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What qualifies me to help you? Vast dating experience, especially in the LDR department, even an international on with an Aussie, broke hearts, had mine broken, been engaged once before, I know what a real friend is, seen the ugly side of divorce coming from a recently broken home myself, even went as far as to tip the odds to my side and use men only to toss them aside like yesterday's garbage like they do women, I know what it's like to almost give up hope on finding the perfect man when he's really only a few boyfriends away, and I'm starting to learn the ropes of married life. I also know a vast deal about the female and male reproductive system, and all about the mental struggles with infertility. On a side note, I'm the one who gives you tough love, I'm not on here to sugarcoat it or to tell you what you want to hear. I'm going to give it to you straight up, wouldn't you rather the truth?
-TOP 5 QUESTIONS I CAN'T STAND-
#1. Does this mean my teacher likes me?
Just because they're nice to you, offer extra help, and put a little gold star on your A+ paper doesn't mean they are in love with you.
#2. Could I be pregnant?
Have you not heard of a pregnancy test? Get off this website, and go to your local drugstore.
#3. I'm 14 and I want a baby?
Really? Me too! Oh wait I'm 28 and married. You're how old again?
#4. My husband loves porn more than me!
Maybe if you didn't let yourself go into the frumpy woman you have turned into then he wouldn't have to look at porn now would he? I recommend you get your rear to the salon for highlights, manicure, pedicure, tanning, toss the baggy tees and sweat pants for a wardrobe that fits, and a little makeup goes a long way. It's called basic woman maintenance in order to keep your man's eyes on you.
#5. Will we get back together, how can I get him to love me again?
Unfortunately, my crystal ball is broke at the moment and I just gave away the last of my love potion No. 9. Sorry.
MY GENERAL RULES OF THUMB (this should be common sense)
-No means no.
-Girls can ask out ask guys, this is a new generation.
-Unless you know sign language or are telepathic, you're going to have to talk to him/her.
-My "Don't ask, Don't tell" policy as is follows: Do not by any means volunteer your own sexual history, or ask your date/partner/wife/girlfriend their magic number (how many people they've slept with). If you find yourself being prompted to answer this question, politely tell them that's none of their business.
-Your past doesn't define who you are today. We grow, mature, age, and change as time passes.
-If you have to even ask random strangers on this website if you should have sex, then you're not ready for it.
-FWBs, fuck buddies, no strings attached, whatever you want to call it..is not a relationship don't get the 2 confused. In this case, sex=sex, not love.
-No trust=no relationship.
-It is normal for your husband/boyfriend to have friends of the opposite sex, do you not have male friends?
-LDRs can work, however they're not for everyone. You've got to have trust, communication, be faithful, and a lot of hobbies to keep yourself occupied. If you have trust issues, a case of being needy, clingy, problems staying faithful and are in a LDR don't be surprised when it doesn't work. I told you so.
- An ex is an ex for a reason. If you guys couldn't hack it as a couple the first 2 times what makes you think the third time is a charm?
-Going on a "break" is a nice way of breaking up.
-If you have sex with a man and he hasn't called you, or responded to your texts in weeks sorry to say but he was just after a piece of ass.
- Now unless he's getting blown up in Afghanistan, an on call ER doctor, or lying dead in a coffin then he's got no excuse for his poor or lack there of communication.
-You have a 12% chance of your married boyfriend leaving his wife and children.
-A man who is going through a divorce is still legally married. He's about to have an ex wife and you're wanting to get into a relationship with him? That's called a rebound.
-If you're a minor who's just found out she's pregnant, do me and everyone else on this site a favor..Tell your parents.
-Just because some one stares at you, it doesn't mean they like you. They could be staring at that booger hanging out of your nose.
-If you have a lump/bump/cyst/rash that looks green, has oozing puss, and itches like hell, but kinda looks like a STD then you had better consult your doctor. They went through 6 years of schooling and have a license to practice medicine, I think they would know better than random virtual strangers.
-Don't mix business with pleasure. Why? Because if you date your co-worker and in the event things turn sour then you're still stuck facing them 9-5, Mon-Fri. Awkward.
