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What qualifies me to help you? Vast dating experience, especially in the LDR department, even an international on with an Aussie, broke hearts, had mine broken, been engaged once before, I know what a real friend is, seen the ugly side of divorce coming from a recently broken home myself, even went as far as to tip the odds to my side and use men only to toss them aside like yesterday's garbage like they do women, I know what it's like to almost give up hope on finding the perfect man when he's really only a few boyfriends away, and I'm starting to learn the ropes of married life. I also know a vast deal about the female and male reproductive system, and all about the mental struggles with infertility. On a side note, I'm the one who gives you tough love, I'm not on here to sugarcoat it or to tell you what you want to hear. I'm going to give it to you straight up, wouldn't you rather the truth?
-TOP 5 QUESTIONS I CAN'T STAND-
#1. Does this mean my teacher likes me?
Just because they're nice to you, offer extra help, and put a little gold star on your A+ paper doesn't mean they are in love with you.
#2. Could I be pregnant?
Have you not heard of a pregnancy test? Get off this website, and go to your local drugstore.
#3. I'm 14 and I want a baby?
Really? Me too! Oh wait I'm 28 and married. You're how old again?
#4. My husband loves porn more than me!
Maybe if you didn't let yourself go into the frumpy woman you have turned into then he wouldn't have to look at porn now would he? I recommend you get your rear to the salon for highlights, manicure, pedicure, tanning, toss the baggy tees and sweat pants for a wardrobe that fits, and a little makeup goes a long way. It's called basic woman maintenance in order to keep your man's eyes on you.
#5. Will we get back together, how can I get him to love me again?
Unfortunately, my crystal ball is broke at the moment and I just gave away the last of my love potion No. 9. Sorry.
MY GENERAL RULES OF THUMB (this should be common sense)
-No means no.
-Girls can ask out ask guys, this is a new generation.
-Unless you know sign language or are telepathic, you're going to have to talk to him/her.
-My "Don't ask, Don't tell" policy as is follows: Do not by any means volunteer your own sexual history, or ask your date/partner/wife/girlfriend their magic number (how many people they've slept with). If you find yourself being prompted to answer this question, politely tell them that's none of their business.
-Your past doesn't define who you are today. We grow, mature, age, and change as time passes.
-If you have to even ask random strangers on this website if you should have sex, then you're not ready for it.
-FWBs, fuck buddies, no strings attached, whatever you want to call it..is not a relationship don't get the 2 confused. In this case, sex=sex, not love.
-No trust=no relationship.
-It is normal for your husband/boyfriend to have friends of the opposite sex, do you not have male friends?
-LDRs can work, however they're not for everyone. You've got to have trust, communication, be faithful, and a lot of hobbies to keep yourself occupied. If you have trust issues, a case of being needy, clingy, problems staying faithful and are in a LDR don't be surprised when it doesn't work. I told you so.
- An ex is an ex for a reason. If you guys couldn't hack it as a couple the first 2 times what makes you think the third time is a charm?
-Going on a "break" is a nice way of breaking up.
-If you have sex with a man and he hasn't called you, or responded to your texts in weeks sorry to say but he was just after a piece of ass.
- Now unless he's getting blown up in Afghanistan, an on call ER doctor, or lying dead in a coffin then he's got no excuse for his poor or lack there of communication.
-You have a 12% chance of your married boyfriend leaving his wife and children.
-A man who is going through a divorce is still legally married. He's about to have an ex wife and you're wanting to get into a relationship with him? That's called a rebound.
-If you're a minor who's just found out she's pregnant, do me and everyone else on this site a favor..Tell your parents.
-Just because some one stares at you, it doesn't mean they like you. They could be staring at that booger hanging out of your nose.
-If you have a lump/bump/cyst/rash that looks green, has oozing puss, and itches like hell, but kinda looks like a STD then you had better consult your doctor. They went through 6 years of schooling and have a license to practice medicine, I think they would know better than random virtual strangers.
