He's the best bf I've dated, but I can't get over our 2 year age gap!
Q. Dear Cupid i have a boyfriend who is 2 years younger then me. im not really comfortable with that age gap but he always make sure we don't let that come between us. out of all the guys i'v dated, he tops them all and he always remains me of his...
A. 28 September 2007: A two year age gap is really nothing atal. You say that out of all the guys you have dated he tops them all. So enjoy your relationship together and stop dwelling on something as small as a 2 year age gap.
All the best x... (read in full...)
My boyfriend got really agressive after a fight we had beacuse he was jealous and hit me....
Q. My boyfriend got really agressive after a fight we had beacuse he was jealous and hit me. I couldn't fight back because he was too strong. What should I do now? He has apologised but I'm not convinced!...
A. 26 September 2007: The problem with abusive relationships where a woman has been hit they always apologise and say it won't happen again. But invariable it does happen again, and it turns into a vicious merrygoround where the woman is frightened to leave. You have ... (read in full...)
There's no chance of us getting back together, but I can't get her out of my head? How can I move on?
Q. Me and my ex have been seperated for almost a year now..... and she has made it crystal clear that the chace of us ever been together is nil...She has moved on with her life and I play no part in it. But I just cant get her outta my head. She is ...
A. 26 September 2007: I really do think it is time for you to move on with your life and look at this relationship you had a year ago as a learing curve, water under the bridge. Your ex has moved on, now it is time for you to do the same. I think once you meet someone ... (read in full...)
I want him to know that I like him, without telling him. Any advice?
Q. I really like this guy and have done for a year. My friends call me a flirt so if I flirt with him he'll just think i'm being myself. Sometimes i think he flirts with me but maybe thats how he is. I want him to know i like him without me accualy ...
A. 26 September 2007: That was going to be my answer acually to show him your feelings by flirtatious gestures. How heavy do you go with the flirting?. Have you tried catching his eye and trying to hold contact for as long as you can before smiling and looking away.
T... (read in full...)
How do I convince a man to have a baby with me?
Q. how do i convice a man to have a baby with me ?? i really want another baby only i want this one to be his .. ...
A. 26 September 2007: You can't convince him to have a baby with you, all you can do is talk to him and ask him how he feels about starting a family with you. If he is not ready then leave it at that, and either wait till he is ready or move on.
Good luck x... (read in full...)
What do I do, this man has other women and a child in his life?
Q. what should i do with a man that i am in love wit who have a woman and a child and another woman in his life and cliams that he want to married me ...
A. 26 September 2007: I would leave this guy alone and move on, he really does sound no good. For starters he has got a woman, and a child, and another woman in his life. Do you really think he is going to drop them all for you?. Of course he isen't you will just be ... (read in full...)
Can aids be passed on through my mouth?
Q. Stupid question, Can you get aids from kissing and getting blow jobs, and from someone swallowing your cum?...
A. 26 September 2007: I think it is possible, but the chances are probably really really slim.
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When is it right to change your "relationship status" on myspace / facebook?
Q. when is the right time to change your status? I met my current man on myspace we have only been dating a few weeks, but I am willing to change my status as "in relationship" and I want him to aswell, would it be best to have a talk over this o...
A. 26 September 2007: If you are both getting along good and the relationship is going well then i would talk to him about changing your status, rather than change it and see if he does the same. If you talk to him he may think its a good idea that you both change them ... (read in full...)
He prefers to watch other couples on cam than be with me!
Q. hi please help my boyfriend of 19 years would rather watch a pretty couple make love on cam on the internet site he has joined (couples show on cam everything from blow jobs to full on sex) he hasnt touched me for 2 weeks yet he gets excited to ...
A. 26 September 2007: I really feel that this is something that you have got to talk to him about. Tell him how uncomforable you are with this weird fetish he is persuing, and the lack of love and attention you are recieving due to him looking at exhibitionism. ... (read in full...)
Am I a Freak or is this normal?
Q. hey, im the type of guy who finds it awkward getting close to people and my friends tink im gay coz i dnt react well to hugs off girls nd stuff im not gay i just dnt feel like huging people ..am i a freak or is this normal? ...
A. 24 September 2007: Personally i don't think there is anything wrong with this. Alot of people find it difficult to open up, and to have physical contact with people. Don't worry about it, and don't listen to people who call you gay, its just who you are.
Good ... (read in full...)
Is it wrong to have a crush on someone if your married and have kids?
Q. Is it wrong to have a crush on someone if your married and have kids?...
A. 24 September 2007: I don't think its wrong to have a crush on someone if you are married, but that is where it ends. Don't persue anything because ultimately you will be being unfaithful. This crush will not last forever and will eventually die out naturally.
