What does it mean to be in a commited relationship?
Q. What does it mean to be in a committed rlationship?...
A. 16 August 2007: That you are in a relationship that you really want to work, you love this person & would not do anything to hurt them. Relationships are about give and take, being equal, trusting and respecting each other.
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Why does he not come and see me?
Q. ive just split up with my boyfriend of 4 years im not really too bothered because hes found somebody else so im moving on too, my ex from years ago and i had a steamy night a couple off weeks ago but now hes keeping his distance although he txts me ...
A. 16 August 2007: Maybe he is just unsure of how you feel about him so is just taking this slowly. He still text's you every night so he is still keeping up some form of communication. Why not in one of your replys back to him ask him if he fancys meeting up one ... (read in full...)
Am I right to be worried about him moving in with her?
Q. Hello, My boyfriend moved from another country to be with me 3 months ago. While he has been looking for a job etc he has been living with me and we get along so well. I'd like him to continue living with me but he feels it would be unfair to my ...
A. 15 August 2007: I think you have got every right to feel worried about you boyfriend moving in with this girl, after all she has not got the best track record in the world has she.
As you say anything could happen after a few drinks. No i don't think you are over... (read in full...)
I have fallen for someone else, do I dump my boyfriend of 5 years?
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for 5 years, he treats me pretty bad, he relies on me for everything! I told him that I had had enough and wanted him to go! So he did but then came back and kept telling me he would change but the thing is I have ...
A. 15 August 2007: I agree with Danielepew, ignoring him will not make him go away. Telling him in a direct way of speaking is the only way thats going to drive it home to this guy that you don't want to know anymore.
I know its hard but sometimes we have got to be c... (read in full...)
My wife and I don't get along - would it be wrong to have sex with my ex?
Q. My wife cheated on me several times. We started to divorce but then we decided to give it another try. I must admit I hold onto a lot of resentment for all the lies and deciet along with her excuse that it was my fault she cheated. Things were good ...
A. 15 August 2007: Like Eyeswideopen says you should do the right thing and get a divorce before you do anything with this ex. Ok so your wife cheated on you several times and that is not easy for anyone to take on board.
But two wrongs do not make a right, don'... (read in full...)
I told him I found out about his sexual chats w/ other girls - now we don't trust each other!
Q. I found chatting communication of my boyfriend and girls on the net. We just bought a house and talking about having kids. Those conversations, were recent and he was initiating them. To girls he chatted long time ago. Last year he had sexual ...
A. 15 August 2007: I think he is playing you for a fool, he is instigating sexual conversations with other women over the net. Can you go on like this knowing what he is doing?. So consequently he does not trust you, and you don't trust him. And trust is what ... (read in full...)
Is it normal for my partner to go on holiday with her father and our sons a regular basis without me?
Q. I am in love with a woman who at times is the highlight of my life. We have one son together and she has one son from a previous relationship. Is it normal for a woman to want to go away with her father and my sons on a regular basis( vacations, ...
A. 15 August 2007: I don't think there is anything wrong with her wanting to go away with her family as a one off. I do however think that it is quite strange that she goes on a regular basis, taking vacations, holidays and leaving you behind. Have you ever asked her ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend has been text messaging and calling with at least four different girls!
Q. I looked through his phone and found out that my boyfriend of 3 months has been text messaging and calling with at least four different girls. He says they are just friends and that I don't have anything to worry about. What should I do??...
A. 14 August 2007: Its hard to comment without knowing what the text messages actually said. Only you read them, like Eve said were they suggestive and flirty, or just friendly texts between friends?.
Look into it abit more because you don't want to lead up the gard... (read in full...)
Will I give him another chance and how do I learn to trust him again.
Q. I have been going out with my man for 10 months we get on very well, but I have just found out that he is still in contact with an old girlfriend and one night when she called at his house they had sex. He swears he will have nothing else to do ...
A. 14 August 2007: You have every right to be worried and concerned about what is going on here. She called at his house and they had sex, he said it was a one off, but can you really believe that. You live 40 miles away, she could very well be going there more than ... (read in full...)
What is the difference between confidence, over-confidence and arrogance
Q. Hi there Can anyone tell me: What is the difference between confidence, over-confidence and arrogance? How can you tell if a person is over-confident, not just confident? How can you tell when someone is confident and when someone is...
A. 14 August 2007: I think confidence is an attractive quality in a male or female. Someone who is confident stands out from the rest and is normally well like by others. But as we delve into over confident and arrogant this becomes less attractive and these people ... (read in full...)
How to break the ice with girls I want to date..any tips?
