How can I get rid of my embarrassing problem?
Q. This is so embrassing. When me and my boyfriend sleep together, i always feel im going to fart. so i dont keep it up for long. i dont want to carry on just incase i do....
A. 26 February 2007: Yes i can see how this could be a little embarrassing for you.
Are you eating shortly before you go to bed? Are you consuming things that are prone to giving you wind?. Why don't you try to change you diet a little and see if this helps you.
All p... (read in full...)
I love my ex, and know she is being cheated on, should I say something even though she may not believe me!?
Q. i posted a question a while ago about how my ex girlfriend was hurt by her new boyfriend and how she came to me for comfort. i also feared that he would do it again but chose not to say anything as i felt my advice would fall on deaf ears. however, ...
A. 26 February 2007: If you still love your ex then i would tell her about her current boyfreind cheating on her.
Initially she will be very upset, but over time will thank you for telling her. Otherwise the relationship would have no doubt gone on with him making a fo... (read in full...)
I am desperate to get my ex back again, any ideas?
Q. hi again! can anyone tell me how to get or at least to try get my ex back any ideas?? there must be some way!!plzz help me plz thank you ...
A. 25 February 2007: You haven't said to much about your situation, so i am going to say just ask him. I assume you have still got his phone number, give him a call and ask him out for a drink. That is on the basis he is not with someone else.
Good luck x... (read in full...)
She talks about her ex sometimes..is that something to be worried about?
Q. Hi everyone!!! When you in a long distance relationship and your gurl flicks back to her ex once aweek with her memorys with her ex... is it something to be really concerned about...
A. 25 February 2007: At the end of the day if your girlfriend was still in love with her ex the she would be with him and not you.
We have all got memories of past relationships, and its is natural to sometimes reminiss.
I woulden't read to much into it, she's with you... (read in full...)
I don't know if he fancies me or not... what should I do?
Q. i like this lad in my class and resently he text me saying LY and dont dont no if he fancys me or not please help and quick...
A. 25 February 2007: I would say that he does fancy you, i would say that the LY is short for Love You.
If you like this boy why don't you play along with it and text back LYT, " Love you Too.
Have fun
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He came home with a lovebite on his neck but said his mates pinned him down and said explain that one to your wife! Do I believe him?
Q. Has my partner cheated? HI all, well my partner went to his mates last night, they all had a drink and he stayed over. He didnt come home till 5pm the next day and he has a love bite on his neck. He has never given me reason to think he has cheated ...
A. 25 February 2007: His story does sound quite convincing, and is probably true, maybe we shall never know.
However what i do know is i go out some weekends with friends, and no matter how drunk or stupid we all get there is no way on earth i would give a guy mate a lo... (read in full...)
He spent $80 sending me flowers and he's my mate! Do you think he has romantic feelings for me?
Q. Hello, On Valentine's Day, one of my good guy friends had a dozen Roses and a bear delivered to my house. This was a complete surprise and very sweet of him definitely, but I didn't think of it as a romantic gesture so much as a friendly thing. ...
A. 25 February 2007: This guy most certainly has got strong feelings for you. I mean you woulden't spend nearly $80 on someone you diden't have a thing for.
I think this guy is shy, which is why he has not said anyting, so he got the message accross to you by way of $... (read in full...)
My boyfriend raped me and I don't know what to do about it, I feel so dirty.
Q. Help me please i thought he loved me im 14 and my 15 year old boyfriend Raped me :'( i havnt told anyone what shud i do i thought he loved me, He was walkin me home and he suggested we go the long way round so we have longer to talk and then he ...
A. 24 February 2007: If you are worried about it going to court, don't be. You can give evidence via vidio link up. This way you don't have to see him. If it did go that far im sure he woulden't get off for what he did.
I strongly recommend you do tell someone tho.... (read in full...)
I don't seem to be attracted to males or females. Is this normal?
