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... Send *ennisstar88 a private message | | | *ennisstar88's profile:Who I am? A 28yr old Army wife. My DH serves, I serve and sacrifice as well. Went to college in my early 20s, economy caught up with me in 08 and dropped out for a bit. I however returned and am down the path to finishing a bachelor's degree. I have also beat my long, 3 year battle with infertility and am expecting a baby this December! Its been a long, pot hole filled road but I am finally where I want to be.
What qualifies me to help you? Vast dating experience, especially in the LDR department, even an international on with an Aussie, broke hearts, had mine broken, been engaged once before, I know what a real friend is, seen the ugly side of divorce coming from a recently broken home myself, even went as far as to tip the odds to my side and use men only to toss them aside like yesterday's garbage like they do women, I know what it's like to almost give up hope on finding the perfect man when he's really only a few boyfriends away, and I'm starting to learn the ropes of married life. I also know a vast deal about the female and male reproductive system, and all about the mental struggles with infertility. On a side note, I'm the one who gives you tough love, I'm not on here to sugarcoat it or to tell you what you want to hear. I'm going to give it to you straight up, wouldn't you rather the truth?
-TOP 5 QUESTIONS I CAN'T STAND-
#1. Does this mean my teacher likes me?
Just because they're nice to you, offer extra help, and put a little gold star on your A+ paper doesn't mean they are in love with you.
#2. Could I be pregnant?
Have you not heard of a pregnancy test? Get off this website, and go to your local drugstore.
#3. I'm 14 and I want a baby?
Really? Me too! Oh wait I'm 28 and married. You're how old again?
#4. My husband loves porn more than me!
Maybe if you didn't let yourself go into the frumpy woman you have turned into then he wouldn't have to look at porn now would he? I recommend you get your rear to the salon for highlights, manicure, pedicure, tanning, toss the baggy tees and sweat pants for a wardrobe that fits, and a little makeup goes a long way. It's called basic woman maintenance in order to keep your man's eyes on you.
#5. Will we get back together, how can I get him to love me again?
Unfortunately, my crystal ball is broke at the moment and I just gave away the last of my love potion No. 9. Sorry.
MY GENERAL RULES OF THUMB (this should be common sense)
-No means no.
-Girls can ask out ask guys, this is a new generation.
-Unless you know sign language or are telepathic, you're going to have to talk to him/her.
-My "Don't ask, Don't tell" policy as is follows: Do not by any means volunteer your own sexual history, or ask your date/partner/wife/girlfriend their magic number (how many people they've slept with). If you find yourself being prompted to answer this question, politely tell them that's none of their business.
-Your past doesn't define who you are today. We grow, mature, age, and change as time passes.
-If you have to even ask random strangers on this website if you should have sex, then you're not ready for it.
-FWBs, fuck buddies, no strings attached, whatever you want to call it..is not a relationship don't get the 2 confused. In this case, sex=sex, not love.
-No trust=no relationship.
-It is normal for your husband/boyfriend to have friends of the opposite sex, do you not have male friends?
-LDRs can work, however they're not for everyone. You've got to have trust, communication, be faithful, and a lot of hobbies to keep yourself occupied. If you have trust issues, a case of being needy, clingy, problems staying faithful and are in a LDR don't be surprised when it doesn't work. I told you so.
- An ex is an ex for a reason. If you guys couldn't hack it as a couple the first 2 times what makes you think the third time is a charm?
-Going on a "break" is a nice way of breaking up.
-If you have sex with a man and he hasn't called you, or responded to your texts in weeks sorry to say but he was just after a piece of ass.
- Now unless he's getting blown up in Afghanistan, an on call ER doctor, or lying dead in a coffin then he's got no excuse for his poor or lack there of communication.
-You have a 12% chance of your married boyfriend leaving his wife and children.
-A man who is going through a divorce is still legally married. He's about to have an ex wife and you're wanting to get into a relationship with him? That's called a rebound.
-If you're a minor who's just found out she's pregnant, do me and everyone else on this site a favor..Tell your parents.
-Just because some one stares at you, it doesn't mean they like you. They could be staring at that booger hanging out of your nose.
