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What qualifies me to help you? Vast dating experience, especially in the LDR department, even an international on with an Aussie, broke hearts, had mine broken, been engaged once before, I know what a real friend is, seen the ugly side of divorce coming from a recently broken home myself, even went as far as to tip the odds to my side and use men only to toss them aside like yesterday's garbage like they do women, I know what it's like to almost give up hope on finding the perfect man when he's really only a few boyfriends away, and I'm starting to learn the ropes of married life. I also know a vast deal about the female and male reproductive system, and all about the mental struggles with infertility. On a side note, I'm the one who gives you tough love, I'm not on here to sugarcoat it or to tell you what you want to hear. I'm going to give it to you straight up, wouldn't you rather the truth?
-TOP 5 QUESTIONS I CAN'T STAND-
#1. Does this mean my teacher likes me?
Just because they're nice to you, offer extra help, and put a little gold star on your A+ paper doesn't mean they are in love with you.
#2. Could I be pregnant?
Have you not heard of a pregnancy test? Get off this website, and go to your local drugstore.
#3. I'm 14 and I want a baby?
Really? Me too! Oh wait I'm 28 and married. You're how old again?
#4. My husband loves porn more than me!
Maybe if you didn't let yourself go into the frumpy woman you have turned into then he wouldn't have to look at porn now would he? I recommend you get your rear to the salon for highlights, manicure, pedicure, tanning, toss the baggy tees and sweat pants for a wardrobe that fits, and a little makeup goes a long way. It's called basic woman maintenance in order to keep your man's eyes on you.
#5. Will we get back together, how can I get him to love me again?
Unfortunately, my crystal ball is broke at the moment and I just gave away the last of my love potion No. 9. Sorry.
MY GENERAL RULES OF THUMB (this should be common sense)
-No means no.
-Girls can ask out ask guys, this is a new generation.
-Unless you know sign language or are telepathic, you're going to have to talk to him/her.
-My "Don't ask, Don't tell" policy as is follows: Do not by any means volunteer your own sexual history, or ask your date/partner/wife/girlfriend their magic number (how many people they've slept with). If you find yourself being prompted to answer this question, politely tell them that's none of their business.
-Your past doesn't define who you are today. We grow, mature, age, and change as time passes.
-If you have to even ask random strangers on this website if you should have sex, then you're not ready for it.
-FWBs, fuck buddies, no strings attached, whatever you want to call it..is not a relationship don't get the 2 confused. In this case, sex=sex, not love.
-No trust=no relationship.
-It is normal for your husband/boyfriend to have friends of the opposite sex, do you not have male friends?
-LDRs can work, however they're not for everyone. You've got to have trust, communication, be faithful, and a lot of hobbies to keep yourself occupied. If you have trust issues, a case of being needy, clingy, problems staying faithful and are in a LDR don't be surprised when it doesn't work. I told you so.
- An ex is an ex for a reason. If you guys couldn't hack it as a couple the first 2 times what makes you think the third time is a charm?
-Going on a "break" is a nice way of breaking up.
-If you have sex with a man and he hasn't called you, or responded to your texts in weeks sorry to say but he was just after a piece of ass.
- Now unless he's getting blown up in Afghanistan, an on call ER doctor, or lying dead in a coffin then he's got no excuse for his poor or lack there of communication.
-You have a 12% chance of your married boyfriend leaving his wife and children.
-A man who is going through a divorce is still legally married. He's about to have an ex wife and you're wanting to get into a relationship with him? That's called a rebound.
-If you're a minor who's just found out she's pregnant, do me and everyone else on this site a favor..Tell your parents.
-Just because some one stares at you, it doesn't mean they like you. They could be staring at that booger hanging out of your nose.
-If you have a lump/bump/cyst/rash that looks green, has oozing puss, and itches like hell, but kinda looks like a STD then you had better consult your doctor. They went through 6 years of schooling and have a license to practice medicine, I think they would know better than random virtual strangers.