-Don't mix business with pleasure. Why? Because if you date your co-worker and in the event things turn sour then you're still stuck facing them 9-5, Mon-Fri. Awkward.
-No matter how hard you try, you can't change a person..they have to make that transformation themselves.
-When your boyfriend/girlfriend says they want space that doesn't mean you do the opposite and bombard them with calls/texts.
-As far as ultimatums go, don't try to make your boyfriend choose between you, his female friends, or weed. You won't like the results.
-If you're 13-17, I'm sorry but you haven't a clue what love really is. You have minimal dating experience confined to the high school dating pool which are nothing but horny boys. Their facial hair doesn't make them a man. It's only till you get out into the real world, a vast dating pool is when you learn the definition of love. So, go on thinking you and 13 year old Tommy will go on to get married, have 3 kids, and a two story house with a white picket fence. I don't expect you to listen, I'm 28 and married, what do I know? There's a reason why everyone says it won't last..because it doesn't.
-The average penis size erect is 6 inches, 4.85 inches. Women like average to even a little below average. We're not going to bust out a tape measure and measure it to make sure it's up to our standards. We just want to have sex, so enough complaining about your size let's get down and dirty.
- The legal age of consent in the U.S. is 16-18 varying oer state, in Britain it's 16. I think it's safe to say most parts of the world (unless you live in a tribe with their own form of government) the legal age to consent to sex is 16. So yes, all you minors below the age of consent are committing a crime when you engage in sexual activity. The age is set that high for a reason, you are not above the law. |
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Should I stop talking to her or should I still try (because I know she loves me)?
Q. Hey: My ex-girlfriend of two years broke up with me roughly two months ago because I was studying for my medical boards, working full time, and not giving her enough attention in the 5 months preceding. In addition, she got a new sales job (her f...
A. 13 November 2010: No not really, just an update of the situation would have been polite of her. If it really did happen she called you as I said for a "shoulder to cry on"..it's possible that she felt she was breaking her own rules of NC, when really she said she ... (read in full...)
Is it too much to ask my boyfriend to care about his personal hygeine?
Q. me and my boy friend have been together for four years we been having sex for 3 ish years , I’ve never had a true orgasms, I always thought it was me because when still lived at home with our families we had to sneak around I was always afraid we ...
A. 12 November 2010: Is the problem really your orgasms?? You mention that in the beginning but it doesn't tie in with your story. A lot of women don't achieve orgasms through penetration alone..you have to toss in some clitoral stimulation in order to coax one out. It ... (read in full...)
He said he needs some time, but I think he wants to break up
Q. I'm 19 my boyfriend is 34.. he recently asked me for sometime off the relationship. I feel really confused he says he needs time because he is sick and he needs time with his children and I understand but I don't understand why is he is saying that ...
A. 12 November 2010: Is your boyfriend by any chance, married??
You don't just "take time off" in a relationship! It's not a job for pete's sake. Sounds more like a break up to me with an excuse that he's ill. If he's really sick then he shouldn't be around his chil... (read in full...)
We've both tried moving on, and I can't seem to get away from thinking about her
Q. Some background information: So my ex and I dated for 2 years and we've known each other for about 5. We go to the same college, we still hang out, we still talk all the time... But the last couple months or two we were dating (before we both left ...
A. 12 November 2010: What is this stupid pettiness that you both broke up for the exact same reason? Well apparently, it wasn't fixed in the first place..so that's why it's completely ended. I would first figure out how you can both fix what's wrong in this relationship ... (read in full...)
Really complicated mess! Please help!
Q. Hi guys this is a rather long question so sry in advance.For the purpose of this question i will need to tell u yhe whole story, so here it goes. A while back i saw a girl (duh) and it was whoa like love at first sight.the problem is that i did no...
A. 12 November 2010: Why didn't you wish on this magic talisman for her to like you?
If you don't want a relationship then are you wanting a friendship?? Your question is unclear. Now, if she really didn't give you the time of day in high school now that she's gr... (read in full...)
Why is he acting this way? Its like he doesn't care anymore!
