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What qualifies me to help you? Vast dating experience, especially in the LDR department, even an international on with an Aussie, broke hearts, had mine broken, been engaged once before, I know what a real friend is, seen the ugly side of divorce coming from a recently broken home myself, even went as far as to tip the odds to my side and use men only to toss them aside like yesterday's garbage like they do women, I know what it's like to almost give up hope on finding the perfect man when he's really only a few boyfriends away, and I'm starting to learn the ropes of married life. I also know a vast deal about the female and male reproductive system, and all about the mental struggles with infertility. On a side note, I'm the one who gives you tough love, I'm not on here to sugarcoat it or to tell you what you want to hear. I'm going to give it to you straight up, wouldn't you rather the truth?
-TOP 5 QUESTIONS I CAN'T STAND-
#1. Does this mean my teacher likes me?
Just because they're nice to you, offer extra help, and put a little gold star on your A+ paper doesn't mean they are in love with you.
#2. Could I be pregnant?
Have you not heard of a pregnancy test? Get off this website, and go to your local drugstore.
#3. I'm 14 and I want a baby?
Really? Me too! Oh wait I'm 28 and married. You're how old again?
#4. My husband loves porn more than me!
Maybe if you didn't let yourself go into the frumpy woman you have turned into then he wouldn't have to look at porn now would he? I recommend you get your rear to the salon for highlights, manicure, pedicure, tanning, toss the baggy tees and sweat pants for a wardrobe that fits, and a little makeup goes a long way. It's called basic woman maintenance in order to keep your man's eyes on you.
#5. Will we get back together, how can I get him to love me again?
Unfortunately, my crystal ball is broke at the moment and I just gave away the last of my love potion No. 9. Sorry.
MY GENERAL RULES OF THUMB (this should be common sense)
-No means no.
-Girls can ask out ask guys, this is a new generation.
-Unless you know sign language or are telepathic, you're going to have to talk to him/her.
-My "Don't ask, Don't tell" policy as is follows: Do not by any means volunteer your own sexual history, or ask your date/partner/wife/girlfriend their magic number (how many people they've slept with). If you find yourself being prompted to answer this question, politely tell them that's none of their business.
-Your past doesn't define who you are today. We grow, mature, age, and change as time passes.
-If you have to even ask random strangers on this website if you should have sex, then you're not ready for it.
-FWBs, fuck buddies, no strings attached, whatever you want to call it..is not a relationship don't get the 2 confused. In this case, sex=sex, not love.
-No trust=no relationship.
-It is normal for your husband/boyfriend to have friends of the opposite sex, do you not have male friends?
-LDRs can work, however they're not for everyone. You've got to have trust, communication, be faithful, and a lot of hobbies to keep yourself occupied. If you have trust issues, a case of being needy, clingy, problems staying faithful and are in a LDR don't be surprised when it doesn't work. I told you so.
- An ex is an ex for a reason. If you guys couldn't hack it as a couple the first 2 times what makes you think the third time is a charm?
-Going on a "break" is a nice way of breaking up.
-If you have sex with a man and he hasn't called you, or responded to your texts in weeks sorry to say but he was just after a piece of ass.
- Now unless he's getting blown up in Afghanistan, an on call ER doctor, or lying dead in a coffin then he's got no excuse for his poor or lack there of communication.
-You have a 12% chance of your married boyfriend leaving his wife and children.
-A man who is going through a divorce is still legally married. He's about to have an ex wife and you're wanting to get into a relationship with him? That's called a rebound.
-If you're a minor who's just found out she's pregnant, do me and everyone else on this site a favor..Tell your parents.
-Just because some one stares at you, it doesn't mean they like you. They could be staring at that booger hanging out of your nose.
-If you have a lump/bump/cyst/rash that looks green, has oozing puss, and itches like hell, but kinda looks like a STD then you had better consult your doctor. They went through 6 years of schooling and have a license to practice medicine, I think they would know better than random virtual strangers.
-Don't mix business with pleasure. Why? Because if you date your co-worker and in the event things turn sour then you're still stuck facing them 9-5, Mon-Fri. Awkward.
