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What qualifies me to help you? Vast dating experience, especially in the LDR department, even an international on with an Aussie, broke hearts, had mine broken, been engaged once before, I know what a real friend is, seen the ugly side of divorce coming from a recently broken home myself, even went as far as to tip the odds to my side and use men only to toss them aside like yesterday's garbage like they do women, I know what it's like to almost give up hope on finding the perfect man when he's really only a few boyfriends away, and I'm starting to learn the ropes of married life. I also know a vast deal about the female and male reproductive system, and all about the mental struggles with infertility. On a side note, I'm the one who gives you tough love, I'm not on here to sugarcoat it or to tell you what you want to hear. I'm going to give it to you straight up, wouldn't you rather the truth?
-TOP 5 QUESTIONS I CAN'T STAND-
#1. Does this mean my teacher likes me?
Just because they're nice to you, offer extra help, and put a little gold star on your A+ paper doesn't mean they are in love with you.
#2. Could I be pregnant?
Have you not heard of a pregnancy test? Get off this website, and go to your local drugstore.
#3. I'm 14 and I want a baby?
Really? Me too! Oh wait I'm 28 and married. You're how old again?
#4. My husband loves porn more than me!
Maybe if you didn't let yourself go into the frumpy woman you have turned into then he wouldn't have to look at porn now would he? I recommend you get your rear to the salon for highlights, manicure, pedicure, tanning, toss the baggy tees and sweat pants for a wardrobe that fits, and a little makeup goes a long way. It's called basic woman maintenance in order to keep your man's eyes on you.
#5. Will we get back together, how can I get him to love me again?
Unfortunately, my crystal ball is broke at the moment and I just gave away the last of my love potion No. 9. Sorry.
MY GENERAL RULES OF THUMB (this should be common sense)
-No means no.
-Girls can ask out ask guys, this is a new generation.
-Unless you know sign language or are telepathic, you're going to have to talk to him/her.
-My "Don't ask, Don't tell" policy as is follows: Do not by any means volunteer your own sexual history, or ask your date/partner/wife/girlfriend their magic number (how many people they've slept with). If you find yourself being prompted to answer this question, politely tell them that's none of their business.
-Your past doesn't define who you are today. We grow, mature, age, and change as time passes.
-If you have to even ask random strangers on this website if you should have sex, then you're not ready for it.
-FWBs, fuck buddies, no strings attached, whatever you want to call it..is not a relationship don't get the 2 confused. In this case, sex=sex, not love.
-No trust=no relationship.
-It is normal for your husband/boyfriend to have friends of the opposite sex, do you not have male friends?
-LDRs can work, however they're not for everyone. You've got to have trust, communication, be faithful, and a lot of hobbies to keep yourself occupied. If you have trust issues, a case of being needy, clingy, problems staying faithful and are in a LDR don't be surprised when it doesn't work. I told you so.
- An ex is an ex for a reason. If you guys couldn't hack it as a couple the first 2 times what makes you think the third time is a charm?
-Going on a "break" is a nice way of breaking up.
-If you have sex with a man and he hasn't called you, or responded to your texts in weeks sorry to say but he was just after a piece of ass.
- Now unless he's getting blown up in Afghanistan, an on call ER doctor, or lying dead in a coffin then he's got no excuse for his poor or lack there of communication.
-You have a 12% chance of your married boyfriend leaving his wife and children.
-A man who is going through a divorce is still legally married. He's about to have an ex wife and you're wanting to get into a relationship with him? That's called a rebound.
-If you're a minor who's just found out she's pregnant, do me and everyone else on this site a favor..Tell your parents.
-Just because some one stares at you, it doesn't mean they like you. They could be staring at that booger hanging out of your nose.
-If you have a lump/bump/cyst/rash that looks green, has oozing puss, and itches like hell, but kinda looks like a STD then you had better consult your doctor. They went through 6 years of schooling and have a license to practice medicine, I think they would know better than random virtual strangers.
-Don't mix business with pleasure. Why? Because if you date your co-worker and in the event things turn sour then you're still stuck facing them 9-5, Mon-Fri. Awkward.
-No matter how hard you try, you can't change a person..they have to make that transformation themselves.
