I'm 14 and this 17 year old guy has been all over me lately I really like him but I know all that he wants is sex.
Q. I'm 14 and this 17 year old guy has been all over me lately I really like him but I know all that he wants is sex. What should I do?...
A. 12 May 2007: I would walk away from this guy, you are far to young to be thinking about doing things like this yet, and he knows it.
Also were you to sleep with him he could get into alot of trouble for sleeping with an underage girl. He sounds like he just want... (read in full...)
I'm getting married to my gf, but I'm madly in love with a coworker.
Q. I am getting married in less than 2 months to a girlfriend of 4 years, she has 3 kids from a previous relationship who I get along with well. The past year has been very rocky: we have argued quite alot over everything from sex to money, the ...
A. 11 May 2007: It sounds like the feelings you have got for this co-worker are very strong and superseed the feelings you have for your girlfriend. If you are having serious doubts about this wedding don't go through with it, no matter how much money has gone into ... (read in full...)
How do I get rid of the stretch marks before my boyfriend comes back?
Q. I'm not sure if or why i have stretch marks. i have white lines on my thighs that usually are a lot more visible in the bath where its hot. i thought stretch marks were like red or purple but these are white and have never been any other colour that ...
A. 10 May 2007: Although i haven't got stretch marks myself there is this girl at my work that has. She said she used a product called BIO OIL,and contains the break through ingredient purcellin oil, which is really effective on scarring stretch marks, blemishes ... (read in full...)
I'm 17 and I want a gf but they have all turned me down. What can I do?
Q. im 17 and never had GF is and i do not know how to feel about it. sometimes it gets me really down as a few girls i asked out have sed no what can i do ...
A. 9 May 2007: Unfortunately this is all part of the growing up process having to deal with knockbacks. As you get older it will get easier. Don't feel down about it, it is their loss not yours, you will find the perfect girl most likely when you are not even ... (read in full...)
I'm 15, and ready to have sex! I'm looking for fun...so should I lose my virginity to this guy who would do it with me?
Q. I'm 15, and I'm ready for sex. I've not got a boyfriend, would it really matter if I lost my virginity to a guy I know would do it with me? There's nothing else to do in this town. I'm just looking for a little fun. I just wanted to know if I should ...
A. 9 May 2007: You are still only very young, i think you should wait for that special time, and decline this other guy. I bet he would be only to glad to have sex with you, its an easy lay for him. Wait till you find someone who wants to have sex with you because ... (read in full...)
How do you make a bloke leave his wife without actually asking him to?
Q. how do you make a bloke leave his wife without actually asking him to?...
A. 9 May 2007: That would be a somwhat imposibility. He will only leave her if he wants to. The likllhood is he will keep his wife and have you as a mistress, or bit on the side.... (read in full...)
My boyfriend will only love me if I loose weight. Should I dump him?
Q. My boyfriend told me that I need to lose weight. We just got back together after we broke up for a couple of months and he said that I looked like I gain weight. So I told him you don't love me the way I am? He said I'll love you if you lost some ...
A. 9 May 2007: All the aunts have summed this one up for you, dump him and find someone that wants and loves you for the lovely person that you are.
x... (read in full...)
He said he may hook up with another girl, so how do I find out if he's cheating on me?
Q. well if my boyfriend tells me he may hook up with anothor girl, then later his way changes with me,then how should i know if he is actually cheating on me ? ...
A. 9 May 2007: I guess his attitude will change torwards you, he may become despondant, evasive, and and become secretive about texts and emails. If you asked to look at his phone and he woulden't let you, this is a classic sign. He may be going out more, staying ... (read in full...)
She has been hurt before and is not ready to date me...is this a good or a bad thing?
Q. i asked a girl out that i thought liked me. i still think she does. she said no because she has had bad relationships and want to stay single for a while and that is the only reason she is saying no,is this a good or bad thing??? ...
