What matters boys?, what are you after in women?
Q. Hey this question is for the guys out there. As you can probably tell by my screen name i am 15 but this question is does size really matter? Im a very petite girl and so naturally my breasts aren't that big im a 34A and my friends are all at least ...
A. 24 August 2007: If there is love involved then it size does not even come into it. Big breasts small breasts, big bum petite bum, when you love someone it does not matter, love supersedes everything.
x... (read in full...)
How do I tell if I have low self-esteem?
Q. It's a weird question i know but i'm making sure... cause i care about what people think of me. One of my guy friends thinks that i have low self esteem... but i really think i have high self esteem, i just don't show it as much as others. I just ...
A. 24 August 2007: If you have a low self esteem, which im sure you have not you are very unsure of yourself, unconfident and a lack of motivation.
I think you are to young to be worrying about whether you have a low self esteem or not. Don't feel down just beca... (read in full...)
I always feel that other people are better than me. Why?!
Q. hey. What i have always felt throughout my life is other people are so much better than me. Why? I have been told i am pretty lots of times yet i still feel like everyone else has something that i don't. Why am i so insecure about what i look like...
A. 23 August 2007: You are suffering from a lack of self confidence, and this is not uncommon with people around your age group. As you mature and get older your confidence and self esteem will grow with you and you will start to feel better in yourself.
You coul... (read in full...)
Is it weird for a guy to NOT want to have sex?
Q. Okay so I just want to know.. is it weird for a guy to NOT want to have sex? I've been with my boyfriend for a year, we love each other and everything but he just won't do it. But yet he still teases me about it sometimes like provoking me kinda. ...
A. 23 August 2007: I don't think there is anything weird in him not wanting to have sex at the moment. Maybe at this point in his life he simply is not ready. Maybe he thinks you don't want to, does he know how keen you are to do it?.
I think the pair of you have got ... (read in full...)
I need to clear my head.
Q. I have troubles relaxing and getting ready for sex, and sometimes when i am having sex all i can think about is things i have to do the next day. What are some things i can do to clear my mind so i can be more alert to pleasure my partner and also ...
A. 23 August 2007: I think your mind is working over time and you are stressing about things you have not done or have to do. Try relaxing, find a time on your own pull the curtains, maybe light an insence stick and lay back on the sofa and concentrate on your ... (read in full...)
I wrote him an email and he hasn't answered yet..does he not like me?
Q. I wrote an email to a guy I like asking him to the park a few days ago and he hasn't answered yet. Does this mean he doesn't like me anymore?...
A. 23 August 2007: It could very well be he just has not checked his Emails yet. Don't be to upset if he does not reply back, you are still very young, enjoy yourself and have fun.
Good luck x... (read in full...)
What are some tips to impress guys?
Q. What are some tips to impress guys?...
A. 23 August 2007: I believe that the best way to impress is just be yourself. When you put on a front and try to be someone you are not you have to keep this up for the duration.
Just be polite, confident, and most important be who you really are.
Good luck... (read in full...)
Is big best, if so why?
Q. hi i am a male and not well endowed is big best if so why ...
A. 22 August 2007: I think alot of women will tell you that big is not necessarily the best. You could have a really huge one but if you did not know how to use it would not be generating a huge amount of pleasure for the female. equally someone could have a ... (read in full...)
He wakes up and reads porn like it's the newspaper and masterbates...what can I do?
Q. my boyfriend gets up in the mornings before me sometimes i do wake up to find him reading porn stories like its the sunday paper and masterbating i dont want to but i get mad because i would rather him come wake me so that i can please him i need to ...
A. 22 August 2007: I can see why you are upset about this, alot of women would be. Talk to him, tell him how you are feeling and you are not happy with him viewing porn before you get up. Tell him you would rather him come to wake you up than to look at this stuff. ... (read in full...)
What can I do for my 11th anniversary?
Q. I wonder if anyone has advice on what I can do for my eleventh anniversary, I know its not a big anniversary, but I kinda dropped the ball last year and it would help fix that if I did something pretty big this year. ...
A. 22 August 2007: It all depends on how much you want to spend really. How about booking a table at a really nice resturant. And arrange beforehand have the staff bring flowers & champagne over to your table.
Good luck... (read in full...)
He is only a child but I am nearly an adult. What do I do??
Q. Hi, I'm a 17 year old girl, almost 18. My problem is that I have fallen in love with a guy who is 15 (who will turn 16 two months after I turn 18.) I feel really bad about the age gap but he said he doesnt care what age I am because he loves...