-Don't mix business with pleasure. Why? Because if you date your co-worker and in the event things turn sour then you're still stuck facing them 9-5, Mon-Fri. Awkward.
-No matter how hard you try, you can't change a person..they have to make that transformation themselves.
-When your boyfriend/girlfriend says they want space that doesn't mean you do the opposite and bombard them with calls/texts.
-As far as ultimatums go, don't try to make your boyfriend choose between you, his female friends, or weed. You won't like the results.
-If you're 13-17, I'm sorry but you haven't a clue what love really is. You have minimal dating experience confined to the high school dating pool which are nothing but horny boys. Their facial hair doesn't make them a man. It's only till you get out into the real world, a vast dating pool is when you learn the definition of love. So, go on thinking you and 13 year old Tommy will go on to get married, have 3 kids, and a two story house with a white picket fence. I don't expect you to listen, I'm 28 and married, what do I know? There's a reason why everyone says it won't last..because it doesn't.
-The average penis size erect is 6 inches, 4.85 inches. Women like average to even a little below average. We're not going to bust out a tape measure and measure it to make sure it's up to our standards. We just want to have sex, so enough complaining about your size let's get down and dirty.
- The legal age of consent in the U.S. is 16-18 varying oer state, in Britain it's 16. I think it's safe to say most parts of the world (unless you live in a tribe with their own form of government) the legal age to consent to sex is 16. So yes, all you minors below the age of consent are committing a crime when you engage in sexual activity. The age is set that high for a reason, you are not above the law. |
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Is it necessary to tell someone you're dating about your past?
Q. How much do you tell a guy you love about ur past, about passed hook ups, stupid things uve done, is it really necessary? wouuldn't he have a bad image of me when i know that im not this person. Im afraid he wont trust me if he knows about my past ...
A. 17 June 2011: They may or may not make those comments about you. It would be just rumors anyways. If this guy is smart he'll ask you first instead of believing hearsay from his friends.
Besides making out with a X amount of guys doesn't earn you a slutty r... (read in full...)
Is it necessary to tell someone you're dating about your past?
Q. How much do you tell a guy you love about ur past, about passed hook ups, stupid things uve done, is it really necessary? wouuldn't he have a bad image of me when i know that im not this person. Im afraid he wont trust me if he knows about my past ...
A. 17 June 2011: I was 25 when I met my husband (and not a Christian) so he knew I definitely wasn't a virgin.
Are you asking if it's necessary to tell someone you're not a virgin when your group is all virgins? I'm a bit confused by your question.
Because... (read in full...)
Is it necessary to tell someone you're dating about your past?
Q. How much do you tell a guy you love about ur past, about passed hook ups, stupid things uve done, is it really necessary? wouuldn't he have a bad image of me when i know that im not this person. Im afraid he wont trust me if he knows about my past ...
A. 16 June 2011: Broke off my engagement early 08'. Started having a lot more hook-ups and one night stands up until the summer of 09', I met a guy who was worth dating. Broke it off with him in Oct 09' to hook up with another guy, then I met my husband Halloween ... (read in full...)
Is it necessary to tell someone you're dating about your past?
Q. How much do you tell a guy you love about ur past, about passed hook ups, stupid things uve done, is it really necessary? wouuldn't he have a bad image of me when i know that im not this person. Im afraid he wont trust me if he knows about my past ...
A. 15 June 2011: OP, no you shouldn't feel guilty for not telling him. It's not necessary.... (read in full...)
Is it necessary to tell someone you're dating about your past?
Q. How much do you tell a guy you love about ur past, about passed hook ups, stupid things uve done, is it really necessary? wouuldn't he have a bad image of me when i know that im not this person. Im afraid he wont trust me if he knows about my past ...
A. 15 June 2011: Actually they don't. I went from my magic number being 4 before I was engaged around about age 20, after I broke off my engagement at 23, my magic number shot up to 16 with past hook-ups. Now, I've been married for over a year.
People might lo... (read in full...)