A. 9 May 2007: It could be a good thing, if she has had some bad relationships then it is only natural that that she is going to be wary of entering a new relationship. Make a friend of her, go out do things together and show her you are a nice guy and that you ... (read in full...)
How can I get closer to this girl, even as friends?
Q. i really like this girl. she doesn't want a boyfriend. i want to go out with her somewhere as friends but that's hard enough. i see her at school. we're 16. any ideas? thanks...
A. 4 May 2007: Just try to make a friend out of her and take if from there. Get chatting, be interested in things she does, or is doing, offer to do a favour for her, even if its just carrying some books or something.
When you feel things are going well ask her ... (read in full...)
My mum absolutely hates my boyfriend and won't let me talk to him.
Q. I have been seeing this guy for 8 months. He has cheated on me with the same girl three times in the first 3 months of us talking. Some how I forgave him and he made me fall in love with him. He loves me too and would do anything in the world for ...
A. 4 May 2007: I can see why your mum does not like this guy, having cheated on you three times in the first three months. your Mum just dosen't want to see her daughter get hurt. If he cheated on you three times then, what makes you think he woulden't do that ... (read in full...)
I can't feel safe having sex with a girl i don't trust.
Q. I can't feel safe having sex with a girl i don't trust. Unfortunately, the girl i trusted got married to someone else and i am not sure if i could find someone who is even close to her in understanding me. Will i ever find someone who will ...
A. 4 May 2007: Ok so you have had a bad experience, you have got tp put it all behind you and move on.
The likellhood is you will find someone who understands you like your ex did, but don't be in to much of a rush meet her. Invariably we meet the partner of our ... (read in full...)
How do I get rid of a home made tatoo?
Q. last year i was very upset over this girl i was crazy over. over some event i couldn't take it so i cut my skin sayin i love! now one year on it's still there. the skin is coloured with it clearly written. how do i get it off? it's seems impossib...
A. 4 May 2007: Im in the process of having a tattoo removed by lazer, they zap it with infared lights and it breaks the pigment down bit by bit.
I used to go to lazeraze but they shut down, now im using courthouse clinics, but there are many company's that spe... (read in full...)
My ex emailed me after a long time, I don't know if I feel pity for him or I still like him?
Q. Hi, my ex emailed me after a long time. We just had a closure. We now have our own love life but I know that he's still unhappy since he's experiencing problems with his family. And I'm kinda confused with how I'm feeling right now because first... ...
A. 4 May 2007: I think you are maybe feeling abit guilty for how the relationship ended, and liking someone else while you were still with him.
I don't think you still have feelings for him, but him emailing you is making you think you should help him with his ... (read in full...)
I haven't met anyone for a while and feel my life is at a standstill.
Q. Hey. I've been single for coming up to a year now. Its insane! I've had a few on off flings but nothing serious. It's annoying because the amount of times I go out clubbing every week and I also go to college, u would of thought i would have found ...
A. 4 May 2007: Don't be in to much of a rush to meet someone, you are still young. If when you are out in a bar, club, and you come across as desperate to meet someone the female sex can sense this, and can be a real turn off.
The likellhood is that you will... (read in full...)
Whens the right time to french kiss a girl ?
Q. when is the right time to french kiss a girl when i only get to see her at school or school related things?...
A. 2 May 2007: I guess the time varies as to how far the relationship is progressing. So you only see her at school, why don't you ask her to do something outside, like go to the cinema or something. When the mood feels right and you are both relaxed this would be ... (read in full...)
I told him I just wanted to be friends, but think I've changed my mind! Do I tell him ?
Q. hi im really confused bout my feelins 4 a friend (lets call him "A") (im 20, hes 22) "A" told me he fancied me but i werent so sure coz i needed 2 get 2 know him betta. We then started speakin every day all day (by text msg) and sometimes by the...
A. 1 May 2007: I think you should tell him of your change of mind sooner rather than later. Tell him you now see as more as more than just a friend and that you want more.
