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What qualifies me to help you? Vast dating experience, especially in the LDR department, even an international on with an Aussie, broke hearts, had mine broken, been engaged once before, I know what a real friend is, seen the ugly side of divorce coming from a recently broken home myself, even went as far as to tip the odds to my side and use men only to toss them aside like yesterday's garbage like they do women, I know what it's like to almost give up hope on finding the perfect man when he's really only a few boyfriends away, and I'm starting to learn the ropes of married life. I also know a vast deal about the female and male reproductive system, and all about the mental struggles with infertility. On a side note, I'm the one who gives you tough love, I'm not on here to sugarcoat it or to tell you what you want to hear. I'm going to give it to you straight up, wouldn't you rather the truth?
-TOP 5 QUESTIONS I CAN'T STAND-
#1. Does this mean my teacher likes me?
Just because they're nice to you, offer extra help, and put a little gold star on your A+ paper doesn't mean they are in love with you.
#2. Could I be pregnant?
Have you not heard of a pregnancy test? Get off this website, and go to your local drugstore.
#3. I'm 14 and I want a baby?
Really? Me too! Oh wait I'm 28 and married. You're how old again?
#4. My husband loves porn more than me!
Maybe if you didn't let yourself go into the frumpy woman you have turned into then he wouldn't have to look at porn now would he? I recommend you get your rear to the salon for highlights, manicure, pedicure, tanning, toss the baggy tees and sweat pants for a wardrobe that fits, and a little makeup goes a long way. It's called basic woman maintenance in order to keep your man's eyes on you.
#5. Will we get back together, how can I get him to love me again?
Unfortunately, my crystal ball is broke at the moment and I just gave away the last of my love potion No. 9. Sorry.
MY GENERAL RULES OF THUMB (this should be common sense)
-No means no.
-Girls can ask out ask guys, this is a new generation.
-Unless you know sign language or are telepathic, you're going to have to talk to him/her.
-My "Don't ask, Don't tell" policy as is follows: Do not by any means volunteer your own sexual history, or ask your date/partner/wife/girlfriend their magic number (how many people they've slept with). If you find yourself being prompted to answer this question, politely tell them that's none of their business.
-Your past doesn't define who you are today. We grow, mature, age, and change as time passes.
-If you have to even ask random strangers on this website if you should have sex, then you're not ready for it.
-FWBs, fuck buddies, no strings attached, whatever you want to call it..is not a relationship don't get the 2 confused. In this case, sex=sex, not love.
-No trust=no relationship.
-It is normal for your husband/boyfriend to have friends of the opposite sex, do you not have male friends?
-LDRs can work, however they're not for everyone. You've got to have trust, communication, be faithful, and a lot of hobbies to keep yourself occupied. If you have trust issues, a case of being needy, clingy, problems staying faithful and are in a LDR don't be surprised when it doesn't work. I told you so.
- An ex is an ex for a reason. If you guys couldn't hack it as a couple the first 2 times what makes you think the third time is a charm?
-Going on a "break" is a nice way of breaking up.
-If you have sex with a man and he hasn't called you, or responded to your texts in weeks sorry to say but he was just after a piece of ass.
- Now unless he's getting blown up in Afghanistan, an on call ER doctor, or lying dead in a coffin then he's got no excuse for his poor or lack there of communication.
-You have a 12% chance of your married boyfriend leaving his wife and children.
-A man who is going through a divorce is still legally married. He's about to have an ex wife and you're wanting to get into a relationship with him? That's called a rebound.
-If you're a minor who's just found out she's pregnant, do me and everyone else on this site a favor..Tell your parents.
-Just because some one stares at you, it doesn't mean they like you. They could be staring at that booger hanging out of your nose.
-If you have a lump/bump/cyst/rash that looks green, has oozing puss, and itches like hell, but kinda looks like a STD then you had better consult your doctor. They went through 6 years of schooling and have a license to practice medicine, I think they would know better than random virtual strangers.
