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What qualifies me to help you? Vast dating experience, especially in the LDR department, even an international on with an Aussie, broke hearts, had mine broken, been engaged once before, I know what a real friend is, seen the ugly side of divorce coming from a recently broken home myself, even went as far as to tip the odds to my side and use men only to toss them aside like yesterday's garbage like they do women, I know what it's like to almost give up hope on finding the perfect man when he's really only a few boyfriends away, and I'm starting to learn the ropes of married life. I also know a vast deal about the female and male reproductive system, and all about the mental struggles with infertility. On a side note, I'm the one who gives you tough love, I'm not on here to sugarcoat it or to tell you what you want to hear. I'm going to give it to you straight up, wouldn't you rather the truth?
-TOP 5 QUESTIONS I CAN'T STAND-
#1. Does this mean my teacher likes me?
Just because they're nice to you, offer extra help, and put a little gold star on your A+ paper doesn't mean they are in love with you.
#2. Could I be pregnant?
Have you not heard of a pregnancy test? Get off this website, and go to your local drugstore.
#3. I'm 14 and I want a baby?
Really? Me too! Oh wait I'm 28 and married. You're how old again?
#4. My husband loves porn more than me!
Maybe if you didn't let yourself go into the frumpy woman you have turned into then he wouldn't have to look at porn now would he? I recommend you get your rear to the salon for highlights, manicure, pedicure, tanning, toss the baggy tees and sweat pants for a wardrobe that fits, and a little makeup goes a long way. It's called basic woman maintenance in order to keep your man's eyes on you.
#5. Will we get back together, how can I get him to love me again?
Unfortunately, my crystal ball is broke at the moment and I just gave away the last of my love potion No. 9. Sorry.
MY GENERAL RULES OF THUMB (this should be common sense)
-No means no.
-Girls can ask out ask guys, this is a new generation.
-Unless you know sign language or are telepathic, you're going to have to talk to him/her.
-My "Don't ask, Don't tell" policy as is follows: Do not by any means volunteer your own sexual history, or ask your date/partner/wife/girlfriend their magic number (how many people they've slept with). If you find yourself being prompted to answer this question, politely tell them that's none of their business.
-Your past doesn't define who you are today. We grow, mature, age, and change as time passes.
-If you have to even ask random strangers on this website if you should have sex, then you're not ready for it.
-FWBs, fuck buddies, no strings attached, whatever you want to call it..is not a relationship don't get the 2 confused. In this case, sex=sex, not love.
-No trust=no relationship.
-It is normal for your husband/boyfriend to have friends of the opposite sex, do you not have male friends?
-LDRs can work, however they're not for everyone. You've got to have trust, communication, be faithful, and a lot of hobbies to keep yourself occupied. If you have trust issues, a case of being needy, clingy, problems staying faithful and are in a LDR don't be surprised when it doesn't work. I told you so.
- An ex is an ex for a reason. If you guys couldn't hack it as a couple the first 2 times what makes you think the third time is a charm?
-Going on a "break" is a nice way of breaking up.
-If you have sex with a man and he hasn't called you, or responded to your texts in weeks sorry to say but he was just after a piece of ass.
- Now unless he's getting blown up in Afghanistan, an on call ER doctor, or lying dead in a coffin then he's got no excuse for his poor or lack there of communication.
-You have a 12% chance of your married boyfriend leaving his wife and children.
-A man who is going through a divorce is still legally married. He's about to have an ex wife and you're wanting to get into a relationship with him? That's called a rebound.
-If you're a minor who's just found out she's pregnant, do me and everyone else on this site a favor..Tell your parents.
-Just because some one stares at you, it doesn't mean they like you. They could be staring at that booger hanging out of your nose.
-If you have a lump/bump/cyst/rash that looks green, has oozing puss, and itches like hell, but kinda looks like a STD then you had better consult your doctor. They went through 6 years of schooling and have a license to practice medicine, I think they would know better than random virtual strangers.
-Don't mix business with pleasure. Why? Because if you date your co-worker and in the event things turn sour then you're still stuck facing them 9-5, Mon-Fri. Awkward.
-No matter how hard you try, you can't change a person..they have to make that transformation themselves.
-When your boyfriend/girlfriend says they want space that doesn't mean you do the opposite and bombard them with calls/texts.
-As far as ultimatums go, don't try to make your boyfriend choose between you, his female friends, or weed. You won't like the results.
