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What qualifies me to help you? Vast dating experience, especially in the LDR department, even an international on with an Aussie, broke hearts, had mine broken, been engaged once before, I know what a real friend is, seen the ugly side of divorce coming from a recently broken home myself, even went as far as to tip the odds to my side and use men only to toss them aside like yesterday's garbage like they do women, I know what it's like to almost give up hope on finding the perfect man when he's really only a few boyfriends away, and I'm starting to learn the ropes of married life. I also know a vast deal about the female and male reproductive system, and all about the mental struggles with infertility. On a side note, I'm the one who gives you tough love, I'm not on here to sugarcoat it or to tell you what you want to hear. I'm going to give it to you straight up, wouldn't you rather the truth?
-TOP 5 QUESTIONS I CAN'T STAND-
#1. Does this mean my teacher likes me?
Just because they're nice to you, offer extra help, and put a little gold star on your A+ paper doesn't mean they are in love with you.
#2. Could I be pregnant?
Have you not heard of a pregnancy test? Get off this website, and go to your local drugstore.
#3. I'm 14 and I want a baby?
Really? Me too! Oh wait I'm 28 and married. You're how old again?
#4. My husband loves porn more than me!
Maybe if you didn't let yourself go into the frumpy woman you have turned into then he wouldn't have to look at porn now would he? I recommend you get your rear to the salon for highlights, manicure, pedicure, tanning, toss the baggy tees and sweat pants for a wardrobe that fits, and a little makeup goes a long way. It's called basic woman maintenance in order to keep your man's eyes on you.
#5. Will we get back together, how can I get him to love me again?
Unfortunately, my crystal ball is broke at the moment and I just gave away the last of my love potion No. 9. Sorry.
MY GENERAL RULES OF THUMB (this should be common sense)
-No means no.
-Girls can ask out ask guys, this is a new generation.
-Unless you know sign language or are telepathic, you're going to have to talk to him/her.
-My "Don't ask, Don't tell" policy as is follows: Do not by any means volunteer your own sexual history, or ask your date/partner/wife/girlfriend their magic number (how many people they've slept with). If you find yourself being prompted to answer this question, politely tell them that's none of their business.
-Your past doesn't define who you are today. We grow, mature, age, and change as time passes.
-If you have to even ask random strangers on this website if you should have sex, then you're not ready for it.
-FWBs, fuck buddies, no strings attached, whatever you want to call it..is not a relationship don't get the 2 confused. In this case, sex=sex, not love.
-No trust=no relationship.
-It is normal for your husband/boyfriend to have friends of the opposite sex, do you not have male friends?
-LDRs can work, however they're not for everyone. You've got to have trust, communication, be faithful, and a lot of hobbies to keep yourself occupied. If you have trust issues, a case of being needy, clingy, problems staying faithful and are in a LDR don't be surprised when it doesn't work. I told you so.
- An ex is an ex for a reason. If you guys couldn't hack it as a couple the first 2 times what makes you think the third time is a charm?
-Going on a "break" is a nice way of breaking up.
-If you have sex with a man and he hasn't called you, or responded to your texts in weeks sorry to say but he was just after a piece of ass.
- Now unless he's getting blown up in Afghanistan, an on call ER doctor, or lying dead in a coffin then he's got no excuse for his poor or lack there of communication.
-You have a 12% chance of your married boyfriend leaving his wife and children.
-A man who is going through a divorce is still legally married. He's about to have an ex wife and you're wanting to get into a relationship with him? That's called a rebound.
-If you're a minor who's just found out she's pregnant, do me and everyone else on this site a favor..Tell your parents.
-Just because some one stares at you, it doesn't mean they like you. They could be staring at that booger hanging out of your nose.
-If you have a lump/bump/cyst/rash that looks green, has oozing puss, and itches like hell, but kinda looks like a STD then you had better consult your doctor. They went through 6 years of schooling and have a license to practice medicine, I think they would know better than random virtual strangers.
-Don't mix business with pleasure. Why? Because if you date your co-worker and in the event things turn sour then you're still stuck facing them 9-5, Mon-Fri. Awkward.
-No matter how hard you try, you can't change a person..they have to make that transformation themselves.
-When your boyfriend/girlfriend says they want space that doesn't mean you do the opposite and bombard them with calls/texts.
-As far as ultimatums go, don't try to make your boyfriend choose between you, his female friends, or weed. You won't like the results.