-Don't mix business with pleasure. Why? Because if you date your co-worker and in the event things turn sour then you're still stuck facing them 9-5, Mon-Fri. Awkward.
-No matter how hard you try, you can't change a person..they have to make that transformation themselves.
-When your boyfriend/girlfriend says they want space that doesn't mean you do the opposite and bombard them with calls/texts.
-As far as ultimatums go, don't try to make your boyfriend choose between you, his female friends, or weed. You won't like the results.
-If you're 13-17, I'm sorry but you haven't a clue what love really is. You have minimal dating experience confined to the high school dating pool which are nothing but horny boys. Their facial hair doesn't make them a man. It's only till you get out into the real world, a vast dating pool is when you learn the definition of love. So, go on thinking you and 13 year old Tommy will go on to get married, have 3 kids, and a two story house with a white picket fence. I don't expect you to listen, I'm 28 and married, what do I know? There's a reason why everyone says it won't last..because it doesn't.
-The average penis size erect is 6 inches, 4.85 inches. Women like average to even a little below average. We're not going to bust out a tape measure and measure it to make sure it's up to our standards. We just want to have sex, so enough complaining about your size let's get down and dirty.
- The legal age of consent in the U.S. is 16-18 varying oer state, in Britain it's 16. I think it's safe to say most parts of the world (unless you live in a tribe with their own form of government) the legal age to consent to sex is 16. So yes, all you minors below the age of consent are committing a crime when you engage in sexual activity. The age is set that high for a reason, you are not above the law. |
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Should I stop talking to her or should I still try (because I know she loves me)?
Q. Hey: My ex-girlfriend of two years broke up with me roughly two months ago because I was studying for my medical boards, working full time, and not giving her enough attention in the 5 months preceding. In addition, she got a new sales job (her f...
A. 13 November 2010: No not really, just an update of the situation would have been polite of her. If it really did happen she called you as I said for a "shoulder to cry on"..it's possible that she felt she was breaking her own rules of NC, when really she said she ... (read in full...)
Should I stop talking to her or should I still try (because I know she loves me)?
Q. Hey: My ex-girlfriend of two years broke up with me roughly two months ago because I was studying for my medical boards, working full time, and not giving her enough attention in the 5 months preceding. In addition, she got a new sales job (her f...
A. 11 November 2010: I'd take that as an emergency, you were the first person she turned to..or the only one who could have answered their phone for that matter. If she reports him for sexual harassment, that has to be investigated and treated very seriously..I doubt ... (read in full...)
We moved in, got comfortable, and I'm wondering about compatibility
Q. I have been dating my boyfriend for over 2 years now. We've been living together for a couple of months. The interesting thing is that neither one of us seemed to notice just how big of a step it was...we just fit so comfortably together. Perhaps a ...
A. 4 November 2010: Well said Chigirl..when he's got a year and some odd months left..take it as you're going to travel abroad. Backpack around Europe staying in hostels, see landmarks, embrace the culture, enjoy the fine cuisine. He doesn't and obviously can't come. ... (read in full...)
I find it tough to find attractive women who fancy me! Should I lower my standards??
Q. Hi guys can you help? I'm 32 (embarrassed that a guy my age is even on here) and feel I'm getting on now and need to find a decent girlfriend. I’ve been single for 2/3 years now but to be honest girlfriends have always been hard to find. (before ...
A. 3 November 2010: Ah the bookstore, there's always tons of ladies littered down the aisles..look over by the magazines. Grab some magazine you like (not Maximum) and flip through it..Or go down other aisles, and if you see a woman holding a book that you have read, ... (read in full...)
I find it tough to find attractive women who fancy me! Should I lower my standards??
Q. Hi guys can you help? I'm 32 (embarrassed that a guy my age is even on here) and feel I'm getting on now and need to find a decent girlfriend. I’ve been single for 2/3 years now but to be honest girlfriends have always been hard to find. (before ...
