My dad and uncle have raped me! I'd be better off dead..........
Q. im in a despreate postion my uncle and dad are not good people they rape and beat me they are drunk all day long please dont laugh this is my last hope to talk to anyone im 15 now and was 12 the first time i slept in the woods alone so i did...
A. 27 May 2007: This really upset me reading about this post, you sound like a nice person, and you have been going through quite an ordeal.
The first thing i am going to say is that you MUST report your Dad and your Uncle to the police, they can't get away with... (read in full...)
I feel used! Had sex with me but wants to date other females! what's wrong with me?
Q. i have slept with one of my mates from uni four times and have fallen for him. i thought he liked me because all the signs were there but he kissed someone infront of me the other night and keeps saying things like "i could shag her" (about other ...
A. 27 May 2007: There is nothing wrong with you whatsoever, there is however lots wrong with him. I would drop him like a bad habit, he has got no respect for you atal. He completely used you for sex, then bragged about he could s**g someone else, believe me you ... (read in full...)
Should girls ask guys out on a date?
Q. Is it all right for a girl to ask a guy out, or is it only supposed to be the guys who do the asking?...
A. 27 May 2007: In this day and age i don't think it look out of place for a girl to ask a guy out. There are alot of shy guys out there who are scared to approach woman, and would gladly accept an offer from the opposite sex.
If there is someone you want to ask ... (read in full...)
Tip needed..on how to cope with razor burn!
Q. I like to maintain my pubic hairs, but when I shave I always get razor burn. Any suggestions?...
A. 27 May 2007: LIke DV1 says change the razors regularly, and use a gel instead of a foam.
I also recommend after you have shaved down there, or anywhere for that matter use a nivea for women fresh cooling balm, which is menthol and vitimin enriched. This will... (read in full...)
Married for three years and tempted to stray with my co-worker... Help!
Q. I could really do with some advice. I am happily married - or thought I was- until I met this guy at work. He is all I can think about. I have never been tempted to stray at all in my three years of marriage but I am so tempted. I know that if i ...
A. 26 May 2007: So many affairs and relationships stem from the workplace. The reality is we spend and average of eight hours each and every day working alongside co-workers, which is more time than we spend with our partners.
I know what you are feeling, i feel... (read in full...)
I am finally happy after a cheating ex bf and 2 abortions! Now I find out the ex is having regrets? I am confused..help??
Q. I'm a 25 yr old girl in a relationship with a boy almost 4 yrs younger. While this relationship is working out well, the one before this was terrible. The guy I had known since forever (since I was 10 actually) but he kept cheating on me and we kept ...
A. 26 May 2007: I would treat your relationship with this ex of your as water under the bridge. He treated you very badly, cheated on you, so the likellhood is he has not changed.
You are now happy in a new relationship, with who i assume treats you good. So don'... (read in full...)
My gf doesn't pay much attention to me anymore! What should I do?
Q. I feel so sad lately. Me and my girlfriend both still live with our parents, so we only see each other like every other weekend. She says she loves me and I love her too. But she doesn't french me anymore, and everytime she comes over she just ...
A. 26 May 2007: I think you have got to talk to her about how you are feeling, and that how you feel she has been a little distant recently. Why don't you do something romantic for her, take her out for a nice meal and she how she responds to this. Sometimes its so ... (read in full...)
I get angry when he looks at other female forms! What should I do?
Q. hey im 16 and i have a boyfriend of 5 months. and we went to the beach 2day with loads of people nd girls in bikini's and stuff. and he kept looking at other girls boobs and legs and stuff. this drives me crazy and i just wanna shout to him and...
A. 26 May 2007: There is not alot you can do about him looking at other girls, as long as dosen't touch. I think sometimes for a guy its hard not to look, espessially like on a beach or something where everywhere you look there are women in bikini's.
At the end ... (read in full...)
After we had sex he said, "we are seeing each other, to see how we get along". What did that mean?
Q. hiya, slightly confused here. after to speaking to a few people i still have no idea so i bring the question here if you are seeing a guy, does it mean its nothing serious but really just sex? the line i was given was' we are seeing eachot...
A. 26 May 2007: If you are looking for something more than just sex then i would leave this one alone, as i get the impression that this is all that this guy is looking for. I would ditch this guy and find someone thats wants you for you, and not just for sex.
... (read in full...)
If he stares at you does that mean there could be 'love there"?
Q. When a men stares at you and you look at him that mean there could be love there. when a men says hi two you everytime he sees you does it mean the like you....
A. 26 May 2007: I thinks its early days to be using the term LOVE, a strong attraction maybe. I would only give a woman prolonged eye contact if i really fancied her. There is this girl at my work and we share long eye contact alot, and i am starting to fall for ... (read in full...)
Gf is finished with me! How can I get her back?