Q. Ive been in a relation with my boyfriend for two years and sic months, i am 15 and he is 18...i have cheated on him twice and have told him about it because i felt horrible. I know i will no longer do it...i love him... Well anyways, the last tim...
A. 12 November 2010: This relationship has run it's course. With all the amount of cheating done by you and him the trust no longer exists. Hence him getting mad at you for that guy saying "hi". Plus, he seems to be done playing house with you..the boy misses his ... (read in full...)
Too fat to be loved!
Q. I met my boyfriend(ex) over a year ago... we got along very well spent almost every day together talked for hours and hours and never seemed to care about anyone but ourselves. about 7 months into he he suddenly started to pull away and i felt ...
A. 11 November 2010: You're pregnant! There's nothing you can do about that weight now, he should be looking more at the glowing mother of his child than the pounds you have put on! All pregnant women are beautiful..he wants his child to be healthy, right?
So he... (read in full...)
Wining over the parents!
Q. hi people I come to you in despret need. Me and my girlfriend started dating last year 27 september everything was just perfeckt until about 4 months ago her parents didn't want me to see her anymore. We still did and her parents got worse and I ...
A. 11 November 2010: Well, if her parents don't want you with her and she still lives under her parents roof then she must obey their rules. Out of respect to her parents, you need to do the same. In a parent's eyes, no one will ever be good enough for their princess. ... (read in full...)
My friend who I still love has come out of his relationship and still loves me, but now I am the one in a relationship! Help!
Q. Heey, Last year i fell head over heels in love with my best friend and i told him, he told me he felt the same way but he was in a relationship. I was heartbroken and have always had a thing for him ever since. I recently go into a relationship and ...
A. 11 November 2010: Give that boy your madly in love with a chance, he may not break your hurt. The other had a chance and he broke your heart, first strike he's out. ... (read in full...)
Inappropriate ex behaviour?
Q. My boyfriend's ex comes to all his important events - birthdays, thanksgiving, Christmas, when his band plays. She is a good family friend but he cheated on her and that's what ended their relationship. I don't understand why someone who has b...
A. 11 November 2010: Family friends will stick around regardless..Also depends how close their families are, if they're best friends she's not going anywhere. Why shut out the whole family when he was the one who cheated? I see nothing wrong with it, the only reason ... (read in full...)
Communicating is an issue with my soldier!
Q. So me and my finance have been together for a while .. and for those of you who remember me... yes we got back together sorry. well things are going great the only thing that worries me is our conversations because now a days they last less then 15 ...
A. 11 November 2010: Bernard, could you be kind and post her last question on here? That would help!... (read in full...)
Honeymoon phase has past, now it's down to make it or break it!
Q. My spouse and i argue over everything, constantly. I feel like my spouse assumes they know what i am going to say and talks over me, so i am never heard. I have expressed this. My spouse says that i do the same back, but i feel like i really try to ...
A. 11 November 2010: It may be a little too late, you guys sound like you should have went to counseling quite a while ago instead of making excuses or pushing it off. This damage may be unrepairable..and you will have to work that much harder in marriage counseling. ... (read in full...)
How obvious do I have to be with these signals?
Q. How obvious do I have to make myself before he realises the signs im sending him. I really like him! Here we go again ... I like this guy in the year above me and we don't actually talk at all. We used to but we drifted apart because none of ...
A. 11 November 2010: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/how-to-keep-him-guessing.html
This article may be of help to you, what guys say about telepathically sending messages and signals.
Signs just don't work dear, they don't understand what message you're t... (read in full...)
Honeymoon phase has past, now it's down to make it or break it!
Q. My spouse and i argue over everything, constantly. I feel like my spouse assumes they know what i am going to say and talks over me, so i am never heard. I have expressed this. My spouse says that i do the same back, but i feel like i really try to ...
A. 11 November 2010: Why do you have to live together to go to counseling? You both go..and one's insurance will cover a portion of it, depending on your insurance. If you're having troubles, abuse, affair, constant arguing..he's ready to throw up the divorce card but ... (read in full...)
