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What qualifies me to help you? Vast dating experience, especially in the LDR department, even an international on with an Aussie, broke hearts, had mine broken, been engaged once before, I know what a real friend is, seen the ugly side of divorce coming from a recently broken home myself, even went as far as to tip the odds to my side and use men only to toss them aside like yesterday's garbage like they do women, I know what it's like to almost give up hope on finding the perfect man when he's really only a few boyfriends away, and I'm starting to learn the ropes of married life. I also know a vast deal about the female and male reproductive system, and all about the mental struggles with infertility. On a side note, I'm the one who gives you tough love, I'm not on here to sugarcoat it or to tell you what you want to hear. I'm going to give it to you straight up, wouldn't you rather the truth?
-TOP 5 QUESTIONS I CAN'T STAND-
#1. Does this mean my teacher likes me?
Just because they're nice to you, offer extra help, and put a little gold star on your A+ paper doesn't mean they are in love with you.
#2. Could I be pregnant?
Have you not heard of a pregnancy test? Get off this website, and go to your local drugstore.
#3. I'm 14 and I want a baby?
Really? Me too! Oh wait I'm 28 and married. You're how old again?
#4. My husband loves porn more than me!
Maybe if you didn't let yourself go into the frumpy woman you have turned into then he wouldn't have to look at porn now would he? I recommend you get your rear to the salon for highlights, manicure, pedicure, tanning, toss the baggy tees and sweat pants for a wardrobe that fits, and a little makeup goes a long way. It's called basic woman maintenance in order to keep your man's eyes on you.
#5. Will we get back together, how can I get him to love me again?
Unfortunately, my crystal ball is broke at the moment and I just gave away the last of my love potion No. 9. Sorry.
MY GENERAL RULES OF THUMB (this should be common sense)
-No means no.
-Girls can ask out ask guys, this is a new generation.
-Unless you know sign language or are telepathic, you're going to have to talk to him/her.
-My "Don't ask, Don't tell" policy as is follows: Do not by any means volunteer your own sexual history, or ask your date/partner/wife/girlfriend their magic number (how many people they've slept with). If you find yourself being prompted to answer this question, politely tell them that's none of their business.
-Your past doesn't define who you are today. We grow, mature, age, and change as time passes.
-If you have to even ask random strangers on this website if you should have sex, then you're not ready for it.
-FWBs, fuck buddies, no strings attached, whatever you want to call it..is not a relationship don't get the 2 confused. In this case, sex=sex, not love.
-No trust=no relationship.
-It is normal for your husband/boyfriend to have friends of the opposite sex, do you not have male friends?
-LDRs can work, however they're not for everyone. You've got to have trust, communication, be faithful, and a lot of hobbies to keep yourself occupied. If you have trust issues, a case of being needy, clingy, problems staying faithful and are in a LDR don't be surprised when it doesn't work. I told you so.
- An ex is an ex for a reason. If you guys couldn't hack it as a couple the first 2 times what makes you think the third time is a charm?
-Going on a "break" is a nice way of breaking up.
-If you have sex with a man and he hasn't called you, or responded to your texts in weeks sorry to say but he was just after a piece of ass.
- Now unless he's getting blown up in Afghanistan, an on call ER doctor, or lying dead in a coffin then he's got no excuse for his poor or lack there of communication.
-You have a 12% chance of your married boyfriend leaving his wife and children.
-A man who is going through a divorce is still legally married. He's about to have an ex wife and you're wanting to get into a relationship with him? That's called a rebound.
-If you're a minor who's just found out she's pregnant, do me and everyone else on this site a favor..Tell your parents.
-Just because some one stares at you, it doesn't mean they like you. They could be staring at that booger hanging out of your nose.
-If you have a lump/bump/cyst/rash that looks green, has oozing puss, and itches like hell, but kinda looks like a STD then you had better consult your doctor. They went through 6 years of schooling and have a license to practice medicine, I think they would know better than random virtual strangers.
-Don't mix business with pleasure. Why? Because if you date your co-worker and in the event things turn sour then you're still stuck facing them 9-5, Mon-Fri. Awkward.