-When your boyfriend/girlfriend says they want space that doesn't mean you do the opposite and bombard them with calls/texts.
-As far as ultimatums go, don't try to make your boyfriend choose between you, his female friends, or weed. You won't like the results.
-If you're 13-17, I'm sorry but you haven't a clue what love really is. You have minimal dating experience confined to the high school dating pool which are nothing but horny boys. Their facial hair doesn't make them a man. It's only till you get out into the real world, a vast dating pool is when you learn the definition of love. So, go on thinking you and 13 year old Tommy will go on to get married, have 3 kids, and a two story house with a white picket fence. I don't expect you to listen, I'm 28 and married, what do I know? There's a reason why everyone says it won't last..because it doesn't.
-The average penis size erect is 6 inches, 4.85 inches. Women like average to even a little below average. We're not going to bust out a tape measure and measure it to make sure it's up to our standards. We just want to have sex, so enough complaining about your size let's get down and dirty.
- The legal age of consent in the U.S. is 16-18 varying oer state, in Britain it's 16. I think it's safe to say most parts of the world (unless you live in a tribe with their own form of government) the legal age to consent to sex is 16. So yes, all you minors below the age of consent are committing a crime when you engage in sexual activity. The age is set that high for a reason, you are not above the law. |
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He dumped me. Why doesn't he move on?
Q. My boyfriend dumped me not too long ago. (2 months) Im still hurt but moved in with dignity and havent looked back. However he is contacting everyone we know mutually and making childish stories up such as Im harassing him. It isnt just the ...
A. 20 April 2011: Block him from FB. ... (read in full...)
Does he love me? He walked out of my life for 5 months
Q. Would you say that a man loves you when he walked out of your life for 5 months. He promised that one day you would both be together, but his wife tried to kill herself and he found out and went back to her. so he just walked out of my life and no ...
A. 11 November 2010: His first mistake was staying for the pregnancy, he could have got out then..then sorted out visitations right after the divorce was finalized. But like so many, he decides to stay because he feels obligated to make it work for the child. The child ... (read in full...)
Am I just crazy and paranoid or what?
Q. This may be a long description but you have to get the whole story. My boyfriend of 5 months and I met at work. He had a girlfriend at the time. We always flirted and had a good time when working together and we made each other laugh. One night he ...
A. 9 November 2010: How considerate of him to wait to cheat on you. You didn't really know who he was, or you did and just ignored it, living in denial.
My point is it happens...learn from this experience and move on. From now on don't dare date a man that cheats o... (read in full...)
Am I just crazy and paranoid or what?
Q. This may be a long description but you have to get the whole story. My boyfriend of 5 months and I met at work. He had a girlfriend at the time. We always flirted and had a good time when working together and we made each other laugh. One night he ...
A. 9 November 2010: Well OP I'm sorry to hear that..but what do you expect from a guy who cheated on his gf with you..then proceeds to have a relationship with you starting off with NO TRUST. Why did you get in a relationship with someone you couldn't trust at all? ... (read in full...)
Am I just crazy and paranoid or what?
Q. This may be a long description but you have to get the whole story. My boyfriend of 5 months and I met at work. He had a girlfriend at the time. We always flirted and had a good time when working together and we made each other laugh. One night he ...
A. 7 November 2010: Not to be harsh but did it ever occur to you he's not cheating? That this paranoia has taken you completely over and you are imagining shit? You have this constant fear that he's cheating so you're playing CSI combing thru his carpet with a fine ... (read in full...)
Facebook lie has gotten out of hand
Q. So I made a fake fb when I was like younger and lied about my age and name and put a fake picture...well I started that just for fun, but Never stopped using (about 2 years later aka now) I fell in love with a guy that I started talking to... He ...
A. 3 November 2010: Yeah but he doesn't know that. He doesn't know when you're telling the truth or when you're lying since you have lied to him for so long.
Go your separate ways, you screwed up. Just chalk it up as a mistake and tell the truth next time. No one l... (read in full...)
Am I just crazy and paranoid or what?
Q. This may be a long description but you have to get the whole story. My boyfriend of 5 months and I met at work. He had a girlfriend at the time. We always flirted and had a good time when working together and we made each other laugh. One night he ...
