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What qualifies me to help you? Vast dating experience, especially in the LDR department, even an international on with an Aussie, broke hearts, had mine broken, been engaged once before, I know what a real friend is, seen the ugly side of divorce coming from a recently broken home myself, even went as far as to tip the odds to my side and use men only to toss them aside like yesterday's garbage like they do women, I know what it's like to almost give up hope on finding the perfect man when he's really only a few boyfriends away, and I'm starting to learn the ropes of married life. I also know a vast deal about the female and male reproductive system, and all about the mental struggles with infertility. On a side note, I'm the one who gives you tough love, I'm not on here to sugarcoat it or to tell you what you want to hear. I'm going to give it to you straight up, wouldn't you rather the truth?
-TOP 5 QUESTIONS I CAN'T STAND-
#1. Does this mean my teacher likes me?
Just because they're nice to you, offer extra help, and put a little gold star on your A+ paper doesn't mean they are in love with you.
#2. Could I be pregnant?
Have you not heard of a pregnancy test? Get off this website, and go to your local drugstore.
#3. I'm 14 and I want a baby?
Really? Me too! Oh wait I'm 28 and married. You're how old again?
#4. My husband loves porn more than me!
Maybe if you didn't let yourself go into the frumpy woman you have turned into then he wouldn't have to look at porn now would he? I recommend you get your rear to the salon for highlights, manicure, pedicure, tanning, toss the baggy tees and sweat pants for a wardrobe that fits, and a little makeup goes a long way. It's called basic woman maintenance in order to keep your man's eyes on you.
#5. Will we get back together, how can I get him to love me again?
Unfortunately, my crystal ball is broke at the moment and I just gave away the last of my love potion No. 9. Sorry.
MY GENERAL RULES OF THUMB (this should be common sense)
-No means no.
-Girls can ask out ask guys, this is a new generation.
-Unless you know sign language or are telepathic, you're going to have to talk to him/her.
-My "Don't ask, Don't tell" policy as is follows: Do not by any means volunteer your own sexual history, or ask your date/partner/wife/girlfriend their magic number (how many people they've slept with). If you find yourself being prompted to answer this question, politely tell them that's none of their business.
-Your past doesn't define who you are today. We grow, mature, age, and change as time passes.
-If you have to even ask random strangers on this website if you should have sex, then you're not ready for it.
-FWBs, fuck buddies, no strings attached, whatever you want to call it..is not a relationship don't get the 2 confused. In this case, sex=sex, not love.
-No trust=no relationship.
-It is normal for your husband/boyfriend to have friends of the opposite sex, do you not have male friends?
-LDRs can work, however they're not for everyone. You've got to have trust, communication, be faithful, and a lot of hobbies to keep yourself occupied. If you have trust issues, a case of being needy, clingy, problems staying faithful and are in a LDR don't be surprised when it doesn't work. I told you so.
- An ex is an ex for a reason. If you guys couldn't hack it as a couple the first 2 times what makes you think the third time is a charm?
-Going on a "break" is a nice way of breaking up.
-If you have sex with a man and he hasn't called you, or responded to your texts in weeks sorry to say but he was just after a piece of ass.
- Now unless he's getting blown up in Afghanistan, an on call ER doctor, or lying dead in a coffin then he's got no excuse for his poor or lack there of communication.
-You have a 12% chance of your married boyfriend leaving his wife and children.
-A man who is going through a divorce is still legally married. He's about to have an ex wife and you're wanting to get into a relationship with him? That's called a rebound.
-If you're a minor who's just found out she's pregnant, do me and everyone else on this site a favor..Tell your parents.
-Just because some one stares at you, it doesn't mean they like you. They could be staring at that booger hanging out of your nose.
-If you have a lump/bump/cyst/rash that looks green, has oozing puss, and itches like hell, but kinda looks like a STD then you had better consult your doctor. They went through 6 years of schooling and have a license to practice medicine, I think they would know better than random virtual strangers.
-Don't mix business with pleasure. Why? Because if you date your co-worker and in the event things turn sour then you're still stuck facing them 9-5, Mon-Fri. Awkward.
-No matter how hard you try, you can't change a person..they have to make that transformation themselves.
-When your boyfriend/girlfriend says they want space that doesn't mean you do the opposite and bombard them with calls/texts.
-As far as ultimatums go, don't try to make your boyfriend choose between you, his female friends, or weed. You won't like the results.