-No matter how hard you try, you can't change a person..they have to make that transformation themselves.
-When your boyfriend/girlfriend says they want space that doesn't mean you do the opposite and bombard them with calls/texts.
-As far as ultimatums go, don't try to make your boyfriend choose between you, his female friends, or weed. You won't like the results.
-If you're 13-17, I'm sorry but you haven't a clue what love really is. You have minimal dating experience confined to the high school dating pool which are nothing but horny boys. Their facial hair doesn't make them a man. It's only till you get out into the real world, a vast dating pool is when you learn the definition of love. So, go on thinking you and 13 year old Tommy will go on to get married, have 3 kids, and a two story house with a white picket fence. I don't expect you to listen, I'm 28 and married, what do I know? There's a reason why everyone says it won't last..because it doesn't.
-The average penis size erect is 6 inches, 4.85 inches. Women like average to even a little below average. We're not going to bust out a tape measure and measure it to make sure it's up to our standards. We just want to have sex, so enough complaining about your size let's get down and dirty.
- The legal age of consent in the U.S. is 16-18 varying oer state, in Britain it's 16. I think it's safe to say most parts of the world (unless you live in a tribe with their own form of government) the legal age to consent to sex is 16. So yes, all you minors below the age of consent are committing a crime when you engage in sexual activity. The age is set that high for a reason, you are not above the law. |
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My girlfriend is horrible at showing affection!
Q. My girlfriend (26) and I (24) have been going out for 4 months. The affection is horrible!!! I am frustrated and very openly venting to all of you as I really wouldn’t otherwise and I am really looking for some help if my perception of this is ...
A. 14 January 2011: Hmmm sex is a taboo at her age. Now, I'm wondering if (god forbid) she was ever raped, or sexually abused when she was much younger? That would explain her lack of dating experience and being so against sex. In which the only way to overcome that ... (read in full...)
How to keep him guessing.
Q. Girls, you know how guys say we're complex? Good news for you, they love it. Mystery is what turns a guy on the most. It's like a puzzle a game or a search, so how do you keep the search going when you are in a relationship with him? 1. During t...
A. 6 November 2010: For Reader Anon,
At 25 years old married and with a vast dating experience to back it all up, I do know quite a few things about boy/men. I don't know it all but I pay close attention to know enough. So at Kat's age range, it couldn't hurt for... (read in full...)
Has he really moved on? Do I still stand a chance?
Q. I will try to keep this as short as I can. I would really appreciate any advice. My ex and I were together for about 5 years and we were engaged for about 2. He is in the military so for some time we were in a long distance relationship. About a ...
A. 24 October 2010: Male anon, I wasn't being negative just simply stating the truth in which you have seen for yourself being in the army. It's evident that her ex boyfriend falls into that category due to his cheating nature. I will say there are some males in the ... (read in full...)
How can I stop being a menstrual bitch?!
Q. It's my time of the month at the moment and I am being such a miserable cow. All I want to do it sit on the sofa, watch tv and eat Chinese food and chocolate cake. The worst thing is that I'm being so horrible and mean to my boyfriend. He's ...
A. 24 October 2010: Ah poster, of course when you post this..My unfriendly reminder of me being a woman comes. I call her Rosy, kinda like an alter ego.
I will say I'm going to check out PMDD, thanks jmc930.
Damn, now I want Chinese. ... (read in full...)
Is it wrong for us to enter into a strictly sexual relationship with each other?
Q. Dear Cupid, I have been in love with a man I know for 20 years. We are both currently in committed relationships, but the opportunity to have a strictly sexual relationship has come up. Neither one of us want to give up our current relationships, w...
A. 24 October 2010: Well, my advice on the FWB still stands, someone be it you or him will develop feelings..especially if there is something there in the first place, as far as chemistry goes. It's interesting that both of your significant others will permit this. In ... (read in full...)
Is porno all the same to women?
Q. Ok so if a girl finds evidence of her guy using "porn", does it make any difference what kind? like would some swimsuit issues be as bad as an X-rated video? Does the type of content matter? What exactly is porn to you? When people hear the ...