Q. when i want to ask a girl out, what things should i say to break the ice and start a conversation with her. ...
A. 14 August 2007: Alot depends on where you are asking her out. Like you would have a different approach to chatting a girl up in a pub or a club, to say a supermarket, or libruary or something.
I think that the most important thing is don't try to be something your... (read in full...)
Is it okay that my 32 year old boyfriend said some thirteen year olds "look good?"
Q. Is it okay that my 32 year old boyfriend said some thirteen year olds "look good?" We were talking about teenagers for some reason and he said that but didn't go into their body parts or saying anything sexual about them. He babysits his 8 year ...
A. 14 August 2007: I must admit this does seem odd behaviour to say the least. Im 31 and i would not even contemplate saying that a 12/13 year old looks good, it just would not be right. Like Karlos Omnis says this sounds like a red flag...
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Just as we were saying goodbye we hugged for a very long time then came away slowly still holding each other and just stared into each other's eyes...
Q. I have been madly in love with this guy I met at college for almost 2 years. I have always felt that he has feelings for me but he finds it very difficult to show emotion due to personal reasons. I saw him the other week and we spent all day ...
A. 14 August 2007: I think this guy has feelings for you, otherwise he woulden't have hugged you for a long time, or have shared prolonged eye contact afterwoods.
You asked him if you freaked him out, and he said all is good, which by this he means he liked it, and ... (read in full...)
Had unprotected sex yesterday and lost my virginity...
Q. Had unprotected sex yesterday and lost my virginity... the problem is that I have really irrregular periods, does the 19th day idea still follow with this? I am due on supposedly in a week and a bit. Help please...
A. 14 August 2007: The other aunts gave you good advice, go to the doctor or a chemist and get the morning after pill.
In the future use a condom, its not only getting pregnant that you should be worried about, Sexually Tranmitted Diseases, STD'S should also be on y... (read in full...)
How can women want to touch someone with a small penis?
Q. Is it wierd to go from wee-man to Andre the Giant I have a serious problem, Im not a virgin but See i fear sleeping with women alot cause i have a terrible fear of being seen....well... soft. I have a very tiny thingthang when im soft ...
A. 13 August 2007: Alot of mens penises are very small when not standing to attention. 7.5 inches is not a bad size atal. I think that alot of woman will tell you that its not the size of the penis that counts but more how you use it that makes all the difference.
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How do i know what love is?
Q. im 14 years old and ive been going out with my 15 year old boyfriend for 6 months now i think i love him but how do i know what love is and am i too young for love x?x ...
A. 13 August 2007: When you love someone its one of the most wonderful feelings in the world. You bet butterflies racing round in your tummy when you see them. They are the first thing on your mind when you wake up in the morning, and the last thing before you drift ... (read in full...)
How do i confront her?
Q. I've been with my for boyfriend for one year starting today! My best friend used to date his brother, but he's moved on. She continues to come to his house though. I recently discovered that she brought a girl over to his house and was trying to ...
A. 13 August 2007: Yes i agree with Bubbloo24 you have got to confront her about this. Be bold and get your point across in a stern confident way and find out what the hell she thinks she was playing at.
You say she is a best friend, but do you really want a best frie... (read in full...)
What do guys think of girls who make the first move?
Q. I need to know ..... what do guys think of girls who make the first move? Ive met someone I REALLY like, we exchanged numbers and have met up a few times. Each time, we get on great and theres a definite attraction between us. The only thing is, I...
A. 13 August 2007: In todays day and age i don't think it looks to out of place to make the first move on a guy as it did years ago. However in this case you have made the first move, and have been making moves ever since whilst not getting any feedback.
Your frie... (read in full...)
I have been bitten by something for the past several nights!
Q. Okay, This is really gross. I have been bitten by something for the past several nights. I have welts, the size of mosquito bites, that are itchy, but they ooze a little bit the size of a pin-prick at the top. I don't think it is bed-bugs...
A. 13 August 2007: You could have bed bugs. These are very hard to see as they make themselves almost invisibal by day. But night time is when they come out to do their feeding.
Look up a local pest controller, he will come out and survey the area. If there are sign... (read in full...)
He sometimes mentions our age difference. What does that mean?
Q. Im 18 and hes turning 25, we flirt and kiss so much but he just mentions age just a little. What does that mean? Like. i like him alot and he likes me alot and he also says he just dosent wanna get in to trouble......
A. 13 August 2007: Age differences in relationships invariably only ever become a problem if either of you have got any underlying hangups regarding age gaps.
He obviously likes you otherwise he would not be reciprocating the flirting, but he obviously has got a slig... (read in full...)
Do I tell my boyfriend that I like him?