-If you have a lump/bump/cyst/rash that looks green, has oozing puss, and itches like hell, but kinda looks like a STD then you had better consult your doctor. They went through 6 years of schooling and have a license to practice medicine, I think they would know better than random virtual strangers.
-Don't mix business with pleasure. Why? Because if you date your co-worker and in the event things turn sour then you're still stuck facing them 9-5, Mon-Fri. Awkward.
-No matter how hard you try, you can't change a person..they have to make that transformation themselves.
-When your boyfriend/girlfriend says they want space that doesn't mean you do the opposite and bombard them with calls/texts.
-As far as ultimatums go, don't try to make your boyfriend choose between you, his female friends, or weed. You won't like the results.
-If you're 13-17, I'm sorry but you haven't a clue what love really is. You have minimal dating experience confined to the high school dating pool which are nothing but horny boys. Their facial hair doesn't make them a man. It's only till you get out into the real world, a vast dating pool is when you learn the definition of love. So, go on thinking you and 13 year old Tommy will go on to get married, have 3 kids, and a two story house with a white picket fence. I don't expect you to listen, I'm 28 and married, what do I know? There's a reason why everyone says it won't last..because it doesn't.
-The average penis size erect is 6 inches, 4.85 inches. Women like average to even a little below average. We're not going to bust out a tape measure and measure it to make sure it's up to our standards. We just want to have sex, so enough complaining about your size let's get down and dirty.
- The legal age of consent in the U.S. is 16-18 varying oer state, in Britain it's 16. I think it's safe to say most parts of the world (unless you live in a tribe with their own form of government) the legal age to consent to sex is 16. So yes, all you minors below the age of consent are committing a crime when you engage in sexual activity. The age is set that high for a reason, you are not above the law. |
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Am I just crazy and paranoid or what?
Q. This may be a long description but you have to get the whole story. My boyfriend of 5 months and I met at work. He had a girlfriend at the time. We always flirted and had a good time when working together and we made each other laugh. One night he ...
A. 9 November 2010: How considerate of him to wait to cheat on you. You didn't really know who he was, or you did and just ignored it, living in denial.
My point is it happens...learn from this experience and move on. From now on don't dare date a man that cheats o... (read in full...)
I flew across the country to meet him and now I'm not attracted to him
Q. I got into a relationship with someone online. We've been dating for 3months and I fell in love with his personality. I flew across the country to meet him and now that I have I'm not really physically attracted to him. My question is, should I stay ...
A. 9 November 2010: Well then if you think you can look past his appearance then carry on. However, if you're put off by him that much then this relationship won't last.... (read in full...)
Am I just crazy and paranoid or what?
Q. This may be a long description but you have to get the whole story. My boyfriend of 5 months and I met at work. He had a girlfriend at the time. We always flirted and had a good time when working together and we made each other laugh. One night he ...
A. 9 November 2010: Well OP I'm sorry to hear that..but what do you expect from a guy who cheated on his gf with you..then proceeds to have a relationship with you starting off with NO TRUST. Why did you get in a relationship with someone you couldn't trust at all? ... (read in full...)
Do I keep trying with my marriage... or do I give up?
Q. I am married and a month ago I was gonna get a divorce but we talked let our feelings out he promised to change and so did I. We were doing good but yesterday we had an argument but instead of being a simple argument he exploded telling me I've ...
A. 7 November 2010: If your problems are out of your hands, you can't seem to get anywhere it's best you seek marriage counseling..before your marriage is beyond repair. It's best to get a third party observation in a calm setting where you can freely discuss your ... (read in full...)
How do I approach my boyfriend about these butt comments?
Q. Me and my boyfriend were watching tv, and there was a shot of a girl with a big butt bending over. And he makes the comment "she ain't got any kind of panties on". Now in the past I have gotten upset at him oogling over YouTube videos of girls ...
A. 7 November 2010: I agree I don't think what he said was degrading either, he was just making a mere observation. There's nothing to talk about. If you really think there is a problem, just tell him to keep his comments and observations to himself.... (read in full...)
Am I just crazy and paranoid or what?
