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What qualifies me to help you? Vast dating experience, especially in the LDR department, even an international on with an Aussie, broke hearts, had mine broken, been engaged once before, I know what a real friend is, seen the ugly side of divorce coming from a recently broken home myself, even went as far as to tip the odds to my side and use men only to toss them aside like yesterday's garbage like they do women, I know what it's like to almost give up hope on finding the perfect man when he's really only a few boyfriends away, and I'm starting to learn the ropes of married life. I also know a vast deal about the female and male reproductive system, and all about the mental struggles with infertility. On a side note, I'm the one who gives you tough love, I'm not on here to sugarcoat it or to tell you what you want to hear. I'm going to give it to you straight up, wouldn't you rather the truth?
-TOP 5 QUESTIONS I CAN'T STAND-
#1. Does this mean my teacher likes me?
Just because they're nice to you, offer extra help, and put a little gold star on your A+ paper doesn't mean they are in love with you.
#2. Could I be pregnant?
Have you not heard of a pregnancy test? Get off this website, and go to your local drugstore.
#3. I'm 14 and I want a baby?
Really? Me too! Oh wait I'm 28 and married. You're how old again?
#4. My husband loves porn more than me!
Maybe if you didn't let yourself go into the frumpy woman you have turned into then he wouldn't have to look at porn now would he? I recommend you get your rear to the salon for highlights, manicure, pedicure, tanning, toss the baggy tees and sweat pants for a wardrobe that fits, and a little makeup goes a long way. It's called basic woman maintenance in order to keep your man's eyes on you.
#5. Will we get back together, how can I get him to love me again?
Unfortunately, my crystal ball is broke at the moment and I just gave away the last of my love potion No. 9. Sorry.
MY GENERAL RULES OF THUMB (this should be common sense)
-No means no.
-Girls can ask out ask guys, this is a new generation.
-Unless you know sign language or are telepathic, you're going to have to talk to him/her.
-My "Don't ask, Don't tell" policy as is follows: Do not by any means volunteer your own sexual history, or ask your date/partner/wife/girlfriend their magic number (how many people they've slept with). If you find yourself being prompted to answer this question, politely tell them that's none of their business.
-Your past doesn't define who you are today. We grow, mature, age, and change as time passes.
-If you have to even ask random strangers on this website if you should have sex, then you're not ready for it.
-FWBs, fuck buddies, no strings attached, whatever you want to call it..is not a relationship don't get the 2 confused. In this case, sex=sex, not love.
-No trust=no relationship.
-It is normal for your husband/boyfriend to have friends of the opposite sex, do you not have male friends?
-LDRs can work, however they're not for everyone. You've got to have trust, communication, be faithful, and a lot of hobbies to keep yourself occupied. If you have trust issues, a case of being needy, clingy, problems staying faithful and are in a LDR don't be surprised when it doesn't work. I told you so.
- An ex is an ex for a reason. If you guys couldn't hack it as a couple the first 2 times what makes you think the third time is a charm?
-Going on a "break" is a nice way of breaking up.
-If you have sex with a man and he hasn't called you, or responded to your texts in weeks sorry to say but he was just after a piece of ass.
- Now unless he's getting blown up in Afghanistan, an on call ER doctor, or lying dead in a coffin then he's got no excuse for his poor or lack there of communication.
-You have a 12% chance of your married boyfriend leaving his wife and children.
-A man who is going through a divorce is still legally married. He's about to have an ex wife and you're wanting to get into a relationship with him? That's called a rebound.
-If you're a minor who's just found out she's pregnant, do me and everyone else on this site a favor..Tell your parents.
-Just because some one stares at you, it doesn't mean they like you. They could be staring at that booger hanging out of your nose.
-If you have a lump/bump/cyst/rash that looks green, has oozing puss, and itches like hell, but kinda looks like a STD then you had better consult your doctor. They went through 6 years of schooling and have a license to practice medicine, I think they would know better than random virtual strangers.
-Don't mix business with pleasure. Why? Because if you date your co-worker and in the event things turn sour then you're still stuck facing them 9-5, Mon-Fri. Awkward.