A. 24 October 2010: FHM, MAXIUM, GQ are the female equivalent of Cosmo..Celebrity women are posed provocatively, scantily clad in bikinis, short skirts, school uniforms, etc no displaying of any genitalia or fully exposed mammaries. Playboy, Hugh Hefner did what he can ... (read in full...)
I'd like some advice on clothes to wear to a bar.
Q. I'd like some advice on clothes to wear to a bar. Do you think it would be ok to wear a small black top, black or white jeggings , knee high boots ( i have a black pair and a grey pair ) , and either a bolero jacket or a dressy coat ?. Both of those ...
A. 24 October 2010: Blue and white top with jean jeggings, and grey boots. Blue and black don't go to together, unless it's a cobalt blue. Skirt over the jeggings may look a little bulky. ... (read in full...)
I have a 30% chance of living so he dumped me for his ex
Q. I fell for this man, he was everything to me. I was diagnosed with cancer, which is spreading to my lungs...I have a 30% chance of getting through it...but when I saw messages on Kellen* phone (I was using it because mine was broken) I noticed ...
A. 24 October 2010: Look OP, it's easy to be negative and to give up so to speak. You got a 30% chance of beating this cancer, that's still more than a sliver of hope! This Kellen is a jerk, he's leaving you when you're at your worst. Not sticking with you through ... (read in full...)
Should I move in with my boyfriend?
Q. ive got a boyfried who ive been with nearly three years, we are going to be moving in together in a few weeks time although i have doubts. this is because ive just started a new job where i have met a really lovely guy i cant stop thinking about him ...
A. 24 October 2010: Move in with your boyfriend, that way you guys will have a closer relationship.. This other guy is 14 years older than you, which is quite an age gap. Plus you work with him so if you were to get involved with him and things turned sour you will ... (read in full...)
Is it wrong for us to enter into a strictly sexual relationship with each other?
Q. Dear Cupid, I have been in love with a man I know for 20 years. We are both currently in committed relationships, but the opportunity to have a strictly sexual relationship has come up. Neither one of us want to give up our current relationships, w...
A. 24 October 2010: Yes, not only would you be cheating..to your now not so committed relationship. But in your first line you said you have been in love with this man for 20 years. FWB = sex only. Not love. You can never have a FWB with this man due to the fact you're ... (read in full...)
I don't know what to get my boyfriend for his birthday!!
Q. Its about a month until my boyfriends birthday (and mine.. because its on the same day) anyway.. I dont know what to get him, ive asked him and he's just told me to get him a football or something .. I probrably will get him a football but i want ...
A. 24 October 2010: A football, be pretty cool if you had some connections, or knew of someone who has connections that can get that autographed by his favorite player. In addition to the football, how about a football jersey? Or if you could drop some money football ... (read in full...)
So sick of my husband!
Q. please help ive been married for 5 years, my husband dont cuddle, kiss or have sex with me unless he has been drinking, he goes out to the pub lunch time and comes back when he feels like it and thinks its ok. he constantly complains about my son ...
A. 24 October 2010: Are you thinking he's cheating? If he doesn't come home at all or till the wee hours of the morning then I say something is up. He wants you to get a second job, does he not have one?
Well 5 years if marriage with no affection, sex, I don't kn... (read in full...)
What to do when your boyfriend comments on his ex's picture?
Q. Ok, so my boyfriend and I have been together for a month and 9 days so far. He already told me he loved me and i told him i love him too, but yesterday i found out that he commented on some other girls picture. Its not the fact that he commented ...
A. 23 October 2010: He told you he loved you but made that comment on his ex's photo, then blamed it on the alcohol. His story doesn't add up, darling. You know that, I know that.
Sober or not this guy cannot be trusted if he is making comments like that on his ex g... (read in full...)
How can I stop being a menstrual bitch?!
Q. It's my time of the month at the moment and I am being such a miserable cow. All I want to do it sit on the sofa, watch tv and eat Chinese food and chocolate cake. The worst thing is that I'm being so horrible and mean to my boyfriend. He's ...