-If you're 13-17, I'm sorry but you haven't a clue what love really is. You have minimal dating experience confined to the high school dating pool which are nothing but horny boys. Their facial hair doesn't make them a man. It's only till you get out into the real world, a vast dating pool is when you learn the definition of love. So, go on thinking you and 13 year old Tommy will go on to get married, have 3 kids, and a two story house with a white picket fence. I don't expect you to listen, I'm 28 and married, what do I know? There's a reason why everyone says it won't last..because it doesn't.
-The average penis size erect is 6 inches, 4.85 inches. Women like average to even a little below average. We're not going to bust out a tape measure and measure it to make sure it's up to our standards. We just want to have sex, so enough complaining about your size let's get down and dirty.
- The legal age of consent in the U.S. is 16-18 varying oer state, in Britain it's 16. I think it's safe to say most parts of the world (unless you live in a tribe with their own form of government) the legal age to consent to sex is 16. So yes, all you minors below the age of consent are committing a crime when you engage in sexual activity. The age is set that high for a reason, you are not above the law. |
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Is this normal, not to be able to climax this way?
Q. does anyone out there have any trouble reaching orgasm's ??? I don't understand why I have this problem..My boyfriend will go down on me and it feels good but i rarely reach orgasm this way or any way..I think my urges and sensitivity in that area ...
A. 16 November 2010: Keep working on the solo acts..if not like I said look into decent vibrators. Before I used them I never had an orgasm, then after a while they're all I used. Who needs a man, then? After a while, I stopped using them then tried the good old manual ... (read in full...)
She was pressured into doing something with another guy, should I end it or stay?
Q. my girlfriend was pressured in to sucking another boy's d**k, she lied to me when i asked about it but she has now told me the truth and i dont know what to do. shoud i end it or stay?...
A. 16 November 2010: Let her parents deal with her suicide attempts and threats. It's out of your hands now, I suggest you give her a little space. Hopefully, her parents get her the psychological help she needs. ... (read in full...)
He throws paper at me, does that me he's interested?
Q. lost password to account before , now i remembered. so reposting this under here :) thanks if you reply. Hi i am 14yrs old i am NOT new to dating, just new to flirting. saying last time i had many BFs and i wasn't very confident ..now i am but...
A. 15 November 2010: talking to him, asking open ended questions that make him talk and get comfortable with you. Laughing, smiling, hanging on his every word. ... (read in full...)
Why does this 40 year old man want my virginity?
Q. I've been speaking with a 40 year old man for about 4 months on the internet. Don't tell me about the fact that I'm 18 and he could be my dad. I am aware of that. That's not the advice I'm seeking. Or tell me that he's going through a midlife crisis ...
A. 10 November 2010: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/why-would-he-want-to-be-with-someone.html
Looks like here's a bit of background.... (read in full...)
She was pressured into doing something with another guy, should I end it or stay?
Q. my girlfriend was pressured in to sucking another boy's d**k, she lied to me when i asked about it but she has now told me the truth and i dont know what to do. shoud i end it or stay?...
A. 10 November 2010: This isn't Romeo and Juliet, honey. If she's cutting her wrists, that's very serious meaning she's contemplating suicide..in which you need to tell her parents immediately. ... (read in full...)
Why does this 40 year old man want my virginity?
Q. I've been speaking with a 40 year old man for about 4 months on the internet. Don't tell me about the fact that I'm 18 and he could be my dad. I am aware of that. That's not the advice I'm seeking. Or tell me that he's going through a midlife crisis ...
A. 10 November 2010: He is but he isn't..He could date women more his age but he chooses to go after one who is significantly younger and inexperienced....Again as many have stated the creepy factor. Any girl gets dumped around the "prove your love" stage inexperienced ... (read in full...)
I'm average so why talk about it?
Q. I have an average size penis ok, I used to be realy confident in myself UNTIL my girlfriend kind of let me know how large her ex was. I was like oh no and look at me. Iv turned so insecure now. Only yesterday her friend slept with a lad and I asked ...
A. 10 November 2010: How did she kind of let you know her ex was bigger? If her ex was so fantastic in the sack, don't you think she would be with him still instead of you? So I'm going to point out that you're probably better in bed than him, and size isn't all it's ... (read in full...)
I keep finding his ex's stuff around the house!
Q. I have been dating G for almost 3 years. We are engaged to get married in January. While cleaning his house because I'm moving in, I found many personal items of his former live-in girlfriend. We discussed and I felt since they were her childho...