-No matter how hard you try, you can't change a person..they have to make that transformation themselves.
-When your boyfriend/girlfriend says they want space that doesn't mean you do the opposite and bombard them with calls/texts.
-As far as ultimatums go, don't try to make your boyfriend choose between you, his female friends, or weed. You won't like the results.
-If you're 13-17, I'm sorry but you haven't a clue what love really is. You have minimal dating experience confined to the high school dating pool which are nothing but horny boys. Their facial hair doesn't make them a man. It's only till you get out into the real world, a vast dating pool is when you learn the definition of love. So, go on thinking you and 13 year old Tommy will go on to get married, have 3 kids, and a two story house with a white picket fence. I don't expect you to listen, I'm 28 and married, what do I know? There's a reason why everyone says it won't last..because it doesn't.
-The average penis size erect is 6 inches, 4.85 inches. Women like average to even a little below average. We're not going to bust out a tape measure and measure it to make sure it's up to our standards. We just want to have sex, so enough complaining about your size let's get down and dirty.
- The legal age of consent in the U.S. is 16-18 varying oer state, in Britain it's 16. I think it's safe to say most parts of the world (unless you live in a tribe with their own form of government) the legal age to consent to sex is 16. So yes, all you minors below the age of consent are committing a crime when you engage in sexual activity. The age is set that high for a reason, you are not above the law. |
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I have got my mistress pregnant and my wife does not know, how do I avoid as much heartbreak as possible?
Q. I have been married for 6 1/2 years to a wonderful wife. Well for the most part. I on the other hand am a horrible husband. In the 6+ years we've been married she cheated on me shortly after our first child was born. No excuses for my upcoming ...
A. 11 November 2010: Who said anything about abortion? If his mistress is indeed pregnant she said she was keeping the child.... (read in full...)
I love her and I'm ready for sex. Should I go ahead with it?
Q. Ok....Heres the situation me and this girl are deeply in love. We are not 18 we are both within a year of each other age wise. This past weekend we where close to having intercourse when I stopped us. The only reason I stopped us is I didn't want ...
A. 11 November 2010: That's exactly why they have those laws, because minors are not mature enough to engage in sex. At the end of the day, you think and do what you want.. End of story..... (read in full...)
I love her and I'm ready for sex. Should I go ahead with it?
Q. Ok....Heres the situation me and this girl are deeply in love. We are not 18 we are both within a year of each other age wise. This past weekend we where close to having intercourse when I stopped us. The only reason I stopped us is I didn't want ...
A. 11 November 2010: Again, at the end of the day it is the law..and you ARE a minor.... (read in full...)
What if I'm imagining all the flirting between my married teacher and me?
Q. i reallly like my male teacher, but he is married. with a 2 year old daughter. i have heard rumors that he kinda creeps on his students but has never done anything sexual with him. i really want to do something with him and i'm afraid he will reject ...
A. 10 November 2010: Your 15? That makes it even better..YOU'RE UNDERAGE! He is most definitely not flirting with you, because if he does, not only can he lose his teaching career, he also can go to jail and be labeled as a sex offender for life. Now do you want that ... (read in full...)
What if I'm imagining all the flirting between my married teacher and me?
Q. i reallly like my male teacher, but he is married. with a 2 year old daughter. i have heard rumors that he kinda creeps on his students but has never done anything sexual with him. i really want to do something with him and i'm afraid he will reject ...
A. 9 November 2010: Op, in no way did I lash out at you, but what do you expect when you ask a question like that? Given your age, you're old enough to know right from wrong and see the student-teacher romances on TV, not to mention the part where the teachers lose ... (read in full...)
I get myself into some pretty crazy situations.
Q. Basically , I'm having sex with a cop. I thought it was going to be a one time thing when we met butt it wasn't, and now I'm head over heals for the guy.... I'm 1, 18 in a month and a half. he thinks I'm 19. I plan to tell him when I do turn 18 ...
