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... Send *ennisstar88 a private message | | | *ennisstar88's profile:Who I am? A 28yr old Army wife. My DH serves, I serve and sacrifice as well. Went to college in my early 20s, economy caught up with me in 08 and dropped out for a bit. I however returned and am down the path to finishing a bachelor's degree. I have also beat my long, 3 year battle with infertility and am expecting a baby this December! Its been a long, pot hole filled road but I am finally where I want to be.
What qualifies me to help you? Vast dating experience, especially in the LDR department, even an international on with an Aussie, broke hearts, had mine broken, been engaged once before, I know what a real friend is, seen the ugly side of divorce coming from a recently broken home myself, even went as far as to tip the odds to my side and use men only to toss them aside like yesterday's garbage like they do women, I know what it's like to almost give up hope on finding the perfect man when he's really only a few boyfriends away, and I'm starting to learn the ropes of married life. I also know a vast deal about the female and male reproductive system, and all about the mental struggles with infertility. On a side note, I'm the one who gives you tough love, I'm not on here to sugarcoat it or to tell you what you want to hear. I'm going to give it to you straight up, wouldn't you rather the truth?
-TOP 5 QUESTIONS I CAN'T STAND-
#1. Does this mean my teacher likes me?
Just because they're nice to you, offer extra help, and put a little gold star on your A+ paper doesn't mean they are in love with you.
#2. Could I be pregnant?
Have you not heard of a pregnancy test? Get off this website, and go to your local drugstore.
#3. I'm 14 and I want a baby?
Really? Me too! Oh wait I'm 28 and married. You're how old again?
#4. My husband loves porn more than me!
Maybe if you didn't let yourself go into the frumpy woman you have turned into then he wouldn't have to look at porn now would he? I recommend you get your rear to the salon for highlights, manicure, pedicure, tanning, toss the baggy tees and sweat pants for a wardrobe that fits, and a little makeup goes a long way. It's called basic woman maintenance in order to keep your man's eyes on you.
#5. Will we get back together, how can I get him to love me again?
Unfortunately, my crystal ball is broke at the moment and I just gave away the last of my love potion No. 9. Sorry.
MY GENERAL RULES OF THUMB (this should be common sense)
-No means no.
-Girls can ask out ask guys, this is a new generation.
-Unless you know sign language or are telepathic, you're going to have to talk to him/her.
-My "Don't ask, Don't tell" policy as is follows: Do not by any means volunteer your own sexual history, or ask your date/partner/wife/girlfriend their magic number (how many people they've slept with). If you find yourself being prompted to answer this question, politely tell them that's none of their business.
-Your past doesn't define who you are today. We grow, mature, age, and change as time passes.
-If you have to even ask random strangers on this website if you should have sex, then you're not ready for it.
-FWBs, fuck buddies, no strings attached, whatever you want to call it..is not a relationship don't get the 2 confused. In this case, sex=sex, not love.
-No trust=no relationship.
-It is normal for your husband/boyfriend to have friends of the opposite sex, do you not have male friends?
-LDRs can work, however they're not for everyone. You've got to have trust, communication, be faithful, and a lot of hobbies to keep yourself occupied. If you have trust issues, a case of being needy, clingy, problems staying faithful and are in a LDR don't be surprised when it doesn't work. I told you so.
- An ex is an ex for a reason. If you guys couldn't hack it as a couple the first 2 times what makes you think the third time is a charm?
-Going on a "break" is a nice way of breaking up.
-If you have sex with a man and he hasn't called you, or responded to your texts in weeks sorry to say but he was just after a piece of ass.
- Now unless he's getting blown up in Afghanistan, an on call ER doctor, or lying dead in a coffin then he's got no excuse for his poor or lack there of communication.
-You have a 12% chance of your married boyfriend leaving his wife and children.
-A man who is going through a divorce is still legally married. He's about to have an ex wife and you're wanting to get into a relationship with him? That's called a rebound.
-If you're a minor who's just found out she's pregnant, do me and everyone else on this site a favor..Tell your parents.
-Just because some one stares at you, it doesn't mean they like you. They could be staring at that booger hanging out of your nose.
-If you have a lump/bump/cyst/rash that looks green, has oozing puss, and itches like hell, but kinda looks like a STD then you had better consult your doctor. They went through 6 years of schooling and have a license to practice medicine, I think they would know better than random virtual strangers.
