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What qualifies me to help you? Vast dating experience, especially in the LDR department, even an international on with an Aussie, broke hearts, had mine broken, been engaged once before, I know what a real friend is, seen the ugly side of divorce coming from a recently broken home myself, even went as far as to tip the odds to my side and use men only to toss them aside like yesterday's garbage like they do women, I know what it's like to almost give up hope on finding the perfect man when he's really only a few boyfriends away, and I'm starting to learn the ropes of married life. I also know a vast deal about the female and male reproductive system, and all about the mental struggles with infertility. On a side note, I'm the one who gives you tough love, I'm not on here to sugarcoat it or to tell you what you want to hear. I'm going to give it to you straight up, wouldn't you rather the truth?
-TOP 5 QUESTIONS I CAN'T STAND-
#1. Does this mean my teacher likes me?
Just because they're nice to you, offer extra help, and put a little gold star on your A+ paper doesn't mean they are in love with you.
#2. Could I be pregnant?
Have you not heard of a pregnancy test? Get off this website, and go to your local drugstore.
#3. I'm 14 and I want a baby?
Really? Me too! Oh wait I'm 28 and married. You're how old again?
#4. My husband loves porn more than me!
Maybe if you didn't let yourself go into the frumpy woman you have turned into then he wouldn't have to look at porn now would he? I recommend you get your rear to the salon for highlights, manicure, pedicure, tanning, toss the baggy tees and sweat pants for a wardrobe that fits, and a little makeup goes a long way. It's called basic woman maintenance in order to keep your man's eyes on you.
#5. Will we get back together, how can I get him to love me again?
Unfortunately, my crystal ball is broke at the moment and I just gave away the last of my love potion No. 9. Sorry.
MY GENERAL RULES OF THUMB (this should be common sense)
-No means no.
-Girls can ask out ask guys, this is a new generation.
-Unless you know sign language or are telepathic, you're going to have to talk to him/her.
-My "Don't ask, Don't tell" policy as is follows: Do not by any means volunteer your own sexual history, or ask your date/partner/wife/girlfriend their magic number (how many people they've slept with). If you find yourself being prompted to answer this question, politely tell them that's none of their business.
-Your past doesn't define who you are today. We grow, mature, age, and change as time passes.
-If you have to even ask random strangers on this website if you should have sex, then you're not ready for it.
-FWBs, fuck buddies, no strings attached, whatever you want to call it..is not a relationship don't get the 2 confused. In this case, sex=sex, not love.
-No trust=no relationship.
-It is normal for your husband/boyfriend to have friends of the opposite sex, do you not have male friends?
-LDRs can work, however they're not for everyone. You've got to have trust, communication, be faithful, and a lot of hobbies to keep yourself occupied. If you have trust issues, a case of being needy, clingy, problems staying faithful and are in a LDR don't be surprised when it doesn't work. I told you so.
- An ex is an ex for a reason. If you guys couldn't hack it as a couple the first 2 times what makes you think the third time is a charm?
-Going on a "break" is a nice way of breaking up.
-If you have sex with a man and he hasn't called you, or responded to your texts in weeks sorry to say but he was just after a piece of ass.
- Now unless he's getting blown up in Afghanistan, an on call ER doctor, or lying dead in a coffin then he's got no excuse for his poor or lack there of communication.
-You have a 12% chance of your married boyfriend leaving his wife and children.
-A man who is going through a divorce is still legally married. He's about to have an ex wife and you're wanting to get into a relationship with him? That's called a rebound.
-If you're a minor who's just found out she's pregnant, do me and everyone else on this site a favor..Tell your parents.
-Just because some one stares at you, it doesn't mean they like you. They could be staring at that booger hanging out of your nose.
-If you have a lump/bump/cyst/rash that looks green, has oozing puss, and itches like hell, but kinda looks like a STD then you had better consult your doctor. They went through 6 years of schooling and have a license to practice medicine, I think they would know better than random virtual strangers.
-Don't mix business with pleasure. Why? Because if you date your co-worker and in the event things turn sour then you're still stuck facing them 9-5, Mon-Fri. Awkward.
-No matter how hard you try, you can't change a person..they have to make that transformation themselves.