A. 9 November 2010: At least you're not lying about being underage. You are of age of legal consent in your state?? In the US, it's 16-18 varies per state, although most are 16.
He does deserve to know your actual age. This is casual sex, so it may not change t... (read in full...)
I know this sounds stupid but I would like to spend the holidays with him, but I can't.
Q. Okay so me and my boyfriend have been together for 4 months. Before we even started dating his sister decided that she didn't like me because I am 10 years younger than him. I have still never met her or any other member of his family. He lives in ...
A. 9 November 2010: I'm rather confused at why she doesn't like you but she's never met you. How do you know she doesn't like you, your boyfriend told you? Just a thought, but do you ever think your boyfriend is lying to you? Reason why I say that is I had a boyfriend ... (read in full...)
I've dated a lot of jerks, but this game where he throws me out only to ask me back the next day is new.
Q. ive been with this guy for 7 months now. he seems to have a hard time opening up, and seems like someone who nevr really could want a relationship. im the idiot who chases him. so here's the situation.. we moved away from our hometown together, we ...
A. 9 November 2010: He's thrown you out 5 times and you go back every time?? I'm no buying that he sat around regretting throwing you out. He's doing it for a reason, which I'm willing to bet there's another girl involved.
So you took care of you both financia... (read in full...)
He throws his ex in my face when we fight
Q. My boyfriend and i have had a lot of up's and downs. we love each other, and it seems he dont want to break up. not everything we fight about is his fault, but when we do fight, he throws his ex's in my face. "his ex's trusted him better" "his ex's ...
A. 9 November 2010: His wonderful exes probably didn't put up with this crap and dumped him.
The only way around this him making you feel inferior, is to talk about it with him. Tell him you don't like him throwing ex this ex that in your face, it's rather childish... (read in full...)
I'm in love with him but does he love me?
Q. [first question] My Boyfried Loves eccusin me all the time he says he knows i am cheatin whene i am not he dosent listen to me is he eccusin me because he's cheating ? x [second question] I Think Im In Love But Dose He Love Me?,, He Says it all...
A. 9 November 2010: I second that, with your awful spelling it's hard to understand what you're asking.
Let me see if I understand, your boyfriend accuses you of cheating but he's the one cheating seeing as you caught him kissing his ex? Then he tells you the firs... (read in full...)
How to get a guy out of your system for good?
Q. How do you get a guy out of your system for good? I'm trying the no contact rule at the moment, which has lasted a week so far. I want to remove him from facebook but haven't got the willpower yet but i have deleted his number. I really need to do ...
A. 9 November 2010: If you can delete his number, then you can stop stalking him on Facebook as well. Block him from Facebook, then you won't be tempted to look at his statuses. Start again with the no contact rule. Take everything that he has given you, gifts, shirts ... (read in full...)
What if I'm imagining all the flirting between my married teacher and me?
Q. i reallly like my male teacher, but he is married. with a 2 year old daughter. i have heard rumors that he kinda creeps on his students but has never done anything sexual with him. i really want to do something with him and i'm afraid he will reject ...
A. 9 November 2010: Let me reiterate what you said..He's married with a 2 years old daughter, he has a home and a life. You heard RUMORS about him. Now, why would you want to try to make a move on a very married man? Don't even try it.... (read in full...)
Does my girlfriend like another boy?
Q. Ok so i have been dating this girl for about 4 weeks now i really like her and would do anything for her she also likes me the same way.Well im just wondering if she is loyal to me? because i introduced her to a freind of mine and she couldnt stop ...
A. 9 November 2010: Your girlfriend sounds rather boy crazy..Don't you think she should be writing your name and a heart on her hand instead of your friend's? Have you asked her why she canceled your dates 4 times in a row?
Honestly, I don't think she's ready to... (read in full...)
I care about her but she brings home strangers!
Q. My good friend, god bless her soul, doesn't have much common sense. Shes a real sweet gal, but she really fails to sense ill will from others. She tends to go for guys based solely on looks, and also whom openly disrespect her, dumping any nice guy ...
