Normally guys that are into me make me feel smothered; am I fooling myself this time?
Q. I am with a guy a month and getting on very well. He is a perfect gentleman and cannot fault him. The physical attraction and desire for him is not 100%. can this grow or am i just fooling myself?? I always prefere the blokes who are not that into ...
A. 4 July 2007: It is possibe that your physical attraction for him could grow over time, if you give him a chance. He sounds like a real nice guy. Surely its better to have a guy who is really into you than some guy who is not. I think you shouls stick it out with ... (read in full...)
I have a crush on a female star from Wimbledon, so I friended her on Myspace. Is this considered stalking?
Q. i have been watching wimbledon and i have developed a crush on a particular female star. i went onto myspace to see if she was on it (it was set to private) and i asked to be her friend (those who have myspace will understand the procedure). the pr...
A. 3 July 2007: We all get crushes from time to time, and its only natural that you have developed a crush for this tennis star. But there are boundries not to cross. So you added her as a friend on myspace, make sure this is as far as it goes and you will be ... (read in full...)
I have the biggest crush on a guy at work!!
Q. I've fallen for a guy at work, we get on really well as friends, we have loads in common, and his family like me. Only problem is he has a girlfriend, and I'm friends with her. I would never do anything while he's still dating her, I'm not that kind ...
A. 2 July 2007: Alot of affairs/relationships stem from the workplace. We spend on average of eight hours a day with co-workers, this is more time than we spend with potential partners. Its good you say that you would never do anything while he is still dating her, ... (read in full...)
I love my husband but our marriage isn't great; now I've fallen for a guy at work
Q. Long story. I have fallen for a guy at work. He feels the same and we are in love. I have been married 18 months and everything was fine until this guy came along. It isn't infatuation - I know how being in love feels. I think of this guy 24/7 and ...
A. 1 July 2007: If you feel you don't love your husband anymore then you have got to be upfront and honest with him and tell him how you feel.
Im in a similar sort of situation in the work place that involves a married women, although i do have complete resp... (read in full...)
Where do you met people in their 30's?
Q. Where do you met people in their 30's?? I have had a enough of internet dating it hasn't worked me and just getting fed up and losing faith that there is a mr right for everyone. I'm 31, have a good job quite good looking but I just cant see...
A. 1 July 2007: You don't have to apologise for moaning, everyone is entitled to it from time to time. Don't despair, there are plenty of good honest guys out there, i should know i am one of them lol. Im your age, had a couple of relationships that diden't work ... (read in full...)
I'm 13 years older than him... Is that bad?
Q. is 13 years older bad? Ive got chatting to a really sweet man but problem is he is 18 and im in my 30's, he wants to met up, im a bit unsure because of the age gap but he looks older then his age. any advice?...
A. 1 July 2007: It all depends on whether you both have any issues with age, if either of you do then it is doomed to fail. If you both feel strongly for each other then 13 years is not alot atal. After all age is only a number, its really all about how you both ... (read in full...)
I'm seeing an older guy and it feels like we just don't make the effort with each other anymore.
Q. I'm seeing an older guy and it feels like we just dont make the effort with each other anymore. I text him and ask how he is and he doesn't reply because he's too busy out with his friends, should i just let him go and move on?...
A. 1 July 2007: It depends on how strongly you feel about him really. If you really love him then talk to him, ask him why he does not reply to your texts, and how does he feel about you. If you don't feel that strongly then i would be iclined to let him go and ... (read in full...)
I want to break up with my shy boyfriend for another guy--is that wrong?
Q. I recently started going out with this guy but since I've been back at school (I was on holiday for 2 weeks) I haven't felt the same for him and I really like this other guy. I've liked the other guy for some time now but I gave up hope on him ...
A. 1 July 2007: If your feelings for your current boyfriend have gone then you have got to be upfront and honest and tell him how you feel sooner rather than later. The longer you leave it the harder it will get, so tell him now and it will be a big weight off your ... (read in full...)
I have no energy and no motivation
Q. Rcently I have been feeling worn out and tired,I've been sleeping for long hours but wake up still feeling like my eyes are shutting on me. I also feel as if there are all these fun things that I want to do and ideas I have but when it comes to...
A. 30 June 2007: I think you could be suffering from a mild form of depression. Book an appointment with you local GP and im sure he/she will help you get back on track.
Try some relaxation excersises also, get a Paul Mckenna cd for confidence and self esteem, it t... (read in full...)
My skin has recently broken out, how can I get rid of the blemishes?
Q. Recently I broke out all over my face. How do I make the breakouts go away? How do I get rid of my blemishes and red markings on my face? please help. Thanks....