A. 22 August 2007: A two year age gap in a relationship is not very big atal. I would however wait till he reaches the age of 16 before you persue anything with him. Age gaps always sound like alot when you are younger, but in a couple of years time, like say when you ... (read in full...)
Does anyone have any ideas where to find good guys? And how can I date one safely?
Q. Hi, I would really like to date and hang out with different guys and get to know different people, but I can't seem to find a good guy. A lot of guys I attract are much older than me and it would make me uncomfortable to date someone almost the same ...
A. 22 August 2007: There are any number of places where you can potentially meet nice guys. Ideally i would say that places where guys have been drinking are not a good area to start because when someone has had five or six pints of beer they tend not to be themselves ... (read in full...)
I have a HUGE crush on this guy, could it be possible he feels the same way?
Q. Lets say, you have this HUGE HUGE I mean HUGE crush on a guy. And you feel that it is reciprocated through gestures and actions (i.e smiles, tone conversations, etc). (I'm 17) Can it be possible that he feels the same way, or would he just b...
A. 22 August 2007: Its perfectly normal what you are feeling, its how we feel when we really fancy someone. The butterflies racing round in your tummy, thinking about them all the time, not being on this planet half the time, and smiling aimlessly to yourself.
I... (read in full...)
Are they really addicted or just being guys?
Q. When guys say that they are addicted to porn, is that REALLY that bad or are they just normal people being guys?...
A. 21 August 2007: If someone says they are addicted to porn then the likellhood is they probably are. Alot of single guys out there look at porn, as well as married guys too. I woulden't say its just a guy thing either as im sure truth be told alot of woman look at ... (read in full...)
I want to dump my friend and she is not taking the hint
Q. Hey, I have this friend that I have known for a yearish. And I see her quite a bit but I don't want to keep seeing her because I have other friends that I prefer to hang around with. She keeps calling me up and asking me if I want to hang out, and I ...
A. 21 August 2007: Sometimes in this life we have to be cruel to be kind. Not returning her calls and saying you are busy is not working, so all you can do is tell her that face to face, or over the phone that you don't want to see her anymore. Maybe after this if she ... (read in full...)
Is it wrong to masterbate to help me get over him?
Q. Hi im sixteen and am really confused. I always want to txt this guy friend of mine and i always want to fool around with him, but theres been some problems in the past and he wasnt very nice, and i know he'll probably hurt me again. So ive been ...
A. 21 August 2007: If masturabting is helping you to get over him, and it feels good for you then keep doing it.
Masturbating is nothing to be ashamed of, it is something that most of the population does, even if most don't admit to it.
All the best x... (read in full...)
How can I trust my fiancee when she said she loved someone else?
Q. my fiancee admitted that she loved another guy, but now feels that it was a mistake. can i trust her and in forward with her?...
A. 21 August 2007: Love is a very stong word for her to use, its different if she said fancied, or had a crush on, love is a completely different issue altogether. You can't just love someone then all of a sudden not love them as quick as that. I would make absolutely ... (read in full...)
He keeps pressuring me to give him a blowjob and I don't want to!
Q. My boyfriend is two years older than me and has had a lot of sexual experience, whereas I have had none. He keeps pressuring me into giving him a blowjob but I don't want to. I don't know how to tell him to stop pressuring me and will he think less ...
A. 21 August 2007: You should never ever be pressured into something that you do not want to do. Also i think its wrong of him to push you, esspessialy as he knows you don't want to. Also you are under 16 and should not be doing things like this anyway.
I think the ... (read in full...)
Should I tell my boyfriend when a guy asks me for my phone number?
Q. I have a boyfriend and I wanna be faithful to him. I tell him when boys ask for my number. Yesterday, he acted weird, I didn't know why, until he told me that 'a boyfriend doesn't wanna know if his girlfriend's are getting numbers' well.. I just ...
A. 21 August 2007: I think just to keep the peace with your boyfriend i would be inclined to keep it to yourself. Its not like you are being unfaithful or anything. If a guy gives you his number and then you bin it is no big deal really, if you think it will save ... (read in full...)
I slept with my ex (who has a girlfriend and a baby)... now I've found out I have genital warts - how can I tell him??
Q. i recently slept with my ex who has a girlfriend and a baby and i just found out i have genital warts. how can i tell him without people gettin hurt...
A. 21 August 2007: When you do things like this people invariably end up getting hurt.
You are going to have to tell him soon, maybe arrange to meet him somewhere and tell him then.