A. 9 November 2010: Unfortunately, you can't change her dating pattern. One day it will dawn on her that she's dating losers. However, you can set rules in your house since you are being so kind to let her stay there. Your house, your rules. Tell her she is not allowed ... (read in full...)
I want to show that I'm interested, but not a creepy stalker
Q. Hi guys. Just need some advice about something that is slightly confused me. Last weekend I met this really sexy lady at a club where I work as a bouncer. The story was that This woman was outside the club with her friend (woman.) looking to grab ...
A. 9 November 2010: If she was drunk that night, seeing as it was her birthday that could be a factor, then it's possible she doesn't recall who you are..or even the number that's texting her. (This has happened to me) Send her one more text explaining who you are, ... (read in full...)
I love my girlfriend so much, but she has broken up with me and won't let me help her with her depression!
Q. okay so me and my girlfreind have been on and off now for 2 years, she is the love of my life i care for her so so much. the reason we have been on and off is because she suffers with depression and when she gets it she thinks it is in both our ...
A. 9 November 2010: The last thing she needs is for you to try to help her. She's specified that now's not the time for a relationship and everyone else is telling you to stay away. Listen. I know you have good intentions but you can't fix what's broken in her.
Inste... (read in full...)
He doesn't love me but wants to be with me?
Q. my boyfriend told me straight out he dosent love me but that he still wants to be with me. he said he dosent think he will ever love me but still wants our relationship to work. what do i do?...
A. 9 November 2010: He doesn't love you but doesn't want to be alone..so he likes the idea of being in a relationship. Do you want to be with a guy who wants to be with you for just companionship, never taking it any further than what it is?
At 30-35, you're l... (read in full...)
My friend and I are fighting but I don't think I did anything wrong. Help!
Q. My friend and I are fighting. It's such a stupid "fight"! I'm not even fighting really, I don't even know what I did. Anyway, my best friend/roommate is possibly changing colleges next year to the college her boyfriend is at. Now this is not the ...
A. 9 November 2010: Well the plan isn't set in motion just yet..so why is she getting so touchy?
He could have very well changed, all we can do is take her word for it. That's fine for you to have your opinion, however she didn't ask for it. In your defense and her ... (read in full...)
I lied about my identity for 2 years and now he wants nothing to do with me!
Q. Okay so here's the thing I was stupid and lied about my identity on facebook..while I did that I met this guy, I didn't tell him the truth and I fell for him..he said he loved me he loved my personality and all... Well 2 years later I told him the ...
A. 9 November 2010: ignore it, there's nothing to respond back to. He said bye, that's his form of closure. Leave it as it is.... (read in full...)
My brother's friend is sending me mix signals do you think he likes me?
Q. my brothers friend keeps sending me mixed signals i dont no if he likes me or not. He knows i like him cause my friends have told him yet he hasn't said if he does or doesn't like me back. my sister gave him my number, he hasn't text me and i havent ...
A. 9 November 2010: He seems pretty flirty, you may have the wrong image of him being all sure of himself..he may just be shy. Or he could be holding back out of respect to your brother. Why don't you text him, and see where it goes?... (read in full...)
Are we dating/getting to know each other or are we just hooking up?
Q. Are we dating/getting to know each other or are we just hooking up? - known each other for four weeks - he's always followed up on everything he planned or said - he pays for everything (even though I offer and sometimes we split) - he never ...
A. 9 November 2010: You're in the dating/getting to know each other phase that's why he's not calling you unless you two have plans. Take away all that and have just the sex part, that's hooking up. In the grey area for a month, that's about right..however within the ... (read in full...)
Notes from girls make me mistrust my fiance
Q. I'm at a loss for words and feelings. I don't know if I should stay with my fiance anymore. I can't trust him. I feel like he has lied to me time and time again. I constantly find notes from girls and all he says its girls who want to get with him, ...
A. 9 November 2010: Notes? I'm hoping as in love letters...The last time I passed a note was in middle school before texting was popular.
I'm with Honeypie, photocopy these notes so you can shove them in his face and watch him squirm. If it's nothing, then why are ... (read in full...)
