Why is he acting so close to me all the time when he has a girlfriend?
Q. There's this boy, we are together when ever we can , we text each other constantly and we talk on msn for like 10 hours a day. However he has a girlfriend and they hardly ever talk. Some people have said he is doing it to make me jealous or ...
A. 18 March 2007: I think this boy does like/fancy you, he sure is giving you the signs of wanting to be with you.
What concerns me though is that he already has a girlfriend. I would wait till his current relationship is over, until then i woulden't persue him. If y... (read in full...)
I don't think he likes me, but I like him! How do I tell him my feelings?
Q. How do i tell a guy i have liked him for a really long time when i dont think he likes me?...
A. 17 March 2007: What makes you think he does not like you?.
Without knowing to much about your situation here i would say the best way would be to just go up to him and ask him if he fancies doing something one night. Build up a friendship first then tell him how ... (read in full...)
Does my neighbour only see me as a friend? He never DID get back to me about that cinema date!
Q. I really fancy my next door neighbour, he approaches me whenever i see him, always offers to do jobs for me and even asked me to the cinema once. I have since asked him when we are going and he said he would get back to me about it. He never did but ...
A. 15 March 2007: I think this guy does like you but is just shy. The next time he offers to do a job for you offer to make him some lunch or something and get to know him better this way. Then when you feel comfortable ask him about the cinema date.
I fancy my neig... (read in full...)
How or what should I talk to him about?! I really get the feeling he likes me, and that he is shy as well!
Q. I just got out of a 3 and a half year relationship a month ago. I am so over it! SO! There is a new guy at work, and he is very cute and sweet. I am 21 and he is 27. Age doesnt matter, but it is making me even more shy than I usually am to someone ...
A. 14 March 2007: Ask him what he is up to at the weekend, or what he did at the weekend. Is he going on holiday this year? What did he do before he got this job? Are you enjoying it here?.
As you are talking to him throw in a couple of flirtatious gestures like dire... (read in full...)
Me and my friend are both pretty shy, how can we get around this?
Q. i really like my boy mate and im pretty sure he likes me too, but we're both a bit shy. How can i get around this because i really want to be with him! xx ...
A. 14 March 2007: I think its a really nice quality both being shy. Give it time and let things progress bit by bit. Talk to him more, throw in abit of light flirting such as eye contact, and some touches here and there.
Don't rush it and it will happen, good thin... (read in full...)
His story sounds pretty far fetched to me, what do you think?
Q. i dont know why i get suspicious and i probably shouldnt my b/f was driving home and called me and it was about 10:30 at night..he arrived home b/c i heard him speaking to family members in the house..i said i would call later on...i called ab...
A. 14 March 2007: I don't think you boyfriend did anything suspicious. you called him at 10.30, you know he was at home because you heard family members in the background.
I would be inclined to believe what he said, that he saw it and would call you tommorow, as h... (read in full...)
My boyfriend has asked to meet me and said that it was bad. I'm terrified in case he wants to break up with me!
Q. I have been going out with my boyfriend for 1 year and 10 months now. we were getting on fine and then this afternoon he rang and said that he needed to speak to me face to face and that it was bad. when i asked him if he was going to break up with ...
A. 14 March 2007: Like the other aunts have said the only way you will know is if you go ahead and meet him, and hear what he has got to say.
If it is that he want's to break up with you, at least he is being up front and diden't string you along, or send a text or s... (read in full...)
Why don't I like girls any more???
Q. Why Don't I like girls anymore? I just don't know what has happened to me, over the last couple of months i have just lost all interest in girls. I have always been really interested in girls and had a high sex drive almost constantly, but ...
A. 13 March 2007: I don't think you are gay, as you say the thought of kissing or having sex with a man repulses you. Just because you think some men are goodlooking dosen't mean you are swinging the other way, this is normal. We all from time to time do this.
A... (read in full...)
He's working away for a month, it's only been 2 weeks but I'm missing him so much!
