He's a newly married man, should I risk getting together with him?
Q. i am in love with a newly married man he is 13 years older than me but we connect so well.the thing is he flirts with me too and told me that he really likes me.should i risk it and go with him or should i just leave it please help....
A. 10 January 2007: What on earth is a newly married man who is thirteen years older than yourself telling a young girl he really likes her.
He has got trouble spelt out all over him hun, and my avice would be to stay well away from this guy.
He has been married ... (read in full...)
I'm 17 and my bf's 31. I've never made a move on a guy, so what do I do?
Q. well i am 17 and my man is 31. we have only been together for a few days but im just wondering when it is time for me to make a move (nothing drastic just kissing, im not ready for anything else). I have also never made a move on a guy before a...
A. 10 January 2007: It only been a few days, give it abit more time before you start jumping in. I think considering the age gap of 13 years between the two of you it would be your guy that goes to kiss you first, not the other way round.
Take your time, whats th... (read in full...)
My bf is way, way too sensitive about everything!!! What can I do about this?
Q. I need advice on how to deal with an over sensitive boyfriend... I've been with my boyfriend for a few months now but I dont know how long it will last. I never thought I would be complaining about a guy being sensitive but he really is a big ba...
A. 10 January 2007: You have seriously got to have a chat with your boyfriend and tell him whats on your mind. If your walking on egg shells around him, affraid to say anything incase you upset him is not healthy for any relationship.
I think this guy has got some seri... (read in full...)
I feel she thinks I'm getting boring - what can I do to make me seem fresh?
Q. Hi, i have been with my girlfriend for 7months we are very clsoe and what youd call a serious relationship, i feel that what i say and do doesnt have the same effect on her as it once used to, i dont really feel like i amaze her as much as she used ...
A. 10 January 2007: Most girls like suprises, and like to be kept on their toes. Break away from routine and suprise her with something different, take her out for something to eat but don't tell her where your going. Suprise her every now and then with a gift, some ... (read in full...)
We hook up and then the next day, he acts like nothing happened between us! Does he like me?
Q. Ok there is this guy that we are good friends and we flirt all the time he told me he like me and I like him back, but sometimes it seems like he does not like me as much as he says, he says he will do something with me and then we wont but I talk ...
A. 10 January 2007: It could be that the flirting has reached as far as it can go, and this guy wants to take it to the next level.
Yes i think this guy likes you alot but is to shy or scared to ask you to be his girlfriend, which is probably why he acts like noth... (read in full...)
After walking by me, he stared and made eye contact. Does he like me?
Q. When a fella walks past you and makes a point of not looking at you but then when hes furthur away stares (without fail), and makes eye contact odes that mean he likes you?...
A. 10 January 2007: He is interested for sure, i really fancy this girl and i do the same, lots of eye contact to show her im interested.
I agree with the other Aunts, next time you catch him looking at you, smile back at him.
Good luck hun xx... (read in full...)
I found his number on the net but should I call since he didn't willingly leave it for me in the first place?
Q. I need advice. I went away to the other side of the country last week and was at a bar with friends. I noticed an attractive man and he followed me outside as I was going to get a cab. We wandered the city together till the early hours. He came back ...
A. 9 January 2007: it all sounds abit one night standish to me, if you liked him why diden't you try to obtain his number as he was going. When you both left and you diden't have his number, and he diden't have yours, surely you must have realised you were never going ... (read in full...)
We broke up but I'm finding it hard to move on because he hangs out with my friends!
Q. I am feeling seriously down and out. My ex broke up with me a couple of months ago. I finally thought I was doing better. We had a good conversation last week. Then, next time I talked to him, he went off on me like I was trying to get him back. ...
A. 9 January 2007: I know it must be hard having to see someone you have had an intimate relationship with, that you don't see eye to eye with.
Don't stop socialising with your friends and going out, act as normal, as if nothing ever happened. I know its hard but let ... (read in full...)
