He seemed to be into me and now hes lost interest!!
Q. What should i do in this situation?I like this guy ALOT,we used to work together,all he ever did was to look at me,but it never led to anything..I stil see him as hes a technician,im really into this guy yet it seems like he lost interst,i still see ...
A. 20 May 2007: Ok so the two of you used to work together, he used to look at you all the time which implies that he liked you. Maybe it never lead to anything because he was trying to keep it professional because of your working relationship. You say he has lost ... (read in full...)
How can I learn to trust men, when every guy I've dated dumps me after sex!?
Q. Okay, I dated this guy for like a week, and it was more of just a fling, but does that give him a right to just dump me after having sex.. even though I told him all about my past and how every guy always does that to me. He promised he wouldn't ...
A. 20 May 2007: It sounds like the guys you are meeting are just going out with you for sex. Spinning you a load of lies, and then listening to you talk about your past, only to get you into bed.
Are you meeting these guy's in bars and clubs?. if you are these are ... (read in full...)
I really like this guy, who I turned down for a date, 4 years ago. What should I do?
Q. this boy asked me out four years ago when i was 11 and i said no cause i was stupid, young and scared but soon after i started to really fancy him. now i'm 15 and i still haven't got over him properly- that's my problem. i care about him so much and ...
A. 20 May 2007: Alot of water has gone under the bridge since he asked you out, and you are now four years older, and more mature than you was.
Try to make a friend out of him first, ask him if he had a nice weekend, and what did he do ect. When you feel thin... (read in full...)
How do I get the guts to talk to this guy I like at work?
Q. i really like this lad who works in the same place as me the problem is i have never even had a conversation with him and i feel like a tit even if he just looks in my direction and i havent got the gurts to start to talking to him 1st any advice on ...
A. 20 May 2007: As you pair of you work in an office it should be easy for you to strike up a conversation with him, easier than a bar or in a supermarket or something.
Make a friend out of him, ask him if he had a nice weekend and what did he do, then grad... (read in full...)
Are there any creams out there to get rid of discolored skin from severe acne?
Q. on my face i have discoloured skin when i had severe acne. when my spots went it left dark marks. is there anyway to get rid of them? any creams or are they a load of rubbish?...
A. 20 May 2007: Try a product called Bio oil, it contains the breakthrough ingredient Purcellin oil and is good on scars, stretch marks, uneven skin tone, blemishes, dark spots, and dehydrated skin. It can be found in super drug outlets, or search on Ebay under ... (read in full...)
Found out my parter of 16 years was cheating! She's gone..so how do I stop dwelling on her?
Q. I was with my partner for 16 years and its been 8months since we separated. I found out that she might have been cheating me. Since she had found a new boyfriend within a week. She basically left with no expanation and has not made any contact ...
A. 19 May 2007: Its never easy splitting up with someone that you have loved, and been in a relationship with, 16 years is a long time the two of you were in a relationship. You suspected she was cheating on you, then she finds a new boyfriend within a week, the ... (read in full...)
Why would he lose inerest, post-sex?
Q. Why would a guy loose interest in the girl once he had sex with her? ...
A. 18 May 2007: There could be a number of reasons, but the main one that springs to mind is that sex is all that this guy wanted. Once he has got what he wanted then he dosen't want to know anymore.
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Why would he lose inerest, post-sex?
Q. Why would a guy loose interest in the girl once he had sex with her? ...
A. 18 May 2007: There could be a number of reasons, but the main one that springs to mind is that sex is all that this guy wanted. Once he has got what he wanted then he dosen't want to know anymore.
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SITE NEWS: Video introduction to the site from Andrew, site founder!
Q. Message from Andrew, site founder: (let me know your comments!)...
A. 17 May 2007: Thought the vidio introduction was excellent, and its good to put a face to the guy that made it all happen. Keep them coming, cheers Andrew.
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Should I forgive my boyfriend for cheating and lying?
Q. should I forgive my boyfriend for cheating and lying?...
A. 17 May 2007: Without knowing to much about your situation here, is if he cheated and lied in the first place will he do it again?. Do you trust him totally?. If you haven't got trust then a relationship is doomed to fail.
If you have any doubts that he will chea... (read in full...)
His ex gf wants him back and he let me go until he can decide what he wants to do! Do I have a chance?
Q. ive been seeing a guy for a few weeks and things were going great, until of course his last girlfriend came along and told him she wants to give them another go! he has told me he is confused about how he feels and until he decides what he wants its ...
A. 17 May 2007: He has obviously got mixed feelings, he likes you, and has also still got feelings for his ex also. At least he did the right thing and told you its not fair to keep seeing you until he decides how he feels, that goes along way. I would be inclined ... (read in full...)
Why do people seem to be bailing on relationships so quickly these days? I just want someone to grow old with!