A. 3 November 2010: I laughed my ass off at that Bologna part. If you said that to me I would definitely give you the time of day..ChiGirl is correct of every one woman who enjoys you chatting her up will be a handful of ladies who will brush you off. But hey EVERYONE ... (read in full...)
Very small penis, now I don't fancy him!
Q. I'm in a bit of a cuffuffle. I started talking to a lovely guy a few weeks ago, we have been on 3 dates and I stayed at his house last night. I'm 21 he's 31. We ended up getting naked and feeling each other. I noticed that when his penis is e...
A. 3 November 2010: No they can't be unattracted so quickly but they can be turned off by a below average dick. The OP chose to still proceed with sexual intercourse but he was still lacking. For some women, it's about size and that you know how to use it. She could ... (read in full...)
For the girls: Would it bother you if your boyfriend did this?
Q. Girls, does it/would it bother you if your boyfriend sat next to, waved to, did things like highfiving, and sometimes waited with *one particular* girl he knows (but he doesnt do those things in front of you)? Would you worry that he's going to ...
A. 2 November 2010: So he asked her out but he's with you!!
Boys can have friends who are female, do you not have any male friends?... (read in full...)
Do I have to choose between my boyfriend and family?
Q. Ok, basically...I am feeling like I have to choose between my boyfriend of a year and my family. I have always been reallyyyy close to my family - my parents and my 3 siblings. My siblings know me as I am but I suppose I've always hidden a lot about ...
A. 2 November 2010: If he's any kind of boyfriend he wouldn't make you choose. So I would woman up and till him family is very important to you, you want to rekindle what you have seem to have lost over the years..you will always be the baby of your family. I would ... (read in full...)
I want my cheating husband to tell our daughter about his affair or leave his woman on the side but he wont come clean!
Q. We are married for 10 yrs. with one daughter (14 yrs.old).My husband is currently working in middle east and he is having an affair of a girl who is also in another country for almost 6 months now.I told my husband to reveal this matter to our ...
A. 2 November 2010: Divorce or separation.... (read in full...)
Very small penis, now I don't fancy him!
Q. I'm in a bit of a cuffuffle. I started talking to a lovely guy a few weeks ago, we have been on 3 dates and I stayed at his house last night. I'm 21 he's 31. We ended up getting naked and feeling each other. I noticed that when his penis is e...
A. 2 November 2010: Female anon, we're not here to judge when the OP slept with this guy nor to preach our personal views.. Myself, I usually sleep with them once before we're official just to make we're sexually compatible. Again what this posting is all about. This ... (read in full...)
Was I wrong to stop him?
Q. hiya everyone, feeling troubled at the moment. I'm fourteen and have fallen in love with a seventeen year old who lives on the same street as me, one day he came over and we started kissing (we've been friends for months) and it got quite intense ...
A. 2 November 2010: No! It wasn't wrong of you to stop him..You're not ready, not to mention you're still a minor when he is of age for legal consent.
Ah, he came over to bluetooth some songs now did he? Looks like all he got was kissing and feeling you up accompli... (read in full...)
Do I have to choose between my boyfriend and family?
Q. Ok, basically...I am feeling like I have to choose between my boyfriend of a year and my family. I have always been reallyyyy close to my family - my parents and my 3 siblings. My siblings know me as I am but I suppose I've always hidden a lot about ...
A. 2 November 2010: I'll say this "Boyfriends come and go but your family will always be there." I have tested this saying many of times.
So you're not as religious and conservative as you parents, that's ok. They really don't think much of your boyfriend, seeing a... (read in full...)
Was he just holding out for sex? All our dates went so well but it has been 2 days and I have not heard from him....
Q. I met this guy on an online dating site about three weeks ago. Since the first date, he has been great. He always followed up and made plans after the date for the next one, offered to pay for everything (even though I tried to contribute as much as ...