-No matter how hard you try, you can't change a person..they have to make that transformation themselves.
-When your boyfriend/girlfriend says they want space that doesn't mean you do the opposite and bombard them with calls/texts.
-As far as ultimatums go, don't try to make your boyfriend choose between you, his female friends, or weed. You won't like the results.
-If you're 13-17, I'm sorry but you haven't a clue what love really is. You have minimal dating experience confined to the high school dating pool which are nothing but horny boys. Their facial hair doesn't make them a man. It's only till you get out into the real world, a vast dating pool is when you learn the definition of love. So, go on thinking you and 13 year old Tommy will go on to get married, have 3 kids, and a two story house with a white picket fence. I don't expect you to listen, I'm 28 and married, what do I know? There's a reason why everyone says it won't last..because it doesn't.
-The average penis size erect is 6 inches, 4.85 inches. Women like average to even a little below average. We're not going to bust out a tape measure and measure it to make sure it's up to our standards. We just want to have sex, so enough complaining about your size let's get down and dirty.
- The legal age of consent in the U.S. is 16-18 varying oer state, in Britain it's 16. I think it's safe to say most parts of the world (unless you live in a tribe with their own form of government) the legal age to consent to sex is 16. So yes, all you minors below the age of consent are committing a crime when you engage in sexual activity. The age is set that high for a reason, you are not above the law. |
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Confused! He threw me away but now wants me back!
Q. Ok, I guess if I’m posting then I’m finally desperate enough that I need a answer, Here is the deal guys. Boy #, I have been with him for 3 years, and almost a year ago he broke up with me, we lived together and was very serious, then all sudden h...
A. 25 October 2010: Now if a valid sourced told you this..then let him go from being a part of your life. However, if the source heard amongst others then go with my other advice.... (read in full...)
Is it wrong I don't want him to go on a sleepover with other girls
Q. he has been asked to go on a sleep over with this boy matt, who is 2 years older than him, and his girl mate who is the same age. I don't really want him to go, but I cant explain why, its not because I don't trust him because I do. but he thinks ...
A. 24 October 2010: He lied to you again..yeah that's grounds for a break up. Your call. ... (read in full...)
Since I told him I have herpes he won't contact me...
Q. Hi everyone i went to the gum clinc and found i had herpes i got treated and told my partner of 3 and half years to get treated at clinc. When i told him i had it he looked at me like he hated me and was disgusted, i walked out crying and he hasnt ...
A. 24 October 2010: Now, the question is how did he get it? Because he's making you look like you're the one cheating. I suggest you ask him.... (read in full...)
Has he really moved on? Do I still stand a chance?
Q. I will try to keep this as short as I can. I would really appreciate any advice. My ex and I were together for about 5 years and we were engaged for about 2. He is in the military so for some time we were in a long distance relationship. About a ...
A. 24 October 2010: Male anon, I wasn't being negative just simply stating the truth in which you have seen for yourself being in the army. It's evident that her ex boyfriend falls into that category due to his cheating nature. I will say there are some males in the ... (read in full...)
I found a penis ring covered with kisses in my g/f's purse
Q. I found a cup (the things that goes around ur penis idk i forget names) in my gf of 10 months purse covered in lipstick kisses. ive never owned a cup. Im scared shes cheating on me wat do i do?...
A. 24 October 2010: Just ask her what is a sports cup with kisses on it doing in her purse..Simple as that. ... (read in full...)
I want to break up with my fiance but don't know how to do it!
Q. Im 19 and I have been with my fiancee for 2 and a half years. We have a beautiful year and a half old daughter together. My feelings just aren't the same for him anymore, I think the reason for this is his anger problem, his jealousy, and his ...
A. 24 October 2010: Let's see hurt his feelings or walk down the aisle with someone whom you don't want to marry?
It should be evident that you need to break it off as soon as possible..never ever get married when you have doubts running through your head, at the v... (read in full...)
