If a girl fancies you, does that mean that they find you good looking/handsome/sexy?
Q. If a girl fancies tyou, does that mean that they find you good looking/handsome/sexy? Thanks!...
A. 21 January 2007: I know people say its whats inside that counts, but i think the first initial attraction is looks, then personality comes later.
I would say that in answer to your question, yes if she fancies you she finds you handsome, but as CD says she coul... (read in full...)
Has anyone got any tips for stopping comfort eating?
Q. Has anyone got any tips for stopping comfort eating? It's ruining my diet. I eat really healthy at mealtimes but then something will happen and make me reach for the chocolate bars. I've tried counselling and it didn't work for me but I'd be glad of ...
A. 21 January 2007: Make sure there are no goodies like chocolate bars and crisps in your cupboard for you to get at. If you feel peckish make yourself a bowl of porridge, its a slow release carbohydrate that keeps your hunger at bay for hours. Also a pint of water ... (read in full...)
Tips needed...to make a guy fall for a girl! Help!
Q. Anyone got any top flirting tips that can help a girl make a guy fall for her? xxx...
A. 21 January 2007: Probably the most powerful flirtatious tool you can use to get across to someone that you like them is eye contact, and lots of it.
Try to hold eye contact with him for as long as you can, then smile and look away. If he looks at you back that is y... (read in full...)
I'm 21 and married! But My mind tells me I'me too young and missing out! What should I do?
Q. Hi. I am 21, and have been married nearly a year now to the first love of my life, whom I met when I was 15! I have always had eyes for her and only her - until three months ago my mind told me that I was too young and missing out! I have me...
A. 21 January 2007: Like all the other posts have said, stay with your wife. She is the love of your life, don't risk losing her over a silly crush that will probably pass in a week.
The grass is always greener on the other side, untill you get there.....
Good lu... (read in full...)
He stares at me a lot..so how do I know if he really likes me?
Q. hey, i need some help! there is this guy, he is in my class but we don't talk toghther but there is eye contact between us! when i walk for example to throw soemthing in the garbage as coming back to my seat i notice him looking at me! so i need ...
A. 21 January 2007: I think that the fact that he is always looking at you is a good sign that this guy likes you. Eye contact is probably the most powerful flirting tool you can use to get across to someone that you are intested.
Next time you see him looking ... (read in full...)
I need to know...how do you know if a girl is attracted to you?
Q. how do you know if a girl is attracted to you. I have talked to a few girls who I find attractive but look like they don't find me attractive. whilst ones who seem to flirt with me I don't find attractive or they could just be taking the piss. A...
A. 21 January 2007: You know for sure if a girl is attracted to you by her actions. If you are getting long eye contact and smiles is always a good sign. If they are going out of there way to touch you, or laugh at what you say even if what you said is not even ... (read in full...)
Violent bf has asked me to come back! How can I stay strong and say no?
Q. I have just split up with my violent boyfriend but he is asking to come back. I told him no but how can I stay strong? We were together for 10 years and we have a son...
A. 21 January 2007: Im assuming that when you say he violent, you mean he has hit you in the past.
If thats the case i would most certainly stay well clear of him, you are better off without this guy. People like this always say they have changed, untill the next time... (read in full...)
He's an internet junkie - how can they be cured?
Q. my husband is an internet junkie and its going to split us up helllp please...
A. 21 January 2007: you have got to talk to your husband, tell him you are at the end of your teather, and you can't go on anymore with him always at the computer screen.
How long does he spend on the computer?
Is he looking at something that you do not agree wit... (read in full...)
My fiancee ran his hand down this girl's back at the bar he hangs out in... what does it mean!?
Q. What does it mean when you are out drinking at a bar with your fiance' that you are marrying in four months and you see him run his hand down another girls back as she is walking by? From top to bottom not touching her butt or anything? I know if a ...
