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What qualifies me to help you? Vast dating experience, especially in the LDR department, even an international on with an Aussie, broke hearts, had mine broken, been engaged once before, I know what a real friend is, seen the ugly side of divorce coming from a recently broken home myself, even went as far as to tip the odds to my side and use men only to toss them aside like yesterday's garbage like they do women, I know what it's like to almost give up hope on finding the perfect man when he's really only a few boyfriends away, and I'm starting to learn the ropes of married life. I also know a vast deal about the female and male reproductive system, and all about the mental struggles with infertility. On a side note, I'm the one who gives you tough love, I'm not on here to sugarcoat it or to tell you what you want to hear. I'm going to give it to you straight up, wouldn't you rather the truth?
-TOP 5 QUESTIONS I CAN'T STAND-
#1. Does this mean my teacher likes me?
Just because they're nice to you, offer extra help, and put a little gold star on your A+ paper doesn't mean they are in love with you.
#2. Could I be pregnant?
Have you not heard of a pregnancy test? Get off this website, and go to your local drugstore.
#3. I'm 14 and I want a baby?
Really? Me too! Oh wait I'm 28 and married. You're how old again?
#4. My husband loves porn more than me!
Maybe if you didn't let yourself go into the frumpy woman you have turned into then he wouldn't have to look at porn now would he? I recommend you get your rear to the salon for highlights, manicure, pedicure, tanning, toss the baggy tees and sweat pants for a wardrobe that fits, and a little makeup goes a long way. It's called basic woman maintenance in order to keep your man's eyes on you.
#5. Will we get back together, how can I get him to love me again?
Unfortunately, my crystal ball is broke at the moment and I just gave away the last of my love potion No. 9. Sorry.
MY GENERAL RULES OF THUMB (this should be common sense)
-No means no.
-Girls can ask out ask guys, this is a new generation.
-Unless you know sign language or are telepathic, you're going to have to talk to him/her.
-My "Don't ask, Don't tell" policy as is follows: Do not by any means volunteer your own sexual history, or ask your date/partner/wife/girlfriend their magic number (how many people they've slept with). If you find yourself being prompted to answer this question, politely tell them that's none of their business.
-Your past doesn't define who you are today. We grow, mature, age, and change as time passes.
-If you have to even ask random strangers on this website if you should have sex, then you're not ready for it.
-FWBs, fuck buddies, no strings attached, whatever you want to call it..is not a relationship don't get the 2 confused. In this case, sex=sex, not love.
-No trust=no relationship.
-It is normal for your husband/boyfriend to have friends of the opposite sex, do you not have male friends?
-LDRs can work, however they're not for everyone. You've got to have trust, communication, be faithful, and a lot of hobbies to keep yourself occupied. If you have trust issues, a case of being needy, clingy, problems staying faithful and are in a LDR don't be surprised when it doesn't work. I told you so.
- An ex is an ex for a reason. If you guys couldn't hack it as a couple the first 2 times what makes you think the third time is a charm?
-Going on a "break" is a nice way of breaking up.
-If you have sex with a man and he hasn't called you, or responded to your texts in weeks sorry to say but he was just after a piece of ass.
- Now unless he's getting blown up in Afghanistan, an on call ER doctor, or lying dead in a coffin then he's got no excuse for his poor or lack there of communication.
-You have a 12% chance of your married boyfriend leaving his wife and children.
-A man who is going through a divorce is still legally married. He's about to have an ex wife and you're wanting to get into a relationship with him? That's called a rebound.
-If you're a minor who's just found out she's pregnant, do me and everyone else on this site a favor..Tell your parents.
-Just because some one stares at you, it doesn't mean they like you. They could be staring at that booger hanging out of your nose.
-If you have a lump/bump/cyst/rash that looks green, has oozing puss, and itches like hell, but kinda looks like a STD then you had better consult your doctor. They went through 6 years of schooling and have a license to practice medicine, I think they would know better than random virtual strangers.