Q. This may be a long description but you have to get the whole story. My boyfriend of 5 months and I met at work. He had a girlfriend at the time. We always flirted and had a good time when working together and we made each other laugh. One night he ...
A. 7 November 2010: Not to be harsh but did it ever occur to you he's not cheating? That this paranoia has taken you completely over and you are imagining shit? You have this constant fear that he's cheating so you're playing CSI combing thru his carpet with a fine ... (read in full...)
How can I drop this college course without serious problems?
Q. I have a college related issue and ive had good experience with aunts giving good responses, so ill ask here. I took an Art History 100 course this semester. Everything was going great up until the first of two exams in this class. All of the 10 ...
A. 7 November 2010: I agree gather up what's left of the class, first do your homework and make sure she doesn't have a bachelor's or master's in what she is teaching..point out how she's not qualified and your $ is being wasted, especially those of you on financial ... (read in full...)
Boyfriend wants his friend to watch us have sex
Q. My boyfriend wants me to have sex with his friend infront of him ! I don't know what to do! help me please xx...
A. 7 November 2010: Tell him "no" you're not going to do that. Then I would dump him, because he's a jerk anyway for suggesting something like that. That's how fights and jealousy get started when someone sleeps with another person..regardless of whether he wants to ... (read in full...)
If my quiet social life bothers him so much, why does he still want to be friends with me?
Q. I met him on a dating site and dated him for 2 months. The first month things were going really well and we were spending almost too much time together. The second month is when things started to go downhill especially after telling me he wanted to ...
A. 7 November 2010: WTF? He made a list of your flaws and sent them to you?
Pshh..
Well excuse you for growing up out of the getting wasted, party hardy, down some aspirin with your Budlight bar scene. You're way too much of a grown up, classy lady to be c... (read in full...)
Is she trying to seuce me or is the boob flashing accidental?
Q. do you think that girls (especially who has big boobs) always know that when they are bending they show their cleavages and what do they expect man feeling about that I have a friend (not a gf) always bends over in front of me and shows her big ...
A. 7 November 2010: Now there's some women who show off a little cleavage, that's on purpose.
Women have large breasts, do have trouble at times keeping that v or scoop neck up..again to show a little cleavage is perfectly acceptable and flirty. You gotta let them... (read in full...)
Why hasn't he told me that he wants me to be his woman?
Q. Hi, ladies and males it does'nt matter both can answer my question please. Well I have been dating this guy I love alot sometimes I love him like a water overflowing in a glass! My problem is that it's been almost 2years and Iam not his woman yet; ...
A. 7 November 2010: As in his wife? Probably because he's not ready to commit and you're being pushy about the subject. Have you two talked about the future? Calm down, constantly bringing it up isn't going to make him propose any faster. You have to slow down and ... (read in full...)
I got dumped harshly and am not dealing with it well
Q. I'm a 14 year old guy who just got dumped.. It was harsh.. It was the morning of a Thursday and she just texted me and said "I thought about some stuff and I think we should just be friends.. I'm sorry." I got so depressed and still am.. I need help ...
A. 7 November 2010: It's not the end of the world! We all get dumped at one point in our life, some several time. Even faced rejection, everyone goes through it. So she dumped you in text, kinda bad but could you handle if she told you to your face?
She's you firs... (read in full...)
Boyfriend wants his friend to watch us have sex
Q. My boyfriend wants me to have sex with his friend infront of him ! I don't know what to do! help me please xx...
A. 6 November 2010: What a turn off! If you're not comfortable with it, then tell him no! What happens in the bedroom needs to stay in the bedroom between you two. Sex is an act when two become one. Three's just a crowd. ... (read in full...)
As long as we can make it..is that a good response?
Q. So I asked my boyfriend how long did he see us together and he said as long as we can make it. Is that a good thing? ...
A. 6 November 2010: Sounds reasonable to me..He's not looking into the future, that would be getting way too ahead of yourself. It's just he's taking this relationship day by day.... (read in full...)
My boyfriend always answers his cell phone no matter where or what he is doing!
Q. my boyfriend of 9 months always answers his mobile phone, even if we are at friends house or in a restaurant, sometimes its his ex wife, he chats but sometimes its about nothing in particular, I get angry and think its very rude, he thinks I am ...