Do it before he hooks up with someone else.
Good luck x... (read in full...)
Im only 16, but he thinks I'm 18, hes 23 would I stand a chance with him ?
Q. Im a mature 16 yr old girl. i regularly go in my local pub with my friends as they are all 18 or over. over the last yr i have met a guy who is 23. the thing is i look older so i told him i am 18. he is a really nice guy and i think im falling for ...
A. 30 April 2007: I agree with CD, the issue here is that you have lied about your age in the first place, you should have been upfront and let him make up his own mind about you. Tell him the truth before it goes any further, and remember honesty is the best ... (read in full...)
Seeing each other for a few weeks... about 6 times, does this mean we are officially dating ?
Q. I've been "seeing" a guy for a few weeks (seen each other 6 times, which amounts 1-2 times a week). We're both in our late 20s. We speak virtually every night on the phone. The problem is this: while I feel like we have a great time when we are...
A. 30 April 2007: I guess it could mean you are dating, you certainly see enough of each other. However i think that you are both to scared to proceed to the next level of the relationship.
Next time the two of you are together, and the mood is right, lean forw... (read in full...)
Slept with 6 different men unprotected! Im pregnant, Should I keep the baby ?
Q. Im Pregnant.. For the past 3 months i have been sleeping with several different guys, six.. two of them are teachers in my school.. usually i stay behind to do "coursework" but always turns into something else.. i have recently found out im pre...
A. 27 April 2007: You were having unprotected sex with six guys, so the likellhood of you falling pregnant were somewhat high. I woulden't go ahead with this pregnancy, as you don't even know who the father is anyway, and would they stand buy you?.
While you are at i... (read in full...)
I am in my 30's and I think that I have low self-esteem.
Q. Hello, I am in my 30's and I think that I have low self-esteem. People do give me good compliments about myself, and say that I am pretty, or beautiful and that I have a nice personality. I know that I treat people as I would like to be treated, but ...
A. 27 April 2007: It sounds like you are suffering from a low self esteem. When people give you compliments take them on board, and truly believe them. There is nothing wrong with you atal, you are just lacking in abit of self confidence.
try some meditation CDs,... (read in full...)
I finally found a man thats interested, not gay, and not a jerk... But... Hes married!!
Q. All of my life I have had the worst luck with men. I fall for men who are either gay or not interested, jerks or clueless. I met a guy three months ago and we instantly clicked. We get along really well, he's extremely cute, we make each other ...
A. 27 April 2007: What a shame you have found the right one for you and he is married. I would let this one go if i was you, invariably married guys don't leave their partners, so consequently you become the mistress, or bit on the side only seeing him when he can ... (read in full...)
Due to get married after 7ys together, not sure if I'm "in love" him, is this just pre-wedding nerves ?
Q. Help!! I have been with my partner for nearly 7 years, we live together and are due to get married in a few months. However - I really dont know if I am doing the right thing! I do love him and he is a great guy - BUT - I just dont think ...
A. 27 April 2007: As Waterloo Sunset says if you are in doubt don't go ahead with it. Getting married is a big deal, something that is meant to last forever. You love him but are not in love with him, so i think this is a good enough reason to maybe put things off ... (read in full...)
I want to make a move on him, but dont want my friends to be mad at me!!!
Q. Okay this is like the typical issue with teenage girls.. only it usually happens in like middle school.. but im 16 and me and my two other friends all think this guy is extremely gorgeous.. and hes got a sweet personality too.. so we all decided not ...
A. 26 April 2007: I think you should take the bull by the horns and go for it, we only get one shot at life, so why waste it thinking what might have been. You friends may have the hump for a while but they will get over it.
Good luck x... (read in full...)
I like him then he ignores me, so I stop liking him and he likes me again!!!
Q. I really like this boy from school and I have been told that he likes me and I cant get him out of my head. Though sometimes he acts as though he doesnt even know I'm here. After these times I stop thinking about him, but when this happens he talks ...