Things are going to far and I'm not sure what to do!
Q. -x- Hello, I'm only 13 and i use to like this guy, he's 17, my mates told him, and he got the idea i really liked him, i've met up with him a few times, i mean i loved him so much at first! But there are a few bad things about him 1. hes dating o...
A. 9 January 2007: You are only 13 years old, ok he is only 17, but that is way to old for a thirteen year old to be going out with.
He could get into alot of trouble for dating you as you are below the legal age of consent.
Leave this guy alone and stick to boy... (read in full...)
He has different sized nipples and it's turning me off!
Q. My boyfriend has a really small nipple on one side and a huge one on the other. theres almost a 2 cm difference! its a major turn off what should i do?...
A. 9 January 2007: It seems like a silly thing to split up over, im sure there are many other good qualities that this guy has that superseed having one nipple bigger than the other.
I agree with reader anonymous, if you love him you should see past it.
Good lu... (read in full...)
I like my best friends girl!
Q. Hey....Well I got a mega problem....I like my best friends girl friend and my best friend is like my own brother almost...And in the past he treated her badly and i have feelings for her but i don't know what to do becuz he is my best friend/bro... ...
A. 9 January 2007: If i was you i would stay well clear. It is never advisable to even contemplate messsing around with your best friends girl.
If you do decide to go ahead and persue this girl then you will probablly lose the friendship with your best friend for a lo... (read in full...)
He loves being on the phone but should I call him!?
Q. i have a guy who always stays home, is always on the phone because being on the phone is his hobbie. He love the phone but he doesnt like to call people. should i call him everyday or does that mean he got mr under control because im always the one ...
A. 9 January 2007: If i was you i would let him call you. I can't believe he just sits in all the time on the phone.
I used to go out with a girl similar to that, she never used to call anyone, she used to drop call people, like let it ring once, then expect peop... (read in full...)
Im not sure I trust him. What should I do?
Q. hi, im 22 and my bf is 25, this is my 2nd serious relationship and his first. the problem is that he doesnt trust me at all, i dont really know what to do, its got to the point that i dont go anywhere without him unless he knows where i am...he ...
A. 8 January 2007: Obviously you must do what you feel is right, but something is not ringing right with this guy.
Im sorry but the way he is acting this relationship is doomed to fail, you must feel like you can't breath. As for your diary, that is a most pers... (read in full...)
She dumped me and I'm a living wreck. Please help!
Q. My girl friend broke up with me about the begining of november and i am a living wreck. i feel empty in side i just need her back and i dont know how to let her see that what really matters to her is right in front of her. We was once together for ...
A. 8 January 2007: I know its hard when a relationship finishes, and i know the hurt you are feeling inside.
The same happened to me when i was your age, i thought this girl was the one for me, and i was absolutely devastated when we split up, it felt like the end ... (read in full...)
What does the term soulmate mean?
Q. im cnfused wat does the term soulmate mean?what is love?recently i have had 2 think it over a tadd, hi my name is skittles , i have had this best mate ,lets call him red, my whole life and not many people can say that but its true i new him from the ...
A. 8 January 2007: That is so sweet, the both of you sound made for each other, and you have know each other since the day you were born.
I think the reason you are feeling miserable is because deep down you have strong feelings for this guy, but you are trying to c... (read in full...)
Why do I still have these feelings for my ex? Please help
Q. i am in a stable loving relationship with my boyfriend of nearly two years but i cant seem to forget my ex. we had a very rocky relationship of three years at one stage he hit me. i was the one too break it off but when ever i hear people saying his ...
A. 8 January 2007: I think its only natural to think of passed loves from timme to time, but draw the line there, at thoughts, a memory. Try to concentrate on putting your all in to this present relationship.
Good luck x... (read in full...)
I love my ex but he keeps making jokes about us ..reconciling andf it's hurtful. What's his game?