A. 29 October 2010: I take a shower and lay down..especially if I'm dreading work, and want to pull back the covers go back to sleep.
Look, this obsessive, paranoia behavior is going to come to an end one day when he breaks up with you. I'm very surprised he's put... (read in full...)
What should a guy do about hair down below?
Q. what exactly should a guy do with his pubic hair? i seem to have alot, although i'm not sure how much alot really is... Do any girls have some advice or suggestions?...
A. 28 October 2010: Trimmed especially the ball area, those hairs tend to get pretty long and out of control..but not shaved because you don't want to knick the crown jewels.... (read in full...)
For the ladies - how long does it take for you to orgasm?
Q. i was wondering, this is for the ladies. How long does it take for you to orgasm?. I know everyone if different but surly there must be some connection. This is either Oral or vaginal i guess anal too. Or better how long (time wise) do you prefer ...
A. 28 October 2010: 15-20 minutes sometimes never..It depends if I'm really in the mood and the positions I'm put in. If he puts my legs on shoulders and goes to town then there's a set of fireworks going off. Now, obviously if he cums in a matter of 10 minutes then ... (read in full...)
I need to get rid of this young girl before my wife finds out!
Q. I need help getting rid of a girl of a young girl in my life... This is causing me much stress and I don't know what to do.. Here is a little background... I'm in my mid 40s, been married for 20 years and have two teenage daughters. My w...
A. 28 October 2010: How much longer you going to drag out this affair? This Lynne isn't dumb she knows what she's doing. Your wife will find out when she looks at the bank statements so if you're not going to come clean you better have a lie that pans out. WIthin time ... (read in full...)
Pregnant, and my partner doesn't know and has another girlfriend.
Q. I am a teenage girl and I'm pregnant. I haven't told the father that he has a baby on the way because I don't know how to and he already has a girlfriend. How should I tell him that he is going to have a baby?...
A. 28 October 2010: You're going to have to tell him sooner or later..he does have a right to know since the child is a part of him. It's his choice whether or not he wants to be a part of the child's life, regardless he needs to support his responsibility. I'm talking ... (read in full...)
What should I do with my girlfriend?
Q. I'm 29 years old and I met my girlfriend 5 months ago. The question is what should I do with her? Situation is as follows: She has 2 sons (5 and 7 years old) and she separated from her husband about a year ago. They grow their children "togeth...
A. 28 October 2010: WIth all your problems OP and this lack of trust..I most definitely wouldn't bring a child into the mix. ... (read in full...)
What does it feel like to have someone you consider a life partner?
Q. What does it feel like to be with someone who you want to spend the rest of your life with and to have them want to be with you too?...
A. 28 October 2010: A sense of accomplishment. The search for "the one" is now complete. ... (read in full...)
Facebook lie has gotten out of hand
Q. So I made a fake fb when I was like younger and lied about my age and name and put a fake picture...well I started that just for fun, but Never stopped using (about 2 years later aka now) I fell in love with a guy that I started talking to... He ...
A. 28 October 2010: You lied and made up a completely fictional person this guy likes. Since you made a false Facebook, how do you know this guy is who he says he is?
It might be a good idea to come clean about your age and your appearance. However, you've never me... (read in full...)
How do I find a foreplay/fetish partner?
Q. Hi, I have a fetish for cotton, namely cotton petticoats/underskirts. I also like foreplay and doing it partially dressed...I'm not interested in intercourse. I've been attempting to look for a partner to share my desires with, but almost ever...
A. 28 October 2010: This may see a little out there and if they still allow it..Why don't you post a thread on Craigslist under personals? That way you can find ladies in your area who share the same fetish and is looking for some oral action. I will say it doesn't ... (read in full...)
Its insane for me to still love this guy but I do
Q. Basically I'm heartbroken... There was a guy I gave two years of my life too, devoted pretty much... I saw nothing but him in my life... He wasn't the best piece of work to be honest... He made me feel like all my friends were out to get me, like ...
A. 28 October 2010: You're 13-15, you lost your innocence to this loser, he pushed you down a flight of stairs, he abused you (did you report it?), he cheated on you numerous times, and know he has a new victim. One strong girl you are, to endure that kind of abuse, ... (read in full...)