A. 21 January 2007: Yes this is a light flirtatious gesture, and it probably diden't mean anything. But i can totally see why you are annoyed by this hand down the back thing. However i don't think he is hiding anything as he did it in front of you, and i think if he ... (read in full...)
What the best way is to find a boyfriend as I am looking for a relationship?
Q. I have a few questions to ask. For one, I have a friend that is a guy. I think that he likes me, but I have no feelings for him that way at all. I don't want to say anything to him, because I am not sure if he does. The thing is, I want to flirt ...
A. 20 January 2007: If you are getting signs from this guy you go out with that he fancys you, and you do not feel the same you have got to tell him that nothing can ever happen between the two of you. When you go to parties with him, other guys probably think you are ... (read in full...)
I'm shy..so what signs would I give him, to see if he likes me back?
Q. hey everyone i was just wondering what steps cud i make to show the guy i like that i like him..taking into consideration thati am very shy when it comes to guys, especially him! i look at him he looks at me..but that isn't a good way for actually ...
A. 20 January 2007: there are lots of way to let a guy know you like them, i would say probably the most powerful is eye contact. Try to catch his gaze, hold eye contact for as long as you can, then smile and look away. Touch is also good, use simple gestures like tap ... (read in full...)
I have a lot of angst about chatting to girls...
Q. Hi, I started college in september 06 and i still havent got any female friends from there. I jus cant bring myself to go and talk to any girls. i think to myself "what do i say", "what if i look bad", "what if i dont act right" and so on. even ...
A. 20 January 2007: I used to have terrible trouble talking to girls. when i was your age I remember with girls i really fancied i used to totally plan what i was going to say, or rehearse the roll with a friend.
Well i still coulden't get it right, and what i have... (read in full...)
What's the best way to apologise?
Q. I'm wondering what you think is the best way to apologize to your significant other???...
A. 20 January 2007: it all depends on what you are apologising for, whether its someting small, or something big.
I would go with the good old fashioned sorry, and really sound like you mean it, and follow this with a nice bunch of flowers.
Good luck... (read in full...)
He with this other 'perfect' girl now---so how do I get over him?
Q. Hi recently my boyfriend dumped me for another girl who is just perfect.. I've tried getting him back but he doesn't care I even once told him how I feel.. That was a mistake.. Enough said. Anyway, I'm so sick of chasing him and even though I love ...
A. 18 January 2007: You have got to let him go and move on from this chapter in your life. I know it must be hard for you to be dumped buy this guy, then to see him with this other girl, who you say is perfect must be even harder.
Its water under the bridge, put it b... (read in full...)
I planned to meet an online guy friend. Then he cancelled b/c I'm married! What happened?
Q. Having trouble getting over someone I never met!HELP? Yes, I am married! I met someone online 6 months ago. We talked about everything under the sun. WE became great friends. We looked forward to chatting w/each other daily. Even though I was marr...
A. 18 January 2007: I think what happened here is this guy all of sudden saw the consequences of hooking up with a married woman. Fair play to him really, he knocked it on the head before it went ot far.
How far was you going to take this, just meet up as friends? or w... (read in full...)
Found out the 36 year old I'm dating is married... he wants me to be his "other lady"... advice so far is mixed!?
Q. Hi, i need some help. I am 21 and this guy i am attracted to is 36yrs.Dont think he is taking advantage before him i have always dated older men.Recently i found out he is married and he admitted.I was very upset but we are still communic...
A. 18 January 2007: It sounds like this guy wants his cake and eat it. He and his wife don't look like they are going to divorce anytime soon, and has also asked you to be his other woman, or mistress.
I would go with what your friends are telling you, and that woul... (read in full...)
I told this guy I liked him then he said he liked me too but... later he told me he was drunk and didn't mean it! What should I do?
Q. Right.. there is this lad that i have liked for a year secretly and one night i got drunk and texted him telling him..He kept it to himself but told me he didn't like me that way. A week later we were on MSN and he told me he liked me too. I ...
