How can I get my dad to like my boyfriend?
Q. my dad doesnt like my boyfriend. My boyfriend is really sweet and my friends like him. I dont know what to do?...
A. 20 April 2007: Without knowing to much about why he dosen't like him, all you can do is explain to your father what a nice sweet guy he is, and hope he changes his mind.
Good luck x... (read in full...)
I wanna make out with my boyfriend but I'm scared I'll be the worst kisser ever.
Q. I wanna make out with my boyfriend but I'm scared I'll be the worst kisser ever...like I don't know how to move my lips or my tongue or anything like that....
A. 20 April 2007: Don't think to much about it, if you dwell on it thinking you are going to be rubbish then the likellhood is you will. You boyfriend is probably as nervous as you, just go for it and im sure you will be fine, the more you do it the more experienced ... (read in full...)
He says he isnt the jealous type,but I think he is!?
Q. My boyfriend of 4 months tells me he's not the jealous type but when he asks me what I did in my day and I tell him I went out with my best guy friend/former ex...he tells me I annoy him cuz' I keep mentioning his name when I'm telling him what I ...
A. 20 April 2007: I think the thing to bear in mind hear is this guy you go out with is not just a best guy mate, but an ex boyfriend. He is someone you have been intimate with, shared time with, laugh and joked with. I can see why your boyfriend is abit jealous, i ... (read in full...)
He has a girlfriend, I broke them up once before, but I keep help keep falling for him!!
Q. Am i wasting my time? I really like a boy, but he has a girlfriend. A little while ago i broke them up without meaning to! They got back together and then i slept with one of his close mates. i am really falling for this other boy who i like, and ...
A. 19 April 2007: I think you have got to have respect that this guy is already in another relationship. If he does secretly like you then i don't think you have done yourself any favours by sleeping with this other guy.
I would leave this one alone and find some... (read in full...)
Im 34 and hes 30, Im worried and insecure as I cant see why he would want me!?
Q. hi, im a 34 year old woman married to a younger man who is just 30 year old, we've been married for a 4 years now, we ve a 10 month old son. we love each other very much and also my parents likes him too.but this am guilty about my age difference. ...
A. 19 April 2007: If two people are in love then age should not even come into it, certainly not four years. If he diden't love you he woulden't have married you, and certainly woulden't have had a child with you.
You have got to stop beating youself up over this... (read in full...)
Any tips on how to let him know I really like him without telling him outright?
Q. Hi I really badly fancy my best m8(Who's a boy)nd I fink he feels the same way.But I've been out wiv him b 4.I'm scared 2 tell him.N e tips on how 2 tell him wiv out having 2 tell him outright?sum 1 plz help!!!x...
A. 18 April 2007: Don't come right out with i fancy you. Tell him in a round about way, like give him some light flirtatious signals first, this will tell you if he likes you back.
Start off with getting his eye contact, hold it for a while then smile and look away... (read in full...)
Bars, internet dating hasn't worked for me! Where do I meet decent men?
Q. Hi all, does anybody have any ideas where to find decent men, i come from the midlands and have not got a clue where they are hiding. Im at that age now that i want to get into a proper relationship now I have tried internet dating but its not for ...
A. 18 April 2007: Your right you can't meet potential dating partners in bars and clubs, mainly becuse they are alcohol fueled places.
Maybe you should do and evening class, get a hobby you enjoy.
I find by going to gym after work is a great social things where yo... (read in full...)
Is there any law against cousins having a love relationship?
Q. can you please tell me if there is any law on first cousins being together and having a sexual relationship and if we could get married please help...
A. 18 April 2007: It all depends on which country you are talking about. As far a i know its legal here in the united kingdom.... (read in full...)
I sort of fancy the younger boy who loves me, but I'm actually in love with someone else! What should I do?
Q. one of my closest mates has just told me he loved me and the boy who said he loved me is a year younger. i sort of fancy him but im in love with this other boy. what should i do?...
A. 18 April 2007: Only you can make that desicion. Go with your gut feeling, the one who you feel strongly about, the one who gives you butterflies in you tummy.
But don't be to quick to fall in love, you are still very young, enjoy life and the joys that being 15 b... (read in full...)
Any new ideas for bedroom "spice"?
Q. I feel like trying something new in the bedroom - any ideas of something exciting I could do for my man?!!...
A. 18 April 2007: Who about getting some oils and give him a nice all over body massage, then get him to massage you after so you are both covered in the oils.
x... (read in full...)
She's had sex before we met, so I feel like cheating on her to make things even!
Q. I keep getting the urge to cheat to even things up for my girlfriend and I. She had sex before she met me. I know this feeling is wrong. I want to stop having this feeling. I just want to accept that whats in the past happened. What do I do?...