Jealously to a whole new level
Q. Me and my Girlfriend have been actively in a relationship for a little over 2 years now. However we have expirenced a few problems in the relationship. The main of which being after a drunken text on my part to the wrong party, she has completely ...
A. 28 October 2010: Wow, besides accusing you of still doing the vices you have given up, she goes through your phone, emails, and even answers your phone. Not to mention she's stooped to the level of calling your exs whores just to make herself feel better. By which ... (read in full...)
He tried to hit me and then spit in my face!
Q. Here's the thing, We had a argument which lead to him trying to physically throw me out, and then when i started to fight back he spit on my face. I love him but i feel like he went too far and now i don't think i can stay with him. He said sorry ...
A. 28 October 2010: I second that motion..Leave. Any man who tries to hit you then hocks a luggie in your face has no respect for you whatsoever. All the "I'm sorry"'s in the world will not redeem him of his filthy action.... (read in full...)
Does he love me? He walked out of my life for 5 months
Q. Would you say that a man loves you when he walked out of your life for 5 months. He promised that one day you would both be together, but his wife tried to kill herself and he found out and went back to her. so he just walked out of my life and no ...
A. 28 October 2010: A married man walked out on his affair because his wife tried to kill herself? How can he promise you will be together again one day? Can he tell the future? You may be waiting for that one day until end of time. So he's back I'm guessing his wife ... (read in full...)
I want my married lover to take off his wedding ring when he's out with me
Q. ok yall i have been dating this man for a least a years and some months! however our relationship is getting deeper and deeper everyday! when the two some us started dating we both agree to no feeling no attachment ! now that time change words have ...
A. 28 October 2010: The only way to deal with a love affair is to end it. I know you don't want to hear that, but I haven't called you a home wrecking whore. Still reading?
This is that man's second affair, what does that tell you? You're not his first and you're s... (read in full...)
I don't want to spoil his new-found fun with his long lost daughter but how do I get him to see our daughter needs quality time too?
Q. Hi my husband of three years, has a daughter by a previous relationship and hasnt seen her for 5 years. The Ex now says its ok for him to see her. I am ok with that, but in the 3 years we've been married he has worked almost every week 6 or 7 days a ...
A. 27 October 2010: Exactly, plan something to where he can take out both daughters..Like going to a kid friendly place..In America we have Chucky Cheese with arcade games, skiball, jumping into that pit of plastic balls, stuffing your face with pizza, they can collect ... (read in full...)
Was I just second best?
Q. Ok, so i was a bit bored the other day and decided to look through the guy im seeing's facebook not to check up on him or anythin just out of curiosity really. So anyway we've been seein each other since the beginning of the year but we started ...
A. 27 October 2010: The best solution I can offer you is to ask..Next time you're at dinner, hanging out ask him," So we have been seeing each other since the beginning of the year, I'm a little confused as to what our status is? Boyfriend girlfriend?" Somewhere along ... (read in full...)
Was my wife just joking about us becoming swingers?
Q. my wife and i were talking about our sex the other night and i said maybee we need to spice things up. she says maybe we should be swingers. i asked if thats what she wants she said yes. a min later she says she was just kidding. i just dont know if ...
A. 27 October 2010: Sounds like a joke to me. But then again, it couldn't hurt to ask. And I too wouldn't advise taking that route.... (read in full...)
Military boyfriend out of touch and I'm beside myself!
Q. My boyfriend is in the military, and last week he told me he was going away for a week, now he's out of touch and I'm beside myself. He's turned off his phone and not answering any messages I've sent him, as we usually message every day and I have ...
A. 27 October 2010: It depends where he was going for a week. If it was for training, then there are certain programs that take their phone and lock it up for the next 2 weeks of training. (that happened to my husband) Or it's possible he isn't getting signal in the ... (read in full...)
Should I keep my baby? It's all up to me....
Q. Ive been with my boyfriend for 6 months, and now im 4 weeks pregnant. Im 19 years old and I don't feel I'm ready to be a mother. I want an abortion but I'm scared to kill my baby, most of all, I'm afraid he won't be there during and after the ...