A. 17 January 2007: Yeh im with the other two posts, i think this guy is a complete twit. He was playing you, and took you for a fool, then blamed you for it.
I think you should move on, there are better guys than this out there.
Good luck xx... (read in full...)
Do you think this guy likes me? I always catch him glancing at me.Help me, I'm getting obsessed!
Q. hi all i really like this guy i don't know what to do.we don't talk but now in class when he makes jokes the whole class laughs and so do i, then he looks my way-although now i'm catching him looking my way more(i won't say at me because i can't be ...
A. 17 January 2007: it could be that he is a real shy guy, that he really likes you and is to scared to ask you out.
In a way thats kind of sweet isen't it. Next time you catch him staring at you look at him and try to catch his gaze, then smile and look away.
If he... (read in full...)
Why are they scared?
Q. why do most women fear good looking men, and refuse to go on a date with them....
A. 17 January 2007: Hmmm, thats a tough one. It could be a fear on them running off with another woman. Getting alot of female attention.
Maybe they think they are just simply not good enough, and they woulden't look at them anyway.... (read in full...)
My partner shows me no love or affection
Q. my partner does not show me any love or affection or tells me that i am important. this has been going on for around 18 months now and he knows how i feel but he tells me its alll in my head. i have asked if we can go to relationship coulcelling but ...
A. 16 January 2007: Making relationships work is all about working together, being a team, and being there for one another. It sounds to me like you are the only one doing all the work to try and keep this relationship together.
The counceling would be a good idea if y... (read in full...)
My bf gave me a black eye! He says he'll change. I don't know what to do.
Q. Hello,im 21 and i have been in a relationship with an amazing guy for 4 months. We planned to get engaged this year and i really know i love this man. But just over a week ago we had a row, to which he hit me in the face and i still have (a week ...
A. 16 January 2007: I just can't condone what this guy did to you. Any guy thats raises a hand or hits a woman is just a plain coward.
He says he won't do it again, untill the next time, and the next time, and the time after that. It will turn in to a vicious circ... (read in full...)
How can I be less shy and more confident around girls... ?
Q. dear cupid i would like to know how can a boy who is shy get more comfortable around girls without going red and speak clearly, as it am shy and not confident around girls and plus the fact that every girl and sometime the boys say im ugly and ...
A. 16 January 2007: You still sound quite young, and as you mature you will find that your confidence grows with you. I never had much confidence when i was younger, espessially around females. But as i have got older and wiser my confidence levels have grown up with ... (read in full...)
SITE NEWS: Two new features - country flags and similar questions!
Q. Hi everyone Two updates: 1. COUNTRY FLAGS! You can now set where you are writing from and get a flag appear next to your answers and your column! Click on the your account link when logged in and select "set your country". All new users ...
A. 15 January 2007: I think this is a real good idea and will make things alot clearer. Let's raise that Union Jack!!!!... (read in full...)
My family says I'm a failure b/c I'm 33 and single. How do I gain self esteem and find a good guy?
Q. Can anyone help with some words of wisdom please, to help boost my self esteem? I'm 33 and single....and have had my heart broken so many times that now I just feel depressed when I think about the prospect of meeting other men. I seem to attract ...
A. 15 January 2007: i know just how you feel hun, I am 31 and i have had a pretty rough time in the past with regard to relationships.
At the time you think they are the one for you, but because love is blind, unfortunately the only people who can see they are not righ... (read in full...)
We've been married 13 years and I can't stop cheating on her!
Q. Hi im 31 male, been married 13 years have two great kids, i cant stop cheating on my wife, she cheated on me before we had kids. im not paying her back. i just cannot stop cheating, i love her in some way, but sex is not there between us. should i ...
A. 14 January 2007: I think you have got to come clean with your wife, i think she deserves that much at least.
It sounds to me like the relationship with your wife has come to a head, hence why you are making deposits somewhere else. You can't go on living a lie, sit ... (read in full...)
