How can I tell if this girl really wants to go out with me? I don't want her to accept a date w/ me just to spare my feelings!
Q. i have been told to meet this girl i asked to meet after the exams. i really like her. shall i ask first after the exams? any hints or tips to catch if she dont wanna go. i dont want to push her but i realize girls have a hard time sayin no as they ...
A. 4 June 2007: I don't think she will lead you on, if she wants to go out with you she will, if she doesen't she will decline your offer and say she is doing something.
If we don't ask in this life we don't get, so the only way you are ever going to know is to a... (read in full...)
He asked me to dress up nice for a surprise he is planning! Men - what could he be planning? How should I dress??
Q. Hey all, Not sure if this is the right place to ask about this, but my boyfriend wants me to dress up for our romantic night in. I have sorted, food, contapception and everything, but I dont know why he wants me to dress up. When i asked him, h...
A. 4 June 2007: Sounds like he is planning a nice romantic meal for you both with candle light and wine ect.
If you really want to impress him you can't go wrong with a sexy little black dress. Im sure you will look radient whatever you decide to wear.
Have a lo... (read in full...)
My bf cheated on me with my best friend a few weeks ago - I just now found out! I love him, but don't want to have this happen again! Help!
Q. Okay just the other day I found out that my boyfriend cheated on me with my best friend while I was on my cruise for Spring Break with my family. Like I said, it was spring break and now it is June 2 and i just now found out about it. They have be...
A. 4 June 2007: Not only has your boyfriend been lied to you, but you have also been betrayed by your best friend also.
It is really up to you if you feel you are strong enough to put all this behind you and forgive your boyfriend and your best mate then do it. ... (read in full...)
I'm in a relationship but I have fallen for my friend's girlfriend...
Q. I have fallen in love with my friend's girlfriend although I'm now in a relationship... What should i do..??...
A. 3 June 2007: I think you have got to be honest with your girlfriend and tell her you have fallen in love with someone else, she deserves not to be lead on.
But before you go making any rash decisions make sure its love you are feeling and not a five minute lust... (read in full...)
I have a crush on my best friend's little sister
Q. I have a crush on my best friend's little sister. I really don't know what to do about it...I've always been able to take confidence in the fact that if I was approached by a girl that I had moral reservations about, I could always turn it down. ...
A. 3 June 2007: As DV1 says as long as its legal i don't see that your friend should have problem with it. But be careful that its not all too close to home, if you got with her then it diden't work out for some reason it could jeopodise your friendship with your ... (read in full...)
He loves porn and I accept that, but he keeps trying to get me to watch it with him.
Q. Dear Cupid My boyfriend and I are both in our 30's. We've been together a year and a half. He loves porn and I accept that, but he keeps trying to get me to watch it with him. I keep telling him I hate it and it makes me uncomfortable an...
A. 3 June 2007: He should have respect that that you are not in to porn films, and should not keep on forcing you to do something you really do not want to do.
Don't give in to him and let him dictate to you, telling you you are unimaginative, or not open mind... (read in full...)
What do I do to gain back her trust?
Q. ugh i feel horrible when we started going out, i promised my girlfriend that i would quit smoking which i did and did not smoke afterward at all, and i have kept all my other promises... yesterday my friend wanted me to smoke his last ciga...
A. 3 June 2007: All you can do here is be brutally honest with her and say it was a stupid one off thing and that it will never happen again. Then treat her to a nice romantic meal at you favourit resturant with candle light ect. And when the ambience is just right ... (read in full...)
I found out my boyfriend is going to a strip club. Does this mean he doesn't find me attractive any more?
Q. My boyfriend is saying he is going to a strip club but i wasnt meant to know. is this because he doesnt find me attractive or is bored in anyway? ...
A. 3 June 2007: I agree with Eves answer, it a guy thing and is going to have a laugh with his mates and let his hair down. It not that he does not find you attractive atal, he is just socialising and having a laugh, we all need space in a relatinship.
Good ... (read in full...)
Married 3 times and each time hurt! Should I trust love?
Q. I have been married 3 times. And terrible hurt all 3 times. Why should I fall in love with a man now?...
A. 3 June 2007: I don't think you should be put off from falling in love, ok so you have been abit unlucky in love, but your time will come, one day you will meet a man to spend the rest of your life with and be really happy.
I have had two bad relationships in t... (read in full...)
Her parents are strict when it comes to their daughter dating! So what should I do-I like her!
Q. I have been flirting with this girl from school and gave her signs I am interested in her (and vice versa), but her parents are strict when it comes to boyfriends because she is an only child. What do I do? Oh, and by the way both of her parents are ...
A. 3 June 2007: It is only natural that parents are going to be protective of their children, & more so as she is an only child. They have got her best interests at heart and only want the best for her.
All you can do is show them that you are a nice guy and not ... (read in full...)