-When your boyfriend/girlfriend says they want space that doesn't mean you do the opposite and bombard them with calls/texts.
-As far as ultimatums go, don't try to make your boyfriend choose between you, his female friends, or weed. You won't like the results.
-If you're 13-17, I'm sorry but you haven't a clue what love really is. You have minimal dating experience confined to the high school dating pool which are nothing but horny boys. Their facial hair doesn't make them a man. It's only till you get out into the real world, a vast dating pool is when you learn the definition of love. So, go on thinking you and 13 year old Tommy will go on to get married, have 3 kids, and a two story house with a white picket fence. I don't expect you to listen, I'm 28 and married, what do I know? There's a reason why everyone says it won't last..because it doesn't.
-The average penis size erect is 6 inches, 4.85 inches. Women like average to even a little below average. We're not going to bust out a tape measure and measure it to make sure it's up to our standards. We just want to have sex, so enough complaining about your size let's get down and dirty.
- The legal age of consent in the U.S. is 16-18 varying oer state, in Britain it's 16. I think it's safe to say most parts of the world (unless you live in a tribe with their own form of government) the legal age to consent to sex is 16. So yes, all you minors below the age of consent are committing a crime when you engage in sexual activity. The age is set that high for a reason, you are not above the law. |
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Should I stop talking to her or should I still try (because I know she loves me)?
Q. Hey: My ex-girlfriend of two years broke up with me roughly two months ago because I was studying for my medical boards, working full time, and not giving her enough attention in the 5 months preceding. In addition, she got a new sales job (her f...
A. 13 November 2010: No not really, just an update of the situation would have been polite of her. If it really did happen she called you as I said for a "shoulder to cry on"..it's possible that she felt she was breaking her own rules of NC, when really she said she ... (read in full...)
Should I stop talking to her or should I still try (because I know she loves me)?
Q. Hey: My ex-girlfriend of two years broke up with me roughly two months ago because I was studying for my medical boards, working full time, and not giving her enough attention in the 5 months preceding. In addition, she got a new sales job (her f...
A. 11 November 2010: I'd take that as an emergency, you were the first person she turned to..or the only one who could have answered their phone for that matter. If she reports him for sexual harassment, that has to be investigated and treated very seriously..I doubt ... (read in full...)
Should I stop talking to her or should I still try (because I know she loves me)?
Q. Hey: My ex-girlfriend of two years broke up with me roughly two months ago because I was studying for my medical boards, working full time, and not giving her enough attention in the 5 months preceding. In addition, she got a new sales job (her f...
A. 2 November 2010: :(
Awww, the last part was so sad, I had a mental image of you two parting. Well at least this time she was actually specific, she's got a lot on her plate right now, with her job (which seems very demanding), and her feelings for you are all ... (read in full...)
Our sex life seems to be the only thing holding us together
Q. My boyfriend and i have been arguing alot lately. He doesnt seem as happy. He never wants to go out on the weekends anymore. Or sex life seems to be the only thing holding us together. how do i know thats not the only thing he wants? he still tells ...
A. 30 October 2010: Ah, the more the hold it in all bottled up the sooner it explodes on whomever is in the line of fire..You. Just let him know it's ok to talk about his feelings and what's going on with you, that's one of your girlfriend duties. It's not healthy to ... (read in full...)
His friends don't like me and want us broken up! Advice?
Q. My boyfriend and i have been together for 5 months and everything is perfect.....except his friends. His friends don't like me because they think he's different when he's with me. But my boyfriend is the one who always wants to be with me and we ...
A. 30 October 2010: I'm sorry to hear but that's really silly he let his friends dictate who he goes out with. Rather shows what a sheep he is. You need a guy who is mature, and who doesn't let his friends get in the way of your relationship..but still has easy going ... (read in full...)
Women and songs?
Q. Do women like it when you write them songs? I play guitar and record my own music, but don't sing. ...
A. 26 October 2010: Couldn't hurt to learn. Even if you sing and couldn't really carry a tune in a bucket then it's still the thought and the effort that makes our heart melt, possibly a little tear stream down our cheek.... (read in full...)
Who do I believe? My girlfriend or my boyfriend? Do I dump him?
