Can you still snog a boy if you have braces on?
Q. can you still snog a boy if you have braces on?...
A. 2 August 2007: I recall i was on a five year waiting list to get braces fitted. So i ended up having them when i was 18/19 years old. At a time when i was out clubbing/ pubbing and meeting girls. Having braces did not affect me kissing girls atal. Just think how ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend is going on holiday with her ex; am I right to be unhappy about it?
Q. Hi, my fiance wants to go on holiday with her ex and I just aren't happy with the idea - surely it's not a normal thing to do? Thanks, Confused...
A. 2 August 2007: Well im not suprised you are not happy with this idea, i don't think there is any man that would be to be honest. I would tell het that this is a real bad idea, and that you feel very strongly about this.
If she still goes i would consider walk... (read in full...)
Can you get pregnant from toilet paper with sperm on it?
Q. can a 17 year old girl get pregnant if there is sperm on toilet paper?...
A. 2 August 2007: I would say no you can't, by the time you come to use the sperm on the toilet paper would have died and would not be capable of fusing with your eggs. Also the sperm woulden't been injected far enough into you either for it to have any impact.
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How can I cope with her breaking up with me?
Q. I have been going out with my girlfriend for the past 10 months. Only recently she has moved back home to Wales and since then the relationship has seemed strained. She has been home for about a month and is now asking for space. Things have seem...
A. 1 August 2007: At this point in time i would be inclined to give her some space and let things blow over a little.
She is back home in Wales and both her grandparents are ill in hospital so she has probably got other things on her mind other than rela... (read in full...)
I need to get my mind off him!!!
Q. hi i am 14 and i recently went to a football match and i really like one of the footballers i saw playing (it was a pre season match) i cant stop thinking about him although i have only seen him twice (i saw him in his car on the way home ) he is 21 ...
A. 1 August 2007: This is all part of growing up, to have crushes on film stars, singers, footballers is quite normal. As penta says don't act on it, you are way to young for him. Over the narural course of time these feelings will die down, and you will more than ... (read in full...)
I'm 20, 4'10in and worried.
Q. I am 20 years old and only 4 ft 10. My mother is 5 ft 3 and my father is 5ft 5. I am really getting worried about my height. I have been to my doctor who says i have nothing to worry about as long as i am healthy. Can any one help me please because ...
A. 1 August 2007: All i can say is you have nothing to worry about here. Some guys will find this really sweet. Not all guys like tall women, espessially if she is taller than the guy. Don't worry about your height, use it to your advantage. Look at it as a positive ... (read in full...)
I want to break up with my gf but am having a hard time...I can't get away from her! Any advice?
Q. My girl and i have been going out for 1.5 years and it was awsome but i lost feelings for her and now she is all lovey and all ... i called to break up with her many times but like she will just start crying and it doesnt bother me thta she crys ...
A. 1 August 2007: You have got to finish the relationship with your girlfriend sooner rather than later. The longer you leave it the harder it will get.
You say you can't break up with her, but you don't want to be with her anymore, if you don't want to be with her ... (read in full...)
Sex at 14.
Q. Am i too young to have sex at 14 ?...
A. 1 August 2007: Yes this age is to young, not only because your body is not mature enough, but it is also against the law.
If you slept with someone older they could get in to alot of trouble. Wait a couple of years at least untill you are over the age of cons... (read in full...)
Why has my boyfriend of a year cheated on me?
Q. Hi Well My Name Is Kristal and I have been dating my boyfriend for almost a year and a couple months and he has ben cheating on me not sexually but in other ways why has he been doing this?? i am very sad i need to know??...
A. 1 August 2007: Its hard to say why he has been cheating without knowing a little more about your situation here.
You say he has not been cheating on you sexually so i can only assume he has been flirting, texting, or emailing another girl.
Are you sure its not ... (read in full...)
Is it ok to carry on with the distance?
Q. i have a boyfriend but we are seperated by distance it is okay to continue...
A. 30 July 2007: Yes of course it is ok to carry on with the distance. It depends really on how strongly you feel about one another. Without knowing how far you are apart, and how often you do see each other its a tough one to answer.
But ultimately distance rela... (read in full...)
What do I tell my son about his father?
Q. im a young mum, very young mum. i had my baby 3yrs ago, but when i first told the father i was pregnant he just left me on my own, saying its my problem - not his! i think that was really rude of him to leave his unborn-child like that! but the p...