A. 27 October 2010: No one on here can answer that question for you. It's your decision, what do you feel is best? Can you afford to have this baby if he isn't going to take part on the child's life? You can get on state aid, and nab him for child support for being a ... (read in full...)
Should I walk out of her life? She doesn't want an LDR and has a boyfriend!
Q. So, i fell for this girl and it was the biggest mistake of my life because when she found it hard to have a long distance relationship she broke up with me. 3 days later she got a new boyfriend and it hurt me, really did kill me inside that i ...
A. 27 October 2010: If you stay there's no telling how long you will be waiting? Maybe till the end of time. The thing you need to realize is that you are long distance..she can't handle a LDR..to top it off she got a replacement 3 days later after she dumped you! It's ... (read in full...)
Am I just crazy and paranoid or what?
Q. This may be a long description but you have to get the whole story. My boyfriend of 5 months and I met at work. He had a girlfriend at the time. We always flirted and had a good time when working together and we made each other laugh. One night he ...
A. 27 October 2010: Really OP? Women shed 50 to 100 hair follicles a day. And we all know hair gets everywhere, on your boyfriend, on his bed, in the bathroom..so could that hair gain some wind by your boyfriend walking to the shower? Hell yes. Stop being paranoid, or ... (read in full...)
Could my dad be cheating on my mom?
Q. I was browsing through my dad's phone and saw a msg from a woman in our church giving him her banking details and said " i luv u c u on d....." What does that mean? Is he cheating on mom....
A. 27 October 2010: Not enough evidence to draw that conclusion..Even if he was it's not your place to tell your mother. You would be inserted in the middle of a mess you won't be able to get yourself out of. Divorce is nasty enough. Like everyone else said it could be ... (read in full...)
In the heat of the argument I told him he has a tiny penis! I know I have screwed up, so how do I fix this?
Q. Ok so ive been seeing this guy for a while now almost a year. He told me before that he always thought he had a small penis (he had been drinking, in fact i dont know if he remembers telling me that) but hes not small hes like 6.5 in. Ive been told ...
A. 27 October 2010: Just to confirm..I called a guy small one day, bad move on the chess board. He had a complex about it the rest of our short lived relationship.
On a side note, your boyfriend is actually average..like Griffo stated if he actually googled it consu... (read in full...)
Our anniversary plans have turned into a fight, should I apologize?
Q. My bf and I had a petty argument this week while organising a weekend away for our anniversary, and he was really stressed out at work and I tried to help, but in these circumstances he is the better one to plan holidays as he knows who, what and ...
A. 27 October 2010: Nope let him apologize to you, you did nothing wrong..he had to stoop to name calling and take his anger out on you when clearly it's the other venue's fault.
I say take the other lodge trip and have a weekend getaway by yourself, or better y... (read in full...)
I don't get any attention from him....am I wasting my time with this guy?
Q. Dear Cupid, I need to know whether I should stay or go, my boyfriend of almost 4 years just doesn't seem too interested in trying to make our relationship work. A few months ago we stopped having sex and he stopped wanting it and so did I, I thought ...
A. 27 October 2010: Ouch, yeah that's one thing you don't do unless he has put a ring on your finger..But now you know. The last idea I had is couples counseling if you wanted to give that a go..It would be a great way to bring what's eating him or taking him over to ... (read in full...)
I don't get any attention from him....am I wasting my time with this guy?
Q. Dear Cupid, I need to know whether I should stay or go, my boyfriend of almost 4 years just doesn't seem too interested in trying to make our relationship work. A few months ago we stopped having sex and he stopped wanting it and so did I, I thought ...
A. 27 October 2010: Sadly you are..You're trying to rekindle the spark that died months ago. If the sex has stopped, you're sleeping in another bedroom, he won't pay attention to you, or even address the issue, and he doesn't go on a date night with you but his friends ... (read in full...)
He doesn't help with our daughter much...what should I do?
Q. Ok, So I (26) have been in a relationship with my boyfriend (25) for 2.5yrs. We live together and we have a 15 month old daughter. It seems every 3 months he gets very irritated and will pick a fight with me over something small, but it wi...
A. 27 October 2010: In no way are you overreacting or being petty..your boyfriend has the balls to throw you and his child out on the streets? I'm appalled by that, I wonder how he treated you during your pregnancy. He's mentally abusing you and isn't stepping up to ... (read in full...)