Q. i got invited to my boyfriend best mates party but fell really ill on the dy so was unable to go. later that night a my boyfriend kept ringing me but i was asleep so did not answert the phone. when i did wake up i had several missed calls. i rang ...
A. 25 October 2010: Easy as pie, ditch them both. Your friend doesn't deserve your friendship and your boyfriend doesn't deserve you either.
Yeah boys come and go but so do your friends..
Your "friend" had the nerve to wake you up in the middle of the night to hav... (read in full...)
Did I send the wrong message? Text message, that is!
Q. I have a good guy friend I've recently reconnected with. We found each other online and after months of getting to know each other I felt we were going somewhere. We recently started talking and texting. I NEVER end texts with ttl, or bye or ...
A. 25 October 2010: The last text was sent by him, your turn. ... (read in full...)
Should I stop talking to her or should I still try (because I know she loves me)?
Q. Hey: My ex-girlfriend of two years broke up with me roughly two months ago because I was studying for my medical boards, working full time, and not giving her enough attention in the 5 months preceding. In addition, she got a new sales job (her f...
A. 25 October 2010: If she wants to take things slow day by day, then sex doesn't need to be thrown into the mix. That only messes up your feelings even more when you're trying to straighten them out. Bad move. That doesn't make any sense for her to say that. You're ... (read in full...)
Signs of cheating
Q. How do you know if your boyfriend is cheating?...
A. 25 October 2010: -When you are cleaning his car and find a cheap tube of lipstick that isn't yours because you only wear lip gloss.
- When you're using his iphone to look up the weather, and a texts pops up from a guy named Chad saying "So next time I'll wear tha... (read in full...)
I think marrying my husband was a bad idea
Q. I want to seek advice. I just got married for about 5 months now, but our baby is now 2 years old. Personally, I married my husband because I want my son to have a family when he grows up. To be legit in the eyes of everyone. Also because of family ...
A. 25 October 2010: You said it yourself you didn't marry your husband because you loved him, you did it so your son would have both parents growing up. That isn't working out is it? You're not going to find happiness and love you seek in him, start to file that ... (read in full...)
Women and songs?
Q. Do women like it when you write them songs? I play guitar and record my own music, but don't sing. ...
A. 25 October 2010: Well if you wrote the song for her who's going to sing it? I'll say women like to be serenaded..it's a grand gesture and extremely thoughtful but I'd want the whole 10 yards. You'd definitely have to sing to me..... (read in full...)
I'm afraid playing guitar hero at his house will lead to sex
Q. So I am dating this guy and I want to take it slow with him but we are both very hot for each other, but I still want to take it slow and not have sex, we've been dating for only a week. He invited me to his house to play guitar hero, but I'm afraid ...
A. 25 October 2010: I didn't know Guitar Hero was such a turn on, maybe I should buy one.
If you already know that you can't keep a lid on your raging hormones then don't go over to his house. Or bring a friend, and leave with that friend..Little secret, after on... (read in full...)
Our sex life seems to be the only thing holding us together
Q. My boyfriend and i have been arguing alot lately. He doesnt seem as happy. He never wants to go out on the weekends anymore. Or sex life seems to be the only thing holding us together. how do i know thats not the only thing he wants? he still tells ...
A. 25 October 2010: If sex is the only glue holding your relationship together, then I'm sorry to say consider it over. You need trust, communication, love..Have you tried talking to him to see what's eating at him? ... (read in full...)
Does fighting make a relationship stronger?
Q. I have a problem. My gf and I have been fighting quite a lot recently, and we always say were sorry, but the fights get worse and warse, is it true that fighting makes relationships stronger? Because she is giving hints that she wants to give up on ...
A. 25 October 2010: No! You are misinformed, in fact it does the opposite putting a rift in your relationship. If your girlfriend has been hinting to you to break up with her, then break up with her since she can't seem to do it herself.... (read in full...)
In love and now we're "kissing cousins"
Q. I'm 21 years old and i'm in love with my 15 year old cousin. I have told her how I feel about her and she told me she feels the same way. I was shocked when she told me she's in love with me too. We are now kissing cousins. I know my feelings for ...