-If you're 13-17, I'm sorry but you haven't a clue what love really is. You have minimal dating experience confined to the high school dating pool which are nothing but horny boys. Their facial hair doesn't make them a man. It's only till you get out into the real world, a vast dating pool is when you learn the definition of love. So, go on thinking you and 13 year old Tommy will go on to get married, have 3 kids, and a two story house with a white picket fence. I don't expect you to listen, I'm 28 and married, what do I know? There's a reason why everyone says it won't last..because it doesn't.
-The average penis size erect is 6 inches, 4.85 inches. Women like average to even a little below average. We're not going to bust out a tape measure and measure it to make sure it's up to our standards. We just want to have sex, so enough complaining about your size let's get down and dirty.
- The legal age of consent in the U.S. is 16-18 varying oer state, in Britain it's 16. I think it's safe to say most parts of the world (unless you live in a tribe with their own form of government) the legal age to consent to sex is 16. So yes, all you minors below the age of consent are committing a crime when you engage in sexual activity. The age is set that high for a reason, you are not above the law. |
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Don't know how else to prove my love for him!
Q. Dear Cupid, It's me again and this is the follow-up to my original question " Am I wrong to be in love with my bestfriend". Well as of right now me and him are some what doing good but this week I haven't seen him, he hasn't b...
A. 26 December 2010: Ha what a jerk! Well, I pity this new girl that has to deal with his mental state..it's her problem now, no longer yours. Be glad that you're done with him. You gave it your all but he was the one who messed this up and that's on him.... (read in full...)
My boyfriend constantly shuts down and defeats himself!
Q. Whenever something upsets him, he completely shuts down. He'll have no motivation and will only speak in a whisper, as if it requires huge amounts of effort (not that I'm doubting it does). He's constantly in this cycle of feeling like a failure, ...
A. 14 November 2010: Good for you! A lot of people are unaware of their depression, let's hope he wants to seek help in order to get better!... (read in full...)
When I graduate he's fair game, right?
Q. hi i am a new comer to the U.S and I couldn't speak well-English when I just got there and I am a student in a HIGH SCHOOL . I've met lot of students , teachers and people who helped me a lot to improve my English skills and they're all prou...
A. 13 November 2010: He cannot be your boyfriend because he is your teacher. I suggest you find a boy near your age first, just so you understand guys and their feelings..also to give you a little experience in dating. ... (read in full...)
Did I just take her virginity?
Q. We are friends and unintentionaly,i just entered her once,only one shot and then out,and she saw a little blood and felt pain walking.is she virgine anymore?...
A. 13 November 2010: Basically.... (read in full...)
Does it hurt the second time around?
Q. I lost my virginity last year, and I am now scared to have sex again because it has been so long, and apparently it hurts again. Does it?...
A. 13 November 2010: Let me be more specific..that applies in a "I just lost my virginity" case. Hahaha.... (read in full...)
They say we won't last, but I have faith in this relationship!
Q. so me and my beau have been dating for a while(; he makes me sooooooo happy . I always feel hyper after I hugg him or even talk to him . I want to tell him something really sweet . I've thought of a few things , butt they don't apply to us . we are ...
A. 13 November 2010: Pshhh. What is she into tarot card reading?? Or some kind of physic? Tell her to mind her business.... (read in full...)
When I graduate he's fair game, right?
Q. hi i am a new comer to the U.S and I couldn't speak well-English when I just got there and I am a student in a HIGH SCHOOL . I've met lot of students , teachers and people who helped me a lot to improve my English skills and they're all prou...
A. 13 November 2010: For now there is nothing you can do, except for be a student and keep your emotions in check..Let him be a teacher. You've seen on the news in America that any teacher caught with a student is dismissed and will never teach again. Even any ... (read in full...)
Don't know how else to prove my love for him!
Q. Dear Cupid, It's me again and this is the follow-up to my original question " Am I wrong to be in love with my bestfriend". Well as of right now me and him are some what doing good but this week I haven't seen him, he hasn't b...
A. 13 November 2010: I read your last question and I agree with Zuni..Have you made it clear to him that you are there for him if he ever needs you and that you love, cherish him very much. Also what kind of problems is he having that has caused him to leave school? You ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend constantly shuts down and defeats himself!
Q. Whenever something upsets him, he completely shuts down. He'll have no motivation and will only speak in a whisper, as if it requires huge amounts of effort (not that I'm doubting it does). He's constantly in this cycle of feeling like a failure, ...
