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What qualifies me to help you? Vast dating experience, especially in the LDR department, even an international on with an Aussie, broke hearts, had mine broken, been engaged once before, I know what a real friend is, seen the ugly side of divorce coming from a recently broken home myself, even went as far as to tip the odds to my side and use men only to toss them aside like yesterday's garbage like they do women, I know what it's like to almost give up hope on finding the perfect man when he's really only a few boyfriends away, and I'm starting to learn the ropes of married life. I also know a vast deal about the female and male reproductive system, and all about the mental struggles with infertility. On a side note, I'm the one who gives you tough love, I'm not on here to sugarcoat it or to tell you what you want to hear. I'm going to give it to you straight up, wouldn't you rather the truth?
-TOP 5 QUESTIONS I CAN'T STAND-
#1. Does this mean my teacher likes me?
Just because they're nice to you, offer extra help, and put a little gold star on your A+ paper doesn't mean they are in love with you.
#2. Could I be pregnant?
Have you not heard of a pregnancy test? Get off this website, and go to your local drugstore.
#3. I'm 14 and I want a baby?
Really? Me too! Oh wait I'm 28 and married. You're how old again?
#4. My husband loves porn more than me!
Maybe if you didn't let yourself go into the frumpy woman you have turned into then he wouldn't have to look at porn now would he? I recommend you get your rear to the salon for highlights, manicure, pedicure, tanning, toss the baggy tees and sweat pants for a wardrobe that fits, and a little makeup goes a long way. It's called basic woman maintenance in order to keep your man's eyes on you.
#5. Will we get back together, how can I get him to love me again?
Unfortunately, my crystal ball is broke at the moment and I just gave away the last of my love potion No. 9. Sorry.
MY GENERAL RULES OF THUMB (this should be common sense)
-No means no.
-Girls can ask out ask guys, this is a new generation.
-Unless you know sign language or are telepathic, you're going to have to talk to him/her.
-My "Don't ask, Don't tell" policy as is follows: Do not by any means volunteer your own sexual history, or ask your date/partner/wife/girlfriend their magic number (how many people they've slept with). If you find yourself being prompted to answer this question, politely tell them that's none of their business.
-Your past doesn't define who you are today. We grow, mature, age, and change as time passes.
-If you have to even ask random strangers on this website if you should have sex, then you're not ready for it.
-FWBs, fuck buddies, no strings attached, whatever you want to call it..is not a relationship don't get the 2 confused. In this case, sex=sex, not love.
-No trust=no relationship.
-It is normal for your husband/boyfriend to have friends of the opposite sex, do you not have male friends?
-LDRs can work, however they're not for everyone. You've got to have trust, communication, be faithful, and a lot of hobbies to keep yourself occupied. If you have trust issues, a case of being needy, clingy, problems staying faithful and are in a LDR don't be surprised when it doesn't work. I told you so.
- An ex is an ex for a reason. If you guys couldn't hack it as a couple the first 2 times what makes you think the third time is a charm?
-Going on a "break" is a nice way of breaking up.
-If you have sex with a man and he hasn't called you, or responded to your texts in weeks sorry to say but he was just after a piece of ass.
- Now unless he's getting blown up in Afghanistan, an on call ER doctor, or lying dead in a coffin then he's got no excuse for his poor or lack there of communication.
-You have a 12% chance of your married boyfriend leaving his wife and children.
-A man who is going through a divorce is still legally married. He's about to have an ex wife and you're wanting to get into a relationship with him? That's called a rebound.
-If you're a minor who's just found out she's pregnant, do me and everyone else on this site a favor..Tell your parents.
-Just because some one stares at you, it doesn't mean they like you. They could be staring at that booger hanging out of your nose.
-If you have a lump/bump/cyst/rash that looks green, has oozing puss, and itches like hell, but kinda looks like a STD then you had better consult your doctor. They went through 6 years of schooling and have a license to practice medicine, I think they would know better than random virtual strangers.
-Don't mix business with pleasure. Why? Because if you date your co-worker and in the event things turn sour then you're still stuck facing them 9-5, Mon-Fri. Awkward.