Q. please help, i am a 17 yr old 'straight' girl. i do go out with boys but never find myself attracted to any of them. i thought about if i could be a lesbian but i am not attracted to girls either....it appears i am not particuarly attracted to ...
A. 23 February 2007: I think its just a phase you are going through. You are still only 17, and maybe feel within yourself that you are not ready to meet anyone yet. Also because you haven't yet met anyone that you are physically attracted to. Soon you will meet someone ... (read in full...)
Should I text this guy and ask him to join me at my friend's birthday for some drinks?
Q. hi, i have a question...i like this guy in work and in two weeks a friend is having a few birthday drinks? should i send him an invite by text..or should i just leave it and hope he turns up anyway...
A. 23 February 2007: If he is a guy in work would he even know about the party that your friends are having, and where to go.
If you like him send him a text, or an email. Or better still ask him one on one at work over a coffy or something.
Good luck x... (read in full...)
How do I get his trust back again?
Q. I used to lie to my boyfriend a lot so he cant really trust me when i tell him something. How do i get his trust back?...
A. 23 February 2007: I reckon the only way you are going to regain his trust in you again is to tell the truth and stop lying to him.
When he see's that you have been telling the truth his confidence in you will slowly build up again.
X... (read in full...)
My boyfriend raped me and I don't know what to do about it, I feel so dirty.
Q. Help me please i thought he loved me im 14 and my 15 year old boyfriend Raped me :'( i havnt told anyone what shud i do i thought he loved me, He was walkin me home and he suggested we go the long way round so we have longer to talk and then he ...
A. 23 February 2007: You need to tell someone about this, preferably the police. You put your trust in this guy and let him walk you home through a secluded area then raped you.
This boy is a complete animal and needs to be stopped right now. If he did this to you he w... (read in full...)
I get turned on talking to this other guy-he seem to have more in common with me than my bf! Is this normal to feel this way?
Q. My bf and I are really good friends with this other couple. We chill and hang out all the time. She’s a super good friend of mine and her bf is my bf’s best friend too. The thing is we’ve all noticed that her bf and I have more in common and vise ...
A. 23 February 2007: It sounds to me like you have more in common with your bf's best friend than you do with your boyfriend, and the same same with your bf and your best mate.
I think everytime you see this guy you are developing more feelings which you can't cont... (read in full...)
I get along really well with this girl, I ask her out and she morphs into someone totally different!
Q. Everything's great until I ask her out and she morphs into someone completely different. I'm very confused. We chat, laugh...the usual. She's very friendly, nice and talkative. We're picking a restaurant with friends and in passing she tell...
A. 23 February 2007: I think this girl has got a bit of a Jeckel & Hyde personality. She made all the right noises to try and entice you. And entice you she did, i think once she knew she had you she diden't want to know and became the confusing girl you witnessed in ... (read in full...)
Am I in the wrong when he expects sex when we go to bed to sleep at midnight and I'm exhausted?
Q. Everytime i see my boyfriend its always late at night and when we go to bed around 12 he wants sex, but im just too tired to even think about sex and he throws a tantrum saying im boring and i make him feel uncomfortable in bed. Then we have sex in ...
A. 23 February 2007: I think its wrong of him to turn up so late, and then expect sex when you are tired. And when you decline it he gets the hump, i don't think this is really fair on you.
I would suggest to him that he comes to pick you up earlier, like 7.00 or some... (read in full...)
I feel worthless, useless, unattractive and resentful, what can I do to change all this?
Q. married 23 years, husband had an affair a few years ago, I cannot get over it, he never wants sex, I cannot initiate it, I am angry and lonely all the time. Each time I say it's over he uses all sorts of tricks to make me stay, money, children...
A. 23 February 2007: I really feel for you here, it sounds like you are stuck between a rock and a hard place.
When you say its over he is throwing the guilt thing on you, as though it would be your fault if you walk out, when quite clearly it is his.
Your self est... (read in full...)
Please help me break out of this cycle!