A. 2 November 2010: Hmmm, after a date he's got a 3 day window to call..Now, unless he's got a death in the family then he should be calling you back. So you had sex once before discussing a relationship, don't worry..I usually bang them once before we're official just ... (read in full...)
Can a girl have sex during her period?
Q. Can a boy and a girl have sex when the girl is in her periods time ...
A. 2 November 2010: Yes, as long as he doesn't freak out having a little blood on his penis. Do as C.C. Grant said and throw an old towel or two. ... (read in full...)
I want to live in London or America - any advice?
Q. Does anyone know if there is anywhere in London, or America, where you can live in, and also get help with job applications ?. There is a place where i live that you can live in ( it's called a foyer ) and the staff who work there also help you to ...
A. 2 November 2010: And I'll add to celtic tiger, you have to have specific skills or qualifications, most likely a degree in order to get a work visa. You also have to think there's tons of qualified Americans still competing for scare jobs in our economy. ... (read in full...)
I want my cheating husband to tell our daughter about his affair or leave his woman on the side but he wont come clean!
Q. We are married for 10 yrs. with one daughter (14 yrs.old).My husband is currently working in middle east and he is having an affair of a girl who is also in another country for almost 6 months now.I told my husband to reveal this matter to our ...
A. 2 November 2010: I agree with Vintage64, DO NOT bring your daughter in the middle of this. It will only hurt and upset her. Are you trying to make her turn against her father, just so you can try to make him stop being with the other woman? That's very wrong. ... (read in full...)
Opinions from guys & girls needed! What to do when you accept his proposal but don't like the ring!
Q. This is a question for both guys and girls. Girls - If your boyfriend proposed to you and you accepted but you truly did not like the engagement ring as it was the complete oposite of what you like, would you tell him and risk breaking his hea...
A. 2 November 2010: Well honey, it depends on how gaudy this ring is. Is it a family heirloom? Now, I understand some of those rings where the yellow gold which may not be your cup of tea..or it just maybe all around gaudy. But, it is a family antique that is now ... (read in full...)
Very small penis, now I don't fancy him!
Q. I'm in a bit of a cuffuffle. I started talking to a lovely guy a few weeks ago, we have been on 3 dates and I stayed at his house last night. I'm 21 he's 31. We ended up getting naked and feeling each other. I noticed that when his penis is e...
A. 2 November 2010: Well you certainly can't tell him it's because of his small penis!
I would make up an excuse, like the 10 year age difference bothers you, or tell him you guys have already jumped into the sack too fast which has caused you to lose interest... (read in full...)
For the girls: Would it bother you if your boyfriend did this?
Q. Girls, does it/would it bother you if your boyfriend sat next to, waved to, did things like highfiving, and sometimes waited with *one particular* girl he knows (but he doesnt do those things in front of you)? Would you worry that he's going to ...
A. 2 November 2010: No, I see no warning signs here. He's acting like a guy and waiting with a particular person who just so happens to be the opposite sex. So what?
Now if he had his arm around her, and getting all cuddly with her while waiting then we have som... (read in full...)
Should I stop talking to her or should I still try (because I know she loves me)?
Q. Hey: My ex-girlfriend of two years broke up with me roughly two months ago because I was studying for my medical boards, working full time, and not giving her enough attention in the 5 months preceding. In addition, she got a new sales job (her f...
A. 2 November 2010: :(
Awww, the last part was so sad, I had a mental image of you two parting. Well at least this time she was actually specific, she's got a lot on her plate right now, with her job (which seems very demanding), and her feelings for you are all ... (read in full...)
What's wrong with me that I've never had a boyfriend?
Q. I have never had a boyfriend and im trying to figure out waits wrong with me am i ugly waits wrong with me i don under stand...
A. 2 November 2010: 13-15 age range, honey I didn't have my first real boyfriend till I was 16!
I'm sure you're not ugly and I doubt there's a single thing wrong. Just give it some time you're still pretty young, and boys will start to notice you. ... (read in full...)