-No matter how hard you try, you can't change a person..they have to make that transformation themselves.
-When your boyfriend/girlfriend says they want space that doesn't mean you do the opposite and bombard them with calls/texts.
-As far as ultimatums go, don't try to make your boyfriend choose between you, his female friends, or weed. You won't like the results.
-If you're 13-17, I'm sorry but you haven't a clue what love really is. You have minimal dating experience confined to the high school dating pool which are nothing but horny boys. Their facial hair doesn't make them a man. It's only till you get out into the real world, a vast dating pool is when you learn the definition of love. So, go on thinking you and 13 year old Tommy will go on to get married, have 3 kids, and a two story house with a white picket fence. I don't expect you to listen, I'm 28 and married, what do I know? There's a reason why everyone says it won't last..because it doesn't.
-The average penis size erect is 6 inches, 4.85 inches. Women like average to even a little below average. We're not going to bust out a tape measure and measure it to make sure it's up to our standards. We just want to have sex, so enough complaining about your size let's get down and dirty.
- The legal age of consent in the U.S. is 16-18 varying oer state, in Britain it's 16. I think it's safe to say most parts of the world (unless you live in a tribe with their own form of government) the legal age to consent to sex is 16. So yes, all you minors below the age of consent are committing a crime when you engage in sexual activity. The age is set that high for a reason, you are not above the law. |
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Am I just crazy and paranoid or what?
Q. This may be a long description but you have to get the whole story. My boyfriend of 5 months and I met at work. He had a girlfriend at the time. We always flirted and had a good time when working together and we made each other laugh. One night he ...
A. 9 November 2010: How considerate of him to wait to cheat on you. You didn't really know who he was, or you did and just ignored it, living in denial.
My point is it happens...learn from this experience and move on. From now on don't dare date a man that cheats o... (read in full...)
Am I just crazy and paranoid or what?
Q. This may be a long description but you have to get the whole story. My boyfriend of 5 months and I met at work. He had a girlfriend at the time. We always flirted and had a good time when working together and we made each other laugh. One night he ...
A. 9 November 2010: Well OP I'm sorry to hear that..but what do you expect from a guy who cheated on his gf with you..then proceeds to have a relationship with you starting off with NO TRUST. Why did you get in a relationship with someone you couldn't trust at all? ... (read in full...)
Am I just crazy and paranoid or what?
Q. This may be a long description but you have to get the whole story. My boyfriend of 5 months and I met at work. He had a girlfriend at the time. We always flirted and had a good time when working together and we made each other laugh. One night he ...
A. 7 November 2010: Not to be harsh but did it ever occur to you he's not cheating? That this paranoia has taken you completely over and you are imagining shit? You have this constant fear that he's cheating so you're playing CSI combing thru his carpet with a fine ... (read in full...)
He calls me horrible names
Q. hey guys im kind of new at this thing but i really need an outside perspective. me and my boyfriend have been together for almost a year and half now. when he gets mad at me he calls me some horrible names ex:lard ass,bitch,exc.. and it makes me ...
A. 30 October 2010: That's called verbal abuse. He feels the need to put you down, make you weak in order to feel better about himself. A man that respects and loves you wouldn't call you bitch or lard ass regardless if he's mad or joking.
You want to be with him... (read in full...)
Who is the bad guy now between us?
Q. I spent the night with my bf last night. We just see each other twice a month as it would be expensive if we see each other on a weekly basis but we chat, call and text everyday. He lives 2 hrs away. Here's the thing, when we met, he had just star...
A. 30 October 2010: I like "500 Days of Summer" too..kinda thought it was good.
Anyways, so it started out as an open relationship because he still had started this girlfriend and you were okay with it? Then he didn't say they broke up but were on a break? I'm conf... (read in full...)
How do you get somebody OFF your mind?
Q. I understand this might be a bit of a strange question and hard to answer so any types of responses will be appreciated :) I was just wondering how you stop thinking about someone. I broke up with my boyfriend a few months ago and we don't have an...
