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What qualifies me to help you? Vast dating experience, especially in the LDR department, even an international on with an Aussie, broke hearts, had mine broken, been engaged once before, I know what a real friend is, seen the ugly side of divorce coming from a recently broken home myself, even went as far as to tip the odds to my side and use men only to toss them aside like yesterday's garbage like they do women, I know what it's like to almost give up hope on finding the perfect man when he's really only a few boyfriends away, and I'm starting to learn the ropes of married life. I also know a vast deal about the female and male reproductive system, and all about the mental struggles with infertility. On a side note, I'm the one who gives you tough love, I'm not on here to sugarcoat it or to tell you what you want to hear. I'm going to give it to you straight up, wouldn't you rather the truth?
-TOP 5 QUESTIONS I CAN'T STAND-
#1. Does this mean my teacher likes me?
Just because they're nice to you, offer extra help, and put a little gold star on your A+ paper doesn't mean they are in love with you.
#2. Could I be pregnant?
Have you not heard of a pregnancy test? Get off this website, and go to your local drugstore.
#3. I'm 14 and I want a baby?
Really? Me too! Oh wait I'm 28 and married. You're how old again?
#4. My husband loves porn more than me!
Maybe if you didn't let yourself go into the frumpy woman you have turned into then he wouldn't have to look at porn now would he? I recommend you get your rear to the salon for highlights, manicure, pedicure, tanning, toss the baggy tees and sweat pants for a wardrobe that fits, and a little makeup goes a long way. It's called basic woman maintenance in order to keep your man's eyes on you.
#5. Will we get back together, how can I get him to love me again?
Unfortunately, my crystal ball is broke at the moment and I just gave away the last of my love potion No. 9. Sorry.
MY GENERAL RULES OF THUMB (this should be common sense)
-No means no.
-Girls can ask out ask guys, this is a new generation.
-Unless you know sign language or are telepathic, you're going to have to talk to him/her.
-My "Don't ask, Don't tell" policy as is follows: Do not by any means volunteer your own sexual history, or ask your date/partner/wife/girlfriend their magic number (how many people they've slept with). If you find yourself being prompted to answer this question, politely tell them that's none of their business.
-Your past doesn't define who you are today. We grow, mature, age, and change as time passes.
-If you have to even ask random strangers on this website if you should have sex, then you're not ready for it.
-FWBs, fuck buddies, no strings attached, whatever you want to call it..is not a relationship don't get the 2 confused. In this case, sex=sex, not love.
-No trust=no relationship.
-It is normal for your husband/boyfriend to have friends of the opposite sex, do you not have male friends?
-LDRs can work, however they're not for everyone. You've got to have trust, communication, be faithful, and a lot of hobbies to keep yourself occupied. If you have trust issues, a case of being needy, clingy, problems staying faithful and are in a LDR don't be surprised when it doesn't work. I told you so.
- An ex is an ex for a reason. If you guys couldn't hack it as a couple the first 2 times what makes you think the third time is a charm?
-Going on a "break" is a nice way of breaking up.
-If you have sex with a man and he hasn't called you, or responded to your texts in weeks sorry to say but he was just after a piece of ass.
- Now unless he's getting blown up in Afghanistan, an on call ER doctor, or lying dead in a coffin then he's got no excuse for his poor or lack there of communication.
-You have a 12% chance of your married boyfriend leaving his wife and children.
-A man who is going through a divorce is still legally married. He's about to have an ex wife and you're wanting to get into a relationship with him? That's called a rebound.
-If you're a minor who's just found out she's pregnant, do me and everyone else on this site a favor..Tell your parents.
-Just because some one stares at you, it doesn't mean they like you. They could be staring at that booger hanging out of your nose.
-If you have a lump/bump/cyst/rash that looks green, has oozing puss, and itches like hell, but kinda looks like a STD then you had better consult your doctor. They went through 6 years of schooling and have a license to practice medicine, I think they would know better than random virtual strangers.
-Don't mix business with pleasure. Why? Because if you date your co-worker and in the event things turn sour then you're still stuck facing them 9-5, Mon-Fri. Awkward.
-No matter how hard you try, you can't change a person..they have to make that transformation themselves.
-When your boyfriend/girlfriend says they want space that doesn't mean you do the opposite and bombard them with calls/texts.