We moved in, got comfortable, and I'm wondering about compatibility
Q. I have been dating my boyfriend for over 2 years now. We've been living together for a couple of months. The interesting thing is that neither one of us seemed to notice just how big of a step it was...we just fit so comfortably together. Perhaps a ...
A. 2 November 2010: It seems that you want to live a little, have more excitement and adventure in your life. Your life still has more to offer, and you're just not ready to settle for the boring old married couple routine. He sounds like he's ready to settle for the ... (read in full...)
His reasons for wanting just FWB don't really make sense
Q. I like this guy, i have liked him since the day we met. He says he likes me so much he doesnt know what to do, then one night he asked me if i would rather date him or be friends with benifits. My heart sank, i said i wanted to date him rather then ...
A. 2 November 2010: Then why even give you a choice, if he wants FWB with you?
That doesn't make sense to me either..He wouldn't have time for a relationship but has time to screw? Well, if the other relationships didn't last, and he's already telling you he's bus... (read in full...)
Why is my friend freezing me out?
Q. I don't know what I did but my best guy friend won't talk to me. He ignores all my texts and looks away when I smile at him in the hallway. I've asked why but he won't tell me. He's really immature and he's hurt me so many times and I still forgave ...
A. 2 November 2010: Well what did you say?
How about apologize for what you said? Send him a text apologizing and wanting to still be friends with him, however if he doesn't want to rekindle this friendship then accept it's done with and move on. There's plenty o... (read in full...)
How do we get some more alone time?
Q. Okay, I have this boyfriend.. I am completely in love with him. We have done stuff, sexually. But both of our parents don't trust us alone together, we need alone time. What can I do? ...
A. 2 November 2010: Now, I'm not trying to lecture you but since you have done sexual activities and wishing to be alone..then I suggest you get on a form of birth control such as the Pill, the shot, patch, and a vaginal insert plus your boyfriend needs to be using ... (read in full...)
I don't want to seem needy or clingy by calling him, texting him even more or demanding a response.
Q. I've had a boyfriend for about 1 month now, though I've only seen him three times. We're both the same age and last time I saw him (last Tuesday) we had our first kiss. He seemed a little nervous/embarrassed after our kiss, but he sent me a message ...
A. 2 November 2010: He hasn't spoken to you in a week and you're boyfriend and girlfriend? Well unless a traumatizing event has happened, then I'm willing to bet he's broken up with you and hasn't told you. In that case what a jerk! I would send him a text breaking up ... (read in full...)
It really hurts that he'd rather believe the girl who he just met and not me, when we'v been best friends forever!
Q. My best guy friend who I love like a brother is a real player to other girl. He always has a girlfriend and he's usually a nice guy. There was a new girl who just moved to my school and she's not really that pretty but she's a real bitch excep...
A. 2 November 2010: Well honey, she's the shiny new toy all the boys want to play with. She laps up all the attention..but as you know shiny new toys's novelty will wear off soon and she'll be tossed aside.
I know it's like a car accident you want to prevent ... (read in full...)
How I should consider her childish vindictive behavior?
Q. Hi I met this girl on myspace 11 months ago and we hit it off instantly then yesterday we had an argument and not even one hour after the argument she typed a spiteful derogatory comment about me in her status update and even typed my real name. ...
A. 2 November 2010: How old is this chick? Have you met her in person yet? If she's the same range as you, then she should most definitely be past the pettiness of posting comebacks in her status directed to you. I can't believe she used your name, that's really ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend has stolen things from me and given them to someone else!!
Q. My boyfriend has stolen things from me and given them to someone else! Most of the things are things he has given to me. He does not think he has done anything wrong because he gave them to me, so he says that it was his anyway. He has given them to ...
A. 2 November 2010: Haha so basically he's re-gifting? I'm sorry but what a snake!
Now, he steals these things from your home? Well, if he has the receipts to prove he bought those items then legally you can't get them back. Other than telling him you really can't ge... (read in full...)