A. 30 June 2007: There are couple of things on the market that will help with markings and blemishes, the first one is a product called Bio oil containing a breakthrough ingredient called purcellin that helps scarring and blemishes. The second is Palmers cocoa ... (read in full...)
YOU CAN HELP: Spread the word about DearCupid!
Q. Hi, I want to ask a really big favour of everyone who uses, likes and has been helped by DearCupid. Help spread the word this weekend, by doing some of these suggestions: * Tell your friends and family about DearCupid * Talk about and ...
A. 30 June 2007: Hi Andrew,
I think this is a fantasic website and i log on when ever i get a chance. I have also told friends family and work colleagues about it too.
k... (read in full...)
If I dump him, no one will be my friend - but I don't love him.
Q. elloo I have been with my boyfriend for ages now. And it's the 5th time I've dumped him and I got back with him 3 days ago and i don't love him. But if i dump him nobody will be my friend. please help me quick xxx...
A. 28 June 2007: Staying with him just to not lose any friends is no reason to continue this relationship. You don't love him so tell him its over and move on, its not fair on the guy if you continue to see him when you don't like him anymore. I think if no-one ... (read in full...)
How do I make sure that it's me who he wants?
Q. well my bf and i have been going out for a week and my best friend likes him too well alot of girls like him so how do i make sure that he likes me for who i am not becasue i am one of the girls that like him? thax 4 the help...
A. 27 June 2007: At the end of the day he is going out wit you and not them. So what if other girls like or look at him, you should be proud to have a guy that other woman admire, and also be proud that he is yours.
Good luck x... (read in full...)
Does he like me more than he likes his girlfriend?
Q. My crush gave me a hickey but he has a gf does this mean he likes me because he was saying stuff like My life is unfair and My feelings are all over the place we were real friendly and all cuddly and close to kissing so does he like me?...
A. 27 June 2007: I think he was wrong to give you a hicky while he has still got a girlfriend. If you ever got with this boy how would you feel if he gave another girl a hicky behind your back, and could you trust him not too.
I think he does like you, but i woul... (read in full...)
Want to give my new gf flowers from our garden, would that make me seem cheap?
Q. Hi, sorry if this is a really odd question. hopefully going to meet my new girlfriend for the day sometime next week, and want to take some flowers for her. Was thinking of taking them from the family garden, which i thought might be nice, but at ...
A. 27 June 2007: I think picking flowers from the family garden is a very kind gesture and im sure she will love it. Why not wrap them in some fancy paper and some nice ribbons too.
Good luck ... (read in full...)
I'm just about to turn 17 - is it possible that I'll have another growth spurt?
Q. Hi, I'm 16 turning 17 in august. I have a concern about my height. I'm just over 5ft 10 and wonder if I'll grow anymore, maybe to 6ft. The reason being is that there are some of my friends that are quite tall and I get a bit intimiated and e...
A. 26 June 2007: You have probably got another couple of years of growing to do yet. But 5,10 is nothing to be ashamed of, its not short by any means.
Good luck... (read in full...)
I love my boyfriend, but I think he's trying to manipulate me into having sex! I want to wait. What should I do?
Q. okay I've been going out with my boyfriend for 7 months, we haven't had sex yet but we've been close to so many times, I really love him and all but sometimes he acts like it is going to be the end of the world if we don't do it. I sometimes feel ...
A. 26 June 2007: Don't let him push or manipulate you into doing something you are not ready to do. If you are not ready yet then he should respect your decision and wait till you are ready. If he can't wait and you feel like he is pushing you then maybe he is not ... (read in full...)
When I told her I liked her, she said she didn't want to lose me as a mate! How can I convince her to give us a try?
Q. I told a girl I like her and then we became close. But now if I say can we get together, she says she doesn't want it because she doesn't want to lose a good mate. How can I get her to see I'll always be there for her as a mate? And how can I get ...
A. 26 June 2007: Don't push things with her, keep seeing her as a good friend and be there for her when she needs you. Tell her how much you value your friendship with her and don't want to lose her as a friend. Keep this going for some time and who knows, something ... (read in full...)
I married him after 6 months only to feel secure - I feared that I wouldn't find anyone else. Now I'm so confused!
Q. Not Sure If I Should Stay With My Husband... My husband and I have been married for a little over 3 years now. We met at a stressful point in my life and he was a strong support for me. We only dated for about 6 months before getting married....
A. 26 June 2007: If you feel like you do not love your husband anymore then you have got to upfront and honest with him about how you feel, otherwise its not fair on him. You can't go through with this marriage with a fear that you might break him. Sometimes we have ... (read in full...)
We've never kissed anyone before--how do we get the first kiss?