A. 10 November 2010: He's offering her sofa set back to her, I don't see where that's a problem. Now, there doesn't need to be 10-12 emails exchanged over it..either she wants it back or not. Personally, I would take all of her things she would want back put it in a box ... (read in full...)
How can I ask her out on a date if we only text?
Q. I met this girl, "Michelle" back at the beginning of the semester and we met through a mutual friend. She and I have recently began texting... a lot. Everyday for a decent amount of time.. 1, 2, one time 4 hours straight. She and I talk about ...
A. 10 November 2010: Why not ask her out in a text? Texting is the new calling! You have her number, are interested, but haven't mustered up the courage to ask her out. Stop making excuses and just ask whether you call or text, put this plan into motion!... (read in full...)
How can I ask her out on a date if we only text?
Q. I met this girl, "Michelle" back at the beginning of the semester and we met through a mutual friend. She and I have recently began texting... a lot. Everyday for a decent amount of time.. 1, 2, one time 4 hours straight. She and I talk about ...
A. 10 November 2010: Why not ask her out in a text? Texting is the new calling! You have her number, are interested, but haven't mustered up the courage to ask her out. Stop making excuses and just ask whether you call or text, but this plan into motion!... (read in full...)
We're currently "on a break" but I think she might be considering another guy.
Q. Recently, my girlfriend of two years told me we needed to go on a break. Currently we have a LDR; we go to different colleges, but live in the same hometown so we get to spend our summers/holidays together. I suppose its not that long of a ...
A. 10 November 2010: Did you specify the duration of this break? I see the factors of this being a LDR playing into this reason for this break as well as this new friend confessing his feelings. Of course she's confused, there's you who she has been with for so long but ... (read in full...)
Do I wait for the one I really want, or should I move on?
Q. Hello, im 15 years old and i'm having some boy issues. please help me? There is this boy 'C' i have liked since march of this year. We went on a school trip and he told me he liked me, problem was is that he had a girlfriend at the time. He kisse...
A. 10 November 2010: Why settle for B for the time being, just to have a boyfriend? I agree talk to C again, he said he still fancies you..act on what little feeling he has left for you. However, if he doesn't want to get into a relationship, friends is better than ... (read in full...)
I feel like his ex wife is lurking around the corner!
Q. Me and my boyfriend are in a complicated situation. He is much older than I am and is technically married as in separated. The other day we were joking about stuff when his ex came up and I said I hated how I felt she was always just lurking in the ...
A. 10 November 2010: Well how likely is he to hold onto you? There's quite a considerable age gap between you two. Now, if he's not going to go back to her then why not make it official with a divorce? Basically you're sleeping with a married man, so you should be ... (read in full...)
He throws paper at me, does that me he's interested?
Q. lost password to account before , now i remembered. so reposting this under here :) thanks if you reply. Hi i am 14yrs old i am NOT new to dating, just new to flirting. saying last time i had many BFs and i wasn't very confident ..now i am but...
A. 10 November 2010: For the record I meant, "mean"..Sorry aunts, and uncles.
For OP,
Well hon just because he tosses paper like everyone else doesn't mean he's flirting. Instead of watching him why don't you talk to him, get to know him better?... (read in full...)
I can't get past him having unprotected sex with his ex.
Q. I would like to thank you in advance for reading this and thinking of any type of advice for me. Here goes ... our history: derek and i dated in high school for 2 years, we were each other's first love and first time. i was absolutely infat...
A. 10 November 2010: You don't get over it..you can't forgive him for this action. Mind you it happened when you two were broken up so technically he didn't cheat.
You two make up then you break up, which is it? Pick one or the other, either you can hack it at this ... (read in full...)
Why does this 40 year old man want my virginity?
Q. I've been speaking with a 40 year old man for about 4 months on the internet. Don't tell me about the fact that I'm 18 and he could be my dad. I am aware of that. That's not the advice I'm seeking. Or tell me that he's going through a midlife crisis ...
A. 10 November 2010: What does a 40 year old man want with an 18 year old? Your virginity. He likes the fact that you're pure, tight, untainted, innocent, and not broken in..
Watch yourself.... (read in full...)
He kisses me only when no one is looking.
Q. Dear cupid, there is a guy i like and i know he likes me too, we have gone on a few dates and shared a few kisses but they are always when no one is looking and he doesn't want us to be in a relationship but he says we are definitely more than ...