Q. I want to get back with my ex but he said he wanted to be single for the moment but why does he go all gooey eyed on me, when Im talking he smiles and grins at me (half time is in a world of his own), contacting me all the time, playing footsie with ...
A. 7 January 2007: this guy is playing with your emotions, how can he say all those things like getting married, having a family, telling you how beautiful you are, then laugh and say he was only joking, and twice.
He is out of order and he knows it. He knows you are ... (read in full...)
It's all so complicated! What can I do?
Q. i like this guy,but his best friend likes me, my best friend likes my crush and i'm friends with his ex. i don't want to hurt any one but i really want to ask him out. what in the world can i do...
A. 7 January 2007: what ever way you look at it someone is going to get hurt if you ask this guy out.
I guess it boils down to whats more important to you, a boyfriend or falling out with your friends.
Personally i think you should not ask him out, and keep yo... (read in full...)
How do I know if he's in love with me?
Q. hi i have just started going out with a boy the same age as me. we have been going out for a week now and its been great! but my mates are always like "i really actually think hes like inlove with u!" so how do i know if hes actually 'in love'...
A. 7 January 2007: He would want to be around you 24/7, look lovingly into your eyes for long periods of time, and always find an excuse to touch you.
Love signs can manifest themselves in many different ways, for me my heart starts beating like a rabbit, and i do... (read in full...)
I love her more than she knows. What should I do?
Q. I am madly in love with my best friend. We used to go out at the start of 2006, and after 2 months going out she has been the last thing I think of before I sleep at night. We have stayed close friends and during the summer we did end up making ...
A. 7 January 2007: I know whats it like to love someone that much, the butterflies racing round in your tummy, thinking about them 24/7. I think you are going to have to take a back seat on this one as she has a boyfriend at the moment, and untill they split up, if ... (read in full...)
He found out I was unfaithful in a past relationship..is this why he's gone cool?
Q. hi I have been in my current job now since the summer, which is not a permanent fixture. There is this guy who works there who i have fancy alot, and is ten years older than me, im 21 and he is 31, and we are both single. He is everything i cou...
A. 6 January 2007: you have been flirting now for six months, so my hunch is he won't be asking you out any time soon, however from what you have mentioned he does fancy you. I think he is either shy, scared of rejection, or just feels awkward because its an office ... (read in full...)
The girl I have feelings for has a bf and is moving away! I want to tell her my feelings. What should I do?
Q. There's a girl I've known through college for over a year now and am pretty good friends with. I realised some time ago that I liked her, but I didn't persue this as she was, and is, with another guy. In that time, she's grown on me and I've now got ...
A. 4 January 2007: i know its hard, when you develop feelings for someone, those feelings get stronger and stronger, then it turns in to an infatuation. I think it is very wise not to pursue her as she currently has a boyfiend. As her best friend says there is a good ... (read in full...)
I can't stop flirting with the girl at work, but I'm happily married! What do I do?
Q. Ive been working in my new place for about 18 months now. My department is great and we all seem to get on. Im happily married and there is a younger girl in our department and things have gone where they shouldnt have. I like her and get on ...
A. 4 January 2007: My advice would be stop flirting with this girl right away before things get to out of hand and you find yourself in a situation that you can't get out of.
If you wasen't a happily married man i would say go for it, but you are. This young gi... (read in full...)
How do you flirt without looking desperate?
Q. How do you flirt with a guy without looking desperate? I really like a guy and want to show im interested but im not very experienced and dont want to scare him off because I really like him!! thanks!!...
A. 4 January 2007: yes i agree with the previous answer, lots of eye contact, if he returns yous gaze for over 5 or six seconds then you are on to a winner. Smile at him alot, be interested in what he is doing, or what he did. And bring something up that maybe he said ... (read in full...)
Developed feelings for my supervisor at work!
Q. hey this may not sound like a big problem but to me it is. i started my job a little over a month ago now but ive developed feelings for my supervisor and cant get him out of my head. i have no idea if he feels the same way and i want to approach ...