A. 30 October 2010: Other than taking up jazzercise on Saturday mornings and filling the rest of your now empty time slots that were his, with hobbies..It also doesn't hurt to get back into the dating world and casually date. Just for fun, it really doesn't have to go ... (read in full...)
Our sex life seems to be the only thing holding us together
Q. My boyfriend and i have been arguing alot lately. He doesnt seem as happy. He never wants to go out on the weekends anymore. Or sex life seems to be the only thing holding us together. how do i know thats not the only thing he wants? he still tells ...
A. 30 October 2010: Ah, the more the hold it in all bottled up the sooner it explodes on whomever is in the line of fire..You. Just let him know it's ok to talk about his feelings and what's going on with you, that's one of your girlfriend duties. It's not healthy to ... (read in full...)
Why won't he look at me anymore during sex?
Q. So heres another question about me and the bf... So we have rarely been having sex (my choice because he is being STUPID)... anyways... I noticed the last 2 times... he wont look at me (position willing) anymore. he used to make me look...
A. 30 October 2010: Just because you're 6 months pregnant doesn't mean you're stuck in a rut with this guy. You can still move out, get your own place, or better yet move back in with parents or a relative. Also, you shouldn't be having sex after so many months in your ... (read in full...)
His friends don't like me and want us broken up! Advice?
Q. My boyfriend and i have been together for 5 months and everything is perfect.....except his friends. His friends don't like me because they think he's different when he's with me. But my boyfriend is the one who always wants to be with me and we ...
A. 30 October 2010: I'm sorry to hear but that's really silly he let his friends dictate who he goes out with. Rather shows what a sheep he is. You need a guy who is mature, and who doesn't let his friends get in the way of your relationship..but still has easy going ... (read in full...)
Why won't he look at me anymore during sex?
Q. So heres another question about me and the bf... So we have rarely been having sex (my choice because he is being STUPID)... anyways... I noticed the last 2 times... he wont look at me (position willing) anymore. he used to make me look...
A. 29 October 2010: Now that you're broken up and roommates it doesn't mean anything to him anymore. Whereas sex used to be a bond you and him shared.
So I suggest you don't have sex with him anymore, because you aren't in a relationship with him..basically it's a f... (read in full...)
Am I just crazy and paranoid or what?
Q. This may be a long description but you have to get the whole story. My boyfriend of 5 months and I met at work. He had a girlfriend at the time. We always flirted and had a good time when working together and we made each other laugh. One night he ...
A. 29 October 2010: I take a shower and lay down..especially if I'm dreading work, and want to pull back the covers go back to sleep.
Look, this obsessive, paranoia behavior is going to come to an end one day when he breaks up with you. I'm very surprised he's put... (read in full...)
It was my first time without a condom and I'm very nervous!
Q. Okay so I've been with my boyfriend for about 3 months. WE've had sex before but today I let him cum inside me for the first time. I'm on birth control and I've been on it for a while. I'm just a little nervous because my whole family is very ...
A. 29 October 2010: Yes, the pill isn't 100% effective, abstinence is the only method that's 100%. If you're taking any antibiotics for a sickness then that can counteract your birth control. As a result, you could get pregnant. Use condoms, regardless whether he ... (read in full...)
I thought things went well the other night but he hasn't texted me back
Q. Hi guys, I just wanted to get some advice on something. Well I've been into this guy for a good while now, met him at my cousin's house one day and something really attracted me to him. He's good friends with my cousins so I dunno if this is the ...
A. 29 October 2010: Could be a possibility, I wouldn't necessarily rule that factor out. So he's lazy about answering his phone but as Jmtmj confirmed 3 days is as long as he would go without contacting a girl he's interested in. If you keep on texting him, the more he ... (read in full...)
We are both married - do his 'friendly' kisses mean anything?
Q. I am a married 40 year old woman. I am attracted to a male married friend whose wife is also my friend. Our famlies are very close and we all meet up regularly. I have never let this man know about my feelings and have never acted on them. We have ...