A. 10 November 2010: I agree, it sounds like he has a girlfriend that he's cheating on. If he likes you then he would ask you out, right? You're either boyfriend/girlfriend or you're friends. There's no such thing as more than friends, unless you add sex then you're ... (read in full...)
I was warned, but I had sex with him 4 times anyway!
Q. I need help! I slept with my coworker/ friend's son. She invited me to move with her and warned me about her son. But we kept making passes at each other. The other night, we were talking and he started kissing me. The next thing i knew, we were ...
A. 10 November 2010: What exactly were you warned about pertaining to this guy? Well you hooked up 4 times already, doesn't look it's going down the relationship route. I say he was going thru a dry spell and needed to get some action. Maybe you did too, no harm in ... (read in full...)
I seem to want more than she does in a relationship, any suggestions?
Q. I am a male, and i have been seeing this beautiful, great women for about a year. Our relationship has been purely sexual since I first started seeing her which has been fine by me. I see her about once or twice a week, and she is just an amazing ...
A. 10 November 2010: Friends with benefits is friends that have sex, they're not in a relationship, there's no harboring feelings, it's a no strings attached, fuck buddy situation. Just for future reference. ... (read in full...)
What if I'm imagining all the flirting between my married teacher and me?
Q. i reallly like my male teacher, but he is married. with a 2 year old daughter. i have heard rumors that he kinda creeps on his students but has never done anything sexual with him. i really want to do something with him and i'm afraid he will reject ...
A. 10 November 2010: Your 15? That makes it even better..YOU'RE UNDERAGE! He is most definitely not flirting with you, because if he does, not only can he lose his teaching career, he also can go to jail and be labeled as a sex offender for life. Now do you want that ... (read in full...)
I seem to want more than she does in a relationship, any suggestions?
Q. I am a male, and i have been seeing this beautiful, great women for about a year. Our relationship has been purely sexual since I first started seeing her which has been fine by me. I see her about once or twice a week, and she is just an amazing ...
A. 9 November 2010: Oh quite contrary to popular belief, YES women can use guys for sex!
If she had feelings wouldn't she take it further than FWBs?? Women are emotional creatures, if we have feelings we pipe up. Since she interrupts you every time you want to discu... (read in full...)
Is this normal, not to be able to climax this way?
Q. does anyone out there have any trouble reaching orgasm's ??? I don't understand why I have this problem..My boyfriend will go down on me and it feels good but i rarely reach orgasm this way or any way..I think my urges and sensitivity in that area ...
A. 9 November 2010: It took me 8 years to achieve an orgasm thru penetration with my husband. Before that I was doing solo acts...clitoral stimulation, sometimes used a vibrator. I recommend the silver bullet, you can even get colorful sleeves to go over it. As far as ... (read in full...)
He wants me to go on top but I don't know how!
Q. I had sex with my boyfriend for the first time the other day, i was a virgin but he wasnt. He said next time we have sex he wants me to be on top of him but i dont know how to, i really want to do this for him. Need advice on how i do this f...
A. 9 November 2010: If you have ever rid a horse, it's kinda like that..but not as bumpy. Just climb on top and let him guide your hips, meanwhile you can stimulate your clitoris..to get you more in the moment. ... (read in full...)
Do women like to view men's physical sexuality?
Q. did women like to see men sex?...
A. 9 November 2010: Do women like to see men's genitals? Or watch them have sex? Can you be more specific.... (read in full...)
What if I'm imagining all the flirting between my married teacher and me?
Q. i reallly like my male teacher, but he is married. with a 2 year old daughter. i have heard rumors that he kinda creeps on his students but has never done anything sexual with him. i really want to do something with him and i'm afraid he will reject ...
A. 9 November 2010: Op, in no way did I lash out at you, but what do you expect when you ask a question like that? Given your age, you're old enough to know right from wrong and see the student-teacher romances on TV, not to mention the part where the teachers lose ... (read in full...)
Why does she and is she acting so strange toward my boyfriends?
Q. I am in a complicated relationship that seems to be jeopardising my relationship with my best friend. I’m 34 and in a relationship with a man 10 years younger than me. However, he is the best friend of the son of my friend. My friend encouraged us ...
A. 9 November 2010: I don't understand how she encourages you then discourages you. Also, I agree she doesn't need to be involved in your business. However, you confronting her while she was in the hospital probably wasn't good timing. It's possible she does have a ... (read in full...)