I have got my mistress pregnant and my wife does not know, how do I avoid as much heartbreak as possible?
Q. I have been married for 6 1/2 years to a wonderful wife. Well for the most part. I on the other hand am a horrible husband. In the 6+ years we've been married she cheated on me shortly after our first child was born. No excuses for my upcoming ...
A. 11 November 2010: Who said anything about abortion? If his mistress is indeed pregnant she said she was keeping the child.... (read in full...)
LDR break up!
Q. Hi My bf broke up with me a week before. We are in LDR now since i need to travel abroad for my work. I might be returning back after 2-3 months. When he broke up, i was depressed so much i cried all over him and tried to reach him. He talke...
A. 11 November 2010: Did he break up with you before you started to travel for work? If so then the reason he broke up with you is because of the distance. Not everyone can handle a LDR. There's no absolute guarantee on getting him back, I think you're still hanging on ... (read in full...)
Pregnant again!
Q. How do I tell my parents that I am pregnant AGAIN!!..Im only 21 and I have a 18mth old son..I just found out that I am 6 weeks preggo...My oarents helped me so much with the first one and still help me a little..I live with my sister but my parents ...
A. 11 November 2010: Are you not on a form of birth control? Perhaps you should practice abstinence..
Yeah I'd say they're going to be pretty steamed, since they have helped you out with your first child and now you're pregnant again. Where is the father of these chil... (read in full...)
Communicating is an issue with my soldier!
Q. So me and my finance have been together for a while .. and for those of you who remember me... yes we got back together sorry. well things are going great the only thing that worries me is our conversations because now a days they last less then 15 ...
A. 11 November 2010: Hello, army wife here!
Now I don't recall you, but I am curious as to what was the previous problem with your fiance. That may help me to paint a picture. How long have you been an army girlfriend? Well, you do know that not everyone can cut it a... (read in full...)
At 5'6'' weighing 100 pounds, is my friend anorexic?
Q. Hii Aunties and Uncles, basically, I have a pen pal who lives several hundred miles north from me and she recently had surgery and lost a lot of weight. In her last letter to me she said she weighs 100lbs (7stone 2lbs) and she's 5foot 6.5 inches...
A. 11 November 2010: Yes, your pen pal is underweight..Urge her to seek professional help right away for her eating disorder.... (read in full...)
How to make your breasts sprout?
Q. i have a problem i didnt get my period and i and i am 14 years old and my weight is 37 and i am not tall and i dont have boobs i dont know how make them grow?...
A. 11 November 2010: I started getting bunny slopes at 12..lol. My rosy didn't arrive till I was 14.
Like an aunt said, once you get your period..even a little before that your boobs will start to blossom. Every girl starts that process of turning into a woman at... (read in full...)
Found a picture from a previous relationship!
Q. So I recently found a picture of my girlfriend that she took of herself when she was nude. I know that this is from a previous relationship and that she was with the guy for a while, but it is bugging the hell out of me that I accidentally ran ...
A. 11 November 2010: I agree how did you happen to stumble upon this picture? Were you looking thru her computer, casually flipping thru her photo albums, looking thru her pics on her phone?
If anything she forgot to get rid of it, or that it was still lying around. ... (read in full...)
I have a boil down south!
Q. I have a boil "down there" and I am scared that my "guy friend" will think im disgusting. Its nothing bad its not like i have a STD or something its just a boil but it terrifies me that he will tell me to get out. Should i be worried? What should i ...
A. 11 November 2010: Dear, your mother has given birth to you and knows what you look like naked..in fact she has the same parts too. Tell her about the boil, don't be scared, she'll take you to the gyno so you can get it checked out. Make sure it's nothing serious. ... (read in full...)
Why do I get horny during my monthly visitor?
Q. I know this is weird but its bugging the heck out of me....So every time I get my monthly..It seems like thats the most time want to have sex... Why is that?...