-No matter how hard you try, you can't change a person..they have to make that transformation themselves.
-When your boyfriend/girlfriend says they want space that doesn't mean you do the opposite and bombard them with calls/texts.
-As far as ultimatums go, don't try to make your boyfriend choose between you, his female friends, or weed. You won't like the results.
-If you're 13-17, I'm sorry but you haven't a clue what love really is. You have minimal dating experience confined to the high school dating pool which are nothing but horny boys. Their facial hair doesn't make them a man. It's only till you get out into the real world, a vast dating pool is when you learn the definition of love. So, go on thinking you and 13 year old Tommy will go on to get married, have 3 kids, and a two story house with a white picket fence. I don't expect you to listen, I'm 28 and married, what do I know? There's a reason why everyone says it won't last..because it doesn't.
-The average penis size erect is 6 inches, 4.85 inches. Women like average to even a little below average. We're not going to bust out a tape measure and measure it to make sure it's up to our standards. We just want to have sex, so enough complaining about your size let's get down and dirty.
- The legal age of consent in the U.S. is 16-18 varying oer state, in Britain it's 16. I think it's safe to say most parts of the world (unless you live in a tribe with their own form of government) the legal age to consent to sex is 16. So yes, all you minors below the age of consent are committing a crime when you engage in sexual activity. The age is set that high for a reason, you are not above the law. |
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Should I stop talking to her or should I still try (because I know she loves me)?
Q. Hey: My ex-girlfriend of two years broke up with me roughly two months ago because I was studying for my medical boards, working full time, and not giving her enough attention in the 5 months preceding. In addition, she got a new sales job (her f...
A. 13 November 2010: No not really, just an update of the situation would have been polite of her. If it really did happen she called you as I said for a "shoulder to cry on"..it's possible that she felt she was breaking her own rules of NC, when really she said she ... (read in full...)
Should I stop talking to her or should I still try (because I know she loves me)?
Q. Hey: My ex-girlfriend of two years broke up with me roughly two months ago because I was studying for my medical boards, working full time, and not giving her enough attention in the 5 months preceding. In addition, she got a new sales job (her f...
A. 11 November 2010: I'd take that as an emergency, you were the first person she turned to..or the only one who could have answered their phone for that matter. If she reports him for sexual harassment, that has to be investigated and treated very seriously..I doubt ... (read in full...)
Should I stop talking to her or should I still try (because I know she loves me)?
Q. Hey: My ex-girlfriend of two years broke up with me roughly two months ago because I was studying for my medical boards, working full time, and not giving her enough attention in the 5 months preceding. In addition, she got a new sales job (her f...
A. 2 November 2010: :(
Awww, the last part was so sad, I had a mental image of you two parting. Well at least this time she was actually specific, she's got a lot on her plate right now, with her job (which seems very demanding), and her feelings for you are all ... (read in full...)
Should I stop talking to her or should I still try (because I know she loves me)?
Q. Hey: My ex-girlfriend of two years broke up with me roughly two months ago because I was studying for my medical boards, working full time, and not giving her enough attention in the 5 months preceding. In addition, she got a new sales job (her f...
A. 25 October 2010: If she wants to take things slow day by day, then sex doesn't need to be thrown into the mix. That only messes up your feelings even more when you're trying to straighten them out. Bad move. That doesn't make any sense for her to say that. You're ... (read in full...)
How I can make her mine???
Q. Hi Cupid, My question is that i recently met a girl on a dating site we have had a good time together, she lives about 2hrs from me,we have seen each other 3 time and I've been making the drive to see her as she is recovering from a broken leg. We...
A. 24 October 2010: Maybe it's just Aussie girls in general my dear. Don't become like the rest of the males out there and use women for sex. There's already enough of those out there, in fact too many. Unless she is phenomenal in the sack, it's not worth it to drive 2 ... (read in full...)
I don't look innocent! Is that a bad thing?