A. 26 April 2007: It sounds like he does fancy you, he is certainly showing the classic signs of it anyway. I woulden't read too much into him blowing hot and cold.
Write him a letter and put all your feelings down so he can take it home and read it.
Good luck... (read in full...)
I'm crazy over this girl, do I tell her and risk being rejected again!?
Q. i fancy my m8. we talk alot. i asked her to da prom last year n she said yes but made an excuse later. she woz reli quiet for bout a few weeks n didnt talk much afta. i guess she didnt lyk me. well im crazy ova er now! do u guyz fink its worth t...
A. 26 April 2007: I think you should ask her out again, she initially said yes when you asked her out the first time. Put what you feel in a letter and see how it goes.
Good luck... (read in full...)
Will these stretch marks go away?
Q. I had a baby 11 days ago. I got bad stretch marks and my stomach sags now. Will these stretch marks go away? Does the loose skin ever go back to normal? If you're going to tell me to work out...suggest ways in which I should work out. Thanks....
A. 25 April 2007: I have found that this product called Bio oil is great for stretch marks and scaring. Superdrug do it, or look it up on Ebay.
Goo dluck ... (read in full...)
Should I ask her out in a note, so she has time to think about it?
Q. i want to ask this friend of mine out. but this time i want to ask her out by writing it all in a letter/note. whenever i've asked a girl out before via a friend was bad, on msn they also dont respond well. so i thought if i write a letter and ...
A. 24 April 2007: I think that by asking her out in a letter will be more effective than getting a friend to do it for you. A letter is more personal, and you can get your point across, and remember things that you might have forgot if you asked her out face to ... (read in full...)
She cheated on me and we broke up! So tell me...why on earth does she call me every single week?
Q. We broke up maybe a month and a half ago. It wasn't an easy breakup for me as she was the one to dump me. I didn't want to break up at all but she thought it was necessary. When she broke up with me she still told me she loved me though and gave...
A. 24 April 2007: I really can't imagine why she still calls you every week, maybe her partner finished with her and she's trying to hook up again, who knows.
If you don't want this then do as beautifulllove says and change you number and tell her you have moved on. ... (read in full...)
Can we get back that connection we once had?
Q. Could The Connection Come Back.. Im 16 years old and this boy who i like has just turned 19.. About a year ago we both liked each other but nothing happened between us because he had a girlfriend and things seemed complicated.. and plus my pare...
A. 24 April 2007: If you both once shared a connection then i don't see why there shoulden't be a connection now.
You know he has not got a girlfriend so get back in contact with him, im sure he will be glad to hear from you.
Goo luck x... (read in full...)
Where could I go to meet some guys? Any tips?
Q. Hi, I'v posted here before and it was great help ! I was wanting some advise, I'm a 19 year old girly, and Its hard for me to get to bars and nightclubs on a regular basis as friends work and I don't feel safe to go out on a night on my own. ...
A. 24 April 2007: Bars and night clubs are probably not the best places to meet a potential partner anyway as most people are under the influence of alcohol and are not themselves.
At work is always a good place to meet someone, an evening class or college cour... (read in full...)
I'm 16, and he's 26. We're worried about this.
Q. i'm 16 and am so attracted to someone but he is 26 what should i do he also likes me but he is worried what people are going to say. we have talked about this but have never even kissed because he is worried so i want your opinions on if you think ...
A. 23 April 2007: I must agree with the reader anonymous you still have so much to do and see, and i feel you will be missing out on a great deal.
When you are 20 and he is 30 this puts things in a whole different perspective.
Of course this is just my opinion,... (read in full...)
I don't want to lose our friendship, but I have fallen for my good female friend.
Q. i have a very good female friend. i like her so much. she is shy, and hasn't been in relationship for years due to it. it's come to a point where i'm thinkin about her all the time! i want to know if she would consider dating me? how can i do t...