All t... (read in full...)
I was much better for him.
Q. I got dumped today by my bf of 3 months as his ex came home from travelling today and he wants to get back with her. She was away for 6 months and I did have suspisions that he still loved her but he assured me he would never get back with her. I ...
A. 23 September 2007: Well i don't think this guy was worth it and you are probably better of without him anyway. I know it does not feel like it now things will get better, time is the healer of all things. Pick yourself up, dust yourself down and move on. I reckon you ... (read in full...)
I need ideas as to how I can let him know I'm interested in a quality relationship...not just an occasional hook up!
Q. So I'm interested in this guy and I would like ideas as to how I can let him know I'm interested in pursuing a relationship and not just an occasional hook up sort of thing. We don't live in the same state and I see him only when I visit a friend...
A. 23 September 2007: As you are visiting your friend who lives near him next week, this is an ample opportunity to collate some information as to what he is looking for. Choose a good setting, with a romantic atmosphere to talk with him. You don't have to come right out ... (read in full...)
Does he like me and what shall I do about my friends?
Q. Two weeks ago I met this guy, B. It was a friend-of-a-friend chance meeting, and we hit it off really quickly. He is so kind and sweet and talented (I should stop now or I'll be here all night!) I have never felt this strongly about anyone before ...
A. 23 September 2007: Yes i think he likes you, he could have been serious about that romantic stroll. I think your best bet is just to take the bull by the horns and ask him out. I don't think in this day and age it looks out of place for a girl to ask a guy out. Ask ... (read in full...)
Is it possible to fall in love over the phone?
Q. hi...i wanted to know, is it possible to fall in love over the phone? i've met him once before (he's a friends relative) when he came to visit and i liked him then, then a couple of years later we bagan talking over the phone for up to 4 or 5 hours ...
A. 23 September 2007: I would say its possible to fall in love over the phone, also you have both met each other too. You are both talking for 4 or five hours on the phone so over this time you are building up a certain rapport with each other, finding out lots of ... (read in full...)
What do you do if you suspect your boyfriend who you have a perfect relationship with has cheated but they swear they didn't?
Q. What do you do if you suspect your boyfriend who you have a perfect relationship has cheated... but they swear on everything they didnt? How do you deal with this? I cant see him doing it, but I cant help but continuisly wondering 'what if' even tho ...
A. 23 September 2007: If you are continually thinking he cheated on you and are looking for reasons to say he did then this is going to send the relationship on a downhill spirral.
He swears on everything he diden't, so believe him and both get on with your lives. You ... (read in full...)
Do I go back to the 'bad' ex
Q. i need help. I amd in love with my ex but don't know how to tell him. And plus i broke up with him which was really stupid. Even though he does drugs, i can't help but always thinking what it would be lyke if we got back together. Please give som ...
A. 23 September 2007: If you feel in your heart of hearts that this is the right thing to do, and it feels right for you then there is no reason why you shoulden't ask him back out. Tell him you made a stupid mistake and can you both give it another shot.
All the best... (read in full...)
I really like a guy but I think maybe my friend likes him too. What should I do?
Q. hi, i really like this guy and we have a good time together, but im afraid incase he doesn't fancy me. I think we flirt but maybe thats how he is. Im also afraid that my friend lkes him. What should i do i really like him??...
A. 19 September 2007: Like tommy7 says talk to your friend about this, and tell her you are going to make a move on this guy. It could well be your friend does not like him in this way, but it will not hurt just to tell her. I think this guy likes you, which is why he ... (read in full...)
She laughed of my body as we were getting intimate. What should I do?
Q. Me and my girlfriend were "getting in the mood", but when I dropped my pants she laughed and said I was small. What should I do?...
A. 16 September 2007: I think she sound like an incredibly shallow and immature person for her to do this to you. You must have felt hurt and embarrased when she did that. How do think she would react if you laughed as she was taking her bra off, well she would most ... (read in full...)
She laughed of my body as we were getting intimate. What should I do?
Q. Me and my girlfriend were "getting in the mood", but when I dropped my pants she laughed and said I was small. What should I do?...
A. 16 September 2007: I think she sound like an incredibly shallow and immature person for her to do this to you. You must have felt hurt and embarrased when she did that. How do think she would react if you laughed as she was taking her bra off, well she would most ... (read in full...)
How many times a week should a guy in my position masturbate in a week?
Q. Am really wondering how often somebody without a partner especially a boy(20-25yrs) should mustarbate in a week if its right at all...