I found a penis ring covered with kisses in my g/f's purse
Q. I found a cup (the things that goes around ur penis idk i forget names) in my gf of 10 months purse covered in lipstick kisses. ive never owned a cup. Im scared shes cheating on me wat do i do?...
A. 24 October 2010: wear*... (read in full...)
I found a penis ring covered with kisses in my g/f's purse
Q. I found a cup (the things that goes around ur penis idk i forget names) in my gf of 10 months purse covered in lipstick kisses. ive never owned a cup. Im scared shes cheating on me wat do i do?...
A. 24 October 2010: Like a cup you where in sports? What were you doing in her purse? Better have a good reason before you start asking her where this cup came from. The only thing I can think of is if she recently went to a bachelorette party..but that's an odd party ... (read in full...)
Since I told him I have herpes he won't contact me...
Q. Hi everyone i went to the gum clinc and found i had herpes i got treated and told my partner of 3 and half years to get treated at clinc. When i told him i had it he looked at me like he hated me and was disgusted, i walked out crying and he hasnt ...
A. 24 October 2010: I'm going to assume it's genital herpes because he hasn't contacted you and you're that upset over it. Genital herpes, you know there is not a cure and can be contracted from someone who has oral herpes through oral sex. But it's mostly through one ... (read in full...)
I'm 13 and like my friends 19 year old sister!
Q. Ok well I just started having feelings for my best friends sister who is 19 years old but the problem is I'm 13 yr old boy... His sister and i talk alot and are kinda close but I don't know what to do... Help plz...
A. 24 October 2010: She's significantly older than you..and quite a difference in maturity levels. You're just becoming a teenager, when she's about to become an adult and leave her teenage years. I'm sure at 13 she finds you absolutely adorable but due to the age gap ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend forgets to call me!
Q. me and my boyfriend have been so happy go lucky. yeah we had our probems but today i had it up to here! he goes to the movies with his friends and knowing i dont do nothing all day he dosent call mei told him why didnt call me and he said he forgot ...
A. 24 October 2010: He was having a guys day out with his friends, and it's rather rude of him to be on his phone the whole time to his girlfriend when he's supposed to be hanging with his buds. Just tell him you would appreciate a text or a phone call just to see how ... (read in full...)
How do I prove I didn't have sex when I woke up naked next to her?
Q. How do I prove I didn't have sex with this girl when I woke up naked next to her. I can't remember anything from the night before or the morning. the only thing I do remember is mid afternoon....
A. 24 October 2010: Unless you got hot in the middle of the night, and stripped down to your birthday suit..Then it's more than likely you did something with this girl. Looks like you had a roofie-colda to drink. ... (read in full...)
How can I stop being a menstrual bitch?!
Q. It's my time of the month at the moment and I am being such a miserable cow. All I want to do it sit on the sofa, watch tv and eat Chinese food and chocolate cake. The worst thing is that I'm being so horrible and mean to my boyfriend. He's ...
A. 24 October 2010: Ah poster, of course when you post this..My unfriendly reminder of me being a woman comes. I call her Rosy, kinda like an alter ego.
I will say I'm going to check out PMDD, thanks jmc930.
Damn, now I want Chinese. ... (read in full...)
Why would a woman do this to me?
Q. I have a question for you ? I am married man who dated a divorced women on and off for 4 years. On many occasion we talked about moving in together. Until the day she told me she was pregnant and she gave me a choice of moving in with her or ...
A. 24 October 2010: Well now that your taking legal action, looks like your affair is going to be exposed to your wife. Hope your ready for some more legal action.... (read in full...)
I want to ask him if we are a couple or FWB
Q. Ive been seeing my big brothers friend. At first my brother didnt know, but now its out in the open everyone knows. But now Im confused. We spend alot of time together. I see him almost everyday, he calls everyday, we text throughout the day. And I ...
A. 24 October 2010: It looks like you guys are in that getting to know each other phase before actually making it official. You made no mention of sex and the abundance of it, so no, it's not a FWB. As followtheblackrabbit defined the two for you, I absolutely agree ... (read in full...)
Should I believe her when she says they just made out?
