Do you think he is shy, scared of rejection, or just being professional because of our work relationship?
Q. I wrote a post on here a week ago about me going out of my mind over my work colleague and got some very good reply's. Im 20 and he is 31 and we work really close together. We have been flirting very strongly since the summer and i feel we have ...
A. 4 March 2007: It does sound like he likes you, otherwise he probably woulden't flirt with you, or offer you lifts to the bus station. However whether he is shy, scared of you rejecting him, or is just being proffesional because you work together is anyones ... (read in full...)
She has been unreasonably jealous since our relationship started over 3 years ago. Is this normal?
Q. She`s admitted looking through my phone,accused me of hiding things in it,accused me of looking through her phone. I am baffled to what is going on. Why would someone class her phone as privacy then look through mine? Am i being petty here or am i ...
A. 4 March 2007: It sounds to me as if she is the one hiding something. So she feels guilty over something and is trying to make it look like you are the one hiding something. These are classic signs that she's up to something.
She hides all her personal thin... (read in full...)
i seem to have man boobs, is this normal and does it go away when you lose weight?
Q. dear agony aunts im the guy that previously posted about my parents arguing because of me. i would like to give you guys an update and say that they worked things out this morning and started talking with each other. my other problem is, i se...
A. 4 March 2007: Don't be silly that is what the agony aunts are on here for to help with personal problems.
Im not really that clued up when it comes to man boobs, but i think that just by losing weight will not get rid of this, as i have seen thin guys with this... (read in full...)
How do I go about asking my ex girlfriend out again?
Q. how do i go in asking my ex girlfriend out again?...
A. 4 March 2007: Without knowing the circumstances in which the pair of you split up in the first place, or how long you were dating, and how long you have been seperated ect.
I would say give her a bell and say do you fancy meeting up for a drink. If she has ... (read in full...)
How can a man last longer while having sex?
Q. how can a man last longer havin sex?...
A. 4 March 2007: When you feel you are going to ejaculate withdraw from her and perform oral, then re-enter five minutes later. Do this every time you feel you are going to ejaculate to soon.
Failing that think of something in you mind that isen't sexual, like fis... (read in full...)
He's married and we have been together for 4 years! He claims he doesn't sleep with his wife..is this true?
Q. I have been with a married man four two years and he say he has not slept with his wife at all. i just find that hard 2 believe cause we have sex like crazy i need some help....
A. 4 March 2007: I think rythymandblues2 summed up the situation for you. Why are you wasting your time on a married man that would probably never leave his wife for you. Invariably married men never leave their wives, so ultimately you end up as the mistress, or ... (read in full...)
We have such a connection but he has had a gf for six years!!
Q. Ok, i play tennis every weekend and recently have become extremely close to the guy I play with. We have been textin each other at every oppurtunity and the flirting on both sides has been outrageous. We agreed to meet up last friday and we had a...
A. 4 March 2007: It is nice that you both share a strong connection together. But the bottom line is that he has got a girlfriend that he has had for six years. You said yourself that you would not want to enter a relationship with him knowing that you had broken ... (read in full...)
This might sound silly but I have been married 17 years and I feel my wife and I are closer than ever. Is this normal?
Q. hi i know this might be a stupid question but me and my wife have been together for 17 years, close friends all our life and married for 7 years. Is it normal for me to feel that way i do for her becuase loads of other poeple who have been together ...
A. 4 March 2007: I think this is really nice, you have been married 17 years and are still very much in love, its almost as if you are still in the honeymoon period.
It perfectly normal to feel like this, and i think its brilliant that you are both still very much... (read in full...)
I haven't heard from him in 2 or 3 days, was it because I didn't tell him I felt the same?
Q. I have been seein a guy behind his girlfriend's back and at first we both didn't mean anything, then he told me he loved me and since then i have started to get feelings for him, however since he said that and i didn't really tel him how i felt, he ...
A. 4 March 2007: I woulden't call this guy untill you know for sure he is not with his girlfriend anymore.
If you were seeing him behind his girlfriends back what makes you think he woulden't do this to you if you were his girl?.
Don't chase him, i would leave hi... (read in full...)
Did I miss the opportunity to get to know her more?
Q. Hello, I previously posted a question asking if anyone thought a girl liked me, the kind people who replied 100% agreed that she did. She broke up with her boyfriend a week or so ago. Last Monday (after she had broke up with him) she continued ...
A. 4 March 2007: When you shared that 10 to 20 minutes together i think she was expecting you to do something, as she was acting flirty with you ect. Ok she gleamed at you, and you stared back at her, this was your green light to do something there and then. You ... (read in full...)