A. 16 September 2007: There is no number set in stone on how many times a guy should masterbate. It should not matter if you masterbate once or ten times a day, as long as you are comfortable with it.
Good luck... (read in full...)
What time of day should you weigh yourself?
Q. are you supposed weigh yourself at night or in the morning? i thought it was at night but my friend says its in the morning? please help...
A. 15 September 2007: As the other posts say to you the best time to weigh yourself would be in the morning after you have been to the loo.
Good luck x... (read in full...)
Why must I get so jealous?
Q. Why must I get so jealous? I'm not in a relationship atm, but when I am or I get close to a guy, when I find out things about him or other girls he's been with, I get so jealous. I can't help it. My ex's best friend was a girl and I was so jealous ...
A. 11 September 2007: Unfortunately you are not going to meet many guy that have not had a past of some form or another. When you meet a guy you can't let past girl friends create jealous feelings within you, and if his best friend is a girl so what. I think you need to ... (read in full...)
Do doctors prescribe medication to help you cope with a break up?
Q. Has anyone ever been given medication by their doctor to help cope with a break up? Im really really struggling to forget about my ex - it hurts like hell and im torturing myself by thinking about him and crying about him all day and all night to ...
A. 11 September 2007: Unforunately the doctor can not prescribe anything for a broken heart. The only thing that is going to heal you is time. Time is a great healer of pain & broken hearts. After a while it will start to get easier, although it does not feel like it now ... (read in full...)
My bf never makes an effort to call me. I've told him it bothers me, but nothing's changed!
Q. Me and my boyfriend have been going out for a while now. At first our relationship was amazing we did everything together and saw each other everyday.I understand that wears off after a while. But now he never texts me, never rings me, i have to do ...
A. 11 September 2007: I was going to say communication is the key here, but you are and are still not getting through. From what you have said sounds like he is not sure whether he still wants this relationship or not, but is unsure of what to say to you. I really feel ... (read in full...)
How do you get a guy to like you?
Q. Has anyone got any tips on how to get a guy to like you? e.g flirting tips. Anything would be great! xx...
A. 11 September 2007: I think the Aunts here have pretty much summed it up for you here with some pretty sound advice. I would probably go along with what spanna said, and that is to just be yourself, do that and you will be just fine.
All the best xx... (read in full...)
I feel like my ex is stalking me
Q. it feels like my ex is stalking me...let me explain hes constantly txting me and emailing me and generally harassing me and is always giving me dirty looks when i even tlk to another guy...its freaking me out like crazy...ive tried tlking to him and ...
A. 11 September 2007: Its is blatantly obvious that your ex still has some strong feelings for you. I think you have got to ignor him, after a while his feelings for you will eventually die down. time is the healer of all things, he will get over you in his own good ... (read in full...)
We've had a BIG fight. How can I win him back?
Q. Me and my boyfriend had the biggest fight ever, and both of us are hurt. He also dont look at me the way he use to and he does not want to hold me. I really love him and dont want to lose him! What can i do to win him back. ...
A. 11 September 2007: Like superbunny says it depends on what you argued about. If the argument was as big as what you say it was maybe you both need to take a break from each other and let things calm down. time is the best healer, give it a couple of weeks maybe then ... (read in full...)
Why has my boyfriend suddenly cut me out of his life??
Q. Last week my b/f just suddenly decided he needed 'space' we hadn't fallen out or anything it just came out of the blue. I havn't heard from im in over a week although we lived together and all of his clothes and everything are still at my house ...
A. 11 September 2007: To be brutally honest to sounds like he has fallen out of love with you and no longer wants this relationship anymore. I do think you need an explanation from him as to why he has done this, and i think its wrong of him to just take off like that. I ... (read in full...)
We're ready for the next step, but why am I so scared??
Q. We're ready for the next step, but why am I so scared?...
A. 11 September 2007: Like stina says, the next step could mean a number of things, next step in a relationship, like marriage or to start having sex.
If you elaborate a little more as to what you mean to will get more answers to you question.
All the best x... (read in full...)
I've sent my ex an apologetic letter... Do you think anything will come of this?
Q. hi there, yesterday i sent a letter to my bf best friend to try and sort this whole situation out it was an apolojetic letter for being horrible to him and asking him if we could be friends because recently he wont talk to me or even look at me ...
A. 11 September 2007: I suppose it all depends on how horrible to him you actually were. He will either read the letter and accept the aplology and contact you in due course. Or he will read it then tear it up and throw it away.
If as you say he won't talk or even look... (read in full...)
How long can you be separated before you can say for sure you aren't going back together?
Q. Hi im just wondering how long do you think that you can be broken up with your boyfriend before you can say for sure that you are definitely never getting back together. I broke up with my bf 8 months ago and we arent back together even though i ...