A. 23 April 2007: If you don't want to ruin your friendship tread very carefully when getting your feelings across. Keep her as a friend, go out and do the things you normally do. Drop very subtle flirtatious gestures that in a round about way get the point across ... (read in full...)
When I'm ready for a relationship, I want someone who is completely genuine.
Q. Hi, just a general question here. ATM i have no interest in finding a bf and atm im not ready for one but when i do get one i want one thats serious about me, doesn't use me for sex, loves me for who i am, doesn't go out using drugs and smoking like ...
A. 23 April 2007: You sound like a nice girl, so the likellhood is you are going to meet a really nice guy. As you don't frequent bars and clubs where invariably people are drinking and smoking, you are raising your chances even more.
You could meet someone on a coll... (read in full...)
Can't get over my feelings for my ex! Is this a sign we were meant to be together?
Q. ok..i went to movies with my ex....i realised i think i still have feelings for him even though i like someone else i always dream of him and think of him its like he is taking over i dont know what to do ...how do i get over him or is it a sign we ...
A. 22 April 2007: I think you are still harbouring strong feelings for you ex. He is constantly on you mind and you dream about him. Your only option here is to ask him if he still feels the same, be brutally honest and tell him your feelings. If he feels the same ... (read in full...)
Is it wrong to ask a man for his phone number?
Q. hi , is it wrong to ask a man for his phone number friday night i was out and saw this man i know from work hes a customer we was talking then we hung out with him and his mates when we was going i asked for his number i dont normally do that i ...
A. 22 April 2007: I think in this day and age it dosen't look out of place for a girl to make a move on a guy. Some guys are shy of aproaching girls and would most likely welcome an offer from a woman.
If you wait for a guy you could be waiting a long time, take the ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend and I have just broken up because of his parents.
Q. Me n my bf hav just broken up cos of his parents. he is the first guy i've had sex with n the only guy i hav ever loved should i keep fighting for our relationship or just give up. we were together a year. sum1 help!...
A. 22 April 2007: Without knowing that much about your situation here, the reason behind why you split up because of his parents its hard to say.
What i can say is that if you truly love this guy then keep fighting for your relationship. Don't give up, it if you ... (read in full...)
He asked me out---was he just joking and how do I tell?
Q. The boy i like asked me out yesterday but how do i know that he was being serious about wanting to go out with me instead of just joking and messing around?...
A. 22 April 2007: Did he ask you out face to face, or in an Email or text?. If he asked you out face to face you would have been able to tell if he was serious or not by his tone of voice, and the way he acted when he asked.
If you like him take him up on his offe... (read in full...)
Worried that my friend will change more than her clothes!!
Q. My friend has always had her own style, and she's used her figure to her advantage. (She's got super skinny legs, and then a large belly). But recently she's been copying of another girl we know, buying all the same clothes as she has, and whilst t...
A. 22 April 2007: Unfortunately we can't change people, or what they become. Your friend obviously admires this other girl and wants to dress like her. But just because she is copying her fashion does not mean she will change her personality as well.
All you can real... (read in full...)
How can I stop him slapping me for his fun ??
Q. i have been with my boyfriend for two weeks now and it was going realy well till he started slapping me on the face, he hit me once before when we used to date and i thought he had changed when i got back with him but i went round his and he just ...
A. 21 April 2007: All of the posts have given you really good advice here, get out now while you still can. Any guy that hits on a girl is just a plain coward, ditch him and find someone that gives you the love and respect that yuo so rightly deserve.
Good luck x... (read in full...)
How can I get my dad to like my boyfriend?
Q. my dad doesnt like my boyfriend. My boyfriend is really sweet and my friends like him. I dont know what to do?...
A. 20 April 2007: Without knowing to much about why he dosen't like him, all you can do is explain to your father what a nice sweet guy he is, and hope he changes his mind.
Good luck x... (read in full...)
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