I have a fairytale, perfect life. But not the man of my dreams to complete! What can I do?
Q. im 21 years old i have got the job of my dreams and soon to be having my own little cottage, but the only thing im missing is the man of my dreams.. sometimes i think is that just it a dream, i know which type of partner ide like but no one seems to ...
A. 19 June 2007: I know you have heard it before from others but its true, you are still really young and you have got all the time in world to meet the man of your dreams.
Enjoy your life, enjoy the job that you love doing, and look forward to getting that love... (read in full...)
I'm dating a guy online. How do I know it's not going to be a "pedo's trap" when I finally meet him?
Q. Ok here goes... I am going out with this guy i met online, thing is i havnet met him face 2 face and we have made plans for the future! am i crazy? is this guy for real? or am i falling for a peados trap? plz help me!!!...
A. 19 June 2007: You can never rule out the posibility that the guy you are talking to online is not who they say they are. Of course they may well be genuine, but that is just the chance you take.
I think its really dodgy online chatting and dating espessially for ... (read in full...)
He has a nasty temper and a mouth to match
Q. I could really do with some advice. I'm going out with this guy for nearly 2 years and I'm a bit confused about him. He says he loves me but rarely shows it. He has a nasty temper but he has a nasty mouth on him. He is constantly accusing me of ...
A. 19 June 2007: I agree with yummy Mummy, the bottom line here is he needs to change.
He can't go on treating you like this showing you his bad temper and nasty mouth. It sounds like you are the only one trying your upmost to try to make this relationship work and ... (read in full...)
We had a fling and now everyone knows about it and is being nasty! What should I do?
Q. i had a fling with a guy i knew through work, it was supposed to be descrete, now i find he has told people things we did and its got back to some relatives and people at work who are being unpleasant, i said its lies but they're being really nasty ...
A. 19 June 2007: Unfortunately office relationships are good when things are sweet, but when things go sour it can be arkward for you and and your co-workers. You have also got to see this guy everyday too which can't be easy for you.
This guy is obviously very imma... (read in full...)
Got asked out while at the library and said "no" even though I wanted to say yes... !
Q. A guy introduced himself at the library and asked me out. He asked me in front of the librarian and I turned him down out of sheer embarrassment. Now that I think the encounter over, I want to see him again just to talk to him. Is it possible ...
A. 19 June 2007: If you saw him at this libruary then the likellhood is he goes there quite often getting books and taking them back, but when is anyones guess.
If you do happen to stumble across him again get chatting to him and ask him if that offer is still open... (read in full...)
He's lying to me and he's married.... what do I do?
Q. ive been dating this guy for 7 months now. so far he seems to be the one i want to spend the rest of my life with but the catch here is that he's married, he's through almost finalising hes divorce. n no am not a home record i met him he was living ...
A. 18 June 2007: I don't think there is anything to worry about here. He is finalising his divorce and he has children from this marriage too. You said yourself they have kids together so he will have to keep some sort of relationship going with his ex.
Yes he shou... (read in full...)
I really like him but he's still in love with his ex.
Q. Hi. I like this guy, and he likes me too. We've known and liked each other for years, but he still is in love with his ex. They're is a lot more to this situation, but that's pretty much the main point. So what should I do??? ...
A. 18 June 2007: If he is still in love with his ex there is not really alot you can do at this point.
I would be inclined to take a back seat on this one and just wait and see what happens further down the line. You say he is still in love with love with this ex o... (read in full...)
I like this guy very much but I just can't seem to understand any signals he might be sending.
Q. Okay I know this question has probably been asked a ton of times, but I need it answered for me. How do you know a guy is into you? How can you tell? I like this guy very much but I just can't seem to understand any signals he might be sending. ...
A. 16 June 2007: He will treat you in a different way to other women, his eyes will light up when ever you enter the room, and will go out of his way to be near you. One of the strongest flirtatious signals is eye contact, if he looks you in the eyes for over 5 ... (read in full...)
What is going on with him? And why hasnt he asked me out?
Q. There is this guy from my workplace who had been showing an interest in me since before Xmas. He would always stare at me and smile when I walked in the room. He would also sometimes rub my shoulder. Although I was always polite and professional ...
A. 15 June 2007: I think this guy is shy, try talking to him and make him feel comfortable around you. I don't think he has gone off you, the likellhood is he was abit taken back that you reciprocated the flirting and he got scared.
After you have chatted a few time... (read in full...)
Is it possible to keep work life and personal life seperate?
Q. Is it possible to keep work life and personal life as completely separate? I am quite paranoid about the intermix of the two as i consider the colleagues at work to be a kind of threat for my personal life of family. Please advice.. ...
A. 15 June 2007: As we spend on average of 8 hours a day with work colleagues its very hard for co-workers to not know something about you.
Why are the colleagues at work a threat to your personal life?.