Q. my girlfriend finished with me because she doesnt want a boyfriend nomore,what can i do to get her back...
A. 26 May 2007: I think you have got to respect her decision that she does not want a boyfriend anymore. I don't think you should persue her as i think her mind is made up. There are plenty of other girls out there who im sure would love to have you as a ... (read in full...)
How long do I wait until I tell him I've made up my mind, and want to break it off?
Q. I recently told my bf of almost 9yrs I wanted to separated for a while. We started dating when I was 16, and I feel I have changed. He wants to marry and I don't. I told him that and I needed time to figure out what I want. He said it breaks his ...
A. 26 May 2007: I agree with DV1, you have got to tell him ASAP. The longer you leave it the harder it is going to get. I know its hard but sometimes we have got to be cruel to be kind. Sure he is going to be upset, but it will be a weight off your shoulders that ... (read in full...)
When a guy you know says he won't kiss you because you are drunk, what does that mean?
Q. Hi, i'm a bit confused. I know there are lots of guys who will gladly kiss a girl when she's drunk becuase i suppose it's easier for them to be taken advantage of and all that... however, when a guy you know says he won't kiss you because you are ...
A. 26 May 2007: I think he is respecting you and not taking advantage of someone who is under the influence of alcohol. It dosen't mean he dosen't like you atal, quite the opposite, i would stick with this guy, he sounds like one of the good ones.
Good luck x... (read in full...)
What is scat??
Q. I lost my virginity to my current boyfriend a few weeks ago. That's all well and fine, but now he's telling me that he has a fetish, "scat" I feel very embarrassed to ask him what this is. What is it?...
A. 24 May 2007: Like Nicola79 i was unsure what this was and i too have just looked it up, and yes its poo.
I have heard of some weird fetishes in my time but this one takes the buiscuit. Its foul, and if this is not for you then i would get rid of this curr... (read in full...)
Why would he stare if he didnt like me??
Q. I really like this guy, but i havent told him. Yesterday, we were sitting around with a couple of people. From the side of my eye, i caught him staring at me. I looked back, smiled, and he kept looking, even after i turned away. I think this is a ...
A. 24 May 2007: No i don't think its wishful thinkikng atal. When i really like someone i can't take my eyes off them. Eye contact is one of the most powerful flirtatious tools that you can use to let someone know you fancy them.
Maybe he is a little she to appr... (read in full...)
His penis goes soft when we have intercourse, now. Is he cheating or does he not love me anymore?
Q. Dear, cupid Me and my boyfriend have been together for about 4 months the first two months of our relationship was good,but now when we go to have sexual intercourse,his penis goes soft right away, does that mean he doesnt love me any more?Or ...
A. 23 May 2007: This is really common amongst men, and can affect anyone at any time. Try to introduce some sexual techniques that you have not tried before, experiment with oral sex to help him sustain his erection.
Also alcohol can be a big contributer to losi... (read in full...)
Do men respect women who make the first move?
Q. What do men think when a woman makes the first move towards getting to know each other? ...
A. 23 May 2007: I think its great. Its not uncommon in this day and age for the woman to make the first move, in fact i think women should do it more. There are shy guys out there who would probably welcome an approach from the opposite sex.
x... (read in full...)
Anything I can do to stop my hair thinning!?
Q. My hair used to be really really thick but over the past year has thinned out enormously and I fear baldness will be not far away. Is there anything I can do? Thanks....
A. 23 May 2007: As Tellulah says products that help hair loss can be very expensive.
I suggest you try A Loreal Elvive for men bodybuilding thickening shampoo containing the breakthrough ingredient regenium_xy.
Proven result 8 out of ten men experienced a thickeni... (read in full...)
Does the size of a penis increase when an adult is circumcised?
Q. Does the size of a penis increase when an adult is circumcised?...
A. 22 May 2007: I can't see how just removing some skin at the end of a penis will make it longer. So i will have to go with no it will stay the same lenth as it was. ... (read in full...)
A year on...and I cant cope without him!!
Q. About a year ago i fell deeply in love with this boy we went out for about 6 months. He asked me to do things i didnt want to do it scared me and i made an excuse and ended it. 1 year on i still love him and cant cope without him although his sister ...
A. 22 May 2007: I really feel for you here, i know what it feels like to be this age and to have the feelings you are having at the moment.
All i can say is although it does not feel like it now things will get better, i can assure you.
I would try to forget a... (read in full...)
Someone told my mom I was talking about sex - now my mom calls me deragatory names! Can she stop me from seeing my bf?
Q. this might not be a relationship, sex, or love question, but i need some advice! I HATE MY MOTHER!!! Okay so i was talking to someone and an adult went and said we were talking about sex and then that person told my mom. Now my mom is all the time...