Im 13, would it be okay to ask a boy out or should I wait for him to ask me ?
Q. i am thirteen and i like a boy in my year my friends say he likes me because he flirts and looks at me a lot is it ok to ask a boy out or should i wait for him to ask me out? ...
A. 4 March 2007: No there is nothing wrong atal with you asking him out. It is obvious he is going to say yes, so i say go for it.
Good luck x... (read in full...)
Im 40 he is 21, is it selfish of me to stay with him ?
Q. I am a fourty year old lady dating a twenty two year old guy we have been together for thirteen months we live together and have done since day one almost. Do you think its selfish or not of me staying with him? There are so many reasons for staying ...
A. 4 March 2007: Although the is only 22 he sounds as though he has got a very mature head on his shoulders.
When you say to him he should be doing things with girls his own age, his reply is if he wanted that he woulden't still be here with you, that says it all.... (read in full...)
What will people say about our age difference? I'm really worried. Please help.
Q. i'm again in a bit of confusion, same guy, i'm 14 he's 18, but he's 'straight-edge' so he's anti-drug, anti-drink, and (although it may sound sad) anti-premarital sex. i'm still star struck for him and he feels the same way but, again, its the age ...
A. 4 March 2007: I think Tasteofindia summed up your question for you. It dosen't matter what anyone else thinks whatsoever. He does sound like a genuinly nice guy that is not going to push you into anything.
Go for it girl,
Good luck x
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I really want to know what this boy was saying about me!
Q. I am 13 and in some love troubles. I like this boy in my class and people say he likes me (in that way) i saw him talking to a friend about me but i could not hear what they were saying i realy want to know. What can I do? Is it ok for a girl to ...
A. 4 March 2007: What this boy was talking about to his mate you will most likely never know, and i woulden't ask them what they were talking about either, you will sound desperate.
As for you asking him out i don't see there is anything wrong with that atal. Make... (read in full...)
I am 14 and he's 18! What do you all think of this?
Q. i'm 14...he's 18...we both feel the same way...what do you think?...
A. 3 March 2007: If someone was asking this question within the legal age of consent i would say go for it four years is nothing.
But at fourteen you are two years below the age of consent and your male friend could get into serious trouble if anything sexual were... (read in full...)
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Q. Has DearCupid changed your life in a positive way? If so, please let me know. Either post here (anon if you prefer) or send me a private mail. Sometimes when I'm coding at midnight or tinkering with an errant database, or wondering wh...
A. 3 March 2007: Hi Andrew,
I think this site is truly excellent. I have posted a couple of questions on here in the past with some brilliant advice from people from all walks of life. Since then i have joined and become an agony aunt myself and have never lo... (read in full...)
wot does it mean when a girl says shes given me her heart????
Q. wot does it mean when a girl says shes given me her heart????...
A. 2 March 2007: I would guess at she is saying she loves you, and has a deep emotional attachment to you.
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Erm... I hoovered up my sister's hamster by mistake!!!! Do I get her another one without saying or do I come clean?
Q. ok now this may sound funny to some people (my friends have found it hilarious!!) but i feel so guilty! My sister turned 11 the other day and for her birthday my parents bought her a little hamster which she called Splodge (dont ask me why). ...
A. 1 March 2007: Arrrr poor thing.
I would go down to the local pet shop and get another one with the same colourings as the last one had. I shoulden't think she will be able to tell the difference.
If it was a dog or a cat i would most certainly say tell her, not... (read in full...)
He has a girlfriend but he's asked ME to the prom and a movie... is there any chance here?
Q. Is there any chance? He’s going to prom with me, but he has a girlfriend. I really like him, and I want to know if there’s any chance of anything happening between us?He did ask me to a movie after all… Also, should I go to the movie with him? As ...
A. 1 March 2007: I don't think that you should consider going to the movies or the prom with this guy while he has got a girlfriend. I also think it is wrong of him to want to go with you given his present situation.
If you were his girlfriend would you like him ... (read in full...)
I feel embarrassed when I talk about sexual subjects with my boyfriend.
Q. I feel embarrassed when I talk about sexual subjects with my boyfriend. I don’t know how to discuss with him with things like: what we want to try and what we can learn to do better. We are both in our mid 20s so it’s not like we are little kids. ...
A. 1 March 2007: I get the impression you have not been dating this guy for very long. If this is the case then its only natural that you feel abit arkward talking to him about sexual matters.
Over time you fell more at ease talking about it. When you feel you are ... (read in full...)
What is the best way to remove unwanted hair?
Q. this is kinda weird but im eighteen and me and my boyfriend have been together for 10 months and its a joint decision of ours to take our relationship to the next level. but i want everything to be perfect and wanna know what is the best way to ...