Its natural that people at work generally ask question... (read in full...)
Is the age gap ok??
Q. I've fallen for this 14 year old girl. I'm 16. i'm not too sure about the age gap, what you guys think? How can i ask her out or meet her without embarrassing myself coz if she rejects me she will tell her friends which will be hell for me as they ...
A. 14 June 2007: You are only 16, she is 14, its only 2 years which is no age gap atal. It always sounds worse because you are so young, but in a few years like when you are 19 and she is 17 it dosen't sound so bad.
But i will say at this point refrain from doin... (read in full...)
Married my husband but still in love with my soulmate!
Q. I have a problem. I am married to my husband but i'm in love with another man. I don't know what to do. The guy who had taken my virginity is who I am in love with even before I married my husband. I haven't seen or heard from that guy for 2 years ...
A. 14 June 2007: I think you have got to get this other guy out of your head and concentrate on you marriage. You said yourself he does not want anything to do with you, you don't see him around anywhere, so don't ruin your marriage over something that will never ... (read in full...)
I care about him but don't love him... how can I let him down gently?
Q. I am involved with a man whom I have had a child with. I care about him but do not love him. I am concerned about hurting him if I tell him I would like to be friends but I don't want a future with him. How can I end this without feeling ...
A. 13 June 2007: If you don't love him then you have got to tell him sooner rather than later, the longer you leave it the harder it will get.
Sometimes in this life we have got to be cruel to be kind, its better to tell him how you feel now than to go on lett... (read in full...)
Why did he arrange a date and then bail on me? Can anyone explain?
Q. I recently am divorced and have been asked out by a guy that has been friends and worked with me for about 10 years. We had a date planned, but he never called to confirmed pick-up time, etc. He was acting really into me before this and called me ...
A. 13 June 2007: It sounds to me like this guy was all up for getting you to come on a date but when it came to the crunch he coulden't follow through with it.
I woulden't persue this guy, espessially after you called him and he hung up, thats really immature of h... (read in full...)
No kissing, no hugs and no sex since she got pregnant 4 years ago. She says she still wants a relationship, but...
Q. been goin out with my gf for 6 years now.had baby boy 4 years ago.since than(and duringshe just doesn't want it 9 months of pregnancy)there has been no sex in our relationship.she just doesn't want.not just sex,no kissing or hugs.this as you can ...
A. 13 June 2007: It sounds like the spark has gone out of your relationship,however it sounds like she does still love you. Why don't you do something really romantic for her, maybe book a table at a nice resturant, and tell how much you love her and how much she is ... (read in full...)
I want to ask her to a movie..but don't know her that well. Any advice?
Q. hey everyone, i'm 15 year old guy and i have a question. i know that this girl likes me and i like her too, so should i make a move like invite her to a movie or something? i don't want things to be akward though since i haven't really talked to her ...
A. 11 June 2007: Well the fact that you have found out that she likes you should be a massive weight off your shoulders because the likellhood is she is going to say yes.
Make a friend of her first, talk to her, ask her what she like doing in her spare time ect.... (read in full...)
I hate my girlfriend's tats!
Q. My girlfriend has two tattoos, both of which i hate, and she has plans for more. i dont know if i will be able to cope with them. Has anybody got any suggestions? ...
A. 11 June 2007: Basically as eyeswideopen says love em or leave her. If you can't stand the two she has got already surely if she gets another one will be too much for you to cope with. I guess it all boils down to how much you love her really.
Good luck... (read in full...)
Should I walk up to him, kiss him, then walk away. I am crazy on him!!!
Q. I am so crazy about this boy and i have been getting so stressed out about it, i am thinking about just walking straight up to him, kiss him,and walking away. Is this a good idea. ...
A. 11 June 2007: Yes like the other posts have said its probably a bad idea. Instead why don't you try to just make a friend out of him. Chat to him, find out things about him, his interests, hobbies ect. Then when you feel things are going well ask him if he ... (read in full...)
Once bitten, twice shy?
Q. if u had a one night stand with someone that wasnt very good in bed, would u give them another chance?...
A. 11 June 2007: It depends on the circumstances, it may have not been very good because he was under the influence of alcohol maybe.
Maybe he had never had a one night stand before and was nervous.
What ever the reason i would be inclined to give them another ... (read in full...)
Can't stand my daughter's boyfriend... !
Q. I can't stand the sight or sound of my daughter's new boyfriend. She is 23, he is 21. How should I handle it with my daughter without pushing her into his life?...
A. 11 June 2007: I think really you have got to take a back seat on this one, you don't want to jeopodise your relationship with your daughter.
She is 23 so really its is up to her who she see's and dates, all you can do is offer sound advice. So you can't stan... (read in full...)
Have I missed my chance with this guy?