A. 22 May 2007: The fact of the matter is until you reach 16 your mum is quite within her rights to cut you off from you boyfriend. While i can't condone the use of some of your Mothers terminology, considering your age, i think she has only got your best interests ... (read in full...)
How could I get attracted to someone else when I love my boyfriend?!
Q. I'VE been with my boyfriend for 4 years now and recently i'm finding i'm getting attracted to a co-worker.How is that possible since i love my boyfriend? could you love two guys at the same time....
A. 21 May 2007: So many affairs, relationships, ect start in the workplace. Statistics show that we actually spend more time with co-workers than we do with our prospective partners. I don't think you love this co-worker, but rather you have formed a feeling of ... (read in full...)
How do I tell my family that I want to spend the rest of my life with my girlfriend? She is a bit older and I'm afraid they might not approve?
Q. Hey everyone! Iam a 21 male and my GF is 24! We are already talking about spending the rest of our lives together. Her family knows about me but my parents do not know about her. Only my sister does. I want to tell my parents about her but I dont ...
A. 21 May 2007: You are 21 and she is 24, this is a three year age gap which is nothing atal. I mean if she was 44 then i could see why your parents might be a little concerned, but not for the sake of three measly years.
Choose the right moment and take her home... (read in full...)
How can I get to meet a nice girl? I've been single for 5 years now.
Q. I, need advice on how to get a girlfriend. Can any ladies out there help. I'm 29 and have been single for over 5 years now. But the fact is , that i never get to meet them. I never meet any through friends, as half of my friends have never had a ...
A. 21 May 2007: Meeting someone in a bar or a club is not the healthiest place to meet someone, invariably everyone has been drinking and are not really themselves.
Listen to those other people when they say about talking to people from work or the gym, these are ... (read in full...)
I've been together with him for 10 years but he still won't marry me. Why has he suddenly started sleeping in another room?
Q. after ten year with my children father and owning our home still I feel he is cheating because he sill won't marry me. He says its not me because I am a good person, what should I do. He has since recently started sleeping in another room what is ...
A. 21 May 2007: I think the key here is communication. He has obviously got underlying issues about something which is why he is refusing to marry you, and has gone to sleep in another room. You should demand an expalanation sooner rather than later, because things ... (read in full...)
He touched me, and now he's ignoring me again. Why?
Q. I'm addicted to this guy. He's nothing special to look at. He's just got something about him that makes me want to be with him all the time. It's been two years almost since we broke up and we hardly talked. But then randomly out of the blue he ...
A. 21 May 2007: It does sound like he is blowing hot and cold for some reason, maybe he is just unsure of how he feels at the moment. I think you have got to talk to him, next time you two are alone tell him how you feel, and ask him how he feels, ask him why ... (read in full...)
He's 7 years older than I am, should I say yes if he asks me out?
Q. I'm a college sophomore and at work I just met a grad school freshman who I suspect may ask me out, however I skipped two grades and he spent three years abroad...so it's a seven or eight year age difference. He doesn't realize I'm young for my ...
A. 21 May 2007: I think if you like him, and it feels right for you then you should say yes. 7 years is no big deal really, and also girls are normally 5 years ahead of boys in the maturity steaks anyway so you could cal it 2.
Age differences between couples is o... (read in full...)
How do I ask my wife for anal sex?
Q. How do I ask my wife for anal sex? We used to do it. I'd always wait for her to ask. No pressure! But now it's been about 4 years it doesn't happen. I miss it a lot....
A. 21 May 2007: Choose the correct moment to ask, like when you are both totally relaxed, over a bottle of wine of something, then ask her if she fancies attempting it again.
Good luck... (read in full...)
He says he will leave his wife for me, but I know it's not true, what can I do?
Q. Hi my names bebe and Im involved with a married man.He is my next door neighbour and Im very good friends with his wife.At first its was just a bit of fun but now we've fallen in love with each other.He keeps saying that hes going to leave his wife ...
A. 21 May 2007: I think this guy is stringing you along, and i would leave him alone. Invariably married guys never leave their wives, so ultimately you become the mistress, or bit on the side only seeing him when he can sneak away. He will fill you with false ... (read in full...)
Why won't she let me cum on her face?
Q. She let's me do it in her mouth everytime I ask, even swallows sometimes. She let's me do it on he rear all the time and once I did on her breasts but she will not let me ejaculate on her face. Isn't it unusual? Why do you think that is?...
A. 21 May 2007: I guess everyone is different, some girls like it, some don't. She obviously dosen't. Have respect that she dosen't like it. She lets you cum everywhere else, be happy with this.
... (read in full...)
When my bf goes away to visit his kids, I'm going to miss him terribly! What can I do?
Q. I've been going out with my bf who has been in the army for nearly a year now. I think the world of him. He has kids from a pre relationship and obviously wants to see them when he can. In July, he will go away for six weeks on leave. He is gonna se...