Need a few suggestions for a gift to my boyfriend, please help?
Q. I need to get my bf a gift for his bday nd for the up coming holiday...I need help......
A. 9 November 2010: Good lord, no one knows what to get their boyfriend this Christmas....
What does he like, has he been talking about something he wants in particular, why not ask him to make you a list?
Her are my favorites:
-decent clothes, you know wh... (read in full...)
I seem to want more than she does in a relationship, any suggestions?
Q. I am a male, and i have been seeing this beautiful, great women for about a year. Our relationship has been purely sexual since I first started seeing her which has been fine by me. I see her about once or twice a week, and she is just an amazing ...
A. 9 November 2010: Usually it's the women who aren't emotionally cut out for FWBs..but sometimes we do have a few guys like you.
Very rarely, do FWBs turn into a relationship because you've already started off on the wrong foot with sex. You've cut out the first da... (read in full...)
My boyfriend kissed another girl, now I want to hurt him, am I wrong?
Q. I need advice regarding my boyfriend we have been together for a year and half and i still cannot get over him wanting to kiss another girl when we was together for a few months he has changed so much and loves me but i still want to hurt him so ...
A. 9 November 2010: I'm confused, he wants to kiss another girl but hasn't actually done it? How do you know he wants to kiss another girl, he told you? Lastly, if you're still angry with him over this and want to cause him physical harm..then I think you should walk ... (read in full...)
Should I wait for him to ask me to get married??
Q. hey everyone! well im 18 years old (19 in dec) i've beeen with my bf since i was 14 years old we have a 2 year old daughter! well we love eachother alot! and i mean alot! we cant be without eachother for so long we tell each other everything! ...
A. 9 November 2010: Since you two have a daughter together I surprised no discussion of the future has come up, however you two are young so keep that in mind. Just casually bring up the subject, I would just ask him about his future, goals, college, what does he have ... (read in full...)
She was pressured into doing something with another guy, should I end it or stay?
Q. my girlfriend was pressured in to sucking another boy's d**k, she lied to me when i asked about it but she has now told me the truth and i dont know what to do. shoud i end it or stay?...
A. 9 November 2010: If this is truly the case then you need to tell her, she needs to get down to the police station right to report a rape. However, if she obliges then that tells me she was more than willing to give that other guy a blow job.
She refuses to repor... (read in full...)
I use him for a mental image during masturbation
Q. How can I stop masterbating to the images/thoughts of my ex? We broke up for a reason. But somehow I can't seem to stop thinking about him. I need to totally get over him. Please help!...
A. 9 November 2010: Personally, I like to fantasize about Jared Leto..so I suggest the hot lead singer of your favorite band, or Justin Timberlake, who didn't love N*Sync? Basically, someone is much better looking than your ex.
There's no secret tip or guide on... (read in full...)
What do you get a guy that already has so much?
Q. My ex boyfriend and I are working on a new relationship with each other. Meaning friends. We care for each other a lot. Maybe in the future we'll be back together. Well in the mean time Christmas is coming up and I'm not sure what to get him. He ...
A. 9 November 2010: Why not take your favorite picture of you 2 (I like the older ones) , buy a nice frame for it, and give it to him so he can put it on his nightstand.
Or start asking his friends and family, if he has been talking about anything in particul... (read in full...)
How long should I wait until I let him get under the shirt? I want him to respect me!
Q. Im new to dating - been seeing this guy for a bit over a month (we met online, im 21 hes 22). Im a virgin and am waiting to be in love, and also generally inexperienced with intimacy. on our fourth date we had our first kiss and make out session; ...
A. 9 November 2010: I second what chi girl said..it seems to be progressing each date, so what your 8th date you lose your virginity? No, it doesn't happen like that. You want Mr. Idle Hands to commit to a relationship before you give him the green light to tear your ... (read in full...)
I know I'm not getting coal for Christmas, is it a ring?
Q. My boyfriend has recently told me he's already bought my xmas gift. This would be our first Christmas together and we've been together about 7 or so months. He even showed what he got me to my family to see if I'd like it. He doesn't understand how ...
A. 9 November 2010: If only we had x-ray vision...I too hate surprises, I'd rather know ahead of time what I'm getting.
You could be sneaky, look around his place for receipts, of if you come across a wrapped gift, the most you could do is shake it and listen t... (read in full...)
