September 2010: Listen to CaringGuy he's read this man like a book. Reconnecting with blast from the pasts aren't a grand idea. They're best left where they belong in the past.
2 weeks is all he gave you? How inconsiderate. If it means moving back in with par... (read in full...)
We've been trying to have a baby, then I find out he's fathered a child with another woman
Q. As you see from my name. I am just that...so scared. I have been married now for nine years and with my husband for thirteen years. I found out maybe two weeks ago that he has been having an affair. Also with a person I know but through someone else ...
A. 15 September 2010: Did he admit the affair or you found out from another source? Wow, when he's supposed to be supporting you in this hard time of trying to conceive. It's frustrating as all hell when you track your ovulation, time your temp just right, and have sex ... (read in full...)
Is it possible to combine being gay with being a catholic?
Q. I've been raised in a catholic family and have always believed in god, but lately I have become more agnostic. I'm gay and feel like a bit of an outcast in the church. I'm not out, and don't think my family will accept it. As far I know, bein...
A. 15 September 2010: Oh dear, I know gay southern baptists who don't give their sexual relationship a second thought. They hit the gay bars on the weekend and are in church Sunday morning praying to God to forgive them for their sins. If you don't want to sound like a ... (read in full...)
Glitter on boyfriend's face!
Q. Hi everyone…I’m hoping someone can give me some advice. Last night I went to see my boyfriend after he got off work. When we were sitting together I noticed a small piece of glitter on the bottom of his nostril. Just one piece. I got upset and st...
A. 14 September 2010: Where are you thinking it came from? A stripper's glittery stage makeup? Could have been a drag queen's glittery made up eyes. It could have came from a child who had some on their shoe from the school project they were working on, who happened to ... (read in full...)
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