A. 29 October 2010: To get it back to "just friends", you need to have a private talk with him. Let him know this kissing of the lips isn't acceptable, you're not his wife. Tell him it's just friends and to keep it that way..of course this requires effort of both of ... (read in full...)
Why is my husband watching so much porn?
Q. we have been married for 4 years at first i had no clue . but every moring after i left for work my husband would watch porn and get him self off, even if we had sex the night before . now its geting to where he gets on the internet to watch coupels ...
A. 29 October 2010: Why don't you sit down and watch porn with him? Don't make it something shameful, but something you can both enjoy together.
It's not a matter of you don't look good, because there is absolutely nothing the matter with you..it's just that he needs... (read in full...)
Is texting your girlfriend's friend behind her back classed as cheating?
Q. I need to know if you have been with your partner for a few years,and you find out that hes been texting one of your friends both doing this behind your back but no sexual contact is this classed as cheating?...
A. 29 October 2010: Technically no, but it depends what's being said such texts as "I love you and can't wait till you dump her." or "Can you get away tonight, so we can spend time together."..then you've got to people conspiring to cheat..There could be no sexual ... (read in full...)
Boyfriend just grabbed me and "did it". He didn't see anything wrong with that!
Q. Hi All - I need some insight on this. So yesterday I went to see my bf and we both knew we were hooking for sex before he leaves for the weekend to see his mother. Anyway, when i got there he was just uninterested. I touched him, he didnt touch m...
A. 29 October 2010: I'm rather confused, you discussed your intent was to have sex..You started off being affectionate and trying to get him in the mood but he rejects you. Then you turn away, to your surprise he grabs you from behind to give it to you, then it's done. ... (read in full...)
I am not thrilled about the wild boy's night out before out wedding!
Q. Heyy guys I have a big problem on my hands that i really need some advice on. Me and my other half who have been together for quite a while have decided to get married, the wedding isnt until 2012 but its already being planned however all of h...
A. 29 October 2010: Joint bachelor and bachelorette parties are starting to be popular in America. Females aren't comfortable with the best man dragging their hubby to be to the strip clubs..so they make it coed, get a party bus, or limo that transports their drunk ... (read in full...)
We are both married - do his 'friendly' kisses mean anything?
Q. I am a married 40 year old woman. I am attracted to a male married friend whose wife is also my friend. Our famlies are very close and we all meet up regularly. I have never let this man know about my feelings and have never acted on them. We have ...
A. 29 October 2010: At first it's the cheek, then it migrates to the lips, what's next a kiss on the neck? Now unless he's from one of those countries kissing your cheek is a greeting, then ok I can understand that. But one of the lips? No.
The only man you should b... (read in full...)
I thought things went well the other night but he hasn't texted me back
Q. Hi guys, I just wanted to get some advice on something. Well I've been into this guy for a good while now, met him at my cousin's house one day and something really attracted me to him. He's good friends with my cousins so I dunno if this is the ...
A. 29 October 2010: Nope, you confirmed the timeline I was thinking! ... (read in full...)
Does being on birth control make me a slut?
Q. I am 14 years old and i am on birth control without a bf does that make me a slut or a whore or anything on thoes means ???? ...
A. 29 October 2010: No it means you're taking the necessary precautions to prevent a teen pregnancy. Sounds like you were listening when Sex Ed was being taught.
Now, girls who aren't on any form of contraceptive and carelessly sleep with every boy in sight is what ... (read in full...)
How long should I wait for my boyfriend to propose?
Q. How long should I wait for my boyfriend to propose? Without giving him any kind of specific time limit, or making it too obvious that I'm waiting? It would be preferable if he did it on his own. But how long is too long to wait?...
A. 29 October 2010: If he's going to propose it's best her doing it on his own, that way it's a nice surprise. Have you 2 discussed the future? How long have you been together? There's no giving him a time limit, because that's being pushy and he'll dump you for ... (read in full...)
Why do men think of women as slaves?
Q. why do men think of women as slaves?...
A. 29 October 2010: Sex slaves? Human trafficking? Slavery was abolished in the 1800s..I'm sure if it is going on in modern times it's very illegal. ... (read in full...)