A. 3 January 2007: hi there,
Has he given you any signs that he may be interested in you, maybe by way of flirting, or eye contact. Before you rush in and ask him i would adopt a few flirtatious tacticts to test the water, if he responds you will know he likes yo... (read in full...)
I'm 18, she's 23. Would it work?
Q. Okay so im an 18 year old guy who is very interested in a 23 year old girl. We get along really well and theres never a dull moment when we are around each other. Being that there is a 5 year age difference, would it work ? ...
A. 3 January 2007: i don't see any reason atal why it shoulden't work, five years is nothing. age means nothing if you both love each other from the bottom of your hearts.
Im 30, and the girl i am seeing at the moment is 39, and we get along fantasti... (read in full...)
i have to share him ...why?
Q. i met a guy i care a lot about.but he lives with a woman he got pregnant many years ago.the child is now grown.i don't understand why they stay together.he says he loves me.but he thinks i should be ok with this because they don't share anything ...
A. 1 January 2007: It sounds to me like this guy wants his cake and eat it. He is shacked up with the mother of his child, and also has you on the sidelines. He says they don't share anything except the house, but if that were true he would leave, as the child is now ... (read in full...)
i want him but hes taken
Q. Hy, Ive recently become friends witha guy form college and we flirt now and then, I really like him, I think he has a thing for me too. but he's in a relationship. I know I should stop flirting with him in case something happens between us, because ...
A. 1 January 2007: I think in this situation you have got to have abit of respect that this guy is in a relationship. By the sound of it he does like you, which is why he is flirting with you. I would back off abit and see what happens with him and this girl he is ... (read in full...)
Do her glances at me..mean that she likes me too?
Q. There is this girl that I fancy (she doesn't know this) and everytime I walk past her she looks at me. I look at her everytime I walk past her and she looks at me to. Could this mean she fancies me? Thanks for yiur help. ...
A. 1 January 2007: i would say from past experience that this girl likes the look of you and is trying to catch your eye. Holding eye contact and then smiling is just not something you do to people you don't fancy.
i say get chatting to this girl soon.
Good lu... (read in full...)
I tick all the boxes... so why aren't guys interested?
Q. im always told how gorgeous and preety i am..all that crap. but ive been single for 2 years now. i just moved to the suburbs from nyc..i hear the guys talk about my looks, but they'll never actually talk to me. ive lived here since the school year ...
A. 1 January 2007: Ejoy being young free and single for as long as you possible can, go out with your mates, have a laugh, casual date guys.
All these guys that talk about your model looks probably think that you are way out of their league and that you would kn... (read in full...)
Should me and my bf break up and move on for good?
Q. I have been with my bf for nearly two years but in those two years we have argued a lot, we have no trust because he cheated on me, he sometimes scares me when he gets mad. I don't feel like i used to and i want to spend my life with someone nice ...
A. 1 January 2007: Your situation is pretty similar to me actually, my last two girlfriends have both turned out to be complete losers, alls great in the beginning then its just like they turn in to something horrible.
The people you are going out with, do your fri... (read in full...)
I really like him but the problem is he is just like family to me?
Q. ok i like this guy and i know he kind of likes me back. but the thing is, he is like family to me and i care about our friendship. what should i do?...
A. 1 January 2007: hi there, not really sure where you are coming from, are you saying you like this guy but see him as more of a brother?.
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How can I wish my husband "happy new year" when he repulses me?
Q. My husband goes out everynight for a few hours to the pub friday saturday and sunday when he comes in all he does is fall asleep we have 3 teenage boys and i feel so lonley its getting to the point that i don't like him to touch me as he repulsis me ...
A. 31 December 2006: I think its really unfair that he goes out Friday Saturday & Sunday too, maybe one of those days would be ok. And leaving you on your own new years eve is just rotten. Have you sat down with him and spoken to him when he is sober and told him how ... (read in full...)
