how am I meant to get over him when we both have the same circle of friends?
Q. for the past few months ive been gettin close wiv a guy n the feeling was mutual but things got a bit complicated n weird between us then after christmas we began to start spendin more time on our own n gettin closer, but i know he's jus messin ...
A. 19 February 2007: Are you totally sure you want to get over this guy?. It sounds to me like their is some pretty strong chemistry between the two of you. You even say when you are around each other you both flirt like crazy. If you want to get over him then when he ... (read in full...)
Going out of my mind over my workmate!
Q. I am totally going out of my mind for this guy i work with, who is 30. I have been working there since the summer and am not a permanent member of staff. At first i thought he diden't like me, then something happened, he started acting differently ...
A. 18 February 2007: You say you have been working there since the summer, and its now February. So the likellhood of him asking you out any time soon is somewhat remote.
My guess is that he is either shy or scared of you rejecting him, as you are with him.
Do the two ... (read in full...)
Can i make her like me?
Q. Hi, I just wanted to know what I should do, before we get started I'm 14 ok? Well I recently been on a school trip to Spain, I met this girl and we've become good friends, I know she doesn't fancy me (for want of a better term) but I think I've ...
A. 18 February 2007: When you say she dosen't fancy you, has she physically come up to you and told her this?.
If you want her to like you all you can do really is just be her friend, talk to her, her likes, dislikes, what music does she like ect. then throw in some... (read in full...)
Have I scared him off already??
Q. Ok...last night n this club i met this amazing and great lookin guy (im 18 hes 25) i very rarely feel a connection with someone but with him i did. We instantly clicked. He was sayin that he could imagine himself with someone like me. I was kind...
A. 18 February 2007: Like CD says give him more time. He text you what you wanted to do, and you replied a meal and drinks. Maybe he is trying to find or book a nice place for the two of you to eat.
I would not at this stage text him back asking why he hasen't repl... (read in full...)
Have I scared him off already??
Q. Ok...last night n this club i met this amazing and great lookin guy (im 18 hes 25) i very rarely feel a connection with someone but with him i did. We instantly clicked. He was sayin that he could imagine himself with someone like me. I was kind...
A. 18 February 2007: Like CD says give him more time. He text you what you wanted to do, and you replied a meal and drinks. Maybe he is trying to find or book a nice place for the two of you to eat.
I would not at this stage text him back asking why he hasen't repl... (read in full...)
Have I scared him off already??
Q. Ok...last night n this club i met this amazing and great lookin guy (im 18 hes 25) i very rarely feel a connection with someone but with him i did. We instantly clicked. He was sayin that he could imagine himself with someone like me. I was kind...
A. 18 February 2007: Like CD says give him more time. He text you what you wanted to do, and you replied a meal and drinks. Maybe he is trying to find or book a nice place for the two of you to eat.
I would not at this stage text him back asking why he hasen't repl... (read in full...)
Have I scared him off already??
Q. Ok...last night n this club i met this amazing and great lookin guy (im 18 hes 25) i very rarely feel a connection with someone but with him i did. We instantly clicked. He was sayin that he could imagine himself with someone like me. I was kind...
A. 18 February 2007: Like CD says give him more time. He text you what you wanted to do, and you replied a meal and drinks. Maybe he is trying to find or book a nice place for the two of you to eat.
I would not at this stage text him back asking why he hasen't repl... (read in full...)
Have I scared him off already??
Q. Ok...last night n this club i met this amazing and great lookin guy (im 18 hes 25) i very rarely feel a connection with someone but with him i did. We instantly clicked. He was sayin that he could imagine himself with someone like me. I was kind...
A. 18 February 2007: Like CD says give him more time. He text you what you wanted to do, and you replied a meal and drinks. Maybe he is trying to find or book a nice place for the two of you to eat.
I would not at this stage text him back asking why he hasen't repl... (read in full...)
Have I scared him off already??