What do I say if my husband-to-be asks about my vagina being loose?
Q. i m 26yr old getting married soon.. how do i answer my husband if he ask abt my vagina being loose.. i love him a lot pls help....
A. 9 November 2010: Are you a virgin? If you're not, and are supposed to be before marriage then I would tell him it's a woman's natural secretion (your wetness) that is making it seem loose. ... (read in full...)
Am I just crazy and paranoid or what?
Q. This may be a long description but you have to get the whole story. My boyfriend of 5 months and I met at work. He had a girlfriend at the time. We always flirted and had a good time when working together and we made each other laugh. One night he ...
A. 9 November 2010: How considerate of him to wait to cheat on you. You didn't really know who he was, or you did and just ignored it, living in denial.
My point is it happens...learn from this experience and move on. From now on don't dare date a man that cheats o... (read in full...)
My lover is threatening to tell my wife everything and have me beaten up if I don't leave my wife for her!
Q. I have been having an on off affair for 3 years, and I just don't know what to do, I have a good wife I have been with since I was 17 and 3 beautiful daughters, the woman I am having an affair is loving and the sex is just fantastic.... but ...
A. 9 November 2010: I suppose those are the consequences for having an ongoing affair.
Own up to your affair, tell your wife as soon as possible..like Caring Guy said, it's best coming from your mouth than hers. Deal with the aftermath, then look into a restrain... (read in full...)
Help! The love of my life is joining the army!
Q. Hello, I have a huge dilemma which is driving me mad. My boyfriend who I have known for 5 years but have been going out with for 1 has decided to join the army to train as an officer. We have quite a complicated relationship because when we ...
A. 9 November 2010: From an army wife's perspective..it's hard being an army girlfriend/wife, not everyone can handle it. That's why they give army wives/girlfriends the cheating stereotype. You have to cope with them being gone quite a bit, yes the army dictates your ... (read in full...)
I am finding it hard to cope with my boyfriend being away so much, how can I change things?
Q. How can I change things? My boyfriend is in the military and sometimes needs to go away for operations for weeks at a time. It's always been like this since we met 8months ago. There seems to be a pattern that for 2-3weeks we see each other once a ...
A. 9 November 2010: Oh might I add, not sure the British army is like the American army, but from what you described it sounds about right. I do know they have shorter tours if they're deployed to Afghanistan, they're only gone for 6 months. If you do need to vent, and ... (read in full...)
I am finding it hard to cope with my boyfriend being away so much, how can I change things?
Q. How can I change things? My boyfriend is in the military and sometimes needs to go away for operations for weeks at a time. It's always been like this since we met 8months ago. There seems to be a pattern that for 2-3weeks we see each other once a ...
A. 9 November 2010: Welcome to the military. You can't change things, you just deal with it. Your boyfriend will be gone from time to time training in bases all over the US. There will be times he can't text you due to lack of reception, and they're not allowed to have ... (read in full...)
Do you think he really likes me?
Q. Theres this guy in my World Geography class. We sit right next to eachother, and we talk constantly. Our geography teacher is basically a pushover, so we can do almost anything we want in class. Lately, I think he's been flirting with me. Like ...
A. 9 November 2010: Sounds like he's flirting to me..complimenting and touching you plus some eye contact. Do you guys have any mutual friends?? If so then I would have your friend let him know that you really like him, then see if he asks you out. However, if you ... (read in full...)
I flew across the country to meet him and now I'm not attracted to him
Q. I got into a relationship with someone online. We've been dating for 3months and I fell in love with his personality. I flew across the country to meet him and now that I have I'm not really physically attracted to him. My question is, should I stay ...
A. 9 November 2010: Well then if you think you can look past his appearance then carry on. However, if you're put off by him that much then this relationship won't last.... (read in full...)
Am I just crazy and paranoid or what?
Q. This may be a long description but you have to get the whole story. My boyfriend of 5 months and I met at work. He had a girlfriend at the time. We always flirted and had a good time when working together and we made each other laugh. One night he ...
A. 9 November 2010: Well OP I'm sorry to hear that..but what do you expect from a guy who cheated on his gf with you..then proceeds to have a relationship with you starting off with NO TRUST. Why did you get in a relationship with someone you couldn't trust at all? ... (read in full...)