A. 23 October 2010: Besides feeding your cravings, taking midol extra strength pamprin doesn't do it for me, having a heating pad by your bed for those cramps that feel like someone is stabbing your abdomen with a sword, not even thinking about fitting in those jeans, ... (read in full...)
How to keep him guessing.
Q. Girls, you know how guys say we're complex? Good news for you, they love it. Mystery is what turns a guy on the most. It's like a puzzle a game or a search, so how do you keep the search going when you are in a relationship with him? 1. During t...
A. 23 October 2010: Oh Kat, my dear. You have much to learn about boys, men when you get older. But I do like your cute article, let me give you some advice..what I have learned thus far.
1. You don't want to come across as a slut, making him think he's going to... (read in full...)
I think one night stands are disgusting! Am I normal?
Q. Even when I was a teenager I never beleived in 1 night stands and never had sex with a woman I didn't at least care about. I hear about so many cases of cheating, group sex and just fucking someone just for the hell of it. I find it a bit ...
A. 23 October 2010: I'll say that when I was a teenager, wasn't for them like you found them repulsive and how could people stoop to that level..Until one day I found myself on the other side of the fence..Hypocritical, I know. Just got out of an engagement with a year ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend complains that I am not pulling my weight!
Q. My relationship is on the verge of breaking... or I think ...and the sad thing is that I am not sure how to fix it or if it can be fix at all. The thing is that I moved in to another city to be with my bf about a year ago. About 6 months ago, I ...
A. 23 October 2010: Ha, this isn't the 1930s and you're not June Cleaver! R.I.P, that wonderful TV mom.
Anyways, you do contribute to this household with your full time job, cooking every night, paying nearly all the expenses..What does he bring to the table? I... (read in full...)
Hotel employee keeps hitting on me!
Q. I am staying a season at a bed and breakfast in a very small rural community. The innkeepers' 20 year-old son works for his parents doing odd jobs around the place (maintenance, shuttle driving, etc.), so I have to deal with him pretty often. Every ...
A. 23 October 2010: Other than get your money refunded for the nights you won't be staying and picking up to another bed and breakfast or hotel, even though it may be miles away in another city..Which may not be ideal for you, so it looks like you're going to have to ... (read in full...)
My husband said I deserved to get cancer ...
Q. I recently had a breast cancer scare and thankfully have just found out that whilst I'm Ill it's not cancer... Phew!! But my husband was really werid and uncaring through the whole thing and the final thing was when the results came back he said " w...
A. 23 October 2010: Wow, either he has some chemical imbalance in his brain, maybe he's bipolar, or he's really that cruel. Or maybe he was hoping you had it, so he could collect life insurance. Whatever his reasoning or motives, I would not be able to look at him ... (read in full...)
I have a 30% chance of living so he dumped me for his ex
Q. I fell for this man, he was everything to me. I was diagnosed with cancer, which is spreading to my lungs...I have a 30% chance of getting through it...but when I saw messages on Kellen* phone (I was using it because mine was broken) I noticed ...
A. 23 October 2010: It's possible that he's one of those who can't deal with dying loved ones...I know a few people like that, who won't attend their own mother's funeral because that's no how they want to remember her. However, you do have a 30% chance of surviving, ... (read in full...)
Has he really moved on? Do I still stand a chance?
Q. I will try to keep this as short as I can. I would really appreciate any advice. My ex and I were together for about 5 years and we were engaged for about 2. He is in the military so for some time we were in a long distance relationship. About a ...
A. 23 October 2010: I know 5 years is a lot to swallow but if this is who he is now, and the military does change you, then that's someone you definitely don't want to marry. Being an army wife myself, I see a lot of everyone cheating on everyone. Males cheating on ... (read in full...)
We fight almost every day and I'm always crying
Q. Okay so I'm 20 and my Boyfriend is 30. We have been together for a year and a half and he is totally my best friend and we love each other to death and are great! But....we seem to fight almost everyday and I seem to CRY EVERYTIME... I tell him ...