Q. Ok...last night n this club i met this amazing and great lookin guy (im 18 hes 25) i very rarely feel a connection with someone but with him i did. We instantly clicked. He was sayin that he could imagine himself with someone like me. I was kind...
A. 18 February 2007: Like CD says give him more time. He text you what you wanted to do, and you replied a meal and drinks. Maybe he is trying to find or book a nice place for the two of you to eat.
I would not at this stage text him back asking why he hasen't repl... (read in full...)
Would it be bad if i started something with my teacher??
Q. Alright so I'm 17 and I have a HUGE crush on my teacher at school...he was my bio teacher when i was a sophomore, and now I'm a senior. He always talks to me still and he makes it obvious that he goes out of his way to do it. When we walk down the...
A. 18 February 2007: I think as you said, your best bet would be that if you were thinking of starting something up with this guy it would be better to wait untill you have graduated. Don't think about it while he is still your teacher as he could get into trouble for ... (read in full...)
I'm 17, he's 57 and married! Do you think he's using me or will he ever leave his wife?
Q. Am 17 and i have been going with a 57 year old married man for 6 months. We really love each other to bits, but i feel that he is never going to leave his wife for me! He says all the time that he wishes he doesnt have to leave me when hes going ...
A. 18 February 2007: I think the other posts have summed this one up for you. What on earth does a 17 year old see in a 57 year and vice versa.
If you both got together when you are his age he will be 97, It dosen't sound so attractive then does it.
I say find som... (read in full...)
I have a bf but I really like my male housemate! What should I do?
Q. dear cupid, i have a boyfriend and i am at university. however i have recently become attracted to my housemate George, when we're out we dance together and he makes me laugh, i get on with him like i used to do with my boyfriend. others in my house ...
A. 18 February 2007: If you are starting to get feelings for this house mate then you must do the decent thing a break it off with you boyfriend. There is obviously chemistry brewing between the pair of you, and you also mentioned you want him to kiss you.
Do the righ... (read in full...)
I have a perfect bf but out of no where I've started to think about my ex. Will this pass?
Q. I'll try to make this quick. I've been totally in love for the last year, moved in with my bf, started talking about marrige, everything was perfect. His BFF died 2 months ago. Since then I havent felt the same. I don't think he's really changed ...
A. 17 February 2007: I think its normal to have thoughts of an ex. After all they have played a part in your life, so naturaly you are going to have memories to reflect back on, and more so because he was your first love.
However your ex did the dirty on you, what make... (read in full...)
Body building and muscle toning advice needed! Any thoughts?
Q. I hope this gets posted, I would appreciate some advice on this. I'm 22yr, male, excellent health, average height, 73kg weight, my metabolism is very good, and my body has the potential to look great, I'm slender, but can tone my body, and improv...
A. 17 February 2007: I train maybe three or four times a week, as long as i get each body part done in that week that good.
Jiser summed it up pretty good for you.
I find that protein supplements are a good way of building muscle quickly.
try Maximuscle, they ... (read in full...)
I have a crush on my cousin, should I tell her?
Q. hello agony aunts i have had a crush for my cousin for more than 2 years now and they are not going away, my problem now is that i have been dreaming about her and she is also going around my head 24/7, is this normal, as i have asked once but g...
A. 17 February 2007: You have already asked her out once, so the likelihood of her having changed her mind if you ask her again is somewhat romote.
I know its hard when you have feelings for someone, and you don't want to let it go, but i think on this one you are goin... (read in full...)
What could be some reasons that my boyfriend doesn't want to move in together?
Q. What could be some reasons that my boyfriend doesn't want to move in together? We have been fighting a lot and were trying to work things out and that is the reason he told me he doesn't want to move in together. It could be very true that its ju...
A. 17 February 2007: I think you are reading to much into why he desen't want to move in with you.
The first one sounds like a very plausible reason why he dosen't, and i would be inclined to believe this.
If the two of you are fighting alot lately it's not generall... (read in full...)