A. 13 November 2010: Does he seem depressed? Loss of interest in activities he once enjoyed, feeling like a failure, irregular sleep patterns, insomnia or getting too much sleep, headaches, unexplained body pains, change in appetite eating too much or too little, can't ... (read in full...)
Does it hurt the second time around?
Q. I lost my virginity last year, and I am now scared to have sex again because it has been so long, and apparently it hurts again. Does it?...
A. 13 November 2010: If it's been quite a while then it will hurt a bit the second time around, but not as bad as your first time. (my first time was painful too) The more you have sex the more it will adjust and start to feel good instead of painful.... (read in full...)
Is his size normal for his age?
Q. Me and my bofriend have been together for 2 years now and about a year ago he told me that his penis was three inches not hard and six incehs hard he is 16 is this normal?...
A. 13 November 2010: Yes, his penis is average hard..and when they are not erect they're around 3-4 inches.... (read in full...)
They say we won't last, but I have faith in this relationship!
Q. so me and my beau have been dating for a while(; he makes me sooooooo happy . I always feel hyper after I hugg him or even talk to him . I want to tell him something really sweet . I've thought of a few things , butt they don't apply to us . we are ...
A. 13 November 2010: As long as you believe in your relationship that's all that matters. No one can tell you whether it will last or not, you and your beau make that decision for yourselves!! It lasts as long as you want it to.... (read in full...)
All I do is kiss her neck and she's ready to go!
Q. When I kiss my girlfriend's neck she becomes quite aroused. I know it's probably a dumb question because mostly likely it's her nerves responding but, why do women get turned on by that?...
A. 13 November 2010: It's a sensual gesture..for some like your girlfriend, that's the spot that gets the juices flowing..others like their chest, ears, stomach, in between the thighs. ... (read in full...)
Will she come to her senses before walking down the aisle?
Q. Ok, I have a best friend whom I am very concern about. She is in a possessive relationship. She is 19 and her bf is 22. She has been with him for about 5 years already. She told me she has gone through a lot in this relationship. This is what h...
A. 13 November 2010: She's going to stick with him until one day she wakes up and realizes that she doesn't have to take this abuse. If he's slapped her once, there's nothing holding him back from doing it again. They fight, argue, then he does his best to smooth it ... (read in full...)
Does anyone else's boyfriend jump after sex and are ready to engage in the next activity?
Q. Does anyone else get upset when your boyfriend/girlfriend after a mind blowing love making session jumps (without any kind of cuddling or talk) to wanting to do something else. Like having friends come over or going to a bar with friends?...
A. 13 November 2010: I get steamed when my husband does that! What you do is grab his arm and ask him to cuddle..that you just want to lay here and bask in the aftermath. If he doesn't get the message, it's best you tell him that it's appropriate and comforting to lay ... (read in full...)
Am I on his mind?
Q. I constantly think about my boy all the time . I'm not sure if he EVER thinks about me . he's adorable , funny , sweet , and everything I've ever wanted . Isaw him "hugging" hus best friend (a guy) and I've been worried about it . how can I tell if ...
A. 13 November 2010: Well my crystal ball is broke at the moment..No just kidding!
Dear, we don't know if he thinks about you. If I could read minds, I'd be rich. If you like this boy why don't you tell him?
P.S. It's perfectly acceptable for guys to hug. The... (read in full...)
If my checkout lane is a mile long, he'll stay in my line!
Q. So theres this guy, of course how else would i start a question lol, that is shy around me and only around me at work. I try to make convo but he always looks down and around when talking to me. I think its cute lol. But the only time he talks to me ...
A. 13 November 2010: Hahaha, then he's just finding an excuse to come see you..but he's a shy one. Say something girl! Who needs that much gum? ... (read in full...)
FWBs vs. Relationship
Q. I met this guy online about 2 or 3 months ago and we went on our first date a few days back. Had a great time and find myself attracted to him but I'm sensing that the feeling is not mutual. I want to start building a relationship that leads to...
A. 13 November 2010: If he's not putting forth the effort, letting 2 weeks pass before contact then that tells me he's not that interested. Now, if he's just looking for fun then you're not going to get past just sex..Sex=sex, it doesn't equal a relationship. You would ... (read in full...)
If my checkout lane is a mile long, he'll stay in my line!