I feel like I've cheated, but I didn't go on a date with my now girlfriend yet.
Q. I've met my now girlfriend 6 months ago. We met on a Friday night, out at a bar, after quite a few drinks. We talked, ended up back at a mutual friends house, and kissed goodnight. The next morning we exchanged numbers, exchanged texts the next ...
A. 2 November 2010: It happened before her time, there's no reason to tell her. You didn't cheat on her because you two just met and were in the process of getting to know each other.
The girl was just a one night stand, she means absolutely nothing to you and it happ... (read in full...)
Three guys and don't know which one to choose...
Q. OK here the thing, there is three guys that i talk to and kind of like. The first guy lets call him playmate, he has a girlfriend but we fool around often. We haven't had sex and we haven't had oral sex either. I gave him a hand job and he has ...
A. 2 November 2010: Hmmm slim pickings here, let me break it down for you..
The Playboy: Let's see he already has a girlfriend when he's messing around with you. That's called cheating, so in reality we should be labeling him the cheater. Plus, you don't even rea... (read in full...)
If your boyfriend was blind, would you stay or would you go?
Q. Dear Cupid, My name is Alexis and I'm 18 years old. I met the man of my dreams of 21, four years ago and we have been together ever since. When we first started dating, I knew I could picture myself getting married to him, and having a family ...
A. 2 November 2010: First off I want to say what a touching story..
What would I do in your shoes, if I truly loved him I would stay. There would be no question about that. Would it be easy? Hell no. But it's definitely possible.
Being 21 and blind I'm sure h... (read in full...)
I find it tough to find attractive women who fancy me! Should I lower my standards??
Q. Hi guys can you help? I'm 32 (embarrassed that a guy my age is even on here) and feel I'm getting on now and need to find a decent girlfriend. I’ve been single for 2/3 years now but to be honest girlfriends have always been hard to find. (before ...
A. 2 November 2010: Don't be embarrassed about your age, or coming on here. Nothing to be ashamed of. We get various ages and from all countries asking various questions.
Now to pinpoint where you're going wrong..well dating websites, my friends haven't found mu... (read in full...)
How effective is the birth control shot?
Q. I've been sexually active with my boyfriend for about a year and a half now and we've been together 2 years. I just started the birth control shot back in July so I just had my 2nd shot on October 12th. This past Saturday, we had sex with no condom ...
A. 1 November 2010: The only method of birth control that's 100% is abstinence. It's unusual to get pregnant on the shot, but it can happen before the shot is given...generally the effectiveness of the shot wears down in the third month. This link explains it in depth. ... (read in full...)
3 boob jobs and my girlfriend STILL wants them bigger!
Q. My girlfriend has had 3 boob jobs and has DD size breasts. She now wants to get yet another boob job taking her up to ideally F size breasts. I find this too much, not being a fan of fake tits anyway. Yet she has got upset and says she is getting ...
A. 1 November 2010: Wow, well if you're the one who has been paying for her boob job then I would refuse to do so the fourth time around. Ultimately, she's going to do what she wants since it's her body..Hopefully, her plastic surgeon will educate her about the risks ... (read in full...)
B/f wants a hand job but won't show me how to do it!
Q. i need help my bf wants be to give him a hand job but idk how!! he wont show me eather help mee please....
A. 1 November 2010: It's kinda like taking a small, skinny bottle of orange juice and shaking up the pulp..Just trying to give you a mental image, you don't want to rip his dick off. When you're doing it, start off by stroking it slowly then go faster, till he ... (read in full...)
B/f wants me to call myself a "dirty slag" during sex
Q. What does my fella mean when he asks me to call myself a "dirty slag" when having sex? - Is it a disrespectful phrase or is he just getting off on it as a weird kind of sex speak? should I be offended or not?...