A. 11 November 2010: When in doubt, consult Cosmo..
http://www.cosmopolitan.com/sex-love/advice/menstruation-affect-sex-drive... (read in full...)
What is she implying?
Q. If a girl in an IM chat (who is close and you like) says "you exist in me" - What is this implying?...
A. 11 November 2010: She likes you, you're on her mind, close to her heart...I could sit here guessing all day. Why don't you ask her what she means?... (read in full...)
What's the name of that one sexual position?
Q. Hey, I was wondering is there a sex position were the girl lays down on her back but has one leg over the guys shoulder? Does any one know the name of it? I wanna tell my bf it but i dont know if he will know what im talking about. Thanks....
A. 11 November 2010: http://www.cosmopolitan.com/sex-love/positions/side-wind-her-sex-position
http://www.cosmopolitan.com/sex-love/positions/the-sexual-seesaw-sex-position
http://www.co... (read in full...)
Should I stop talking to her or should I still try (because I know she loves me)?
Q. Hey: My ex-girlfriend of two years broke up with me roughly two months ago because I was studying for my medical boards, working full time, and not giving her enough attention in the 5 months preceding. In addition, she got a new sales job (her f...
A. 11 November 2010: I'd take that as an emergency, you were the first person she turned to..or the only one who could have answered their phone for that matter. If she reports him for sexual harassment, that has to be investigated and treated very seriously..I doubt ... (read in full...)
I agreed to an abortion but now I'm second guessing it!
Q. I'm 9 weeks pregnant with my 3 child which was unplanned. My partner who I've been with for 16 years wants me to terminate the pregnancy, I said I would, but am now not sure if I can go through with it. What should I do? ...
A. 11 November 2010: Now, now..That info would be great if our OP was from U.S. but she's an Aussie.
The most recent abortion rate in Australia is 20.2% they average about 900,00 abortions each other. And they average 250,000 live births each year so there are 2 abor... (read in full...)
He's leaving in a week, should I tell him how I feel?
Q. Not sure what to do here. I'm usually pretty assertive when it comes to guys and people I like in general. I've recently gone through a rough episode with someone I dated for a few months and wasn't interested in anyone at all and then I ran into...
A. 11 November 2010: Cut the crap and get to the chase, do it before he leaves! If he doesn't harbor the same feelings then oh well, out of sight, out of mind. Now, if he is that into you, he'll only be gone a couple of months. Surely you could handle that? Take the ... (read in full...)
He leaves after we just had sex!
Q. right i am seeing a man nearly 9 weeks and i am very confusing about him . we had great sex but all he text me about sex and on sites . he never takes me out to make them know i am his girlfriend at all . i only see him oone or 2 times a week at ...
A. 11 November 2010: You sound more like friends with benefits than a girlfriend! He has sex with you once to twice a week and doesn't stick around to bask in the aftermath? Yep, he's using you for sex. Dump him. ... (read in full...)
I decided to go all the way with him when my parents told me we're moving across country!
Q. Hi I'm 14 now and I'm not sure what to do. My boyfriend and met in December and started having a "thing" by February, in April we started dating. At first we decided on no oral sex or actual sex because he's almost 2 years older than me and is'nt a ...
A. 11 November 2010: Yes, you should have waited till you were 16 to have sex..He had sex with a minor, which is illegal. He can go to jail for it and have to register as a sex offender.
But the deed is done, I suggest you wait till you are 16 because you can have... (read in full...)
Does he love me? He walked out of my life for 5 months
Q. Would you say that a man loves you when he walked out of your life for 5 months. He promised that one day you would both be together, but his wife tried to kill herself and he found out and went back to her. so he just walked out of my life and no ...
A. 11 November 2010: His first mistake was staying for the pregnancy, he could have got out then..then sorted out visitations right after the divorce was finalized. But like so many, he decides to stay because he feels obligated to make it work for the child. The child ... (read in full...)
I love my engaged best friend, do I tell her?
Q. I have been best friends with her since kindergarten. We are both 18 now, I have known that I love her as much more than a friend since forth grade, but have always been too scared to ruine out friendship to ask her if she feels the same. We are ...