Q. I know this guy who really likes me and I really like him too... I want to kiss him and he told me that he would kiss me, but he's never kissed anyone before--neither have I. What do I say to him to persuade him? ...
A. 25 June 2007: Don't push to much for it to happen, rather let it happen naturally, and when it does happen enjoy the moment because the first kiss is one you will remember for the rest of your life.
Good luck x... (read in full...)
He said to her that I like him more than he likes me.
Q. I just started recently dating this guy and its been about two weeks. My best friend is his best friend which I like because I get information. Just last week he told her that he feels that I like him a lot more then he likes me. Which is weird ...
A. 25 June 2007: I agree with flower girl, you need to start talking to him more and not getting information from your best friend. Communication is certainly the key here.
Good luck x... (read in full...)
I like my boss and I think he might be flirting with me!
Q. I like my boss. At work, when he says good morning, he strokes my shoulder and smiles at me--what should I do?...
A. 24 June 2007: I think it all sounds abit close to home to me. With office romances when things are sweet then all's fun and good. But if/when things go sour then it can be very arkward when you both have to still see each other every day. But if you want to take ... (read in full...)
I want photos of my classmates as memories, is it too weird to ask them?
Q. So, is it ok for me to ask poeple i barely know much, [my class] to pose for photos?? i feel really weird, cuz, what if they say no? what if they think im like mental or weird and need their pic to like fantasize over it? ahah, im essagerating, but ...
A. 24 June 2007: They say our school days are some of the best years of our lives. I don't think they will think it is weird if you ask for a class photograph, its is something you can look back on in years to come. Go on ask your class, i bet they will be flattered ... (read in full...)
I'm sleeping with my best friend but he has a girlfriend
Q. i have fallen in love with my best friend we have been sleeping together for 4 months but he has a girlfriend what should i do...
A. 24 June 2007: He has been sleeping with you for four months while all the time he has a girlfriend. I really feel sorry for his partner here, after all he has been two timing her all this time with you.
You say you love him, but is the love reciprocated for you?... (read in full...)
I don't know who to choose; my old flame or my new love
Q. i used to see this guy about a year ago which fizzled out as we werent honest with each other about what we wanted from it, so then i got with my present boyfriend. i now have feelings for this guy again and he does for me too. me and my boyfriend ...
A. 24 June 2007: As you and your present boyfriend are having problems at the moment i would be inclined to go with the guy who you used to see a year ago. But really only you can make the decision of who to choose. The most important thing here is that which ever ... (read in full...)
I'm 16 and puberty still hasn't kicked in
Q. help me please i am 16 and still havent hit puberty fully. I have got pubic hair gowing and i have grown in hieght and thats all. my voice hasn't broke and my penis hasn't grown much in lenght has anyone got anything that could help me please?...
A. 24 June 2007: Like Kay Kay says everyone hits puberty a differnt rates. You are still only 16 you still have plenty of time to hit puberty fully. Don't stress over it to much, you will wake up one morning and out of the blue you will be there, trust me i was your ... (read in full...)
My wife says she doesn't love me anymore
Q. been with my wife 22 years, married for 12 years, had a bad 2 years , jealousy, her going out , money probs, now she want to throw in the towel, is there anything i can do to save my marridge, she says she cares for me but dont love me in that way ...
A. 24 June 2007: It sounds like the jealousy of her going out, the money problems has taken its toll on you marriage. The spark has gone and she wants to throw in the towel.
If you really want this to work do things to show your wife that you still love her, book... (read in full...)
I was a terrible bully to my teacher; how do I say sorry now?
Q. I feel really guilty. I bullied my teacher for a whole year. After realising what I had done a year later I feel really guilty. I was in alot of trouble for shoutin abusing, pushin her over and makin fun of her. Now I really do not know how to ...
A. 24 June 2007: I can't believe that a teacher, an authoritive figure at a school allowed a child to push her over and hurl abuse at her over a 12 month period.
However the answer to your question would be to go back and apologise face to face.
k... (read in full...)
I'm ready to have children but he keeps avoiding the issue
Q. Im 32 and im ready for a baby. my boyfriends lovely but avoids talking about the future and doesnt know when he'll be ready for children. i really am ready now and its hurting me by waiting. i don't think he's ready to grow up. i love him so much ...
A. 24 June 2007: I think if you love him you should wait for him to come round to idea of starting a family together. Im don't know how old your boyfreind is but if he is your age or older then i would have thought he would be looking to settle down soon maybe.
I... (read in full...)
My boyfriend has suddenly said he needs time to be sure that I'm the One
Q. My boyfirend of three years has asked for some time. We are supposed to move in together this December and i am starting school by his house this summer. He said that he loves me but just wants to be sure that this is it. We still talk a little on ...