Not attracted to him anymore and breaking up with him--would deeply hurt him! What should I do?
Q. My bf and I have been together for 6 months. We have become really close to each other. But I am finding that I no longer feel any physical attraction to him. He loves me so and it would break his heart for me to tell him this. Do you think I should ...
A. 3 June 2007: If you really feel like you can't have a relationship with him anymore then you have got to be brutally honest and tell him how you feel. The longer you leave it the harder it will become.
Sometimes in this life we have to be cruel to be kind. Stay... (read in full...)
Should a guy date a girl that his brother previously dated?
Q. Do you think a guy would date/sleep with a girl his brother dated/slept with?...
A. 3 June 2007: Without knowing to much about the situation here i would say it would be ok if there were no emotional attachments on either side. If you thought it was going to create bad feeling then steer clear, otherwise go for it.
Good luck ... (read in full...)
Brewers droop or something else?
Q. My Boyfriend and i were about to have sex the other night when he 'lost it' he blamed the one glass of wine we had an hour earlier with our meal, could the wine be a valid reason? Just because this happened a few weeks back also but we have been tog...
A. 1 June 2007: I don't think you can blame the loss of an erection on one glass of wine with dinner. Brewers droop is more common with guys that have been out and had a skinful, then tried to have sex with their partner at the end of the night.
It's common in guys... (read in full...)
Fallen in love with my male friend but he doesn't feel the same way! He even refused to kiss me when we got drunk! Any Advice?
Q. The common story: I'm a girl of 16, and have fallen in love with my best friend, whos also 16. He doesn't like me, I can tell and hes said things to me about it before. Recently we got really drunk and I asked him to kiss me and he refused but after ...
A. 1 June 2007: Sometimes we all have to accept the fact that not everyone we love loves us in return, its just a part of life. He has been honest with you in how he feels, and when you both kissed you said you were really drunk.
If you really want to put your mind... (read in full...)
Is he still carrying on with others, even though I refuse to believe it ?
Q. last year i found that my boyfriend was texting and meeting another girl we managed to put it behind us but 6 weeks later i found he was doing it again with the same girl. i comfronted him but he said she was ugly and it was nothing more than a ...
A. 1 June 2007: To be brutally honest with you the alarm bells should have been ringing the first time round. Then you forgave him and he went and betrayed your trust again. All that oh she is ugly business is all a ploy to throw you off the scent, he woulden't ... (read in full...)
Is my friend of 18 years now looking to have a relationship with me!?
Q. My friend of 18 years told me he wanted a woman just like me. He also said he need to find someone to give a key to his safe deposit box to. Months later he came tovisit as he sometimes does, and kissed me with passion. I was shocked. Is he looking ...
A. 1 June 2007: It looks to me as if he wanting to take your friendship of 18 years to the next level. Giving you key to his safty deposit box, and kissing you with passion is a big sign of his feelings for you. If this is not what you want be honest with him and ... (read in full...)
How do I know if my ex boyfriend still likes me?
Q. Dear Cupid how do i know if my ex-boyfriends still likes me?...
A. 31 May 2007: Being an ex boyfriend you should be familiar with his actions and the way he is around you. If he still flirts with you, finds excuses to touch you, or gives you prolonged eye contact then i would say he still likes you, but you will only know for ... (read in full...)
Why do I have to do all the work when we're having sex?
Q. hi ive been getting kind of annoyed lately because in bed it seems as if im always doing all the work. I mean its fine to do it sometimes but I would like to get some pleasure back. Really hard to explain. but i dont know what to do. can someone ...
A. 31 May 2007: You have got to talk to him and tell him that you have needs too, and that its not fair that you do all the work. Its easy sometimes for people to fall into a pattern and become complacent. Enphasize that you are a couple, and that in a relationship ... (read in full...)
I'm a virgin and want a relationship, but I fret about the size of my penis..any advice?
Q. Hi iam 17 and still a virgin i would love to have a relationship with a girl but iam very insecure about the size of my penis as it is only 6 and a half inches when erect should i be woried or am i fretin about nothing ...
A. 31 May 2007: This is a good average size, and like the other post's have said its not how big it is but how you use it that really counts.
Good luck... (read in full...)
He taking a female friend to the cinema and I'm jealous. How do I deal with this 'jealousy bug'?
Q. My boyfriend recently bumped into an old friend and agreed to go to the cinema with her, just the two of them. I felt a bit uncomfortable with this so asked if he could take a friend with him just to put my mind at rest. I know he loves me, and i ...
A. 31 May 2007: I can quite understand that he has bumped into an old friend that he has not seen in a while and there is some catching up to do. But honestly how much catching up can you do in a cinema watching a movie, you can't talk to each other. The more ... (read in full...)
He dumped me and I was getting over it and then...he texts me saying he misses me! What should I do?