Is it necessary to tell someone you're dating about your past?
Q. How much do you tell a guy you love about ur past, about passed hook ups, stupid things uve done, is it really necessary? wouuldn't he have a bad image of me when i know that im not this person. Im afraid he wont trust me if he knows about my past ...
A. 15 June 2011: Your one night stands/past hookups, and overall dating experience say nothing about your personality. It's NOT a part of you as a person. They're just situations you took action in. Your dating past also doesn't apply to your future ... (read in full...)
Its been 2 weeks with no contact from him should I just move on?
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A. 20 October 2010: I'm going to point out there was no relationship from the get go. This is one of those jerk offs that somehow fail to mention this is a no strings attached, no expectations, fuck buddies arrangement. He pulled a once over on you, don't worry those ... (read in full...)
My best friend is only using me till he gets a girlfriend
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A. 20 October 2010: Your best friend is a crappy one..He's also in denial of being gay or bisexual. I don't know of a single straight man who would let a man blow him because he wasn't getting any action. He's using and manipulating you for sexual favors the only thing ... (read in full...)
I love my girlfriend's sister and don't want to lose her
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Now that he's out of prison he's blowing me off!
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A. 20 October 2010: A former inmate, what a catch.
You guys are engaged? You have a ring, when's the wedding? It's possible he's busy sorting out what he is going to do in his life. Hopefully, he's trying to make it go in the right direction. Maybe you're coming o... (read in full...)
Should I try to make this work?
Q. this female is having this guy's baby after knowing him 3 months.in fact the guy is my ex-boyfriend who wants to get back with me. should i kick him to the curb or try an make it work....
A. 20 October 2010: If you even have to ask that question then you know the answer. Not a single person on here will tell you to try to make it work...Mainly because he is your ex and he has already knocked up another girl. Whether he chooses to stay with her or not, ... (read in full...)
I think I still love my ex. What should I do?
Q. I have been broken up with my ex for over 2 yrs. We are both in other relationships but my problem is that I'm still in love with her. We were together for 8 years. We had an up and down relationship but were always deeply in love. We had a ...
A. 20 October 2010: Advice stil stays the same, and I'll add that if you go out with your ex knowing she has a boyfriend overseas then you're opening a can of worms. Who's to say she won't toss you aside when she goes back to be with her boyfriend?
Your ex is unat... (read in full...)
Feel like she's deceiving me and has secret Email account...what do I do?
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A. 19 October 2010: How can you continue a relationship with no trust? You're constantly monitoring her, going back and checking her computer history and any other of her accounts you have access to. No relationship should be like that. You have the evidence, that she ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend wants me to give my cats away!
Q. My boyfriend who wants to marry me, wants me to give away my 2 cats whom i love so much because the cat hair disgust him alot. He loves to spend the night with me, but isnt comfortable because of all the cat hair. Should I give them away? PS he laid ...
A. 19 October 2010: He should carry around a lint roller, it gets off animal hair as well..It's possible he isn't a cat person or has personal vendetta against them. Who knows? I would follow everyone's advice and get a pet hair vacuum, keeps my home clean with that ... (read in full...)
Any tips on getting her back?
Q. Hello guys. im really grateful that you took some of your time in order to help me . my 2 years long distance relationship gf just broke up with me and honestly i dont blame her at all. i was bein so selfish lately. I even tried to make her stop...
A. 19 October 2010: Female perspective here..LDR's can work but both parties have to be cut out for it. Not everyone can be in one. She broke it off, why? What were her reasons? If they were anything along the lines of "We're so far apart, I can't handle the distance, ... (read in full...)
How do I tell him I haven't had sex in 8 years?
Q. just started talking to an old boyfreind. Its been 19 years! We want to be together again and he is out of state, but coming back. How and do I tell him i havent had sex in 8 years? What will he think of that? Don't know what to do!...
A. 19 October 2010: There's no need to tell him it's a little dusty down there, possibly some cobwebs. We all go through our dry spells, some just don't have the time and don't feel like looking for a one night stand. Or some can't bring themselves to go down that path ... (read in full...)