Q. Okay so some guys think i look not innocent but i really am innocent! i havent done anything bad and they know that, but they think i just look like im not innocent. is that a bad thing?...
A. 21 October 2010: So they're saying you look naughty? Well at your age range you shouldn't be looking naughty..Like Tisha explained if it's in how you dress being covered up leaves more up to the imagination. So you don't come off as looking promiscuous sending guys ... (read in full...)
We are eventually getting married why won't he talk about it?
Q. Why is it a problem for me to mention marriage and/or anything about marriage and/or weddings to my boyfriend? We are not engaged yet, but he says we will be eventually. Why can't I talk about these things with him? This has been my life-long dream: ...
A. 21 October 2010: Guys get freaked out when women start to throw up the commitment card. They don't know what to say when we're talking about fluffy white dresses, who's going to cater, burnt orange is pretty for a fall wedding. So they just nod and smile, or murmur ... (read in full...)
Do I stay with the old? Or go with the new?
Q. I've been happily with someone for the past 15 months. There has been nothing wrong with our relationship. He is the only one I feel comfortable around, and can completely be myself around him. And he thinks I'm absoulutely pefect, and does anything ...
A. 21 October 2010: There's something lacking in your great loving relationship causing you to stray. This new guy is fresh, amazing, and is in to you..you seem to be tiring of your 15 month relationship, the newness and excitement have well worn off.
If you are ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend cheated with one of my close friends and I can't get over it!
Q. Hello,im hoping someone can give me some advice..so ive been w/my boyfriend a little over 5yrs we have 2 children together absolutely almost perfect that is because when about 5yrs ago he slept w/1 of my closest friends.shes my friend but shes a ...
A. 21 October 2010: It takes two to tango. Your friend and your boyfriend are guilty as charged. Just because she's a "ho" doesn't justify her actions for boning your man. What does "dusted" mean? As in high? So what, he's still aware of his actions..it's the same as ... (read in full...)
Why does my boyfriend like his ex's butt better?
Q. Ok i am totally aware as to how ridiculous this is but omg help!! So im in a long distance relationship, been with him now for 2 years (both our longest relationships so far)and we see each other not often but atleast take 3 holidays per yea...
A. 21 October 2010: Mirror, mirror on the wall, who has the nicest ass of them all?
Your first mistake is you went poking at the past. Leave the past alone! Girls make that mistake so much, hell even I did. From woman to woman, let the past stay in the past.
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Sleeping with a friend's ex, does that make you a bad person?
Q. A few years ago I had a brief affair with the ex-wife of a very good friend of mine. I had known him for about 10 years and they had been divorced around 6. I had never even met her until about 6 months before we started seeing each other. When I...
A. 21 October 2010: You know that's very surprising that he suggested you guys date, even though it's his ex wife and you guys were friends..a very weird love triangle. I somehow knew he would get upset over you two secretly hanging out, the sex he would have probably ... (read in full...)
Weight advice needed!!!
Q. I have been on a very low cal diet (450-700 cals) for the past 2 months, I have no idea how much weight I have lost, my scales have been broken. I now have a pair of scales :) I weigh 115lbs at 5'6.5" and I am 22 years old. Basically, I need to lose ...
A. 21 October 2010: 5'6 is the average height of a woman, at 115lbs that's pretty skinny already. Usually the recommended weight is around 130 on up. Sounds like you're tipping into anorexia and that dreaded calorie counting..that is a lot of work. I'm very surprised ... (read in full...)
Her mom says I can't be trusted and now I can't see her till she's 18!
Q. Hey Im kind of going through the same thing here only we've only been dating for a year but its been the best year of my life so far :) well her parents made us break up because her mom says I can't be trusted and i can kind of see where shes coming ...
A. 21 October 2010: "we didn't do anything this time" So what did you do last time, to be banished from seeing her?
This must be about sex..You must live in one of those states where the legal age of consent is 18. Which if you guys did have sex or fool around a... (read in full...)
Does his stare mean anything?
Q. Hello. I just want to ask a question about something that happened to me today. Today, my crush and i catched eachother's eye. i smiled at him, looked down, looked back up and carried on smiling while he just looked at me. what does this mean? a...