Q. my fiance and I live together, we have done for the past 18 months, we spend all our time together, we dont get much due to work but when we are not working, we are always together. he's working away for a month and its only week 2 and i'm missing ...
A. 13 March 2007: This is really sweet, you and your fiance sound like you have got something really good together.
Do you work during the week? I find going to gym after work is a good thing to do, it will keep you occupied. I think when you are sitting at home alon... (read in full...)
How can I move on and find true happiness in a relationship?
Q. me and my exboyfreind have been talking on and off since our break up...We've done things a couple would like go out to eat...movies..etc....but never claimed ourselves as a couple during the break up period....I've had so0o0 much feelings for ...
A. 13 March 2007: I would have respect that he now has a new girlfriend, so i woulden't persue him while he is in this relationship. I do think it was wrong of him to send you the text message about wanting to be with you, while he is still with her.
You are stil... (read in full...)
Was this guy's attention more than just harmless flirting?
Q. I was hanging out with one of my guy friends today in a small group and he was doing little flirtatious things like blowing in my ear, playing with my hair, and making one small sexual gesture to me while also trying to get my attention out of ...
A. 12 March 2007: I think this is more than just harmless flirting. He is showing all the classic signs of fancying you like crazy.
If you like this guy flirt back with him.
Good luck x... (read in full...)
I really like him and want to know..what is going on in his head? Any tips?
Q. I really, really ,really like this guy. Weve talked a few times and he told my friend i was cute and that he would like to have a girlfriend like me. I really dont know what is going on in his head but i would like to know. So, i neeeeeeed some REAL ...
A. 9 March 2007: It does sound like this guy like you, if he diden't he woulden't have told your friend he would like a girlfreind like you, and that you were cute.
I think like you he has refrained from asking you out because he is either shy or scared of reje... (read in full...)
His friend is a coke addict who gets into trouble. Is it wrong for me to not want him to hang out with him?
Q. Is it wrong for me to NOT want my boyfriend to go hang out with coke addict friend for a night? My boyfriend has done coke before, but hasn't for awhile. I'm afraid if he goes and hangs out with him, he'll do it and his friend has a habit of getting ...
A. 9 March 2007: It is perfectly natural for you to not want your boyfiend to hang with this guy for a night. Your boyfriend has done coke before, so the likellhood of him doing some coke with this addict might prove to be somewhat tempting.
I would talk to your... (read in full...)
He's been sleeping on the couch now for a year, he says because of his accident but I don't know what to think...
Q. Help! My fiance and I have been living together for 8 1/2 years. We have 1 child together, I also have two other children as does he. Anyhow about a year and a half ago he was in a serious 4-wheeler accident and since then he no longer sleeps o...
A. 9 March 2007: Its hard to say if he is sleeping on the couch because of his accident, or he has fallen out of love with you. Have you spoken to him about this, he has been down there for a year now, so i suggest you speak to him soon and find out why he has ... (read in full...)
Is he the right guy for me? He seems to show some interest, but not sure exactly.
Q. Hello - I wonder if somone can advise me: I have recently started some dance classes. At the beginning the thought of getting into a relationship with the teacher there did not cross my mind. However I am now getting distint vibes that he likes me...
A. 9 March 2007: It does sound like this guy likes you, he is giving you the classic signs like the eye contact, and getting jealous if you dance with other other participants. Althouth this is very odd that he should make refrences about gay issues to you, what ... (read in full...)
My gf and I are sort of together, but I get on well with another. Should I pursue her instead?
Q. Hello, I am wondering if you could help me. I have been with my girlfriend for almost 2 years and things have started to get a bit 'bumpy'. We are sort of together at the moment but sort of not. There is this other girl who i really like and ...
A. 8 March 2007: Ok so you have been with you current girlfriend for two years and things are getting a little bumpy. If you really like this other girl, which it sounds like you do, finish it with your girlfriend before you make any moves with this other girl. ... (read in full...)