A. 24 June 2007: Moving in together is a big step and im sure he just wants to make totally sure you are the one before rushing in and setting up home together.
The month break is not a bad idea, it will give you both time to reflect and gather your thoughts and ... (read in full...)
My fiance told me he doesn't trust me
Q. I am getting married very soon but just today he told me that he doen't believes anything i say to him. An he also asked if i thought that our relationship was going to go futher? does he sound like he doesn't want to marry me?...
A. 24 June 2007: A relationship/marriage is built on trust, and if you do not have trust from the start then it is doomed to fail.
Without knowing anything about your situation here and just going by what you have said here i would say he is having serious doub... (read in full...)
How do I tell if he wants to end it?
Q. what are some sighns to tell if my boyfriend wants to breakup with me?...
A. 24 June 2007: You will find he will be showing less affection torwards you, less kisses and cuddles, and become less talkative and despondant. Like yummy mummy says don't let him play you around and talk to him.
Good luck x... (read in full...)
He's married but seems to quite like me; could this go anywhere?
Q. Recently a married co-worker started e-mailing me at home. The emails are not sexual in any way--the most he has ever said is that he thinks I'm cute and that he likes my company and enjoys talking to me. He came to visit me twice at home, yet both ...
A. 23 June 2007: He is probably interested in having you as his bit on the side. Invariably married guys never leave their wives, so ultimately you become the mistress or bit on the side, only seeing him when he can sneak away, then crawling back to the marital bed ... (read in full...)
What turns a man on other than sex?
Q. what turns a guy on the most without having like sex??...
A. 21 June 2007: There could be a whole list of things here as each individual male has different tastes and needs. It could be dressing up in a erotic outfit, foreplay, a sensual massage, role play to name a few things.
All the best x
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He's usually confident around the ladies but around me he's nervous and stutters!
Q. If a guy who normally flirts with all the other ladies acts nervous and stutters around you, does that mean he likes you as more than a friend?...
A. 21 June 2007: I am normally really confident around people whether it be male or female, but when i really fancy a girl i get butterflies racing round my tummy, and can't think what to say.
The answer to your question is yes it does sound like he really like... (read in full...)
Do you think this guy likes me?
Q. what does it mean if every day a boy stares at you all day for about 6 months and never says a word to you, also if he goes up to your friend and asks about you???...
A. 20 June 2007: I think this guy really likes you but is to shy to come up and ask you out. He stares at you all day, he has asked your friend about you, so the likellhood is he is crazy about you.
If you like him as well why don't you help him out abit and sugg... (read in full...)
I'll never see the guy I love again... Should I kiss him on the last day?
Q. Help me please! I've liked this kid since pre-k, and i have never kissed him. Friday is my last day of school, and I really want to, to get it off my chest. He's sweet but I'm not too sure if he likes me back. Should I go for it and give him a kiss, ...
A. 20 June 2007: Ok so you are never going to see him again, so take the bull by horns and kiss him. They say your school days are some of the best years of your life, so give yourself a good memory to look back and and kiss this guy, you will look back on it in ... (read in full...)
Attractive or not? - dense black pubic hair.
Q. I have lots of black dense pubic hair and I don't shave or trim. Do guys find this attractive or do they hate it?...
A. 20 June 2007: I guess it comes boils down to personal preference really, some guys may like it some guys may hate it. If a guy really loves you he will love you regardless of whether you are hairy or trimmed.
Good luck x... (read in full...)
We don't feel in love anymore--but we want to. Is there any hope?
Q. I need help. Me and my boyfriend dont think we are in love anymore but we want to be together to see if there is anything we can do in order to rekindle what we had, we've had alot of problems in these last few months but we both think we could get ...
A. 20 June 2007: Its only natural that the problems you have both had in the past will take their toll on your relationship further down the line. The likellhood that it will work out for you both is quite high as you both are willing to work at it. Why don't you ... (read in full...)
Two times unprotected sex--is my girlfriend pregnant?
Q. If I came in my girlfriend two different days is she likely to be pregnant?...
A. 20 June 2007: The likellhood is she could well be as you ejaculated in her on two occasions. The only way is do a pregnancy test to find out for sure.
Good luck... (read in full...)
I have a fairytale, perfect life. But not the man of my dreams to complete! What can I do?
Q. im 21 years old i have got the job of my dreams and soon to be having my own little cottage, but the only thing im missing is the man of my dreams.. sometimes i think is that just it a dream, i know which type of partner ide like but no one seems to ...
A. 19 June 2007: I know you have heard it before from others but its true, you are still really young and you have got all the time in world to meet the man of your dreams.
Enjoy your life, enjoy the job that you love doing, and look forward to getting that love... (read in full...)
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