Q. well my luck always seems to get worse when I don't think it could. The girl I love or loved most likely had sex with one of my best friends. She says they only made out but at this point I don't believe her cause she has lied before and I have ...
A. 24 October 2010: What does it matter if she had sex with him or not, or if she lied to you? You're not together, and she obviously isn't girlfriend material...You've wasted time and effort trying to get with this girl, and now you know for sure you won't get with ... (read in full...)
Boyfriend deletes all his texts! Should I be concerned?
Q. Hello. I'm very confused about my fiancé's behavior lately. He works in a liquor company where they travel every now and then, he is on the phone all day and working on computer as well (home office). It seems that lately all he cares is the stock ...
A. 24 October 2010: It's possible he deletes the texts so they don't start a fight, which they have before. Of if he has one of those phones, that only hold so much in the inbox and require you to delete some before you can read the most recent. I have one of these ... (read in full...)
He's in to me and four other girls too
Q. He says he loves me and like 4 other girls. I really like him. After awhile of not seeing him i lose the feelings then when i see him again they come rushing back. I'm 15 he is 17. .Is he just confused?. .If i date him will the stuff with t...
A. 24 October 2010: You said it yourself, he's a player. He says he "loves" you but also likes 4 other girls. Him liking the other girls won't stop. This guy can't be tied down to just one girl, he has to have many. So no, you will not get the monogamy you want from ... (read in full...)
He took rough sex too far and now I'm afraid to trust him
Q. My boyfriend like to be rough during sex. So when he started slapping my face about 6 months ago I told him that he was taking it too far and they only thing I don't want him to do is slap me because I feel like he is abusing me. He still likes to ...
A. 24 October 2010: I'll admit it, my husband was into rough kinky sex, hair pulling and slapping before he met me. However, he asked me if I liked any of that before he even did anything with me. I liked the hair pulling, but he NEVER EVER slapped me during sex. I ... (read in full...)
Is it wrong I don't want him to go on a sleepover with other girls
Q. he has been asked to go on a sleep over with this boy matt, who is 2 years older than him, and his girl mate who is the same age. I don't really want him to go, but I cant explain why, its not because I don't trust him because I do. but he thinks ...
A. 24 October 2010: What? When the hell did sleepovers become coed? Now, I'm 25..and when I was your age sleepovers meant strictly with your girl friends. I wasn't even sure if boys did sleepovers at that age, might have had a buddy or two sleep over but that was it. ... (read in full...)
Is he only interested in me for the sex?
Q. hi everyone at dear cupid Im very lost and confused at the moment i really really like this guy have done for many months even when he got a gf i liked him,(which he has since split with) Anyway yes i have slept with him a few times but nothing...
A. 24 October 2010: Call me crazy but doesn't he owe you some money for watching his dog? Or were you doing it out of generosity but trying to get closer to him?
Starting off on sex and you won't get any further except for bedroom. He's just using you for sex when... (read in full...)
Is the date of filing for divorce also the date that one or both spouses are free to have new sexual relationships?
Q. I filed for divorce and soon thereafter discovered that my wife is having a sexual relationship with another man. She says that since I have filed for divorce, she is free to have sex with other men and her behavior therefore is not adultery nor ...
A. 24 October 2010: Filing for divorce means you are going through a divorce, you're technically still married until those divorce papers are signed and legalized by the court. So your wife is wrong, she is committing adultery. ... (read in full...)
Biggest age gap you've ever seen?!
Q. Hi, ok. are u sitting down people? I seriously need a word of advice..i've fallen in love. madly, deeply inlove. And this man is in love with me, but we have to keep our relationship secret because we are afraid of what people might think. We ...
A. 24 October 2010: Most definitely the biggest age gap I've seen. Well, my only concern for you is that he'll out live you, and if you two get married he may or may not be able to give you children, and won't be alive to see his son/daughter grow up much less get ... (read in full...)
I think weed is coming between us.
Q. okay hey guys im alittle sad and i loveeeee my boyfriend weve been together for a year but i love how we are when were not fighting but when we fight he says somethings.. Like insults me alittle not appearce wise but that im pathic.. Yesterday we ...