How do I tactfully tell my girlfriend... "please don't dress like such a slut"
Q. This is driving me nuts! My girlfriend dresses like a complete slut! I like a girl dressing confidently and showing some skin but this is over the top. Even her own friends make comments! I find it totally unattractive and its making me doubt ...
A. 14 January 2007: I think if you bring this up with her it is going to cause an argument, and you could risk losing her, over what, some items of clothing, is it worh it?.
She is young, let her dress how she pleases, its probably just a phase she is going thro... (read in full...)
Age Of Innocence
Q. I am of quite a young age, and the thing is i avoid getting fingered. I have been fingered before, and i am willing to give them the favour (hand job/blow job) But for some reason, i avoid getting fingered. All of my friends, are the complete opp...
A. 14 January 2007: you are not doing anything that you feel uncomfortable with and that is good. So many people just do stuff for the hell of it, whether they are comfortable or not, maybe just to please their partner.
Stick by your guns, and don't do anything... (read in full...)
Mom Caught me with sisters hubby!
Q. my mom saw me with my sisters hubby this happened by surprising me 4 brunch. she saw me with a mouthful. she said she wouldn't tell but expects he and i to do the right thing. he wants 2 tell her but we only did it once and only head. so?...
A. 14 January 2007: What where you both thinking, did you not think it was abit close to home, i mean your blood sisters husband. What ever happens someone will tell your sister, whether it be you, your Mum or you Sisters Husband. I think it would probably be best ... (read in full...)
18 and single ...help!
Q. i need some help ppl..i feel so so down at the moment.im the only single 1 out of all my friends..Im 18, i know thats not very old.I have so much bad luck with men. They just dont seem 2 take me seriously. I want a bf so badly but nothing ever works ...
A. 14 January 2007: Of course you are going to meet mr right, you are only 18 years old with your whole life ahead of you. Just because you haven't now dosen't mean you never will.
As for your previous relationships you are going into them with a negative frame of mind... (read in full...)
Is it morally wrong for a teacher to wink at a female student (15-17)?
Q. is it morally wrong for a male teacher to wink at a female student age 15-17? I need to know because my gf is complaining about this teacher who does it to her and ONLY her....
A. 14 January 2007: right there is winking and there is winking.
I sometimes unconsciously use winking with people when finishing a conversation, or saying alright to someone. Its one of those things your body naturally does.
Then there is suggestive winking when... (read in full...)
When is the right time to say I love you to a girl?
Q. when is the right time to say i love you to a girl? because i have a girlfriend that i have been going out with for nearly 3 months and i haven't actually said it to her beacuse i don't no if its to early to say and i don't want to put her off....
A. 14 January 2007: I think the right time to say i love you differs in many different people. It all depends on how you both feel, and how the relationship is progressing.
You will know how you feel in your body if you love this girl, and also if the love is reci... (read in full...)
If he finds out I cheated with my ex, it will destroy him and out future. What do I do?
Q. Hi, Right what it is, ive been with my bf for 2years and i love him more than anything and yes we are only young but we plan to b forever, and we talk about having children. Bt about 3month ago, i cheated with my Ex, of 3 years, and until then, i ...
A. 14 January 2007: you have got to get this out in the open right away before it goes to far.
You plan to be with your current boyfriend for ever, and have children with him, how can you do this with these skeletons lurking in your closet. Tell him it was a stup... (read in full...)
How can I make the first move without it being really obvious?
Q. How can i make the first move with out it being to obviouse?...
A. 14 January 2007: let him know you are really interested by giving him lots of eye contact and smiles. If he returns your gaze and smiles back at you then that is your green light to go ahead and ask him out.
Good luck x... (read in full...)
How do you know when you like someone? What do you feel?