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I'm 17 and want a baby!
Q. Hi everyone. My name is Robyn and I'm 17. I've been going through a lot lately and I don't know what to do. All last year I was very ill and I thought at one point I was pregnant. When I found out I wasn't, I was devastated. I want a baby so ...
A. 21 August 2007: Personally i think you are still very young to be considering having a child. Woulden't you rather wait till you are settled financially, obtained you qualification from college and got a good job. Also at 17 im sure there are still things you have ... (read in full...)
How can I delay climax?
Q. yo uo.. Whenever me and my gf have sex .. i seem to cum quite a long time before i want to .. is there anything i can do to delay climax.. thank you...
A. 19 August 2007: When you feel you are going to ejaculate withdraw and perform some foreplay or something. Then in five minutes or so start again. If you feel you are going to cum again and are not ready repeat this process.
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How often is "often enough".. ?
Q. How often should a normal guy masturbate a day?...
A. 19 August 2007: There are not set rules for how often a guy should masurbate. If you have the urge do it, whether it be once a day or ten times a day it dosen't matter.
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I'm attracted to older women.... why?
Q. i am 26 year and i like older woman then me i dont understand why this is happneing to me. i am more attracted to them in all manner. what is your advice how to come out of this. i dont have any girlfriend....
A. 19 August 2007: There is no problem atal in liking older women, so why would you want to come out of it, if you like it then stick with it.
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I don't have to worry if he just pulls out, do i?
Q. ok me and my boyfriend are attempting a quickie but we dont have time for a condom but if he pulls out we shouldnt worry right i understand preejaculation but has that ever really gotten someone pregnant?...
A. 19 August 2007: For starters you are under the legal age of consent and should not be contemplating this yet.
And yes there is every chance you could fall pregnant if he pulls out, you can still fall pregnant by pre'ejaculation. On top of this there are also sexu... (read in full...)
Do you think i might be pregnant?
Q. hi Im 17 years old and i think im pregnant I have sore breasts, my period is a month late, my stomache hurts all the time,, i cant eat certain things, it sounds good then it hurts my stomache, im always tired... please help me if its possib...
A. 19 August 2007: I agree with flower girl, get a test done or go and see your GP. After you will know for sure and it will be a weight off your shoulders.
Good luck x... (read in full...)
How do i tell my parents about my older women?
Q. I'm 16 and I'm going out with a 25 year old woman and we love each other very much. How would I tell my parents about us without them freaking out or anything?...
A. 19 August 2007: I really think that the best thing you can do is be open and honest and tell your parents that you are in love with a 25 year old woman and just let the chips fall where they may. Pick an appropriate time to tell them, but do tell them and don't go ... (read in full...)
We are 13, and my girlfriend has asked if i would like oral, what do you think?
Q. my girlfriend and i have been together for 8 months already. she is now asking me if i want a blowjob. we are 13. what do we do?...
A. 18 August 2007: There is no rush, you are both only 13. I don't really think you should be thinking about things like this at such an early age.
Take your time, enjoy being young and leave the sexual things till you are both older.
Good luck... (read in full...)
I am 17 my partners 21. Is the age difference too much?
Q. if your 17 and hes 21 is that a bad gap? we have been together for 2 years now ill be 18 in sept. and he'll be 22 in oct. is this such an age gap? ...
A. 18 August 2007: I don't think this age gap is big atal, its only 4 years, some people have succesful relationships with 10 or even 15 years between them.
Good luck x... (read in full...)
I'm 14, he's 18. He wants to go out, but I've never dated before!
Q. I am 14 and I have a crush on this 18 years old guy. He is major cute and hot. I've known him since kindergarten. My parents know him well, too. Last week, he told me he really really likes me and want to go out with me. I want to go out but I'm not ...
A. 17 August 2007: Its all very well him being cute and hot but at the end of the day you are 14 and he is 18. Normally 4 years is not a great deal in relationships, but in this case it is a massive gap because you fall under the age of consent. He could get into ... (read in full...)
I'm 15 and in love with a 25 year old footballer... is this age gap too big?
Q. Hi, Im 15 years old and have recently fallen for a 25 yr old footballer. He appears to have feelings for me as well, i would like to get involved with this guy if he feels the same way about me, is the age gap to big? I turn 16 in 5 months and ...