I thought things went well the other night but he hasn't texted me back
Q. Hi guys, I just wanted to get some advice on something. Well I've been into this guy for a good while now, met him at my cousin's house one day and something really attracted me to him. He's good friends with my cousins so I dunno if this is the ...
A. 29 October 2010: True, but how long would you leave a female's texts hanging Jmtmj? ... (read in full...)
Do I tell my friend I like her boyfriend?
Q. Ok, so heres the deal. I'm pretty sure I am falling for one of my speech and debate team mates. I am a jr. in high school hes a senior. My car is broken down so after practices hes giving me a ride home (twice a week). There is only one problem, he ...
A. 29 October 2010: Girl code states that you CANNOT steal your friend's boyfriend. You do, you lose your friendship, and her boyfriend won't be allowed to be friends with you either. In this case, you steal, you lose.
From what I read carefully in your post, ju... (read in full...)
I thought things went well the other night but he hasn't texted me back
Q. Hi guys, I just wanted to get some advice on something. Well I've been into this guy for a good while now, met him at my cousin's house one day and something really attracted me to him. He's good friends with my cousins so I dunno if this is the ...
A. 29 October 2010: There's no need to question him all the time about why he kissed you or hasn't texted you. Yeah he kissed you, and it even got raunchy. He may like you or he maybe interested in messing around. If a guy likes you he'll text you back and not leave ... (read in full...)
Is it OK for a 17 year old girl to have a 14 year old boyfriend?
Q. I'm a 17 year old girl and I have a huge crush on an absolutely super cutie living next door to me that I've been friends with for years. The only problem is he's going to be 14 in two weeks. I'm not going to have sex with him, but I would love to ...
A. 29 October 2010: You could date him, just no sex or any sexual acts because he's still a minor. People at school, friends may razz you for dating a younger guy..or they may be supportive. But do remember girls mature faster than boys, so at 14 he might not be up to ... (read in full...)
Torn between my ex and new dude
Q. I was with my boyfriend for four yrs and we have a 4 yr old son. unfortunately he moved abroad (not by choice)and we were separated for two yrs. In that two yrs, he found a new girlfriend abroad and messed everything up. My heart was broken and I ...
A. 29 October 2010: Then go back with your ex since your feelings are stronger. Do note that all this yo-yoing around your ex and introducing new guys in your son's life isn't healthy. If his father can man up and start providing a healthy stable life then take him ... (read in full...)
How to get your bf back and to settle down with him
Q. I'm 19 and me and my bf have been dating for 2 years and he Thinks he knows what I want and I told him I want to settle down He is always telling me I like to party but I don't how do I get him To believe me that I really want to settle do...
A. 29 October 2010: Show him you have stopped partying and spend the weekend home with him watching movies like a boring married couple. :) Quit the partying and drinking he'll see an improvement.
Remember "Actions speak louder than words."... (read in full...)
Strange odor and I'm embarrassed to see the doctor!
Q. umm i have a weird sort of odor on my clit and around it? ive used generic yeast infection treatments, but nothing seems to work. its a sort of weird kind of fishy smell....and no matter how much i was its stil there..i refrain from letin my partn...
A. 29 October 2010: Going to add to Aunt Honesty, at your local drugstore near the douche Summer's Eve makes excellent feminine body wash that leaves you smelling fresh. Also, you could try douching every blue moon to flush out down south..but it's not imperative. I'm ... (read in full...)
What kind of a relationship is this?
Q. Well my friend who I am starting to like has asked whether i want sex with her I've said yes an we are both going to next week. Neither of us are virgins and we are quite close. thing is I don't know whether this is the beginning of a fuck ...
A. 29 October 2010: Starts out being about sex and nothing but sex with no feeling attached that's a fuck buddy, no strings attached set up.
Start out getting to know each other, there's feelings involved, go out on proper dates, you win her over with charm and roma... (read in full...)
My hair stylist hurt my feelings. Should I go back to her?
Q. i'm quite upset. i went to the hairdressers today, and i didnt like some comments that my hairdresser made. she said my colour had faded( i had my hair dyed blonde, but the person who dyed it didnt put much blonde in ) and i didnt even think it ...
