I'm 14 and I like a girl in my class. Im shy. How can I let her know I'm interested???
Q. Hi i am 14 years old and there is a girl in my class at school that i have wanted to go out with for 3 years. but im relly quiet and shy. just wanted to know of any ways to let her know im intresded without having to do much talking to her....
A. 1 September 2007: Body language and small flirtatious gestures are probably going to be the best way of getting it across that you like her. Eye contact always works well, try to catch he eye and try to keep it going with her for as long as you can before smiling and ... (read in full...)
How come guys never noticed me as brunette but now i'm blonde i'm sexy. How come??
Q. hey, Recently i dyed my hair blonde, and now that i have guys make comments about me and stuff like that. Im not bothered im just curious to why guys are making comments about it, im also getting called sexy now that im blonde where as when i was br...
A. 31 August 2007: I think the other posts are spot on, its not the hair colour but how you feel in your self, your confidence supercedes everything.
xx... (read in full...)
How do I break up with him, if I'm interested in preserving the friendship?
Q. I need ways to break up with a guy! Somthing that would make us stay friends... any ideas?...
A. 31 August 2007: You have got to find the right time, sit him down and tell him exactly how you are feeling. Tell him you think he is a really great guy but you can only ever see him as a friend. But enphasize the point that you would like to remain close friends in ... (read in full...)
He is not text-book attractive, however has a fantastic personality. Should I pursue a relationship with him, against the will of my friends?
Q. I need help!! Ive recently become intensely attracted to someone ive known for several years, but this is not where my problem lies. The issue is that this man is not text-book attractive. He's in his 30's, roughly five-ten, incredibly thin,...
A. 31 August 2007: The only thing that matters here is how you feel about this guy, what your mates think and say is irrelevant. If he was some loser who was taking you for a ride then i could understand your mates may have a point. But to turn you off of him because ... (read in full...)
How do I tell him that I'm not interested in him as a boyfriend?
Q. How do I tell a guy that I like as a friend, that I'm not interested in him as a boyfriend? I met a guy on holiday as part of a big group of friends. I've since seen him again with several other people we met on holiday too, and we get on really...
A. 31 August 2007: All you can do is be honest and up front with him about how you feel. Tell him you only see him as a friend and that is as far as this can ever go.
Make sure you tell him soon so that he knows where he stands and is not lead on in any way. if you ... (read in full...)
I'm 14 and the 22 year old guy I met online wants to meet me!
Q. I met this boy over a chat room started talking but the problem is hes 22 im only 14 i know hes not an old man or anything becasue he sent me a picture with my name on i told him first that i thought he was a fake but now i know hes not. He wants ...
A. 31 August 2007: Don't do it, the problem with people we speak to on the internet is we never really know who or what we are dealing with. This guy could be anybody and the consequences of you meeting him could be disasterous. Also its not right that a 22 year old ... (read in full...)
A girl I like said I was 'nice' What does 'nice' actually mean?
Q. There is this girl that i have met, she is very pretty and has a great personallity. After a couple days of knowing her i asked her what she thought of me, and all she could say was that i was "nice". my question is what does she mean by "nice"?...
A. 31 August 2007: Asking someone what they think of you after a couple of days, i should think she was abit put on the spot. She probably had to scramble around for a suitable word to say and the first thing that came into her mind is that you were nice. By this she ... (read in full...)
Was getting back with my ex, Now I'm panicking cuz he's not txt and his phone's off???
Q. was going out with my bf for a year. we broke up and i never made a secret of how i wanted to get back together. last weekend he said he felt the same and would like to get together soon, my prob is im a worrier really badly and haven't heard from...
A. 31 August 2007: You only heard from him yesterday morning, he could genuinly be busy, or have something on.
Send him one more text then leave the ball is his court, what ever you do don't bombard him with calls and texts as this will put him off. Send him one more... (read in full...)
I'm 11 and me and my girlfriend keep breaking up. Should we be together? Help please.
Q. me and my girlfreind keep breaking up and getting back together over and over should we be together i am eleven...
A. 30 August 2007: I think you are way to young to be worrying about issues such as this. Relax, take things in your stride, have fun and worry about relationship things further down the line.
Take care... (read in full...)
I helped a mate out when they split from their partner. Now they're interested in me but I'm married! Help!
Q. I'm in a predicament partially of my own making and I don't know the way out. I'm pretty certain I'm confused. I've been married/involved for the past decade. A friend of mine has been going through some rough times with his relationship of ...
A. 30 August 2007: I think he will be hurt even more if you allow this to go on any further. You have got to be upfront and honest and tell him the way it is
Eplain you are sorry that his relationship ended badly and that you are there for him but only as a frie... (read in full...)