A. 30 July 2007: I would stick with being honest and tell you child that his father did not want to know, because he was not ready to become a father at that point in his life. Im sure when he gets older he is going to be curious and ask questions anyway, so set him ... (read in full...)
Should we let our age difference get in the way?
Q. She is 21 and in college and I am 18 and finishing up high school, we are both interested in each other but we are both concerned about how the age differance will play into our relationship, should we let that matter so much?...
A. 30 July 2007: Three years is no age gap atal. Some people have relationships with 15 or even 20 years difference and still make it work.
Like flower girl says its only a problem when you make it a problem.
Good luck... (read in full...)
Scared to ask the girl I like out....
Q. Hello, I'am a 14 year old who has a bit of a problam. You see I really really like this girl. But if I ask her out 2 problems can occur. If she says yes then thats great but once the time comes when we break up we will no longer talk and I dont know ...
A. 30 July 2007: Before you have even asked her out you are focusing on negative things like when you split up. Ask her out and let the chips fall where they may. Focus on the positives and stop dwelling on the negatives. Who knows you may ask her out, she may say ... (read in full...)
When you have to pee why do you get an erection?
Q. when you have to urinate why does your penis get hard...
A. 29 July 2007: I can't really answer this question as i have never had this problem, except for in the mornings. I feel this could be quite arkward getting up from you desk at the office when you are dying for a pee.
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Guys say I'm annoying and blow me off!!!
Q. Heya Cupid, My name is Emma and i'm 16 years of age. I just seem to be having a lot of trouble in relationships lately. Every guy i get serious with just blows it off with me they say i annoy them. The only reason i do it is because im so insecur...
A. 29 July 2007: Like Rasvim say's you need to work on you self esteem here.
When you go out with a guy and you keep seeking reasurance from them it is indeed annoying.
Work on your esteem and confidence before you enbark on your next relationship.
Try a Pau... (read in full...)
How do i remove myself?
Q. LOL, This is silly but somehow I added myself to my "friends list" and don't know how to get it off there. ...
A. 29 July 2007: Like the other posts have said there is a remove sign next to you name, this should remove you.
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Mum won't let me go round his house, because she thinks we're going to have sex.
Q. what to do when your mom don't let you go to your boyfriends house because she thinks that ya'll are gonna have s.e.x ...
A. 29 July 2007: I do believe that your mother has got your best interests at heart, she loves you and wants the best for you, the same any parents do for their children.
But at the end of the day you are 18-21, not 15 or 16, and you are quite within your righ... (read in full...)
Getting over someone who does not love you back.
Q. hey guys i was wondering if u could give me any tips on dealing with or getting over loving someone who u know doesnt love u back, im finding it so hard...
A. 29 July 2007: It is always hard when you love love someone and they don't love you back.
You will get over this in time, the best thing you can do is go out and enjoy life to the full. Have fun with friends and over the natural course of time the feelings will... (read in full...)
I've just been dumped.
Q. Earlier today I was dumped. I cried histarically for some time. So now I feel really drained and pathetic. Does anyone have any advise? any would be appreciated. Thanks a million, xx...
A. 25 July 2007: Being dumped is something that has happened to us all at some point in our lives. You feel like the world has just ended, that you will never meet anyone else.
What i can tell you is that these feelings don't last. In a week or so you will be back... (read in full...)
Guy's only hit on me when they are drunk.
Q. Do guys get put off by really quiet shy girls? I'm very quiet and shy (maybe a little bit uptight as well) but I'm not moody or anything just haven't got much confidence in myself etc and guys only seem to chat to me / hit on me when they're drunk. ...
A. 25 July 2007: There is nothing wrong with being shy, or quiet and reserved. Infact alot of guys would prefer this to a loud party girl type.
If men are only hitting on you when they are drunk then why don't you try to meet guy's in places where alcohol is not ... (read in full...)
Is ten years too big a difference?
Q. There is 10 years difference between myself and my girlfriend. She is 47 and I'm 37. She has been married and divorced but has no kids. I'm not sure if I still want kids. I do care for her and enjoy being with her, but don't know if 10 years is...
A. 25 July 2007: I don't think ten years is a big deal atal, you are both adults at the end of the day, so go for it.
Good luck ... (read in full...)
My Russian girlfriend is going away on holiday with another guy
Q. Hi, I have a Russian girlfriend who is about to go away on holiday with a male long term friend! Do you think that I should be cool about this? ...