He says he loves me but is still engaged
Q. Hey guys I need advice so desperately!I met this guy in may!he is from germany I am from uk.he had lived in america for 5 years...we started off really casual,but then things got more serious!I found out he had a girlfriend because I read his ...
A. 8 November 2010: So let me guess his fiance is American and he's in the Uk now? Well he has to get married to her in order to live in America.
Red flags as follows:
- The only way you found he had a fiance is because you read his phone..why were you reading ... (read in full...)
He cheated on me and is now outside my house wanting to talk to me
Q. so i dumped my boyfriend on saturday because he cheated on me with my friend and after that he kept ringing and texting me and i wasn't answering and now he is standing outside my house he keeps knocking on my door he won't go away i texted him and ...
A. 8 November 2010: So he wants to talk now after you dumped him for cheating on you? Too bad.
Shout out the window and let him know he's got 20 minutes to leave, if he doesn't you will call the police to force him to move it. ... (read in full...)
Should I be bothered by what she does?
Q. Hi Agony Aunts, I know a girl who I am friends with. I have always had a crush on her but she made it clear she would just like to be friends. She does a couple things which make me feel lousy and I wonder if I should feel this way. 1) She...
A. 8 November 2010: If she's constantly ditching plans with you to go out on dates, then yeah I can see where you would be upset.. But then again at the same time you start your post out saying you have a crush on her, as well as her rejecting you. As a reader, I can't ... (read in full...)
Girlfriend asked for Space, what can I do?
Q. Hi: I've been dating my girlfriend for 2 and 3/4years, I'm 23 she's 18. Just 3 days ago, she asked for a break or to have her own space. I was completely blindsided with that request because it was unexpected. Initially when she told me, I r...
A. 8 November 2010: a.) Yes..She couldn't give you a reason as to why she wants a break. Her reasons are poor that she comes up with. Those who ask for a break in a relationship know exactly why they want one.
b.) She assured you you guys would get back together... (read in full...)
Should I be bothered by what she does?
Q. Hi Agony Aunts, I know a girl who I am friends with. I have always had a crush on her but she made it clear she would just like to be friends. She does a couple things which make me feel lousy and I wonder if I should feel this way. 1) She...
A. 8 November 2010: Yes you are.
1.) Of course she's not going to directly tell you she's hanging out with other guys when she knows you're into her. She's looking for a boyfriend and you're still upset you are not it. You're getting jealous of her hanging out with... (read in full...)
Are some things just better off unsaid?
Q. Borderline dumb question, looking for some reassurance. There is a girl in my group of friends, that I never dated, never really liked (like I wanted to date) her, and never looked at her like that. Last night my girlfriend was asking me if I e...
A. 8 November 2010: It's better off in your past as a distant memory. Your girlfriend shouldn't be asking anyway, because even if you did recall that make out then there's a chance of her developing retroactive jealousy. Basically, getting jealous of you making out ... (read in full...)
I don't like this girl and don't want anyone to get the wrong idea about us, what should I do if she comes onto me?
Q. so people i got this girl and i think shes butt ugly but she really likes me and once asked me if i masturbated and i got so disgusted i almost threw up! what should i do if she tries to come on to me?? i don't want anybody getting the wrong idea!!?...
A. 8 November 2010: Just because she's butt ugly and asks you about masturbation doesn't mean she's going to make a move on you. You're getting too ahead of yourself.
Next time she asks you about masturbation, tell her it's none of her business and walk away. No... (read in full...)
What should I get my nerdy gamer boyfriend for christmas?
Q. I don't know what to get my boyfriend for christmas, we've been dating for 8 months officially, but have been best friends, and are really very close. He is a nerd, he's a gamer like me, loves technology, but has mostly everything. i bought him a ...
A. 8 November 2010: If he has an Xbox what about that new Kinect motion sensor? Or for whatever game system he has get him Rockband, the drums, guitar, and microphone, if he already doesn't have one of those. My friends and I love to get drunk and belt out 30 Seconds ... (read in full...)