Q. I try too hard to get something. And generally manage to get it leading in to a blotted ego. But when i get what i want, i find that it didn't give me the kind of pleasure or joy, i thought i would initially and i go in to depression. Please help me ...
A. 23 February 2007: Its the same as the grass is always greener on the other side, so you hop over the fence only to find that the grass is not so green over there after all.
Don't be so eager to get something, take it in your stride, and relax abit. if you don't get ... (read in full...)
Is Mom's answer to my question, right or is she just keeping my hopes up?
Q. A while ago I asked my mum "how do you know if you have found the right person?" (in other words someone you have fallen in love with and want to spend the rest of your life with them) and she said you just know it's right. Is she right or is she j...
A. 23 February 2007: Just like the other posts have stipulated, your Mother is right, you just know.
Everything feels different, you get out of bed in the morning with a bounce, and you can't wait to see them. You get butterflies racing round in your tummy. Walking down... (read in full...)
I'm 20-she's 16. I want to date her but am wondering if the age gap is too much? What do you all think?
Q. Im a 20 year old college student (second year) and I have a huge crush on 16 year old (sophomore in high school), who is good friends with my sister. We are both Catholic and don't believe in pre-marital sex. I dont drink or do drugs, and I am a ...
A. 23 February 2007: Like posionkiss says age does not matter when it comes to a realationship. Age is imaterial, if you truly love someone, and the love is reciprocated age means nothing.
Besides you are only 20 she is 16, there is only four years here, and you have... (read in full...)
Hey guys-if a man is shy how do you know he likes you?
Q. Looking for some mens advice, how do you know if a man fancies you or not? its especially hard to tell when they are shy...
A. 23 February 2007: He will be Confident and talkative amongst other people, but when you come in he will go quiet and subdued.
He will stare at you from across the room, but when you look at him he will look away.
He will get tongue tied, and maybe blush if you talk... (read in full...)
I'm scared to go out with him in case he just wants to have sex with me.
Q. well ive never been in a proper relationship and theres this guy and he keps tellin me how he feels about me but i dont feel as much the same as hes 2 years older and has had sex and i havent and im scared to go out with him and he just uses me fo ...
A. 23 February 2007: Don't ever feel like you are being backed into a corner. You are you own person, and you do only what you are comfortable doing.
If this guy is pressuring you and you don't feel happy, then simply walk away.
Good luck x... (read in full...)
How do I get my crush to stop bothering me??
Q. At my school, theres this boy who is pretty nice, but hes not my kind of a guy. He has this huge crush on me, and hes asked me out 3 times!! and all of the times, i kindly told him no but this v-day he sent me all these nice things, and he gave me ...
A. 23 February 2007: Sometimes you have to be cruel to be kind. Tell him how it is, that you will never see him as anything more than a friend.
Good luck x... (read in full...)
What is the best form of exercise for my thighs and butt?
Q. hi, im wondering if any1 can gve me some advice pls? basically, last year i was a size 12-14 and thought i was "too fat" i dieted down(without exercise just cutting calories) to a size 10-12. i have a big bone structure and am quite heavy boned ...
A. 23 February 2007: As maxsteel says running is a very good toner of this excersise. Also Squats and lunges are equally as good.
Good luck x... (read in full...)
What is the best form of exercise for my thighs and butt?
Q. hi, im wondering if any1 can gve me some advice pls? basically, last year i was a size 12-14 and thought i was "too fat" i dieted down(without exercise just cutting calories) to a size 10-12. i have a big bone structure and am quite heavy boned ...
A. 23 February 2007: As maxsteel says running is a very good toner of this excersise. Also Squats and lunges are equally as good.
Good luck x... (read in full...)
My ex is dating another guy and I am sick over it! Can anyone help?
Q. I can't get over my ex. makes me ill most of the times. Shes always there with her new bf, telling me how much there in love, and I just want to break down and cry. can any one help?...
A. 22 February 2007: I know how you must be feeling, i was there once when i was you age. You feel like you whole world has collapsed around you.