A. 24 July 2007: I would not be happy with a partner of mine going away with someone of the opposite sex, i would have serious issues with it.
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I'm single after 3 years; how can I make sure I don't fall for another cheater next time?
Q. Hi I am planning on going it alone after being in a relationship for over 3 years and I'd like advice please. How do I stop myself falling into the same trap? Last 2 boyfriends cheated as did ex husband. What do I do wrong? This time plan to have ...
A. 24 July 2007: So you last two boyfriends cheated as did your ex Husband. Don't think you were to blame, or its all your fault that they strayed, you did nothing wrong.
Maybe it a wise decision to have some time out, have some me time and go out and do the thin... (read in full...)
I started dating my ex's friend; now my ex doesn't speak to us and is calling me a slut
Q. my ex broke up with me in Dec after a brief 4 month relationship. very shortly after our breakup, i was out and I met one of his friends that he talked about all the time, but Id never met this friend..me and my ex's friend hit it off right from the ...
A. 24 July 2007: He is your ex, so what does it matter what he thinks of you. He is calling you a slut, what right has he got to say anything as he was the one who was unfaithful when you were going out.
I think he is maybe jealous that you are dating his mate. So w... (read in full...)
What does he mean?
Q. If a guy starts talking about his co-workers teasing him about weddings, and the two of you talk about it (jokingly), what does that mean? They always say that behind every joke is a grain of truth (OK, aside from the elephant jokes). I'd ap...
A. 24 July 2007: Like you say behind every joke is a grain of truth, which could be true in this case.
I mess around with this girl at work about getting married and she keeps asking me when im going to buy the ring, and i keep saying soon. And we keep saying how ... (read in full...)
How can you tell if they like you or not?
Q. How do you find out if a boy likes you ,and when u do find out what do you do?...
A. 24 July 2007: You will certainly kmow if he likes you by his body language. He will treat you differently to other girls and act differently around you. He may be confident around friends but when you walk into the room he may become quiet and go all shy.
If he i... (read in full...)
Is the size ok?
Q. Hi, I am 20 i watch these xxx movies where men have huge c@#ks and when i look at mine its only 4" inches . I've never had sex before but i mastubrate alot... I just want to know does the size of c@#k really matter or is it fine with the size i h...
A. 22 July 2007: Don't pay any attention to these porn films, they are not true to life, and most of the time it is trick of the camera so the male apperars bigger than what he actually is.
I think most woman will tell you that is not the size that matters, but its ... (read in full...)
My friend keeps marrying men I think are losers, what can I do?
Q. By best friend keeps on marrying loosers what can I do to help??????...
A. 21 July 2007: Like the other posts have said there is not an awful lot you can do, she is a grown woman who makes her own choices. Love is blind, if she is going with the wrong people she has got to find out on her own, not from you. All you can do is be there ... (read in full...)
I'm almost 18 and she is almost 14; is it Ok to date her?
Q. is it alright if i am 17 going on 18 in november and im going out with a 13 going to be 14 in dec. because i think she is worth it but i dont know what to do please i need help. and my parents are telling lies to break up with her and they say that ...
A. 21 July 2007: Normally 4 years is not a great deal, it is however when the girl is coming up 14, and you are almost 18. Your parents are obviously worried about you dating this girl because if anything sexual were to happen you could find yourself in alot of ... (read in full...)
Does giving me a hickie mean he likes me too?
Q. if this boy i like gave me a hicky does that mean he likes me....
A. 21 July 2007: If he gave you a hicky it could well mean he likes you. But just watch out he is not doing it to others girls too.
Good luck x... (read in full...)
How do you know when it's time for a relationship to end?
Q. how do you know when your relationship should be ended?...
A. 21 July 2007: When both of you are at the end of your tether with each other. When you are just going through the motions and putting no real effort to make it work.
The romantic spark has gone, there is no hugs, kisses, or you have not made love for a coup... (read in full...)
I'm going to meet a boyfriend's parents for the first time in my life; I'm very shy and so nervous about it
Q. Help! I have to visit my boyfriend's parents for the first time tomorrow. This is the first time I've ever met a b.f.'s family. I know, surprising for a 35 year old. I'm very introverted and self-conscious and socially anxious (and don't exactly ...
A. 21 July 2007: I think the most important thing here is just to be yourself. Be very polite and say how pleased you are to meet them. I think they will respect you more for being quiet than someone loud who tries to take over the conversation. Compliment them on a ... (read in full...)