A. 11 September 2007: I think the time span varies greatly between all different people, its impossible to pin it down to a specific time span. Its possible you could get back together after 8 months, or the other end of the scale you could bump into them 5 years later ... (read in full...)
Lost my virginity weeks ago and still paranoid about being pregnant! Please help.
Q. Hey, i lost my virginity 2 weeks ago and im still so paranoid! I dont understand why i am as it was protected sex (condom). I just can't stop thinking that i could be pregnant or something. I keep telling myself im being stupid as i was responsible ...
A. 11 September 2007: You did the right thing and used protection when you had intercourse. Effecively this will rule out STDs and also getting pregnant, provided the condom did not split.
Personally i think the bloated feeling you are feeling is more than likely the ... (read in full...)
I keep thinking about my boyfriend all the time... It's annoying me!!
Q. ok i need help..really bad..i have a boyfriend..and i cannot stop thinking about him..I mean its annoying now..EVERYTHING i do he is there in my thoughts..he wants to marry me when he turns 18..will that not b acceptable cus im only 16...
A. 11 September 2007: Its not a bad thing that he is always on your mind, it just means that you like him alot, infact i think its kind of nice that you think about him alot.
I do however think that 16 is a little to young to get married. Why don't you date seri... (read in full...)
I don't know how to ask her out... Any advice?
Q. i need some advice im in school and today i saw the cutest girl in my class and i would want to try to go out with her but i dont know what to do? help please!...
A. 11 September 2007: If i was you i woulden't just steam in there and ask her out,play it cool and maybe do some light flirting with her.
Try to catch her eye and maintain contact for 6 or 7 seconds then smile and look away. Be really friendly with her, maybe ask her ... (read in full...)
I have no problems being friends but how can I tell him that I've no feelings for him?
Q. So I met this guy in my group from an orientation for school. The group exchanged phone numbers. WHY was this necessary? I'm not quite sure but it was initiated by some girl in the group. Anyways, the same guy got my number and called me througho...
A. 11 September 2007: The only thing you can be here is totally honest with him with how you feel. If you don't tell him he is going to build his hopes up that he stands a chance leading him to a even bigger fall. Tell him sooner rather than later, the longer you leave ... (read in full...)
I'm developing feelings for my girlfriend's daughter! What should I do?
Q. I'm 29 and have strong feelings for my 33 year old girlfriends 17 year old daughter. I keep trying to forget about these feelings, but I can't! What should I do?...
A. 9 September 2007: If you want to keep your girlfriend i would abolish these feelings you are having for the 17 year old. If she finds out you are carrying strong feelings for her own daughter the likellhood is you will be out the door.
If as you say you can't forg... (read in full...)
We only just met but are already arguing. Whats going on?
Q. Hi there im looking for HELP!!!!!!! i met this girl 3weeks ago and we are dateting for 1week. but whe had fights already and it was realy bad, but last night whe whent to friends and i had a alot to drink and we had a big fight over it, and i said ...
A. 9 September 2007: Its not really a good sign that you are having big arguments after just one week. I would put the last argument you had down to alcohol, we all say and do stupid things when we have had alot to drink.
Its only been one week so keep the rela... (read in full...)
How do I aproach a girl I like in college? Any advice please?
Q. hi,im atracted to a girl in my college and she is attracted to me too but i dont know how i can approach her and she keeps avoiding me.can you please help me because i want to win her within the shortest time possible.please................ ...
A. 7 September 2007: I was going to say test the water first, do a little flirting and see if she reciprocates. But as you say you want to win her in the shortest time possibe then your best way would be to just to go up to her and ask her if she fancies doing something ... (read in full...)
I want to marry her, but she's always breaking my heart. How can I keep her?
Q. i have a bab which i love her so much and i want to marry her but she is alway break my heart, what do i do to stay with her?...
A. 7 September 2007: Duceoo is right, in order for anyone to give you a worth while answer we are going to need abit more information here as to why and how she is always breaking your heart.
From the little you did write why would you want to marry anyone who hurt... (read in full...)
I'm dead nervous around boys and I'm thinking of cancelling this date!
Q. I'm going out on a date with a nice lad i met over shop the problem is i'm dead nervous around boys and although i really want to go i'm thiking of cancelling and i dont want to its just my confidence is really low and im really shy and probably ...
A. 7 September 2007: You are not the first person to be nervous before a date, and by no means the last. If it makes it any easier he is probably just as nervous as you are. Its a natural thing to be nervous before embarking on a date, with what shall i wear, what shall ... (read in full...)
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