-Don't mix business with pleasure. Why? Because if you date your co-worker and in the event things turn sour then you're still stuck facing them 9-5, Mon-Fri. Awkward.
-No matter how hard you try, you can't change a person..they have to make that transformation themselves.
-When your boyfriend/girlfriend says they want space that doesn't mean you do the opposite and bombard them with calls/texts.
-As far as ultimatums go, don't try to make your boyfriend choose between you, his female friends, or weed. You won't like the results.
-If you're 13-17, I'm sorry but you haven't a clue what love really is. You have minimal dating experience confined to the high school dating pool which are nothing but horny boys. Their facial hair doesn't make them a man. It's only till you get out into the real world, a vast dating pool is when you learn the definition of love. So, go on thinking you and 13 year old Tommy will go on to get married, have 3 kids, and a two story house with a white picket fence. I don't expect you to listen, I'm 28 and married, what do I know? There's a reason why everyone says it won't last..because it doesn't.
-The average penis size erect is 6 inches, 4.85 inches. Women like average to even a little below average. We're not going to bust out a tape measure and measure it to make sure it's up to our standards. We just want to have sex, so enough complaining about your size let's get down and dirty.
- The legal age of consent in the U.S. is 16-18 varying oer state, in Britain it's 16. I think it's safe to say most parts of the world (unless you live in a tribe with their own form of government) the legal age to consent to sex is 16. So yes, all you minors below the age of consent are committing a crime when you engage in sexual activity. The age is set that high for a reason, you are not above the law. |
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She was pressured into doing something with another guy, should I end it or stay?
Q. my girlfriend was pressured in to sucking another boy's d**k, she lied to me when i asked about it but she has now told me the truth and i dont know what to do. shoud i end it or stay?...
A. 16 November 2010: Let her parents deal with her suicide attempts and threats. It's out of your hands now, I suggest you give her a little space. Hopefully, her parents get her the psychological help she needs. ... (read in full...)
I agreed to an abortion but now I'm second guessing it!
Q. I'm 9 weeks pregnant with my 3 child which was unplanned. My partner who I've been with for 16 years wants me to terminate the pregnancy, I said I would, but am now not sure if I can go through with it. What should I do? ...
A. 11 November 2010: Now, now..That info would be great if our OP was from U.S. but she's an Aussie.
The most recent abortion rate in Australia is 20.2% they average about 900,00 abortions each other. And they average 250,000 live births each year so there are 2 abor... (read in full...)
What can I do, say, or wear to get guys to want me ?
Q. what is something you can do to get a guy to want you? i mean like really want you lol. should i wear different clothes or change how i look? what are somethings i can say to get him to know i want him?...
A. 11 November 2010: Basically how to be a tease? If you get him sexually revved up and don't do anything about it, you're going to have one mad guy on your hands, or a dangerous situation.... (read in full...)
My teenage daughter wanted permission to marry her boyfriend!
Q. Hello everyone. This question is really me just wondering what you would do in my situation: Yesterday, my 16 (almost 17) year old little girl and her boyfriend came to me and asked me to give her permission to marry him. I was baffled by it, a...
A. 11 November 2010: Completely baffled..I would throw a chastity belt and lock her in her room.
Kidding, that would be inhuman. I have no doubt you made the correct decision, just beware when she is 18 and is still with this guy.... (read in full...)
I love her and I'm ready for sex. Should I go ahead with it?
Q. Ok....Heres the situation me and this girl are deeply in love. We are not 18 we are both within a year of each other age wise. This past weekend we where close to having intercourse when I stopped us. The only reason I stopped us is I didn't want ...
A. 11 November 2010: That's exactly why they have those laws, because minors are not mature enough to engage in sex. At the end of the day, you think and do what you want.. End of story..... (read in full...)
Tough love or mean parent?
Q. Ok guys this is a question that is not about love or sex this is a very hard tough love question. My son and his wife split up and i let him move in with me. I am single and have new house and car and bills. He knows i make good money. He has no job ...