How do I tell my parents I want to move in with my LD bf and that we are to be engaged this summer?
Q. ok i have this bf that i met on the net he lives 200 miles away and i spent a few days at his but my parents thought i was clubbing in Sheffield. he should be coming to stay few days in april then im back to his in may and he back down in july for...
A. 17 February 2007: Just be honest with with your parents and tell them the way it is.
Tell them that you met this great guy and we are getting engaged and moving in together.
Im sure your parents will be pleased for the two of you.
Good luck x... (read in full...)
Always been a faithful wife but another man is interested and I'm tempted! What should I do?
Q. i need help! i am a married woman who has been faithful to her husband, but the problem is, hes away working for long periods sometimes 2-3 months. its not possible for me to go with him, but i miss him and i get so lonely sometimes, another married ...
A. 17 February 2007: Don't do it!!!!!
You love you Husband, you made a commitment to him when you married him. He is working away trying no doubt to earn a decent wage so the both of you can have a better life.
Don't repay him by sleeping with someone else behind h... (read in full...)
His mother hates me and broke us up. How do I deal with this?
Q. I am in love with this guy, and i was with him 8 months last year we got enagaged never had a argument or anything we were so happy but his mum hated me and he lived with her she made him leave me, we still love each other loads and want to ...
A. 17 February 2007: The youngest you can be is 16, that would make him 27. That is quite and age gap for a 16 year old. Its different if the 11 year gap was 20 and 31. I say this because at 16 you don't truly know what you want, although you may think you do.
I thin... (read in full...)
should two married people have an affair if they have known eachother for a while, but sparks just started?
Q. should two married people have an affair if they have known eachother for a while, but sparks just started?...
A. 17 February 2007: Just as the other to posts have stipulated, you alreay know the answer to this question.
An affair is a no go whether you have known them 20 years, or five minutes, regardless of sparks.
... (read in full...)
How can I get my husband to spend more time with me?
Q. my husband seems to not want to spend time with me. he's in a car club and he's always there. when he is home he's not very nice. what do i do?...
A. 17 February 2007: Without knowing to much information regarding your circumstances i would say you best bet would be to sit him down and tell him the way you are feeling.
Tell him you want to spend more time together, and for him to be more loving to you when you ... (read in full...)
Is this love...what do you all think?
Q. I miss him when Im not with him and when Im not talking to him. I love spending time with him. Enjoy listening bout his likes/dislikes and how his day has been. Is this love?...
A. 16 February 2007: like the fonz says its the begining of how love starts. Keep going the way you are going and im sure it will materialise in to love.
Enjoy it, and good luck x... (read in full...)
My girlfriend told me that she can't remember what I look like when I'm not around. Am I just being sensitive?
Q. My girlfriend told me that she can't remember what I look like when I'm not around. She obviously recognises me when she sees me of course. Yet she says that she can remember what my brothers look like! Does this mean anything? or am I just bei...
A. 16 February 2007: Have the two of you not been with each other very long? Or do you not see each other very often?
Im just trying to draw a picture here of why she would say this. Maybe its to cause you feelings of jelousy. To say that she can't remember what you... (read in full...)
I am happily married, but my guy on the side drives me wild! I don't want to hurt my husband, though. Help!
Q. Im very happily married and met someone on a works night out - i have really fallen for him (have only kissed him so far but he drives me wild)i have very strong feelings for him, but love my husband and dont want to hurt anyone. Please help...
A. 16 February 2007: If you love you Husband and don't want to hurt anyone, then i would stop seeing this guy that you met on a works night out.
Ok so you have kissed him, leave it at that at get on with you marriage to your Husband. If you continue with this other guy,... (read in full...)
How can you tell the difference between love, lust and obsession?
Q. How do you know when your in love? Because sumtimes you think you are and it could be lust or obsession or sumthing else?...