I want his phone number..should I just ask?
Q. There's a guy in my chemistry class that I really like, and I'm pretty sure he likes me back. We sneak looks at each other in class and always sit right next to each other in lab. Today I was with him and another friend and we skipped lab- instead ...
A. 27 October 2010: It maybe a possibility..just to get a chance to talk to you. Ask him what he's doing this weekend, and if he's not busy..why don't you suggest going out to grab a bite to eat? Then you exchange numbers. Easy as pie.... (read in full...)
Does he care at all?
Q. hello hope you all can help... ive been with my boyfriend for 3 years... he says im unaffectionate (i am such a loving person but gave up trying because he is non affectionate) ...if fact my question is this .. Ive always tried in the rela...
A. 27 October 2010: He can't support you through the best of times let alone the worst.
This jerk cuts you down, stoops to name calling, throws personal matters in your face, couldn't be bothered to pick you up when your car broke down and offers you no pity or ... (read in full...)
Boyfriend doesn't kiss, want to hug or have kids..what is up with this?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together for almost a year now. Throughout the time we've been together, I've learned several things about him. 1. He won't kiss me until the day we get married, if we do. 2. He hates hugs. He'll hug me when we're ...
A. 27 October 2010: He's going to grow up to be one lonely guy.... (read in full...)
He dumped me. Why doesn't he move on?
Q. My boyfriend dumped me not too long ago. (2 months) Im still hurt but moved in with dignity and havent looked back. However he is contacting everyone we know mutually and making childish stories up such as Im harassing him. It isnt just the ...
A. 27 October 2010: What a psycho! I would change my number if I were you and ignore the comments he makes about you to mutual friends..you can't make him stop but it makes him look rather sad carrying on about you and very petty for badmouthing you.
I don't kn... (read in full...)
Should I go for the long distance guy or overlook my feelings for him and try harder on my relationship with my boyfriend?
Q. Okay, so i have a boyfriend who i have been with for 2 weeks, but weve liked each other for a while. i really like him and want to be with him and all my friends and my family likes him. he helped me through my last relationship with my cheating ...
A. 27 October 2010: Like fishdish pointed out if you're struggling with a 2 week relationship you will most definitely struggle with a LDR. You couldn't handle the LDR in the beginning because of the distance, what makes you think you can cut it this time? At your age ... (read in full...)
Boyfriend doesn't kiss, want to hug or have kids..what is up with this?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together for almost a year now. Throughout the time we've been together, I've learned several things about him. 1. He won't kiss me until the day we get married, if we do. 2. He hates hugs. He'll hug me when we're ...
A. 27 October 2010: Those are his beliefs and he's entitled to them. Frankly, you're too young to be discussing marriage and children..save that for when you're well in your 20s and finished with college.
Now, I suggest you break up with him because he can't gi... (read in full...)
I don't like it when people call my girl sweet names
Q. I have this girl and she's really wonderful in every way. Just an issue is that I am NOT sure but I wonder if she's cheating I really doubt it because she's never like that. It makes me jealous when people go all over her and call her "my ...
A. 27 October 2010: I second that..you can't control what people say to your girlfriend. Hun is a common term, there are people I know that call everyone "hun".."Baby" again a common term, maybe not as widely used as "hun" but nonetheless still used in present times. ... (read in full...)
I feel used after sex
Q. Okay well I'm 14 and me and my friend are "talking" to these two guys who are best friends and my guy who is 16 lives with my friends guy who is 15. Well we are having sex on and off and I give my guy blowjobs all the time. Well after we have sex he ...
A. 27 October 2010: If you feel used, then you're getting used. You're just "talking" to him? You're not even boyfriend/girlfriend and you've already jumped into bed with him. Why don't you ask him where you stand with him? Suggest a relationship and seems what he ... (read in full...)
How can I use my personality being reserved to my advantage?
Q. I am a college student who has come from the UK to America, and I just don't know what to do romantically. I am rather shy and anhedonic, so I have difficulty just relaxing and having fun with women. There is one girl I really like who's really ...