-If you're 13-17, I'm sorry but you haven't a clue what love really is. You have minimal dating experience confined to the high school dating pool which are nothing but horny boys. Their facial hair doesn't make them a man. It's only till you get out into the real world, a vast dating pool is when you learn the definition of love. So, go on thinking you and 13 year old Tommy will go on to get married, have 3 kids, and a two story house with a white picket fence. I don't expect you to listen, I'm 28 and married, what do I know? There's a reason why everyone says it won't last..because it doesn't.
-The average penis size erect is 6 inches, 4.85 inches. Women like average to even a little below average. We're not going to bust out a tape measure and measure it to make sure it's up to our standards. We just want to have sex, so enough complaining about your size let's get down and dirty.
- The legal age of consent in the U.S. is 16-18 varying oer state, in Britain it's 16. I think it's safe to say most parts of the world (unless you live in a tribe with their own form of government) the legal age to consent to sex is 16. So yes, all you minors below the age of consent are committing a crime when you engage in sexual activity. The age is set that high for a reason, you are not above the law. |
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Am I crazy for not wanting my girlfriend to have guy friends
Q. Am i crazy for not wanting my girlfriend to have guy friends. she told me before that she doesnt want guy friends but she recently decided that she wants to start haging out with guys. she thinks i dont trust her but i do. We've been together 5 ...
A. 6 November 2010: Why not? I trust my husband. It's all about trust and keeping it in your pants. ... (read in full...)
Am I crazy for not wanting my girlfriend to have guy friends
Q. Am i crazy for not wanting my girlfriend to have guy friends. she told me before that she doesnt want guy friends but she recently decided that she wants to start haging out with guys. she thinks i dont trust her but i do. We've been together 5 ...
A. 6 November 2010: For B.Shakey, it doesn't mean men have to act upon this desire..It's possible for a man and a woman to have a platonic relationship, it's about keeping your hormones in check. ... (read in full...)
Leave baggage secret?
Q. When I was younger, I didn't take dating so seriously so my subject was never a problem back then. Now that I'm a little older, I've been more interested in finding the right woman to settle down with. I've had a few different relationsh...
A. 6 November 2010: Maybe once you get to know a woman better on a personal level. Not right off the bat.."Hi, I'm so and so and my sister gave me my first hand job." Now, if you think it will interfere with your sex life, then I would share your story before hand. ... (read in full...)
She doesn't know but I overheard my g/f crying about her ex boyfriend
Q. I've been dating a really awesome girl for about 6 months. It's all really good and I like her a lot. The thing is, the other day, I went over to her house, and I guess she forgot that I was coming over and I overheard her with her best friend. She ...
A. 6 November 2010: Ouch that has got to be a letdown. I'm sorry you had to hear that..but then again it's for the better. Truthfully, I'd break it off with this girl because she's not ready to be in a relationship with you if she's shedding tears for her ex. Not to ... (read in full...)
Did he just want to sleep with me?
Q. I've been dating this guy for about a month and last weekend, we got together. Eveything seemed be going all fine. but since last friday I havent heard from him. I texted him and he txted me like a day later and then when I texted him back...I ...
A. 6 November 2010: A guy has a maximum of 3 days to go without contact..it could be he's too lazy to text, busy in general, or a death has occurred in his family. After 3 days and you still got no text or phone call then I'd call it quits. He took the coward way of ... (read in full...)
Should I phone her and explain myself?
Q. PLEASE REPLY SOON! Well I went to a party back in May, and started to talk to this girl that I had briefly met before, and we sort of acted as if we were going out(SHE kissed ME etc), but neither of us asked eachother out, and I left the party and ...
A. 6 November 2010: Relax, call her..there's no need to explain yourself. Just act like nothing happened. Ask her out for this weekend while you're at it.... (read in full...)
Confusing signals - does she like me?
Q. This girl at my school kissed me,slapped, and told me she loved me all in one day. Does she like me or not?...
A. 6 November 2010: All at once? Did you say something awful for her to slap you? Now, unless it's a joke or she was dared to, then I'd say she may like you. Why don't you ask her yourself what's up? ... (read in full...)
Sex during a women's period?
Q. i have a question, for both male and females, the question for female is when you on your period would u want to please your boyfriend if he wanted sex and for males will you pressure your girlfriend to please you when she on her period ...