A. 21 May 2007: Six weeks is a long time to be apart. While he is away go out and do things that will help your mind occupied. Go out with friends, go to the gym, visit relatives, do an evening class. I say this because when you are stuck at home doing nothing the ... (read in full...)
We used to have a healthy sex life, now six months later it's the opposite! What is the problem?
Q. Dar Cupid, My boyfriend and I used to have a very healthy sex life. We would make love up to three times a day at times. No I am lucky if I get it three times a week. We used to be so spontanious, but seem to have lost it. We're only been tog...
A. 21 May 2007: It could just be a stage he is going through, mabey he is stressed over something. Whatever the reason i think comunication is the key issue here. You need to have a serious chat and tell him how you are feeling, and that you are unsatisfied with ... (read in full...)
Is there an age restriction on this site?
Q. Is there an age restriction on this site??? Kriscool ...
A. 21 May 2007: I have not seen any age restictions on this site, as dragonette says 10-12 is the youngest i have seen also.... (read in full...)
He likes me more that just a friend! I only want a friendship with him-How do I tell him without causing him hurt?
Q. i know is guy and weve been friends for like a week. hes awsome. he makes me laugh. hes kind. etc the problem is that i think (as all of my friends have alredy told me) that he wants to be more than "just friends" with me. I dont im fine with he ...
A. 20 May 2007: the only thing you do here is be brutally honest here and tell him the truth about how you feel. It sounds like he does fancy you alot, and the longer you leave it without saying anything the stronger his feelings will get for you. I know its hard ... (read in full...)
How many time should I be having sex with my wife?
Q. How many time should I be having sex with my wife?...
A. 20 May 2007: like the othere posts hacwe stipulated there is no guidlines or rules to say how many times a couple should be having sex. You and you wife have sex however many times you like, where ever and when you like. as many times as you are both comfortable ... (read in full...)
I want to date her, but she doesn't see me in that way. Any advice?
Q. hey im in high school and one of my best friends since i satrted the school, is a really hot, funny girl. i have asked her out, but she said she didnt like me in that way. but i cant stop thinking about her. being with her etc. i wanna ask her out ...
A. 20 May 2007: you are crushing on this girl big time, soon this mad feeling you are having about her will naturally die down, although it does not seem like it now.
You asked her out once so the likellhood of her saying yes as second time is somewhat remote. Why ... (read in full...)
I am skinny and my friends tell me to gain weight! Is being thin ...ugly??
Q. is being slim, ugly ? i'm really skiny not anorexic but like those skiny models but my friends say that i need to gain more weight!!!...
A. 20 May 2007: you should be proud that you are slim and are not over weight. I woulden't listen to your friends when they tell you to gain weight, it sounds like there could be abit of jealousy going on here.
And no being slim is most certainly not ugly, its more... (read in full...)
My husband doesnt contribrute to the household, is there any hope for us ?
Q. i am married, have three children, one from a previous relationship. me and husband both work, but he does not contribute much to the house hold or physically, the property we live in is too small and belongs to me, but i frightened to get joint ...
A. 20 May 2007: It sounds like you are having a tough time at the moment, your Husband sounds like he needs kicking into shape abit. For a start you are both married and should be contibuting to the house equally, it shoulden't be just down to you. Also he ... (read in full...)
I've fallen for her but shes married, she loves me too, but it can never be, Im so hurt and never loved before, please help!!
Q. I met one girl who is 10 years older to me in my office.She is married.But she liked me alot.She tried to talk with me and tried to come close to me.In the begining i tried alot to make her understand that its wrong.BUt after some time i started ...
A. 20 May 2007: My heart really goes out to you here, i can really relate to how you are feeling. I know the feelings you are having for her, thinking of her 27/7, butterflies racing round in your tummy.
Unfortunately everythings seems to be working against you,... (read in full...)
How can i find out if my ex is calling me names??
Q. hiya, I am 13 and recently i just broke up with my bf but i still like him. However, hes been calling me names and when a mate of mine asked him whether he was he said no and that his mates were making up stuff but another guy said that he was lyin...
A. 20 May 2007: I would be inclined not to believe everything that you are told, there seems to be some stirring going on here. Instead of your mate asking him if he has been saying stuff, why don't you ask him yourself. I know you say you are too shy, but really ... (read in full...)
He seemed to be into me and now hes lost interest!!
Q. What should i do in this situation?I like this guy ALOT,we used to work together,all he ever did was to look at me,but it never led to anything..I stil see him as hes a technician,im really into this guy yet it seems like he lost interst,i still see ...
A. 20 May 2007: Ok so the two of you used to work together, he used to look at you all the time which implies that he liked you. Maybe it never lead to anything because he was trying to keep it professional because of your working relationship. You say he has lost ... (read in full...)
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