A. 24 October 2010: Any guy who calls you pathetic and smokes weed isn't worth your time. FYI, weed reeks, gives you a momentary high, you get the munchies, and then you sleep all day. Not a whole lot of excitement there. Plus, it's illegal..get caught with pot ... (read in full...)
I'm a senior, should I date a freshman?
Q. I guess this is more a matter of me conflicted with myself. Last night, a group of us (me, a good friend of mine, his girlfriend and 3 of her friends) wet to a haunted house. Long story short, me and one of her friends spent an awful lot of tim...
A. 24 October 2010: Date em both, but not at the same time of course. 3 years age difference isn't that big of a deal. Just note you can't do anything sexual with her yet till she is of age of legal consent, which ranges from 16-18 depending on your state. You like ... (read in full...)
Help!!! How do I confront her?
Q. Okay, so I'm 18 and a senior in high school. I have been raised a gentleman and I keep fit playing various sports and going to the gym, so I'm not unattractive. I have been in a relationship for a year now, and I have very strong feelings towards ...
A. 24 October 2010: At that age, everybody was making out in the hallways before class. Unless, they have cracked down on that behavior..It's possible she finds PDA unattractive and refuses to engage in it. I understand, but there is nothing wrong with a small sweet ... (read in full...)
In love with my room mate!
Q. SO i recently moved into a 4 bedroom townhouse with my 3 roommates. 2 girls 1 boy. John and i had a connection from the minute i first picked him up from the airport. we had talked a couple times over skype and we got along really well. when i ...
A. 24 October 2010: Of course you can't ever get over him because you can't get away from him. This is why it's proper roommate etiquette not to date your roommates.
Too late you are already heavily emotionally involved with him, and you two can't see to keep eac... (read in full...)
Confused! He threw me away but now wants me back!
Q. Ok, I guess if I’m posting then I’m finally desperate enough that I need a answer, Here is the deal guys. Boy #, I have been with him for 3 years, and almost a year ago he broke up with me, we lived together and was very serious, then all sudden h...
A. 24 October 2010: He just up and said he no longer loved you, get out? It's possible he freaked because things were getting serious especially if it went fast, and he just wasn't ready for it. I can see he gave you no closure, guys rarely give us that common ... (read in full...)
How do I get this guys attention......again!!!!!!!
Q. i liked this guy last year and we seemed to have a really close connection but we fought a lot. i really wanted to date him but i was to scared to tell him how i really felt,although i think he secretly knew. then i got fed up with the arguing and ...
A. 24 October 2010: How about you tell him you like him? He seems to have gotten over the arguing, and you guys even hung out. Talk to him again for a little while, then confess you like him. Simple as that, what have you got to lose? Just be straightforward, guys ... (read in full...)
Good websites for dating???
Q. What are some good websites for local online dating that can be used on mobile internet? (I use my cell)...
A. 24 October 2010: Plenty of fish is popular, my friend uses that and she calls it plenty of ass.com..because all the men she has met thus far are either married or have girlfriends but are looking for an affair, or to cheat. I hope you have better luck than her!... (read in full...)
After arguements my best friend refuses to talk to me!
Q. if any body can give a good advice..i havent talk to the girl who has been my bestfriend for years..she said said she doenst know when she will talk me.. we had arguments but i dont think they were that strong to send our friendship to the ...
A. 24 October 2010: You know when I was your age me and my best friend of 9 years had a falling out, due to the fact she was a backstabbing rat. I hope this isn't the case for you, because that would be one difficult friendship to salvage..
Now, the only thing yo... (read in full...)
Aaaah!!! He loves us both!!!!!
Q. My boyfriend of a year and I, had been arguing about the fact that he still keeps pictures, on both shoebox and on his laptop of his ex girlfriend. One time, he told me that he love his ex girlfriend and that he will always love her, but that he ...
A. 24 October 2010: To share your boyfriend's love with someone else, an ex, is not acceptable. It's evident, this man is not over his ex, the memos of her he keeps, and he even claimed he still loves her. What is this love he has for you then? A secondary love? I ... (read in full...)