A. 29 October 2010: CindyCares pretty much said it..I'm going to add hair dressers such as her are ones who like to offer their opinion when you already come in knowing what you want. Her saying your hair faded it true because usually it fades in 3+ months..She also ... (read in full...)
Pregnant and no one knows but me
Q. Okay so I'm pregnant and the guy doesn't know It and neither do my parents. Help me please?!!...
A. 29 October 2010: Tell your parents first of all so they can help you decide what you're going to do. And then tell your guy because he does have a right to know about his child. Good luck to you, because you're going to need it.
Teen pregnancy is 100% preventa... (read in full...)
My girlfriend said it'd be okay if I received oral sex from another woman!
Q. OK, I've been in a relationship for the past seven months with out any infidelity towards my girl friend. I'll admit that I am the jealous type when someone hits on my girl and she loves that about me. Ever since yesterday, I ask her about giving ...
A. 29 October 2010: I too think it was a snarky comment she made. Not all girls like giving head and some absolutely refuse to do it. And those girls are usually single. Or she could be one of those girls who had a bad experience with it, thus making her shun the ... (read in full...)
I can't stop masturbating over my co-worker!
Q. i need help i work with a polish women shes 23 small blonde hair big boobs face and smile like you wouldnt beleave she just looks awesome, shes so friendly get on well every time i speak to her or even look at her i get an massive erection neve...
A. 28 October 2010: Using her as a visual for masturbating and doing it home is definitely ok. Now, beating one off at work, that's just asking for trouble and pretty inappropriate. What if one of your co-workers or boss catches you petting your snake? They'll fire you ... (read in full...)
How do you hire a private detective?
Q. How to hire a private investigator? Is it expensive? I need professional help to discovery truth about my suspicion. ...
A. 28 October 2010: yellow pages..Call and ask for their rates and compare prices. I'd also go as far to research the businesses and the customer reviews and rants. ... (read in full...)
They say masturbating makes you more horny
Q. hi guys,i'm 14 and i had only started masturbate a few months ago. At the start few weeks i kept doing it,up to 4 times per day.and now i had always feel so horny and wanted to have real sex.what should i do? do i have to stop masturbating?and my ...
A. 28 October 2010: Sounds like your school doesn't have the funds for a proper sex ed course.
Everyone else said it, masturbation relieves your sexual tension..but at your age guys tend to do it more and more to satisfy their sexual urges. I suggest you don't ha... (read in full...)
My friends always say the teacher is staring at me
Q. hey :) I know I have asked this before, but I got no help :( thank you to the people who did comment though, I just need more help please I don't know what to do im really sorry its so long, but please I need your advice .... I'm a littl...
A. 28 October 2010: @ANON reader, clearly you're a teenager yourself if you have to resort to name calling. This is my first time answering her post, maybe if you read carefully her post and mine it says she likes her teacher..in which in my last paragraph I offer her ... (read in full...)
My friends always say the teacher is staring at me
Q. hey :) I know I have asked this before, but I got no help :( thank you to the people who did comment though, I just need more help please I don't know what to do im really sorry its so long, but please I need your advice .... I'm a littl...
A. 28 October 2010: She's at her desk and apparently this is a short man if his crotch comes up to her fore arm. And sometimes her hand is actually touching his area?? I'm thinking someone is going to notice and tell if that is really the case here. ... (read in full...)
My friends always say the teacher is staring at me
Q. hey :) I know I have asked this before, but I got no help :( thank you to the people who did comment though, I just need more help please I don't know what to do im really sorry its so long, but please I need your advice .... I'm a littl...
A. 28 October 2010: Nime, I agree with your post.
ANON Reader, if you read the post she has posted before and gotten similar replies as to the ones on here. Plus, she said she likes her teacher, so the only thing she is concerned about is he really is flirting... (read in full...)
My wife thinks that my ejaculating inside of her will make her fat!
Q. My wife does not want me to ejaculate inside her because she thinks sperm will make her fat, even though she doesn't eats junk food all the time. We have been married 18 months and I have to pull out just before I cum or wear condoms. This has been ...