-Don't mix business with pleasure. Why? Because if you date your co-worker and in the event things turn sour then you're still stuck facing them 9-5, Mon-Fri. Awkward.
-No matter how hard you try, you can't change a person..they have to make that transformation themselves.
-When your boyfriend/girlfriend says they want space that doesn't mean you do the opposite and bombard them with calls/texts.
-As far as ultimatums go, don't try to make your boyfriend choose between you, his female friends, or weed. You won't like the results.
-If you're 13-17, I'm sorry but you haven't a clue what love really is. You have minimal dating experience confined to the high school dating pool which are nothing but horny boys. Their facial hair doesn't make them a man. It's only till you get out into the real world, a vast dating pool is when you learn the definition of love. So, go on thinking you and 13 year old Tommy will go on to get married, have 3 kids, and a two story house with a white picket fence. I don't expect you to listen, I'm 28 and married, what do I know? There's a reason why everyone says it won't last..because it doesn't.
-The average penis size erect is 6 inches, 4.85 inches. Women like average to even a little below average. We're not going to bust out a tape measure and measure it to make sure it's up to our standards. We just want to have sex, so enough complaining about your size let's get down and dirty.
- The legal age of consent in the U.S. is 16-18 varying oer state, in Britain it's 16. I think it's safe to say most parts of the world (unless you live in a tribe with their own form of government) the legal age to consent to sex is 16. So yes, all you minors below the age of consent are committing a crime when you engage in sexual activity. The age is set that high for a reason, you are not above the law. |
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I lied about my identity for 2 years and now he wants nothing to do with me!
Q. Okay so here's the thing I was stupid and lied about my identity on facebook..while I did that I met this guy, I didn't tell him the truth and I fell for him..he said he loved me he loved my personality and all... Well 2 years later I told him the ...
A. 9 November 2010: ignore it, there's nothing to respond back to. He said bye, that's his form of closure. Leave it as it is.... (read in full...)
I lied about my identity for 2 years and now he wants nothing to do with me!
Q. Okay so here's the thing I was stupid and lied about my identity on facebook..while I did that I met this guy, I didn't tell him the truth and I fell for him..he said he loved me he loved my personality and all... Well 2 years later I told him the ...
A. 8 November 2010: Because he probably still can't grasp you lied for that long..We had a question on her this lesbian was lied to by a man posing as a woman on the net. Then he finally came clean and she was convinced that the woman when she was just a figment of ... (read in full...)
Is wrong to have a boyfriend but to practice sex with a friend to get ready for boyfriend?
Q. I have a boyfriend now but one of my guy friends wants to be friends with benefits. I don't want to cheat on my boyfriend but is it wrong to have a friend with benefits to practice for my boyfriend?...
A. 5 November 2010: What do you think a FWB is?? Friends with benefits is sex with no strings attached, no feelings, no emotion.... (read in full...)
He called me fat!!!!
Q. So me and my boyfriend have been going out for a really long time now, he tells me he loves me, he's always there for me and we both feel that we're practically perfect for each other, we've been friends ever since we were 4 years old but as years ...
A. 4 November 2010: For Syrop, jokingly calling someone fat is something girls don't take well. That's like jokingly telling a guy he has a small dick. It can give that person a complex. If the OP is indeed skinny she may still not think she is..she looks in the mirror ... (read in full...)
I regret turning him down, but if I do ask him out then my friends might make fun of us both...
Q. Ok, my best guy friend is really awesome. He's really funny and intelligent too. We joke about silly things, like in fifth grade when he asked me out and I replied 'where?'We drifted apart once we left that school, because we were on different sides ...
A. 4 November 2010: Oh good! I admit I was too scared when I was your age too..so I used that little tool to let a guy know I was crushing and see if he asks me out. It does work.... (read in full...)
I don't want to mess up my first ever date!
Q. Hello, this is going to sound sad but i've been asked out to go to the cinema with this guy from college. I know him, but we only speak online so it's kind of awkward. I'm 16 and it's like my first ever date if thats what this is. I'm seriously ...