Wedding Blues: Maid of Honor who cannot dance, no gift bought yet and other disturbances
Q. Dearest Aunts and Uncles, I'm in a bind. My absolute favorite aunt who is 32 is getting married! I'd love to get her something special. She's a social worker, lives in New York and is down-to-earth :) So I have four problems. She wants me to walk ...
A. 24 October 2010: I'm sure she would love something, maybe a cool statement piece from Crate 'n' Barrel. Or find out where she is registered, and pick something nice from her list. I will say if she's into art or pictures..I saw at my friend's wedding someone had ... (read in full...)
How I can make her mine???
Q. Hi Cupid, My question is that i recently met a girl on a dating site we have had a good time together, she lives about 2hrs from me,we have seen each other 3 time and I've been making the drive to see her as she is recovering from a broken leg. We...
A. 24 October 2010: Maybe it's just Aussie girls in general my dear. Don't become like the rest of the males out there and use women for sex. There's already enough of those out there, in fact too many. Unless she is phenomenal in the sack, it's not worth it to drive 2 ... (read in full...)
Why doesn't she want our relationship to be 'official'
Q. My best friend and I lost our virginities to each other back in the beginning of June right after we graduated from high school. Yes, she is a girl and yes, I am a guy. Anyway, she asked me if I'd be okay with taking her virginity considering she ...
A. 24 October 2010: Well when you argue about it what is her reasoning for not being official?
Before you let this best friends with benefits you need to ask her to define you guys. What is your status? Let her know you want more, but you need to find out if she feel... (read in full...)
I've just discovered my boyfriend has female friends he texts
Q. Hi people as i live with my boyfriend for over a year, i just thought to use his fone to txt one of my friends then i relaised that he has girls as friends that he never told me abut and they been texting for awhile and im not sure whether to tell ...
A. 24 October 2010: Just because he has friends who are girls doesn't mean he's cheating on you with them. Been together a year and you haven't met any of his friends? Before you go drawing conclusions, just simply ask him who these girls are. Ask if you can meet them, ... (read in full...)
My birthday and he put friends ahead of me!
Q. Tomorrow is my birthday, which is a sunday. I had previously hinted to him that I'd rather go out on saturday night instead of my actual birthday. At the time he encouraged me to go out with my other friends, and was vague about whether he wanted to ...
A. 24 October 2010: Agreed with Ampersand, you most definitely have to spell it out for guys. They don't pick up on signals, hints, and some fail to listen or forget.
Or he could be using that as a cover and planning a surprise birthday get together. How cute. It... (read in full...)
I think my b/f likes me older sister
Q. i am 4~5 yrs youngr thn my bf and i had a feeling that he likes my older sister my sis is 2yrs youngr than him and they are both in d sme grade.. it is my 1st time hving a bf ,i dnt really know hw rlationships work and i realize i get jealous ...
A. 24 October 2010: If he's 4-5 years older than you, and is always concerned about your sister, then he's just using you to get to your sister. He wants a girl who is more his age and that can spell. Dump this guy before he hurts your feelings.... (read in full...)
Should I meet online guy in Cabo?
Q. I meet my online bf in august 1st we've emailed, called, you now the thing is that right now i'm in mexico finishing college (senior yr) and he lives in cali. he was in cabo and i wanted to meet him the day he left in mexico city just you know get ...
A. 24 October 2010: Here's the biggest red flag of your post..he never saw you and you never saw him. Do you even know what this guy looks like? Webcamed before, or are you just going off pictures? If you are just going off pictures, then he is not who he says he is, ... (read in full...)
Why would a woman do this to me?
Q. I have a question for you ? I am married man who dated a divorced women on and off for 4 years. On many occasion we talked about moving in together. Until the day she told me she was pregnant and she gave me a choice of moving in with her or ...
A. 24 October 2010: Sounds like you aren't her first victim. Thank god this woman had her tubes tied, she doesn't need to be spawning.
Your first mistake is having affairs, but you should already know that. Second mistake is wiring money to a woman you seem to hardl... (read in full...)