A. 18 April 2007: This is not the way to go. Its not like she slept with them while she was in a relationship with you. It would be a huge mistake to cheat on her and could/will jeopodise you relationship.
Good luck ... (read in full...)
Could he want to date my best mate just to get close to me ?
Q. hey!My best mate is a boy and my other best mate is a girl.I really really badly fancy my boy best mate, but I've been out wiv him before but he went wierd.The thing is I think he really fancy's me as well but yesterday he asked me to ask my other ...
A. 17 April 2007: Its hard to say, he could have been trying to make you jealous by asking you to ask her for him. The only way you will know for certain is if you ask him outrite who he really likes.
Good luck x... (read in full...)
I like my drumming instructor but he has a gf! Do I keep my feelings quiet or should I tell him??
Q. hey im a teenager who does drumming lessons,my relatives friend is my teacher,he is older than me and has a girlfriend.he is not happy in his relationship.and i really like him,inside i know i shouldnt...when we together i have a feeling he likes me ...
A. 16 April 2007: It does sound like he does like you, he is certainly giving you the classic signs of liking you anyway. But the bottom line is he has got a girlfriend at the moment, so i would be inclined to keep you feelings quiet for the time being. You say he is ... (read in full...)
I really like this girl who is s lesbian and she thinks I am hot! Is she messing with me or is there a chance?
Q. Hey, Well I really like this girl who is a lesbian, and recently I told her. And she thought it was funny and tried to make me jealous by telling me about her sex life. But then she started to tell me that I'm really hot and stuff. I'm real...
A. 16 April 2007: Do you know for sure that she is a lesbian. Some girls when they have had a drink fool around and tell guys that are lesbians for a laugh.
She said you are hot, she most probably meant it. The only way you can find out for sure is try it on with... (read in full...)
He never gives me a reason to doubt him but I am plaqued with mistrust in this relationship! Why am I this way?
Q. I have alot of trust / jealousy issues and am looking for some help! My boyfriend is very good to me, and trustworthy, and I have known him for a long time before we got together (he is my bros best mate), yet I still find it really hard to trust ...
A. 16 April 2007: You have got to stop these feelings you are having otherwise you will drive him away. I was dating a girl about 4 years ago and she was really possessive like this. To the extent that i coulden't look at another girl walking down the road, i ... (read in full...)
Guys, do you find it really unattractive when girls have a gap between the front teeth?
Q. Hi, I'm a teenager with a gap between my teeth. I was wondering if guys find it really unattractive when girls have a gap between the front teeth. Does it make even pretty girls look ugly in a guy's opinion??...
A. 16 April 2007: Depending on how big the gap actually is, i woulden't say its an unattractive feature atal. Madonna one of the most famous singers in the world has a gap in the front of her teeth, so you could look at it as sort of a status symbal.
Good luck x... (read in full...)
My best friend and I argued and I want to have a meeting with her to explain things. What should I do and say?
Q. I have recently argued with my best friend. Can you please give me advice on how to organise a meeting between us. Recently someone told me that friends are never your friends if you are quite rich and she when we last argued told me she only liked ...
A. 16 April 2007: I think the comment about her saying she only likes you because of her money was just said on the spur of the moment and i din't think she meant it as she cried after. I would be inclined to give her the benefit of the doubt, give her a call and go ... (read in full...)
How important are looks to a man ?
Q. How important are looks to a man? Long hair, short hair? Short, tall? Brown eyes, blue eyes? How big is too big? How small is too small? What about chest size... does size really matter? Let's get really honest here. We're not all supermodels... ...
A. 16 April 2007: I think the first initial attraction is what someone looks like, but then over time someone's personality will far superseed looks. As for what things are important to a man it differs in each individual, some like brown eyes, some like blue eyes, ... (read in full...)
I have a crush on someone that Im not supposed to!! How can I find out if he has a crush on me too!?
Q. I have a huge crush on somebody... someone I'm not supposed to. How do I know if he's into me, too? I'm pretty sure he is... but he's not supposed to be into me either. Help!...
A. 14 April 2007: You are quite vague as to why you both shoulden't have crushes on each other, so i can only assume you are both already in relationships with other people.
You could tell if he's into you by his actions, does he flirt with you? hold eye contact with... (read in full...)
Need help to boost my confidence level to let the guy know I like him!!
Q. Hi, yep its me again. Looking for more advice. There is this guy, and well he doesn't know I like him and I really don't know how to tell him, I need help to boost my confidence level and say something to him, what do I do?...
A. 13 April 2007: I don't know what your situation is with this guy, whether he is just a friend, co-worker, or someone you see out and about. Whatever it is try to make a friend of him, get chatting, and be generally interested in things he says. Then next time do a ... (read in full...)
She thinks were dating, were not, how do I tell her I just want to be friends!?