A. 25 October 2010: You're old enough to know that not only is incest illegal but so is having sex with a minor..Of all the females in the U.S. you want to be with your cousin? 21 with 4 kids..oh 5 if you count your cousin because she is still a child. Let's see 3 kids ... (read in full...)
She said her feelings for me are "in the grey zone"
Q. Hi, During the summer I met this woman through a mutual friend. I quickly became friends with her and over time ~3 months I started to develop stronger feelings for her. She's smart, original clear headed, has strong values and is beautifu...
A. 25 October 2010: grey zone is purgatory..caught in the limbo and not sure what to think.... (read in full...)
15 and pregnant...parents don't know..
Q. I am 15 and 2 months pregnant.. i have told my boyfriend of 9 months this and he is happy but scared like me. but i have a big problem. my parents do not know and his don't either. and this baby doesn't belong to my boyfriend. i started seeing ...
A. 25 October 2010: And like we said now's the time to grow up which looks like you got quite a way's to go...and tell your parents you're pregnant and dump your boyfriend.... (read in full...)
His friends don't like me and want us broken up! Advice?
Q. My boyfriend and i have been together for 5 months and everything is perfect.....except his friends. His friends don't like me because they think he's different when he's with me. But my boyfriend is the one who always wants to be with me and we ...
A. 25 October 2010: well split hallway time in half..you gotta show these guys you're not here to take away their friend..to where he starts to lose his friends. That's understandable. It happens in some couples..In fact, let these guys know you're not here to take ... (read in full...)
15 and pregnant...parents don't know..
Q. I am 15 and 2 months pregnant.. i have told my boyfriend of 9 months this and he is happy but scared like me. but i have a big problem. my parents do not know and his don't either. and this baby doesn't belong to my boyfriend. i started seeing ...
A. 25 October 2010: soon567 pointed out a valid point that I missed. It's possible that either boy could be the father of the baby, if you were having sexual intercourse with both. So before you go dismissing your current boyfriend..I would have who you think is the ... (read in full...)
His friends don't like me and want us broken up! Advice?
Q. My boyfriend and i have been together for 5 months and everything is perfect.....except his friends. His friends don't like me because they think he's different when he's with me. But my boyfriend is the one who always wants to be with me and we ...
A. 25 October 2010: It's normal for his buddies to feel threatened by you. They think they're not going to see enough of him because you're in the picture. Compromise baby..
As jmc930 stated, it's up to him to talk to his friends. He needs to let them know that jus... (read in full...)
I took his money as a joke and he called me a thief and dumped me!
Q. My problem is this: My bf and I were fighting lately and that night we were also arguing for silly stuffs. I regret for all my actions while I was drunk and I did things that I shouldnt do for example, that night, my bf and his brothers were pla...
A. 25 October 2010: jmc930 has said it all..I'm going to add even though you were drunk you still knew what you were doing, taking that money out of spite. So don't blame it on the alcohol..because even in your drunken state you still had enough sense to call and try ... (read in full...)
He did something that disgusted me! Should I call this all off?
Q. I've been seeing this guy for about seven months. He doesn't want to call it a 'relationship', saying he likes 'the way we are'. So I'm already a little put off... The other night though, we'd been having a lot of fun in bed (we have GREAT sex), af...
A. 25 October 2010: If a guy purposely cummed in my face after I said no, I'd be pissed.. To me that's degrading. Not the least bit hilarious..Now I can see where it would be accident if you said no and he couldn't control the geyser but still could have aimed ... (read in full...)
My parents won't like it, but should I keep dating him or not?
Q. ok, my parents dont allow me to date but i just got my very first boyfriend and im so excited bout it. when he asked me out i never thought bout it i just said yes cuz i liked him a lot and he liked me too. when i got home for the weekend i realize ...
A. 25 October 2010: Hello young me..I did the exact same thing, wasn't allowed to date till I was 16. Snuck around with my boyfriends, lied said I was going to a friends house. Well eventually my mom suspected me, and she caught me red handed in the arms of my ... (read in full...)
He is pressuring me to have sex with him...help!
Q. Hi everyone i need help bad! I'm 13 almost 14 and i'm dating a almost 17 year old. I really like him but he keeps pressuring me about sex. We already kiss, and I've given oral, but im not comfertable when i do it. He says i dont love him if i dont ...