A. 11 November 2010: I'm sorry but I doubt he's telling the truth, packing up and going to Mexico, hitchhiking..sounds really far fetched. He's just trying to make you feel guilty. Don't fall for it, he's already taken advantage of you enough. Let him go out into the ... (read in full...)
Was it just that a one time during the summer or does he still like me?
Q. Does he like me? So there is this one guy and i was just wondering what is up with him. He throwing around some mixed signals and im not sure what to do. It all started summer where we attended the same parties and that an seen eachother at the...
A. 11 November 2010: I'm pretty certain he didn't get offended after you left..
It looks like you guys just had sex that one time, it is what it is..sex. If he wanted anything more than sex, then he would have taken the chance you gave him after you dumped your boy... (read in full...)
He doesn't shower after he gets home from work!
Q. Hi, I'm just wondering if most men seem to have their daily shower in the morning? The problem I have is that my husband walks to work for 1/2 hr (and it is quite hot where we are) works for the day (a desk job), then at bedtime he takes his work ...
A. 11 November 2010: My husband takes 2, which I wish he would make it one to cut down on the water bill.
Anyways, I too like to wash all the grime from the day before bed. Now, I can understand where he's too tired from the work day to take a shower and ready to... (read in full...)
What can I do, say, or wear to get guys to want me ?
Q. what is something you can do to get a guy to want you? i mean like really want you lol. should i wear different clothes or change how i look? what are somethings i can say to get him to know i want him?...
A. 11 November 2010: Wear tasteful tops that bare a little cleavage, dresses, flirty skirts..a lot of the times men are turned on by a classy woman not a trashy one. Have the confidence and intelligence to back up your flirty look. Be you, with your best foot forward.
... (read in full...)
Would this be considered "cheating", should I tell her?
Q. Background: Earlier this year in May, a childhood female friend of mine got back in touch with me after 10 years of being apart. We both grew up in Virginia. I found out that she lives in South Carolina now, but was visiting VA in a couple of ...
A. 11 November 2010: I'm with walkingdude, how do you think you're in a committed relationship? It has to be discussed before you call yourselves official. Then you feel you weren't in a relationship?
If you two didn't have a discussion about being boyfrien... (read in full...)
I like this co-worker who just got out of a bad marriage, but I don't want to be his rebound girl!
Q. Dear cupid I really like this guy I work with, but there's lots of reasons I shouldn't.First of all he's just come out of a really bad marriage, she turned all psycho and clingy on him and then cheated on him, and I don't want to be his rebound g...
A. 11 November 2010: Is he legally divorced? What's best for him is to be single, deal with the aftermath of his ex wife, get over the divorce, work out visitations with his children then engage in dating when he's truly ready. Now isn't the time.... (read in full...)
I feel like us not arguing it unhealthy!
Q. Hi! I'm a new user though I've been reading for a while and I've decided to ask an for an opinion. It's simple really :) Let me start out that my boyfriend and I have been together for 8 months, are very close emotionally, and confide in each ...
A. 11 November 2010: Sorry posters I meant "is" instead of "it"..
OP, I didn't have an argument with my husband till we got married! So yes, it's perfectly normal and healthy not to have any arguments. Also note you guys have only been together for 8 months, not all ... (read in full...)
Tough love or mean parent?
Q. Ok guys this is a question that is not about love or sex this is a very hard tough love question. My son and his wife split up and i let him move in with me. I am single and have new house and car and bills. He knows i make good money. He has no job ...
A. 11 November 2010: Let him go he's an adult and a parent perfectly capable of making his own mistakes..Now he can hopefully learn from them.... (read in full...)
I agreed to an abortion but now I'm second guessing it!
Q. I'm 9 weeks pregnant with my 3 child which was unplanned. My partner who I've been with for 16 years wants me to terminate the pregnancy, I said I would, but am now not sure if I can go through with it. What should I do? ...
A. 11 November 2010: Don't go through with it if you don't want to. Your body, your choice..not your partner's. ... (read in full...)
He thinks I'm into him when I'm really not!