Is it necessary to tell someone you're dating about your past?
Q. How much do you tell a guy you love about ur past, about passed hook ups, stupid things uve done, is it really necessary? wouuldn't he have a bad image of me when i know that im not this person. Im afraid he wont trust me if he knows about my past ...
A. 19 October 2010: Don't ask, Don't tell policy...meaning you don't volunteer your past sexual history and trust me he most likely won't ask. Plus, you don't need to be asking him about his either. It makes for awkward conversation and some potential retroactive ... (read in full...)
I'm torn between three guys, what should I do?
Q. Pull out the popcorn and get comfortable, this is gonna be long. Hiya Aunts and Uncles, I'm in quite a confused space with 3 really great guys at the moment. Lets call the first guy Jarvis. We dated for about 7 months but it took 3 months...
A. 19 October 2010: Why give Jarvis another shot when he screwed it up the first time? Then you gave him a little get out of jail free card and tossed the ball in his court, but has yet to do anything about it. Jarvis is afraid of commitment, hence why he yo-yoed you ... (read in full...)
Dating a cop who behaves very strangely, should I flee??
Q. I am dating a cop... started out great, he told me he was crazy about me - dated a few months, we were very much into each other and things turned REALLY weird. On one date, he actually was a complete jerk -I purchased expensive tix to a football ...
A. 19 October 2010: Hey you did what you could and he just wasn't meeting you in the middle. A know a lot of men who would be tickled pink if their girlfriend bought them tickets to any sporting events or concerts. You're a woman that goes above and beyond..and all you ... (read in full...)
Does there always have to be an attraction between 2 people for them to have sex?
Q. When two people have sex, there must be some sort of attraction for them both to do it. Yes you can have one nite stands but something must get you both attracted to each othe even if it is only that? ...
A. 19 October 2010: For me, yes..
Others (in which I'm surprised no one said it) they can close their eyes and fantasize they're having sex with Megan Fox or Johnny Depp..
Or men could put a brown paper bag over the ugly girl's head and then proceed..... (read in full...)
How do I tell him nicely I don't want to go on this trip??
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A. 19 October 2010: Well don't knock the idea until you go to the party with your friends and mingle with him a little more. The problem is you don't really know him and aren't comfortable being around him or the idea of a first date. When I was your age, I rarely went ... (read in full...)
Dating a cop who behaves very strangely, should I flee??
Q. I am dating a cop... started out great, he told me he was crazy about me - dated a few months, we were very much into each other and things turned REALLY weird. On one date, he actually was a complete jerk -I purchased expensive tix to a football ...
A. 19 October 2010: What a cocky cop. Sounds like this is the real him, like it or not. I believe he has some past issues with relationships, possibly a nasty divorce from a nagging bitching wife , or had a lot of clingy women. His attitude is women are beneath him ... (read in full...)
I need advice, I want to have a baby, I am 14, please help??
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A. 19 October 2010: My oh my..I'm 25 and wanting a baby but I'm also happily married.
Sorry dear but you are way too young to have a baby, you just started going through puberty! A baby needs a mother who will provide, care, and will put their needs before their ow... (read in full...)
Age Difference Situation please help!!
Q. Hello! So its my 14th birthday today, and this boy I am seriously in love with turned 17 exactly a month ago. I've liked him since I was 11, and I met him at school. He added me on Facebook when I was 11, and ever since we've been speaking every ...
A. 19 October 2010: Oh dear..I'm going to address the sex part. You are underage to consent to sex, he is of legal age. If you two were to tango in bed then he can be charged with statutory rape and sent to jail for quite a while.
You remind me of Molly Ringwald in S... (read in full...)
Help! I think my mom is cheating on my dad!!!
Q. Ever since my mom got a facebook I've had suspicions of her cheating on my Dad. I've seen her on it and she mostly talks to guys. About a month ago I was downstairs alone her phone went off, I looked ( I know I really shouldn't have) and it was all ...