A. 11 November 2010: Wait a minute, you're in love with this girl but you might be bi and you love this other guy? Well honey which is it?? Are you leaning more towards the male or the female? I think you're confused, in that case don't tell your girl best friend you ... (read in full...)
I'm afraid he'll sleep with the girl next door!
Q. I need to work on myself big time im very insecure and just being insecure is driving me crazy. And my boyfriend.. I love him so much and we just had a baby girl 2 months ago. Having the baby led us to move back home because we want to save up ...
A. 11 November 2010: He has you and a baby, what more could he ask for? Nothing ever happened with this girl, and if he wanted it to he would still be with her trying instead of moving on to have a family with you. That's in the past, let it stay there. If you are truly ... (read in full...)
What can I do, say, or wear to get guys to want me ?
Q. what is something you can do to get a guy to want you? i mean like really want you lol. should i wear different clothes or change how i look? what are somethings i can say to get him to know i want him?...
A. 11 November 2010: Basically how to be a tease? If you get him sexually revved up and don't do anything about it, you're going to have one mad guy on your hands, or a dangerous situation.... (read in full...)
Where did the trust go?
Q. Basically, my bf [now of 2yrs] screwed me over a year ago by seeing his ex girlfriend for coffee and pretending he hadn't. I now am a bit of a wreck where trusting him with other girls comes in. I don't expect him to cheat but he has so many girl ...
A. 11 November 2010: What exactly is your question? You don't want to dump him, but you don't trust him..this relationship isn't going to go very far with zero trust.
Your other alternative is to give him the benefit of the doubt, and let him regain the trust that is ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend's best friend is a dog!
Q. I cant stand my bf best friend!!! i dont like my bf hanging out with him.hes okay as a person but i juss hate the things he does. he treats my bf like crap,barrows large amounts of money never gives it back.hes trys to make my bf controlling and ...
A. 11 November 2010: Don't be around him when you know your boyfriend is hanging out with him..hang out with your girlfriends instead. You don't have to go out of your way to be nice to him, you just have to tolerate him as long as you are in your boyfriend's life.... (read in full...)
I love my engaged best friend, do I tell her?
Q. I have been best friends with her since kindergarten. We are both 18 now, I have known that I love her as much more than a friend since forth grade, but have always been too scared to ruine out friendship to ask her if she feels the same. We are ...
A. 11 November 2010: Normally I would advise against it..but seeing as you have very good intentions and I feel like she's getting married to someone she hardly knows plus to get away from her family is all the wrong reasons to get hitched. Go ahead and confess how you ... (read in full...)
5 years of denial, then puts his photo on her Facebook profile!
Q. Why in this world would a very recent ex put up a photo of someone who she cheated on me with on her facebook? This person has never totaly gone away,always texting each other and her always lying. He is married and she denied it until i got in ...
A. 11 November 2010: Why do you care when she's your ex? Block her from your Facebook and move on with your life.... (read in full...)
My best friend made my boyfriend feel her up!
Q. I need help... i like this guy and he likes me and we flirted with each other for about 5 months before he finally asked me out. He's shy... I said yes of course, but then the next day, my friend "Janie" said that he felt her up the day before....
A. 11 November 2010: Janie pressured your boyfriend into feeling her up? I've never heard of peer pressure pertaining to feeling someone up. I'm sorry but your boyfriend most likely felt her up on purpose..he's at that age of where his hormones are raging and he can't ... (read in full...)
I have a boil down south!
Q. I have a boil "down there" and I am scared that my "guy friend" will think im disgusting. Its nothing bad its not like i have a STD or something its just a boil but it terrifies me that he will tell me to get out. Should i be worried? What should i ...
A. 11 November 2010: I would tell your mother about it, so she can take you to get it checked out by your gyno. ... (read in full...)
Are online relationships worth it?