A. 23 October 2010: He's never taken you on a date? Then how did you two become boyfriend and girlfriend? Telling you to shut up or get over it, and making you cry everyday, this guys doesn't sound very nice. He's 30 and your 20, usually guys (not all) around that age ... (read in full...)
Getting married soon but still unable to enjoy sex
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together for two years now and are all geared up to tie the knot in a couple of months.We are completely in love,and have not been with anyone else ever.Yet everytime we have sex I am unable to enjoy it.The first time ...
A. 23 October 2010: So you lost your virginity to each other? Well since you're new to sex, you don't know what you like yet..Try experimenting with foreplay before sex to get you more in the mood and juices flowing. Look into his eyes, kiss passionately, nibble on his ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is turning into my charity work
Q. Hi Gang - I recently agreed that my boyfriend could move into my houseshare whilst he relocated to the west country for work. unfortunately the job he was offered fell through, so now he is living in my room, unemployed and cant afford to move on ...
A. 23 October 2010: Great title, OP.
You feel sorry for him so you take him in, temporarily. HHmmm, how to say you're out staying your welcome in a nice way. Besides, leaving a stack of help wanted ads on the kitchen table, circling ones he'll be qualified for, and... (read in full...)
Has he really moved on? Do I still stand a chance?
Q. I will try to keep this as short as I can. I would really appreciate any advice. My ex and I were together for about 5 years and we were engaged for about 2. He is in the military so for some time we were in a long distance relationship. About a ...
A. 23 October 2010: You were engaged for 2 years, what was the hold up on the wedding? Some bullshit that he said you were in no hurry to move forward, when the reason you moved was to be near him. And you moved back home because he cheated on you along with your ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend doesn't have a job, has no money, hasn't taken any steps to go back to school, stays out all night, won't watch our daughter, and calls me a nag and a bore!
Q. Me and my boyfriend have been together almost 5 yrs. We have a beautiful daughter who will be 2 in December. Me and my bf havent been getting along at all. He blames me for everything. He works 15hrs a week for welfare. He takes a nap everyday. Its ...
A. 23 October 2010: Let's see controlling and doesn't trust you, two more to add to my list..Cons outweigh the pros. If there are any pros..
I have severe allergies ANON, in fact I should probably live in a bubble I'm allergic to so much stuff. My allergies don't ca... (read in full...)
My girlfriend is horrible at showing affection!
Q. My girlfriend (26) and I (24) have been going out for 4 months. The affection is horrible!!! I am frustrated and very openly venting to all of you as I really wouldn’t otherwise and I am really looking for some help if my perception of this is ...
A. 23 October 2010: Interesting usually it's the other way around..Well it looks like she makes small attempts..However I think you're wrong in her having experience, looks are deceiving. You don't like the affection she attempts but you'll take what you can get ... (read in full...)
A question about manners!
Q. Its not a love question, but about manners. i went out with my friend yesterday, and later her coworker joined us with 2 friends, all guys. They were approximately our age, early, mid forties. We were introduced, exchanged 'nice to meet you'fras...
A. 23 October 2010: I second that, this is not typical behavior in the States...A lot of men I hang around, chat with you like they're your brother talking about sports, drinks, politics, ordering hot wings to share, buying a round of drinks for the table, calling the ... (read in full...)
Friend's a tart, how do I tell her?
Q. Ok I have a new friend who I met through my child's school... I think we will end up being really good friends, she's really on my wave length... The trouble is she's single and has signed up to loads of dating sites, she keeps meeting loads of ...
A. 23 October 2010: I like to start it off "As your friend I will give you my take on it, it's a possibility that they're getting the wrong impression of you due to the fact you have sex with them on the first date. They think that's all you want and leave it at that ... (read in full...)
My mom is a cougar! How do I get over it?
Q. So heres the story. Im 16 and my name is Candace. I'm inique, pretty and fun to be around and hilarious, and I get that from my mom. I haven't seen or talked to my real dad in years. (i dont miss him at all). My mom remarried and had a son with my ...
A. 23 October 2010: Woah, your momma isn't acting her age now is she? This is where you have a serious talk with your mother and tell her you need a mother not a best friend. Explain to her, she needs to set a good example for you and not sleep around with all the ... (read in full...)