A. 19 October 2010: Ah the older you are the more you are affected by the divorce.
Some pretty strong accusations you got there..It could very well be something but then again it could be nothing. Just because your mom made a Facebook doesn't mean she's having a... (read in full...)
Pregnancy hopes... Am I doing something wrong here?
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A. 19 October 2010: No your not, and I'm going through the nightmares of trying to conceive. Supposed to be an exciting time trying to have a baby with your loved one, not so much. You notice pregnant woman more so than often, everyone of your friends seems to be ... (read in full...)
How do I tap into that part of her that does still want me and break down the barrier?
Q. Okay so long story. Me and my girl have been on and off for nearly two years. I love her a lot and I know she feels the same way, we adore each other. Earlier this month I betrayed her trust, big time, by lying to her. She was devastated and I...
A. 19 October 2010: I agree with TimmD...trust is something we give you in the beginning of the relationship only when you do something such as lie or cheat then that trust is taken away..Then you have to work on earning it back which will take some time.
What ... (read in full...)
So torn between two wonderful men
Q. So I have noticed that this is a common issue with women: I am torn between two men. For your sake, I will give you a brief intro to both men and then explain the situation. Man #1: We were officially together for a year and 2 months. We had a...
A. 19 October 2010: Dynamite sex with number 2 or Being in love with number 1?
You do have a tough decision. One thing I'll point is that it's purely sexual with number 2, you shouldn't have jumped the gun and got in the sack with him. If you wanted a relation... (read in full...)
Should I tell her the truth, or stick it out for this baby and see what happens?
Q. My wife and I have been fighting a lot. I fell in love with another woman, and was going to leave my wife for her. Then my wife told me she was pregnant. She asked me point blank, "do you want to have this baby with me?" Since I KNOW that I F'd ...
A. 19 October 2010: How long have you and your wife been married? And you haven't cheated?
Well, I'll say to stay together for the child is the biggest mistake parents make. This child would be born into a loveless marriage, and not even being wanted by you. Not the ... (read in full...)
I moved five hours away after our break up -- and now he's dating someone here??
Q. My ex and I were together for about nine years. When we broke up (about nine months ago) it was basically mutual. The relationship had become stagnant and we both needed to move on. To make it easier on me and to cut the possibility of ever ...
A. 19 October 2010: I'm going to give you a pat on the back for ignoring him for 3 weeks as well, then canceling your Facebook, and changing your number. Fantastic, for stepping it up and cutting it off.
How disrespectful for him to have a drunk girl call you at 3... (read in full...)
Vibrating Condoms/penis ring
Q. Hello. Has anybody else tried vibrating condoms/penis rings and if so, do you think if they are worth the money?...
A. 19 October 2010: I've bought penis rings before and they worked once out of the package then died. He never even got to slip it on. Maybe I just had a bad package, but don't go to the sex stores and waste your money on a $7 cock ring. Go to Wal-Mart and they have ... (read in full...)
When does the age gap become too big?
Q. Recently started seeing a friend of a friend, and found out that he is 22 years my senior (I am 44). You do the math. I had simply never asked, and didn't realize he was that much older, he certainly doesn't look it, and our mutual friends are my ...
A. 19 October 2010: When they are young enough or look like they could be your child.... (read in full...)
Music to play during sex
Q. Hi. Does anybody know of some nice, relaxing music that we can dowload to play during sex? We do not like hop hop or modern techno.` ...
A. 19 October 2010: Marvin Gaye's "Let's Get it On". Just kidding, that will probably make you laugh instead. Actually I like those ocean or nature sounds..or just plain silence will do because I like to hear the heavy breath and moans.... (read in full...)
Over a $20.00 tip? Are you serious?
Q. Hello to all. I have a situation and I am looking for some advice. I hope someone can help me out here. My boyfriend and I went out for dinner last night. We hadnt gone out in awhile so I agreed to go even though I had just gotten off a 8 hour shift ...