We had sex, all was good, then he dumped me via text!
Q. Alright so here's the deal. My boyfriend and I have been dating for about a month. Everything was going Super Great! Then one day, The morning was really good.. we woke up together.. we were cuddling.. he told me he loved me and didn't want to lose ...
A. 24 October 2010: So after you slept with him is when he dumped you? And in a text, loser!
Now this porn addiction, is this something that you bug him often about? If so that could have fueled the break up. However, if you held out on the sex, hence why he's bee... (read in full...)
Is it wrong for us to enter into a strictly sexual relationship with each other?
Q. Dear Cupid, I have been in love with a man I know for 20 years. We are both currently in committed relationships, but the opportunity to have a strictly sexual relationship has come up. Neither one of us want to give up our current relationships, w...
A. 24 October 2010: Well, my advice on the FWB still stands, someone be it you or him will develop feelings..especially if there is something there in the first place, as far as chemistry goes. It's interesting that both of your significant others will permit this. In ... (read in full...)
Is porno all the same to women?
Q. Ok so if a girl finds evidence of her guy using "porn", does it make any difference what kind? like would some swimsuit issues be as bad as an X-rated video? Does the type of content matter? What exactly is porn to you? When people hear the ...
A. 24 October 2010: FHM, MAXIUM, GQ are the female equivalent of Cosmo..Celebrity women are posed provocatively, scantily clad in bikinis, short skirts, school uniforms, etc no displaying of any genitalia or fully exposed mammaries. Playboy, Hugh Hefner did what he can ... (read in full...)
Is it wrong for us to enter into a strictly sexual relationship with each other?
Q. Dear Cupid, I have been in love with a man I know for 20 years. We are both currently in committed relationships, but the opportunity to have a strictly sexual relationship has come up. Neither one of us want to give up our current relationships, w...
A. 24 October 2010: Yes, not only would you be cheating..to your now not so committed relationship. But in your first line you said you have been in love with this man for 20 years. FWB = sex only. Not love. You can never have a FWB with this man due to the fact you're ... (read in full...)
How can I stop being a menstrual bitch?!
Q. It's my time of the month at the moment and I am being such a miserable cow. All I want to do it sit on the sofa, watch tv and eat Chinese food and chocolate cake. The worst thing is that I'm being so horrible and mean to my boyfriend. He's ...
A. 23 October 2010: Besides feeding your cravings, taking midol extra strength pamprin doesn't do it for me, having a heating pad by your bed for those cramps that feel like someone is stabbing your abdomen with a sword, not even thinking about fitting in those jeans, ... (read in full...)
Has he really moved on? Do I still stand a chance?
Q. I will try to keep this as short as I can. I would really appreciate any advice. My ex and I were together for about 5 years and we were engaged for about 2. He is in the military so for some time we were in a long distance relationship. About a ...
A. 23 October 2010: I know 5 years is a lot to swallow but if this is who he is now, and the military does change you, then that's someone you definitely don't want to marry. Being an army wife myself, I see a lot of everyone cheating on everyone. Males cheating on ... (read in full...)
Has he really moved on? Do I still stand a chance?
Q. I will try to keep this as short as I can. I would really appreciate any advice. My ex and I were together for about 5 years and we were engaged for about 2. He is in the military so for some time we were in a long distance relationship. About a ...
A. 23 October 2010: You were engaged for 2 years, what was the hold up on the wedding? Some bullshit that he said you were in no hurry to move forward, when the reason you moved was to be near him. And you moved back home because he cheated on you along with your ... (read in full...)
How I can make her mine???
Q. Hi Cupid, My question is that i recently met a girl on a dating site we have had a good time together, she lives about 2hrs from me,we have seen each other 3 time and I've been making the drive to see her as she is recovering from a broken leg. We...
A. 20 October 2010: There's no love potion that you can whip up to make her fall in love with you. Sorry.
It's interesting that she's the one who wants a no strings attached arrangement. Usually it's the other way around. Nearly impossible to take a FWB and turn it ... (read in full...)
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