A. 4 November 2010: Interesting, so technically you guy complete what we call high school at 16? But I'm guessing "college" is more or less a prep for uni..We do call uni, college. Thanks for the clarification. ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend has been a major ass to me recently and I want to break up with him, but I'm scared I might be pregnant!
Q. Hey!So I'm a 14 year old girl that just recently lost her virginity. Since then I have had sex with my boyfriend quite a few times. But now I'm starting to become scared. All the times we have had sex we have never used a condom. I've researched a ...
A. 4 November 2010: Woah, woah..One issue at a time.
If you read up about teenage pregnancy you should have googled safe sex as well..that way you would know you're not of legal age of consent, that your boyfriend can be charged with statutory rape because you are ... (read in full...)
Does every relationship go through a little rough patch?
Q. Does every relationship go through a little rough patch? Things were going great till like a couple days ago now things are just on the verge of being okay. We have been in a relationship for almost a year but have been friends for two years. I just ...
A. 4 November 2010: Yes! And it doesn't stop even when you get married, but they have handy dandy resources such as marriage retreats and marriage counseling.
Right now you're kinda limited, although they have couples counseling which I think is for couples with ser... (read in full...)
I don't want to mess up my first ever date!
Q. Hello, this is going to sound sad but i've been asked out to go to the cinema with this guy from college. I know him, but we only speak online so it's kind of awkward. I'm 16 and it's like my first ever date if thats what this is. I'm seriously ...
A. 4 November 2010: Wait you've never met him? And he's a college guy? No offense just curious as to what a college guy wants with a teen..Anyways, I would meet him in person first preferably in a well lit public area with lots of people. A coffee shop, just so you can ... (read in full...)
If I meet up with my male friend (who I have no feelings for), will my boyfriend think it is ok to start meeting up with his ex's again?
Q. Basically. My boyfriend ruined my trust at the 1 year barrier as he had coffee with an ex without telling me, after about of month of telling me he didn't want to see her again, and me crying because he'd be texting her ALL the time. We had a big ...
A. 4 November 2010: Oh yeah he could definitely pull tit for tat on this one..You'd be going to meet up with an old colleague and he could point out that since you're meeting up with the opposite sex he could hang out with his exes who are now his female friends. ... (read in full...)
Friends with benefits?
Q. Alfredo has been one of my very good friends for a long time. But as you know female-male friendships are a lil hard keep. Eventually it happened, we had a lil too much to drink and we had sex... then it happened again.. and again.. We became s...
A. 4 November 2010: Alfredo is his name??
Male-female friendships aren't hard to keep, you just have to look at them in a different light, such as the brotherly type.
By chance did the 2 of you set any rules in this FWB? Such as you two are only sleeping with ea... (read in full...)
Is this just my negativity from being cheated on in the past? Is this a normal rate relationships go at? Or is he playing me?
Q. Hi All I am 29 and have been seeing a 20 year old man for 3 months. The problem is when we are together he is so lovely, and tells me how much he likes me and I am amazing etc. However, although he texts me every day the relationship just ...
A. 4 November 2010: Cerebus does make a good point..You're at the stage of wanting to eventually settle, start a family, you're probably very well established in your career, and have found your niche in life. On the other hand, he is 20 years old, just out of his ... (read in full...)
He called me fat!!!!
Q. So me and my boyfriend have been going out for a really long time now, he tells me he loves me, he's always there for me and we both feel that we're practically perfect for each other, we've been friends ever since we were 4 years old but as years ...
A. 4 November 2010: @ Syrop....so how would you feel if your boyfriend and his friends called you fat?You're telling me you would take no offense to that? Calling someone fat is meant is a derogatory way, there's nothing nice about it. I'm sure the OP is not fat. This ... (read in full...)
When you go out with someone, do you have to have sex?
Q. I know, the question sounds silly. I was just wondering, when you 'get together' with someone does it always have to get physical? I don't mind kissing and stuff but it seems that there's a lot of pressure for teenagers to have sex as soon as...
A. 4 November 2010: Nooooo. It's not always about the physical aspect of the relationship. In which you should not be engaging in intercourse until you are of legal age to consent to sex, which I think is 16 in the UK.
Girls and believe it or not guys will be alway... (read in full...)
Struggling to cope with the distance.....
Q. i cannt cope with distance releationship and now im making the wrong decisions. cant stop thinking that he is cheating on me too....