Q. Hey, This might sound like a stupid question but, how do you know when you like someone? What do you feel?, I just don't know if I like someone or not thanks x...
A. 14 January 2007: Ok i think this differs for many different people. The most obvious are you will get butterflies in you tummy. You get toung tied when you talk to them. You do silly little things to try and impress them. You can't stop thinking about them, they are ... (read in full...)
He says he loves me. Is he just trying to be nice?
Q. I know this is probably a stupid question...but iv been going out with this guy for less than two weeks and he already says he loves me, and he asks me if i love him...i mean yes i really like him, but dont love him as such yet, surly he isnt being ...
A. 14 January 2007: i do think that two weeks is maybe a little too soon to start saying i love you. Have you known this guy before he became your boyfriend two weeks ago?
If you knew him say a year or so before you got together i could understand where he was comi... (read in full...)
My friends make fun of my bf b/c he's a bit overweight and not incredibly attractive. But he's a lovely guy!
Q. i have just started dating a guy who i really like.my friends make fun of him though because he is a little overweight and not the most attractive guy.these comments that my friends are saying really hurt me because he is such a lovely guy and they ...
A. 11 January 2007: I think your friends are being really out of order. They are judging him on what he looks like, have they even attempted to get to know him?.
You can't ignor these comments, but after time it will stop when they get fed up, and find something else... (read in full...)
He's lying to me about stuff on his computer! How do I tell him I went through it and know he's lying?
Q. m upset because i feel my relationship is going downhill, my b/f lied to me about stuff that i found on his computer i asked him if he had it he said 'no' but i saw it with my own eyes how do i tell him i know he is lying i went through his personal ...
A. 11 January 2007: You diden't say what he was hiding, porn? a letter from another woman?. Whatever it was he was wrong to hide it from you, and on the same note you were wrong to go snooping through.
I would come clean and tell him you found it.
As reader anono... (read in full...)
My bf is outgoing in social settings and I'm shy and uncomfortable. This makes me feel bad about myself. What can I do?
Q. hi! i'm a shy young lady who loves her boyfriend, but has a problem with jealousy and possessiveness. Even though, I know he means well to me, I still feel suspicious towards him and asking annoying questions. Deep down inside I feel that what he ...
A. 11 January 2007: From what you have said you sound like a nice couple, and i don't think you have anything to worry about regarding your boyfriend straying. He is just a confident person, and a good conversationalist who people seem to like.
you have got to stop... (read in full...)
After our discussion about my trust issues w/ her, she acts the same. Is it time to call it quits?
Q. Is it time to call it quits in the relationship when you have a lot of doubts/questions about your girlfriend? We've had talks about my feelings and 'trust issues' before. But, the same things seem to be happening over and over. Is it because I ...
A. 11 January 2007: What is she doing to make you always doubt her? Has she been unfaithful to you in the past, which is why you have trust issues with her? Or are all these feelings you are having an insecurity issue on your behalf?
If she is doing things that mak... (read in full...)
15 and secretly agreed to marry my secret boyfriend!
Q. Im 15 years old and my boyfriend who ive been with for two years asked me to marry him, on christmas eve. Ive said yes and although we are keeping our relationship secret from everyone else because were afraid they'll ruin it i have decided i want ...
A. 10 January 2007: What is the big rush to get married, you are so terribly young, both of you.
Live your lives, enjoy yourselves, you should be having the time of your lives at this age, not walking down the aisle.
Speak to your parents about this, thats what t... (read in full...)
He's a newly married man, should I risk getting together with him?
Q. i am in love with a newly married man he is 13 years older than me but we connect so well.the thing is he flirts with me too and told me that he really likes me.should i risk it and go with him or should i just leave it please help....
A. 10 January 2007: What on earth is a newly married man who is thirteen years older than yourself telling a young girl he really likes her.
He has got trouble spelt out all over him hun, and my avice would be to stay well away from this guy.
He has been married ... (read in full...)
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