Q. So theres this guy, of course how else would i start a question lol, that is shy around me and only around me at work. I try to make convo but he always looks down and around when talking to me. I think its cute lol. But the only time he talks to me ...
A. 12 November 2010: Well what does he buy? Comment on his items or..you can smile and say "Come here often?" Start off with that. ... (read in full...)
I want to get rid of these fanny farts!
Q. right well where should i start.... i know it is normal but also very embarrassing an all. but when having sex with my partner sometimes i "fanny fart" that is what they call it these days well, they dont happen all the time but when they do i g...
A. 12 November 2010: Unfortunately, you can't put a stop to them. Every woman has vaginal flatulence. It's from too much air getting into your vagina. During sex this usually only happens in doggy style position. I would avoid this position.... (read in full...)
Misunderstood his email, now he's mad.
Q. I have been seeing a guy for a couple of months - really like him but he is playing it really cool. So i am playing it cool too. All was fine, then today he sent the following email "my phone just went blank c**t switch it on" I took the c word...
A. 12 November 2010: So the email had a typo, a dirty one at that. I'd probably misinterpret it too..easy mistake. There's nothing you can really do, you've already apologized. It's rather silly of him to get mad over that. I'd just let the situation go. It will ... (read in full...)
Stay together for the kids?
Q. I have to ask, and I would appreciate people’s responses who have actually dealt directly with divorce, whether that is being the child involved or the parents. My parent’s divorced when I was about 8 years old; my father had been kicked out of t...
A. 12 November 2010: Divorce isn't easy by any means and for the whole family it absolutely sucks. Your parents divorce when you were 8, mine divorced when I was 23..just 2 years ago. It's much, much harder to accept when you're older. You don't know it any other way ... (read in full...)
How to regain his trust?
Q. I have been with my fiance now for almost 4 years and we are on the edge of breaking up. I recently lied to him about stupid crap. I lost my job and didn't tell him until about 2 days later. I know it was wrong and I should have told him but I was ...
A. 12 November 2010: It doesn't sound like he's letting you regain that trust if he's being hurtful and ignoring you. This takes two, he has to forgive you and let you earn back the trust and you have to show him you can be trusted again. Otherwise, it's just one person ... (read in full...)
I see the "texting on the wall".
Q. I am 40 years old, mom of one. My boyfriend and his daughter have been living with us for the past 3.5 years. To be honest, this is the first time I've felt that "in love" feeling...deep, caring love. BF had to go stay with his best friend for ...
A. 12 November 2010: What was reasoning for going to stay with his best friend on Halloween weekend?
1. He was testing the bond of your relationship..or is that his justification for cheating? Something to ponder.
2. If you two were to break up, he would be with... (read in full...)
I hate being the green monster in this relationship!
Q. I'm having a hugeee problem with jealousy lately. I feel like it's tearing my relationship apart, but I don't know how to stop getting jealous all the time over stupid things. As some background, I'm not a very confident person in the first pla...
A. 12 November 2010: If he's lying to you then maybe that's the problem in the first place, he's not trustworthy! Not to mention it's a LDR, which not everyone can handle..and if you don't have trust in a relationship then consider it over. He lies, you get insecure and ... (read in full...)
He cuts off contact when he goes abroad?
Q. hey.my boyfriend and i have been in an l.d.r for over a year now. we met the day he was leaving for u.k and fell in love in the few hours we spent together that day. at first we talked everyday and i was so in love but then he cut contact with me ...
A. 12 November 2010: His excuse is very poor and utter crap...He could utilize free websites such as SKYPE, MSN, Yahoo messenger rather than international calling. Did he tell you it was over when he went abroad? Or did he just silently dump you? Either way, you ... (read in full...)
Did I just take her virginity?
Q. We are friends and unintentionaly,i just entered her once,only one shot and then out,and she saw a little blood and felt pain walking.is she virgine anymore?...
A. 12 November 2010: If you penetrated her, all it takes is one time..you broke her hymen so no she is no longer a virgin. ... (read in full...)
I added this girl on Facebook without knowing she's a blackmailer!
Q. Ok Well, About last month...some girl added me to face book. I didn't know her. Then later on I had her on msn messenger list..We started chatting, and then she started getting nasty and was almost demanding me to put on my web cam. It was getting ...
A. 12 November 2010: One more thing, don't add people on Facebook you don't know!... (read in full...)
I added this girl on Facebook without knowing she's a blackmailer!