A. 4 November 2010: So you're in a LDR and you have already cheated? Sorry dear, but that proves you cannot handle a LDR..and need to break this off. Not to mention your questioning the trust. They're not for everyone, there's no shame in admitting that. ... (read in full...)
Good age to get married?
Q. what age would be a good age to get married?...
A. 4 November 2010: After you have established yourself in this world with a career. I say after you're done with school and have a stable income..which would put you at 22+
Do remember marriage isn't a cake walk, it requires some work...Oh and weddings aren't t... (read in full...)
Am I the only girl in the world who has taken their partner back after he cheated and had a baby with someone else?
Q. has anybody else taken there partner back after they have cheated and had a baby with somebody else?i feel im the only one in the word?...
A. 4 November 2010: I'm sure you aren't the only one and won't be the last...See how it goes. If you're regretting your decision, then I would seriously consider the alternative.
Personally, I couldn't do that..cheating is betrayal enough, but to be irrespon... (read in full...)
Is wrong to have a boyfriend but to practice sex with a friend to get ready for boyfriend?
Q. I have a boyfriend now but one of my guy friends wants to be friends with benefits. I don't want to cheat on my boyfriend but is it wrong to have a friend with benefits to practice for my boyfriend?...
A. 4 November 2010: If you even have to ask this question then no way are you ready to have sex. Sex with someone else other than your boyfriend is classified as cheating. Why would you have sex with someone who isn't your boyfriend just to "practice"? What one guy ... (read in full...)
How to get back to love making?
Q. I've tried everything wearing sexy clothes,sexy talk,cooking dinners, even getting out the tub naked in front of him, still we haven't had sex in months. I talk to him about what he wants me to do but still I get no where. Everything else in our ...
A. 4 November 2010: The sex stops for a reason..not to put bad thoughts in you head, I'd be asking if there's been or is there another woman. Have you tried asking for sex and he just rejects you? ... (read in full...)
He high fived me after sex and now is ignoring me at work
Q. Hi, Met guy really liked him his way younger then me though! We met through work.he liked me for bout 4 weeks, kept catching him major staring. Then I got speaking to him, through msn! I researched through friends who he was, as saw him in the same...
A. 4 November 2010: You know you were right worrying about the 12 year age gap..high fiving you after sex is not only weird but a sign of immaturity.
Hook, line, sink..He played the looking to get serious card, took the time to talk to you and get you hooked, ... (read in full...)
I know he is busy but I am fed up of being the only one putting in any effort into this relationship!
Q. Hi, I'm 20 and been dating a guy who's 35 for over a year now, though its a distance relationship. We still get to see each other as often as possible, he sends me ticket and I fly over to him. We are so much in love, and he treats me so nicely when ...
A. 4 November 2010: This is exactly why people say LDRs don't work. Because one person is keeping up the contact and putting in their effort whereas the other party isn't. It's understandable that he's busy but it takes not even 5 min out of his 60 emails and countless ... (read in full...)
What should I do now? I'm reluctant to text or call again and I really am not into mind games....
Q. I met this guy on a night out last Saturday, my friends informed me that he kept 'checking me out' i'd just arrived at the pub as he had with his friends. He then came upto me knelt down besides me in front of my friends and told me that he liked ...
A. 4 November 2010: So it might be Jan 1st 2011 before he gets back to you? If he's into you an appropriate 3 day window without texting or calling is the norm. Unless, you're too bust being blown up in Afghanistan, going on a mission in a foreign country and there ... (read in full...)
Watery bath???
Q. What does it do if you inject water in your ass? Can it be harmful?...
A. 4 November 2010: There are anal douches available if you're looking to cleanse that exit. Water alone, won't get the job done. ... (read in full...)
He called me fat!!!!
Q. So me and my boyfriend have been going out for a really long time now, he tells me he loves me, he's always there for me and we both feel that we're practically perfect for each other, we've been friends ever since we were 4 years old but as years ...
A. 4 November 2010: What a minute, he apologized for deserting you but didn't apologize for calling you fat? Let alone make his friends apologize for calling you fat?
How dare he! That would give some girls a complex for the rest of their life..It could cause yo... (read in full...)
Why did a good girl allow sex so easily?