We broke up and his friend raped me. We got back together and when I told him he said he can't deal with it anymore. What do I do?
Q. me and my boyfriend broke up 3 months ago and i became good friends with his friend.. but his friend raped me one night when we were out at a club. me and my boyfriend got back together and have been together for a month but i just told him what ...
A. 8 March 2007: I can't believe you boyfriend is not more sypathetic to you regarding what happened to you at this club with his mate.
Also what happened is a very serious offence and i think you should tell the police about it. If this guy raped you whats to say ... (read in full...)
Does she like me or does she not, it's driving my crazy!!!
Q. I love this girl but I am not sure she loves me or even if she cares about me. She talks to me and she twists her hair when she does it, I heard that is a sign that a girl likes you. She sits by me and sometimes she stares at me and It is driving ...
A. 7 March 2007: She is showing the classic signs that she does fancy you with the flirting signs she is giving out.
Ok so you are going through turmoil about her, and she might be going through the same thinking why has he not asked me out yet.
I would say ask ... (read in full...)
I really like this guy who I was introduced to a couple of weeks ago, what should I do about it?
Q. I really like this guy but we were just formally introduced a couple weeks ago. And we all know how the guy's mind works. He forgot who I was. But I've liked him for the longest. What should I do?...
A. 7 March 2007: Hi,
What i was saying was if you get someone to go and ask a guy out for you it shows a lack of confidence, and alot of guys would not find this very attractive. Ok so you got scared, i know what its like to get scared over asking someone out i ha... (read in full...)
Do women intimidate men who make the first move on them?
Q. Are men scared off by women that ask them out for a date, or is it a turn on?...
A. 7 March 2007: I would feel really flattered if a girl made the first move on me.
So the answer to you question is no i woulden't be scared off atal, i think more women should do it.
x... (read in full...)
Why do you think he's ignoring me?
Q. Dear Cupid, I really like this boy in my year but i don't know if he likes me or not. Whenever i am on msn i talk to him but he doesn't reply. I have'nt done anything wrong, well at least i don't think i have. Why do you thik he's ignoring me? than...
A. 7 March 2007: When you talk to him om MSN are you sure he knows its you, he could be woundering who the messages are from, which is why you get no reply.
get to know him in school, be chatty and interested in things he does. Then when you feel comfortable ask ... (read in full...)
I really like this boy in my class, my friends say he likes me, how can I ask him out?
Q. i really like this lad in my class and i really want to ask him out and all my friend tell me he likes me but i dont know can anyone help me and fast...
A. 7 March 2007: you are still very young, if you are shy tell him in a note, a text, or an email if you have access to a computer.
But don't get a friend to ask him for you, he won't think this is very cool.
Good luck ... (read in full...)
My boss seems infatuated with me but he's married, should I go for it?
Q. Hi, I've been working at a restaurant for about six months and my boss has been flirting with me. To begin with i just thought that it was friendly flirting but last month he gave me a huge bouquet of flowers, everyone starting talking and since ...
A. 7 March 2007: The other Aunts have summed this one up good for you and i hope you have taken what they have said on board.
It is a definate No No, and can only lead to disaster, steer well clear.
Good luck xx... (read in full...)
Would any of you guys out there ever date a girl who has a child?
Q. Would any of you guys out there ever date a girl who has a child? It's just i was in a bit of a sticky situation and as a result of this am now pregnant. I am a lovely girl and dont want to be lonely for life....
A. 6 March 2007: Yes i would date a girl who has a child, why not. If i really liked a girl it would take more than them having a kid for me not to see them.
X... (read in full...)
I just want to experience the feeling of a man wanting me, and choosing me!!!!
Q. Hi I have a big question??? My husband of 13 years told me that he has been seeing prostitutes for 9 years.. Un- protected sex and the last one was Christmas day... Needless to say i'm in a state but the question is.... I can't get off the escort ...
A. 6 March 2007: Your more than welcome, anytime you need more advice please don't hesitate to send me a private message and i will try to help you the best i can.