A. 21 October 2010: Let's see my sophomore year I had a cute guy stare at me nonstop in Spanish class, when he went to sharpen his pencil, throw away things in the trash. I was like what's this dude's problem. Well weeks later, he finally made a move to talk to ... (read in full...)
Did I deserve to lose my baby?
Q. hey x so i had a miscarrige last year and at the time i just put it to the back of my head an forget about it as well to be honest i was ashamed because i was only 15 but i recently started going out with my best friend and when arguing, he brought ...
A. 21 October 2010: What a young, misinformed, inconsiderate friend you have. You don't deserve to have that devastation thrown in your face, just when you can put it in the back of your mind! Asshole. Pardon my french.. A miscarriage from what I understand is ... (read in full...)
Should I stop talking to her or should I still try (because I know she loves me)?
Q. Hey: My ex-girlfriend of two years broke up with me roughly two months ago because I was studying for my medical boards, working full time, and not giving her enough attention in the 5 months preceding. In addition, she got a new sales job (her f...
A. 21 October 2010: Yes, I'm wondering why she broke up with you in the first place? It could be she wasn't getting enough attention but that's a given being in a relationship with a med student. Then it's possible she felt like you would never have enough time for ... (read in full...)
Help! What should I do if I see him around when I visit?
Q. Can you help me figure out what to do? I like this guy who i used to know at school. He has a funny sense of humour ! We are on each others friends lists on facebook. I was online very late at night once, well actually, it was the early hours of the ...
A. 21 October 2010: Facebook stalker alert!
Sorry dear but this guy sounds like a creepster..stalking your Facebook, memorizing your profile, and asking you for oral sex. What the hell? If you saw him in person, I would run the other way because he's not all together... (read in full...)
Halloween Date Ideas?
Q. What is a good date for me and my boyfriend on Halloween night? We have to double or triple in order for us to go, but what are some good suggestions?...
A. 21 October 2010: Haunted corn maze, love it. Do look up haunted houses in your area and which ones are top rated. Nothing like wasting your money standing in a long line only for the scares to be lame..Plus, you get scared and that gives you an excuse to hang on to ... (read in full...)
Why won't he take his relationship status off Facebook???
Q. My Boyfriend and i just started dating like couple weeks now but we knew each other back in high school. I Have Him As A Friend On Facebook and it says that he is in a realtionship with somebody else, i asked him about he says it's his ex and dont ...
A. 21 October 2010: Guys are snails when it comes to adjusting any details on their Facebook. I really don't know what the problem is, it's just a few clicks of the mouse. Just ask him nicely to change his relationship status to in a relationship with you. Or change ... (read in full...)
B/f says he can't move on till his ex gets pregnant or married?
Q. I will try my best to cut a long story short. My current love interest, the father of my near 1yr old is still in love with his ex girlfriend and has said on a few occasions that he can't move on until she gets pregnant or gets married. Just a li...
A. 21 October 2010: He's never given you anything you wanted. A proper relationship, his heart...You inserted yourself in this mess when he started cheating on his girlfriend with you, it blew up even bigger because she found out about you and your pregnancy. The thing ... (read in full...)
Do guys wait to text?
Q. Well my mate gave her guyfriend my number because he liked me and he text me last friday and saturday. I been texting him first for a couple of days now and he asked me out, we are suppose to be going for food sunday. We talked for hours last night ...
A. 21 October 2010: I HATE that game. As a female you don't want to send no more than 3 texts at a time because you don't want to look needy or psycho. You get so mad when you write paragraphs and he sends back "k"..Or you text him at like 5:30 and you don't get a text ... (read in full...)
Husband texts other women
Q. Hi, I need some opinions on how you feel about your husband texting/talking on the phone with other women. We have been married for about a year and I trusted him that he is a good husband and will never cheat on me, but now im not so sure. He...