Q. I met this guy over the summer while I was on vacation in California (I live in Idaho, he lives in CA). I only saw him once, and all we did was talk. He seemed nice and we exchanged numbers. We texted each other occasionally over the summer, but now ...
A. 11 November 2010: Ignore him all together...or come out right and tell him that you're not interested in him in that way, you want to be just friends.... (read in full...)
He claims he's over her, but I still see them talking!
Q. Should i be worried if my boyfriend is close friends with a girl he used to be in love with but never dated? It was before he met me and i have confronted him about it many times and he claims he is over it...but i still get jealous everytime i see ...
A. 11 November 2010: Because he met you...you don't always like the same person throughout high school, you obtain new crushes, and forget about the old ones.... (read in full...)
He claims he's over her, but I still see them talking!
Q. Should i be worried if my boyfriend is close friends with a girl he used to be in love with but never dated? It was before he met me and i have confronted him about it many times and he claims he is over it...but i still get jealous everytime i see ...
A. 11 November 2010: He says he's over her, why not take his word for it? You have no reason to question him. If it was meant to be then he would be with her than with you. Keep your jealousy in check or you'll drive him away.... (read in full...)
I don't know if I'm being petty.
Q. So I got my eyes tested today -turns out I need glasses. I'd asked my boyfriend whether he might come with me to pick some, as I wanted someone to bounce different ideas off - I've never had glasses before and picking them seems daunting...
A. 11 November 2010: He didn't really want to go in the first place, nor did he actually say he was going. Also he doesn't really have a car, yeah he has his dad's but it's a privilege not to be abused. Really, that's something you take a girl friend to..not your ... (read in full...)
I love her and I'm ready for sex. Should I go ahead with it?
Q. Ok....Heres the situation me and this girl are deeply in love. We are not 18 we are both within a year of each other age wise. This past weekend we where close to having intercourse when I stopped us. The only reason I stopped us is I didn't want ...
A. 11 November 2010: Again, at the end of the day it is the law..and you ARE a minor.... (read in full...)
Would you consider making a pass at my best friend cheating?
Q. My gf made a pass at one of my best friends late one night. When he told me I knew it was true, because that was the exact same way she expressed interest in me the first night I met her. Is that cheating?...
A. 11 November 2010: Well if she didn't kiss, have sex with, or any form of contact such as cuddling, snuggling, and sexually explicit texts then no she didn't cheat. WIth that being said, she is inclined to cheat because of that pass at your friend. Take another look ... (read in full...)
A whole lot of baby mama drama
Q. i am in a tough situation, im a mother of twin boys they are 6 years old and the father was in the picture when they were younger then he disappeared because he got with another women. That kept him from seeing his kids but his mother always called ...
A. 11 November 2010: Your boyfriend can't deny the father of your sons being back in the picture..that's solely your decision, whatever he says is irrelevant. There's so many issues with you, your boyfriend, and his baby's mama, I can't help but feel you are all 3 in a ... (read in full...)
He expects me to be Miss Perfect but I want to be me!
Q. OK, so me and my boyfriend got together like 3 weeks after him and his former fiance broke up cuz I guess she was cheating on him. He insists that he loves me, but lately he has been a bit.... Rude, I guess you can say. He told me I needed to lose ...
A. 11 November 2010: I'm confused at how he controls you this much seeing as he's long distance. Tell him off, he's criticizing your weight, and how you should wear your hair..if he loved you then he wouldn't do any of the above. Give him an ultimatum, either he accepts ... (read in full...)
B cup size, will they get any bigger?
Q. Well, thisnis kinda embarrassing but I'm 13 years old and I want to know if my breasts will get bigger. Cause they are like a B now but I would like them to be a little bigger. What do you think???...
A. 11 November 2010: Also, do note if you gain some weight there is a chance of them getting bigger. I was a flat A in high school, now at 25 I'm a full C. ... (read in full...)
In the end doesn't it only matter about maturity in the situation, not age?
Q. So at the end of last summer me and this older guy really started something. We met through one of my close friends one day and later that night hooked up in the back of his car (No sex). I was expecting it to be a one night thing, but we started ...