-As far as ultimatums go, don't try to make your boyfriend choose between you, his female friends, or weed. You won't like the results.
-If you're 13-17, I'm sorry but you haven't a clue what love really is. You have minimal dating experience confined to the high school dating pool which are nothing but horny boys. Their facial hair doesn't make them a man. It's only till you get out into the real world, a vast dating pool is when you learn the definition of love. So, go on thinking you and 13 year old Tommy will go on to get married, have 3 kids, and a two story house with a white picket fence. I don't expect you to listen, I'm 28 and married, what do I know? There's a reason why everyone says it won't last..because it doesn't.
-The average penis size erect is 6 inches, 4.85 inches. Women like average to even a little below average. We're not going to bust out a tape measure and measure it to make sure it's up to our standards. We just want to have sex, so enough complaining about your size let's get down and dirty.
- The legal age of consent in the U.S. is 16-18 varying oer state, in Britain it's 16. I think it's safe to say most parts of the world (unless you live in a tribe with their own form of government) the legal age to consent to sex is 16. So yes, all you minors below the age of consent are committing a crime when you engage in sexual activity. The age is set that high for a reason, you are not above the law. |
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In love with a married man and he wants to marry me too!
Q. I am in so much pain because I don’t know what to do or who to talk to. I met this man over eight years ago and we have been best of friends ever since. When I said best of friends I mean there is nothing about me or him we do not tell each other, ...
A. 6 November 2010: Have a backbone and tell him it's over. Then walk away, avoid all contact with him, ignore his phone calls, and pretty soon he'll find another affair or go back to his wife like he already does every day. Woman up.... (read in full...)
I'm at a crossroad and I don't know what to do about our relationship.
Q. Okay.. im 18 years old and on ausgust 12, 2010 i was in a car accident and ive been stayin with my mom since then. i am in a relationship and have been for almost a year and a half.and i am currently staying in another county almost an hour from ...
A. 5 November 2010: A boyfriend would run to your side to make sure you're in one piece at the hospital. He's not going to change, if he's always been like this. Maybe one day he'll grow up, but usually once an abuser always an abuser. That's a crap excuse that his mom ... (read in full...)
I regret turning him down, but if I do ask him out then my friends might make fun of us both...
Q. Ok, my best guy friend is really awesome. He's really funny and intelligent too. We joke about silly things, like in fifth grade when he asked me out and I replied 'where?'We drifted apart once we left that school, because we were on different sides ...
A. 4 November 2010: Oh good! I admit I was too scared when I was your age too..so I used that little tool to let a guy know I was crushing and see if he asks me out. It does work.... (read in full...)
I no longer want to be with my fiancee and I like his best friend!
Q. I'm looking for advice. I'm engaged to the father of my child. I'm no longer in love with him but I don't hate him. We get along fine and we "love" each other but the love is gone. It has been for a few years now. He has a friend, a best friend...
A. 4 November 2010: Let it go, it's not uncommon to "fall out of love". He doesn't even want to work it out with you, he blames you for being the source of all your problems. It's pointless to be in a relationship that's going nowhere fast. Just be prepared to go to ... (read in full...)
Is a relationship repairable after so much dishonesty so early? I know I'm no saint.
Q. I'll admit that online relationship question sites aren't my thing, but at this point, I'm to suggestions from anyone. The short version. I've lied to my girlfriend. A lot. I took money from her purse [~$50.] without any GOOD reason, and e...
A. 3 November 2010: You had a balance before all this..of course it's going to take a long time for her to let you regain trust. Can't pinpoint a time..but it's going to take quite a long time. There will be a time when she will fully trust you but not anytime soon.
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I regret turning him down, but if I do ask him out then my friends might make fun of us both...
Q. Ok, my best guy friend is really awesome. He's really funny and intelligent too. We joke about silly things, like in fifth grade when he asked me out and I replied 'where?'We drifted apart once we left that school, because we were on different sides ...
A. 3 November 2010: You know he's probably thinking the same thing, since you rejected him the first time..He's afraid that you'll reject him a second time. Someone's gotta make a move and ask the other out.
Another thought I had, why don't you tell his cousin t... (read in full...)
He's been rude since I got with my boyfriend. Does he like me?
Q. does he fancy me? i always got on with my boyfriends best mate before i got with him but eversince ive been with my boyfriend he ignores me and gives me snide remarks. i used to fancy him before i got with my boyfriend but i assumed he didnt fe...