A. 19 October 2010: Depends on how much the check was..I always tip generously for waiters and waitresses because my brother-in-law does it in order to support his 10 month old twins.
I can see where you're mad, this is just something else to add to the list of ... (read in full...)
How do you give good oral sex?
Q. I'm not that experienced but I want to know how to give good oral to my boyfriend any tips on what I should do or how I should do it? ...
A. 19 October 2010: Oh my a little young to be engaging in blow jobs, don't you think?
I pretend it's the best lollipop or popsicle I've ever had. Don't neglect the balls! Cup them in your hands while giving oral, pause and put the balls in your mouth giving t... (read in full...)
Guys Only Please* nude pics of gf
Q. GUYS ONLY PLEASE I mean this, because girls view the world in a totally different way, and they all THINK they know what guys are thinking and the reasons behindd their actions, but are usually wrong. A girl asking for insight into a guy's min...
A. 18 October 2010: Lmao, love the tampon bit. Let explain what I meant, I have a lot of guy insight I suppose you can say due to the tons of male friends I have..No topic is off limits, so if I were to answer your question I honestly would have said the same as the ... (read in full...)
My husband's long-lost ex fiancé is suddenly intruding into his life
Q. My husband of twelve years recently added his ex fiance on Facebook. She apparently contacted him thru his sisters Facebook. They broke up 18 years ago because she cheated on him. Now she has come back and has attended family gatherings (I was away ...
A. 18 October 2010: "You can" *... (read in full...)
Is Lovemaking Needed for a Relationship to Survive?
Q. Is it necessary for a couple to be physically intimate for the relationship to survive?...
A. 18 October 2010: 4th vote for yes. Actually I would be surprised if we got a "no" on here.
Sex doesn't make the world go round, neither does it make the relationship BUT it is imperative for a happy healthy relationship/marriage. It's when 2 become one in mind,... (read in full...)
I want to dedicate a song to a loved one! What song would you choose?
Q. Hi, I'm not sure if this is the right place for this....if you could dedicate a song or two (or even 3 lol) to someone..what would it be and why? For example "Luther Vandross - Dance with my Father" ...always reminds me of my dad....
A. 18 October 2010: Brown Eyed girl-Van Morrison reminds me of my mom.
Addicted-Simple Plan to an ex your grieving over.
Hero-Enrique Iglesias for a boyfriend, husband, significant other.
I'm not Ok-My Chemical Romance or The Kill-30 Seconds to Mars for me when I ha... (read in full...)
Guys Only Please* nude pics of gf
Q. GUYS ONLY PLEASE I mean this, because girls view the world in a totally different way, and they all THINK they know what guys are thinking and the reasons behindd their actions, but are usually wrong. A girl asking for insight into a guy's min...
A. 18 October 2010: Couldn't resist commenting..OP you need to correct your statement to "some" not "all"...I don't try to read into men's action and try to decipher what they're thinking because frankly I don't give a shit. Also, another correction to your statement, ... (read in full...)
My ex won't send my stuff back!
Q. Well I wrote my ex about wanting my stuff back tonight because its still over at her house the only thing is that it is a long distance relationship. In I have wrote her back about three times now about it in she wont send my stuff because she has ...
A. 18 October 2010: You again. Whatever I said in your last post still applies. I'm thinking you're wanting to get this girl back and not just your coat. You're not getting your coat back..it looks like she's hanging on to memories of you or she has some serious mental ... (read in full...)
My husband's long-lost ex fiancé is suddenly intruding into his life
Q. My husband of twelve years recently added his ex fiance on Facebook. She apparently contacted him thru his sisters Facebook. They broke up 18 years ago because she cheated on him. Now she has come back and has attended family gatherings (I was away ...
A. 18 October 2010: Being married you can't tell your husband you're not comfortable with her contacting him and vice versa..he needs to block her from his Facebook and his life. She doesn't need to be popping in at his mother's house reminiscing on what once was. Put ... (read in full...)