Q. A new man came to work in our area and we got on really well. We got talking one day and asked me to go to the gym and mentioned it again another day. He also followed me and looked me directly in my eyes. He then asked me what time I was finishing ...
A. 11 June 2007: i do not think you have missed your chance with this guy, he most certainly likes you as he has asked you out several times.
He must understand that it is hard for you to talk to him when you are working. Why don't you make a friend out of him, be i... (read in full...)
I don't like him anymore but am afraid to break his heart. How do I let him down easily?
Q. I totally loved a guy in my homerun, then we went out twice, and i started to fall away, and now i don't feel like i really...like him anymore...I don't know...i want to break up, but know i will just break his heart...what should i do???...
A. 9 June 2007: You have got to tell him how you feel sooner rather than later. The longer you leave it the harder it will become for you so tell him now.
If you don't tell him your are effectively leading him on giving him false hope. Sometimes in this life we h... (read in full...)
Does this guy really like me?
Q. Hi, i really like this guy but he is 2 years older than me and i know that he likes sum1 else in his year. He asks if we want t go out, and when we do, we always hav a gd time and get really close. He touches me and once we nearly ended up kissing....
A. 9 June 2007: It sounds like this boy really like you, he is certainly showing the classic signs of it anyway.
You are still very young so take things really slow and don't rush into anything serious just yet.
Enjoy yourself and have fun, because these years ar... (read in full...)
She treats me nice one minute and ignores me the next...move on or what?
Q. Hey, i am in a quite a hurtful situation and need some other help. My G/f of 4 years and I went on a break at her request. However i feel this break is a break up as she has no desire to get back with me anytime soon. I can accept this but she is ...
A. 9 June 2007: It sounds like your girlfriend dosen't know whether she is coming or going at the moment, one minute she wants you and misses you, the next she dosen't want to know.
Why don't you suggest splitting up for a month or two so you can both go away and ... (read in full...)
What body type do men like most on women?
Q. Hi there, this is just a general question. What body type do men like most on women? Is it true that curves are better in a man's eyes? ...
A. 9 June 2007: It is a hard question to answer as every man has got a different perception of what is attractive on a woman. Some like thin, some like curves, some like athletic, while some even go for the larger lady.
Personally i don't like girls who are to thin... (read in full...)
He's hot and he winked at me. Is he into me?
Q. Well i went on a field trip at an amuesment park today. And this boy i know was on the carousel and my friends and i were watchin him and whispering about him( hes hot) and well he winked at me and he followed me around all day after that. and he ...
A. 9 June 2007: It does sound like he is sending you out flirtatious signals to say he likes you. If you like him why don't you flirt back, next time he looks at you stare back at him and try to hold eye contact for a while the smile and look away. Get chatting to ... (read in full...)
Ear wax blockage...any tips to get rid of it!
Q. PLEASE HELP! i no this isnt really a love question but my left ear is blocked with wax! its so uncomfortable and i have clostraphobia.. its not helping! Errm i was wondering if any new how i could unblock my ear?? thanks!...
A. 9 June 2007: I would pop along to the doctors and see the nurse and she will syringe them for you. But before you go loosen the wax with some olive oil, or ear wax remover first.
Its actually a nice sensation having them syringed, and after your hearing will... (read in full...)
What's the difference between having a crush on somebody or loving them?
Q. whats the difference between loving someone or having a crush on them?...
A. 9 June 2007: Love is a long lasting thing, where as lust tends to be more of a short term fixation.
Love is where you would do anything for someone, the one who is on your mind 24/7 from the moment you wake up, to the time your head hits the pillow at nigh... (read in full...)
Worried About My Height
Q. Hi, I've recently been feeling very concious about my height. I've always been one of the tallest, but now I'm worried, I'm going to be small. My immediate family are all average height(father 5'8'' and mother 5'6''), but my grandfather, both...
A. 6 June 2007: I don't think you have got anything to worry about here, for a girl 5,7 is over average. Alot of girls would have to put their high heels on to reach this height. Also you are still only 14 so i should imagine you have still got abit of growing to ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is small! really small! Any idea on how to improve things?
Q. Hi all.. okay ive been seeing my boyfriend for a while now, the last couple of weeks we've started sleeping together, however he is really really small and im not getting any sexual gratification. He already forwarned me that he was small and I dont ...
A. 6 June 2007: Having a small manhood is not such a great issue because its how you use it that counts. Sometimes you can get guy's with really big genitalia, and are rubbish because they have not got a clue how to use it.
You have only been sleeping with him for ... (read in full...)
I answer questions on the site and I get a message.."OOPS something went wrong go to home page"..What is happening??
Q. umm... I'm new to this and I really would like to answer peoples questions but when ever i write something and send it it always goes to another page and says "OOPS something went wrong go to home page" and DearCupid said that if you send a message ...