A. 16 February 2007: Love is when you care about someone more than you care for yourself, you would do anything for this person. You think about them 24/7 from when you wake up, till your head hits the pillow at night. They are your soulmate.
Lust is more of a shortl... (read in full...)
Is it a bad idea to date a work colleague?
Q. Hi everyone...I am in need of advice. I like a guy I work with...we like each other. I am afraid to get any closer though. A lot of problems could evolve when dating someone you work with, right? I'm not too sure. but would like some advice on the ...
A. 16 February 2007: It depends on your place of work really. I like a girl where i work, we flirt all the time. But because it is such a close environment if something were to happen one of us would have to be prepared to leave.
But if for instance in your place if y... (read in full...)
Why do people always seem to go for partners who are already with someone else?
Q. Why do people always go for guys that have a bf/gf? I hate these girls that always hits on him and invites him to party and drink with them even though they know he has me. Why do they do that? Are they just getting too old and desperately need...
A. 16 February 2007: I think it really boils down to one answer really and that is wanting someting you haven't got, that someone else has got.
Like woman who go for married men, its the thrill of going after something thats forbidden. But would that married man be so a... (read in full...)
We are both very shy but I know he likes me. Should I take the initiative here?
Q. Hello I have got a problem i really like this boy at my school, in fact i mite even love him but im not sure he feels the same way. this is what he does to make me think he mite feel the same way - he will smile at me for no reason , look at me and ...
A. 16 February 2007: Arrr, this is so sweet. It sounds like he really likes you, but he is to shy to do anything, and so are you.
If you are to scared to talk to him face to face why don't you write him a letter, or better still if you have his Email address send him ... (read in full...)
Why am I feeling like this? Should I break up with him or not?
Q. i need help ASAP.I've been with this guy for 2 weeks. i havent known him long and have a feeling it may of been a bit fast. when im with him its fine, a bit quiet sometimes as we dnt have that many of the same interests i've recently realised. But ...
A. 16 February 2007: You have only been together two weeks. If you are not sure whether you want to split up with him or not, stick it out for another couple of weeks, then access the situation then.
If you come to the conclusion that he is not for you, do tell him your... (read in full...)
Why do nice guys always finish last?
Q. Why do nice guys finish last? If so, why? I never appreciated why women go for guys who treat them bad....
A. 16 February 2007: Its true some girls seem to go back to the ones who treat them bad. It like a woman thats has been hit by her guy, and you think why on earth does she keep going back to him all the time, its ridiculous.
The flip side of that coin is there are alot... (read in full...)
I have been with my boyfriend for 5 years, he is marriage material but I feel like things are getting a little boring! Should I break up with him or what?
Q. Relationship advise wanted! I am 24 and my boyfriend is 30. We have been together for just over 5 years, but I am starting to feel like things are getting a little boring. He is awesome, but I am not ready for marriage and I have not had a sexual ...
A. 16 February 2007: I think you should stay with your current partner, you have been together for five years and sounds like a really nice guy.
Say you were to ditch him, you could find yourself playing the dating game for a long time. You might look at those guys at t... (read in full...)
My boyfriend can't get an erection unless his penis is in contact with my genitals! Why is this?
Q. my boyfriend can't get an erection unless his penis is in contact with my genitals. Plus he often loses it halfway through sex or can't get it up altogether. No amount of foreplay or oral can get him back on track. He says "it's not you it just has ...
A. 16 February 2007: there are many things that can contibute to erectile disfunction. Stress or something he is worrying about, depression. Or alchohol can play a big part also, what we call brewers droop.
get him to pop along to your local GP, im sure maybe he can ... (read in full...)
Why does this keep happening with guys? What's up with me?
Q. I haver dated 3 different guys within the time period between June and now (which is February). I am begining to become a bit unsettled by the fact that each guy I've been with has given me the clear impression that he's very interested in me. ...
A. 16 February 2007: Don't get into your head that you are the one with the problem because you are not. Just because you are not the one for these guys does not mean that there is something wrong with you.