A. 1 March 2007: As Hell19 says hair removal cream is a good idea. or wax strips could also be useful.
Shaving is ok if you get a sensitive cream.
Good luck x... (read in full...)
I love her and she keeps tellin me she does too, but I refuse to belive it. Any advice?.
Q. me and my best friend who's a girl we've been EXTREMELY close for years and ive been in love with her for bout 2-3 years im sure she's the one I spend loads of time with her i see her daily most in college and after the holidays we are together most ...
A. 1 March 2007: It sounds like the two of you both share feelings for each other, and have quite a strong connection.
Her feelings for you are most certainly reciprocated by the way you both kiss goodbye, the slightly tongues thing.
Tell her your feelings for her,... (read in full...)
Do you think he really loves me?
Q. how can i tell if my bf loves me he says it all the time is this signs of love (we are a long distance relationship) when we call each other we talk for like 4 hours texts me i love you at random times of the day asking me to marry him ...
A. 1 March 2007: Everything you wrote is really sweet. I don't think you need to worry about anything, he love's you loads.
Enjoy it.
x... (read in full...)
Why do women prefer dark-haired men?
Q. Why do women in the UK always praise dark hair? Has it become something that women say regardless. I never hear a woman , or extremely rarely, who says she prefers blond hair on men. I have seen two surveys done in the UK in the last four ...
A. 1 March 2007: I don't think you can say all woman like dark hair. Woman have got different tastes. Admitedly there are woman out there that like dark hair, but equally as many like blond or red heads.
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Planning on doing "it" tonight... but should I trim first?
Q. Im 14 and planning on having sex at a house party. It is my first time and I was just wondering if anyone knows if teenage boys prefer shaved or natural hairs? Please reply asap as the house party is tonight and I would like to know. so i can ...
A. 1 March 2007: I must agree with the other aunts, i think you are to young to think about having sex. Go out, have fun, and leave all that stuff till when you are older.
Good luck x... (read in full...)
I need to get rid of my double chin. Any tips?
Q. dear cupid i would like to know is their any way to get rid of double chin or to lose that chubness you have on the face. i am not able to take a picture and the last one i took, i asked people and they said i look chubby. plzzz can someone help...
A. 28 February 2007: generally excersise is the best thing for all over fat loss, including the facial area. Things like running, swimming ect.
There is a facial excersise i know of, and that is you tilt your head back so you looking up at the ceiling almost. Then stre... (read in full...)
I want this guy to like me but he sees me as just a friend. How do I get him to like me?
Q. i really like this guy but he says that were too good of mates to do any thing, what should i do to try and get him?? ive liked this guy for ages on and off and lately weve become really good mates. and for that reason he wont think about me more ...
A. 28 February 2007: Some really strong relationships stem from being really good mates first.
Test the water with this guy, i suggest you adopt some light flirting techniques to get it over how you feel. Try to catch his eye and hold eye contact with him, then smil... (read in full...)
How can I get my guy to stop chatting other women up!!?
Q. hi me and my boyfriend are always argueing over stupid things but the things he dose hurt me very deeply but i dont want to loose him how do i get him to stop chatting other women up? please help me ...
A. 28 February 2007: You are still very young, relax and enjoy yourself. What you call chatting up, he might be just having a conversation with these girls. Besides its you his with not them.
I would worry if he started kissing them or something, but not just talk... (read in full...)
Is these advice sites for real?
Q. NEED ASSURANCE FROM AGONY AUNTS.. I came across some material that said that some of the information or questions that are posted on sites like this (dearcupid.org) are made up so as to make them popular. Also the information displayed is not...
A. 28 February 2007: I have posted a few questions myself on here in the past, and i have never had any reason to believe that the questions posted on here are fake or made up.
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Im really worried hes a cross dresser!! and dont know how to approach him about it!!!
Q. I have been with my boyfriend now for 7 months, it has been great and he is a very caring and fun guy, we fell in love and he is moving in with me next month. I was very excited about this until I one day I discovered whilst looking up an item of ...
A. 28 February 2007: Lets not get carried away here, you may be jumping the gun a little.
It could be something as innocent as he has found something that sell's well on what i assume is something like Ebay. He could be just buying and selling items of clothing, many... (read in full...)
He's 27, I'm 18! What do you think?
Q. I've fallen for someone older then me. I'm not yet sure if he feels the same but I will know soon...he's 27 and i'm 18..do you think this is too much of an age gap?...
A. 28 February 2007: Its only nine years, this is not a big age gap atal. If you find out he likes you, which im sure you will, go for it. Its all about how you feel about each other not how many years you have between yourselves.