A. 1 November 2010: From what I googled, it's a slang term for slut, whore, slovenly woman..
I'm sure he doesn't mean it as being disrespectful but more of like Caring Guy said a turn on. It doesn't sound like it make a difference if you said it or not, as long as ... (read in full...)
How can I ask my boyfriend to spank me as a punishment instead of during sex?
Q. I've only been with my boyfriend for 3 months but we have sex and i told him that i like to be spanked. the truth is that i don't actually like it, i just want him to dominate me. when he spanks me it really hurts and i want him to stop but when i ...
A. 1 November 2010: So you told him you liked to be spanked but he thought you meant it during sex, but you don't like it during sex but as a punishment when you do something bad? But you also said it really hurts, so why would you still want him to spank you for a ... (read in full...)
Tall and short women hate short guys equally
Q. Why do taller women have so much hate for the shorter guys who approach them only to complain themselves about being single and the lack of quality available men? Is it so wrong for a short guy to be attracted to a woman more than a couple of...
A. 1 November 2010: I like shorter men, but I'm married.. :)
Anyways, I've dated men actually shorter than me and I'm 5'6''. I find them to be the same as average height to taller men..although I do notice some short men to be really cocky. Not sure why that is, mayb... (read in full...)
We are going to see the doctor about this lump on his penis, but I want to be prepared for what he might say. Can anyone help?
Q. This isn't exactly a relationship question, but im hoping someone with a bit more insight then i may be able to help.. My fiance has a single white lump on his penis. He's had it since far before we got together. It doesnt hurt him, it never changes ...
A. 1 November 2010: The best diagnoses you're going to get is from a doctor.... (read in full...)
Do I tell her that her boyfriend slept with me?
Q. I'm in fairly tricky situation at the moment. For the past year and a half me and this guy had a serious thing going on. Anywho, we broke things off, and he got himself a girlfriend, whilst I stayed single. A few months after, he randomly co...
A. 1 November 2010: Now are you telling her out of revenge to him or really for her sake? Like Honeypie said I wouldn't be surprised that he beat you to the punch and told his girlfriend all about you...of course a fabricated lie. If you have the texts still then I ... (read in full...)
I'm terrified for my friend who is being deployed to Afghanistan!
Q. This isn't a relationship question but i feel like i really could do with some help. For the past few months i've been thinking about death, yes death, the reason this came about is because a friend, who's in the army, is being deployed to afgh...
A. 1 November 2010: I'm thinking the U.S. has more casualties...yes C.C Grant is correct on the statistics.
Try being an army wife! He has a very low risk of being blown to bits, but yes I understand nonetheless you'll still be worried every day. Everyone who I ha... (read in full...)
By the hair of my chinny chin chin...
Q. hi my question is a quick one, im dating a smart beautiful girl whos been great so far and i have nothing bad to say about her, theres just one thing that bugs me - every time im with her, she has a few hairs on her chin and i just dont have to ...
A. 1 November 2010: As celtic tiger said all women have upper lip hair and those pesky ones on her chin...Being part italian myself, I've got dark hair so when you get close enough you can see those dark hairs..Some women who are blondes or redheads can get away with ... (read in full...)
I don't know if I should even try to make my marriage work or not.
Q. im 22 and im getting divorced. i was married for about 2 weeks then she left. she saw texts from girls that i did not think was bad but she blew it up and left. she said she was still in love with ehr x and wanted to be with him but she says ...
A. 31 October 2010: She left after 2 weeks of being newlyweds?? Bad sign to throw up the divorce card that quick. So, you married her because she's pregnant with your child, not because you love her? If you married her for that purpose then no your marriage won't last ... (read in full...)
He said I look like a school teacher... A good or bad thing?
Q. What does it mean when a guy said:'You look like u are a school teacher"? Does it mean he means that i look boring or not very exciting?...
A. 31 October 2010: He could have had a crush on his 6th grade teacher...and view teachers as being sexy. Maybe he has a fantasy involving a teacher. ... (read in full...)