Q. Why do people seem to be hopping in and out of relationships these days at an increasing level of frequency? I find it really depressing. I want to find someone to grow old with, but I feel silly thinking this since most people tend to think it is ...
A. 17 May 2007: I know what you mean, i would love to find someone to grow old and grey with. It seems these days its all to easy to hop from one relationship to the next, whether there are married, have kids or not. Where as years ago going back to our parents, ... (read in full...)
What are the signs that the one I love loves me back?
Q. How would i know if a man i love feels the same way about me?...
A. 17 May 2007: By the way he acts around you, he will want to be with you all the time, stare passionately and lovingly in to you eyes. Give up cerain things to be with you, and always find excuses to touch and kiss you.
People all act differenly and show diff... (read in full...)
How can get to go out with her alone?
Q. i'm dead crazy in love with this girl. i asked her if she wanna go cinema she automatically thinks about bringing her mates, i dont know if she does it on purpose! i want to ask her to the cinema alone! so i want to ask her out to cinema alone ...
A. 17 May 2007: I don't think she does it on purpose, they are probably close friends of her, don't take it personally. Next time you ask her out say to her do you fancy going to the cinema just the two of us. If she says yes then all well and good. But if she ... (read in full...)
Does it mean that he likes me if he picks on me?
Q. If a boy picks on a girl does that mean the boy likes her or not?...
A. 17 May 2007: Its hard to say, it depends on what he picks on you for. It could well be that he likes you, as at this age he can't express his feelings for you, so all he can do is be horrible.
Try being nice to him and see what sort of reaction you get.
Goo... (read in full...)
He has a profile stating that he is single. Am I right not to trust him?
Q. i love my bf so much...but i don't trust him, i was informed by a friend about a profile of his which states he is single, looking for fun and includes 'private pictures'. i discovered his password and i have been checking the site every day for ...
A. 17 May 2007: I think you are right not to trust this guy, he is obviously looking for fun with other women, and is claiming that he is single. It all sounds very devious to me, and i would refrain from moving in with him untill you obtain concrete evidence that ... (read in full...)
His Mother found out my age and told her son to dump me! What can I do?
Q. hi, ive got a big problem with my bf. Me and my bf have 3 years difference (i am 13 he is 16) we have already talked about sex and made sure we have eachothers trust neither of us are going to take advantage. But his mum has found out my age and h...
A. 15 May 2007: I don't think his mother has got anything against you, so don't take it personal. Its purely you age, that you are only 13, and he is 16. I know that initially 3 years is no age gap atal, like say you were 17 and he was 20. But 13 and 16 his mum is ... (read in full...)
I need the courage to go up to him and say hi...any advice?
Q. i really like this guy, but the thing is i havent even said hi to him and i kinda think he likes me but i cant get the courage to talk to him what should i do?...
A. 15 May 2007: Maybe flirt with him a little, hold eye contact with him, smile and look away. If he returns you gaze then he is into you. Make a friend out of him, ask him if he fancies doing something after school one day, i bet he will be only to pleased to go ... (read in full...)
My gf doesn't want sex anymore! How do you go from wanting it all the time to not at all?
Q. I am 24 yrs old and my girlfriend is 21. we have been together almost 3 yrs. at the beginning of our relationship we were both sex addicts. all the time and anywhere. but for the past few months her sex craving has gone down (so she says) but now ...
A. 15 May 2007: I guess all that having sex everywhere and everywhere is known as the honymoon period, and naturally dies down. But for the sex to become non-existent, there is something obviously on her mind. Sit her down and have a one to one, maybe over dinner ... (read in full...)
She started hanging out with her ex and a bunch of other male friends! Should I believe her when she claims they are just friends.
Q. what's going on? we have been together for almost 3 years off and on and between that time i have moved in with her. the last fight we had she kicked me out. then she started hanging out with her ex and a bunch of other male friends but she claims ...
A. 15 May 2007: If i was in a relationship with someone for almost three years, then they said that they are hanging with their ex and his mates i would be somewhat suspicious to say the least. After all an ex is someone she has been close too, shared intimate ... (read in full...)
Why won't he tell me about his dreams about me?
Q. hey im 16 an so is my boyfriend who i have been with for 5 months. today we were talking about our dreams and i was asking him if he had any about me ever. he said he does but he doesn't really want to tell me what some of them are. then he said 'we...
A. 15 May 2007: Like here 2 help says, the dreams are sexual, he is probably to embarrassed to tell you, which is why he said can't you guess why im not going to tell you.
Don't worry this is perfecly normal, and kind of sweet.
Good luck x... (read in full...)
How do I get rid of the stretch marks?
Q. hello agony aunts i am ashamed of my stretch marks on my body and i don't go swimming or do anything that show them, i mean their not the ones u cant miss, their bright red and I'm training to lose weight etc. and cant seem to get rid of them. Doe...