A. 25 October 2010: Get out of that relationship now, he's resorted to abuse if you don't give him what he wants. Tell your parents, or an adult if you can't get out.
You are under the legal age of consent, he however is 16-18 depending on the state of legal age of c... (read in full...)
He only texted me 4 times...Did I do something wrong?
Q. So I MIGHT like this guy that goes to my schoool. He said he doesn't like hoes and I know I am not one of those. But today he only texted me like four times and im not gonna lie. it bothered me a little, But made me wanna have him that much more, ...
A. 25 October 2010: Guys are snails when it comes to sending texts, they wait it seems like hours to reply to your text..Don't send anymore than 3 at a time..you don't want to come across as clingy.
It's possible he was busy that day, absorbed in watching a movie an... (read in full...)
How do I get my Mom to trust me again?
Q. Well Me and My Boyfriend Have been together for 11months.. And are very open with each other. Yesterday my mom was out partying with a friend and i had the house to myself. I asked my boyfriend to come over and hang out. i had noooo intention of ...
A. 25 October 2010: I bet you're sorry you got caught..Well, your mom lost trust in you when you invited your boyfriend over when she wasn't home. At least you told her the truth, good thing you didn't lie otherwise she would be even more mad..I don't agree with her ... (read in full...)
Why did my 'f-ck buddy' suddenly turn off?
Q. i have a fuck buddy and i told him i thought as him as a friend and that i didnt know if i needed that cause friendship leads to relationship. then i relized he is not going to be here but couple more weeks and he will be out of the state and with ...
A. 25 October 2010: ANON, if he got attached to her then he would leave his wife now wouldn't he? Let alone pick up and move to another state. ... (read in full...)
Mum thinks I'm having sex, I'm not, but I do give him handjobs.
Q. okay, im in a comitted relationship with this amazing guy, i adore him, and he adores me, we've been dating for 3 months on the 26th of october :) But i have a few questions, not exactly problems, 1. My mom thinks me and my boyfriend are in a ve...
A. 25 October 2010: And my advice stays the same which correlates with everyone else's. since this is your second time posting this question.... (read in full...)
How will I overcome my trust issue of my boyfriend finally saying he's going to marry me?
Q. I've been with my BF for just over a year now. A long time ago we had the marriage talk and he said that he wasn't sure if that's what he wanted. I told him that I want marriage one day. Lately he's been talking of us living together and being ...
A. 25 October 2010: Cool your jets..If he didn't plan on marrying you then why would he waste the time asking you to move in with him? You had the first marriage talk a long time ago and that was too early in the relationship to talk about commitment..But I understand ... (read in full...)
I want my wife to move out...What else can happen?
Q. Dear people I have asked for your help before and I found your advice (Very very helpful ) so please try and help me again. Three years ago my wife had an affair with a married man. This affair has destroyed our family and because I could not ...
A. 25 October 2010: It's so scary how your story sounds just like my father's..minus the fact they're divorced, he gave her the house, but moved down around the corner, and my brother and I are grown.
You're punishing her..She shamed you and this family, you want... (read in full...)
I like a 40 y/o man and I am 17...what are the chances?
Q. I met a man in a chat room on July of this year. We didn't talk much in pm but when we did, I was mostly seeking his advice on something. I always showed a certain interest in the cat room because I liked his personality. Not once had I seen his ...
A. 25 October 2010: So you have seen him on webcam, and know he is who he says he is? You do sound very mature for 18 and are taking a precautious approach in this situation. The only thing I question in your post, is why hasn't he shared his personal life with if he ... (read in full...)
15 and pregnant...parents don't know..
Q. I am 15 and 2 months pregnant.. i have told my boyfriend of 9 months this and he is happy but scared like me. but i have a big problem. my parents do not know and his don't either. and this baby doesn't belong to my boyfriend. i started seeing ...
A. 25 October 2010: Going to have to tell them soon, otherwise the gig is up when you start to show. You have to tell your boyfriend, right away because it's very wrong of you to lead him on believing it's his child.
Tell him your sorry but the baby isn't his, and ... (read in full...)
My bf cheated on me..Should I stay?