Q. i just went out with a friend on a date. i wasnt sure if i liked her or not and as the date went on i didnt. i thought i made it pretty clear that i just wanted to be friends, but now she thinks we are dating. i want to let her down easy because she ...
A. 13 April 2007: I think in these sort of situations being brutally honest is all you can be. Tell her you only see her as a friend and that nothing more can ever materialise out of this. Sometimes we have to be cruel to be kind, but then i guess its better to tell ... (read in full...)
Can I break up with a guy over the phone if we've only been dating for just under 2 months?
Q. Can I break up with a guy over the phone if we've only been dating for just under 2 months?...
A. 12 April 2007: I agree with sparkles, you could do it over the phone, but i woulden't advise this either.
Would you want to be dumped over the phone?. Give this guy some respect and arrange to meet him so you can tell him face to face. In the long run he will come... (read in full...)
Do you think my boyfriend is using me?
Q. i have a boyfriend who is not working, i do everything for him. i have just given him my credit card because he had no food in his flat but he spent R2000. now i have opened a business and bought a car now he wants to be a partner with me. i dont ...
A. 12 April 2007: I think he his taking you slightly for granted. He is not working and you are giving him handouts. What were you thinking giving him your credit card, he must have thought his ship had well and truly come in.
As for him being a partner in your busi... (read in full...)
Do you think I should break things off with my boyfriend?
Q. im going out with this boy for 2 months who i really like and he really likes me but i think i am still in love with my ex, he borke up with me just less than a year ago. my ex's m8 is telling me he still has lots of feelings for me....please help ...
A. 12 April 2007: If you still have feelings for your Ex then you have got to be upfront and honest with you current partner and tell him whats going on. If you don't you are effectively stringing him along and thats not fair on the guy.
So your Ex's mate is tell... (read in full...)
Me and my boyfriend had dry sex and my mate filmed it on her phone!
Q. me and my bf have had dry sex and my m8 filmed it on her fone and she has showed loads of people, but as i am only 13 loads of people are calling me a slut. but the real problem is that my bf wants to do it again but im not sure now that people are ...
A. 12 April 2007: I would be more worried that this vidio clip fell into the wrong hands, like what would you parents say if they say if they saw this, im sure they would be devastated, as you are only 13.
Did your friend get some sort of pleasure out of filming this... (read in full...)
I have 32 DD boobs and all the boys are turned on by them and i really like that, but i want them to touch them?
Q. I have 32 DD boobs and all the boys are turned on by them and i really like that, but i want them to touch them? what should i say?...
A. 12 April 2007: Its nice that you have breasts that you are proud of, but i would refrain from getting all the boys to touch them. The reason i say this is because if they were all coming up to you ang groping your breasts they will think you are easy and you will ... (read in full...)
He agreed to tell me if his ex called, but whenever I with him he hides his phone!!!
Q. This is a continued saga... my bf and I have been arguing about he and his ex calling each other and the fact that he hides it from me so i won't get mad. He has promised not matter what the circumstance, he would inform me if she has been calling ...
A. 9 April 2007: It sounds to me as if he has got something to hide, otherwise he would leave his phone openly on dispaly rather than hide it away.
It does sound like they still call each other, whether they still see each other or not is a different matter.
I thi... (read in full...)
Im starting to fall for my brothers mate, I doubt this would work so what should I do ?
Q. there is this boy who is really nice and we get along fine but i think i'm starting to fall in love with him and it's killing me because last night i had the fourth dream in a row about him. But nothing could ever happen because he is my brothers ...
A. 9 April 2007: You are still very young to be having these kind of feelings torwards boys. Don't be in to much of a rush to fall in love, you have got all the time in the world for that. Enjoy the simplicity of being 12, have fun with your mates ect and leave the ... (read in full...)
We broke up as my family didnt like him, hes dating again and Im jealous!! Im hurting what can I do ?
Q. My boyfriend broke up with me because my family and friends hated him. I really liked this guy any even though he broke up with me about 4 months ago, i still have feelings for him. Anyways, 2 months after we broke up he gets this new girl and may i ...
A. 9 April 2007: They say that love is blind. Your family and friends must have seen something in him that you failed to see. However you have since split up and he has now got a new girlfriend so i would be inlined to let this one go.
I know it dosen't seem like... (read in full...)
Is 15 years to much of an age difference?
Q. Is 15 years to much of an age difference?...
A. 9 April 2007: It all depends on how you both feel about the age gap. If either of you have got any hangups regarding age then the relationship won't work. However if you are both ok with it i don't see any reason why you can't both be happy together.
So at the ... (read in full...)
Question for the men: Would you consider a fulfilling sex life to be more of a priority over other aspects in a realtionship ?
Q. Question for the lads..Would you consider a fulfilling sex life with your partner as a top priority in your relationship or would other issues be more important to you ie companionship,compatibility etc? Comments appreciated....