A. 11 November 2010: Well honey the mature thing to do is wait till the legal age of consent, before you have sex. The legal age in America varies per state is 16-18, which you are not. You had sex with a guy who is 3 years older than you are making him 16-18, of legal ... (read in full...)
He told me he misses my boring company, how does that make sense?
Q. Ok... I was out with my best male friend of many years tonight, we went to a place with nice music as we usually do and he had two glasses of wine. I felt I was not in the mood and told him I feel I am boring tonight. He answered me saying that ...
A. 10 November 2010: I agree with Dirtball, what he said was a flirty joke. However, it could be the wine talking if he was rather intoxicated. Give him a day to sober up and text back!... (read in full...)
Why do some women wish they were taller?
Q. The question is easy: why do some women wish they were taller? This is the reason most women wear high heels for example. I'm just wondering why, is it to scare off predators or do they just think taller women are more attractive? Is i...
A. 10 November 2010: I always wear heels when going out at night, now there are exceptions. If I'm dating a shorter man, I'll always wear flats..If I've got a tall one, then I usually stick to heels to compensate for my height. (I'm 5'6'') Now, as Tisha said women wear ... (read in full...)
Who says "Fo Sho" these days?
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for a year. I have known him all my life, we grew up down the road from each other when we were younger. We never really kept in contact too much over the years, would chat for a bit if we ran into each other. We ...
A. 10 November 2010: Agreed, I'd point out nicely he's a little old to be saying those phrases. I haven't said any of those phrases since high school. Which brings me to my next question, is he around your age? Does he still say that in person, or is it just on the ... (read in full...)
Husband failed to mention he was eating lunch with his female co-worker!
Q. I just found out that my husband has been lying to me for the past six months (the same time he had just started work at a new location - same company, but in a different area of the state). When he comes home from work, I'll ask how his day was, ...
A. 10 November 2010: He could have felt it wasn't necessary to point out a woman ate lunch with his group, maybe she just joined their lunch group. Or he refrained from telling you because he knew you might get upset. How did you find out? You never have met his ... (read in full...)
My supervisor complains about me to my co-workers!
Q. There's this supervisor at work that is telling people that I don't attend to her requests as soon as I supposed to. I believe I'm doing my job as I supposed to, I don't think I take too long to go help her dept. I am a computer support at this ...
A. 10 November 2010: If you have an "Open door policy" at work, I would discuss the problem with her..however, I feel that it won't get resolved with just her alone. So it's in your best interest to seek the help of your Human Resource's/Personal manger so he/she can ... (read in full...)
Sex - what do women prefer? And why do some women like to swallow when others dont?
Q. [Mod Note: 2 questions from the same poster have been merged into one] Here is a question that I always wanted answered by someone other than my wife.....Why do some girls like to swallow seamen and some don't? What do most woman prefer, oral sex...
A. 10 November 2010: I'm a spitter..No I'm not a quitter because I still give blow jobs.
Personally, I don't like the consistency, that warm taste, (not to mention I'm a picky eater) and some men's spunk have a nasty taste. As for the swallowers, I've heard one woma... (read in full...)
Ladies, is therea way to shave down there that isn't equivalent to self-torture?
Q. I prefer the look and feel of having no hair down there. Multiple times in the past I’ve attempted to shave, but I’ve never been able to keep it up for more than three days. It’s just so uncomfortable. For the first day it feels fine, but within 24 ...
A. 10 November 2010: If you use a cheap conditioner, or whatever is sitting in your shower instead of shaving foam, it gives you a smooth finish, bump free! (that goes for your legs too). Also I notice you hail from the US, if you have a Sally Beauty Supply near you ask ... (read in full...)
Why does this 40 year old man want my virginity?
Q. I've been speaking with a 40 year old man for about 4 months on the internet. Don't tell me about the fact that I'm 18 and he could be my dad. I am aware of that. That's not the advice I'm seeking. Or tell me that he's going through a midlife crisis ...