A. 21 October 2010: I HATE when other women text my husband. I always ask who is it, is she married turning into a big green jealousy monster..Mostly their women he works with. And it's often work related, and I've found out he does talk about some of our marriage ... (read in full...)
She seems to listen to her sister now more than she does me...
Q. Dear Cupid: Me and my gf have been together for a year and a half now and well everythings going great until lately.. You see she's been hanging around her sis which honestly I have no problem with since that's her family and all. That's n...
A. 21 October 2010: Listen girls aren't mind readers, you do have to spell it out for us at times. ... (read in full...)
Do you think that getting a hand job during a massage is really cheating?
Q. I am a little bored and was intrigued by all the ads for Asian massage places and something called "table shower". My question to you all is do you think that getting a hand job during a massage is really cheating? It seems to me that it is not ...
A. 21 October 2010: But you would be asking the masseuse to give you a hand job which IS sexual favor, in case you didn't know. It's funny that you would let a female Asian give your wife a finger (in a woman's case) but not a male masseuse? It wouldn't very ... (read in full...)
Do women like to catch a glimpse of a man's penis or balls?
Q. Do women like it when men wear shortish kind of shorts and maybe you catch a glimpse of what he is packing here or there (san undies, of course). I love it when I happen to catch a glimpse up a woman's skirt, or into her shorts, or down her top to ...
A. 21 October 2010: Now are you talking about when a man wears those shorty running shorts, that I swear up and down that I can see balls swinging? Those men usually run in my neighborhood, when I'm driving I almost wreck because it's like watching a train ... (read in full...)
She seems to listen to her sister now more than she does me...
Q. Dear Cupid: Me and my gf have been together for a year and a half now and well everythings going great until lately.. You see she's been hanging around her sis which honestly I have no problem with since that's her family and all. That's n...
A. 21 October 2010: What exactly is your question? Of course she's going to be close with her sister and give her time..she moved out and doesn't get to see her as often. I'm sure she misses her. How is there a change in her showing you love? Just because she's not ... (read in full...)
I like my Bio-Lab partner, but does my Bio-Lab partner like me?
Q. I'm in college now and as my title asks, does my Bio-Lab partner like me? I'm very confused.I like her a lot(my college friends say I LOVE her)she a very sweet and gentle person from what I can tell. We would meet at the campus library often(no...
A. 21 October 2010: Sorry Theoir, but coming from a female we don't want to be kissed off guard. No it's not sexy.That's not romantic, like in the movies. You can't just go and kiss a girl and see if she likes you. It doesn't work like that. How many times has it ... (read in full...)
I've really offended my friend help what can I do ?
Q. advice please. i think ive really offended my friend. we went for lunch yesterday and she was going on about some baby toy for her 5 month old for a while and i went into the shop to look for it to buy for her and was quite tired yesterda...
A. 21 October 2010: It's possible you came off as insulting her as a mother..That you know what's best for her child. She sounded a little touchy and oversensitive. She should be happy that you bought the toy for her child in the first place. Oh well, you can't tiptoe ... (read in full...)
I like my Bio-Lab partner, but does my Bio-Lab partner like me?
Q. I'm in college now and as my title asks, does my Bio-Lab partner like me? I'm very confused.I like her a lot(my college friends say I LOVE her)she a very sweet and gentle person from what I can tell. We would meet at the campus library often(no...
A. 20 October 2010: From your post alone, it sounds like she's shy and there's a possibility she's into you. Now the blushing, that could be embarrassment from the compliments..or flattery.
Don't go in for a kiss, that will make things a little awkward especial... (read in full...)
My social circle thinks it's too big an age difference
Q. Hi! I'll just jump straight in and say I've got an age gap issue that's really bugging me. I'm 21 and my boyfriend is 29 (30 in 5 weeks) and basically I'm just getting a load of flack from friends and family. I - unfortunately - come from a very Bri...
A. 20 October 2010: Isn't that the old fashioned way of marriage? Or is that how they still are today? I mean it's not like you're a Lady who is being forced to marry the Duke of Manchester when you're really in love with the stable boy..Sorry, been watching way too ... (read in full...)