A. 3 November 2010: When he's sober he avoids you like the plague but when he's drunk he is all over you. However, his inebriated behavior isn't enough to justify whether he likes you or not...So let's focus on the sober part of him..He knew you fancied him but didn't ... (read in full...)
I'm at a crossroad and I don't know what to do about our relationship.
Q. Okay.. im 18 years old and on ausgust 12, 2010 i was in a car accident and ive been stayin with my mom since then. i am in a relationship and have been for almost a year and a half.and i am currently staying in another county almost an hour from ...
A. 3 November 2010: Break up with him!!! He doesn't respect you if he calls you hurtful names, by the way that's called verbal abuse. Did he even bother to visit you in the hospital? He could care less to make a hour drive to see if you're doing well and just to care ... (read in full...)
Is my ex boyfriend thinking about getting back together?
Q. My Ex-boyfriend is constantly where he knows I'm going to go and moves either into the rooms I'm in or closer to where I am standing with whoever. Is that a sign that he is rethinking about if he wants to stay broken-up?...
A. 3 November 2010: No, it just says he's possessive and borderline stalker. Was he possessive when you guys were together??
If you want to get back together then do as Aunt Honesty suggested and talk to him about rekindling this romance.... (read in full...)
I no longer want to be with my fiancee and I like his best friend!
Q. I'm looking for advice. I'm engaged to the father of my child. I'm no longer in love with him but I don't hate him. We get along fine and we "love" each other but the love is gone. It has been for a few years now. He has a friend, a best friend...
A. 3 November 2010: Simple answer..call off the engagement and break it off completely with him. There's no need to get married to someone you don't love just because he's the father of your child. If you do get married, it will end up in divorce because the love has ... (read in full...)
I snooped through my husband's phone and now he is distant!
Q. A fleeting moment of insecurity had me snoop through my husband's phone while he was in the shower. Now he is distant. What's my next move? I'm 95% of the time very confident but I get these fleeting moments of insecurity from time to time. I ...
A. 3 November 2010: Apologize and let it blow over. At times, we let our insecurities take over and get the best of us..but breathe that sigh of relief when we're proven wrong. It happens. To break it, think of it this way, every time you have peeked it's always been ... (read in full...)
In love with a married man and he wants to marry me too!
Q. I am in so much pain because I don’t know what to do or who to talk to. I met this man over eight years ago and we have been best of friends ever since. When I said best of friends I mean there is nothing about me or him we do not tell each other, ...
A. 3 November 2010: How long has he been married? In order to marry you he has to be divorced from his wife..you've got a slim to none chance of that actually happening. He has to divorce his wife or vice versa, but I don't see her doing that seeing she's set on ... (read in full...)
What do you consider red flags in a relationship?
Q. Just a few quick questions I have. I just want to keep this simple and straight t the point... 1) what are forms of abuse in a relationship, can anyone give me examples of mental/emotional abuse in relationships? 2) what are in your opionion p...
A. 3 November 2010: 1). Physical, verbal, and emotional/mental abuse. When he calls you names, constantly criticizing your overall appearance, points out your faults making you feel like you're not good enough, or that you're a failure. Where he makes you feel bad ... (read in full...)
Penis enlargement medications?
Q. I know there are many adverts on the internet for penis enlargement schemes and medications but I would be grateful to know if any of the readers has tried any of these and found it effective and true to its advertisement? thanks. ...
A. 3 November 2010: If those worked then every man would be walking around with bulging pants..
The only way you can enlarge your penis is thru cosmetic surgery, which I'm sure is very costly..but as for a cheap way, not so much.
... (read in full...)
Do you think going to dinner with another man when you are married is bad?
Q. My wife is in SoCal for a confernece and went to dinner with a old high school guy friend. At first she hid it from me, then I found out about it when I saw it on her phone from a text. My wife always says that there is nothing there, yet tonight ...
A. 3 November 2010: Just for the record, Louboutins are very, very expensive heels but well worth the $ with the confidence they bring a woman. They sound like the only sex appeal that is in her outfit. I honestly don't see where she dresses like a slut.
And y... (read in full...)
Do online relationships work?
Q. So I met this girl online and we have been with each other for about 6 months we are friends on face book and know each other’s cell phones have seen pictures of each other and talked to each other on the phone. Hers the problem I like her but she ...