A. 6 November 2010: Depends on how badly I'm PMSing that day..
First 2 days of my period are the worst, and I can't be bothered by anybody. The third day, if I was horny then I would please my husband if he asked for it. Now when I'm off my period then game on.
T... (read in full...)
How do I get to be drop dead sexy?
Q. How does a guy create the underlying feeling that he is sexy/attractive to women? By underlying, I mean the type of feeling that comes before thought. The type of feeling you have automatically whenever you perceive something, but haven't made a ...
A. 6 November 2010: There's nothing sexier than a well dressed man. Sometimes men struggle and wear black shoes with a brown belt, tennis shoes with jeans and a button up. I mean I don't expect them to look like one of those guys from Queer Eye dressed them, but at ... (read in full...)
11 years older married man wants to have sex, is he just going to use me?
Q. Ok, I'm in a relationship but I have a frienship with an older man 11 yrs my senior anyhow he's married. It all started out as a friendship that developed into a much more intimate one, but the thing is he says he wants to bring it to the next ...
A. 6 November 2010: He is married, his sex life should be with his wife. You start having sex with him that's called an affair and you would be considered a home wrecker. Not to mention you would be cheating on your boyfriend. Keep your relationship and tell this ... (read in full...)
All 3 pregnancy tests came back positive, how do I tell my best friend he's the father
Q. Me and my best friend are both 14, and basically a couple of weeks ago we kind of just gave into each other. We have kinda liked each other for years just never done anything about it. He took my virginity and I took his, but the condom broke. I ...
A. 5 November 2010: Well you need to tell your parents too. Why don't you tell him at his study tomorrow, tell him you need to talk about something pull him aside and spill the beans. Or quietly, show him the pregnancy test, if it's not a digital one. Next tell your ... (read in full...)
My friend lied about how far she went with her boyfriend, should I talk to her about it?
Q. Hi. I found out recently that my friend lied about how far she'd been with her ex-boyfriend. We were at a sleepover and she told all of us that he'd fingered her and she'd given him a blow job. Im friends with her ex-boyfriend and i had a feeling ...
A. 5 November 2010: Well it's understandable to be upset at the fact she lied to you. Friends are supposed to tell each other everything good or bad. It sounds like she lied to make herself seem older, and more sexually advanced. Which is rather silly, because she ... (read in full...)
He already has a girlfriend - what is your opinion of me if I stay in this relationship?
Q. He says I'm all these great things, but I feel like I'm not good enough. Its definitely not a self esteem issue, its because he has a girlfriend, but he's having his cake and eating it too. And I'm allowing it. I think I've fallen in love with thi...
A. 5 November 2010: Let's revise this Pros/Cons list...We'll start with the easiest Cons..
-Cons-
1. He has a girlfriend.
2. He's a cheater.
3. He has no respect for women.
4. He knows exactly what to say to get you to say.
4. If he loved you, he would dump his... (read in full...)
I'm in love with both of them, why cant we just have a 3-way relationship!
Q. I am new to this site so please don't laugh at what I am about to say. Almost 8yrs ago I met and got involved with a woman who is 10yrs older than me. Everything was going well until like the fool I am I cheated on her with a woman 8yrs older than ...
A. 5 November 2010: You seem to struggle with maintaining a monogamous relationship..so what makes you think you can share yourself equally 3 ways?
Now unless these women are all Mormons, then they're not going to agree to a polygamous relationship with you. Pic... (read in full...)
I love a woman 11 years older than me
Q. Hello. I am 18 years old. For several months, I had a Japanese woman stay at my house when she visited the united states. She is 11 years older than I am. She is very sweet and cute. We enjoy long talks and find that we have many things in ...
A. 5 November 2010: LDRs are hard enough but an international one? Those are the worst. She doesn't live another state in the US, but in a different hemisphere. More or less you guys are pen pals right now, it's great that you're saving up for a trip to Japan..If ... (read in full...)
Its the drugs or me!
Q. I'm 20 years old. I've been with my boyfriend for 1 year and few months. I feel like my boyfriend is choosing drugs over me. I've asked him to stop but every single morning he wakes up and smokes it. He isn't at work atm either so he's just at home ...
A. 5 November 2010: I was in this situation once at 19, I lived with my boyfriend, he lost his job then started smoking pot every day, also wanted to try for a baby..Kept begging him to stop, threatening to leave, didn't work. Pot or me? Obviously he loved pot more ... (read in full...)