A. 6 June 2007: Every now and then that oops something went wrong this does pop,and initially you think you anwswer has not been posted. But if you click on the return to home page your anwswer has been posted. When i first got that i kept clicking on it and one of ... (read in full...)
I regret breaking up with him! But he doesn't want to be hurt again!
Q. i broke up with my boyfriend because of family pressure on my side. i regrt it and want to get back with him and making sure my family wont interfere anymore.but he says he loves me but won't get back together as he thinkd this will happen again. i ...
A. 6 June 2007: You have got to explain to him that it was a mistake splitting up with him in the first place. Its only natural that he is going to a little bit jubious about getting back with you, for fear that it will happen again.
Why don't you book a meal out ... (read in full...)
We've been together two years - he says he can't live without me, so why does he treat me like complete crap?? Should I just leave?
Q. my boyfriend and i have been together for over 2 years, but he is always telling me its not working and treating me like sh*t. but then he tells me he can live without me. what should i believe and should i leave him?...
A. 5 June 2007: He does sound like he is expressing a little bit of a split personality here. Treating you like c**p, then telling you he can't live with out you.
Tell him to cut the bulls**t and start treating you with more love and respect. If he doe's not then... (read in full...)
I suck my thumb in private and my dad said I look stupid! I don't see why I should stop, though - any opinions?
Q. This isn't really loved based but I need people's points of view. I'm 17 and I suck my thumb, only in private, I can't give up and I don't want to really as I don't see anything wrong with it. Lately, my dad has been telling me off for it and says ...
A. 5 June 2007: I do not think you have anything to worry about here, its a comfort thing, you do it in private, its not like you walk round the supermarket doing it.
I still go to bed with this furry blanket cover i have had since i was three, and i can't slee... (read in full...)
I'm beginning to wonder if my boyfriend is just stringing me along
Q. Hi. I'm beginning to wonder if my boyfriend is just stringing me along. He often tells me about how he's going to marry me, and he's always the one that brings it up.. then every so often he'll backtrack and say that of course he's not going to...
A. 4 June 2007: I don't think he is stringing you along, i think he looking torwards the future. He is basically telling you that you are the one he wants to marry. I think he is being sensible here saying im not going to ask just yet, as he probably thinks dating ... (read in full...)
Do you think she is interested in me?
Q. I keep asking this girl i like out, she never says no but instead is always busy or something. We text each other almost daily and often. Do you think she is interested in me?...
A. 4 June 2007: Its hard to say, she could be genuinly busy when you have been asking her out. As for texting each other every day i think she would ignor your texts if she diden't like you. However i feel the only way you are going to know for sure is to tell her ... (read in full...)
I am dating a guy 22 years older than me, we are in love but have problems sexually!
Q. I am dating a guy 22 years older than me, we are in love but have problems sexually, he says it is our age gap, we love each other so what should we do?...
A. 4 June 2007: Your sexual problems may not necessarily stem from him being 22 years older than yourself, i mean he is at most 62. If it keeps happening book him in for an appointment with your local GP and get him checked over, he may be able to prescribe him ... (read in full...)
Could you please tell me if my boyfriend hits me once would he do it again?
Q. Could you please tell me if my boyfriend hits me once would he do it again?...
A. 4 June 2007: Without knowing to much about your situation here, i would say being hit once in a good enough reason to ditch this guy. Any guy that hits or raises a hand to a lady is a bully, and a coward and does not deserve the time of day. The likellhood is he ... (read in full...)
I have this huge spot on my penis! How do I get rid of it?
Q. i have this huge spot on my penis! it hurts. i've never had sex. and i'm quite clean. why is it there and how do i get rid of it?...
A. 4 June 2007: Like the other posts have said i would book an appointment to go and see you local GP. It is always best to get these things checked out, and he/she will probally give you something to help clear it up.
Good luck... (read in full...)
He seems to only like me when he's drunk! Is he worth it or should I let him go?
Q. Hey hey, The guy that I have been seeing for 7 months only lets himself go when he's drinking. When he's sober, he doesn't speak to me as often. And it's almost like he only likes me when he's drunk. He said from the beginning that he's not a bi...
A. 4 June 2007: To be brutally honest this guy does not sound any good for you. He shows no affection when he is sober, but does when he has had a drink.
Seriously drop him and find a guy that gives you the love and respect that you so rightly deserve.
Good luck... (read in full...)
How can I tell if this girl really wants to go out with me? I don't want her to accept a date w/ me just to spare my feelings!
Q. i have been told to meet this girl i asked to meet after the exams. i really like her. shall i ask first after the exams? any hints or tips to catch if she dont wanna go. i dont want to push her but i realize girls have a hard time sayin no as they ...
A. 4 June 2007: I don't think she will lead you on, if she wants to go out with you she will, if she doesen't she will decline your offer and say she is doing something.
If we don't ask in this life we don't get, so the only way you are ever going to know is to a... (read in full...)
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