Seventeen and have wanted a child for years
Q. im 17years old, and ive had the weird feeling of wanting a child so bad. this feeling has been with me for about almost three years now. mt boyfriend told me that we cant have a child because we wouldnt be able to raise it, but i want one. i dont ...
A. 9 November 2010: Are you having that annoying feeling of wanting a baby so bad it hurts? You see other pregnant girls around you and can't help but want to be in there shoes. I have that feeling, but I'm also 25 and married.
At 17, you shouldn't have a care in ... (read in full...)
We're broken up but I want him back. Should I try to get him back?
Q. Ok well me and my boyfriend was going out for about a month and he lives about a good hour away from me.. so one night i asked can he come over.. then he explain to me that he couldnt he thought i got mad about, but i wasnt i got a little upset.. ...
A. 9 November 2010: So you've only been going out a month, it's a LDR, and he's already got another girl? He most likely broke up with you because he couldn't handle a LDR, seeing as he already has another girl that probably lives in his area. It's not meant to be, let ... (read in full...)
I get myself into some pretty crazy situations.
Q. Basically , I'm having sex with a cop. I thought it was going to be a one time thing when we met butt it wasn't, and now I'm head over heals for the guy.... I'm 1, 18 in a month and a half. he thinks I'm 19. I plan to tell him when I do turn 18 ...
A. 9 November 2010: At least you're not lying about being underage. You are of age of legal consent in your state?? In the US, it's 16-18 varies per state, although most are 16.
He does deserve to know your actual age. This is casual sex, so it may not change t... (read in full...)
What if I'm imagining all the flirting between my married teacher and me?
Q. i reallly like my male teacher, but he is married. with a 2 year old daughter. i have heard rumors that he kinda creeps on his students but has never done anything sexual with him. i really want to do something with him and i'm afraid he will reject ...
A. 9 November 2010: Let me reiterate what you said..He's married with a 2 years old daughter, he has a home and a life. You heard RUMORS about him. Now, why would you want to try to make a move on a very married man? Don't even try it.... (read in full...)
Am I just crazy and paranoid or what?
Q. This may be a long description but you have to get the whole story. My boyfriend of 5 months and I met at work. He had a girlfriend at the time. We always flirted and had a good time when working together and we made each other laugh. One night he ...
A. 7 November 2010: Not to be harsh but did it ever occur to you he's not cheating? That this paranoia has taken you completely over and you are imagining shit? You have this constant fear that he's cheating so you're playing CSI combing thru his carpet with a fine ... (read in full...)
I flew across the country to meet him and now I'm not attracted to him
Q. I got into a relationship with someone online. We've been dating for 3months and I fell in love with his personality. I flew across the country to meet him and now that I have I'm not really physically attracted to him. My question is, should I stay ...
A. 6 November 2010: Break it off, you're pretty much alone anyway in a LDR. That's also why you request a recent picture of who you're talking to. Yeah, looks aren't everything and they do change over time, but you have to have some initial physical attraction. Don't ... (read in full...)
Am I just crazy and paranoid or what?
Q. This may be a long description but you have to get the whole story. My boyfriend of 5 months and I met at work. He had a girlfriend at the time. We always flirted and had a good time when working together and we made each other laugh. One night he ...
A. 29 October 2010: I take a shower and lay down..especially if I'm dreading work, and want to pull back the covers go back to sleep.
Look, this obsessive, paranoia behavior is going to come to an end one day when he breaks up with you. I'm very surprised he's put... (read in full...)
Am I just crazy and paranoid or what?
Q. This may be a long description but you have to get the whole story. My boyfriend of 5 months and I met at work. He had a girlfriend at the time. We always flirted and had a good time when working together and we made each other laugh. One night he ...
A. 27 October 2010: Really OP? Women shed 50 to 100 hair follicles a day. And we all know hair gets everywhere, on your boyfriend, on his bed, in the bathroom..so could that hair gain some wind by your boyfriend walking to the shower? Hell yes. Stop being paranoid, or ... (read in full...)
Am I just crazy and paranoid or what?
Q. This may be a long description but you have to get the whole story. My boyfriend of 5 months and I met at work. He had a girlfriend at the time. We always flirted and had a good time when working together and we made each other laugh. One night he ...
A. 27 October 2010: A little psycho? A lotta psycho!
In the beginning of your post, it was a red flag he cheated on his girlfriend with you (you were retaliation sex), and telling you he loves you after 2 weeks (you know very well that loves takes time to blossom)... (read in full...)
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