A. 17 August 2007: Normally i would say that 10 years is not that big age. However it is a massive gap if you are only 15 and he is 25. I also don't think its entirely normal for a 25 year old to be interested in a 15 year old. You say he appears to have feelings for ... (read in full...)
What does his lack of contact, on holiday mean?
Q. My boyfriend of 4 months went on holday for 2 weeks and text me only four times,only in response to the texts i sent him!! he hasnt even called me! what does this mean! ...
A. 17 August 2007: Persoanlly if it were me i would have made the effort to at least give my girlfriend a call, but everyone is different. I assume he is on a lads holiday?. In which case it could be his mates would laugh at him saying he is reporting home or ... (read in full...)
We have no intimacy in our relationship...
Q. My relationship sucks!!!!!! We don't have sex in any form. Every day it's go to work, watch movies and then to bed. Thier is no intmacy at all. Time to bail or what?...
A. 17 August 2007: The are two options here, bail, or stay and work and try to get this relationship back on track. If it is the latter then communication is the key, find a good moment and have a good long chat and get whats bothering you off your chest.And accetain ... (read in full...)
How do I confront her about this guy she's been calling without sounding like I've been spying!?
Q. My wife started acting secretive so my curiousity kicked in to investigate what is going on. I found an odd number on her phone logs. I investigated it because of the odd time of the call. I found the # to be that of a guy she made a call to. I got ...
A. 17 August 2007: You can't go on like this, you deserve to know the truth, so tell her what you have found. Do it soon as the longer you leave it the harder it will get, and the more out of hand things will become.
Like Mandy7 says you need to know where you stan... (read in full...)
Could she get pregnant from toilet paper?
Q. can a 17 year old girl get pregnant if a guy masturbates in the bathroom and he ripes off a layer of toilet paper and a lil sperm droped on the other layer of toilet paper that is on the wall?...
A. 17 August 2007: Highly unlikely as sperm dies almost instantly, so it woulden't really stand a chance of getting her pregnant.
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I'm really confused about this guy I like... I can't read his signals.
Q. I'm really confused about this guy I like. I think he likes me, he is always trying to make me laugh, I catch him staring at me loads. If we are out in a group he always looks over at me but when we are on our own he gets nervous and seems to get ...
A. 16 August 2007: I think this guy likes you, but just can't seem to find the courage to do anything. Increase the flirting with him, when you catch him looking at you stare at him back and hold eye contaact with him for as long as you can then smile and look away. ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend wants to have a baby with me but I'm only 15!
Q. Hi, I am 15 and my boyfriend is 19 and he wants to have a baby with me, I also want one but I feel that I am too young. please help me. ...
A. 16 August 2007: Don't let him pressure you into having this baby, you are far to young, and below the age of consent too.
Ask any 15 year old mother if they would have the baby again if they could turn the clock back, i bet they would say no.
You are 15 coming u... (read in full...)
Do I wait to tell my mum that I'm moving in w/ my guy after he has the flat?
Q. any idea how i can break it to my mum i wanna move in with my boyfriend. In a few months i can legally move out. Im almost 16 and my boyfriend is 17. we can aford it and everything. Do i tell her now or wait till he's got the flat? and what am i ...
A. 16 August 2007: I agree with flower girl, talk to her about it before you get the flat rather than later, this shows maturity on your behalf.
Choose a good time and just tell her that you really like this guy and want to live together. She will either be tota... (read in full...)
Are we too young to be engaged?
Q. Im 16 my boyfriend is 17 we have been together a while now and are very much in love. We are considering moving in together at the start of next year. We were talking last night and he said next time we go shopping he wants me to point out some ...
A. 16 August 2007: Hey we only get one shot at this life don't we, so if in your heart of hearts you both feel this is right then go for it, and good luck xx... (read in full...)
I'm not attracted to my bf of 6 years and now my ex says he wants me! My head is a mess - help!
Q. I really don't know what to do. I am 25 and I have been with my b/f for 6 years and I thought I was in love with him but now I dont think I am. But Im not sure- I think all the problems we have been having are because it boils down to the fact ...
A. 16 August 2007: I think you did the right thing by not going behind your boyfriends back & cheating with this old flame.
It sounds like you have lost all your feelings for your current boyfriend, and you are not sexually attracted to him. I would tell your boyf... (read in full...)
What does it mean to be in a commited relationship?
Q. What does it mean to be in a committed rlationship?...
A. 16 August 2007: That you are in a relationship that you really want to work, you love this person & would not do anything to hurt them. Relationships are about give and take, being equal, trusting and respecting each other.
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