A. 3 November 2010: How can you love someone you have never met?
The best free communication you can utilize is SKYPE. Google it, it's free video chatting..that way you're not using up her minutes, or making her cell phone bill more expensive than it already ... (read in full...)
Everyone says make a move on my friend but she has a boyfriend in LDR
Q. I've a good friend here in college, she has a boyfriend, but its a long distance relationship. Several of my friends have advised me to make a move on her. My problems here though are several. -She is much more open with me than with her othe...
A. 3 November 2010: LDRs are complicated enough...it wouldn't exactly be fair for you to tell her you like her and possibly complicate her love life even more. Also, there's the possibility you'll face rejection because she can bare to cross that line in your ... (read in full...)
Is he interested in me?
Q. This guy, let's call him K. He's in my sports class and we've been talking a lot lately. Today, he teased me about who I "liked," cause randomly, he asked me if I liked our friend, K2. (let's call him K2 cause they have the same name) I told K ...
A. 3 November 2010: Are you 100% sure K2 doesn't like you?
I get no indication from your post that K likes you..he keeps pressing if you like K2 and they had a 30 min discussion about you.
If you're unsure it's best to ask in a joking way "What do you like me?"... (read in full...)
I regret turning him down, but if I do ask him out then my friends might make fun of us both...
Q. Ok, my best guy friend is really awesome. He's really funny and intelligent too. We joke about silly things, like in fifth grade when he asked me out and I replied 'where?'We drifted apart once we left that school, because we were on different sides ...
A. 3 November 2010: Just curious as to why you rejected him the first time?
Ask him out because you want to be with him, don't let your friends be the deciding factor. Real friends don't make fun of who you're going out with instead they support you and are happy th... (read in full...)
I'm only going out with her because I don't want to be alone, but she is already talking about marriage!
Q. Ok I'm 19 years old and 4 months ago i started dating one of my good friends and she makes me happy but she thinks I'm her future. Like were going to get married right out of college, and that is scaring me. She is a good friend and I hate ...
A. 3 November 2010: Ouch, well it's best to end this relationship as soon as possible. You already made a bad move in dating her just because you don't want to be alone, and it seems to be backfiring on you seeing as she thinks you're her future. So don't play with her ... (read in full...)
Why don't intelligent people see this guy for what he really is?
Q. I,m writing this as i can of need to vent my feelings. I know a guy who at first i thought was pretty decent, seemed nice etc... turns out i couldn't have been more wrong, let me explain. We slept together a few times last year, i thought he he ...
A. 3 November 2010: This guy is a first class player..he's pretty good. But unless you have some experience with guys like that and know how to detect the signs then you will fall into his set trap. Love em and leave em. Now, I will say there are ones that seep into ... (read in full...)
He is getting me a sexy outfit from an adult store for my birthday present, despite knowing how I feel about this! What should I do about this?
Q. My birthday is coming up soon and ill be 21 I asked my boyfriend what he was getting me for my birthday he told me it was from a (Adult store) and he wouldint tell me anything else. Even tho i asked him not to get me a sexy costume! I recen...
A. 3 November 2010: Hahaha, awesome agony aunts.
When you open it, ask him.."So where's my present?" Give it back to him, tell him to return it because he knows very well you are not comfortable wearing a naughty outfit with the light on. Then tell him to go out and ... (read in full...)
The affair is over, but now the other woman is moving into our neighbourhood! How do I handle this?
Q. Husband had an afair, he has assured me its over it look as if his telling the truth but now she is moving in to town and not to far from where we are staying. how do I handle this? she is walking around as if we are stil best friend and that I ...
A. 3 November 2010: Are you sure his affair is over? If she's harassing or stalking your family then you can call the authorities and file a restraining order.
Now unless she's obsessed with your husband, then I'm willing to bet this affair isn't over. ... (read in full...)
Is a relationship repairable after so much dishonesty so early? I know I'm no saint.
Q. I'll admit that online relationship question sites aren't my thing, but at this point, I'm to suggestions from anyone. The short version. I've lied to my girlfriend. A lot. I took money from her purse [~$50.] without any GOOD reason, and e...