I'm 20 and haven't yet even kissed a girl. Am i odd or is this normal?
Q. My story is a depressing one. I'm 20 and whilst most of my friends keep talking about having sex, I still have yet to kiss a girl. I'm not talking about a quick one on the lips, I mean a proper snog. Never. Am I an odd case or is this fairly comm...
A. 30 August 2007: I don't think its that uncommon really. Your time will most certainly come, don't be in a rush, relax have fun and it will happen when you least expect it.
Take care... (read in full...)
What can I do to get our relationship back the way it was?
Q. i have been with my boyfriend for nearly a year and a week ago his mates told me he has cheated on me but we talked and we said we would give it another go. He apologised and i knew he meant it because he was crying and he told me he has not cried ...
A. 30 August 2007: Relationships are all about trust. If you take trust out of a relationship its like building a house without digging the foundations, it will eventually fall down.
If in your heart of hearts you think he is sorry and won't do it again then give him ... (read in full...)
I've got no confidence... any advice?
Q. okay this is gonna sound lame to some of you, but i have no confidence...okay lemme explain, ive had borderline anorexia twice and ahve been thru depression, not a good combination i know. now to add to that ive been screwed around a few times and ...
A. 30 August 2007: Yeh i think Spanna gave you really good advice there and i would take that onboard.
xx... (read in full...)
Do you think I should bother with her or do you think she doesn't want to know? I'm 44 she's 22.
Q. Please help I've been with my girlfriend for 4 months now, I do have a past, people have been telling her things about me. Lately she's always busy or she says she has a lot on, do you think I should bother with her or do you think she doesn'...
A. 30 August 2007: She could really be busy and have a lot on as she says. Or the flip side of that is some busy bodies have told tales to her about you and she is brushing you off.
I really think the only option here is communication, ask her what the problem is. ... (read in full...)
We never seem to be alone to try to have sex together.
Q. I really want to have sex with my boyfriend and he says he wants to as well but we never have a place to do it because there are people always in my house and his so we can never be alone and also I wouldn't know what would start us off, would it be ...
A. 30 August 2007: Take what all the other posts have said to you here because its really good advice, you are both too young to be even contemplating sexual activity.
Nip it in the bud for now and wait till you are both older.
K... (read in full...)
My ex is getting married next week and I'm still in love with him.....
Q. I'm still in love with my ex and he is getting married next week.. it still hurts inside.. what should I do? I really need advice asap!!pls.....
A. 30 August 2007: I reall do think you are going to have to bite the bullet on this one. He has moved on fallen in love and is getting married next week. I know how painful it must be for you as you are still carrying feelings for him. Although it does not feel like ... (read in full...)
Is it too young for a sixteen year old and a twenty year old to hook up and start dating?
Q. Is it too young for a sixteen year old and a twenty year old to hook up and start dating? Its only four years. Just look at my parents they're six years apart and they love each other and my friend's parents are fifteen years apart. But when young ...
A. 30 August 2007: I can't really see a problem with this, 4 years is not a great deal really. It sounds alot because she is 16, but in a few years when she is 20 and you are 24 it won't be hardly noticable.
Goodluck ... (read in full...)
I lost my virginity 2 days ago. We used protection but I feel bloated and ill. Should I be worried?
Q. Hi, im 17 and lost my virginity 2 days ago, it was protected sex as he wore a condom. It hurt when while having sex and i bled a little but afterwards i felt fine. But the day after i felt a little sick and bloated and i still feel like that today. ...
A. 30 August 2007: You played it safe for your first time and thats excellent, and i really do not think that you feeling ill has got anything atal to do with you losing your virginity.
I would put it down to this bout of tonsilitis you are having, in a few days this... (read in full...)
I'm not keen on my mother-in-law. My spouse would love us to get along. Any ideas?
Q. How do i deal with a hypocrite mother-in-law and still have a great relationship with my spouse? he loves me and his mom and would want me and her to have a good relationship....
A. 30 August 2007: Im sure you are not the first person to admit you are not that keen on you inlaw, and by no means the last. There is no reason why you and you spouse can not have a great relationship, after all you are married to your Husband not your ... (read in full...)
I cant get over my work colleague
Q. I've mentioned before on here that I've fallen big time for a colleague, I've known here for 3 years now and over the last year really fallen for her, sadly she doesn't feel the same way and much as it hurts I accept I can't change that. We ...
A. 30 August 2007: This is the whole problem of romances, affairs and unreciprocated loves at work. When things are going good then all is sweet, but when/if things go the other way it can be cause major feelings of resentment and bad feeling. In your case you really ... (read in full...)
I have been having sex with a married man. He says he loves me and his family. Could he just be after sex?