All i can say is that although you don't think it now, things will get better. You are still only young, soon you will meet... (read in full...)
I like him as a friend but he wants to marry me! Should I just move on?
Q. Hi all, I'm currently in university and have run into a "relationship" problem. One of my guy friends has told me he loves me and that he wants me to be his girlfriend. This is good and all, however, I don't really have feelings for him. This is...
A. 22 February 2007: I think as you only have 25% of feelings for this guy is a good reason to move on. You had feelings for him once, now you don't.
You say he is a great guy, so do the decent thing and don't lead him on, tell him how it is and move on.
Good luck... (read in full...)
My partner goes cold towards me when one of his friends is around! What is the problem...any ideas?
Q. Ive been with my partner for five years now and most of the time we have a fantastic relationship. But there is a problem, in the form of one of his friends. Whenever he is around my partner, my partner becomes quite cold towards me, very matter ...
A. 22 February 2007: I think this is something that you have got to talk to your partner about. Tell him that you are really hurt by his coldness when his friend is around.
When this other guy comes over has he got a partner?.
If he comes alone it could be that he ... (read in full...)
When I see her and know she can't be mines, what do I do?
Q. About 4 months ago I fell in love with a girl at school, I made my feelings clear but she is not interested , this is eating me up inside it is painful when I see her and know she can't be mine, what do I do now?...
A. 22 February 2007: I know its hard whenyou really fancy someone, and their love for you is not reciprocated.
You are still very young, soon you will meet a wonderful girl who really likes you, and you will forget all about this other girl.
Good luck ... (read in full...)
Please can anyone give me some good flirting advice?
Q. even if i flirt with guys, they dont seem to ask me out. and all my friends can. i dont seem to have anything wrong with me so whats the problem? please give me some good flirting advice!!...
A. 22 February 2007: Lots of eye contact and smiles. try to hold eye contact with the one you like for six or seven seconds then smile and look away. When you take something from them touch their hand as you do it. Playfully tap them in the arm.
Always point your body... (read in full...)
Guys, how would you feel to be asked out??
Q. hi there..a question for all you guys??? how would you feel if a woman asked you out??? im 27 years old, met up with a guy , but not sure if he is interested...should i ask him out first? he seems shy though......
A. 22 February 2007: The same as ponungalungb would feel, i would be really flattered. I think more women should do it more. If you really fancy a guy don't wait for him to ask you, because some guys you will be waiting for ever. Take the bull by the horns and ask ... (read in full...)
I'm 15 dating a 19 year old guy. Is anything wrong with that?
Q. i am 15 dating a 19 year old guy is somthing wrong with that?...
A. 21 February 2007: You are both still teenagers. 15 & 19 is no age gap atal. I say go for it, no doubt you will soon be 16 anyway. After all age is only a number. If you love each other it dosen't matter what the age gap is.
Good luck x... (read in full...)
I am going to court soon for a rape assault on me. I am really scared, how do I cope?
Q. I am going to court for a rape assualt on me and i am really scared i need some advice because i feel like i want to run away or take an overdose becuase i would rather do this and wake up in hospital than going to court. i need advice n how to cope ...
A. 21 February 2007: Of course you are not ready, you are only at the least 13 years old.
Like CD stipulates, you can give evidence via a vidio link, this way you don't have to come into contact with anyone.
Confide in your parents, friends, no doubt they are all ther... (read in full...)
Does he really like me or was he just using me?
Q. i really like this boy i know from my swimming club, he is really enjoyable to be around and has a great torso and is really good looking. we went out the weekend before last on both days and we did a few things on the sunday then he text me almost ...
A. 20 February 2007: Its hard to say if he was just using you or after a week just had a change of heart torwards you.
Did you do something to upset him?. I ask this because his phone call to you is a little harsh, he dosen't like you in that way and doesen't even want... (read in full...)
He hit me and threatened to do it again! But I love him so much and I can't live without him. Help!