Can someone give me some contraception advice?
Q. Hello i am 16 and i have several questions to ask 1.) i am on the POP and it has made me feel really depressed and my period has been on for 4 of the 5 weeks i have been taking it. Also i cant bring myself to have sex anymore as it has made my confi...
A. 20 October 2010: I was on the depo shot for 3 years..Personally, I hated it..I bled the whole last month before I had to go and got my next scheduled shot. When I discussed this with my gyno he said every girl's body is different some bleed the whole 3 months. Plus, ... (read in full...)
Us "hanging out" usually just means me giving him head or us having sex. I'm feeling used!
Q. Okay soo.. Ive been seeing this guy for over a year; we just started dating 3 months ago officially. It's my junior year and his senior year. Homecoming is in a couple of weeks and he won't take me. He also never wants to go out with me on a date or ...
A. 20 October 2010: Sorry darling, sex doesn't equal love. He's using you for sex or sexual favors whatever he's feeling up to that night. Of course he's not going to take you on a proper date, or to homecoming because all he wants from you is sex. Not a relationship. ... (read in full...)
Fiance's bad money habits wreaking havoc on our relationship
Q. I love my fiance very much. He is sweet, funny, understanding, and beyond in love with me. Unfortunately he is horrible with money. We have lived together for over a year and he has maybe contributed a grand total of $2,000 to all bills and ...
A. 20 October 2010: CindyCares pretty much covered the bases..He has money for his larger than life Hot Wheels but doesn't have the money to contribute to bills and living expenses. Just curious how buying project trucks/cars and tricking them out is benefiting his ... (read in full...)
He acts like we broke up but we are still "in a relationship" on facebook...?
Q. My boyfriend left my house last week after we got in a fight, so I called him while he was driving off and he said that he needed space and hung up on me and said that I am always angry at him. We were having an amazing night with our friends...
A. 20 October 2010: Looks like your more or less on a break..But in order to know for sure you're going to have to ask him and not rely on Facebook for your answer. So don't be so stubborn, and apologize for the petty argument...he'll most likely forgive you. Or ... (read in full...)
I have suspicions that he might be cheating on me...
Q. my bf, and i have been dating for about 2 months now, our relationship, is more sexual than emotional. Which personally i do not mind, because i am not in love with him. The only problem is that, now, i think he is cheating on me, and i told him, ...
A. 20 October 2010: This sounds like more a friends with benefits than a relationship, are you sure it's a relationship? Are you okay with him cheating on you?
Kind of an odd situation..If you're okay with it, then switch your relationship to a friends with benefits... (read in full...)
How I can make her mine???
Q. Hi Cupid, My question is that i recently met a girl on a dating site we have had a good time together, she lives about 2hrs from me,we have seen each other 3 time and I've been making the drive to see her as she is recovering from a broken leg. We...
A. 20 October 2010: There's no love potion that you can whip up to make her fall in love with you. Sorry.
It's interesting that she's the one who wants a no strings attached arrangement. Usually it's the other way around. Nearly impossible to take a FWB and turn it ... (read in full...)
He's rubbing my face in it showing me pictures of her!
Q. Hi Cupids, I just want to know if its just me with an issue about this subject or would other women do the same as me? I've been with my boyfriend now for 1 year and 2 months and im currently 5 months pregnant with our little girl, he constan...
A. 20 October 2010: Ouch 17 and pregnant..he's acting really petty and childish. Hopefully he'll man up real fast when he has to take care of a wailing newborn..I doubt he'll have much time to get onto his laptop. Or will you be the one taking care of your child due to ... (read in full...)
So fed up with my family!!!
Q. I am the youngest of all in my home. since my chilhood everyone they shout at me. i am now an adult and still they do the same in tiny little things like, i don't keep my clothes in right place, my book, i don't clean my room. They think i am a ...
A. 20 October 2010: Haha you're allergic to your sister? And I thought I was the only one allergic to my sibling.
Well ANON, I'm assuming you still live at home since everyone is still ragging on you. I don't know what it is about family but sometimes whatever... (read in full...)