Take care x... (read in full...)
Should I tell him how I feel about him and see if he feels the same?
Q. I have been spending quite some time with a boy for the past year. We act like a couple when we are together. The thing is that netiher of us have told the other how we feel. Should I ask him if he likes me or just tell him that I like him?...
A. 6 March 2007: Take the bull by the horns and tell this guy how you feel about him, then he can tell you how he feels.
Good luck xx... (read in full...)
Been hurt before and I'm cautious but tell me..how can I stop myself from falling in love?
Q. How can I stop myself from falling in love? Ive only been in love once before and it all ended in tears, mine mainly as he split with me for someone else. It took ages to get over and I always vowed to myself that I would never let a guy hurt me ...
A. 6 March 2007: Unfortunately we can't control our feelings of falling in love, it just happens, the more you fight it the stronger it gets.
You have had a bad experience where you were in love and it ended in tears with him leaving. You have got to put this down... (read in full...)
I've given him heaps of chances to make a move but he hasnt and am scared of rejection!
Q. I like a guy, but he already has a girlfriend. I'm pretty sure he's bi and hes into me cause he flirts with me and sends me signals. I have the most enourmous crush on him and i've given him heaps of chances to make a move, im scared if i make a ...
A. 6 March 2007: Ok so you have a major crush on this guy, but the bottom line is he has a girlfiend. You are pretty sure his bi, but do you know this for a fact, or is something you were told?.
I would have respect that he is already in a relationship and fanc... (read in full...)
She used to like but stopped!!
Q. Ok here it goes I have this pretty good friend at church that im infatuated with. She flirts with everyone thats just how she is. But i know she used to like me not to long ago and for some reason she stopped, i could just tell. When talking to ...
A. 6 March 2007: I think all you can do is just be her friend for the moment as she is not looking for anyone at this time. Let her know in a subtle way with light flitatious getures like eye contact ect that you still like her. And one day when she's ready to ... (read in full...)
What is your definition of love?
Q. My question is short and concise; What is love? I know that there is no text book definition of love, and that there's no right or wrong answer to that. I've always wondering and was just thinking what everybody else here thought. Thanks. ...
A. 5 March 2007: I guess alot of people have got many different interpretations on what love actually is. I think its when you care for someone more than you care for yourself. The one you think about and want to be with 24/7. your one and only, your soulmate, the ... (read in full...)
I really like this guy who I was introduced to a couple of weeks ago, what should I do about it?
Q. I really like this guy but we were just formally introduced a couple weeks ago. And we all know how the guy's mind works. He forgot who I was. But I've liked him for the longest. What should I do?...
A. 5 March 2007: you really don't know that much about this guy, as you were only formally introduced once a couple of weeks ago. your friend who introduced you, why don't you get him/her to arrange another meeting and all go out in a group together. This would be a ... (read in full...)
Met a lad on MSN but I used a fake picture!!
Q. Im chubby and not extremely pretty, I've only had 1 relationship and that was when i was 12-13 and it didn't last long as we were better at being friends. So we left it, I haven't kissed anyone and I'm 14, nearly 15. I never get any attentio...
A. 5 March 2007: the only problem with this is you can not now meet this boy, because he will be expecting to see your mate and not you, unless you come clean soon of course.
And who says you are not pretty, beauty is in the eye of the beholder. remember you are ... (read in full...)
I just want to experience the feeling of a man wanting me, and choosing me!!!!
Q. Hi I have a big question??? My husband of 13 years told me that he has been seeing prostitutes for 9 years.. Un- protected sex and the last one was Christmas day... Needless to say i'm in a state but the question is.... I can't get off the escort ...
A. 5 March 2007: Going into this business is a really really bad idea, i strongly advise you not to persue this avenue.
You are in turmoil because you found out your husband has been using prostitutes for nine years. Its natural for you to be deeply hurt by this... (read in full...)