I really like this guy but feel totally out of my depth with his drug & debt problem, what should I do?
Q. Hi I just dont know what to do. Iv been seeing this guy for a few weeks and we decided to become a couple two weeks ago. His a really nice guy with a great sense of humor, a good job and generally treats me like a princess. He told me he h...
A. 5 November 2010: The ongoing drug problem is a big red flag, instead of a relationship the man needs rehab. He says he needs to stop but what is he doing to stop? Nothing..being in a relationship with this guy you're going to take on all of his problems. I know we ... (read in full...)
He wont tell his ex I exist but its ok for her to be spending my money....
Q. Im in a relationship of 3 years. My b/f is great in many ways but there is this one big problem. He wont tell his ex that I exist and I dont know what to do anymore. He has two children by this woman, money is very tight at the moment and I know ...
A. 5 November 2010: Why does he have to tell his ex you exist?? I have to agree his dating life is private to his ex, the only thing they should be discussing is the children. Are you afraid he's still with her?
So let me get this straight, you are the only source o... (read in full...)
If we don't work out I'm not sure if I want to be part of our child's life because of how much hurt she has caused me....
Q. Ok here goes!!!!!!!! My fiance and I are expecting a child in June 2011 (its her first). We are now separated and she does not know what she wants with us. She has said she wants space for 2 weeks and we are not over but there's things she can not ...
A. 5 November 2010: Truthfully, how much hurt she has caused you shouldn't affect your relationship with your child. You and her created something so wonderful, you're blessed with a baby...Because of her actions, why should the baby have to suffer? Where's your ... (read in full...)
Why do people have sex outside of marriage?
Q. Hi, I'm15, and I'm so sick of hearing about people my age losing their virginity!!! I mean, what happened to losing it on your wedding night?? I just want to know why people have decided that it's soooo important to have sex in a relationship? I ...
A. 5 November 2010: Wow DanceintheDark, you're very mature at 15.... (read in full...)
I don't want to choose sides and I don't want to lose anyone as a friend.How do I handle this?
Q. So I have a pretty tight group of friends its about eight of us and one of my friends has had this crush on one of our other friends for a while but he doesnt have feelings for her in that way and thinks of her as just a friend. So just this week he ...
A. 5 November 2010: You don't have to choose sides. Tell them both you are neutral, that if they have a problem with each other they should be discussing amongst themselves like adults and not bitching to you about one another. Just simply say you're staying out of it, ... (read in full...)
How do I know that she isn't just using me to get what she wants and then just cut me out once she's done?
Q. I met this girl in my biology class last year and we really seemed to get along. The only thing is that she always asked if she could copy my hw and, being the nice person that i am, i let her. and now a yr later she's in my chem class and she's ...
A. 5 November 2010: Let me put it this way..she's one of those girls who like to skate by in class. Attend class because she's required to, not very bright, but needs a decent grade to pass. So why not befriend the smart kid in class, bat your eyelashes and ask to copy ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend of five years kissed another girl. What do I do now?
Q. Hi, yesterday I learned that my boyfriend of five years kissed another girl. He was at this baseball party(he plays) and the softball team was there and one girl was drunk and kissed him. But the next night it happened again. When he told me I fli...
A. 5 November 2010: So this drunk girl kissed him, did he kiss her back or dodge her kiss, tell her it was wrong? Then it happens again, the next night? I'm going to say he did nothing to stop it and embraced it if it happened again.
Good part is that he told you... (read in full...)
I'm a sophomore in college, and I've been having some trouble with my roommate this year
Q. I'm a sophomore in college, and I've been having some trouble with my roommate this year in terms of having guys stay over. Unfortunately, this has also begun to cross some moral boundaries as well. Upon several occasions this semester, I have...
A. 5 November 2010: This why I never lived in the dorms..because you get stuck with roommates like that. I find it better living with roommates I can hand pick.
Anyways, I'm assuming this dorm is coed..however, is there like a head person you can tell about this gir... (read in full...)
When it's just us, he's friendly, does he like me?
Q. This guy I've liked for a while has been showing signs of liking me back. The other night, for a class field trip, we went downtown to a play. We ended up staying together the entire time, which is atypical. It seems like we always kind of split ...
A. 5 November 2010: By his hair rubbing he could be one of those odd kids, that have the need to touch people while they're talking to them..like playing with your ear. Or he could be flirting with you, which is a very awkward way to flirt.