Q. I met this lovely 20 year old girl through her sister, a co-worker. I took her out to the movies just once, and then did not see her for a month. We kept in touch. When we met again we went to a secluded place where we talked about her dreams...
A. 4 November 2010: To make it clear, a woman can go after sex just like a guy can..It may be all she wanted you from too. But when women do that we're called easy, or a slut. Come on now..
She just got out of a relationship, and was missing the sex part. You came... (read in full...)
What are the rules when taking a relationship break and for how long?
Q. Me and my boyfriend are taking a break. We've been together for 9 months but lately I was getting mad to often because I didn't understand why he was acting the way he was. Although I wasn't screaming at him, I was only talking to him about it....
A. 4 November 2010: It depends on what the person wanting a break says, I'm guessing he didn't tell you? Sometimes it's a week or two even a matter of months. Taking a "break" usually turns into break up in which you rarely get back together from these. To me it's ... (read in full...)
He likes shopping... is he gay?
Q. My man who has been living with me for 11 months is a bit different from your regular guy. He loves shopping, furniture,shoes,bags,womens underwear and clothes. He is always saying oh that would look good on you or you should buy this.......
A. 4 November 2010: He is right about the prednisone, it causes weak muscles, decreased sexual desire, and extreme tiredness...Just because he likes shopping and he sucks in bed doesn't classify him as gay. So it's not fair to make that assumption, you'd need more ... (read in full...)
Is he missing something in his marriage or just bored?
Q. Why would a married man seek attention outside of his home. He has beautiful children, gorgeous wife and great career. However i believe he is trying to pursue a relationship with me by calling me and texting men all of the time. He does not live ...
A. 4 November 2010: Lack of a sex life with their wife, or the need to feel wanted and flattered by other women. What usually turns into an affair. He lacks the spark in his marriage so he is seeking a sexual rendezvous outside of his home. ... (read in full...)
I'm worried that this guy that I'm seeing is getting too attached too soon.
Q. In short, I'm worried that this guy that I'm seeing is getting too attached too soon. When we met, we spent a few weeks working closely together, during which time I deflected his advances, but we became firm friends. But when he left, I started ...
A. 4 November 2010: It's very cut and dry in the beginning either you like him or you don't. You like the idea of being in a relationship but not with him. Don't settle for less than what you really want. And he won't grow on you, you're way too put off by him. You ... (read in full...)
She's giving me an ultimatum... drop my friend or she's leaving me!
Q. So, there was this girl I used to have a fling with. However nothing ever became of it, we started dating different people but she is still one of my best friends. That was two years ago. Currently I'm dating this girl, and have been for a few ...
A. 4 November 2010: Oooo these never turn out well. Think about it this way, your girlfriend is jealous over your friend whom you had a fling with a while back before her time. The point is you're with her now if there was anything between you and your friend obviously ... (read in full...)
Strange email...
Q. I was checking my email when I saw a picture, it says this person was searching for you - it was a 31 year old from my city, the email is under my husband's name, should I question this or just leave this alone?...
A. 4 November 2010: Sounds like spam to me.
Or you can email the person back..... (read in full...)
I find it tough to find attractive women who fancy me! Should I lower my standards??
Q. Hi guys can you help? I'm 32 (embarrassed that a guy my age is even on here) and feel I'm getting on now and need to find a decent girlfriend. I’ve been single for 2/3 years now but to be honest girlfriends have always been hard to find. (before ...
A. 3 November 2010: Ah the bookstore, there's always tons of ladies littered down the aisles..look over by the magazines. Grab some magazine you like (not Maximum) and flip through it..Or go down other aisles, and if you see a woman holding a book that you have read, ... (read in full...)
I find it tough to find attractive women who fancy me! Should I lower my standards??
Q. Hi guys can you help? I'm 32 (embarrassed that a guy my age is even on here) and feel I'm getting on now and need to find a decent girlfriend. I’ve been single for 2/3 years now but to be honest girlfriends have always been hard to find. (before ...
A. 3 November 2010: I laughed my ass off at that Bologna part. If you said that to me I would definitely give you the time of day..ChiGirl is correct of every one woman who enjoys you chatting her up will be a handful of ladies who will brush you off. But hey EVERYONE ... (read in full...)
Any girls over 18 have a crush on Justin Bieber?