I'm 31 and find myself going out alone..as my friends have all moved away!
Q. I am 31 years old and have reached a crisis point in my life that I was foolish enough not see coming; the last of my friends has moved 100s of miles away and I am finding myself deeply, deeply lonely. I have been making the effort to go out by ...
A. 31 December 2006: I think your best bet is to get some hobbies, what are you interests? Are there people at your work that are around your sort of age group?
Im 33 and most of my friends are either married or moved on, but we do make a point of mabe meeting up once... (read in full...)
I like him so should I ask him-if he likes me or just wait it out?
Q. So.. A few weeks ago I told my best guy friend that I liked him, because it was killing me inside just holding it all in. He didn't show a positive response when I told him, so I told him I don't want things to change between us (when I really d...
A. 31 December 2006: Hi there, i think you should ask this guy how he feels, get it out in the open. I think from what you have said this guy really likes you, he is showing it to you through flirtatious gestures, and he even gets butterflies in his stomach, which is a ... (read in full...)
I know he likes me--why isnt he making the first move as guys always do?
Q. Hiya - well ive been in love with the same man for 3 yrs now. even tho i am only 17 i feel as if i am more mature than other girls of my age e.g. i will only have sex with the man i am in love with and i am also very careful to analyse my feelings ...
A. 30 December 2006: I think you should just take the bull by the horns and ask this guy out, im sure he will jump at the chance, if he does decline then at least you know where you stand and you can move on.
good luck hun x... (read in full...)
He's a really great guy--so how do I know if he likes me back?
Q. hi im 21 and the guy that im crushing on is 31. He is a manager at my work in a diff department tho. He doesnt have a gf/wife him and i get along great! I usually give him a hand movement whenever i leave but the other day he gave me a ...
A. 30 December 2006: Hi, i don't think there is anything wrong atal with liking someone older, after all age is only a number, and its all about how you feel inside.
Im in a similar situation at work with the same sort of age gap, she is 22 and i am 32, and we flir... (read in full...)
His response to my text message really freaked me out! What do you think?
Q. I have a friend who texts me every day and we talk about anything. He's told me that he really likes me before and I told him that I like him too as a friend, but yesterday I sent him a text message saying; " okay I just got to the gym, I'll text ...
A. 29 December 2006: i could just be a term of endearment, i would probablly write that to a close friend, or a family member. personally i woulden't declare my love for someone over a text, but if i did i would use the word LOVE and not LUV. LUV seems to friendly.
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What does it mean when a guy tells you that he likes you more than he should? Any advice?
Q. What does it mean when a guy tells you that he likes you more than he should? confused by this, it makes no sense, help!...
A. 29 December 2006: hi there.
i would say he really likes you but for some reason he feels he shoulden't be liking you as much as he does. This could be a number of reasons, such as you could be working together in the same office, you have a boyfrien... (read in full...)
Any tips for flirting with older guys (I'm 21, he's 31)?
Q. Im 21 and a guy that i like is 31. The problem is that he is a manager in one of the departments at my the store that i work at so he's not my manager. But i have been developing feelings for him that i cant explain. Its freaking me out cuz...
A. 22 December 2006: hi there,
if you really want this guy to know you you like him, start off with some basic flirting, for instance try to get his eye contact and hold it till one of you looks away. touch him lightly on the arm. Be interested in what he did, or ... (read in full...)
This guy likes me but I'm holding out for another, who shows no interest in me! Whats the best thing to do, here?
Q. There's this guy that really likes me and i also like him but i cant bring myself to saying ill go out with him or anything because theres someone iv liked for over a year who i dont think likes me but i still hold onto hope that one day he will... ...
A. 17 December 2006: hi there, I would say the only way you are going to get over this crush you have had for so long is to come straight out and tell this guy your feelings for him. If feels the same as you then thats great, happy days. And if he dosen't feel the same ... (read in full...)
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