A. 6 November 2010: How's that a problem? I get pissed all the time when people don't answer their mobiles, it's like what's the point of having one if you're not going to answer it.
Anyways, I can see where it can be rude, rather annoying if you're having dinner a... (read in full...)
I flew across the country to meet him and now I'm not attracted to him
Q. I got into a relationship with someone online. We've been dating for 3months and I fell in love with his personality. I flew across the country to meet him and now that I have I'm not really physically attracted to him. My question is, should I stay ...
A. 6 November 2010: Break it off, you're pretty much alone anyway in a LDR. That's also why you request a recent picture of who you're talking to. Yeah, looks aren't everything and they do change over time, but you have to have some initial physical attraction. Don't ... (read in full...)
How can you know if you have a hymen?
Q. hi i wanted to know how can you make sure you still have a hymen...
A. 6 November 2010: It's not it's mucous membrane.... (read in full...)
Do I tell my boyfriend his friend hit on me?
Q. My boyfriends Friend made move on me, and ididnt say nothing to him but iwanna tell my boyfriend I don't know if ishould because he gets mad quick help me!...
A. 6 November 2010: I would definitely tell his friend to buzz off, and not to try any smooth moves on you ever again..or you'll tell your boyfriend. Then leave it at that. Handle this yourself, no need to get your boyfriend involved when his dad is in the hospital. ... (read in full...)
How can you know if you have a hymen?
Q. hi i wanted to know how can you make sure you still have a hymen...
A. 6 November 2010: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Hymen
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I'm pretty, why don't I have a boyfriend when ugly fat girls have one?
Q. All of my friends continue to tell me to ask outthe guy I've liked for 6 years. They continue to say I'm pretty and the refer to me as the 'hot one.' I do believe I'm pretty, but, these over weight, ugly, and mean girls have boyfriends, yet I have n...
A. 6 November 2010: Well now fat girls need loving too..in fact we have a few guys on here claiming they like overweight women over pin thin women.. Like the other aunts have said it's all about personal preference.
Surely there's more reasons than that holding ... (read in full...)
Am I eating off a used dish?
Q. well ive liked this sgirl for a long time,but she had a boyfreind. She just got dumped and i helped her feel better but then everyone just said i was "eating of a used dish" what should i do should i ask her out or not...
A. 6 November 2010: "Eating off of a used dish" first I've heard of that. I'm going to take a stab and say that means they're warning you of being the rebound...or this girl is damaged goods. I'd give it some time before you ask her out, especially if she's beat up ... (read in full...)
My friend shouted out that I liked him and now he always gives me weird looks
Q. ok so i really like this boy that always gets on the same bus as me .nd i told my best friend that i thought he was fit then a few days later we were on the bus and he got on .and my friend shouted oh look theres that boy you like and heard he ...
A. 6 November 2010: Oh geez, talk about a walk down memory lane!! I had a friend who did that to me in the lunchroom. How embarrassing and what's our friends' problem, you know?
Sadly, there's nothing you can really do except give your friend a talking to, next tim... (read in full...)
Should I cut off a 22 year friendship for my girlfriend?
Q. Hello everyone. I have an ex girlfriend from High School that I am still very good friends with. We live 5 blocks away from each other. Speak to each other 3 or 4 times a week. See each other twice a week. But this is only because we are in the same ...
A. 6 November 2010: You should already know the answer to that. Why cut off a 22 year friendship with a woman you haven't dated since high school, for a 4 year girlfriend who has trust and possibly anger issues?
With both know that a man and a woman can have a s... (read in full...)
I feel he is getting an easy ride ...
Q. My partner has been living with me full time for a year now and he pays me £400 a month for his keep. My living expenses probably amount to about £1,500 a month and I am now feeling that he is getting an easy ride with what he gives me. Apar...
A. 6 November 2010: How much does he earn? Is their a reason as to why he can't take his clothes to the laundromat, and come to iron them himself? I'd buy him an ironing board and teach him how to use it.
I'd tell him he can borrow your car as long as he replaces... (read in full...)
My christain boyfriend said no sex,kissin and touching in our relationship and I don't really go down well with it.