Q. hi, im 17 and my boyfriend is 20, i love him so much. Yesterday he hit me and threatened to do alot more for no big reason. It wasn't hard but he still did it. He hurt me so much but i still have the power to forgive him. I sent him a message to ...
A. 20 February 2007: I think that any guy that hits on a girl is just a plain coward. After hitting you once he then threatens to do it again. Invaribly these things always run in a vicious circle, with you being hit, him saying sorry, then it happening all over ... (read in full...)
Would you date a girl who told you she was forced to do oral sex even although she didn't want to?
Q. I have an open question for everyone, Would you date a girl who had told you that she was forced to do oral sex even although she didn`t want to have sex with the guy? How would you know if it was the truth she is telling or if she did it ...
A. 20 February 2007: From a guy's point of view i would date a girl who was forced to do oral sex against her wishes in a previous relationship. After all it wasen't her fault, and the guy was probably no doubt alot stronger than she was. So i would be really ... (read in full...)
I fancy this lad in my class but this other girl is always jumping all over him, tell me what to do and quick!
Q. I fancy this lad in my class but when i talk to him im stuck for words and this girl also in my class ill call her J she allwayz jumps all over him when im talking to the lad i like please tell me what to do please and quick...
A. 20 February 2007: If you fancy this lad get in there quick, before he is taken up by this girl that is jumping on him. If you get to tongue tied then slip him a note, or an Email or a text. But whatever you do don't get one of your mates to ask him for you.
Good ... (read in full...)
What do guys in their mid-30s want in a girl??
Q. I really like this older guy a lot. I think I know he digs me too, but I do not know how to make a move. He is like 7-10 years my senior and we don’t have too much stuff in common. What do early to mid 30 year old guys want in a girl? What do the ...
A. 20 February 2007: To say what a guy in his early to mid thirtys is looking for in a girl varies as not everyone is the same.
Like Eve says how do you know that you don't have much in common?. After a couple of months of dating him you might be suprised to find that... (read in full...)
He is threatening to embarrass me in front of everyone if I don't do as he says!
Q. im the one that posted a few day be4 bout loving my cousin. i have told my cousin (boy) that i had a crush on my cousin (girl) but did not say that i love her. to make the long story short, he is threating to embrass me to everyone in my f...
A. 20 February 2007: It just goes to show that you can't trust everyone. I think you male cousin is being very immature over the whole situation. However if he does come out and make a fool of you then you are going to feel very embarrassed in front of your family and ... (read in full...)
We get on so well but he keeps going out with other girls, what do I do?
Q. hiya my names becky and and i really really really like this lad infact i think im in love with him and he feels the same but i can and cant see a relationship forming between us but we have bin out with each other before and my problem is that on ...
A. 19 February 2007: Its a shame because when you are are on you own with him he sounds like a nice guy. However he does not do himself any favours by going with other girls at nightclubs. Is that the sort of guy you want to be with, i don't think so.
I have to agre... (read in full...)
He keeps oggling women with big breasts, jerks off then says he has a low sex drive!!!
Q. My boyfriend and I have lived together for over a year and he has oggled women with big breasts on more than one occasion surreptitiously(in front of me). He tells me size doesn't matter, yet he never touches my breasts. He plays peep-eye with other ...
A. 19 February 2007: There is something that does not sound right with this guy. For a start he does not show you any sort of loving, no sex, he dosen't even seem to want to even touch you. Then when tell him you are unsatisfyed he say you are addicted to sex.
T... (read in full...)
how am I meant to get over him when we both have the same circle of friends?
Q. for the past few months ive been gettin close wiv a guy n the feeling was mutual but things got a bit complicated n weird between us then after christmas we began to start spendin more time on our own n gettin closer, but i know he's jus messin ...
A. 19 February 2007: Are you totally sure you want to get over this guy?. It sounds to me like their is some pretty strong chemistry between the two of you. You even say when you are around each other you both flirt like crazy. If you want to get over him then when he ... (read in full...)
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