Q. Online relationships is it worth it?...
A. 11 November 2010: At your age range, no. You're still young, you need that affection, hugging, cuddling, kissing, face to face time..you can't have that in an online relationship. ... (read in full...)
My teenage daughter wanted permission to marry her boyfriend!
Q. Hello everyone. This question is really me just wondering what you would do in my situation: Yesterday, my 16 (almost 17) year old little girl and her boyfriend came to me and asked me to give her permission to marry him. I was baffled by it, a...
A. 11 November 2010: Completely baffled..I would throw a chastity belt and lock her in her room.
Kidding, that would be inhuman. I have no doubt you made the correct decision, just beware when she is 18 and is still with this guy.... (read in full...)
What can I do, say, or wear to get guys to want me ?
Q. what is something you can do to get a guy to want you? i mean like really want you lol. should i wear different clothes or change how i look? what are somethings i can say to get him to know i want him?...
A. 11 November 2010: Wear tasteful tops that bare a little cleavage, dresses, flirty skirts..a lot of the times men are turned on by a classy woman not a trashy one. Have the confidence and intelligence to back up your flirty look. Be you, with your best foot forward.
... (read in full...)
I agreed to an abortion but now I'm second guessing it!
Q. I'm 9 weeks pregnant with my 3 child which was unplanned. My partner who I've been with for 16 years wants me to terminate the pregnancy, I said I would, but am now not sure if I can go through with it. What should I do? ...
A. 11 November 2010: Don't go through with it if you don't want to. Your body, your choice..not your partner's. ... (read in full...)
I have got my mistress pregnant and my wife does not know, how do I avoid as much heartbreak as possible?
Q. I have been married for 6 1/2 years to a wonderful wife. Well for the most part. I on the other hand am a horrible husband. In the 6+ years we've been married she cheated on me shortly after our first child was born. No excuses for my upcoming ...
A. 8 November 2010: The absolute worst that could happen..
You tell your wife, or you fail to tell your wife and your mistress does it for you..Your soon to be ex-wife, takes you to the cleaners getting you for 2 counts of adultery, takes custody of the children... (read in full...)
Should I stop talking to her or should I still try (because I know she loves me)?
Q. Hey: My ex-girlfriend of two years broke up with me roughly two months ago because I was studying for my medical boards, working full time, and not giving her enough attention in the 5 months preceding. In addition, she got a new sales job (her f...
A. 2 November 2010: :(
Awww, the last part was so sad, I had a mental image of you two parting. Well at least this time she was actually specific, she's got a lot on her plate right now, with her job (which seems very demanding), and her feelings for you are all ... (read in full...)
Does he love me? He walked out of my life for 5 months
Q. Would you say that a man loves you when he walked out of your life for 5 months. He promised that one day you would both be together, but his wife tried to kill herself and he found out and went back to her. so he just walked out of my life and no ...
A. 28 October 2010: A married man walked out on his affair because his wife tried to kill herself? How can he promise you will be together again one day? Can he tell the future? You may be waiting for that one day until end of time. So he's back I'm guessing his wife ... (read in full...)
Should I stop talking to her or should I still try (because I know she loves me)?
Q. Hey: My ex-girlfriend of two years broke up with me roughly two months ago because I was studying for my medical boards, working full time, and not giving her enough attention in the 5 months preceding. In addition, she got a new sales job (her f...
A. 25 October 2010: If she wants to take things slow day by day, then sex doesn't need to be thrown into the mix. That only messes up your feelings even more when you're trying to straighten them out. Bad move. That doesn't make any sense for her to say that. You're ... (read in full...)
Should I stop talking to her or should I still try (because I know she loves me)?
Q. Hey: My ex-girlfriend of two years broke up with me roughly two months ago because I was studying for my medical boards, working full time, and not giving her enough attention in the 5 months preceding. In addition, she got a new sales job (her f...
A. 21 October 2010: Yes, I'm wondering why she broke up with you in the first place? It could be she wasn't getting enough attention but that's a given being in a relationship with a med student. Then it's possible she felt like you would never have enough time for ... (read in full...)
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