I'm 22 and feel I'm getting old. When do people usually find "the one"?
Q. hi guys, I'm worried that i wont find the right guy. I'm nearly 22 and i feel like my dating life is nearly over. I would probably like to be settled down by 25 and marrying/kids about 30. Ive got a guy in my life, but he tends to invalidate an...
A. 23 October 2010: I was 2 months shy of 25 before I met my husband....We met a year ago on Halloween and married May 22. Little quick, I know..But I doubt anyone can put a timeline on love and tell me exactly how many months it takes till you get to know someone, and ... (read in full...)
My co-worker's dirty little secret is really starting to get to me!
Q. I've worked with this guy for 2 years, been friends for 18 months. We work in an office in a close environment and recently he has been telling everyone how he is going to propose to his girlfriend on their one year anniversary. Everyone keeps...
A. 22 October 2010: You feel sorry for his soon to be fiance..You're having the case of "If that happened to me, I would want someone to tell me". And I agree with you on that. Now, if you were one of many that knows about his dirty little secret then nothing is ... (read in full...)
We had sex while b/f's dad was home, does that make me a slut?
Q. My bf and I have been dating for a few months, he lives at home with his dad. We spend a lot of time at his house and his dad is really nice. The other night we were there we wnet to in his room just to hang out and we started kissing this kept ...
A. 22 October 2010: Pretty ballsy of you to have sex with your boyfriend while his dad was home. Personally, I couldn't do it because I'm afraid he would hear my moans and consistent creaking of the bed...
It's possible his references to you being a nympho were a j... (read in full...)
Husband is a big time drinker! Do I stay?
Q. My question to you is that I been with my husband for 16 years we have 3 beautiful girls together, my husband is a big time drinker and Iam not talking just about beer its hard liquor Its where my oldest daughter he hits her,and verbally abusive me ...
A. 22 October 2010: Has your husband been a drinker from day one? If so then you knew what you were getting in from the get go. Now, if he has just changed all of a sudden then I'm sure an event in his life triggered this constant drinking. Or you may be overreacting ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend doesn't have a job, has no money, hasn't taken any steps to go back to school, stays out all night, won't watch our daughter, and calls me a nag and a bore!
Q. Me and my boyfriend have been together almost 5 yrs. We have a beautiful daughter who will be 2 in December. Me and my bf havent been getting along at all. He blames me for everything. He works 15hrs a week for welfare. He takes a nap everyday. Its ...
A. 22 October 2010: And look into school yourself..online schooling for mommies.... (read in full...)
I'd like some advice on clothes to wear to a bar.
Q. I'd like some advice on clothes to wear to a bar. Do you think it would be ok to wear a small black top, black or white jeggings , knee high boots ( i have a black pair and a grey pair ) , and either a bolero jacket or a dressy coat ?. Both of those ...
A. 22 October 2010: White jeggings will show the dirt from the bar..we know they're not the most sanitary places. Personally I like the the medium to dark wash jegging or the destroyed ones. I say do the bolero jacket, jean jeggings, and the grey boots. I like to add ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend doesn't have a job, has no money, hasn't taken any steps to go back to school, stays out all night, won't watch our daughter, and calls me a nag and a bore!
Q. Me and my boyfriend have been together almost 5 yrs. We have a beautiful daughter who will be 2 in December. Me and my bf havent been getting along at all. He blames me for everything. He works 15hrs a week for welfare. He takes a nap everyday. Its ...
A. 22 October 2010: And you're still with him, why? Let's see he sleeps all day, doesn't look for a better job or any side jobs, the state supports you, he doesn't care for your daughter, is out all night with his buddies spending money you don't have, and he won't go ... (read in full...)
Should I get pregnant knowing my fiance doesn't want another child?
Q. My fiance and I have 3 boys (5,2,1 week), i just gave birth to a baby on 10/14. I desperately want to try for a girl and he doesn't want anymore children. 2 are his and 1 is from a previous relationship. He now wants to use condoms and get me on ...