A. 15 May 2007: Like anonymous says try Bio Oil, its great for strech marks scars, blemishes ect. You can obtain it in super drug, or search for it on ebay under health care.
Good luck ... (read in full...)
Does my attentive teacher fancy me?
Q. I have a bit of a problem I just want to know if my teacher likes me, one of my best friends, I told her everything about this situation and she definitely thinks he does. She can tell because he's always teasing me, saying my name a lot, trea...
A. 15 May 2007: Im not sure of the actual age difference between the pair of you, but i would leave this one alone, at least untill you have left school. You could of course just be misreading the signs, and misinterpreting his friendly ways as something else. He ... (read in full...)
We've been together 4 years but I have loving feelings for someone else! What do I do?
Q. I'm in a great long term relationship of 4 years with my boyfriend. He's sweet and loving but recently I've found myself having loving feelings towards someone else. I'm afraid that if i say something to my boyfriend he'll leave me and if i say ...
A. 14 May 2007: Ask yourself whether these feelings you are having for this other guy are that of love, or just a five minute lust thing. Only you can work out what these feelings are, but be careful because its so easy to confuse love and lust.
If you think it c... (read in full...)
Would it be right to get back with my ex after he cheated? I still love him!,
Q. would it be rite to get bk with my ex after he cheated, i was seeing sum1 else to but didn't sleep with this guy while livin with my ex, he had a drunken 1 nite stand and i kicked him out. im now this the lad i was seeing an starting to have seccond ...
A. 14 May 2007: If you still love him and he love's you, and you are both willing to forget the past then i don't see any reason why you ca't get through this. But before you do be absolutely certain that is what you want, and he would not cheat on you again.
... (read in full...)
17 and in love with a 12 year old boy... is it wrong?
Q. i'm a 17 year old girl and i think i'm in love with a 12 year old boy. we're friends and we hang out almost everyday. he's friends with my brother who is 13 and that's how i met him. most of my friends are younger then me(like 12 and older) because ...
A. 14 May 2007: My opinion is this is wrong, he is only 12 years old, you are a 17 year old girl. You have a maturity level that far supersedes his. A girl is effectively 5 years ahead of boys in the maturity steaks, which is why mostly girls of 16 17 18 onwards ... (read in full...)
Can only make love if I think of my ex... will this last forever?
Q. i still love my x i no this but i have exepted that she doesnt want me wich hurts i am having sex with another women but the only way i can get it up is if i think off my x will this eventually change...
A. 14 May 2007: Its abit worrying that you have to think of your ex while having sex with another woman, i hope you don't call out her name too lol.
Over time your feelings for your ex will diminish over time, how long it takes all depends on you, how strong ment... (read in full...)
What is the best way to ask her out?
Q. i really like this girl. i want to ask her to the cinema just as mates. she's always around her mates. i'm afraid she'll say no. we are friends but dont talk to much in school although online we talk more often. any suggestions how i can go about as...
A. 14 May 2007: I don't see any harm in just going up to her and ask her if she fancies catching a movie at the weekend. Whats the worst she can say, no. Well at least you will have tried and know where you stand and can move on.
But you never will know what she ... (read in full...)
Why do I always fall for people who are not interested in me?
Q. I am sixteen years old and I have never had a boyfriend. I am not delusional. I know that I am not extraordinarily pretty. And I know that not everyone you fall for will feel the same way towards you. But, seriously, for me it's a repetitiv...
A. 14 May 2007: Im affraid thats just the way it goes sometimes. Invariably we find that the ones we don't fancy like us, and the ones we really fancy alot don't feel the same way.
All i can say is you are still very young, go out have fun with your friends, enjo... (read in full...)
Would it be right for us to have a baby before the marriage?
Q. hi everyone i just need an advice from you guys, im with my bf for a year now then just recently he asked me for us to make a baby just to make sure that we could have one he's 30 and im 26, i told him that i wanted marriage first before anything ...
A. 14 May 2007: I would want to be 100% sure that this is the guy for you, if you find out he is not after you have had his child it could work out to be a very costly mistake. Like Mitch says get a fertility test to find out if you can both have children.... (read in full...)
should I feel insecure because my husband is watching porn?
Q. I caught my husband jacking off to internet porn. This makes my so insecure about us. Should it?...
A. 13 May 2007: I agree with rhythmandblues2, this is an insult to you. What is he thinking carrying out acts like this while you are in the other room. I would nip this in the bud as soon as possible, talk to him, express how disgusted you are and it has got to ... (read in full...)
He wants me out of the house but half of it is mine!
Q. Today my partner has just got back from another weekend away to get away from me. He wants me to move to my mams as things are bad and he doesn't want to be around me. The house is in both our names and i keep refusing to go until he gives me my s...