Is he still attached to this girl from his past?
Q. Ive been with this guy for a while now but about two years back while we were still in a relationship he started seeing this other girl for his sexual needs bc he wasnt getting it from me. We had oral and fooled around but never sex. Well they lost ...
A. 20 October 2010: Of course you can't trust him because he cheated on you! Going back to his fuck buddy because you weren't giving it up..What a jackass. Personally, I wouldn't have taken him back, I don't know why you did. Now, let me ask you this..Are you giving ... (read in full...)
Are my friends right? IS he playing me?
Q. I live in a small town where everyone knows everyone type of thing. In high school there was a guy Taylor, he was a TOTAL player, he slept with pretty much every girl in our high school and then usually dumped them and told his friends about it. 3 ...
A. 20 October 2010: Those people who told you he's a player aren't blowing smoke up your ass. Often once a player, always a player. Once you hit college the playing field is pretty vast.
Of course he's going to deny those allegations and make himself out to be this ... (read in full...)
Guilt is playing on my mind... help!
Q. hi everyone. im needing some help. i have been in a relationship coming up two years now and i am totally head over heals in love with my girlfriend, and i know she loves me as much. we are both realy happy, but i have recently been thinking of a ...
A. 20 October 2010: Just curious, why were you hanging out with this random girl? It's a kiss, still a form of cheating but a lesser charge. You didn't kiss back or pull away? If you puckered up then you are innocent by no means..
Guilt is eating away at you, goo... (read in full...)
He seems to tired to see me since he's move house... what do I do?
Q. Okay well I've been dating this guy for about 3 months. We both like each other very very much and usually spend a lot of time together. However he is a bit older than me and recently he moved out of his apartments into his sister's apartment ...
A. 20 October 2010: If it's not either of those two then it sounds like he's getting tired of dating you. That's one of my pet peeves too, when people make plans to see you and back out at the last minute...Ticks me off to no end.
Anyways, if he really wanted t... (read in full...)
Has anyone ever heard of keeping in touch with an ex boyfriend's child after a breakup?
Q. I am 24 years old. My bf has been living with me for almost three year now. He has a child that I have known since he was 18 months. We have the child 2-3 days out of the week. I have no children and have become very attached to this little guy. ...
A. 20 October 2010: Can't say that I have. Ultimately it would be up to the mother if you could stay in the child's life or not. As long as he was old enough to understand who you are..I see no problem with you being a distant aunt attending birthday parties, helping ... (read in full...)
Should I try to move over there or just forget him?
Q. Ok so I met this guy online around 2 and a half years ago and for the first few months we talked every day (some days for hours some days not very much) but as friends. He was just someone cool to talk to and chill with, nothing more and I wasnt ...
A. 20 October 2010: It wouldn't be a bright idea to pick up and move over there..You have never met this guy, you don't even know if he's who he says he is. Just curious why hasn't he flown out to meet you yet? Or vice versa? So it wouldn't be a bright idea to pick up ... (read in full...)
How often should I swallow cum?
Q. Me and my boyfriend like to do sex everynight.I really enjoy to give him a blowjob.He tells me to swallow his semen.I don't like swallowing.Is it harmful for body?Is it helpful?How many times in a week should i swallow cum?...
A. 20 October 2010: I agree blow jobs are fun but swallowing is something I don't enjoy. Tried it once and about gagged, last time I did it. So I'm a spitter but not necessarily a quitter because I'm still giving blow jobs.
Don't knock it till you try it, then dec... (read in full...)
Its been 2 weeks with no contact from him should I just move on?
Q. so i was seeing this very nice guy since march of this year. it started out good. we would call eachother every day.i tried not to see him every day for the first couple of weeks. he seemed ery interested in me so i went with it. i didnt sleep with ...
A. 20 October 2010: I'm going to point out there was no relationship from the get go. This is one of those jerk offs that somehow fail to mention this is a no strings attached, no expectations, fuck buddies arrangement. He pulled a once over on you, don't worry those ... (read in full...)
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