Q. he dumped me last week monday. i was devastated. i was then convinced that it was over until he sms, then later called, to tell that he had made a mistake and that he misses me. i was on the process of getting over him and i was doing well until he ...
A. 30 May 2007: Maybe on this occasion you should give him the benefit of the doubt. He could have genuinly regretted terminating your relationship, now realises it was a mistake.
But if you do get back with him and he does this again, don't even contemplate taki... (read in full...)
I have a growth problem and I'm short--it stops me from asking girls out. What can I do?
Q. i'm not sure what to do, i'm 16 and i'm debating to ask this girl out in my year. The thing is i have a growth problem (i'm about a head and a bit shorter than average) and it's always stopped asking any girls out because i'm worried she will just ...
A. 30 May 2007: I don't see why you should forget about her, there is more to someone than just their height, im sure she will notice alot of other good qualities you have. I would still ask her out, if she says yes then all well and good, but if she says no don't ... (read in full...)
Do guys like to kiss girls who give blow jobs?
Q. dear cupid i would like to know what everyone thinks of kissing girls that give bj to boys? do men all think that kissing them is like kissing the private part of the person they gave bj to or is it not? also do their mouth taste awful then...
A. 30 May 2007: That depends, i woulden't want to kiss the girl straight after she has some given a guy a BJ, i draw the line there.... (read in full...)
My one testicle is a bit bigger and hurts more than the other. Anyone know what the problem could be?
Q. Okay this is more a personal problem and I don't know where else to ask. I have been checking my testicles the past week as I think it is important and they do look normal but if I feel on the left it is a bit bigger than my right and when I feel it ...
A. 30 May 2007: Its good you check your testicals on a regular basis. With testicals it is normal that one is slightly bigger than than other one. Im sure you are fine, but if you have any doubts whatsoever just book and appointment to see your local GP and he will ... (read in full...)
He's sending signals one minute then backing off the next, what should I do?
Q. dear agony aunts and uncles i need your help, ive have just met this guy and i cannot get him out of my head he is sending signals one minute and then backing away the next i don't know what i should do please give me some help A.S.A.P PLZZZZZZ...
A. 29 May 2007: I think your best bet is to talk to him and tell him how you are feeling. Maybe when he is sending you the signals he dosen't think you are responding, so then he backs off. The key here is comunication, it will be a weight off your shoulders if you ... (read in full...)
My 32 year old married boss has started giving me lifts home. I KNOW he wants to take it further!
Q. hi, im 17 years old have a boyfriend and have a part time job as a waitress. my boss is 32 and married with kids. recently when he is giving me lifts home we have started going for a drive and ended up kissing many times and i know he wants to take ...
A. 29 May 2007: Don't throw away the relationship with you boyfriend over a silly feeling of lust with a married guy. He will never leave his wife for you, so consequently you become his bit on the side seeing you when its convienient for him. He is willing to ... (read in full...)
Not sure if he's the one I want..however, a new guy looks interesting! Should I go on a 'break'?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together for two and a half years, and things have been great. but recently they have faded pretty badly. I know i love him and i want to be with him but i think things are going to burn out. There is another guy i know ...
A. 29 May 2007: I think if you are with your boyfriend and you are having feelings torwards another man, then yes i think maybe you and you partner should have a break. Its not really fair being with your boyfriend while your mind in playing away elsware.
But you ... (read in full...)
The guy I cared about is now married to someone else...
Q. The guy I cared about is now married to someone else, I knew that I was never going to marry him. I am linked to him on a professional basis and only contact him when absolutely necessary and that's by e-mail. The first time we saw each other face ...
A. 29 May 2007: It sounds like he is trying to get the message across that he now a married man. But flaunting his ring in front of you is immature and stupid.
Move on now and forget about this guy.
Good luck x... (read in full...)
Can you love someone as a friend?
Q. can you love someone as a friend???...
A. 29 May 2007: Yes, but its a different sort of love, its more of a love you might feel for a Brother or Sister.
Lee x... (read in full...)
I asked her out and she said she'd tell me the next day. It this her way of politely saying no?
Q. i asked out this girl i really like to go catch a movie with me. she asked me questions about when i wanna go, and if we're goin alone etc. she said she'll tell me the next day coz she might be busy. i cant help think that's a excuse or nice ...
A. 29 May 2007: Give her the benefit of the doubt untill tommorow arrives, untill then take it that she is interested. I feel that if she wasen't she would have blown you off when you asked her.
Good luck x... (read in full...)
Is he flirting with me or not?
Q. I'm pretty thick when it comes to deciphering if someone is flirting with me or not, so I'm asking for help here! There's this guy I know, and him pursuing a relationship with me would be a little ridiculous due to the circumstances we're both ...
A. 28 May 2007: Yes he was flirting with you big time, have fun and enjoy it xx... (read in full...)
General Flirting or Interested?