A. 13 May 2007: you need to get this house on the market as soon as possible and what ever the house makes is to be split right down the middle. And while you are at it i would ditch this guy, he sounds like a right piece of work to me. You need to find someone who ... (read in full...)
how can I make myself last longer?
Q. I'm 19 boy, i have to thank you'll for the last reply u'll sent, i cant have sex with my girlfriend for a long time, coz my things(u know what i mean) go out quickly (sperms), how can i avoid that? Is there any way out without taking any medicine. ...
A. 13 May 2007: When you are in the middle of lovemaking and you feel you are going to elaculate, and its to soon, withdraw and do some forplay or something, this will give your sperms a chance to calm down again.
Or another thing is to think of something that... (read in full...)
I like my friend's ex, but she is still in love with him. Should I forget about her?
Q. I like this girl but she recently broke up with a mate of mine, but she still likes him. Last night i told her that i like her but she said that we could only be friends because of the situation she is in. should i just forget about her and what i ...
A. 13 May 2007: She has only just split up with your mate, i think you made a move on her to soon, of course she was going to decline your offer as she's still carrying a torch for your mate.
I would be inclined to forget about her and what you said and move on. ... (read in full...)
I want my friend to accept my new style, but she calls me name. What can I tell her?
Q. I'm starting to turn into an emo. I have dyed my hair black and I really feel like one but My best mate that I have known for 8 years doesn't like them and she doesn't like what Ive become and I hang around with all the goths and emos now and She ...
A. 13 May 2007: I think this is not very nice of your friend, calling you names, and getting others to join in on it also. Ok so you have changed you appearance, you hang out with new mates, she doesen't like it, so the problem here lies with her not you.
All you ... (read in full...)
why am I always jealous?
Q. hi! i have a serious relationship and I'm always jealous. i think I've been jealous for almost all the girls we know. please help. sometimes it is because i see in his actions towards other girls that he's sweet and i get jealous. am i wrong or I'm ...
A. 13 May 2007: you have got to stop these acts of jealousy, otherwise you risk pushing your boyfriend away. He sounds like a nice guy, and is just being friendly to everyone, don't make his actions into something that they are not. He is with you, you love him, he ... (read in full...)
Is my super-low self esteem preventing guys from being interested in me?
Q. I'm 15 and I've never had a boyfriend, and I don't know why. I'm intelligent and even went to and placed in state track this year(as a freshman). Unfortunately, my self-esteem is practically non-existant. Could this be preventing me from having a ...
A. 13 May 2007: You are still very young, you have got all the time in the world to meet someone. As you mature and reach 17 18 19 you will change alot, and you self esteem and confidence will grow with you.
Enjoy being young, have fun with you mates, and don'... (read in full...)
Why won't he let me go out with friends? I feel like a prisoner!
Q. Hi I would like a little bit of advice about a slight problem that i am facing with my husband. I am 23 and my husband does not want me to go out with my friends or my sister (I go out once every 2-3 months not often at all) he always tells me to be ...
A. 12 May 2007: You have got to talk to your husband about this and get something sorted, otherwise this marriage is set to fail. You already feel like a prisoner, and over time you are going to build up feelings of resentment, and these feelings are bad.
You husb... (read in full...)
I have a very strong feeling he wants to tell me something. Should I be the one to say something first?
Q. There is a guy that I work with. He seems to be attracted to me. He is very attentive and my co-workers have noticed this, too. He is very shy, and I dont think he wants to risk getting involved in a scandal at the work place, so he never comes ...
A. 12 May 2007: I think this guy is attracted to you, but there could be a number of reasons why he has not said anything. As you say he is shy, so the likellhood of him saying anything to you is somewhat remote. He could also be trying to keep the relationship on ... (read in full...)
If a guy takes a long time to ask you out, does he have doubts about you?
Q. If a guy takes long to ask u out,does he have doubts about u? All he does is stare at my hair, earrings, lips then back into my eyes, when he's close by he will look deep into my eyes.. Its been going on for months and i doubt he knows that i like ...
A. 12 May 2007: I don't think that because you are Indian and he is white is the issue with this guy. The likellhood is he is shy or scared of asking you out. It is so obvious he is in to you by thee things he does, like staring at your hair, and gazing into your ... (read in full...)
I'm 14 and this 17 year old guy has been all over me lately I really like him but I know all that he wants is sex.
Q. I'm 14 and this 17 year old guy has been all over me lately I really like him but I know all that he wants is sex. What should I do?...
A. 12 May 2007: I would walk away from this guy, you are far to young to be thinking about doing things like this yet, and he knows it.
Also were you to sleep with him he could get into alot of trouble for sleeping with an underage girl. He sounds like he just want... (read in full...)
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