He has a disgusting habit of burping and farting and wants ME to do it too, he says it turns him on... is this normal?
Q. im feeling a bit confused coz my bf trys to make me pass wind through either burping or farting but i dont like to as it very unlady like. i burped in front of him once and he said it turned him on ever since he farts then ask me to do the same. is ...
A. 5 March 2007: I have heard some strange fetishes in my time, but i must say i have not heard one as strange as this.
I would probably go so far as to say that this is not normal.
Have you been with this guy long?.
I just coulden't envisage a girl sitting ther... (read in full...)
I want to ask him out but his ex stands in my way, what can I do to make her understand?
Q. hi i have writen a letter before saying is it ok to ask a boy out but i found out today an ex of his likes him i want to go out with him but she stands in the way of everything and i dont want too cause a fight what should i do would she understand ...
A. 5 March 2007: I guess the question here is does this boy still have feelings for this ex of his?.
If he has no feelings for anymore and the relationship that they had is truly finished, then i don't see any reason whatsoever why you shoulden't ask him out.
Hop... (read in full...)
What weights or machines can I use to help build more muscle in my arms?
Q. Hello, I need some advice on gym. If I want to build my biseps, and triceps, and tone my arms I usually use the other machines that form part of the "circuit" where you exercise your legs, thighs, arms, shoulders, and you increase the weights as y...
A. 5 March 2007: I would say if you want more mass coverage in your biceps and triceps the free weights is probably best.
For my biceps i normally start with
. Barbell curls, 4 sets of ten
. Seated dumbell curls, 4 sets of ten
. preacher curls, 4 sets of ten ( op... (read in full...)
Why dont girls understand me asking them out??
Q. When something doesn't work with one person, does it mean it won't work anytime with anybody else? For example, i asked a girl out at work saying "do you want to go out with me?" and she said, "i don't understand what you are trying to say, clarify" ...
A. 5 March 2007: I can only assume that when you are saying " Will you go out with me" I guess they are thinking do you mean pop down the shops with them, pop out for a ciggy, or be my next long term girlfriend.
As one of the girls said clarify. Say something like... (read in full...)
What does he mean by 'time and affection'?
Q. I've been dating this guy since i was in college, after graduting, he employed me as one of his staffs after which he got married to another lady i know he's been dating. Although we both know the relationship was a fling,he both fell in love with ...
A. 5 March 2007: Ok so you dated this guy in college, you shared time together and no doubt have some good memories. Water has gone under the bridge since then and he has got married, which effectivly make's him unavailable.
I woulden't do dwelling on what he has ... (read in full...)
Was this kiss just a one off thing, as he always seems to be busy now!!!
Q. I have liked this guy for awhile. We work together and have been flirting constantly for months. Well, about a month ago, I drove him home and he kissed me. Since then I have been trying to start something, but he is busy nearly everyday a...
A. 5 March 2007: I think this guy does like you as he still flirts with you in the office. He could either be shy, scared of rejection, or it could be he is trying to keep it proffesional as the two of you work together.
I think the kiss in the car meant some... (read in full...)
I already have a girlfriend but have just got with this other girl, now I like both of them. Who do I choose?
Q. What do i do? I've just got with this girl while I've already got another girlfriend! Who do I choose?...
A. 4 March 2007: While i can not condone two timing which is effectively what you are doing to these girls.
Without knowing either of these two girls its very hard to say which one to go with.
So here is a shot in the dark, stick with the one you was with fir... (read in full...)
Do you think he is shy, scared of rejection, or just being professional because of our work relationship?
Q. I wrote a post on here a week ago about me going out of my mind over my work colleague and got some very good reply's. Im 20 and he is 31 and we work really close together. We have been flirting very strongly since the summer and i feel we have ...
A. 4 March 2007: It does sound like he likes you, otherwise he probably woulden't flirt with you, or offer you lifts to the bus station. However whether he is shy, scared of you rejecting him, or is just being proffesional because you work together is anyones ... (read in full...)
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