A. 3 November 2010: Then my advice changes...although the ass kissing part stays the same.
Whether it was caused by your bipolar-ness or not, you have lied thus breaking the trust that has been built between you two. Now, she's having a hard time trying to figure o... (read in full...)
I've been waiting for him for 5 years but found out he had remarried while I was waiting!
Q. I have been dating this man for a total of 5 yrs, I met him while he was in the process of divorcing and we have been together ever since. This june I called his cell phone and a woman answered and I asked for him and she told me he was sleeping and ...
A. 3 November 2010: You've been waiting 5 years wait makes you think in a few weeks will finally be it?
Highly doubt he's filed for divorce from this one. I call bullshit. Did you lose some touch with him in those 5 years, since you're completely oblivious to his c... (read in full...)
Questions about emergency contraception
Q. My partner and I have been using condoms for a long time as the primary means of contraception. I've tried the pill (5 of them actually) and have had really awful reactions to all of them. Oddly enough I don't have a negative reaction to plan b. My ...
A. 3 November 2010: Plan B should only be used in emergencies, but there is no medical reason why you can't use it more than once. However, Plan B should never replace birth control because it's not as effective. If you have unprotected sex after taking Plan B it ... (read in full...)
Very small penis, now I don't fancy him!
Q. I'm in a bit of a cuffuffle. I started talking to a lovely guy a few weeks ago, we have been on 3 dates and I stayed at his house last night. I'm 21 he's 31. We ended up getting naked and feeling each other. I noticed that when his penis is e...
A. 3 November 2010: No they can't be unattracted so quickly but they can be turned off by a below average dick. The OP chose to still proceed with sexual intercourse but he was still lacking. For some women, it's about size and that you know how to use it. She could ... (read in full...)
What to expect after going on birth control?
Q. I made an appointment with planned parenthood and am going on birth control. I don't know yet if it will be the shot or the pill...I'd just like a few tips (please) on what to expect. How to remember to take the pill (if that"s what I get). Side ...
A. 3 November 2010: Side effects from the shot include:
-weight gain, although I lost weight
-no period
-a period that lasts 30 days (this is what i had)
-a period that lasts for 90 days (which the gyno said there are girls that are on it longer than that
-if y... (read in full...)
Should I tell the guy who I've been seeing about that kiss or no?
Q. So I've been seeing this guy for about 4 weeks now. We haven't talked about making it official. A few nights ago I kissed some other guy, but it didn't mean anything to me. Should I tell the guy who i've been seeing about that kiss or no? I feel ...
A. 3 November 2010: You don't owe him an explanation. There's no cheating that took place since you two aren't officially in a relationship. You're just seeing each other, in which you have no obligation to him and you can even choose to see other guys as well. So no I ... (read in full...)
Is a relationship repairable after so much dishonesty so early? I know I'm no saint.
Q. I'll admit that online relationship question sites aren't my thing, but at this point, I'm to suggestions from anyone. The short version. I've lied to my girlfriend. A lot. I took money from her purse [~$50.] without any GOOD reason, and e...
A. 3 November 2010: Stealing is grounds for a breakup..I understand that you're on medication to treat your condition. But you did steal $50 from her purse and pawned her laptop just because. Personally, I would kick you to the curb and press charges over the laptop. ... (read in full...)
We are broken up but I catch him staring at me
Q. Ok so its been about 4 days since my ex has broken up with me and everytime at school like at lunch or when we're walking to class,I catch him looking at me. Not like a glare or anything,but just almost like starring. Does this starring mean ...
A. 3 November 2010: EIther he's glancing at you or flat out staring. Starring doesn't have any hidden meaning behind it. He may not be looking at you at all, but yet someone past or in front of you.
You're making something out of nothing.... (read in full...)
I have no idea what to do with my husband's best female friend.
Q. I am married to a wonderful and caring man and have a good marriage. But when it comes to his female best friend, he becomes her protector and caused stress to our marriage. When I met him 10 years ago, she was already in his life for 10 year...
A. 3 November 2010: What do you owe her? Nothing. Yeah, she's been nice to you and went out of her way, you repaid the favor...Personally, it seems like she's an unwanted sister or a second wife. She needs a boyfriend, a career, dog, and some hobbies to occupy her ... (read in full...)
I'm single, 20 and want a baby
Q. i want a baby but am single i am 20 yrs old al my friends have babies and i have always wanted to be a parent young from a very young age what should i do this is gettin me realy down ? ...