A. 28 October 2010: Now, if your swimmer migrates north to her egg they meet up and embrace..then yes she'll gain weight because she's pregnant.
I advise you to wear condoms and her get on birth control, because if she worried about gaining weight, she'd freak if... (read in full...)
I'm 18 and dating a 42 year old married man!
Q. I've kind of dug myself a grave here. I'm dating a man who's 42, and I'm only 18. But there one huge problem that I used to let slide but now it's starting to get to me. He's married. I used to just brush it off, but every time I see his and her car ...
A. 28 October 2010: He's married and having an affair with you. To top it off you live across the street? If the affair is in the neighborhood it's only a matter of weeks before his wife catches you two together. You're another life he is leading outside of his normal ... (read in full...)
We have huge arguments about my husband's best friend!
Q. Hi there, I would love to get opinions. I am recently married to a wonderful man, and we are very happy except one thing - we have huge arguments about his best friend. I dont want to get into too much detail about his friend,but I think i have t...
A. 28 October 2010: Your husband seems to be that man who tries to find the good in others when there is nothing but bad showing through on the surface. His best friend, if they've been best friends since day 1 then he's seen the good in him, it very well exists. Now, ... (read in full...)
What should a guy do about hair down below?
Q. what exactly should a guy do with his pubic hair? i seem to have alot, although i'm not sure how much alot really is... Do any girls have some advice or suggestions?...
A. 28 October 2010: Trimmed especially the ball area, those hairs tend to get pretty long and out of control..but not shaved because you don't want to knick the crown jewels.... (read in full...)
Am I just crazy and paranoid or what?
Q. This may be a long description but you have to get the whole story. My boyfriend of 5 months and I met at work. He had a girlfriend at the time. We always flirted and had a good time when working together and we made each other laugh. One night he ...
A. 27 October 2010: Really OP? Women shed 50 to 100 hair follicles a day. And we all know hair gets everywhere, on your boyfriend, on his bed, in the bathroom..so could that hair gain some wind by your boyfriend walking to the shower? Hell yes. Stop being paranoid, or ... (read in full...)
Am I just crazy and paranoid or what?
Q. This may be a long description but you have to get the whole story. My boyfriend of 5 months and I met at work. He had a girlfriend at the time. We always flirted and had a good time when working together and we made each other laugh. One night he ...
A. 27 October 2010: A little psycho? A lotta psycho!
In the beginning of your post, it was a red flag he cheated on his girlfriend with you (you were retaliation sex), and telling you he loves you after 2 weeks (you know very well that loves takes time to blossom)... (read in full...)
Our sex life seems to be the only thing holding us together
Q. My boyfriend and i have been arguing alot lately. He doesnt seem as happy. He never wants to go out on the weekends anymore. Or sex life seems to be the only thing holding us together. how do i know thats not the only thing he wants? he still tells ...
A. 25 October 2010: If sex is the only glue holding your relationship together, then I'm sorry to say consider it over. You need trust, communication, love..Have you tried talking to him to see what's eating at him? ... (read in full...)
His friends don't like me and want us broken up! Advice?
Q. My boyfriend and i have been together for 5 months and everything is perfect.....except his friends. His friends don't like me because they think he's different when he's with me. But my boyfriend is the one who always wants to be with me and we ...
A. 25 October 2010: well split hallway time in half..you gotta show these guys you're not here to take away their friend..to where he starts to lose his friends. That's understandable. It happens in some couples..In fact, let these guys know you're not here to take ... (read in full...)
His friends don't like me and want us broken up! Advice?
Q. My boyfriend and i have been together for 5 months and everything is perfect.....except his friends. His friends don't like me because they think he's different when he's with me. But my boyfriend is the one who always wants to be with me and we ...
A. 25 October 2010: It's normal for his buddies to feel threatened by you. They think they're not going to see enough of him because you're in the picture. Compromise baby..
As jmc930 stated, it's up to him to talk to his friends. He needs to let them know that jus... (read in full...)
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