Q. hay, i really want 2 know if i should tell me bff if i like him, we have know each other for about 4 or 5 years, and i don't want 2 mess up relationship with him, and on top of that, he lives in another city. What should i do????...
A. 13 August 2007: Do as Jamer says and take the Bull By the Horns and go for it. Choose a perfect moment for you both and just ask him, you may be pleasantly suprised buy his awswer.
All the best x... (read in full...)
We're just talking for now but I'm a minor - should I stop talking to him?
Q. i'm a teenage girl that has fallen for a guy that's in his twenties. before people flip we're just friends online, for now. i know there is laws against guys talking to minors, but we're just talking at the moment, a little flirting every now and ...
A. 13 August 2007: I would be very cautious when communicating with people over the internet. The problem is we never really know who is on the other end, and are these people really who they say they are?.
You are still very young, and this guy is in his twen... (read in full...)
I'm 20 years old, and dating a 36 year old. What do you think?
Q. I am 20 and the guy I am starting to see is 36. I know how to handle myself as a woman so I'm not worried about getting to attached like most ladies my age... I know I know girls say that all the time but seriously I'm a very mature 20 year old. ...
A. 8 August 2007: I think age only becomes an issue if either of the people have got problems with it. If either one of you has the slightest hang up regarding age then its doomed to fail. Otherwise there is nor reason why is shouldent work out. At the end of the day ... (read in full...)
I done loads of sit ups and now i hurt.
Q. i did 100 situps all in 1 go 2 days ago id never done sit ups before but i want to loose weight so i started the sit ups and did 100 in about 25 mins and now my abdomen is killing me it hurts so much! what have i done??...
A. 6 August 2007: The pain you are feeling is you abs working. As you have not done sit ups before the are not used to this kind of resistance. My abs always hurt when i have not trained for a week or two. Give them a rest and when the pain dies down do some more. It ... (read in full...)
Does anyone know how I could track down a person who I met in a local supermarket?
Q. Does anyone know how I could track down a person who I met in a local supermarket? I didnt take their phone number and im now really gutted? Any ideas would be great!...
A. 6 August 2007: yeh i agree with eyeswideopen frequent the store in the hope that you will run into him again. But if you do make sure you know what you are going to say, and don't let him slip by again.
Good luck x... (read in full...)
Without asking, how do i know?
Q. how do know if she wants to have sex without having to ask her?...
A. 5 August 2007: I think eddie is spot on with that answer, lol.... (read in full...)
He's a mate and I like him. How can I get him to like me back?
Q. Hey, there is this guy i really like, and sometimes i think he likes me back. Eg. he always tickels me in science class and i like feel like he is staring at me. But i asked one of his friends who he likes and they said someother girl!! Can you plea...
A. 5 August 2007: The reason you make eye contact is a flirtatious way of letting someone know in a subtle way that you have feelings for them.
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Should I try to be friends with him or let it pass?
Q. Hi, I am 24 and have been married for nearly a year. I love my husband to bits and we are hoping soon to start a family but... there is a bloke who works in a shop on the next street who I walk past nearly everyday (I have to for work) and we always ...
A. 5 August 2007: Listen to sweet thing she gives you good advice. I know its hard to actually stay away because you have to walk past the shop where he works most days. But if you want a smooth loving relationship with your husband then i would give this guy a wide ... (read in full...)
How do i tell him i'm a virgin?
Q. Hey, I am quite apprehensive about telling my boyfriend of 3 months that I am virgin. He's quite an awkward guy, which is cute :) lol. I don't want him to feel under pressure when we have sex for the first time because he's "taking my virgi...
A. 5 August 2007: Being a virgin is nothing to be ashamed of, and you should not feel arkward telling him that your his first.
To be honest he will more than likely think its a good thing. Wait till the mood is right before you tell him, like when you are both rela... (read in full...)
He's a mate and I like him. How can I get him to like me back?
Q. Hey, there is this guy i really like, and sometimes i think he likes me back. Eg. he always tickels me in science class and i like feel like he is staring at me. But i asked one of his friends who he likes and they said someother girl!! Can you plea...
A. 5 August 2007: The best thing to do is carry on being friends with him. Carry on like you have been, when he flirts with you in science flirt with him back, and make it fun. When he stares at you hold eye contact with for 6 or 7 seconds then smile and look away.
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I really like this boy, but there is a problem. He is 4 years older then me. Is 4 years age difference too long?
Q. I really like this boy, but there is a problem. He is 4 years older then me. Is 4 years age difference too long?...
A. 5 August 2007: In normal circumstances i would say 4 years is nothing atal, like say you were 18 and he was 22. However being as young as you are 4 years is alot. At most you are 12, and he is 16, he is at completely different level in his life to you. I would ... (read in full...)