Why don't you cut to t... (read in full...)
I trust her 100% and she trusts me 10%
Q. I like this girl but I can’t seem to get to really know her. I have been with this girl for 5 months and getting any kind of personal information is like the most impossible thing I have ever done in my whole life. I just feel like I’ve told her ...
A. 5 November 2010: It doesn't have anything to do with trust..it's either about shyness or being too reserved, or having trouble opening up to people. Or she might not be that comfortable around yet, perhaps she wants to keep a little mystery. Do you ask her open ... (read in full...)
I think her behavior was very disrespectful and self-centered
Q. Yesterday, I got home from work and drove to go eat dinner with her. During the dinner, she said she had cravings for ice cream afterward. I told her we can go to our usual place and get some. We walked to the car after finishing dinner, and she ...
A. 5 November 2010: She threw a tantrum over yogurt? Reminds me of that snotty girl, Veruca on Willy Wonka and the Chocolate Factory.."But Daddy, I want it nowww!"
Anyway, you already explained to her the logics..since we're at the ice cream spot let's get the ice ... (read in full...)
I made the mistake of hooking up with this guy that I've been dating for three weeks
Q. I made the mistake of hooking up with this guy that I've been dating for three weeks last weekend. We had been seeing each other 2-3 times per week (so it was plenty of dates) and he seemed nice, respectful and interested. I thought it would be okay ...
A. 5 November 2010: You know I hop into bed with a guy after about 3-4 weeks, just to see if we're sexually compatible before becoming official. That's a deal breaker for me..although that's after I've determined he's telling the truth when he says he wants a ... (read in full...)
Am I crazy for not wanting my girlfriend to have guy friends
Q. Am i crazy for not wanting my girlfriend to have guy friends. she told me before that she doesnt want guy friends but she recently decided that she wants to start haging out with guys. she thinks i dont trust her but i do. We've been together 5 ...
A. 5 November 2010: Do you have friends who are females? If you answered yes to this question, then it would be hypocritical for you to put a restriction on her friends..Regardless, you cannot tell your girlfriend who she can and can't be friends with, that's called ... (read in full...)
How do I ask my girlfriend to send me nude pics?
Q. Ok so me and my girlfriend have been dating for a while and I really like her and she really likes me, but how do I ask her to send me nude pictures of herself or should I even ask at all thanx in advance....
A. 5 November 2010: That's called "sexting" which can land you in a shit creek if your parents or an adult sees those texts. Plus, nude pictures hardly stay on your phone, they're uploaded onto your computer then posted on the net which is called exploiting and you can ... (read in full...)
Tampon advice!
Q. Okay, sometimes when i insert tampons it goes in but then takes a weird turn.. it feels like its going the completely wrong way.. i dont know if this is normal or not.. please help? :S...
A. 5 November 2010: You maybe shoving it too far..only insert it and you're leaving half of the string hanging out. Dig out those instructions you threw away in the trash. They do help.... (read in full...)
In debt, want to buy a house, I'm 27 and living at home, and feeling like a loser.
Q. I really feel stuck in a financial rut. I want to be able to own a house, be debt free, have a great salary and afford all the things I want...But I am slowly paying off a loan (should be paid off by March 2011), I have just had a career change so ...
A. 5 November 2010: There's no shame in living at home with your parents!! You don't have to pay rent, living expenses, or buy groceries, you just pay the bills you have, get home cooked meals, and your laundry is done daily. It's a good way to save $ towards a down ... (read in full...)
I'm at a crossroad and I don't know what to do about our relationship.
Q. Okay.. im 18 years old and on ausgust 12, 2010 i was in a car accident and ive been stayin with my mom since then. i am in a relationship and have been for almost a year and a half.and i am currently staying in another county almost an hour from ...
A. 5 November 2010: A boyfriend would run to your side to make sure you're in one piece at the hospital. He's not going to change, if he's always been like this. Maybe one day he'll grow up, but usually once an abuser always an abuser. That's a crap excuse that his mom ... (read in full...)
Is wrong to have a boyfriend but to practice sex with a friend to get ready for boyfriend?
Q. I have a boyfriend now but one of my guy friends wants to be friends with benefits. I don't want to cheat on my boyfriend but is it wrong to have a friend with benefits to practice for my boyfriend?...