Q. I Have Been With My Boyfriend For Almost 11 Months And He Just Recently Told Me He Made Out With Someone When We Were About 3 Or 4 Months Into Our Relationship I Really Love Him And I Feel Really Betrayed Should I Just Move On Or Break Up With Him? ...
A. 25 October 2010: At least he told you, but was it to clear his conscience or because it's the right thing to do? If you can't get over it, and let him regain that trust, then the relationship is over. A relationship has to have trust in order to survive. Didn't know ... (read in full...)
How to deal with my co-worker who is also my baby daddy?
Q. About two years ago I met a man at work. He was charming, sweet, made me laugh, and above all seemed to respect me. We went out on several dates during our first year together, we drank, laughed and just had a great time. Then the unthinkable ...
A. 25 October 2010: This is why I always advise people not to get involved with co-workers. Because if it goes sour, then you can't escape them. Now unless he wants a relationship with the baby which you have to allow since he is the father, I would fight to make sure ... (read in full...)
My mom is lying about her new man staying at our house!
Q. Ok basically my mam cheated on my dad and my dad moved out and now my mam is trying to let the guy she cheated with into the house behind my back! She is such a liar and what should I do in this situation? ...
A. 25 October 2010: Well if you're 36-40 why are you still living at home? I don't think that's your actual age so, my advice is not to get in the middle of this and move in with your dad if you don't want your mom bringing home her new boyfriend. She's not setting a ... (read in full...)
He is checking up on me online, that must mean he misses me ... right?
Q. My lover decided to end our relationship because we were having arguments etc,although we still love each other.I did email him to apologise for the rows and that i would leave him alone...that was a week ago.Anyway he hasn't contacted me but he has ...
A. 25 October 2010: Means he's thinking of you..and keeping tabs on you. I would say it's possible he misses you but i wouldn't make the conclusion he wants you back. Why don't you make a move and talk to him?... (read in full...)
Why did she text this, what does it mean?
Q. So I'm texting a girl that's a friend and I told her I was heading to 24hr fitness to go and work out but I wrote "to go and work out till I fall, not actually till I fall" and then she texted me a one word text saying oil in all caps Why did s...
A. 25 October 2010: ah yes I forgot about that! LOL is what she meant! ... (read in full...)
My ex is being very friendly, what does he want?
Q. okay, im in a comitted relationship with this amazing guy, i adore him, and he adores me, we've been dating for 3 months on the 26th of october :) But i have a few questions, not exactly problems, 1. My mom thinks me and my boyfriend are in a ve...
A. 25 October 2010: 1. Well a hand job is a sexual favor, so technically your relationship is slightly sexual..
Your mother is trying to be a mother and educate you about sex..and wanting you to be safe, and what the legal age of consent is. Just let her know you unde... (read in full...)
Why did she text this, what does it mean?
Q. So I'm texting a girl that's a friend and I told her I was heading to 24hr fitness to go and work out but I wrote "to go and work out till I fall, not actually till I fall" and then she texted me a one word text saying oil in all caps Why did s...
A. 25 October 2010: To stretch, warm up before you work out? There's no hidden subliminal message if that's what your asking. ... (read in full...)
Everything was going great ... then she got jealous.
Q. There's this girl that I know I love. (We'll refer to her as Girl A) I have no doubts about it, I'm absolutely certain of it. We've been best mates for a few years now, and I was recently trying to find the courage to tell her how I felt. We were at ...
A. 25 October 2010: I don't think it was sheer rejection, it was more or less jealousy getting the best of her..which that's absolutely silly to get jealous over. Just give it a week and then talk to her about what happened. Apologize for snapping on her, you just felt ... (read in full...)
Why did my 'f-ck buddy' suddenly turn off?
Q. i have a fuck buddy and i told him i thought as him as a friend and that i didnt know if i needed that cause friendship leads to relationship. then i relized he is not going to be here but couple more weeks and he will be out of the state and with ...
A. 25 October 2010: Nothing, this affair is over. Carlos and him are moving on..and not just to another state. Friendship can turn into a relationship..But a FWB cannot turn into a relationship. That is what you had. I suggest you move on and find a single man next ... (read in full...)