You are still young, sooner or later you will meet the perf... (read in full...)
I want to suck on this guys toes but he thinks it is gross!
Q. I really like guys feet, but it's not like a full-blown fetish. But I want to suck on this guys toes...but he's not my boyfriend, and he's got a girlfriend! He knows I like feet (he also knows that I don't like them to the point of obsession), but ...
A. 16 February 2007: all you can do ask him, if he says no way, well then thats that i guess.
Ask him, he might be really happy to have his toes sucked. Just make sure he's got clean feet before you go diving in. Theres probably nothing worse than getting toe fluf... (read in full...)
She seems so into him but makes passes at me!!!
Q. Hi. I am 16 years old. I have a close female friend who I have very strong feelings for. We met last year around April or May, and were going out for some time. It has been about 3 months since the last time we hooked up, however, we have remained ...
A. 16 February 2007: I think she was leading you on abit while you were watching the film, which is wrong as she has a boyfriend.
I woulden't encourage this girl, as you said her boyfriend could do you some damage. This is not a circle you want to move in.
Stay ... (read in full...)
I love her but she writes down my behaviour and i'm always in the wrong!
Q. How do i get around this? I have been with my woman 3 years. I seem to be always wrong about something. If i`m tired,i`m falling asleep on her.If she`s tired,she`s tired,end of story. When we go shopping its a case of hours,if i look at something ...
A. 16 February 2007: It sounds like you are under the thumb to me. She has completely taken charge of the relationhip, and seems to be wearing the trousers.
She is keeping a diary on your behaviour like you are twelve years old, you are a grown man for goodness sake... (read in full...)
How do I get him back or do something to get over him?
Q. Me and my ex boyfriend have been dating off and on for about a year and a half a total of eight times, this last time, he broke up with me and now he is dating another girl who he seems to like alot and it kills me to see them together, But all i ...
A. 16 February 2007: You are still very young, and what you are feeling at the moment is perfectly normal. you really liked this guy, so of course its going to be hard to see him dating another girl.
I know its tough and you probably don't think it now, but you will... (read in full...)
I get really nervous and self conscious around girls, any advice agony uncles?
Q. help me. every time i get close to girls and make good conversation to them, and i know they like me, although im not sure as a friend or more, i get stuck. i start getting really nervous around them, well not in class talking and all, but like ...
A. 16 February 2007: I know just how you feel, when you really like someone you get tongue tied, and all the butterflies racing round in your tummy.
If they like you they are probally feeling just as nervous as you are, and are probally as self conscious too.
All y... (read in full...)
Is it weird to love a celebrity?
Q. Is it weird to love a celebrity more than normal? Do I like that celebrity or is just fan love?...
A. 16 February 2007: I think it it perfectly normal to have these sort of feelings for a celebrity, espessially at your age. I think its more of an infatuation rather than love, and these things do tend to pass.... (read in full...)
Should I tell him the valentine card I sent him is from me?
Q. there is this boy ive liked before summer and i think hes so nice but he doesnt really know me and ive never really talked to him. i sent him a valentines card through my cousin and now he thinks my cousin fancies him and everyone keeps asking if ...
A. 15 February 2007: I think he is going to find out who sent the card sooner or later whether it be from your cousin or from someone else.
I would tell him its you, he would probably prefer to hear it from you than from a third party.
Don't be scared to tell him, i b... (read in full...)
After his climax, he's dressed and ready to go out for food! What about my needs?!?!
Q. It's like it's all about him! How can I make him see I have needs, too? My boyfriend and I are really close. We've been together for a year, but after the first five months of having sex (It's month nine and a half), he kind of lost interest in...
A. 15 February 2007: You have got to say something otherwise the problem will only get worse and he will think as long as he gets his pleasure thats it.
Sit him down and tell him your feelings, tell him how unfulfilled and unsatisfyed you feel, and you have needs also... (read in full...)
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