A. 9 April 2007: There are alot of things that contribute to making a relationship work. I would say that sex does play an important role in making a relationship work, however i woulden't say its a top priority. Companianship, compatability, showing respect,and ... (read in full...)
He's putting his drinking before me... !
Q. I have been dating my current boyfriend for 1year and 3 months. When we started dating we were really close and always loved to hang out and things like that. recently he has been prioritzing his drinking before n e thing else... including me. he ...
A. 9 April 2007: I think this is something you have got to speak to you boyfriend about. Sit him down and tell him you are worried about his drinking, and about how despondant he has become in the relationship.
Give him the benefit of the doubt, he may change afte... (read in full...)
I have a mad crush on my doctor! How do I make my feelings go away?
Q. This is just it: I have a mad crush on my doctor. I'm sure it's some kind of transference type thing, but in the meantime, how do I keep from making a jerk of myself? I barely know the man, and he's not my type at all...so why is this ...
A. 9 April 2007: I don't think its that you you acually fancy him, like as boyfriend material. I think you are more attracted to his position of authority. Some woman find themselves attracted to people in high profile jobs, such as doctors, teachers, police ... (read in full...)
How can I tell this girl, online, that I would like to go out on a date?
Q. how can i ask this girl online that i would like to go out on a date? it's too hard to bring it up. any ideas? ...
A. 9 April 2007: Ask her in a casual way, so effectively it dosen't sound like a date. For instance there is this movie at the cinema that i have been dying to see, do you fancy coming along. Or there is this resturant near me that does the best food, we will have ... (read in full...)
Why are the guys in my school so shallow and immature?
Q. Ok, so I need a guys opinion. I think the guys in my school are immature because they only think really skinny girls are hot. very skinnneeeeyy. Not true, right? I am curvy and my boobs are big! what else do they want.? I weigh 150lbs and im ...
A. 8 April 2007: It is most likely just their age group. You have to remember that girls mature alot quicker than boys do. I remember being 15 at school running round being stupid with my mates, and girls thinking how immature we all were.
I woulden't take to much... (read in full...)
I am in love with some one and he has a girl friend but I cant stop thinking about him it feels horrible how can I stop feeling like this?
Q. I am in love with some one and he has a girl friend but I cant stop thinking about him it feels horrible how can I stop feeling like this?...
A. 8 April 2007: You are very young to be having feelings like this. He has got a girlfriend so there is not alot you can do really. Soon you will see someone else that you really like, then you will forget all about this other boy. Don't be to eager to meet someone ... (read in full...)
How can I let him know I'm not ready for a relationship without hurting his feelings?
Q. I have just started dating a guy who is an absolute gentleman. Problem is that I'm not as attracted to him as I was in the beginging and he is getting more serious than I hoped for. I need some advice on how to let him know I'm not ready for a ...
A. 8 April 2007: The best way to deal with this is to be brutally honest with him and tell him the way you feel. The longer you leave it the harder it will get, and his feelings for you will get even more stronger.
Tell him now rather than putting it off, he may ... (read in full...)
I have lost my self-confidence since I lost him.
Q. I was with this guy for a while, everything was perfect and i had so much confidence in myself... now we have stopped seeing each other, we are still friends but i miss him and it has caused me to become unsure of myself and shy, and almost no ...
A. 8 April 2007: Its natural it feel down, and have a low self esteem after the breakdown of a relationship. The duration it takes people to get over breakups varies in each individual. Soon you will find yourself feeling better, feeling less despondant and wanting ... (read in full...)
How do I take it a step further? Do I give him a hint?
Q. hey! ok well...i work with this guy and all the girls think he's just hot and brilliant and i recently found out that he is interested in me and likes me. We've been speaking for a while now but i can't seem to take it a step further. I've been wai...
A. 8 April 2007: It could be is holding back form asking you out because you both work together, and is trying to keep it proffesional. How close are the pair of you working together? are you on the same floor, or is he in another department? and are you both ... (read in full...)
They dont understand that he makes me happy and I make him happy...
Q. My boyfriend and I have been going out together for 5 months, but it feels like a lot longer, we fell for each other pretty much straight away, the trouble is he suffers from bouts of depression, so we have been through quite a bit together, I broke ...
A. 5 April 2007: Why is it that your Mum, Sister & friend are so against you marrying him?. Apart from him having bouts of depression has he done something to make them not like him?.
The bottom line is he makes you happy, you make him happy and that is really all ... (read in full...)
When a girl gets hurt in a relatonship, does she tell anybody (even her ex)?
Q. When a girl gets hurt in a relatonship, does she tell anybody (even her ex)?...
A. 5 April 2007: I guess it all depends on the indidual really. Some people like to keep it to themselves, while some like to tell people. Talking to people can be very theraputic, and can even help the individual get over their problems quicker.
good luck ... (read in full...)
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