Q. i have a colleague at work who is married with a 3 year old kid..i was new and got atrracted to him, i was the only one single in the office and many guys wants to court me, but i fell inlove with this married man and we see each other secretly,we ...
A. 30 August 2007: Yes he is most certainly just after sex. He has it with you then crawls back to the marrital bed at the end of it, so he is certainly getting his cake and eat it too.
Invariably married guys never leave their partners, so ultimately you become the ... (read in full...)
Worried she's developing feelings for me, as I don't reciprocate and she'd feel rejected! I'm her best mate.
Q. Okay i'm 16 and one of my closest friends is only 14. I have known her most of my life and we have always ben very very close and she always comes to me when she has a problem. However recently she has just broken up with her boyfriend, and i...
A. 28 August 2007: All you can be is totally honest here and tell her that all you can ever be with her is best mates.
Its better to tell her the truth than to lead her on and give her false hope.
tell her you value her friendship a great deal and never want to lose ... (read in full...)
I'm 13 and he's 18 and has a girlfriend, should I tell him how I feel?
Q. Well I like this guy named Jesse. He is going into the US coast guard next month and I'll be here alone. I want to tell him how I feel, but he is 18 and I'm 13 plus he has a girlfriend. But he always seems to like me. In church he always gives ...
A. 28 August 2007: Under normal circumstances i would say that 5 years in relationships in nothing. However when you are only 13 and the guy is 18 the gap is massive. He could also get into an awful lot of trouble for doing anything with you because you fall under the ... (read in full...)
What's wrong with loving someone who is a bad person?
Q. What's wrong with loving someone who is a bad person?...
A. 28 August 2007: Its hard to say, i think you need to elaborate a little more on why he is a bad person and what he has done to make him bad.
Is he a two timer? Is he nasty to girls? Is he always in trouble?
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Where are all the honest men?
Q. This question is for all the guys, male, testosterone driven individuals. I have had bad experiences in my life with boyfriends. I have had the cheaters, liars, players, you name it. My current boyfriend happens to be a big liar. I am loosing my ...
A. 28 August 2007: Of course there are good guys out there, its just a matter of finding them. Just because you have had a run of bad luck with guy's, don't let this put you off from believing there are good guy's out there.
I have got the same issue with women, my l... (read in full...)
Is it wrong to dream about another guy???
Q. I feel guilty... i dream about another guy but I have a boyfriend. Is it wrong os cheating to dream about another guy? I know i cant control my dreams but i still feel bad....
A. 27 August 2007: you are not being unfaithful by dreaming about another guy as dreams are based on fantasy.
However if you are dreaming about another guy and you are doing this often are your feelings all there for your current boyfriend?.
x... (read in full...)
Will the size of my manhood affect having children?
Q. My manhood size is 3 cm , when i be hot becomes 10 cm , i am 26 old , i want to know if i can get kids or not....
A. 27 August 2007: I really can't see any reason what so ever why the size of your manhood will stop you having children. As long as everything is good working order then it will be fine.
Good luck... (read in full...)
I dont feel like my girl loves me anymore! But i dont want to lose her...
Q. Ive been with my girlfriend for 8 monthes now and its got to the point where i feel she dont love me no more. We've had our problems but i still love her dearly. I get the impression she hates me. We went away for a week, we didnt kiss hug or even ...
A. 26 August 2007: When you went away for a week did you attempt to kiss her or hug her, or hold her hand. If you did and she brushed you off after several attempts at trying then maybe it is time to move on.
Maybe she has fallen out of love with you, but for your... (read in full...)
I'm with the most wonderful guy yet i'm still not happy, why???
Q. why is it that i have the most wonderful man in the world and i am still not happy?...
A. 26 August 2007: With the limited amount of information given here its very hard to say why you are still not happy. MAybe on the surface he is the most wonderful guy in the world, but the question is, is he the most wonderful guy in the world for you?.
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He's set a date to leave his wife. But i'm paranoid he wont! Help with advice please..
Q. How do i stop loving this guy? I have been seeing this guy for a while, he is beautiful amazing funny.... married and my boss. His marriage has been troubled for a while, they have both had affairs. We are fantastic together and i do know he ...
A. 26 August 2007: The likellhood is that when the 21st of December comes he won't have left his wife.
Married guy's invariably never leave their wives for another person. At the moment he has got you both, he see's you when he can sneak away when he can, then craw... (read in full...)
I have been dumped 3 times this year. Am i horrible and ugly???
Q. This summer i have been dumped three times. Am i just a horrible, ugly, stupid waste of space? I hate everything. Can someone help? ...
A. 26 August 2007: No you are not horrible, you are not ugly, and you are not a waste of space, so stop telling yourself things like this.