When should I kiss this guy, I like?
Q. okay, I like this boy and he likes me but I don't know whan to kiss him. ...
A. 20 July 2007: Don't rush it, when you feel the time and the setting is right just walk right upto him and plank a smacker right on his cheek.
Good luck and have fun x... (read in full...)
Is sharing a kiss with another guy and liking him really telling me my current relationship isnt working? Any views?
Q. I shared a drunken kiss with my boyfriends work colleague. We both have partners although he hasnt been with his long, we have txt each other and agree we both find each other physically attractive and enjoy each others company. We are both in ...
A. 20 July 2007: It sounds like you are developing a strong emotional connection with this guy.
Like penta says finish it with the new guy, or be truthful to you current partner. I think these are really your only two choices here.
k... (read in full...)
I have a violent bf who treats me like dirt behind closed doors! Any advice?
Q. I'm in a three-year relationship with a guy five years my senior. He's great in public, always kind to me, my family and friends plus very affectionate but behind closed doors it's like he's had a personality change. He treats me like dirt, forcing ...
A. 20 July 2007: This guy is treating you like c**p, he is walking all over you, threatening you with his fists, and tools. Well for your own safty my advice would be to pack your things up and leave this Jeckyl & Hyde character before he does some serious damage to ... (read in full...)
Can I ask my sister if I can kiss her? Any advice?
Q. Hi, I am 5 years younger than my sister. I find her attractive. i have never kissed or anything with anyone. Can i ask her to kiss me? If so how far can this go?...
A. 20 July 2007: I would nip this fantasy in the bud right now before it materialises into something you can't handle. She is your Sister and kissing her in this way would be so wrong and it can't go any further.
For your first kiss surlely it would be better and ... (read in full...)
I've gained 4 pounds and I feel fat! How do I lose it?
Q. i need some advice. i am 19 years old, female. i feel like i am getting to fat for my boyfriend. he says i'm not. but i have put on 10 kilos (4 pounds) in the past 12 months. does anybody have any advice on how i can lose some weight? what has ...
A. 20 July 2007: I don't think you have gained that much weight, and your boyfriend dosen't seem to think you have.
If you are really that worried get plenty of excercise and up your protein intake. Minimise the amount of starchy foods you consume, and cut out the ... (read in full...)
He said he needed to clear his head, and now I havent heard from him
Q. i was seeing a guy. he acted like he realy liked me. everything was going real good. one day i was with him, and the next day he called and said he needed to clear his head . i havnt heard from him and i was wondering if he will call again or if i ...
A. 19 July 2007: It does sound like the i need to clear my head thing was a brush off as you have not heard from him since.
I would let it go and get on with your life, there are plenty of other guy's out there that im sure would be only to happy to date you.
All... (read in full...)
He said he wants to meet me, but then he said he might be too busy! Is this a brush off?
Q. I met a guy a week ago and kissed him, we have txt each other and he says he wants to meet me but when i asked him if he was ok for a drink tonight he says he might be busy. He's sent me messages saying i am beautiful and very sexy but should i take ...
A. 19 July 2007: Give him the benefit of the doubt, he may very well be generally busy. He obviously likes you alot as he has commented on how beautiful and sexy you are.
Text him back and say to him when ever you are not busy it would be really nice to meet up for ... (read in full...)
I'm 14 and considering having sex for the first time... I'm scared! My Mum says I should wait it out, what should I do?
Q. hi im 14 and considering having sex for the 1st time the thing is im really scared ive talked to my mum she told me that il enjoy it more if i wait and if i really like the guy i do it with. i think shes only saying this to prevent me from having ...
A. 18 July 2007: Don't take into much of what your friends say here, rather take the advice of your Mum.
Wait until you are totally ready to do it both mentally and physically. If you do it now if feel you may regret it in years to come and wish you haden't.
All... (read in full...)
Guys always ask me out when I just want to be friends and then it ruins the friendship
Q. Hey guys, I need some advice. The thing is that every time I want to be mates with a guy they always end up asking me out and I hate this. When they ask me out I say no or whatever and then our friendship seems to always end there and I can't be the ...
A. 18 July 2007: Before they even get the chance to ask you out i think you should be upfront right from the off maybe. If you don't feel you are going to have any feelings for them then stipulate that this can never go beyond anything more than a casual friendship. ... (read in full...)
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