How to handle your breakup-for the Dumper against an Angry Dumpee
Q. Dear Readers, We all have been in these spots, where we have to use the lines, "I think we should break up" or "It's not me, it's you" am I right? If we haven't used them we have surely had them said to us at one point in our lives. How do you hand...
A. 25 October 2010: You forgot the classic "We need to talk."
"We can be friends" statement change it to "I'd like to be friends one day but now isn't the time."
Other than that I like it!... (read in full...)
Confused! He threw me away but now wants me back!
Q. Ok, I guess if I’m posting then I’m finally desperate enough that I need a answer, Here is the deal guys. Boy #, I have been with him for 3 years, and almost a year ago he broke up with me, we lived together and was very serious, then all sudden h...
A. 25 October 2010: Now if a valid sourced told you this..then let him go from being a part of your life. However, if the source heard amongst others then go with my other advice.... (read in full...)
I'm scared to death of his penis!
Q. i've been with my boyfriend for a little while now, and everything seems so perfect, he's rubbed me a bit down there, and so have i, but i could never rub him bare! i am scared of his penis for some reason and its so hard, he asked if i wanted to ...
A. 25 October 2010: Peek-a-boo! Pretty good scare before Halloween.
Now for me (not all women, girls), I don't like the sight of a penis. To me genitalia is rather odd looking. But hey, it's what God chose.
In my opinion, 13-15 is way too young to engage in sex... (read in full...)
Is it wrong I don't want him to go on a sleepover with other girls
Q. he has been asked to go on a sleep over with this boy matt, who is 2 years older than him, and his girl mate who is the same age. I don't really want him to go, but I cant explain why, its not because I don't trust him because I do. but he thinks ...
A. 24 October 2010: He lied to you again..yeah that's grounds for a break up. Your call. ... (read in full...)
Since I told him I have herpes he won't contact me...
Q. Hi everyone i went to the gum clinc and found i had herpes i got treated and told my partner of 3 and half years to get treated at clinc. When i told him i had it he looked at me like he hated me and was disgusted, i walked out crying and he hasnt ...
A. 24 October 2010: Now, the question is how did he get it? Because he's making you look like you're the one cheating. I suggest you ask him.... (read in full...)
Since I told him I have herpes he won't contact me...
Q. Hi everyone i went to the gum clinc and found i had herpes i got treated and told my partner of 3 and half years to get treated at clinc. When i told him i had it he looked at me like he hated me and was disgusted, i walked out crying and he hasnt ...
A. 24 October 2010: I'm going to assume it's genital herpes because he hasn't contacted you and you're that upset over it. Genital herpes, you know there is not a cure and can be contracted from someone who has oral herpes through oral sex. But it's mostly through one ... (read in full...)
Is it wrong I don't want him to go on a sleepover with other girls
Q. he has been asked to go on a sleep over with this boy matt, who is 2 years older than him, and his girl mate who is the same age. I don't really want him to go, but I cant explain why, its not because I don't trust him because I do. but he thinks ...
A. 24 October 2010: What? When the hell did sleepovers become coed? Now, I'm 25..and when I was your age sleepovers meant strictly with your girl friends. I wasn't even sure if boys did sleepovers at that age, might have had a buddy or two sleep over but that was it. ... (read in full...)
Confused! He threw me away but now wants me back!
Q. Ok, I guess if I’m posting then I’m finally desperate enough that I need a answer, Here is the deal guys. Boy #, I have been with him for 3 years, and almost a year ago he broke up with me, we lived together and was very serious, then all sudden h...
A. 24 October 2010: He just up and said he no longer loved you, get out? It's possible he freaked because things were getting serious especially if it went fast, and he just wasn't ready for it. I can see he gave you no closure, guys rarely give us that common ... (read in full...)
Should I stop talking to her or should I still try (because I know she loves me)?
Q. Hey: My ex-girlfriend of two years broke up with me roughly two months ago because I was studying for my medical boards, working full time, and not giving her enough attention in the 5 months preceding. In addition, she got a new sales job (her f...
A. 21 October 2010: Yes, I'm wondering why she broke up with you in the first place? It could be she wasn't getting enough attention but that's a given being in a relationship with a med student. Then it's possible she felt like you would never have enough time for ... (read in full...)
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