Mistress is threating to tell my wife about us
Q. I feel like I'm about to lose the best thing that ever happened for me behind ignorance. I know everyone's probably going to say I deserve it and I probably due but no one's perfect. I told my mistress that we needed to sto and she's threatening to ...
A. 31 October 2010: Cat's out of the bag..Better out of your mouth than the mistress's.
"We both have high profile positions and that would cost me my lively hood."
Should have thought with your main brain about the consequences before engaging in the affair..B... (read in full...)
Does this mean I'm fat?
Q. Okay, well me and this guy got together over a year ago, He wasn't a virgin, he lost his virginity to a slightly over weight girl. which I didn't mind at first. I was a virgin but later in our relationship I lost my virginity to him. I'm not ...
A. 30 October 2010: How many times have you guys broke up now? He cheats on you 7 months into the relationship then, breaks up with you when he wants to have sex with overweight girls. It's possible that he likes his girls on the bigger side, and you don't sound like ... (read in full...)
Ladies, what is the perfect duration for sex for you?
Q. Ladies, what is the perfect duration for sex for you? By that, I mean from the time penetration starts till he comes...so excluding foreplay and stuff. If you like it long, do you expect him to get it up again soon? For those who like minutemen, ...
A. 30 October 2010: Late teens to early 20s I could go all night long, multiple times even..
Now, that I'm married and 25..I like it anywhere from 15-40 minutes max. Any longer and my legs cramp up or I find myself going dry to the point where my husband gets cha... (read in full...)
My friend doesn't seem to want to share "her" friends...
Q. So. A few months ago I was at a party and talking to this guy who I had spoken to a few times before. Previously I had never even clocked him as a potential crush but there was just this moment that I realised I liked him. I saw him around a few...
A. 30 October 2010: Just out of curiosity what's the age range of this friend?
What is she your mother? She can't tell you who you can and can't date.
She said it herself, she's not interested in him so therefore he's not off limits. You don't want to be just ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend was naked with his cousin in our bed!!!
Q. Me and my bf have been with each other for 8 months. we asked his cousins to come play cards and they did. we all got totally wasted on vodka and beer and they were takinh pills. well i passed out in the next room and i woke up wondering were my bf ...
A. 30 October 2010: Didn't know beer+vodka+pills+cousin= incestuous behavior.
The evidence points to he cheated, we know evidence doesn't lie. But cheating boyfriends, and more than kissing cousins do.
Dump him.... (read in full...)
He calls me horrible names
Q. hey guys im kind of new at this thing but i really need an outside perspective. me and my boyfriend have been together for almost a year and half now. when he gets mad at me he calls me some horrible names ex:lard ass,bitch,exc.. and it makes me ...
A. 30 October 2010: That's called verbal abuse. He feels the need to put you down, make you weak in order to feel better about himself. A man that respects and loves you wouldn't call you bitch or lard ass regardless if he's mad or joking.
You want to be with him... (read in full...)
Should I stop talking to her or should I still try (because I know she loves me)?
Q. Hey: My ex-girlfriend of two years broke up with me roughly two months ago because I was studying for my medical boards, working full time, and not giving her enough attention in the 5 months preceding. In addition, she got a new sales job (her f...
A. 25 October 2010: If she wants to take things slow day by day, then sex doesn't need to be thrown into the mix. That only messes up your feelings even more when you're trying to straighten them out. Bad move. That doesn't make any sense for her to say that. You're ... (read in full...)
Should I stop talking to her or should I still try (because I know she loves me)?
Q. Hey: My ex-girlfriend of two years broke up with me roughly two months ago because I was studying for my medical boards, working full time, and not giving her enough attention in the 5 months preceding. In addition, she got a new sales job (her f...
A. 21 October 2010: Yes, I'm wondering why she broke up with you in the first place? It could be she wasn't getting enough attention but that's a given being in a relationship with a med student. Then it's possible she felt like you would never have enough time for ... (read in full...)
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