It not easy being dumped, not for anyone, but pick yourself up, dust yourself down and move on. These guys were probably not righ... (read in full...)
Ive got stretch marks near my belly button. How can i get rid of them?
Q. dear cupid i would like to know do all fat people get stretch marks, and why are stretch marks growing next to my belly button and is their any way to get rid of them? plzz can you give me advice on if all fat people get them and why they are...
A. 26 August 2007: I can't say whether all fat people get stretch marks, and i don't know why they are growing next to your belly button.
But what i can suggest is there is a product called bio oil containing a breakthrough ingredient called purcellin, massage this... (read in full...)
I'm 11 and all my friends have had dates, but not me, should i make the first move?
Q. im 11 and all my friends have had dates im not pretty or skinny so no boys have asked me out on a date yet. should i make the first move and ask a boy out?...
A. 26 August 2007: Don't rush it, your time will come sure enough. Don't be in a panic to get dates just because all your friends have. You are still very young, relax, have fun and have a laugh with your mates and you will more than likely get a date when you least ... (read in full...)
We have unprotected sex. Could i be pregnant?
Q. I think i'm pregnant. Well me and my boyfriend have been together for a month and a few weeks. Anyway we started having unprotective sex last month and my period came on and last month and after my period went off everything was messed up now that...
A. 25 August 2007: Yes there is every chance you could be pregnant, and i would get a test done as soon as possible. So many people think that the quick withdrawal method is safe, but it is not, as im sure you have heard of pre-ejaculation. Also more importantly there ... (read in full...)
Should I get my ex a birthday card?
Q. Should I get my ex a birthday card? We have had trouble talking since we split 2 months ago.. 2 months today, actually, and so, I'm not sure we are actually speaking at the moment. I told her I didn't think we should, because anytime we do I ...
A. 25 August 2007: There is no reason why you can't both still get along, infact it is a good thing. So i say go ahead and get her the card and chocolates.
good luck... (read in full...)
My friend has problems with girls because of his large penis!
Q. I'm asking this for a guy friend here, his penis is overwhelmingly large and he cannot find a girl to have sex with him because they are scared of the pain...what kind of girls should he approach in the future?...
A. 25 August 2007: it is impossible to say what type of girls he should approach in the future. Because when he does go up to them he knows nothing about them, and vice versa.
If he does meet someone in the future and they just happen to fall in love im sure havi... (read in full...)
She is my ideal girl and we get along great, but she's not single! what should I do?
Q. I've been messed around in past relationships and my self esteem was low. Then one day i met a fantastic girl with a beautiful personality and i thought superb. Sadly life is never simple and it turned out she has a boyfriend. The thing is i can't ...
A. 25 August 2007: Your right the advice you are likely to get here would be to move on, and 99 times out of 100 that is what i would say as she has a boyfriend.
You say she rarely see's her boyfriend, why is this? Are they on the verge of splitting up?. Does he work... (read in full...)
She thinks we went too fast and doesn't want to get hurt as before. I want to make this right...
Q. Hey, I met this girl probably about a week ago now. She had previously dated one of my co-workers (not really a friend) so I knew who she was and she recognized me. We started talking on msn and we went out together. We hung out and by the end of ...
A. 25 August 2007: I think from what you have said this girl does like you, but she wants to take things at her own pace due to a previous bad experience which is understandable.
If she thinks you went to fast then slow down abit, there is no rush. Keep seeing her ... (read in full...)
My 14 years old friend is dating a 23 year old woman
Q. My best friend is dating a 23 year old and he is 14 but he is very mature for his age and he is a very very big 14 do you think that they will wrk out...
A. 24 August 2007: At soon as i read this post the first thing that entered my head was why on earth is a 23 year old woman interested in a 14 year old boy?.... (read in full...)
It feels like i have to put all the effort in this relation!
Q. I have been with my partner for 15 years and we keep arguing about the same things, he says he will change but then nothing happens or if it does it's only for a while. he isn't a bad person but it feels like I have to put all the effort in. He ...
A. 24 August 2007: Relationships are about being equal, working as a team, a partnership.
When one person is doing all the work, like the housework, and bringing in the money sooner or later its just going to get to much for you, or anyone for that matter to cope with... (read in full...)
What matters boys?, what are you after in women?
Q. Hey this question is for the guys out there. As you can probably tell by my screen name i am 15 but this question is does size really matter? Im a very petite girl and so naturally my breasts aren't that big im a 34A and my friends are all at least ...
A. 24 August 2007: If there is love involved then it size does not even come into it. Big breasts small breasts, big bum petite bum, when you love someone it does not matter, love supersedes everything.
x... (read in full...)
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