Q. Am 18 and my bf is 21,we met through a dating site weeks ago and fell madly inlove wt each other{though we are in a LDR}. .so we were talking yesterday and he was telling me that he is a christian and don't want us to be having sex,kissin,or even ...
A. 6 November 2010: Well how are you going to kiss and touch each other when you're in a LDR? Unless when you see him in person, it's basically a phone/computer relationship. Have you met him in person?
It's only been so many weeks, and this guy doesn't believe ... (read in full...)
Boyfriend threatens to hurt my family if I leave him
Q. my boyfriend hits me and i've tried so many times to leave him but he threatens me...he says that he's gonna do something bad to my family...i'm so desperate..please hep me...i can't stand him anymore..give me a solution please...what should i do to ...
A. 6 November 2010: Call the police, tell them you're being abused and that he's making threats to your family..press charges against this jerk.... (read in full...)
Do I tell my boyfriend his friend hit on me?
Q. My boyfriends Friend made move on me, and ididnt say nothing to him but iwanna tell my boyfriend I don't know if ishould because he gets mad quick help me!...
A. 6 November 2010: You could but it might start a war, or his friend could deny these allegations..his word against yours, who is your boyfriend more likely to believe?
What kind of move is this? Did you do anything to prevent it? Like tell him no, or push him off ... (read in full...)
What should I do after a hook up with someone I like?
Q. Hey, so I have a question about hooking up vs. real interest. I slept with this girl on Halloween and she initiated the whole thing. We were both pretty drunk at the time but she seemed interested before we hooked up that night. Afterwads she didnt ...
A. 6 November 2010: I'll tell it to you like I tell all the girls and women on here..
Alcohol+frat boy+horny college girl= a one night stand. A hook up is a hook up she even specified that in her drunken state..plus she didn't stick around to bask in the aftermat... (read in full...)
I lied about my age and have found out he is a copper!
Q. Hi Aunts. I am 15 and hang around with a large group of girls. I wear nice clothes and make myself up to look older I suppose. I went to a party recently and met this really nice guy. He said he was 26, I really liked him so I said I was...
A. 6 November 2010: Oh the policeman has a thing for younger girls..even at your false age of 17 you're still too young for him.
I would not see him on Monday, break it off with him you're already knee deep in this. However, if you can't bring yourself to break it... (read in full...)
Attracted to my Best Friends Ex
Q. Im in my last year of high school and i've started having feelings for my best friends ex. But its forbiddon territory! I never meant to fall for him, but we are together everyday and its so hard. He really likes me too and I think we could be so ...
A. 6 November 2010: Yup, everyone knows ex's are off limits unless given permission. Its sounds like she was ok with it, then once she saw two in action it became too much for her too handle. Now, I also don't think she's entirely over him..why else would she run from ... (read in full...)
Handjob and Blowjob at the movies?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been dating for a while over 2 months now, but I'm never actually the one to actually DO anything. I've never actually given a handjob, or blowjob. But I really want to pleasure him the way he pleasures me. Just recently he ...
A. 6 November 2010: I agree you shouldn't do it at the movies, you could get caught by one of the ushers and thrown out or charges pressed against you.
A handjob in my opinion is something guys can do themselves on their own time. It's like taking the orange j... (read in full...)
I've had sex with both my boss and her daughter! How do I get out of this?
Q. Hello. This is a very awkward, but sadly very true, story that I need help with. I have recently been having a casual sexual relationship with my 38 year old boss. I'm 20. This may sound bad but bare in mind she was not my boss when I began 'se...
A. 6 November 2010: What happens when your boss and her daughter trade stories? Better hope she doesn't find a reason to fire you. Looks, like you're going to have to pick one..
Say you dump the boss, then you keep on seeing her daughter..she finds out who you dump... (read in full...)
Am I crazy for not wanting my girlfriend to have guy friends
Q. Am i crazy for not wanting my girlfriend to have guy friends. she told me before that she doesnt want guy friends but she recently decided that she wants to start haging out with guys. she thinks i dont trust her but i do. We've been together 5 ...