A. 3 November 2010: For starters do you have a boyfriend, fiance, husband in order to make this happen? It's something that has to be thoroughly discussed and both parties have to be ready..I doubt any guy around your age is ready to be a father. Do you have a stable ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend is going to go out with her ex tonight... I feel it's wrong, but I won't say no to her
Q. The title says it. My girlfriend is gonna go out tonight to the movies with her ex. I've never been the jealous type, so I guess this would be the first time I feel like this, and it's killing me. Why do I feel like this? I think I know. They had ...
A. 2 November 2010: Out of her phone contacts, and all her friends on Facebook her ex who happens to be a friend was the only one available?
Well if you're not comfortable with it you're going to have to pipe up and say something. Personally, I wouldn't be too plea... (read in full...)
I fell in love with what I thought was a girl...but she's a he
Q. Help. I fell in love over the internet with someone, and they feel absolutely the same thing. They were saying over the past few days that they were insecure about something, and they've been summoning up enough courage to mention it. Finally, the...
A. 2 November 2010: You have feelings for a fictional woman that doesn't exist. How do you know what this man was describing is really him? Correction, since he lied you don't really know him at all. He could be a 45 year old creepy guy for all you know. A relationship ... (read in full...)
Milk produces more sperm?
Q. My boyfriend claims that drinking more milk means he produces more sperm. Is there any truth behind this? I find it difficult to believe that milk would do such a thing. ...
A. 2 November 2010: There are dietary supplements and certain foods that are "said" to increase sperm but none of which have been scientifically verified. So it is a myth.... (read in full...)
For the girls: Would it bother you if your boyfriend did this?
Q. Girls, does it/would it bother you if your boyfriend sat next to, waved to, did things like highfiving, and sometimes waited with *one particular* girl he knows (but he doesnt do those things in front of you)? Would you worry that he's going to ...
A. 2 November 2010: So he asked her out but he's with you!!
Boys can have friends who are female, do you not have any male friends?... (read in full...)
Do I have to choose between my boyfriend and family?
Q. Ok, basically...I am feeling like I have to choose between my boyfriend of a year and my family. I have always been reallyyyy close to my family - my parents and my 3 siblings. My siblings know me as I am but I suppose I've always hidden a lot about ...
A. 2 November 2010: If he's any kind of boyfriend he wouldn't make you choose. So I would woman up and till him family is very important to you, you want to rekindle what you have seem to have lost over the years..you will always be the baby of your family. I would ... (read in full...)
I want my cheating husband to tell our daughter about his affair or leave his woman on the side but he wont come clean!
Q. We are married for 10 yrs. with one daughter (14 yrs.old).My husband is currently working in middle east and he is having an affair of a girl who is also in another country for almost 6 months now.I told my husband to reveal this matter to our ...
A. 2 November 2010: Divorce or separation.... (read in full...)
Very small penis, now I don't fancy him!
Q. I'm in a bit of a cuffuffle. I started talking to a lovely guy a few weeks ago, we have been on 3 dates and I stayed at his house last night. I'm 21 he's 31. We ended up getting naked and feeling each other. I noticed that when his penis is e...
A. 2 November 2010: Female anon, we're not here to judge when the OP slept with this guy nor to preach our personal views.. Myself, I usually sleep with them once before we're official just to make we're sexually compatible. Again what this posting is all about. This ... (read in full...)
She won't go out with me because of our age difference...
Q. Hi! My problem is that when I feel that I like a girl I fall for her hard and fast!!! The reason for this is that I don't see a girl so that I can get into her pants but because I see a future with her. And that's precisely what my problem is. I met ...
A. 2 November 2010: Well I was close. Considerable age gap, that she can't overcome. She may change her mind in time the more you guys stay friends, if that's something you can continue. But like you said you fall hard and fast..You're going to have to look at you're a ... (read in full...)
She won't go out with me because of our age difference...
Q. Hi! My problem is that when I feel that I like a girl I fall for her hard and fast!!! The reason for this is that I don't see a girl so that I can get into her pants but because I see a future with her. And that's precisely what my problem is. I met ...
A. 2 November 2010: Well how big of an age gap? Are we talking a cougar here?... (read in full...)
Does wearing tampons make your vagina looser?