A. 5 November 2010: What do you think a FWB is?? Friends with benefits is sex with no strings attached, no feelings, no emotion.... (read in full...)
Can you be celibate when you have already lost your virginity?
Q. can you be celibate when you have already lost your virginity?...
A. 4 November 2010: Celibacy means to abstain from sex..you can lose your virginity, then decide you don't want sex again until marriage. Thus practicing abstinence or remaining celibate. ... (read in full...)
He called me fat!!!!
Q. So me and my boyfriend have been going out for a really long time now, he tells me he loves me, he's always there for me and we both feel that we're practically perfect for each other, we've been friends ever since we were 4 years old but as years ...
A. 4 November 2010: For Syrop, jokingly calling someone fat is something girls don't take well. That's like jokingly telling a guy he has a small dick. It can give that person a complex. If the OP is indeed skinny she may still not think she is..she looks in the mirror ... (read in full...)
Why do people have sex outside of marriage?
Q. Hi, I'm15, and I'm so sick of hearing about people my age losing their virginity!!! I mean, what happened to losing it on your wedding night?? I just want to know why people have decided that it's soooo important to have sex in a relationship? I ...
A. 4 November 2010: You and me both!!
I agree if they're your age range they shouldn't be consenting to sex until they are of legal age to do so which is 16-18 varies per state. Not to mention they're not mature enough to engage in intercourse. They have sex for vari... (read in full...)
He is abusive and neglectful, skips work and is attached to his computer. What kind of man is this?
Q. I have been with a man for close to 3 years after his divorce in 2008. He started to become violent but yet abusive in his own way towards me. I ignored all signs and continue the relationship. We moved in together and I began to see he was attached ...
A. 4 November 2010: I think you already know, you said yourself you ignored the warning signs and proceeded into 3 years of hell. Now you're finally seeing them and him for who he truly is. You were in denial for so long. So my question to you is why are you still with ... (read in full...)
We moved in, got comfortable, and I'm wondering about compatibility
Q. I have been dating my boyfriend for over 2 years now. We've been living together for a couple of months. The interesting thing is that neither one of us seemed to notice just how big of a step it was...we just fit so comfortably together. Perhaps a ...
A. 4 November 2010: Well said Chigirl..when he's got a year and some odd months left..take it as you're going to travel abroad. Backpack around Europe staying in hostels, see landmarks, embrace the culture, enjoy the fine cuisine. He doesn't and obviously can't come. ... (read in full...)
I regret turning him down, but if I do ask him out then my friends might make fun of us both...
Q. Ok, my best guy friend is really awesome. He's really funny and intelligent too. We joke about silly things, like in fifth grade when he asked me out and I replied 'where?'We drifted apart once we left that school, because we were on different sides ...
A. 4 November 2010: Oh good! I admit I was too scared when I was your age too..so I used that little tool to let a guy know I was crushing and see if he asks me out. It does work.... (read in full...)
I no longer want to be with my fiancee and I like his best friend!
Q. I'm looking for advice. I'm engaged to the father of my child. I'm no longer in love with him but I don't hate him. We get along fine and we "love" each other but the love is gone. It has been for a few years now. He has a friend, a best friend...
A. 4 November 2010: Let it go, it's not uncommon to "fall out of love". He doesn't even want to work it out with you, he blames you for being the source of all your problems. It's pointless to be in a relationship that's going nowhere fast. Just be prepared to go to ... (read in full...)
We don't speak the same language!
Q. I'm in love with a chinese girl and I believe she loves me also. She doesn't speak English. I don't speak chinese. We can only communicate through email, mobile and friends (interpreters). What should I do?...
A. 4 November 2010: If you have an iPhone it has a translator app on it but that's going to take some time..I would do Rosetta Stone if she is worth the $ spent, or see if your local college or university offers Chinese as a course. Honestly, I hear English is the ... (read in full...)
I don't want to mess up my first ever date!
Q. Hello, this is going to sound sad but i've been asked out to go to the cinema with this guy from college. I know him, but we only speak online so it's kind of awkward. I'm 16 and it's like my first ever date if thats what this is. I'm seriously ...
A. 4 November 2010: Interesting, so technically you guy complete what we call high school at 16? But I'm guessing "college" is more or less a prep for uni..We do call uni, college. Thanks for the clarification. ... (read in full...)
I don't want to mess up my first ever date!