A. 10 November 2010: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/why-would-he-want-to-be-with-someone.html
Looks like here's a bit of background.... (read in full...)
We have financial issues, I'm thinking about finding a sugardaddy!
Q. I am married and have a soon-to-be 6 month old baby. We are starting to have a hard time with finances (just like everyone else in the country). I work full time at home on the farm and part time outside of the home (as needed) and my husband has 2 ...
A. 10 November 2010: He has 2 full time jobs and you have a part time job that I'm guessing you go in when needed but you're still not making it?? It's natural to have debt, who in America doesn't? A truck and owing on your land is normal everyday debt. Have you even ... (read in full...)
I'm dating my best friend's girlfriend!
Q. Hi... a BIG PROBLEM... i am dating my childhood frinds girlfriend for the past 3 months....they had relationship for long eight years in which they had breakup twice and that too for one yr and second one also the same...they patched up back ...
A. 10 November 2010: Ok does that mean she dumped you since she called you a spoiled brat? If she hasn't then she probably is going to dump you soon..I'd back off from her, let it go because she doesn't sound like a very good girlfriend in the first place.... (read in full...)
She was pressured into doing something with another guy, should I end it or stay?
Q. my girlfriend was pressured in to sucking another boy's d**k, she lied to me when i asked about it but she has now told me the truth and i dont know what to do. shoud i end it or stay?...
A. 10 November 2010: This isn't Romeo and Juliet, honey. If she's cutting her wrists, that's very serious meaning she's contemplating suicide..in which you need to tell her parents immediately. ... (read in full...)
All I got from him was a "Happy Birthday!" on MSN!
Q. I understand its not a big deal and that I may sound spoiled. But my BF got me NOTHING for my bf, nothing nothing... Around 6 of my friends, called/texted at 12:00 exactly and seemed happy for me. He did not even call, he said Happy Birthday on ...
A. 10 November 2010: I don't think you sounded spoiled, but have you asked if there is a reason why he couldn't call you for your birthday, instead of an IM? Are you more upset you didn't get anything or that he didn't call? Was he in your country at this time? The ... (read in full...)
How should I make him understand that I don't like this swap idea?
Q. I am 28 years old and my husband is asking me for swapping with another couple. He is angry to me that i denied for it and we are having arguments on this...he said nasty things to me and whenever we argue at end of it he makes love to me and he is ...
A. 10 November 2010: Now unless you are filming for that show Wife Swap then your husband shouldn't be trying to trade in his wife!!
You sound abused more than anything, saying nasty harmful comments and hurting you to the point of tears during sex. Follow Dear Jil... (read in full...)
Am I shallow for my worries due to his hair colour?
Q. i have a problem, a man reaaly likes me and would do anything for me but because he is ginger im scared what people will say! what do i do?...
A. 10 November 2010: Actually I have a nice suggestion, if you like him and he'll do anything then why not ask him to dye his hair and eyebrows? Maybe a blonde, often ginger's can pull that off.
However, if you don't like him in that way, then simply tell him "no ... (read in full...)
Why does this 40 year old man want my virginity?
Q. I've been speaking with a 40 year old man for about 4 months on the internet. Don't tell me about the fact that I'm 18 and he could be my dad. I am aware of that. That's not the advice I'm seeking. Or tell me that he's going through a midlife crisis ...
A. 10 November 2010: He is but he isn't..He could date women more his age but he chooses to go after one who is significantly younger and inexperienced....Again as many have stated the creepy factor. Any girl gets dumped around the "prove your love" stage inexperienced ... (read in full...)
My ex abandoned me during my pregnancy, started taking drugs and now wants to come back
Q. I am pregnant and due in less than a week with my first child. The father and i broke up around my third month of pregnancy because he decided he did not want a baby..in fact he said it was solely my fault i got pregnant.. and refused to help ...
A. 10 November 2010: Well unless you can reproduce asexually then I'm pretty darn certain he played a role in you getting pregnant.
How long has it been almost 9 months then he resurfaces back, claiming to be cured of his drug habit? Now, unless he went thru rehab th... (read in full...)