Good luck x... (read in full...)
I Absolutely Adore Older Women
Q. Hi, this is going to be very short, I am so attacted to mature womens, (aged 45-55), I am only 37, is this normal? should I be worry? I am not saying I don't like the younger age, but they just don't do it for me the same. please advice Thank...
A. 28 February 2007: Like shandy pop say's age is only a number. If you feel comfortable dating other woman then go for it. Don't ever feel like its wrong, you feel its right and thats all that matters.
Good luck ... (read in full...)
Why can she never express her love to me or say those three little words?
Q. I have been dating this girl for the past four months now. She claims she can never say the words " I love you" and even when I express my love to her she doesn't respond. she avoids intimacy and only kissed me once. on valentines day I bought her a ...
A. 27 February 2007: Some people find it difficult to show emotion and love. It pains me to say it but i think this stems deeper than this. Going by what you wrote in you question it sounds as though there is no love there for you atal. She has not shown one bit of ... (read in full...)
My girlfriends relationship with her mum really annoys me, its so childish!!!
Q. I really hate my girlfriend and her mums relationship with one another. They are far too close and irritating. Whenever Im round my gfs house I get uncomftable when her mum comes in because they are giggling and jokey and try and embarass me. ...
A. 27 February 2007: Have you ever heard the term the dreaded inlaws. Well i think your girlfriends Mum sounds like a good laugh, down to earth.
Think about it, she could have been a real prim and proper, stick in the mud type, where you had to be on your best beha... (read in full...)
I'm enjoying his attention and don't want to lose it.
Q. im 18 and have a boyfriend whom i love . He doesnt work he is still in matric. i have a full time job and there is someone that works with me who is 33, married with one child who is extremely into me! we both wont let anythin happen because of the ...
A. 27 February 2007: I know its fun getting attention, the flirting and the touches ect. But i can only see an unhappy ending if you got with this older married guy whom you work with. For starters he shoulden't be making eyes at young girls anyway, he has a wife and a ... (read in full...)
How can I lose weight off my face?
Q. weird question but is there anyway i can loose weight off of my face? its so sound and i want to define my jawline more...
A. 27 February 2007: By doing general excercise like running, swimming, aerobics ect will all help you lose weight from your face.
However there are some face excercises that i know of. One of which is to tilt your head back and try to move your bottom lip as far up y... (read in full...)
I'm 13 and really like this boy. Should I make the first move?
Q. please help me i am 13 i realy like this boy in my class my friends say he likes me should i make the first move...
A. 26 February 2007: Im assuming that when you say make the first move you are referring to asking him out on a date. If this is the case then why not ask him out. Ask him if he want to go for a mikshake & fries at Mcdonalds, or to see a movie. I bet he will jump at the ... (read in full...)
If a woman I like is from work, should I ask her out as a friend first or should I ask her on a date?
Q. If a woman I like is from work, should I ask her out as a friend first or should I ask her on a date? ...
A. 26 February 2007: I would most certainly ask her out as a friend first. If she accepts and it all goes well see if she wants to do it again.
Do be careful with office dating though, If it gets serious then for whatever reason dosen't work out things can be a litt... (read in full...)
How do I catch a cheater?
Q. Dear Cupid, Do you think it is alright to accuse someone if they recently started not coming home from work and coming home late when they have not done it before? What should I do stop accusing him until I get proof. Any advice on how to catch ...
A. 26 February 2007: I think you are assuming the worst possible case scenario before its even happened.
Ok so he has been coming home late from work some evenings, maybe he stopped for a drink with some pals on his way home.
Has something else happened that you have... (read in full...)
Any suggestions on how to stop my mobile addiction and to help get rid of some of the pressure off him?
Q. My fiance has just started up his new business from scratch, but it's a lot of presure on him, but its cauisng us to argue, he shouts and it scares me hes never ever hurt me. I just wonderd what i could do to help take the presure off a little. I ...
A. 26 February 2007: If your mobile addiction is the cause of most of your arguments due to hefty bills coming in each month. I don't know if you are pay as you go, or wether you are contract. If you are the latter get onto to you rental company, and say you what to ... (read in full...)
How can I get rid of my embarrassing problem?
Q. This is so embrassing. When me and my boyfriend sleep together, i always feel im going to fart. so i dont keep it up for long. i dont want to carry on just incase i do....
A. 26 February 2007: Yes i can see how this could be a little embarrassing for you.
Are you eating shortly before you go to bed? Are you consuming things that are prone to giving you wind?. Why don't you try to change you diet a little and see if this helps you.
All p... (read in full...)
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