Q. I decided to wear Pads instead of Tampons because i think if i use Tampons for almost a week out the month 'it will cause my Vagina to be looser.. so my Q is Does it matter or make a difference if i dont use Tampons because i dont want my Vagina to ...
A. 2 November 2010: No.
http://www.beinggirl.com/en_US/articledetail.jsp?ContentId=ART560... (read in full...)
We had sex and now he threatens to tell my husband if I don't do what he wants!!! Help!
Q. Long story short, I met a guy and we ended up having sex. I'm married. Now he threatens to tell my husband if I don't do what he wants, when he wants. How do I get out of this? Please help me....
A. 2 November 2010: You got yourself in this situation, you're the only one who can get yourself out.
Better to tell your husband than him do it..how long will you go on letting this man blackmail you and treat you like a slave?... (read in full...)
My husband just told me he has a child to someone else!
Q. I' ve been married for 10 years, have know, him for 16 years. We were separated for 3 years, well recently my husband said he might have another child, he had said this before while we were arguing for years, but when I tried to talk about it he ...
A. 2 November 2010: Well the operative word here is "might"..he isn't even sure if he has a child by another woman or not..plus he can't even remember a name?
Now if it happened during your separation, then I would be pretty upset. However was this a legal separati... (read in full...)
What do I wear to go out on this hot date?
Q. Hey people... I am going on this date with this guy and I have NO idea what to wear do you have any idea what is hot to wear this season...? I dont wanna Be too revealing and I don't wanna be too covered up =) BTW I am 16.. Help please......
A. 2 November 2010: When in doubt wear black leggings, a tunic, and flats. Or you can do little ankle booties which are big this season again, lacey or ripped leggings are also hot, give you that bad rocker girl edge. If I'm at a loss, I always go to the back of my ... (read in full...)
Was I wrong to stop him?
Q. hiya everyone, feeling troubled at the moment. I'm fourteen and have fallen in love with a seventeen year old who lives on the same street as me, one day he came over and we started kissing (we've been friends for months) and it got quite intense ...
A. 2 November 2010: No! It wasn't wrong of you to stop him..You're not ready, not to mention you're still a minor when he is of age for legal consent.
Ah, he came over to bluetooth some songs now did he? Looks like all he got was kissing and feeling you up accompli... (read in full...)
Do I have to choose between my boyfriend and family?
Q. Ok, basically...I am feeling like I have to choose between my boyfriend of a year and my family. I have always been reallyyyy close to my family - my parents and my 3 siblings. My siblings know me as I am but I suppose I've always hidden a lot about ...
A. 2 November 2010: I'll say this "Boyfriends come and go but your family will always be there." I have tested this saying many of times.
So you're not as religious and conservative as you parents, that's ok. They really don't think much of your boyfriend, seeing a... (read in full...)
I want my cheating husband to tell our daughter about his affair or leave his woman on the side but he wont come clean!
Q. We are married for 10 yrs. with one daughter (14 yrs.old).My husband is currently working in middle east and he is having an affair of a girl who is also in another country for almost 6 months now.I told my husband to reveal this matter to our ...
A. 2 November 2010: I agree with Vintage64, DO NOT bring your daughter in the middle of this. It will only hurt and upset her. Are you trying to make her turn against her father, just so you can try to make him stop being with the other woman? That's very wrong. ... (read in full...)
Very small penis, now I don't fancy him!
Q. I'm in a bit of a cuffuffle. I started talking to a lovely guy a few weeks ago, we have been on 3 dates and I stayed at his house last night. I'm 21 he's 31. We ended up getting naked and feeling each other. I noticed that when his penis is e...
A. 2 November 2010: Well you certainly can't tell him it's because of his small penis!
I would make up an excuse, like the 10 year age difference bothers you, or tell him you guys have already jumped into the sack too fast which has caused you to lose interest... (read in full...)
For the girls: Would it bother you if your boyfriend did this?
Q. Girls, does it/would it bother you if your boyfriend sat next to, waved to, did things like highfiving, and sometimes waited with *one particular* girl he knows (but he doesnt do those things in front of you)? Would you worry that he's going to ...
A. 2 November 2010: No, I see no warning signs here. He's acting like a guy and waiting with a particular person who just so happens to be the opposite sex. So what?
Now if he had his arm around her, and getting all cuddly with her while waiting then we have som... (read in full...)
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