My ex and I still have sex even though he has other women. Why can't I leave him?
Q. hi every body i need help. well first my son's father and i was together for about 2 years and a few months. yea it was my first relationship, first time in love, and my firsy baby. well we have been broken up for about a year now but we still ha...
A. 10 November 2010: Sex doesn't always equal love, honey. Sometimes sex=sex. You still have a hold on him because he was your first and you will always be in each other's lives due to the child you share. Why did you break up in the first place? Basically, you guys are ... (read in full...)
My husband says he doesn't know if he loves me because of my weight
Q. My husband has told me three times on three seperate ocassions in our 6 year relationship that he doesn't know if he loves me, and that because of my weight he is no longer atracted to me. He has a lot of issues and has started councilling and was ...
A. 10 November 2010: Well have you gained a noticeable amount of weight after childbirth? It's possible you just haven't lost it just yet..no need to beat yourself up over your husband's rude comments. Now what does he look like, does he have any room to talk?
Your ... (read in full...)
How can I get a girl to stay?
Q. Okay so i am 23 year old guy. I have kissed like just 3 girls in my life and they hang out with me for like few days to few weeks and leave me. I have recently dated like a french girl who was beautiful and lovely. She broke with me in 1 week ...
A. 10 November 2010: You will, it's possible you're putting too much emphasis on finding a girl. So you've had 3 girls reject, don't sweat it. We all go thru rejection at one point in our lives..It's possible you're picking the wrong kind of girls, that's why they leave ... (read in full...)
I'm average so why talk about it?
Q. I have an average size penis ok, I used to be realy confident in myself UNTIL my girlfriend kind of let me know how large her ex was. I was like oh no and look at me. Iv turned so insecure now. Only yesterday her friend slept with a lad and I asked ...
A. 10 November 2010: How did she kind of let you know her ex was bigger? If her ex was so fantastic in the sack, don't you think she would be with him still instead of you? So I'm going to point out that you're probably better in bed than him, and size isn't all it's ... (read in full...)
Why does this 40 year old man want my virginity?
Q. I've been speaking with a 40 year old man for about 4 months on the internet. Don't tell me about the fact that I'm 18 and he could be my dad. I am aware of that. That's not the advice I'm seeking. Or tell me that he's going through a midlife crisis ...
A. 10 November 2010: What does a 40 year old man want with an 18 year old? Your virginity. He likes the fact that you're pure, tight, untainted, innocent, and not broken in..
Watch yourself.... (read in full...)
She was pressured into doing something with another guy, should I end it or stay?
Q. my girlfriend was pressured in to sucking another boy's d**k, she lied to me when i asked about it but she has now told me the truth and i dont know what to do. shoud i end it or stay?...
A. 9 November 2010: If this is truly the case then you need to tell her, she needs to get down to the police station right to report a rape. However, if she obliges then that tells me she was more than willing to give that other guy a blow job.
She refuses to repor... (read in full...)
I love her and I'm ready for sex. Should I go ahead with it?
Q. Ok....Heres the situation me and this girl are deeply in love. We are not 18 we are both within a year of each other age wise. This past weekend we where close to having intercourse when I stopped us. The only reason I stopped us is I didn't want ...
A. 8 November 2010: No because like everyone else said you're a minor, the legal age of consent varies per state...
Age of consent 16: Alabama, Alaska, Arkansas, Connecticut, District of Columbia, Georgia, Hawaii, Indiana, Iowa, Kansas, Kentucky, Maine, Maryland, Mass... (read in full...)
I'm dating my best friend's girlfriend!
Q. Hi... a BIG PROBLEM... i am dating my childhood frinds girlfriend for the past 3 months....they had relationship for long eight years in which they had breakup twice and that too for one yr and second one also the same...they patched up back ...
A. 15 October 2010: Let it go, do you want to lose your best friend too? 8 years is a long time to swallow, she's got some history with your best friend..you, hate to say it but you were her rebound. If you keep on in this love triangle, she will just keep yanking your ... (read in full...)
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