A. 21 October 2010: So two are his and then you have your current baby? He has three children total to support and take care. Hopefully he has a great job or you both are employed..Plus if the mother of his children have custody of them, then I'm sure he's paying a ... (read in full...)
I told my girlfriend I cheated on her, but wasn't completely honest about what happened. What should I do?
Q. so I am 18 and in college and my girlfriend who i care about very much is 17 and still in high school. about two months ago I made a horrible mistake and cheated on her with another girl. I kissed her and got a hand job from her. I called my girl ...
A. 21 October 2010: Fantastic post pink topaz..Hopefully, you're girlfriend isn't that dumb and can put two and two together. When I was your age hand jobs, were all the rage.
If you care for and love her so much then why did you kiss and let this other girl jack you... (read in full...)
Is it really right to strike someone in this situation?
Q. I was surprised and a bit shocked by some of the responses to A recent post about a guy wanting to know if women found it attractive when a guys junk happens to show. Several of the women say that they would slap the guy in the face if his junk ...
A. 21 October 2010: Besides, an outlandish act such as flashing would most likely get a last minute response in return...We're shocked, revolted we don't think but act and defend ourselves. ... (read in full...)
Is it really right to strike someone in this situation?
Q. I was surprised and a bit shocked by some of the responses to A recent post about a guy wanting to know if women found it attractive when a guys junk happens to show. Several of the women say that they would slap the guy in the face if his junk ...
A. 21 October 2010: If a flasher, flashed his junk to me in close proximity, I would most definitely scream, or slap him. He's committing a crime. Do I expect to be hit back? Well if he's capable of exposing himself in public, he's capable of anything.So sure I'd brace ... (read in full...)
Is it normal for shorter girls to feel this way?
Q. I'm just under 5 foot, 18 years old and a bit curvier... I've never had a boyfriend despite being quite outgoing and flirty. I'm not desperate just concerned that because of my height guys just look at me as a cute little sister or a friend. Don't ...
A. 21 October 2010: Yes! My friend Shannon is 5 foot and she feels like she has to compete for guy's attention. She can't stand when guys try to pick her up or call her their little sister..In fact, she has trouble dating guys at times. She's a curvy one with slightly ... (read in full...)
What does "wandering eye" really mean?
Q. What does it mean by "wandering eye"? I've read a few posts here about women who are upset that their boyfriends/husbands are "looking" at other women. I've never read anything about a man who is jealous that his girlfriend/wife "looks" at other men ...
A. 21 October 2010: Wandering eye-meaning men who spend more time ogling with their tongue wagging at other women than focusing attention on their woman. Some of those guys happen to be ADD as well.
Women check out both men and women. We're just more nonchala... (read in full...)
My friend got a married woman pregnant and now doesn't know what to do!
Q. please help to my friend. My friend is a student with me. He had sex with the wife of his house mate and she is now pregnant. My friend is aftraid and still a teenager. He doesnt know what to do, should he tell his housemate's wife to have an ...
A. 21 October 2010: No a very bright student sleeping with his housemate's wife. Anyways, he can't make her get a divorce, her body her decision. In order to protect himself, I suggest he demand a paternity test to see if the child is actually his. If not then, no harm ... (read in full...)
I am friends with my ex boyfriend but he now has a controlling girlfriend what should I do?
Q. Past few months I have started talking to my ex again and have become good friends. However, he has a girlfriend and basically, she is not nice and has in the past been very controlling of him and has been possessive. He has mentioned to me that ...
A. 21 October 2010: Kudos to you for making a smart move, and not replying back to her petty drama. It's obvious she feels threatened by you being friends with him. Hence why she's being so nasty towards you. I don't agree with your ex bitching about his girlfriend to ... (read in full...)
I don't look innocent! Is that a bad thing?
Q. Okay so some guys think i look not innocent but i really am innocent! i havent done anything bad and they know that, but they think i just look like im not innocent. is that a bad thing?...
A. 21 October 2010: So they're saying you look naughty? Well at your age range you shouldn't be looking naughty..Like Tisha explained if it's in how you dress being covered up leaves more up to the imagination. So you don't come off as looking promiscuous sending guys ... (read in full...)
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