I have got my mistress pregnant and my wife does not know, how do I avoid as much heartbreak as possible?
Q. I have been married for 6 1/2 years to a wonderful wife. Well for the most part. I on the other hand am a horrible husband. In the 6+ years we've been married she cheated on me shortly after our first child was born. No excuses for my upcoming ...
A. 8 November 2010: The absolute worst that could happen..
You tell your wife, or you fail to tell your wife and your mistress does it for you..Your soon to be ex-wife, takes you to the cleaners getting you for 2 counts of adultery, takes custody of the children... (read in full...)
Being apart makes us crazy. How do we cure the distance barrier?
Q. my boyfriend and i have been together for a year and a half and have recently become a long distance relationship because of college. We are now 3 hours apart and see each other about every two weeks. Lately we have been sad at each other a lot, ...
A. 8 November 2010: You're fighting because of the distance, that happens in every LDR. Actually seeing each other twice a month is pretty good, most LDR couples can't do that. Pick and choose your battles, if yourself fighting over little things don't bother. Just ... (read in full...)
I love her and I'm ready for sex. Should I go ahead with it?
Q. Ok....Heres the situation me and this girl are deeply in love. We are not 18 we are both within a year of each other age wise. This past weekend we where close to having intercourse when I stopped us. The only reason I stopped us is I didn't want ...
A. 8 November 2010: No because like everyone else said you're a minor, the legal age of consent varies per state...
Age of consent 16: Alabama, Alaska, Arkansas, Connecticut, District of Columbia, Georgia, Hawaii, Indiana, Iowa, Kansas, Kentucky, Maine, Maryland, Mass... (read in full...)
Now that he's single he doesn't want to be with me
Q. I am a female who had been dating a married male of this same age group for approximately 18 months. my dilemna is, now that he is single he seems not to want to be with me and build a relationship. he was being very evasive about it all at first, ...
A. 8 November 2010: I sure hope he's suing for his loss.
Anyways, death comes as a shock at first..we're upset, crying. It takes a while for it to seep in. We're in denial for the longest time over it. Then once we accept it, then we can properly grieve. When he ... (read in full...)
What do I tell her when I ask her out?
Q. Simple question. Do I tell her exactly how I feel, or do I just ask her out? Or both? Thank you....
A. 8 November 2010: Yes! If you ask her out then you would be asking her to cheat..that's not exactly fair. I would say wait till she is single and emotionally ready to be in a relationship with you. With that being said, you don't want to wait around an eternity for ... (read in full...)
I lied about my identity for 2 years and now he wants nothing to do with me!
Q. Okay so here's the thing I was stupid and lied about my identity on facebook..while I did that I met this guy, I didn't tell him the truth and I fell for him..he said he loved me he loved my personality and all... Well 2 years later I told him the ...
A. 8 November 2010: Because he probably still can't grasp you lied for that long..We had a question on her this lesbian was lied to by a man posing as a woman on the net. Then he finally came clean and she was convinced that the woman when she was just a figment of ... (read in full...)
Is it strange that me and my fiance don't shower together?
Q. My Cousin stayed the weekend with me and my Fiance recently and we had got done making Dinner and he went to take a Shower and my Cousin says 'your not gonna take a shower with him' and i say No 'Why and she says have you ever showered together, i ...
A. 8 November 2010: You may have one of those shower stalls that really only are meant for one..or one of you likes to take baths. No big deal, some couples do it at least once, some never do, and others do it from time to time. Generally couples share together for ... (read in full...)
Nightclub questions for the ladies.
Q. Hi everyone, I've just signed up here so this is my very first post. Probably wont be my last though! :o). I'm curious for the female perspective on this, but i'd welcome feedback from anyone. I'm 32 and been been single for 2 years now, so ...
A. 8 November 2010: I'll admit the first thought that came to mind, I would ask myself "Is he gay?" However, that depends if you live in an area where the population has quite a bit of homosexuals. It's just that it's odd to see a man in a club with a group of females. ... (read in full...)
Long distance relationship at 14???