Q. Are there any girls older than 18 who think the teen singer Justin Bieber is very good looking?...
A. 3 November 2010: Haha Stacey,
Give me N*SYNC any day!... (read in full...)
Facebook lie has gotten out of hand
Q. So I made a fake fb when I was like younger and lied about my age and name and put a fake picture...well I started that just for fun, but Never stopped using (about 2 years later aka now) I fell in love with a guy that I started talking to... He ...
A. 3 November 2010: Yeah but he doesn't know that. He doesn't know when you're telling the truth or when you're lying since you have lied to him for so long.
Go your separate ways, you screwed up. Just chalk it up as a mistake and tell the truth next time. No one l... (read in full...)
Is a relationship repairable after so much dishonesty so early? I know I'm no saint.
Q. I'll admit that online relationship question sites aren't my thing, but at this point, I'm to suggestions from anyone. The short version. I've lied to my girlfriend. A lot. I took money from her purse [~$50.] without any GOOD reason, and e...
A. 3 November 2010: You had a balance before all this..of course it's going to take a long time for her to let you regain trust. Can't pinpoint a time..but it's going to take quite a long time. There will be a time when she will fully trust you but not anytime soon.
... (read in full...)
Any girls over 18 have a crush on Justin Bieber?
Q. Are there any girls older than 18 who think the teen singer Justin Bieber is very good looking?...
A. 3 November 2010: Bieber fever! Personally, I think he looks like Ellen Degeneres..... (read in full...)
I lied about my identity for 2 years and now he wants nothing to do with me!
Q. Okay so here's the thing I was stupid and lied about my identity on facebook..while I did that I met this guy, I didn't tell him the truth and I fell for him..he said he loved me he loved my personality and all... Well 2 years later I told him the ...
A. 3 November 2010: Sad to say, you were living a big lie for 2 years..of course he doesn't know the real you because you've lied to him from the get go. He has no trust in you, bad way to try to start a relationship. Not to mention, you're underage so legally he can't ... (read in full...)
She moved an hour away to live with family and now wants her space!
Q. me and my girlfriend have been together for about 1 year now and things were going great until she had to move back with her family recently. She now lives about an hour away from me which isn't bad to me but now she says she needs her space and she ...
A. 3 November 2010: Well she's iffy about it because she's not sure she can handle a LDR. Which is normal, not everyone can handle being in one. Can you handle it? Will both of you make the necessary trips to visit one another when permitted? Are you going to be ... (read in full...)
Can my dad stop me from moving out at 18 if I am still in high school?
Q. can my dad stop me form moving out when i am 18 if i am still in high school...
A. 3 November 2010: Technically no, you're no longer a minor..You're actually of legal age and a young adult.
I would have a game plan of where you are moving to, and who with. Do you have a job? At 18 getting a place of your own isn't exactly ideal..it's very, ve... (read in full...)
Why is my boyfriend so awkward during sex?
Q. Why is my boyfriend so awkward sexually?? Let me give you a few examples: 1. His idea of dirty talking is girly moaning followed by phrases like "ooh you do it so good" and "f*** my d*** good baby" these aren't exactly the things a girl wants to ...
A. 3 November 2010: 1. Some people get off on dirty talk..When he makes those girly moans and says dirty talk.put your index finger to his lips and tell him" Shh" that you would rather hear silence and heavy breathing.
2. Ew, you know I had one guy do that..an... (read in full...)
I regret turning him down, but if I do ask him out then my friends might make fun of us both...
Q. Ok, my best guy friend is really awesome. He's really funny and intelligent too. We joke about silly things, like in fifth grade when he asked me out and I replied 'where?'We drifted apart once we left that school, because we were on different sides ...
A. 3 November 2010: You know he's probably thinking the same thing, since you rejected him the first time..He's afraid that you'll reject him a second time. Someone's gotta make a move and ask the other out.
Another thought I had, why don't you tell his cousin t... (read in full...)
Should I leave my unattentive LDR for a guy who will actually care for me?
Q. i been with this guy for one half years we are long distance. we had lot of issues. he text or say sweet stuff when we fall out.if i call he hardly pick up or busy he say we too young to be engaged im 20 he 23. hardly pay attention not that I...