A. 6 November 2010: Why not? I trust my husband. It's all about trust and keeping it in your pants. ... (read in full...)
I cheated on my wife with this girl...and now she's giving me a hard time...
Q. Dear All, I am very depressed because i have done a sin. I am married but was on a business trip for 3 months and befriended with a girl. She started loving me and started thinking about our marriage. I didn't tell her that i was already married....
A. 6 November 2010: Let me just say alcohol doesn't excuse your actions. You're a grown man, you know better. Next time let's keep it in your pants.
As for the girl, I would tell her the truth and apologize..then cut off contact with her. Your wife, you're going to... (read in full...)
Why does she always ask what I'm up to?
Q. My ex gets in touch with me via msn every few months. This time she asked me if I thought anti-depressants worked, because her doctor had given her them and she knew I take/took them when we went together. In addition to this, she always asks what ...
A. 6 November 2010: You could be the only one signed on MSN at that time. She wants a pity party, complaining about her woes, because you'll listen. Then includes you in the conversation a bit, then she goes without contacting you till the next time no one else will ... (read in full...)
How to keep him guessing.
Q. Girls, you know how guys say we're complex? Good news for you, they love it. Mystery is what turns a guy on the most. It's like a puzzle a game or a search, so how do you keep the search going when you are in a relationship with him? 1. During t...
A. 6 November 2010: For Reader Anon,
At 25 years old married and with a vast dating experience to back it all up, I do know quite a few things about boy/men. I don't know it all but I pay close attention to know enough. So at Kat's age range, it couldn't hurt for... (read in full...)
In love with a married man and he wants to marry me too!
Q. I am in so much pain because I don’t know what to do or who to talk to. I met this man over eight years ago and we have been best of friends ever since. When I said best of friends I mean there is nothing about me or him we do not tell each other, ...
A. 6 November 2010: Have a backbone and tell him it's over. Then walk away, avoid all contact with him, ignore his phone calls, and pretty soon he'll find another affair or go back to his wife like he already does every day. Woman up.... (read in full...)
Am I crazy for not wanting my girlfriend to have guy friends
Q. Am i crazy for not wanting my girlfriend to have guy friends. she told me before that she doesnt want guy friends but she recently decided that she wants to start haging out with guys. she thinks i dont trust her but i do. We've been together 5 ...
A. 6 November 2010: For B.Shakey, it doesn't mean men have to act upon this desire..It's possible for a man and a woman to have a platonic relationship, it's about keeping your hormones in check. ... (read in full...)
We hooked up and he's told all of our friends about it!
Q. I started seeing this guy. When we got to the point where we hooked up, it was fun. So afterward, that's when things got complicated. It seems like thats all he wants from me now. I mean, he does make an attempt to be normal, but then he starts ...
A. 6 November 2010: I suppose he's never heard the saying " What happens in the bedroom stays behind closed doors". So because you guys have hooked up he thinks he has bragging rights. Jerk. Ditch him since he's using you for sex, and sharing details with anyone who ... (read in full...)
How can my friend talk to her boyfriend about this?
Q. So my friend asked me to ask you all for advice. Her boyfriend and her have been dating for 8 months. She feels recently that he isn't as into the relationship then he used to be. She has tried talking to him about it but he says "I don't want to...
A. 6 November 2010: You got the right idea..Guys don't do confrontations, at least guys that young, they can't be bothered to discuss their feelings or this relationship. They see no problem with the way it's going, I mean they're still together that's good enough, ... (read in full...)
Is my co-worker being friendly..or is it more to it?
Q. I have this really cute co-worker who i think might like me but I just don't know if I'm reading to much into things. we work in retail so we are in the same building but different areas. I started to notice that he often comes over into my area for ...
A. 6 November 2010: I think you're overanalyzing his every move. From your post I don't get anything that jumps out and says he's into you, just sounds like he's being goofy. If you want to take it further than just co-workers why don't you ask him to hang out after ... (read in full...)
I cheated on my wife with this girl...and now she's giving me a hard time...
Q. Dear All, I am very depressed because i have done a sin. I am married but was on a business trip for 3 months and befriended with a girl. She started loving me and started thinking about our marriage. I didn't tell her that i was already married....