Q. General Flirting or Interested? I am confused about a work colleague who is showing classic flirting signals which I am very flattered about as I am attracted to him. However, he is quite a flirty person in general so am I reading too much...
A. 28 May 2007: Some many relationships start in the office place, mainly because we spend on average of 8 hours a day working with co-workers.
There is this girl at my work that i really like, we do flirt a fair bit, i give her the eye contact, and always try to t... (read in full...)
What can I do to ask my crush out? Should I take the initiative here or what?
Q. Ok my crush knows I like him and I think he hates me, my friends say he dosent but I dont know what to do. should i forget about him or see if he asks me out or whatever? ...
A. 28 May 2007: Why do think he hates you?, your friends say he dosen't so listen to them. If you really like him i don't think you should forget about him, however if you are waiting for him to ask you out you could be waiting along time. In this day and age it ... (read in full...)
His gift is too big for me, what can I do???
Q. My boyfriend just bought me a beautiful Gucci belt to go with a bag i recently bought... the only problem is that it's too big for me !! He doesn't have as much money s i do so i know he must have had to save for it. I don't want to hurt him by ...
A. 28 May 2007: As he has thrown away the reciept all you can do is be honest and say the belt big for you. Tell him how much you love it, and what a thoughtful gesture it was, but its just to big. He could try going back to the place he got it on the off chance ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend never gets any "strange" phone calls, should I be worried?
Q. my b/f doesnt get any strange phone calls. Usually if his phone rings, i can tell who he is talking to. And he doesnt keep any girls names in his phone either. Should i possibly believe he is forwarding some calls to another number? He rarel...
A. 28 May 2007: Does not sound like you have anything to be worried about atal. I think you are thinking to much about things that are not even happening. So he does not get any strange phone calls, he has not got any girls phone numbers in his phone, alot of girls ... (read in full...)
He's married and getting really serious about me, where do you see this going?
Q. i met a guy online i knew was married, all we used to do is chat now i have been to see him twice and we went too far now he wants me to meet him again. I was on holiday abroad recently and he was on the phone at least 3 times a day. i have seen ...
A. 28 May 2007: I don't think you should take this any further than its gone already. These thing invariably never have a happy ending, as someone always ends up getting hurt. Married guys almost never leave their wives, so consequently you become the bit on the ... (read in full...)
I'm in love with a married man! Do I break up with my twice-as-old-as-me-boyfriend!?
Q. I am 20 years old. I have been with my 40 year old boyfriend for two years. About six months ago, I have met this 34 year old man and I fell I love with him. He's married. He is a friend o my family and so is his wife. They got two small kids ...
A. 28 May 2007: personally i think you should leave this married man alone and stick with your boyfriend of two years.
If you did decide to leave him and persue this married guy you could find youself waiting around forever. Married guys invariably never leave thei... (read in full...)
Has he got this sort of body language wrong and the bloke is just being friendly.
Q. I asked my husband the other day that if a woman he knew winked at him what would he think and he said 'I would think she wants to know me more, she fancies me'. I asked him what he thought if a bloke winked at me and he said 'I would worry'. He ...
A. 28 May 2007: I woulden't say anything as you could be reading the signs wrong.
When i am talking to people whether it be male or femail i sometimes wink when finishing a conversation, or saying goodby, its an expression alot of people use and don't even real... (read in full...)
Any ideas on what I could buy my boyfriend for his birthday next month?
Q. My bf's birthday is really soon but I have no clue what to get him. Ive never gotten a gift for a boy so some things would help....he likes magic but many people give him stuff and I dont want to follow what everyone else gives him. please help his...
A. 27 May 2007: Depending on how much you want to spend i would say a nice shirt, a bottle of aftershave, a dvd, or a cd. If you really can't think of anything to buy alot of record and clothes shops do gift vouchers so he can go and choose anything he likes.
... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is forcing me to have sex with him and it's scaring me.
Q. I am 19 year old and I have a current partner who's 36. I really like him although he's kinda pushy a little bit sexually. I told him I wasn't realy ready to have sex with him, that I could do oral and other stuff instead but yesterday he really scar...
A. 27 May 2007: I don't think you are safe with this guy, and my advice would be to ditch him ASAP. He is forcing you to do things that you are not comfortable doing, he is still doing it after you have said no, in my book this is classed a rape.
Ditch him now,... (read in full...)
My dad and uncle have raped me! I'd be better off dead..........
Q. im in a despreate postion my uncle and dad are not good people they rape and beat me they are drunk all day long please dont laugh this is my last hope to talk to anyone im 15 now and was 12 the first time i slept in the woods alone so i did...
A. 27 May 2007: This really upset me reading about this post, you sound like a nice person, and you have been going through quite an ordeal.
The first thing i am going to say is that you MUST report your Dad and your Uncle to the police, they can't get away with... (read in full...)
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