A. 27 October 2010: Wait a minute...You're from the UK, came to America to attend college. and you don't have a girlfriend yet? If I was that girl I'd be in love the moment you spoke with that lovely accent. Well there very well could be a cultural difference is dating ... (read in full...)
Am I just crazy and paranoid or what?
Q. This may be a long description but you have to get the whole story. My boyfriend of 5 months and I met at work. He had a girlfriend at the time. We always flirted and had a good time when working together and we made each other laugh. One night he ...
A. 27 October 2010: A little psycho? A lotta psycho!
In the beginning of your post, it was a red flag he cheated on his girlfriend with you (you were retaliation sex), and telling you he loves you after 2 weeks (you know very well that loves takes time to blossom)... (read in full...)
Are the vibes I'm getting from him correct and he really DOES like me?
Q. Dear Cupid, Im 18 years old, casually dating a guy that's 20. Now one thing im unsure about is whether he is actually interested in me. I met him at a friend's birthday and we got on well as friends so we swapped Blackberry pins so that we co...
A. 27 October 2010: To me it sounds like he's interested, although he could have thrown in a kiss so we could be 100% sure. You've already had 2 dates, and he's talking about a third one. He's followed up and called you after these past 2 dates plus there's been ... (read in full...)
Hopelessly single! Should I call my long distance interest instead of texting him as I'm in his town?
Q. I live in a small town where dating is a bit of a challenge. The population of decent single men is pretty limited. So I decided to take a risk and try a popular online dating website. I began emailing a guy who is pretty great. We then exchanged ...
A. 27 October 2010: Have you not talked to him on the phone at all? So texting and emailing is the only contact you've had..I'd say if he didn't take the chance to meet you when you were in his neck of the woods then he isn't who he says he is. Or he could have been ... (read in full...)
I'm 12 weeks pregnant and my husband is cheating. Do I leave him or stay because of the baby?
Q. Hi,I am 12 weeks pregnant and my husband is cheating with one of he's co-worker and she is married too I dont know who's the jerk, but this problem is driving me crazy I just don't know what to do. I must leave him or stay cuz of the baby?...thanks ...
A. 27 October 2010: Don't stay together because of the baby..It will only make for a nastier divorce in which your child will see down the road. He's pretty heartless to cheat on you when your pregnant with his child. In my opinion, all it takes is one time for my ... (read in full...)
What do people recommend as a first toy to introduce into the bedroom?
Q. Hi everyone. Been going out with my girl 10 months now and I'm pleased to say we have an amazing sex life! As time's gone by we've become increasingly adventurous and I'm keen to do something exciting for her to take it up another notch and ...
A. 27 October 2010: Yes! I recommend a vibrator..Or if you guys take a trip to your local sex shop which is super fun and ask them what toy they recommend for couples. There's this one, I think it's more of a cock ring that pleases the both of you. ... (read in full...)
Its hard enough being a single mother to one, I don't know if I can do it with two!
Q. okay so im 20 years old and i already have an 1yr old daughter... i just found out today that i am pregnant again ..n the guy that i was with already has a little girl with a another woman n doesnt see her at all he drinks alot n likes to go to the ...
A. 27 October 2010: Well can your mother take custody of this baby seeing as you can't afford another child? Even if you tell him, he can deny all he wants but it will come down to him taking a paternity test then you taking legal action against him to get child ... (read in full...)
I need to get rid of this young girl before my wife finds out!
Q. I need help getting rid of a girl of a young girl in my life... This is causing me much stress and I don't know what to do.. Here is a little background... I'm in my mid 40s, been married for 20 years and have two teenage daughters. My w...
A. 26 October 2010: You don't have much time before your wife finds out..You got yourself in this mess, and you're the only one who get yourself out. You're going to have to tell your wife as soon as possible, before she catches you, or Lynne tells your wife. What ... (read in full...)
What should I do with my girlfriend?
Q. I'm 29 years old and I met my girlfriend 5 months ago. The question is what should I do with her? Situation is as follows: She has 2 sons (5 and 7 years old) and she separated from her husband about a year ago. They grow their children "togeth...
A. 26 October 2010: Is she even legally separated from her husband? What about a divorce? Because she isn't divorced, it leads me to believe she is not completely done with this marriage. Of course he will never be out of her life due to the children they have ... (read in full...)
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