I love her but she loves another
Q. I luv a girl in my school blindly..now i was scared 2 ask her out..but then i thought that i will ask her out...but before i could a boy of my class who is better then me asked her and she accepted..now they love each other...i cant take this...i ...
A. 18 October 2010: Nothing. Wish I could make a love potion to help you out..but that's impossible. There's nothing you can do, she likes this guy and is taken. You can't make someone love you. Sorry, but at 13-15 I have to agree you don't know what love is. You don't ... (read in full...)
Is going forward with a wedding, while keeping a big secret from one's fiancee a bad idea?
Q. Cheated on my fiancee a bit over a year ago. Have been together for 5 years. We got engaged over the summer and are getting married next month. She doesn't know that I had a short affair while we were dating (4 years into the relationship). I think ...
A. 18 October 2010: The guilt is eating you alive. You'll get both answers on here, tell her or keep it to yourself. Personally, I would tell her as soon as possible before you blurt it out. A marriage and a relationship is based off trust...start it out right. She ... (read in full...)
I didn't pursue her! Could she still have feelings for me?
Q. So there's this girl I like. At one point in time she told me she liked me too, that was about a year ago, for some reason I didn't pursue her, looking back I think it's one the dumbest things I've ever done. As it is now, I have zero contact with ...
A. 18 October 2010: Myspace seems to be dead..when was her last log on date? If it's been since 3/4/2008 then I suggest you search her on Facebook and message her using your inbox. It could be just lack of communication like before. All you can do is send her a message ... (read in full...)
She says she didn't cheat, should I believe her?
Q. My girlfriend has had this guy "friend" for i don't know how long. Longer than she has known me. She went to go hang out at his house one night. She ended up staying the night over there. I saw her the next day and she said they were just watching ...
A. 18 October 2010: Your girlfriend is a hypocrite. I will say it is true for a guy and a girl to be strictly friends and nothing more..BUT if they have a sexual past then it is very difficult to keep it as friends with that history. I see a lot of red flags here, ... (read in full...)
I like three guys but I don't know which one to pick!
Q. So I like these 3 guys and i think they all like me. But 1 part of me tells me that the guy I like the most wont be right like no chemistry.another guy I dont want to like but kinda do and that part of me tells me it is just making out thats all. ...
A. 18 October 2010: Hmmm not enough info for me to tell you which one is your best bet. But listen to your female intuition, it's saying guy 3 would be perfect for you. You don't know till you try. I like Indie's tactic of writing a pros and cons list, it often puts ... (read in full...)
I think I still love my ex. What should I do?
Q. I have been broken up with my ex for over 2 yrs. We are both in other relationships but my problem is that I'm still in love with her. We were together for 8 years. We had an up and down relationship but were always deeply in love. We had a ...
A. 14 October 2010: Break up with the girl who is overseas. One, because you can't handle a LDR and because you still have feelings for your ex it isn't fair to string this girl along due to the fact you're not into her 100%. Going to be a crappy way to break up with ... (read in full...)
I moved five hours away after our break up -- and now he's dating someone here??
Q. My ex and I were together for about nine years. When we broke up (about nine months ago) it was basically mutual. The relationship had become stagnant and we both needed to move on. To make it easier on me and to cut the possibility of ever ...
A. 17 September 2010: "Don't ask, don't tell policy." as in you are not to talk about who you are seeing/dating and vice versa. That topic is forbidden. Sorry about not explaining it further.... (read in full...)
I moved five hours away after our break up -- and now he's dating someone here??
Q. My ex and I were together for about nine years. When we broke up (about nine months ago) it was basically mutual. The relationship had become stagnant and we both needed to move on. To make it easier on me and to cut the possibility of ever ...
A. 17 September 2010: Here's where I would have applied the "Don't ask, don't tell" policy. I admire how you guys have managed to stay friends after the break-up, but telling each other about your new dates or people you're seeing isn't such a great idea. Due to the fact ... (read in full...)
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