Q. Ok Well, About last month...some girl added me to face book. I didn't know her. Then later on I had her on msn messenger list..We started chatting, and then she started getting nasty and was almost demanding me to put on my web cam. It was getting ...
A. 12 November 2010: I guess you can say it's blackmail..and blackmailing is illegal. You have proof through chats/messages on Facebook and MSN..that you can show to the authorities and get her in trouble.
However, I think this girl is calling bluff. How would sh... (read in full...)
He puts on a condom when we're only making out?
Q. as soon as we start making out my boyfriend puts on a condom. i meen like straight straight away.can it be that he doesnt like blow jobs and just doesnt want to say so thats why? he likes it when i rub him he told me. or is it just because hes ...
A. 12 November 2010: Can't contract STDs from just making out or a bit of rubbing. It sounds like you're giving him a hand job and he's just putting on the condom to catch the ejaculation, rather than it being a sticky mess all over your hand. How considerate of him.
... (read in full...)
Average woman likes a penis 7.2 inches plus? Is this survey correct?
Q. i read something that says the average penis size is 6inc by 4.75inc around. I also read a survey that said the average woman likes a penis between 7.2 and 8inc by 6inc around. If the mean average for a man is as above and only 20% of men have ...
A. 12 November 2010: I disagree with the survey..Women steer for the average to above average section of the population, then again you have the section of women who could care less about size..I also would be questioning where this woman got her statistics and the ... (read in full...)
In your own personal experiences, how long does it take you to get over someone?
Q. Just a question, for anyone to answer... on average, how long does it take you to get over somebody whom you've broken up with? Or who you've liked. I'm just asking because I feel as if it takes me so long to get over someone. My relationship with ...
A. 12 November 2010: Great question OP!
For me, if I wasn't that into them..a day. Others who cheated or broke my heart a month. My first love it took a year to get over. Just depends, anymore I say 1-3 months any longer then you're still letting him have a hold on ... (read in full...)
Secret relationship and now I'm pregnant!
Q. i like this man okay but it is a secret love. okay so we are seeing each other it is a secret relationship we have only been seeing each other for about 2 months but i think it will work . i need your help in how i should tell my parents and my f...
A. 12 November 2010: They may or may not support you, financially your partner should be supporting you and this unborn child. If he's older and no prior children that he is aware of then, I'm sure his parents may be rather excited. It just all depends whether your ... (read in full...)
These 19 day periods aren't natural!
Q. I have 19 day periods is there something wrong with me im sick of it!!!! i cant get into the doctor untill 3 more weeks and the worry is killing me... I have a 4 year old and have been on depo on and off 1st time on was age 16-17 then got off and ...
A. 12 November 2010: It's possible the depo shot is still in your system..Technically, your it should be out of your system in 6-8 months..We know every woman's body reacts differently. You'll have to wait till you see your gyno to get the proper diagnosis. ... (read in full...)
Should I tell him my feelings and risk ruining a good thing? Or should I stick with "if you love someone let them go"?
Q. I have recentley reconnected with an old flame. The last time we saw each other we were intimate but I was in a relationship at the time, so we never kept in touch. It is now 10 years later and last week we disovered that we live down the road fr...
A. 12 November 2010: I agree don't engage in FWBs, you like him far to much..and wouldn't be able to keep your emotions out of it. Why is he going overseas? I would come clean and tell him you really do want more than FWBs but him leaving is standing in your way of a ... (read in full...)
If I'm on an online dating site just chatting, would you call that cheating?
Q. hi i have a boyfriend that nobody approves of i like him alot but the strain of sneaking out to see him is taking its toll. its hard 4 me to lie about were im going all the time. but i really like him and dont feel ready to break up with him. he ...
A. 12 November 2010: You don't sound very committed to this relationship if you're still on this dating website. It's technically not cheating, but it's leaving you open to cheat if you do meet up with these men. Also if there are sexually explicit messages being ... (read in full...)
From Dr. Jekyll to Mr. Hyde.
Q. hello well i have a boyfriend and he was really nice when i first met him and we have been going out for almost 2 years now but now he likes to hurt me . like when we first had sex he was so gentle and careing for me but now h...
A. 12 November 2010: Tell him it's over, look into a restraining order on top of that. This jerk threatens you again, then he will have the law to deal with.... (read in full...)
Someone old or someone new?