A. 6 November 2010: Sadly, you should have thought about the consequences of society before you slept with this now tainted girl. Did she tell you she was going to kill herself? The only thing you can do is assure her if she kills herself whatever form of God you ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend said he loves me, yet he was kissing my best friend
Q. I've been going out with this guy for a couple months, but I caught him cheating on me. Worse part is that it was my best friend I saw him with. He was kissing her, and just yesterday he told me he loved me. So much for that. But sadly, I still ...
A. 6 November 2010: Well if he loves you so much why was he kissing your best friend? It takes 2 to tango, you're best friend had a hand in this too. If she was any kind of friend she wouldn't kiss your boyfriend. Best friend's boyfriends are off limits, every girl ... (read in full...)
Leave baggage secret?
Q. When I was younger, I didn't take dating so seriously so my subject was never a problem back then. Now that I'm a little older, I've been more interested in finding the right woman to settle down with. I've had a few different relationsh...
A. 6 November 2010: Maybe once you get to know a woman better on a personal level. Not right off the bat.."Hi, I'm so and so and my sister gave me my first hand job." Now, if you think it will interfere with your sex life, then I would share your story before hand. ... (read in full...)
Am I crazy for not wanting my girlfriend to have guy friends
Q. Am i crazy for not wanting my girlfriend to have guy friends. she told me before that she doesnt want guy friends but she recently decided that she wants to start haging out with guys. she thinks i dont trust her but i do. We've been together 5 ...
A. 5 November 2010: Do you have friends who are females? If you answered yes to this question, then it would be hypocritical for you to put a restriction on her friends..Regardless, you cannot tell your girlfriend who she can and can't be friends with, that's called ... (read in full...)
In love with a married man and he wants to marry me too!
Q. I am in so much pain because I don’t know what to do or who to talk to. I met this man over eight years ago and we have been best of friends ever since. When I said best of friends I mean there is nothing about me or him we do not tell each other, ...
A. 3 November 2010: How long has he been married? In order to marry you he has to be divorced from his wife..you've got a slim to none chance of that actually happening. He has to divorce his wife or vice versa, but I don't see her doing that seeing she's set on ... (read in full...)
Am I just crazy and paranoid or what?
Q. This may be a long description but you have to get the whole story. My boyfriend of 5 months and I met at work. He had a girlfriend at the time. We always flirted and had a good time when working together and we made each other laugh. One night he ...
A. 29 October 2010: I take a shower and lay down..especially if I'm dreading work, and want to pull back the covers go back to sleep.
Look, this obsessive, paranoia behavior is going to come to an end one day when he breaks up with you. I'm very surprised he's put... (read in full...)
Am I just crazy and paranoid or what?
Q. This may be a long description but you have to get the whole story. My boyfriend of 5 months and I met at work. He had a girlfriend at the time. We always flirted and had a good time when working together and we made each other laugh. One night he ...
A. 27 October 2010: Really OP? Women shed 50 to 100 hair follicles a day. And we all know hair gets everywhere, on your boyfriend, on his bed, in the bathroom..so could that hair gain some wind by your boyfriend walking to the shower? Hell yes. Stop being paranoid, or ... (read in full...)
Am I just crazy and paranoid or what?
Q. This may be a long description but you have to get the whole story. My boyfriend of 5 months and I met at work. He had a girlfriend at the time. We always flirted and had a good time when working together and we made each other laugh. One night he ...
A. 27 October 2010: A little psycho? A lotta psycho!
In the beginning of your post, it was a red flag he cheated on his girlfriend with you (you were retaliation sex), and telling you he loves you after 2 weeks (you know very well that loves takes time to blossom)... (read in full...)
How to keep him guessing.
Q. Girls, you know how guys say we're complex? Good news for you, they love it. Mystery is what turns a guy on the most. It's like a puzzle a game or a search, so how do you keep the search going when you are in a relationship with him? 1. During t...
A. 23 October 2010: Oh Kat, my dear. You have much to learn about boys, men when you get older. But I do like your cute article, let me give you some advice..what I have learned thus far.
1. You don't want to come across as a slut, making him think he's going to... (read in full...)
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