Q. So, theres this guy and we are really close friends but I know that we both want to take it abit further. Thr problem is, he lives over 3 hours away by car, and we only get to see each other at weekends in the summer as we met each other at a ...
A. 8 November 2010: LDRs can work but they're not for everyone. At your age, you're too young to handle a LDR..you still want to hold, cuddle, kiss this guy, you crave and need that attention you're not getting. All you would have is a phone/computer relationship. Does ... (read in full...)
Brother/sister sexual activivty???
Q. I was on this website earlier looking at the question do girls masturbate as much as boys/ was just curious but I stumbled on a story where a boy masturbated with his sister so I googled that and found a bunch of stories where brothers and sisters ...
A. 8 November 2010: That's called incest which is illegal.... (read in full...)
Jealous and obsessed with weddings
Q. I'm turning into this obsessively jealous (of other's engagements and weddings) kind of person since I got married recently after dating for 8 years, 5 of which we cohabitated. Everything seemed situational.If it weren't for my expensive meds and...
A. 8 November 2010: Why don't you renew your vows on your one year anniversary and have the wedding you want?
I didn't have the wedding of my dreams, in fact it was really tiny..and we had a reception at a nice Italian restaurant. We decided we'd renew our vows whe... (read in full...)
What do I tell her when I ask her out?
Q. Simple question. Do I tell her exactly how I feel, or do I just ask her out? Or both? Thank you....
A. 7 November 2010: Ask her out, don't spill your feelings all at once that's too much to digest.... (read in full...)
Do you think we should have sex?
Q. First, please don't answer "Save yourself for marriage," because that's clearly not going to happen in our modern day and age. Secondly, please don't tell me that I'm an idiot who is going to get pregnant. Now. My boyfriend and I hav...
A. 7 November 2010: 1. No, because you are not the legal age of consent..which is 16-18 depending on your state.
Age of consent 16: Alabama, Alaska, Arkansas, Connecticut, District of Columbia, Georgia, Hawaii, Indiana, Iowa, Kansas, Kentucky, Maine, Maryland... (read in full...)
We have nothing to say to each other anymore?
Q. my boyfriend and i have been going out for 11 months. we used to talk for hours about everything, laughing and smiling, but now we just have nothing to say. we don't make each other laugh or smile as much, and we've talked about it, but we don't ...
A. 7 November 2010: Why must you always be talking? My mouth would get tired. Rent movies, watch them together, cuddling on the couch..that doesn't require conversation. Go to a show, then go grab a bite to eat afterwards...share your opinions of the comedy you just ... (read in full...)
Broken hearted, he's become a player, how can I get him to fall in love with me?
Q. this is the thing: i like this guy a lot. he has a broken heart and he's become a player, even his friends are worried about him because he's not like that. i have a broken heart too, but i solved it from a different approach: faith, so i'm good ...
A. 7 November 2010: Don't we all wish we could mend that player's broken heart? Well, you can't turn a player into a boyfriend. Just doesn't work like that. He's gotten his heart broken, is now convinced all girls are the same so what better way to get revenge is to ... (read in full...)
Do I keep trying with my marriage... or do I give up?
Q. I am married and a month ago I was gonna get a divorce but we talked let our feelings out he promised to change and so did I. We were doing good but yesterday we had an argument but instead of being a simple argument he exploded telling me I've ...
A. 7 November 2010: If your problems are out of your hands, you can't seem to get anywhere it's best you seek marriage counseling..before your marriage is beyond repair. It's best to get a third party observation in a calm setting where you can freely discuss your ... (read in full...)
I lied about my identity for 2 years and now he wants nothing to do with me!
Q. Okay so here's the thing I was stupid and lied about my identity on facebook..while I did that I met this guy, I didn't tell him the truth and I fell for him..he said he loved me he loved my personality and all... Well 2 years later I told him the ...
A. 3 November 2010: Sad to say, you were living a big lie for 2 years..of course he doesn't know the real you because you've lied to him from the get go. He has no trust in you, bad way to try to start a relationship. Not to mention, you're underage so legally he can't ... (read in full...)
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