Q. My ex boyfriend and I got back together last night. But now, i'm having second thoughts. We broke up in mid July b/c due to another girl. They broke up 3 weeks ago..somehow me and her became friends. The thing is, I met a guy almost a month ago and ...
A. 12 November 2010: If you're having second thoughts on your boyfriend..then I would let it go seeing as he already had his chance and things aren't all peachy the second time around. Let it go with him, and pursue this fresh new guy..I think he deserves a chance. ... (read in full...)
How should I ask my bf about the money he owes me?
Q. What should I do?? please help? my boyfriends sister wanted him to buy her make up..so he asked me to come to the shop with him..i went. he was waiting for his sister to send him the money so he could pay for the make up..it was taken quite l...
A. 12 November 2010: I don't understand why she couldn't go to the shop and buy her own makeup? That's like sending him to buy tampons.
Well your impatience cost you, since he has said nothing about the $ then I would ask him about it. Also, do note that you shouldn'... (read in full...)
What are the rules of giving one space?
Q. Recently the guy I've been dating for 7 months now (not my bf..just dating) has been acting not like himself..he's also not been showing so much attention that I am use to. Then I found out he is mourning from a loss family member that happened a ...
A. 12 November 2010: I would definitely answer his he calls/texts given his current emotional state (stress and grieving) he's going to need someone to vent to which may be you. Also, what if he calls/texts tells you the space is over and you don't answer your phone?? ... (read in full...)
He's nice but he's also a pimp!
Q. i have been single for 4 yrs because i have been burnt and didnt want to get involved. a few weeks ago i was at gym and this guy came over to me and we started talking. there was instant chemistry and i felt really free and happy with him we meet in ...
A. 12 November 2010: As in an actual working pimp who has a prostitution ring? I sure hope not!
Regardless, he's a real ladies man..makes his rounds at the gym flirting, catching women's eye, and he's even admitted it himself...He's looking for some fun not a relation... (read in full...)
I'm scared to be naked in front of him!
Q. so i have been dating this guy for 7 weeks now.We finally decided to have sex.But now im soo worried.Its coz i have stretch marks on my ass n boobs.Im shy to be naked in front of him. I'm confused as too what he will think and if this will bring any ...
A. 12 November 2010: Agreed, guys aren't going to be eyeballing your stretch marks when they're too busy tearing off your clothes!
Who says the lights have to be on?? I like doing it in the dark, with the moon light shining in the window.... (read in full...)
LDR girlfriend is giving me too much drama
Q. let me clarify, sorry about that but answer will be appreciated Okay, I'm a long distance relationship here... we been going out for 8 months but in august she went to college to another city. sometimes she comes to visit but we do have problems...
A. 12 November 2010: Well yeah LDRs are hard, they're not for everyone. I'll tell you the main reason they fail is lack of communication...which is your girlfriend's fault. She complains that you don't make time for her, when she's always brushing off your texts and ... (read in full...)
When I see a guy flirting with my girlfriend I want to punch him!
Q. I absolutly 100% until infinity and beyond love my best friend she means the world to me and I want to tell her but dont want to mess up our relationship every time I see a guy flirting with her I want to punch him right in the face! I try to talk ...
A. 12 November 2010: 3rd vote just do it!
If you tell her and in case she doesn't harbor the same feelings, your friendship might get awkward for a bit but will eventually bounce back... You don't really have anything to lose, do it before you do give someone a black ... (read in full...)
Do guys like it when girls ask them out?
Q. Me and this guy have hung out a few times. We made out after a night a drinking. ( we have hung out after ) I like him, I feel he likes me too. I made a comment how I would never go for a guy I work with, but would break the rule for him. Should I ...
A. 12 November 2010: Well, yeah! They constantly gripe they have to do all the work..why not give them a break from time to time and ask out the guy? Shows you're a fearless, confident, forward female and men find that very sexy.... (read in full...)
Is it too much to ask my boyfriend to care about his personal hygeine?
Q. me and my boy friend have been together for four years we been having sex for 3 ish years , I’ve never had a true orgasms, I always thought it was me because when still lived at home with our families we had to sneak around I was always afraid we ...
A. 12 November 2010: Is the problem really your orgasms?? You mention that in the beginning but it doesn't tie in with your story. A lot of women don't achieve orgasms through penetration alone..you have to toss in some clitoral stimulation in order to coax one out. It ... (read in full...)
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