A. 3 November 2010: I would opt out of this relationship because he's got his views a little backwards.. You're too young to be engaged but not too young to have a baby? Personally, I wouldn't be making a baby without a ring, some assurance on my finger. Not to ... (read in full...)
Can dry humping cause you to lose your virginity?
Q. Hi everyone... I was just wondering... My boyfriend and I were dry humping often (we're both not ready for sex) then yesterday, after dry humping, I notice two tiny spots of blood (I'm not that sure if that was blood but it really looks like blood) ...
A. 3 November 2010: No you cannot lose your virginity through dry humping..the only way is through penetration in which your partner breaks your hymen and you bleed more than 2 tiny spots of blood. It's generally a sizable amount. Yes, you are still a virgin..and those ... (read in full...)
Why am I not supposed to know?
Q. My husband won't tell me what he did in bed with his ex wife of 20 years. What is he hiding? Is this an open relationship? I'm pissed!...
A. 3 November 2010: What does it matter? That is before your time, and doesn't concern you whatsoever. Let his past marriage stay in the past..It's not an open relationship unless you both agree to those terms.
Google retroactive jealousy, you've got it bad. ... (read in full...)
He's been rude since I got with my boyfriend. Does he like me?
Q. does he fancy me? i always got on with my boyfriends best mate before i got with him but eversince ive been with my boyfriend he ignores me and gives me snide remarks. i used to fancy him before i got with my boyfriend but i assumed he didnt fe...
A. 3 November 2010: When he's sober he avoids you like the plague but when he's drunk he is all over you. However, his inebriated behavior isn't enough to justify whether he likes you or not...So let's focus on the sober part of him..He knew you fancied him but didn't ... (read in full...)
I regret turning him down, but if I do ask him out then my friends might make fun of us both...
Q. Ok, my best guy friend is really awesome. He's really funny and intelligent too. We joke about silly things, like in fifth grade when he asked me out and I replied 'where?'We drifted apart once we left that school, because we were on different sides ...
A. 3 November 2010: Just curious as to why you rejected him the first time?
Ask him out because you want to be with him, don't let your friends be the deciding factor. Real friends don't make fun of who you're going out with instead they support you and are happy th... (read in full...)
Is a relationship repairable after so much dishonesty so early? I know I'm no saint.
Q. I'll admit that online relationship question sites aren't my thing, but at this point, I'm to suggestions from anyone. The short version. I've lied to my girlfriend. A lot. I took money from her purse [~$50.] without any GOOD reason, and e...
A. 3 November 2010: Then my advice changes...although the ass kissing part stays the same.
Whether it was caused by your bipolar-ness or not, you have lied thus breaking the trust that has been built between you two. Now, she's having a hard time trying to figure o... (read in full...)
Is a relationship repairable after so much dishonesty so early? I know I'm no saint.
Q. I'll admit that online relationship question sites aren't my thing, but at this point, I'm to suggestions from anyone. The short version. I've lied to my girlfriend. A lot. I took money from her purse [~$50.] without any GOOD reason, and e...
A. 3 November 2010: Stealing is grounds for a breakup..I understand that you're on medication to treat your condition. But you did steal $50 from her purse and pawned her laptop just because. Personally, I would kick you to the curb and press charges over the laptop. ... (read in full...)
I find it tough to find attractive women who fancy me! Should I lower my standards??
Q. Hi guys can you help? I'm 32 (embarrassed that a guy my age is even on here) and feel I'm getting on now and need to find a decent girlfriend. I’ve been single for 2/3 years now but to be honest girlfriends have always been hard to find. (before ...
A. 2 November 2010: Don't be embarrassed about your age, or coming on here. Nothing to be ashamed of. We get various ages and from all countries asking various questions.
Now to pinpoint where you're going wrong..well dating websites, my friends haven't found mu... (read in full...)
Facebook lie has gotten out of hand
Q. So I made a fake fb when I was like younger and lied about my age and name and put a fake picture...well I started that just for fun, but Never stopped using (about 2 years later aka now) I fell in love with a guy that I started talking to... He ...
A. 28 October 2010: You lied and made up a completely fictional person this guy likes. Since you made a false Facebook, how do you know this guy is who he says he is?
It might be a good idea to come clean about your age and your appearance. However, you've never me... (read in full...)
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