Q. Hello, this is going to sound sad but i've been asked out to go to the cinema with this guy from college. I know him, but we only speak online so it's kind of awkward. I'm 16 and it's like my first ever date if thats what this is. I'm seriously ...
A. 4 November 2010: Wait you've never met him? And he's a college guy? No offense just curious as to what a college guy wants with a teen..Anyways, I would meet him in person first preferably in a well lit public area with lots of people. A coffee shop, just so you can ... (read in full...)
He called me fat!!!!
Q. So me and my boyfriend have been going out for a really long time now, he tells me he loves me, he's always there for me and we both feel that we're practically perfect for each other, we've been friends ever since we were 4 years old but as years ...
A. 4 November 2010: @ Syrop....so how would you feel if your boyfriend and his friends called you fat?You're telling me you would take no offense to that? Calling someone fat is meant is a derogatory way, there's nothing nice about it. I'm sure the OP is not fat. This ... (read in full...)
Is wrong to have a boyfriend but to practice sex with a friend to get ready for boyfriend?
Q. I have a boyfriend now but one of my guy friends wants to be friends with benefits. I don't want to cheat on my boyfriend but is it wrong to have a friend with benefits to practice for my boyfriend?...
A. 4 November 2010: If you even have to ask this question then no way are you ready to have sex. Sex with someone else other than your boyfriend is classified as cheating. Why would you have sex with someone who isn't your boyfriend just to "practice"? What one guy ... (read in full...)
He called me fat!!!!
Q. So me and my boyfriend have been going out for a really long time now, he tells me he loves me, he's always there for me and we both feel that we're practically perfect for each other, we've been friends ever since we were 4 years old but as years ...
A. 4 November 2010: What a minute, he apologized for deserting you but didn't apologize for calling you fat? Let alone make his friends apologize for calling you fat?
How dare he! That would give some girls a complex for the rest of their life..It could cause yo... (read in full...)
I regret turning him down, but if I do ask him out then my friends might make fun of us both...
Q. Ok, my best guy friend is really awesome. He's really funny and intelligent too. We joke about silly things, like in fifth grade when he asked me out and I replied 'where?'We drifted apart once we left that school, because we were on different sides ...
A. 3 November 2010: You know he's probably thinking the same thing, since you rejected him the first time..He's afraid that you'll reject him a second time. Someone's gotta make a move and ask the other out.
Another thought I had, why don't you tell his cousin t... (read in full...)
I'm at a crossroad and I don't know what to do about our relationship.
Q. Okay.. im 18 years old and on ausgust 12, 2010 i was in a car accident and ive been stayin with my mom since then. i am in a relationship and have been for almost a year and a half.and i am currently staying in another county almost an hour from ...
A. 3 November 2010: Break up with him!!! He doesn't respect you if he calls you hurtful names, by the way that's called verbal abuse. Did he even bother to visit you in the hospital? He could care less to make a hour drive to see if you're doing well and just to care ... (read in full...)
I no longer want to be with my fiancee and I like his best friend!
Q. I'm looking for advice. I'm engaged to the father of my child. I'm no longer in love with him but I don't hate him. We get along fine and we "love" each other but the love is gone. It has been for a few years now. He has a friend, a best friend...
A. 3 November 2010: Simple answer..call off the engagement and break it off completely with him. There's no need to get married to someone you don't love just because he's the father of your child. If you do get married, it will end up in divorce because the love has ... (read in full...)
I regret turning him down, but if I do ask him out then my friends might make fun of us both...
Q. Ok, my best guy friend is really awesome. He's really funny and intelligent too. We joke about silly things, like in fifth grade when he asked me out and I replied 'where?'We drifted apart once we left that school, because we were on different sides ...
A. 3 November 2010: Just curious as to why you rejected him the first time?
Ask him out because you want to be with him, don't let your friends be the deciding factor. Real friends don't make fun of who you're going out with instead they support you and are happy th... (read in full...)
We moved in, got comfortable, and I'm wondering about compatibility
Q. I have been dating my boyfriend for over 2 years now. We've been living together for a couple of months. The interesting thing is that neither one of us seemed to notice just how big of a step it was...we just fit so comfortably together. Perhaps a ...
A. 2 November 2010: It seems that you want to live a little, have more excitement and adventure in your life. Your life still has more to offer, and you're just not ready to settle for the boring old married couple routine. He sounds like he's ready to settle for the ... (read in full...)
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