Am I immature or is he being dumb?
Q. Help me here guys. OF course I'm 13 and so is my boyfrined. He thinks I'm inmature just beacseI don't want to have sex and becasue I watch cartoon network and disney channel everyday.Am I really inmature or is he just being dumb?...
A. 5 August 2007: I agree with Dr Pete, i think he trying to push you into having sex and trying to belittle you.
Don't give in to him, you are both still far to young to be having sex. And don't let him make you feel bad about watching cartoon network, or disn... (read in full...)
Should I still ask him out given that I'm 19, he's 35?
Q. I'm an 19 year old girl and I'm interested in dating someone who is 35. I think he likes me but I'm afraid that he'll say no if I ask him if he feels the same. I think this because of our age difference. Should I still ask?...
A. 5 August 2007: Age only becomes an issue if either of you have got issues with it. If you are both comfortable with the age gap then there is no reason whatsoever why this could not work. Ten years is not a great deal really, so ask him out and see how it goes.
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She (13) thinks that he (23, Internet guy) is in love with her... how can I open her eyes!?
Q. One of my friends (13 y/o girl) is convinced that a 23 year old man she met over an online game is in love with her. I have done everything I can to try and convince her that this is not right. We live in different countries, and they live in ...
A. 4 August 2007: The whole problem with people we chat to over the internet is we never know who we are we are talking to, and invariably people are not who they say they are. I think you have got to bring it home to her the consequences of what could happen if she ... (read in full...)
Lately he doesn't seem to want to touch me and I miss it
Q. I am 44 and my man is 34. We've been together 2 yrs. We have had the most minblowing sex ever but here latley he dosent even touch me. I miss the touch and the love. Help me...
A. 4 August 2007: I think that comunication is the key here. Talk to him, find out why he has not been touching you lately. Maybe he is feeling a bit depressed, maybe got some problems at work, or money worries, who knows. The only way you are going to find out is to ... (read in full...)
I've never had a girlfriend, should I be worried?
Q. I'm eighteen years old, a virgin and have never had a girlfriend. I'm not too bad looking and I'm very intelligent. Should I be concerned?...
A. 4 August 2007: I don't think you have got anything to be concerned about here atal. You are only 18, you have got all the time in the world to meet someone. The worst thing you can do is get desperate to meet a girl. Just relax, take things in your stride, go out ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend wants sex every day and I don't; how do I deal with this?
Q. hey i need help....my boyfriend of a year and 3 months and who i deeply love with everything in my body has a little problem...he is well, oversexed. everytime we are together all he keeps asking me for is sex...dont get me wrong i do want sex but ...
A. 4 August 2007: First of all you are both under the age of consent to be having sex anyway and shoulden't be doing it untill you are both 16.
Moan out of the way, he has just got a high sex drive. Its comon that with couples one partner has got a higher sex driv... (read in full...)
My fiance and I argue constantly but I can't see myself living without him
Q. well im in a relationship well we r actually engaged but we argue alot almost everyday and ive been thinkin about getting with someone else but i cant see myself without them and i dont know wat to do so wat should i do?...
A. 4 August 2007: If you are fighting every day then this is not good for any relationship. If you really are arguing that much then maybe it is time to call it a day and move on.
If as you say you can't see yourself without them then the only thing i can cons... (read in full...)
Should I get my hair done the way I want or listen to my mum?
Q. hi there i am 14 years old and i really want to cut my hair short like how posh spice had it at the end of 2oo6 i asked my mom last night and she said it would not suite me but i think it will she also said that she doesnt trust the hairdresser and ...
A. 4 August 2007: Your Mum is just giving you her opinion, as in she thinks this short hair cut won't suit you. I don't think she is saying no to you getting it done, you have probably been growing your hair for years and she dosen't want you to do something you will ... (read in full...)
He's got a roving eye, he watches porn and he often doesn't get hard with me... !
Q. I've been with my boyfriend for 3 years. In this time, he has consistantly had a roving eye. He denies this. I have been physically moved out of the way, for him to get a better view of another female. I can see him getting twitchy when he sees ...
A. 2 August 2007: Most certainly him who has the problem, is not you. if you don't mind me saying, i think this guy sounds like a bit of a jerk, and he has got no respect for you.
As for him being a red blooded male, well this he is certainly not. What sort of guy ... (read in full...)
Can you still snog a boy if you have braces on?
Q. can you still snog a boy if you have braces on?...
A. 2 August 2007: I recall i was on a five year waiting list to get braces fitted. So i ended up having them when i was 18/19 years old. At a time when i was out clubbing/ pubbing and meeting girls. Having braces did not affect me kissing girls atal. Just think how ... (read in full...)
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